Now i'm responsible for fixing the cars, doing the heavy gardening, cutting back trees, relaying the paving, replacing the kitchen, new bathroom, keeping all the household utilities working (lighting, plumbing, heating, waste), those are some of my tasks, so what which tasks are hers? none? are the rest all shared? When I think about it like this, it seems to me that women just don't want any responsibility. That's not to say they don't want to do anything, they just don't want to be responsible for it, and yet if it's not "her way", she won't be happy.
This is about the everyday daily chores that keep the household running. Outside work, home and car maintenance are not done every day. People want clean clothes, a clean house and their children's needs met as well.
You make a good point here that seems to go right over the heads of so many women. They really don’t see the work that men do around the house/property as “essential.” A lot of that work is more physically demanding and often more technical, two things that women often don’t find particularly enjoyable.
@@DogOneIsOpen Exactly, they're always playing the victim "oh poor me, I have to do the ironing, why can't he do the ironing?" "if he wanted to he would", "he's just playing around in the garden with the lawnmower, but the ironing needs doing NOW, why can't he see this????" Show me a man who actually has more than 2 items that NEED to be ironed........
Missed one important point. Men inherently feel that because they are paid a larger salary then their unpaid contribution should reflect that difference.
Well, do they also work more hours and contribute more to the bills? Because doing all that and then being asked to do 50% of the housework is a bit much.
I'm glad even though I don't reside in the US, I got a dad who helps my mother to do the dishes and cooking especially on weekends so that my mum can take some time off for herself.
Me too. My dad always said when me and my brothers were kids saying our mother was not a Maid. How can someone who truly loves someone sit and watch their loved on run around with their head cut off
My friends husband cooks dinner every night because he gets home a couple hours earlier than she does....he also wore himself out chainsawing trees out from around my house....side note my daughter does more heavy lifting than my sons.She also works on her car herself and raised 4 children....It works out.
I also don't fix the car half the time or mow the lawn or go to the store at ten pm when I have a pregnant craving. Of course we women care about the condition of the home more because that is natural. 🙄 I also don't have even close to as much of a chance to die at work as a man does. Why doesn't she do a book about the unequal division of the worst labor like climbing on the roof to fix leaks, changing the tire, fixing the dishwasher... because men and women are equal in value but different in gifting. Can't believe this loony world.
I think the idea is that those "male" tasks happen about once a year and cooking, dishes, laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, etc. happen every day and are more often done by women. Statistics show that women work 1.5 hours more every day.
Let's break this down... 1. Division of unpaid labor is what the segment is all about. (ie. He fixes the car, mows the lawn, cleans gutters, and makes late-night store runs, etc / She (assuming) fixes most meals, makes the appointments, cleans the house, and makes late-night bottles/ nurses the baby, etc.) So if you and your hubby have it worked out equally between the two of you - excellent! But it does not take away from the fact that many couples, and especially women, struggle with this throughout their lives. 2. The only thing that is natural about the differences in the unpaid labor is that (generally speaking) men cannot give birth or nurse a baby. Women caring more about the home is social/cultural. 3. Unequal division of dangerous labor is a very separate topic, and in this case is a textbook red herring fallacy.
@@agrxdrowflow958 Do you know the statistics about injuries in the home (since that is the subject being discussed - equally sharing parenting and household tasks)?
Fact 1 : Household is not burden. It's a work without a salary. Fact 2 : Men have to look after household. Women have to look after household . Fact 3 : Woman have to manage job. Men have to manage job. Fact 4 : No roles are not divided based on gender. That's a cruel myth made just to oppress. Fact 5 : Women can be a respected housemaker. Men can be a respected housemaker. Fact 6 : Job is a man's choice. Job is woman's choice. Choice is the most important of all.
The thing is men do not look after the house too even if the woman is working more. I work more in paid and unpaid labor. It’s why I would rather just be a single parent
Less than 50% of women age 30 have children. Marriage rates are at 50 year lows and falling. So don't get married, don't have children and when you help your infirm relatives, bill them. If you do have children let them fend for themselves. It's all about you. Of course all this retoric is amed at men not at cohabitating women which is probably one reason why so many men are no longer interested in you or marriage in general. So idealy living alone in your own space is best for you and best for our quality of life .
I feel for this lady's husband, if they're still married. Maybe he was a lazy bum my compared to her.. and didn't do too much cleaning, cooking, maintenance / garbage excetera, kids stuff like teaching or coaching, yard, cars , finances Safety and Security. Definitely disproportion in most cases between men and women.?.
@Mia True, but we don't have to stress about providing security for two. Women never seem to think about that, because most women are really children, and it's all me me me.
@@kccodex8931 Nah you got it twisted...men are the 'mee me me me' gender. Selfish in every regard. Even likely (highly likely) to leave the wife if she becomes terminally ill.
Walker Mike ...if she has a full-time job too, then you better help her out. Otherwise, just stay single and live with mama. Don't forget to give mama your part of the rent money, grocery money, utility money, and do your own laundry.
Such BS! men/husbands do as much or even more... chores around the house these days!! (what difference does it make to anyone... who does what). Nothing can ever be 💯 equal. What works for some... doesn’t work for others... So, who cares. Geez!
Crap shows and news like this is why the world is a mess and kids are not being raised by either parents in most homes today. Also I know plenty of men who stay home cause the wife can make more, anyone who listens to this vile don't live in the real world what a shame anyone would believe this garbage
Look at the talker as well, I doubt she has a husband she has the typical man hater attitude, you can see it when she speaks but young woman and men take haters like her to heart, which is scary instead of just living and doing what is right for their relationship instead of letting haters like her fill their heads full of non-sense
@@jkreps18 from the way you talk, I doubt you have a wife or gf - you have the typical woman hating attitude (you can see it when you type). But young men and women will take the hateful remarks you make to heart (which is scary), instead of listening, using empathy, and doing what is right for their relationship - as opposed to listening to sexist trolls like you, filling their heads with nonsense.
@@jkreps18 So you think the 'talker' is lying when she gives specific examples of her husband and her two children? "He's a wonderful father but....doesn't do enough housework." The 'talker' has made up a husband and a situation? Do you think the kids are real?
LOL. Recent bit on CBS this morning. Women work about two hours more unpaid work at home cooking and cleaning. Funny s***. Totally neglecting the unpaid work that men do. Oh, they don't do much cooking or cleaning at , let alone anything else. My bad
Women conveniently forget about 24/7 security men provide. When they start throwing down with the burglar coming through the window, I'll start wiping up spills.
Now i'm responsible for fixing the cars, doing the heavy gardening, cutting back trees, relaying the paving, replacing the kitchen, new bathroom, keeping all the household utilities working (lighting, plumbing, heating, waste), those are some of my tasks, so what which tasks are hers? none? are the rest all shared?
When I think about it like this, it seems to me that women just don't want any responsibility. That's not to say they don't want to do anything, they just don't want to be responsible for it, and yet if it's not "her way", she won't be happy.
This is about the everyday daily chores that keep the household running. Outside work, home and car maintenance are not done every day. People want clean clothes, a clean house and their children's needs met as well.
You make a good point here that seems to go right over the heads of so many women. They really don’t see the work that men do around the house/property as “essential.” A lot of that work is more physically demanding and often more technical, two things that women often don’t find particularly enjoyable.
@@DogOneIsOpen Exactly, they're always playing the victim "oh poor me, I have to do the ironing, why can't he do the ironing?" "if he wanted to he would", "he's just playing around in the garden with the lawnmower, but the ironing needs doing NOW, why can't he see this????"
Show me a man who actually has more than 2 items that NEED to be ironed........
@@pattylyons9645Everything they said when combined are everyday task
Missed one important point. Men inherently feel that because they are paid a larger salary then their unpaid contribution should reflect that difference.
Well, do they also work more hours and contribute more to the bills? Because doing all that and then being asked to do 50% of the housework is a bit much.
I'm glad even though I don't reside in the US, I got a dad who helps my mother to do the dishes and cooking especially on weekends so that my mum can take some time off for herself.
Me too. My dad always said when me and my brothers were kids saying our mother was not a Maid. How can someone who truly loves someone sit and watch their loved on run around with their head cut off
I'm guessing most of the men are going to be angry over this segment lol
Not really, I don't like cutting my own grass, get to it!......
Sorry the truth hurts
My friends husband cooks dinner every night because he gets home a couple hours earlier than she does....he also wore himself out chainsawing trees out from around my house....side note my daughter does more heavy lifting than my sons.She also works on her car herself and raised 4 children....It works out.
I also don't fix the car half the time or mow the lawn or go to the store at ten pm when I have a pregnant craving. Of course we women care about the condition of the home more because that is natural. 🙄 I also don't have even close to as much of a chance to die at work as a man does. Why doesn't she do a book about the unequal division of the worst labor like climbing on the roof to fix leaks, changing the tire, fixing the dishwasher... because men and women are equal in value but different in gifting. Can't believe this loony world.
Amen. 90% of serious workplace injuries are men.
I think the idea is that those "male" tasks happen about once a year and cooking, dishes, laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, etc. happen every day and are more often done by women. Statistics show that women work 1.5 hours more every day.
Let's break this down...
1. Division of unpaid labor is what the segment is all about. (ie. He fixes the car, mows the lawn, cleans gutters, and makes late-night store runs, etc / She (assuming) fixes most meals, makes the appointments, cleans the house, and makes late-night bottles/ nurses the baby, etc.) So if you and your hubby have it worked out equally between the two of you - excellent! But it does not take away from the fact that many couples, and especially women, struggle with this throughout their lives.
2. The only thing that is natural about the differences in the unpaid labor is that (generally speaking) men cannot give birth or nurse a baby. Women caring more about the home is social/cultural.
3. Unequal division of dangerous labor is a very separate topic, and in this case is a textbook red herring fallacy.
@@agrxdrowflow958 Do you know the statistics about injuries in the home (since that is the subject being discussed - equally sharing parenting and household tasks)?
@@kendracaruso4161 lmao your third argument show your mindset
living like an animal is more equal.
every body earns their own food. let us do everything as animals. there is no inequality
Fact 1 : Household is not burden. It's a work without a salary.
Fact 2 : Men have to look after household. Women have to look after household .
Fact 3 : Woman have to manage job. Men have to manage job.
Fact 4 : No roles are not divided based on gender. That's a cruel myth made just to oppress.
Fact 5 : Women can be a respected housemaker. Men can be a respected housemaker.
Fact 6 : Job is a man's choice. Job is woman's choice. Choice is the most important of all.
Why do a lot of husbands pay someone to do yard work, instead of him doing it? He may work, but women work too.
@@msarchieve1749 yeah. Depends. My mum pays to do it because both of my parents work till late evening.
A job is not a mans choice
Men work way more hrs than women. Also, housework isnt work without a salary. Its literally basic maintenance thats required.
The thing is men do not look after the house too even if the woman is working more. I work more in paid and unpaid labor. It’s why I would rather just be a single parent
This is not accurate at all. Every relationship is different.
It *is* accurate for *many* relationships... But sure #nOtAlLrElAtIoNsHiPs
Pretty much true for the most part ...
@@kendracaruso4161 many is still not all.... its like your self awareness is zero
Less than 50% of women age 30 have children. Marriage rates are at 50 year lows and falling.
So don't get married, don't have children and when you help your infirm relatives, bill them.
If you do have children let them fend for themselves.
It's all about you.
Of course all this retoric is amed at men not at cohabitating women which is probably one reason why so many men are no longer interested in you or marriage in general.
So idealy living alone in your own space is best for you and best for our quality of life .
I disagree with most of what the lady said but men should be more involved in child care for the benefit of fatherhood.
I do the least work at home because my wife makes the most mess
I feel for this lady's husband, if they're still married. Maybe he was a lazy bum my compared to her.. and didn't do too much cleaning, cooking, maintenance / garbage excetera, kids stuff like teaching or coaching, yard, cars , finances Safety and Security. Definitely disproportion in most cases between men and women.?.
Never watch CBS morning because I cannot stand Gayle and her usual prejudices...they removed the wrong anchor...typical CBS.
And yet here you are, watching CBS This Morning...
I don't watch fox...so you won't see my comments there.....
RJE ...so you support males sexually harassing females? Enough said about you.
True... Gayle is not very talented... She is more annoying than anything else!
Then men wonder why after having kids, the sex goes down. Well maybe if yall helped more we would have more energy
Men are mad about being the primary bread winner that takes dealing with adults all day
But they aren’t anymore that’s the issue.
Mgtow!
Bye Felicia!
@Mia True, but we don't have to stress about providing security for two. Women never seem to think about that, because most women are really children, and it's all me me me.
👋🏻
@@kccodex8931 Nah you got it twisted...men are the 'mee me me me' gender. Selfish in every regard. Even likely (highly likely) to leave the wife if she becomes terminally ill.
If I have to do my task and help her with cooking, cleaning and children what is my incentive to even be with her. This is why I don't date in the US.
American women rejoice!
@@kendracaruso4161 That's right! continue to get fat with your cats.
@@walkermike3065 Oh I will, sweetheart, right after you get done making me some sandwiches! ;)
Walker Mike ...if she has a full-time job too, then you better help her out. Otherwise, just stay single and live with mama. Don't forget to give mama your part of the rent money, grocery money, utility money, and do your own laundry.
@@sf9595 that makes sense.
Such BS! men/husbands do as much or even more... chores around the house these days!! (what difference does it make to anyone... who does what). Nothing can ever be 💯 equal. What works for some... doesn’t work for others... So, who cares. Geez!
I'll make that switch, honey go clean the gutters on top of a 2 story house, never gonna happen.............LMAO, *CBS TM.....your idiots.*
* you're *
Crap shows and news like this is why the world is a mess and kids are not being raised by either parents in most homes today. Also I know plenty of men who stay home cause the wife can make more, anyone who listens to this vile don't live in the real world what a shame anyone would believe this garbage
Look at the talker as well, I doubt she has a husband she has the typical man hater attitude, you can see it when she speaks but young woman and men take haters like her to heart, which is scary instead of just living and doing what is right for their relationship instead of letting haters like her fill their heads full of non-sense
@@jkreps18 from the way you talk, I doubt you have a wife or gf - you have the typical woman hating attitude (you can see it when you type). But young men and women will take the hateful remarks you make to heart (which is scary), instead of listening, using empathy, and doing what is right for their relationship - as opposed to listening to sexist trolls like you, filling their heads with nonsense.
@@jkreps18 So you think the 'talker' is lying when she gives specific examples of her husband and her two children? "He's a wonderful father but....doesn't do enough housework." The 'talker' has made up a husband and a situation? Do you think the kids are real?
This is a fantasy!! Talking about it means having a huge fight. That is all.
Be a lesbian
Gayle tries so hard not to look like an African American woman... Oh Gayle, please...
50 women is not a study
dude sure was trying to make excuses for men
Cry me a river
The only thing CBS should be reporting this morning is GAIL needs a new make over wig..
LOL. Recent bit on CBS this morning. Women work about two hours more unpaid work at home cooking and cleaning. Funny s***. Totally neglecting the unpaid work that men do. Oh, they don't do much cooking or cleaning at , let alone anything else. My bad
because men on average work more at their job than do women
Women conveniently forget about 24/7 security men provide. When they start throwing down with the burglar coming through the window, I'll start wiping up spills.