Self Deception in Marriage | Douglas Wilson

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  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2024

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  • @Lingle-h1g
    @Lingle-h1g Рік тому +4

    Lord, forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

  • @Crown-Creed
    @Crown-Creed 2 роки тому +16

    Only a well aged and fruitful man could say such things and they be heard like this... I am greatfull to be able to benefit and experience through UA-cam...

  • @damianwhite504
    @damianwhite504 2 роки тому +7

    you sir, are a beautiful, beautiful gentleman. I am in utter and complete awe of your intelligence and kindness and love and concern for your fellow man

  • @tonbears
    @tonbears 2 роки тому +5

    Jesus is Lord of all!

  • @BenjaminBowmanlive
    @BenjaminBowmanlive 2 роки тому +9

    I was that man! Thank you Doug for this extremely convicting and encouraging sermon.

  • @carolroberts8930
    @carolroberts8930 11 місяців тому +1

    Excellent presentation of how we deceive ourselves at about 2:50 to 4:00, believing ourselves righteous in our indignation about how someone has offended us, holding a grudge toward that person, and feeling justified in withholding forgiveness. According to Matthew 6:14-15: "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly. Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their. trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Pretty serious consequences! Even Jesus forgave those who crucified him.

  • @torrington91
    @torrington91 Рік тому +2

    Hot dang. Thank you sir.

  • @scatoutdebutter
    @scatoutdebutter 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks Pastor Wilson. It was great to hear you preach Christ. And to hear how you preach grace and law and holiness as all in Christ. And yet while knowing that you are not “antinomian”. Very helpful and refreshing. Praise the Lord.

  • @patlangness7942
    @patlangness7942 10 місяців тому

    Your the man alright, and you are responsible to teach what the Holy Spirit has already taught through our completed already salvation.

  • @carolburke686
    @carolburke686 Рік тому +1

    AWESOME MESSAGE

  • @Bearthowlemew
    @Bearthowlemew 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful sermon

  • @georgenriquez
    @georgenriquez 2 роки тому +3

    This is good.

  • @scripsiscriptum524
    @scripsiscriptum524 2 роки тому +1

    So good! Thank you!

  • @tayoadejuwon9169
    @tayoadejuwon9169 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Doug

  • @jakeschwartz987
    @jakeschwartz987 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @jaquirox6579
    @jaquirox6579 2 роки тому +3

    This was helpful, thank you. 🙏🏽♥️

  • @nathan3942
    @nathan3942 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful words, brother!

  • @tonbears
    @tonbears 2 роки тому

    Amen!

  • @Shiloh3498
    @Shiloh3498 Рік тому

    😂 This guy is so completely hilarious that I might just convert back to HP just to be on his side! 🤣

  • @mikibernard746
    @mikibernard746 2 роки тому +3

    Is it a Bad Marriage or a Bad Attitude? - D. Wilson

  • @josiew3120
    @josiew3120 2 роки тому +5

    OUCH!
    Stepped on all my sinful wifely toes -- every.one.of.them.
    :^{

  • @baus7
    @baus7 2 роки тому

    Pastor your breathing sounds labored. 🥺

  • @pilotandy_com
    @pilotandy_com 2 роки тому +2

    Question. Can a marriage work if one is willing to acknowledge their faults (at any level, even just saying yes, I have problems), but the other is not?

    • @zachboles8466
      @zachboles8466 2 роки тому +7

      Yes! The question is: Are you ok to suffer with Christ? We all pray that repentance comes but it could be through this suffering it will reveal your faith in Christ. Read book of James for context.

    • @mikibernard746
      @mikibernard746 2 роки тому

      @@zachboles8466 I couldn't agree more. Thank you for sharing.

    • @fadedspade2131
      @fadedspade2131 2 роки тому

      Read Jeff Crippen's "Unholy Charade". If the person not willing to acknowledge their faults is a malignant narcissistic abuser, then no the marriage will not work. Maybe this is not your case, but maybe it is. Being abused in a marriage is not suffering for Christ. Do not believe this lie.

    • @aleksbulkhak
      @aleksbulkhak 2 роки тому

      Not it can’t work. Trust me bruh

    • @benjamingilley9629
      @benjamingilley9629 2 роки тому +1

      A working marriage is a male and a female not getting divorced.
      But I would suggest looking at passages of living with an unbelieving spouses.
      And then of course what causes fights and quarrels among you…
      A well functioning marriage isn’t about fixing the flaws of the other person or getting along. It’s your personal relationship with the Father and how you reflex that.
      A troublesome spouse is a trial for growth, faith, perseverance, and practice grounds to give forgiveness, grace and mercy.
      God doesn’t waste anything.
      It’s a refinement process.
      26 years and still going and growing.. Both of us rebellious from the start and strong willed individuals. God makes you humble before He remolds you.
      Tripp before he went woke a decade plus ago said a good line. Your spouse isn’t your problem, you are.

  • @doctrinalwatchdogactive6454
    @doctrinalwatchdogactive6454 2 роки тому +4

    This kinda sounds like works salvation followed by sacramentalism.

    • @homeschoollifeschool5157
      @homeschoollifeschool5157 2 роки тому +7

      Interesting take. Sounds like it is keeping in step with Jesus' commands to love and obey Him. If we love Jesus we will obey His word. Doug emphasized the importance of the work of Christ and the gospel toward the end very well.