The often unspoken TRUTH about marriage...

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  • @shaleenaw39
    @shaleenaw39 3 роки тому +191

    She laughs just like her Mommy. She sounds so happy

  • @chantricestasher3902
    @chantricestasher3902 3 роки тому +47

    Zalayah loves her mommy. ❤😊 She's always smiling right at her in each video. So precious. 🥰

    • @westonrichards3884
      @westonrichards3884 3 роки тому +3

      It’s called food chain....mommas milk has special powers.😂

    • @AYoung-kp4my
      @AYoung-kp4my 3 роки тому +3

      She is mesmerized by mommy. Can’t keep her eyes off her🥰

  • @lavedadavis818
    @lavedadavis818 3 роки тому +93

    "How has having a baby affected your marriage?" Zalayah......LOL! I run this household now! I eat, sleep, laugh, soil diapers and oh yeah,..I disrupt EVERYTHING!! The way she is focused on her food source is adorable!! I am such a huge fan of your lovely little family!! Blessings continued. Happy Anniversary and many, many, many more!!!

  • @tthomas
    @tthomas 3 роки тому +68

    Congrats on 7 YEARS🎉🎉🎉🎉 I pray for many many more for you!

  • @iamwhat
    @iamwhat 3 роки тому +12

    Little Zalayah is mesmerized by her mommy! She's studying! She is absolutely beautiful!

  • @Its_Mechele
    @Its_Mechele 3 роки тому +47

    Zalaya made the entire video with that laugh. That was the, “I changed the marriage because I’m a little blocker, no siblings for me right now” laugh 😆😂🤣

  • @marthareyes4024
    @marthareyes4024 3 роки тому +17

    You are spot on about NOT having opposite-sex friends.
    Even if you think nothing will happen, too many times it does without the intention being there. Like you said prior, it's best not to put yourself in a place of temptation.

  • @shaleenaw39
    @shaleenaw39 3 роки тому +52

    I agree with your Wife on the subject of the opposite "Freindship"

  • @journeytothemosthigh5021
    @journeytothemosthigh5021 3 роки тому +36

    Awww! Zalayah stole the show with a laugh!🤗

  • @05redrex1
    @05redrex1 3 роки тому +38

    Y'all seem like such nice people, makes me happy to see you successful.

  • @niecybaby1960
    @niecybaby1960 3 роки тому +51

    Happy Anniversary and many more. Keep God first and be obedient to his word. We live in an anti marriage culture these days and it’s destroying us. So make it work!

    • @ayeshaw.oliver3197
      @ayeshaw.oliver3197 3 роки тому +1

      So true!

    • @MrsRo-pw4qo
      @MrsRo-pw4qo 3 роки тому +3

      Yep!! So true. They have to be “intentional” with making it work

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 3 роки тому +21

    My husband and I were elementary, middle and highschool friends and we have friends from that era that we kept still... We grew up with these people and they're family. My maid of honor was as much my friend as my husband's. She grew up with us. So yes I feel like married people can have friendships with the opposite sex. Both the friend and the married person must however be respectful and understand boundaries.

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому +17

      I can respect this. I feel like having friends that both people share works well. I just don't agree with having friends of the opposite sex that the spouse is not also friends with.

  • @carlaforbes1807
    @carlaforbes1807 3 роки тому +27

    Her laugh is priceless!

  • @niesydunn
    @niesydunn 3 роки тому +9

    I'm going to be honest. I pretty much just watched Zalayeh they entire video. So adorable!! 😍

  • @lavernep6493
    @lavernep6493 3 роки тому +31

    She’s so happy laughing and yes I agree with you about having friends of the opposite sex I don’t think it’s kool that’s a no no.

  • @one4truth236
    @one4truth236 3 роки тому +2

    That baby is all about her mama! She can't take her eyes off you , mom. Precious baby girl.

  • @fikilenako1805
    @fikilenako1805 3 роки тому +10

    Did she just laugh at the two of you? Just after the question, she's like "I got you people, you are mine😂". So adorable😍😍😍

  • @almawatts5234
    @almawatts5234 3 роки тому +1

    I must apologize to you two, I haven't heard a word you have said, I just keep playing back baby girl laughing. It gave me so much joy and pleasure.

  • @robinperryman6474
    @robinperryman6474 3 роки тому +6

    She must know that question was about her the way she laughed so hard. So cute!

  • @ayeshaw.oliver3197
    @ayeshaw.oliver3197 3 роки тому +2

    I absolutely agree with you! Men and women cannot be platonic friends. I told my husband that it is totally unacceptable to be picking up new friends of the opposite sex. So many boundaries can be crossed.

  • @RetailWithDanelle
    @RetailWithDanelle 3 роки тому +23

    Such a cute baby. Her laugh is pure joy.

  • @TC-wh9tl
    @TC-wh9tl 3 роки тому +5

    I totally agree with your wife about opposite sex friendships. It's a no no because it'll always cause problems. Couple friendships only. Less Drama

  • @cycyj847
    @cycyj847 3 роки тому +4

    Baby laughs will have the whole topic change lol! I love seeing how babies are so enamored with their parents

  • @shaleenaw39
    @shaleenaw39 3 роки тому +87

    Your marriage life will be easier because you both try to follow what it says in the Bible.

  • @angelaking2054
    @angelaking2054 3 роки тому +11

    OMG, Zalaya is so precious!! And that laugh is priceless 🤣!!!

  • @dimplephacegirl
    @dimplephacegirl 3 роки тому +12

    I love how in love the baby is with Ko 🥰

  • @Solmom03
    @Solmom03 3 роки тому +1

    I LOVE baby laughs!
    To protect your relationship you gotta do what’s best!

  • @globetrotting2628
    @globetrotting2628 3 роки тому +6

    OMGosh, she is full of personality and happiness. You are so blessed with such a great family structure. Well, you also worked very hard for it, so congrats on such an accomplishment in life. I'm glad you are sending such positive messages to young people about finance, budget, and saving. We need more responsible people like you guys making videos. I wish primary schools would teach such important and valuable lessons in life.

  • @robincrawley311
    @robincrawley311 3 роки тому +13

    Happy 7th. Wedding Anniversary Mr. & Mrs. Bush, Many More Blessings For Always To You and Your Little Baby❣️
    ❤️👑🌸👑❤️

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you!!

    • @robincrawley311
      @robincrawley311 3 роки тому +1

      @@the_bush_family 😇😇😇You’re Welcome! You are one Amazing Couple, So Refreshing and a Blessing!❤️

  • @qmakesithappen
    @qmakesithappen 3 роки тому +22

    Another banger, I love the honesty as always! Marriage definitely takes work and it's a beautiful thing that I feel is worth it. As far as the male and female friendship dynamic I think it's possible but very risky. Tempation is real but so is discipline and self control, I rather avoid it all together if possible honestly 💯

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому +9

      Agreed. Very risky and so not necessary lol ❤💯

    • @qmakesithappen
      @qmakesithappen 3 роки тому +4

      @@the_bush_family yes!!! Protect and honor thy word and family 🙏🏽

  • @annai.16
    @annai.16 3 роки тому +1

    You two are just wonderful. I love your videos and your little one is so precious. I love her laugh as it is infectious. Keep doing what you're doing. It is working. I wish I knew then what you know now. Blessings to your family😄💞

  • @kendrahbutler9134
    @kendrahbutler9134 3 роки тому +1

    My husband and I have been married for, in August, will be 5 years. Communication is key and we have 2 children (2yo and 3yo). We'll be taking our first couple trip without the kids next month, and while I'm of course hesitant about leaving the kids, I also acknowledge the importance of quality couple/marriage time. Our family and our marriage is our most important ministry. Without a solid foundation, the family crumbles. We have to keep us together to maintain our family.
    I've been following you guys for a while and your family is beautiful. Continue to keep God first, continue to pray and all will be well.
    Our oldest was a colic baby who in the first 2 months woke up every 45 minutes and our marriage sustained through that, job loss and financial crisis. God saw us through! It's a daily walk but we're willing to do the work to maintain!
    Be blessed 🙂

  • @tifiayiti937
    @tifiayiti937 3 роки тому +12

    I think this family is wonderful.. they work together, knowing what boundaries not to cross (Bible based scriptures are very helpful).. it is vital to not allow yourself to be in situations that may lead to infidelity. I truly understand her view on platonic friendship in a marriage.. you may never intend for things to happen but the more you get to know anyone your forming a relationship & feelings can come into play. So for me at 35 single parent if I ever were to get married again. I’m okay hanging out with other married couples not the men I call friends who I know is attracted to me or vis versa.

  • @SimplyNaturalBlack
    @SimplyNaturalBlack 3 роки тому +1

    Blessings beautiful Bush Family.Keep doing what you doing .Dont listen to other people making excuses.....Worldly Folks make excuses for doing wrong . Marriage is a Beautiful Relationship, It's not Hard at all. I agree with both Mr. & Mrs. Bush.Exactly don't change your mind.✌🏿💞

  • @lindahansen9395
    @lindahansen9395 3 роки тому +1

    I love how Zalayah is focused on her mom. She can’t get enough of you. We’ve been married 50 years and we figured out that selfishness and pride are the two deadly obstacles in a marriage (or any relationship). And a sense of humor is the best quality. Not only laugh at the situation but also yourself. Happy anniversary you two.

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому

      ❤❤ thank you! Congratulations to you! That's amazing!

  • @mightygod8437
    @mightygod8437 3 роки тому +1

    Baby love her mom a lot 😂😂😂😂😂 she love u too dad but when mom talk or laugh the baby just can’t hold back 😂😂😂

  • @jthompson4916
    @jthompson4916 3 роки тому +11

    Hey family ❤️❤️❤️ great video. Been married 16 years and with him a total of 25 year total. You guys already so new have a solid foundation. And yes totally agree with you about friends of opposite sex will or can cause problems almost always. Keep it out. Bush baby 👶🏽 is adorbs 🥰 ok I’m done 😆

  • @cindirock3434
    @cindirock3434 3 роки тому

    I am no longer married unfortunately but I just wanted to say your family is just the cutest. And that sweet baby’s laughter is intoxicating. So sweet

  • @azoozle_1173
    @azoozle_1173 3 роки тому +7

    i am now going to keep this on replay for a couple
    hours for watch time reasons :)

  • @Nursetrim
    @Nursetrim 3 роки тому +1

    Love that you guys are providing a good example for others with your strong marriage!

  • @sandyg4951
    @sandyg4951 3 роки тому +2

    Zalayah stole the show--AGAIN! And her laugh is contagious, just like Mommy's. She is such a delight and looks more and more like Grandma each time I see her. Your videos are so positive and enjoyable. Please keep them coming!

  • @jobethk588
    @jobethk588 3 роки тому +8

    Love that sweet little laugh!

  • @c.martin89
    @c.martin89 3 роки тому +10

    That laugh.🥰🥰

  • @jenniferward5216
    @jenniferward5216 3 роки тому +4

    Zaylaya is a.beautiful happy baby. Your anniversary is the same as my mom's birthday would've been. Happy Anniversary to you both wishing you many more happy returns.

  • @pams.8824
    @pams.8824 3 роки тому +3

    You have a great channel and beautiful family. Congratulations on your 7th anniversary, wishing you many more.

  • @syljoe8179
    @syljoe8179 3 роки тому +1

    Not the baby laughing at being the center of your world 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jaydreap2941
    @jaydreap2941 3 роки тому +1

    The most down to earth and the most genuine couple!!! Y’all are 👌🏽😎 and hell yeah, my husband has zero female friends! What for?! Haha

  • @tmbeard8538
    @tmbeard8538 3 роки тому +4

    Happy Anniversary, enjoy! Great video. Marriage is a daily job. Growing stronger and closer involves continuous communication. Keep up the good work. Black Love ROCKS!

  • @mommaawareness
    @mommaawareness 3 роки тому +1

    Very happy to see you, talk about this real conversation. MARRIAGE! You both are very Attractive..... Beautiful baby..... keep up the good job. Communication....

  • @margarettodd1600
    @margarettodd1600 3 роки тому

    Zalayahs' adorableness is beyond words!! Her giggle is infectious 🤗👐🏽

  • @nia3658
    @nia3658 3 роки тому +15

    I agree with Kothneyissa the opposite sex cannot just be friends. Happy Anniversary!!!! Peace, Love and Blessings Always!!!!!!!!!

    • @yocampout
      @yocampout 3 роки тому +2

      I've had a male bff for decades. I think the real key is that he's friends with my husband too so my hubby never feels threatened or left out. Same with hubby friend Lisa. I talk to her and luv her. Trust and intuition. If I felt I couldn't trust Lisa, she'd have to go and vice versa.

  • @rosiethompson6934
    @rosiethompson6934 3 роки тому

    Love you all so much.
    So refreshing to watch you all.😀😀😀😍😍😍😍💯💯💯💯💯🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💯💯💯

  • @KimLaney
    @KimLaney 3 роки тому +5

    Happy anniversary. It's so hard to hear what you are saying because of all the baby curtness. She's a scene stealer. OHHHHHH she is so beautiful. Happy anniversary. love your little family.

  • @susanarrighi
    @susanarrighi 3 роки тому +1

    Your little girl is so gorgeous, there is nothing so beautiful as a baby laughing 😍

  • @deborahclaverylbc
    @deborahclaverylbc 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary! I always enjoy watching the Bushes! Nothing you ever share with us ever seems fake or forced, I truly appreciate that. Zalaya has the same kind of infectious laugh as her mother! Sending you all much love!

  • @kdrew8679
    @kdrew8679 3 роки тому

    Zelaya's laughing took me out🤣🤣. She is soo adorable. Great video

  • @MrsRo-pw4qo
    @MrsRo-pw4qo 3 роки тому

    This is when the strength of marriage is really tested. As a woman that has been married for 12 years I can tell that the husband may … I said may be feeling a little isolated by two comments that he said ( we never watch movies together ANYMORE and “ I can see how being intentional to spend time together). He spoke on it because it has ran through his mind already. It’s real! I hope he feels safe enough to discuss it with his wife. It is super important! Bottom line is all feelings should be communicated.

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому

      Yep we've definitely discussed everything we've talked about in the video ❤😊

  • @janicevance6981
    @janicevance6981 3 роки тому

    I can't believe how she is laughing! I am a first time and I am enjoying this conversation. I am a Married Women Coach and this is so interesting.

  • @sherylclements2846
    @sherylclements2846 3 роки тому +1

    Love your openness, joy and faith. I also love to see you in a bigger house after living the tiny house life. You both are amazing role models. May God bless you!!

  • @blessed1377
    @blessed1377 3 роки тому +1

    Babygirl literally Stole the Show !!! Nuff said !! Lol👍🏾🤣❤😍

  • @deedawson1655
    @deedawson1655 3 роки тому

    OMG! Your baby girl and her laugh!!😍😍😍 I was grinning from ear to ear! I needed that pure and positive energy😍😍

  • @keshiad822
    @keshiad822 3 роки тому +2

    Happy anniversary 🎊🎉! Greetings from France 🇫🇷

  • @renitasanders7032
    @renitasanders7032 3 роки тому

    BTW Happy Happy Anniversary and many more beautiful years together! 🎈 Baby “Z” is too precious! That laugh is contagious!

  • @YLAEducator
    @YLAEducator 3 роки тому +1

    Happy 7th year Anniversary!!! Be blessed and empowered with forever wedded bliss!

  • @loveforever84
    @loveforever84 3 роки тому

    I agree with you Mrs.Bush, you can't be friends with the opposite sex and communication is key. Happy Anniversary 🥳

  • @BRDMPR
    @BRDMPR 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary Bush Family!! Continued love, peace and blessings to you 🎉🎉🍾🍾❤️❤️

  • @earnestehall9041
    @earnestehall9041 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Bush Family ❤️!!

  • @veritetrini4871
    @veritetrini4871 3 роки тому

    God bless your beautiful family. May your house always be filled with love & laughter

  • @servingtheteawithhoney3066
    @servingtheteawithhoney3066 3 роки тому

    *Your beautiful baby made me smile today. Unfortunately for me, I lost my husband of 25yrs on Thursday after suffering cardiac arrest on the 10th. God is keeping me and I know I will get through this. On a lighter note, please cherish each other. Just last week I was a happily married woman and now I’m a widow. Wow! Thanks for bringing some sunshine my way!* 🤗

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому +1

      Wow. I'm so sorry for your lost! I pray for God's peace in your heart during this time. ❤

    • @vicihons9059
      @vicihons9059 3 роки тому +1

      So sorry for your lost. May the Lord grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.

  • @kattygabby3519
    @kattygabby3519 3 роки тому +1

    Zizi is mummy struck!!! Her laugh is pure Ko! 💕💕

    • @carwash38
      @carwash38 3 роки тому

      Zizi?

    • @kattygabby3519
      @kattygabby3519 3 роки тому

      😊😊💕💕 Thats just my little nickname for Zalayah!😊

  • @tthomas
    @tthomas 3 роки тому +8

    Marek weakness........Z.A.L.A.Y.A.H😂😂😂😂😂💜💜💜💜💜

  • @anotherdaysjourney619
    @anotherdaysjourney619 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary 😊 may God continue to bless your union. I think Zelaya has taken on her mom's infectious laugh & she refuses to be outdone 🤣🤣💞

  • @daniellepayton7682
    @daniellepayton7682 3 роки тому

    Whewwww!! That night owl and morning person thing is REAL. I'm a morning person and hubby is a night owl! He is ALWAYS trying to guilt me in watching a movie late at night toooooo! I feel your pain, sis.

  • @naturallyti6256
    @naturallyti6256 3 роки тому +1

    I had to hit the like just seeing Kotnessa and Zalaya laughing 😂. Forgive me for misspelling (pls correct the spelling for me for future comments 😊)

    • @the_bush_family
      @the_bush_family  3 роки тому +1

      Lol thank you! You were pretty close! Kothney-Issa and Zalayah 😊❤

    • @naturallyti6256
      @naturallyti6256 3 роки тому

      @@the_bush_family thanks. Just to let you guys know, i’m loving the variety in content. ♥️

  • @tinaisrael118
    @tinaisrael118 3 роки тому

    Love yalls honesty and I'm with you on having no platonic friends. When my husband and I got married we cut it off. We've been peacefully married for 11 years now. Happy Anniversary ❤

  • @the.nixon.family
    @the.nixon.family 3 роки тому

    Some of what you mentioned is very similar to me and my husband. We got married at 22.... We hit 13 years on July 12th.... and funny story..... My birthday is actually today. But Happy anniversary to you both!! Enjoy
    Also just wanted to add... my husband gets up for work in the mornings and I'm a night owl and sahm with 2. We compromise on late nights being our date nights in. That way we are consistently dating each other. Movie time, watching shows we like together, dancing together while the kids are sleeping. It has helped us grow more as a couple.

  • @sharonbrown7806
    @sharonbrown7806 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary Bushes!!! Many more years of a happy marriage! Since I’ve never been married I can’t speak much on the topic but I do think COMMUNICATION and RESPECT is at the top of any marriage! Abundance of love and peaceful blessings to you all!! Zelayah is such a happy sweetheart, love the laughter and joy for her parents that you both have obviously instilled in her! 🙏🏽💟☮️☀️🥰🙏🏽

  • @bijoubijou7500
    @bijoubijou7500 3 роки тому +1

    ❤ this video and the endless laughs from Mom and baby. Great content.

  • @tonibarrett8809
    @tonibarrett8809 3 роки тому

    Awww Zalayah is such a beautiful happy baby! 🥰 👶🏽

  • @adueolav8333
    @adueolav8333 3 роки тому

    When the baby was laughing so was I 😆she's too cute💕

  • @carolynnewyork6919
    @carolynnewyork6919 3 роки тому

    U 3 r simply the best, it's really a joy 2 watch. Many years of happiness

  • @ddkeech1
    @ddkeech1 3 роки тому +6

    I’ve been married 20yrs. Not being able to multitask is a MAN THING!

  • @blazebrown9102
    @blazebrown9102 3 роки тому

    Oh my goodness, Zalayah laugh is adorable‼️👶🏽

  • @gwendolyntalford246
    @gwendolyntalford246 2 роки тому

    She is such a little sweetie pie you can tell she is love so much that's why she is just laughing so much because she's a happy baby you can just tell when your child is born out of love👁👁😊

  • @Wintersnow147
    @Wintersnow147 3 роки тому

    You’re lil bundle of joy is so adorable🌸🌺

  • @janicenj1989
    @janicenj1989 3 роки тому +3

    I HOPE YA'LL ARE TAKING THAT SWEET BABY TO A MODELING AGENCY. She is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!!
    That'll give you something to do.

  • @ronaldchristian1960
    @ronaldchristian1960 Рік тому

    Beautiful Family! Stay Together !!

  • @delenarimes2657
    @delenarimes2657 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary Bushes! Love ya'll!💕

  • @schlonmartin8336
    @schlonmartin8336 3 роки тому

    She has a laugh like none other. I love it! ❤ She's such a happy baby!🤗

  • @vicihons9059
    @vicihons9059 3 роки тому

    Happy Wedding Anniversary to you guys. May the Lord bless your home abundantly and grant you peace.

  • @wellnessumbrella-withdonna7048
    @wellnessumbrella-withdonna7048 3 роки тому

    I love y’all. Lil Z’s laughing is so adorable. I agree that men & women can’t be in pure platonic relationship. Keep up the great work.

  • @thetruestfaith
    @thetruestfaith 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary!!! OMG, ZALAYAH IS SO ADORABLE! Makes me want to squeal!!!

  • @TheCw1941
    @TheCw1941 3 роки тому

    What a beautiful family. Peace and blessings to you.

  • @rochellewright2595
    @rochellewright2595 3 роки тому

    omg zalayah is sooo cute, I couldn't stop looking at her and her laugh is so infectious. She def has her momma laugh. I love when they get to the chubby age where u just wanna eat them. I can understand why you think opposite sexes cant have platonic relationships, but I also think it's important for your partner to still be able to have healthy interpersonal relationships with both sex however every relationship is different. If it works for u it just does. my favorite thing about you guys is how much you both work together to achieve your goals and how much you genuinely like each other. I can see that you are still really good friends and y'all energy is just soo chill. Happy Anniversary!

  • @catharinab8860
    @catharinab8860 3 роки тому +2

    Happy anniversary! Zalayah is the star of the show as every time she’s in the video 😍 you’re such a cute family! I’ve (we’ve) been married 13 years Aug 29th (we’ve been together 18 years this fall) 💪🥰 it’s hard work but totally worth it! My kids are teenagers now which leaves more time for my husband and me to connect, which is nice. Kids grow up way to fast though.

  • @amalmac9943
    @amalmac9943 3 роки тому

    Congratulations on being Married 7 years.....Yay....❤️😍👍🏽

  • @OmarNCham
    @OmarNCham 3 роки тому +2

    Great content, as always. God bless your family!

  • @DrSP-wu8wd
    @DrSP-wu8wd 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary to yall 👏🏾👏🏾🎉🎉🙏🙏

  • @queenAj15
    @queenAj15 3 роки тому

    The baby is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing guys😊

  • @angieearvin4684
    @angieearvin4684 3 роки тому

    Your baby is adorable!!!! Congrats on your 7th year anniversary. Wow though you had just gotten married!!!