SPICE DRAAAAAAGS ERICA MENA FOR 12 MINUTES STRAIGHT! ERICA, NOBODY CARES ABOUT SAFAREE BUT YOU! 👀

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  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  Рік тому +571

    For those asking Yes! 😊 I understand patois VERY WELL! I have a lot of 🇯🇲 Jamaican friends. 😊 💕 💚

    • @marlolevy8917
      @marlolevy8917 Рік тому +7

      Respect that!!

    • @fashionandluxury101
      @fashionandluxury101 Рік тому +7

      I’m Jamaican I understand every word

    • @melmar99
      @melmar99 Рік тому +14

      You are so beautiful. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲.

    • @dmoffatt8354
      @dmoffatt8354 Рік тому +13

      @Fumi Desalu-Vold I listen to you often but today listening to you giving advice to Erica Mena in the most compassionate, loving way only a woman who has mothered another can, I have new found respect and likeness for you. Salute, Fumi! ✨🏆

    • @siobhanair2659
      @siobhanair2659 Рік тому +1

      🌹

  • @butterpecanrican_
    @butterpecanrican_ Рік тому +427

    The way she was not rude to a single fan even though they kept interrupting her rant lol I love her!

    • @callilove8378
      @callilove8378 Рік тому +24

      And she made sure to tell them she love them.... a true star 💙💙💙

    • @isaacmuth7097
      @isaacmuth7097 Рік тому +7

      So sweet

    • @jeanmiller1925
      @jeanmiller1925 Рік тому +1

      Am trying to figure her age range but she looks different at different time

    • @marciaminott511
      @marciaminott511 Рік тому +5

      Yes she was cute with it.
      dwl😊

    • @blackberry7451
      @blackberry7451 Рік тому +3

      Amazing right. I never heard of her but I know this she has my up most respect and I wish that more celebrities acted like her love for her fans. Every one she smiled and also trying too do the live. It truly shows the love she has from so many people and the love she is giving back.

  • @msalmwood
    @msalmwood Рік тому +725

    I don’t normally like seeing women fighting with other women. However….I THOROUGHLY enjoyed Spice’s read as she took pics with her fans. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love her!

    • @EdenAdele
      @EdenAdele Рік тому +63

      Spice is a whole professional FRFR!!! She stopped her EPIC DRAAAAAG SEVERAL TIMES to be kind and loving to her fans!!! #TooFunny #MuchRespect 😅😅😅

    • @sexyalleycat
      @sexyalleycat Рік тому +26

      I live for it 😂 Hilarious, some people need a good drag

    • @makeba133
      @makeba133 Рік тому +11

      Her behavior was disgusting

    • @sulezinyembezigqeba
      @sulezinyembezigqeba Рік тому

      💯💜

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Рік тому +1

      Right

  • @Aries16603
    @Aries16603 Рік тому +311

    These women need to stop looking for men to validate who they are. That’s the problem. I’m a school teacher teaching middle schoolers. I’m trying to get my young girls to understand this.

    • @alygarden7879
      @alygarden7879 Рік тому +18

      🎯💯👏👏...you said what I said but in fewer., Straight to the point words....and you said it perfectly 👏👏.
      I 💯% agree with this comment 😅

    • @shawnc.foster7800
      @shawnc.foster7800 Рік тому +6

      They need to know.

    • @karenwold7624
      @karenwold7624 Рік тому +4

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @nataliemartin1232
      @nataliemartin1232 Рік тому +12

      Agree, these women need to love themselves. Please teach your girls to value themselves.

    • @ToyaG86
      @ToyaG86 Рік тому +3

  • @antoniawilliams2627
    @antoniawilliams2627 Рік тому +331

    We all know the type of person Erica is. She has one of the nastiest attitudes ever. Spice said exactly how she felt and I don’t blame her. She read Erica like no one can. Erica thinks she can bully people and play victim.

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee Рік тому +5

      Exactly!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @jadinesimpson
      @jadinesimpson Рік тому +3

      Spice I know u know God pull u out,girl it's a blessing ur still alive, Come on ppl don't worth this,u don't have to. If u didn't have somuch on her u would keep it Kool.know if u wasn't u ppl wouldn't stop to show u love,I'm ashame

    • @sadiebascombe4858
      @sadiebascombe4858 Рік тому +2

      Her attitude stinks and feels she can rules Safaree and tell him who to speaks to as if ,Safaree is her son and not her husband ,She has no respect it’s a pity she got him to married to her knowing her status goes 2way

    • @bdd9918
      @bdd9918 Рік тому +1

      Erica was probably bullying Safari...he had to leave her loooool

    • @trishashaw4304
      @trishashaw4304 Рік тому

      That is my girls spice she read Erica from A to z back to z to A everything she said she meant what she said and she said what she said and she stand on that word Erica you better watch your tongue when it comes down to miss spice because she is not the one to play with...
      And she right where is her son is somewhere with somebody and that's messed up could you imagine what her son feeling like

  • @cocoa_pacific
    @cocoa_pacific Рік тому +181

    Sooo, I’m not Jamaican, but I understood everyone of the patois laced reads Spice just laid on Erica 🤣🤣🤣

  • @moniquemoore5360
    @moniquemoore5360 Рік тому +511

    As a Caribbean woman, I can tell you she is not playing. She is the real deal. No fakeness detected. We will drag you with no regrets. Love HER!! #SPICE returning the energy!!

    • @carlotta8891
      @carlotta8891 Рік тому +26

      We luv Spice!!!! What yuh see is wey yuh get wid ar!! She luv her fans!!

    • @staywell7217
      @staywell7217 Рік тому +4

      Not a one regret.

    • @maxineadderley5378
      @maxineadderley5378 Рік тому

      She may not be fake but she sure is classless 🤮🤮🤮.., nothing to brag about here, just plain insipid 💩

    • @makeba133
      @makeba133 Рік тому +10

      She already fake. She’s suppose to be a grown woman acting like a teenager

    • @Joyful_Smiles
      @Joyful_Smiles Рік тому +2

      I thought Erica was Caribbean. Isn't she???

  • @grownfolksperspectives
    @grownfolksperspectives Рік тому +395

    What I loved most is how Spice made time to take pics with all of her fans. #Real

    • @carlotta8891
      @carlotta8891 Рік тому +5

      Spice!! Luv her besties..

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Рік тому +5

      Spice u r a mess those are funny..😂😂😂❤

    • @Yahshe
      @Yahshe Рік тому +10

      I know😂😂😂from smiling to cussing to smiling😂😂😂

  • @dnadiva1586
    @dnadiva1586 Рік тому +124

    I appreciate how sincerely she told all of her fans she loves them after taking pictures. I love Spice!

  • @steviesosa5617
    @steviesosa5617 Рік тому +298

    Erica has witnessed Safaree mistreating Black women and thought he would treat her differently because she's not Black. She thinks she's better than Spice and Amara. That's why Safaree being emotional over spice's health scare and him gifting Amara's babies those watches upset her so much. He's being caring and generous to Black women. After what Safaree did to Nicki so publicly, Erica thought she was different because they got married and he spoiled her with gifts. She got the same man Nicki got, only she was foolish enough to marry him and give him babies.

    • @karenmezui5583
      @karenmezui5583 Рік тому +6

      Ah Erica is not black ? 😳😳😳

    • @chocolaza
      @chocolaza Рік тому +34

      ​@Karen Mezui No. She's Latina.

    • @vesbarrow
      @vesbarrow Рік тому +30

      ​@@karenmezui5583she's a non Black Latina

    • @steviesosa5617
      @steviesosa5617 Рік тому +37

      ​@@karenmezui5583 She's not, she's mixed race. There are Black Latinas like Amara, but Erica isn't one of them.

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 Рік тому

      Those non blaxk don't learn lol smh its sad

  • @gracenelson5329
    @gracenelson5329 Рік тому +8

    Thanks for loving my country fumi. You actually sound Jamaican. luv u. your personality is fabulous too. Keep it up girl... so unique u r

  • @elizabethrose5007
    @elizabethrose5007 Рік тому +222

    This is when your friend become your enemy and knows too much about you. People learn a lesson from this, don't tell people your business.

    • @Annarebel99
      @Annarebel99 Рік тому +34

      What friend disses you when you're dying

    • @sharkarkari7074
      @sharkarkari7074 Рік тому +46

      No Ericka was never her friend Spice almost died and Safari was crying and Ericka went off calling spice a bitch like what friend would do that a real friend would been crying with her husband together NOT WICKED ERICA MENA

    • @majestyankh2800
      @majestyankh2800 Рік тому +25

      Be a GOOD person so no one can say anything negative about you! Erica has done FAR worst to people!

    • @patking8012
      @patking8012 Рік тому +9

      So true .the less friend you have is better for you .blessing to all the loving heart.

    • @kymberlycourage
      @kymberlycourage Рік тому +5

      Exactly what I thought. No one saw it from this perspective!

  • @gissy888
    @gissy888 Рік тому +259

    THE WAY I LAUGHED AND CLUTCHED MY PEARLSSS AT THAT CUSS OUT!! Ain’t nothing like a Jamaican cussing and I’m Trinidadian 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Erica and that man are CLOWNS , they need to go concentrate on their damn kids. Kids are coming up in a crazy cruel world these days and they need to be protected at all costs.

    • @alygarden7879
      @alygarden7879 Рік тому +19

      Those kids protecting from their own parents. It's why kids are SO MESSED UP GROWING UP these days. Damn shame.

    • @makeba133
      @makeba133 Рік тому +5

      It was disgusting she’s too grown.

    • @durant1983
      @durant1983 Рік тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😀😀😀😀😀😀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍🏿👍🏿💯💯✅✅🇹🇹 Trini2DeBone here also 👍🏿👍🏿🙏🏿

    • @okosobi44
      @okosobi44 Рік тому +1

      Go deh, Spice!! Say it as it is Sis. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @josephinebournes8212
      @josephinebournes8212 Рік тому

      I'm Haitian-American and I know not to f*ck with a Jamaican 🤣

  • @kloekat62
    @kloekat62 Рік тому +85

    I would not give safaree all the blame he is definitely a mess but I honestly believe Erica behavior behind closed doors leaves a lot to be desired having seen her in previous seasons even before he was on the show she needs therapy and accountability. Safaree and Erica are just oil and water

  • @bambam6627
    @bambam6627 Рік тому +92

    I love how she gave all the fans attention even though she was busy. Spice is beautiful btw, the melanin is melaning 🥰

  • @melbascott7740
    @melbascott7740 Рік тому +62

    Fumi, this is Outstanding! I'm a 71-year-old African-American -Black woman and I've been there. I've heard lots of advice, and I've given lots of insight, but this talk you've shared in this video is Truth and INSPIRED!! i LOVE YOU!

  • @lydiamarendes7554
    @lydiamarendes7554 Рік тому +43

    The powerful thing you said Fumi was that , "Erica, you are mourning ☹️ a ghost 👻 . Put the ghost to rest! Bury it. "

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Рік тому +41

    One thing about those Caribbean Sistas when you piss them off they lay you out it a BIG WAY.. They don't play and our African SISTAS they don't play with you either❤

  • @kamikaze8520
    @kamikaze8520 Рік тому +412

    I think he married her just for her looks, hair and skin color. Just completely shallow

    • @sharkarkari7074
      @sharkarkari7074 Рік тому +22

      Spice just said he was with 2 of Ericka girlfriends 1st Ericka thought marrying him she was different and he wasnt

    • @ckd0680
      @ckd0680 Рік тому +22

      I think he married her because the one he loved, Nickie Minaj, was engaged.

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 Рік тому +3

      Hmm yup

    • @turquoiselizzie6874
      @turquoiselizzie6874 Рік тому +15

      ​@@ckd0680 I personally don't think Safaree loves Nicki maybe loved it sometimes seems like he is more involve with himself

    • @carribeanqueenfitts7277
      @carribeanqueenfitts7277 Рік тому +11

      But she's very basic

  • @Lilianamarie999
    @Lilianamarie999 Рік тому +31

    As a Jamerican, I don't start mess with Jamaicans. Their mouths are built different. This was a PSA✌️🇯🇲
    Side note: Erica has been desperately trying to rebrand herself as a sympathetic. She's been trifling and she chose someone who happens to be a bit more trifling than her. Sad but not surprising.

  • @jehannedufresne3998
    @jehannedufresne3998 Рік тому +56

    I don't know these people. But, I am very impressed with this lady in blue venting/reading someone on live video then being able to stop to take pictures with smiles and saying "I Love Yous" while returning back to her phone cursing the other woman out. That is talent! I'm wishing everybody well.

  • @sblogan07
    @sblogan07 Рік тому +48

    Listen the “breaks” to show her fans love and then come back to continue the live are hilarious!!!

    • @kenyadenoon
      @kenyadenoon Рік тому +3

      That has me soo weak😂

    • @joyshomedecor164
      @joyshomedecor164 Рік тому

      But if you have a friend and break up don't do them like that remember where's you coming from she tell you her business and you disgrace her thats not nice everything is coming back to you in a while watch out

  • @mushymoshy
    @mushymoshy Рік тому +42

    I’m from Jamaica 🇯🇲 Yes we are raised to be strong 🌺women. It’s tough to be strong,some of us are so soft & pink it takes time to find strength. However, we need to stop ourselves. Focus, and do what is best for yourself & your children. Life happens fast!

    • @ToyaG86
      @ToyaG86 Рік тому +3

      As a fellow Jamaican, I totally agree with you Sis. 🇯🇲

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      True!!

  • @rennie2611
    @rennie2611 Рік тому +35

    She is so funny she cussing up a storm until a fan walks up😅

  • @aamia3769
    @aamia3769 Рік тому +41

    My good sis can’t even finish the live. Everyone is showing her love ❤

  • @veec4153
    @veec4153 Рік тому +35

    Ahhh … your husband has the sweetest demeanour Fumi … bless him … so happy you found someone to look after you, you deserve it!! Fumi is correct, sometimes you have to stand back focus on you and let God .. Erica is shocked, as again she was the preference she thought she’d get alternative treatment, yet she got the same treatment as the other BW.. I’ve seen this soooo many times.. stay wise sisters, we simply need to care for each other more ❤❤

  • @Chanreneetou
    @Chanreneetou Рік тому +6

    Yes Fumi you are giving great advice. I am happy that you have a great man who loves you and the family. ❤

  • @richellasairras4339
    @richellasairras4339 Рік тому +65

    It's all about the fabulousity and the tea but don't forget the lessons we learn here. Thank you aunty Fumi❤️

  • @kevajohnson3027
    @kevajohnson3027 Рік тому +72

    Hi Fumi. I think that a key point was missed here. She (MENA) did it to someone else WITH this man. So, what inevitably did we think would happen??? We REAP far more than we SOW!!!

  • @tonyamontgomery2733
    @tonyamontgomery2733 Рік тому +47

    Erica has to LIVE for her children now. Love her babies. Let that man go and find herself. Focus on herself and love herself and love on herself. Don't allow him in her space mentally and physically.

    • @mysmallspace6068
      @mysmallspace6068 Рік тому +1

      💯and for all who found humor in this needs soul searching. That was not ok

  • @pboni0
    @pboni0 Рік тому +17

    I’m a yankee, When a Jamaican says “blood clot” the 💩is scary serious ‼️

  • @laineyturner3785
    @laineyturner3785 Рік тому +58

    Spice is my favorite person who I never heard of❤. She spit acid and stopped to show genuine love and appreciation for her fans. FABULOUS!

  • @kasalii9132
    @kasalii9132 Рік тому +9

    Nice one Fumi. Am Jamaican myself. Loved how you dealt with this... l learnt early the best revenge in situations like this is to hold your head up and live well.

  • @chailatecookies7341
    @chailatecookies7341 Рік тому +15

    Spice is absolutely right about this, Erica isn’t and won’t be the first and last person to be divorced or become a single mother!! 😂😂😂😂 she’s so kind and funny 😊

  • @elaineelaine2733
    @elaineelaine2733 Рік тому +59

    I know you're telling Spice to be a bit more gentle but people like Erica need the push back only people like Spice can give!. Have you seen Erica when she's activated??👀👀👀

  • @CapricornQueen7425
    @CapricornQueen7425 Рік тому +31

    Erica Mena, get counseling. Part of Erica's problem is she thought she was better than black women because she is a preference but she got the same black man. He didn't treat her any better. The fact that she is still sleeping with him is a problem for her. She needs to stop that immediately. She isn't clear on what love is or how to love herself. Fumi you are right she needs to let him go. He keeps sleeping with her to keep her on the hook so he can exploit her.
    Read
    The 5 Components of Love: Discover The True Meaning of Love and
    The Game: 41 Shades of Men: The Pursuit to Subdue and Use You
    -- By Princella Clark

    • @alygarden7879
      @alygarden7879 Рік тому +2

      1) 💯 EXACTLY...the second a man starts being an @$$...he should not be getting no sex.
      That's where all dignity and self worth for a woman, FLIES OUT THE DAMN door and they become a WORTHLESS DOORMAT without realizing it.

    • @shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880
      @shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880 Рік тому

      You’re totally correct my Sistahs. Plus, as long as he’s married to her and stopping in to make the b00ty calls he won’t have to pay child support 🥴

    • @triadholisticliving2369
      @triadholisticliving2369 Рік тому

      Yas indeed!

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      Headlock....for 15 mins

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      She is using her own method...trial and error...there is no Law that says how to use it

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Рік тому +43

    Erica has lost herself in this man and does not VALUE HERSELF. When she learns to love herself and know her VALUE she won't give a RATS TAIL WHAT SAFAREE DOES AND WON'T BE ABLE TO COME ANYWHERE NEAR HER WITHOUT ADVANCE NOTICE. LAY THE LAW SISTA AND LEY GO❤

    • @alygarden7879
      @alygarden7879 Рік тому +2

      🎯🎯 💯 exactly.

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      U can only value yourself when U have value....she is lost...Safaree never wanted her

  • @patriciasamo3364
    @patriciasamo3364 Рік тому +16

    Auntie Fumi, You look TONED. What have you been doing, pilates, yoga, fitness, running? Please fill us in ❤

  • @allninesandbehinds
    @allninesandbehinds Рік тому +35

    I've been watching your channel for a few months now. Fumi, you have an amazing, beautiful energy! Fabulous ❤

  • @kosewa1
    @kosewa1 Рік тому +16

    😂😂😂😂 Spice is the real!! She stopped in the middle of her dragging to take pictures with her fans!!!😂😂😂😂

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Рік тому +11

    Prayers for Erica to be strong heal and move on with a bright life. 🙏🏼❤️⭐️✨🙏🏼

  • @onlyonedara
    @onlyonedara Рік тому +18

    SPIIIIIICE 🤣😂I LIIIIIIIIVE🥰
    The fact that she gave Erica the READ of all reads while simultaneously loving in her fans! Spice gave me life

  • @KOSHOTEP451
    @KOSHOTEP451 Рік тому +36

    Fumi, you are absolutely right! After dealing with a narcissist, you have to come to the realization that the person you fell in love with NEVER existed and mourn the death. That's the hardest part, but if she can get through that, there's a better life waiting for her and her children.

    • @marciawison3508
      @marciawison3508 Рік тому

      The problem is Women mourn relationships, this is Erica's problem she has to mourn and move on.

    • @kamihatreasure1833
      @kamihatreasure1833 Рік тому

      I don't wish no one get caught with these monsters. They deplete you in every way worst she has kids with him

  • @Madeinthegambia
    @Madeinthegambia Рік тому +21

    I spent a few minutes crying laughing at “Erica you’re in love with a ghost” and then the picture of a ghost lol

  • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
    @Age_Of_Aquarius84 Рік тому +72

    Absolute facts Mrs Desalu-Vold! She needs to heal and get back to herself. I'm a divorced single mother of one, and I've abstained from men/sex for four years now. This time has been crucial for me - focusing on my son, my career and more importantly, me. Spice was spot on too. She needs to let Safaree go.

    • @Fitmamma_1
      @Fitmamma_1 Рік тому +8

      👏 🙌🏼 👌 well done sis people don't understand the important of pouring into themselves ❤, it's important to take time for yourself ,find yourself and redefine who you are outside of the marriage.

  • @cdk1473
    @cdk1473 Рік тому +36

    I love her. She was telling Erica off. And still was pleasant to people coming up to her. ❤

  • @JB-hc9ox
    @JB-hc9ox Рік тому +44

    Spice left NO CRUMBS!

  • @nanaleonard-kg9hc
    @nanaleonard-kg9hc Рік тому +29

    You are such a Inspiration. I learned alot from you.Iam currently facing a very difficult storm.And your wise words gives me strength to fight back and get my life back on track.Iam looking forward to hug you one day and say thanks Fum! I have made it because of your wise teachings. I LOVE YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤FROM NAMIBIA 🇳🇦❤💖💓♥💕🇳🇦❤💖

    • @dr-k1667
      @dr-k1667 Рік тому +5

      May God keep you safe and be the judge that allows you to sit in Victory after the storm clouds are rolled away!

    • @scovyaporsha
      @scovyaporsha Рік тому +1

      ​@@dr-k1667Amen

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      n 🤣n 🤣n 🤣

  • @one_2b_reckoned777
    @one_2b_reckoned777 Рік тому +14

    I appreciate you
    I appreciate your voice filled with compassionate, loving thoughts, intentions, and Wise advise!!!
    If only all women could be as classy and caring as you are, oh what a wonderful world this would be!
    Why can’t we all be like THIS! When we see a woman down we should all come together to lift her up!
    Women at times can be so catty and filled with drama…
    It’s ok to sit one another down and have a discussion ….
    I thoroughly enjoyed this video.
    Thank you Beautiful for being the Woman YOU ARE!❤

  • @TW4165
    @TW4165 Рік тому +5

    Absolutely elegantly put, and spoken from the heart.

  • @Keesha
    @Keesha Рік тому +31

    Talk up di tings Spice🤣🤣🤣. That’s how Jamaican mums give advice- shoot straight and nuh miss! I guess Erica can’t deal wid people being candid

  • @deborahcaldwell1805
    @deborahcaldwell1805 Рік тому +12

    Amen, amen and amen Fumi. I live for it! Please teach these young ladies. ❤

  • @evereadyfall4150
    @evereadyfall4150 Рік тому +3

    I agree with all the comments and your assessment but I have to say today you have really shone the melanin is POPPED ! Absolutely beautiful skin .... Yassss !

  • @Hephzibah_n_beulah
    @Hephzibah_n_beulah Рік тому +47

    Jamaican here 🙋🏾‍♀️..love Spice bad bad bad BUT I believe she’s on a journey right now and she simply has to leave the old behind and head into the new. As tempting as it might be at times to react in anger and yell and scream and fight, most of the time it’s best to walk away. I also think she went a bit too far and stooped a bit too low when she talked about Erica’s personal issues (syphilis etc..etc). Spice almost died, GOD gave her a new lease in life, leave the foolishness behind and live!

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho Рік тому +7

      I concur. ❤ Spice. Leave the old and embrace the new.

    • @desreneyoung7738
      @desreneyoung7738 Рік тому +2

      Amen same thing I said too

    • @myopinion1773
      @myopinion1773 Рік тому +6

      She's allow to vent... if someone accuses me of sleeping with their ex or present man.. it's over...

    • @valinatoussaint5485
      @valinatoussaint5485 Рік тому +1

      Amen

    • @nickymills2494
      @nickymills2494 Рік тому +3

      As a fellow Jamaican you have verbalized all that I’m thinking !🙏🏾

  • @faithchoute7415
    @faithchoute7415 Рік тому +26

    Spice is Jamaican and as a Jamaican born and raised this was pure entertainment but just know Spice isn’t playing she dead serious 😂😂

    • @user-bn6yc3un5m
      @user-bn6yc3un5m Рік тому

      Sock it to her Spice. She thought she was top gal and better than Dem other woman that him diss. Yuh been there done that so no mek nobody try fi put yuh down. One love

  • @deci5160
    @deci5160 Рік тому +10

    Where I’m lost is she’s blaming everyone, yet continue to sleep Safari😩 she is not interested in healing, she wants him back.🤷🏽‍♀️ that’s why she’s out here doing the most

  • @aleciahenderson8744
    @aleciahenderson8744 Рік тому +5

    I have never commented on videos but I love how real you are and the topics that you talk about and the lessons you give us about ourselves and life love you ❤

  • @ppinnock4725
    @ppinnock4725 Рік тому +48

    Thank you, Mrs. Fumi, for always bringing everything to life. I don't like confrontation, this is too much. Adults need to act like adults.

  • @reemagee4828
    @reemagee4828 Рік тому +13

    Not only that, Spice defended Erica on The Wendy Williams show

  • @sherrilynnpiercesimpson3270
    @sherrilynnpiercesimpson3270 Рік тому +9

    I love it 💓 TY for supporting a cause... I'm a 3x Cancer survivor/thriver and learned to help support myself when my son became my caregiver by thrifting... My nurses n techs are always complimenting me on my attire❤

  • @sunkissed38queen89
    @sunkissed38queen89 Рік тому +17

    Whew Chile! When you get cussed out in Patwa you know you done messed all the way up! 😂💀 I could NEVA allow a man to make me act like Erica! This is what makes black women all over the diaspora the Shiznit! We will raise our kids and make you wish you never left all at the same damn time! Bloop! 💯

  • @emeraldlong6549
    @emeraldlong6549 Рік тому +21

    I am praying for Erica🙏🏾, She seems broken. I pray Spice goes easy on her. As you've said Aunty Fumi, not everyone is as strong as Spice. Hoping Spice sees this video. Blessings 🙏🏾,

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому +1

      That trapping a dude with a pregnancy DOES NOT WOrK!!

  • @kc88778
    @kc88778 Рік тому +5

    Auntie Fumi, what words you imparted. Wisdom for a million years. Thank you.

  • @MIGHTYHAYDEE
    @MIGHTYHAYDEE Рік тому +22

    I have to say, this weight loss makes you 20 years younger. You look beautiful.

  • @naturallyme65
    @naturallyme65 Рік тому +18

    I just came across your channel. Your voice is so comforting. I do hope someone sends this to both ladies especially, Erica. You are correct she is lost and she needs to ask for heap in moving forward. Lashing out at anyone isn't going to solve anything especially at Spice. She is a warrior she don't play. Big up💜👊🏼

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Рік тому +12

    Hilarious taking her pics with her fans! During her read to Erica. 😂💃🏻🥰😂

  • @memyselfandthem6747
    @memyselfandthem6747 Рік тому +27

    I dont wish bad mind on no one but Erica is an abuser and has dished out plenty hurt also and people forget that. I hope she gets the help she needs to move on because she is very talented and beautiful and has beautiful children that depend on her.

  • @mgraygray411
    @mgraygray411 Рік тому +90

    Erica did not portray herself as a nice person from the start. She is now simply getting back what she gave. Life has a way of humbling us. She needs to brush herself off and move on.

    • @xxxnvssaxxx
      @xxxnvssaxxx Рік тому +2

      People think karma isn’t real,especially when you aren’t remorseful.

    • @estherfarris3802
      @estherfarris3802 Рік тому +1

      She has to calm herself down

  • @ginamarie2625
    @ginamarie2625 Рік тому +11

    The way she stopped and greeted all her fans and instantly went back Into the gag sent me, but that emphasis on Bi*** took me out😂😂😂😂

  • @ndiekwere6027
    @ndiekwere6027 Рік тому +9

    As usual you hit the spot with the analysis and break down. Let’s bury our ghosts and lift the bar up.

  • @thashaiidixon-muschette670
    @thashaiidixon-muschette670 Рік тому +2

    Fumi Jamaican's love you too. The waterfall you described sounds like Dunns River Falls🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sharonbaugh5832
    @sharonbaugh5832 Рік тому +5

    And we your Jamaican sisters love you Fumi sending you a lot of love from yaad!

  • @inmyelementblue7186
    @inmyelementblue7186 Рік тому +17

    Mrs. Vold!!! You are looking stunning today ❤

  • @lindaleslie9629
    @lindaleslie9629 Рік тому +4

    I am so disappointed about the comments, that other women think it's a joke and enjoying another woman downfall, yes she has attitude, but she is going through a lot of trails and tribulation, l believe she thought he really loved her and they would be together for ever, l pray that someone who is a friend for real, would be there and suggest she gets mental health and get in church and a real one teaching about Jesus and give her back peace, love and her self esteem br restored and joy again in Jesus name 🙏🏽💜

    • @kellychisholm3462
      @kellychisholm3462 Рік тому

      My dear some war can only win by people God send and sometimes we watch the messenger and never listen to the message.Eric will lose everyone and am speaking from experience because she don't want to hear you need to let this demon. If it wasn't for a woman like that blue hair lady I don't now were I would be I was unhealthy,mentally drained, physically weak because I have only energy for him lol jealous of a man that careless if I die or live the weakest part was crying infront of him like a river and he live for it. When you are spiritual bound it take a special person to release you from that hell that lady speak with Fire to burn and it was heavy but sometimes we as woman need that wake up call. And believe me when Eric stop crying and find peace that demon will come full force again to bring her to her knees if she's not strong enough she will lose everything and God forbid hopefully not her life. That man demons is killing her. All we can do is pray and hope this lady slap wake her up.

  • @C_Alleyne
    @C_Alleyne Рік тому +24

    Good pick on the necklace Ole!!! It’s absolutely stunning just like you Fumi! ❤

  • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
    @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 Рік тому +26

    Fumi, young famous and African season 2 just dropped. We need your reviews.

    • @mphomirandalefhatshe4342
      @mphomirandalefhatshe4342 Рік тому +1

      Absolutely sister! Can't wait for Fumi s review! Lots of love form Botswana 🇧🇼💗🌺

    • @lesleyk1727
      @lesleyk1727 Рік тому

      Ohhhh....thanks for the reminder. I've been waiting for this season to finally drop😊

  • @kfaateli6164
    @kfaateli6164 Рік тому +8

    Didnt understand a word but loooved the attitude and accent.

  • @brendamitchell5030
    @brendamitchell5030 Рік тому +3

    Awesome message you are more than precious Fumi we truly love you for who you are, stay happy and healthy, take care of yourself and your hubby and son (they are first always😘

  • @Shimbayah7x77
    @Shimbayah7x77 Рік тому +2

    Fumi, Sistah you look FABULOUS!🎉 Toned and giving stylish and glam! Go ahead girl you are rocking it!

  • @happinessinheart5340
    @happinessinheart5340 Рік тому +8

    I remember when she met Safaree’s mother! I would run.
    That should have been a warning sign, additionally, Safaree told her once he was with a young baby and she crying, “You will always be in love with my male organ because you have never got one that is so big and a man who can give it to you so good.” He closed the door and left! Heartless.
    But Erica was and it totalled in love! Safaree does not love, has no love but a lot of soul ties and spirit wives. So, he cannot settle down with one woman. Those spirit wives will be beating Safaree and harassing Erica.
    Erica needs to realise live is a two way street. Safaree is not THE LORD JESUS CHRIST and she needs HIM to find total happiness. Safaree only brings unhappiness and ugliness to your heart and household; so cut him off. Let someone bring the child to him.
    You start reading The BIBLE and praying asking THE LORD JESUS CHRIST to heal your heart. HE will heal your broken heart.

  • @loveliveholistically
    @loveliveholistically Рік тому +5

    Love you Fumi, love the hair, the make up, the clothes, but most of all I love what you stand for. It is girlfriends like you that helps us to grow holisticallyxx

  • @cherylblake6455
    @cherylblake6455 Рік тому +16

    Good afternoon, Fumi. I hope you're doing well. I have a little bit of strength in me, right now, to comment. You placed a well needed smile on my face, mentioning Jamacian celebrities. I was not aware that you were familiar with them. I'm a first-generation American, but that is my heritage. Back in the 90s, Lady Saw was as well known, as Spice is now..

  • @abyelenwo3875
    @abyelenwo3875 Рік тому +6

    Fumi, you words are really inspirational, I was feeling so demoralized this morning but your words got me on track. Thank you

  • @kashataylor6430
    @kashataylor6430 Рік тому +12

    You talked to my body and soul. Thank you Fumi❣️💯

  • @darshimaroberson
    @darshimaroberson Рік тому +17

    Erica need to find herself and focus on herself and her children and that will start her healing process

  • @TheeFitFlightAttendantDee
    @TheeFitFlightAttendantDee Рік тому +34

    This look is FIRE 🔥 😍 👌 u look amazing Queen 👸🏾

  • @blessedone472
    @blessedone472 Рік тому

    Seeing your video for the first time n i was compelled to Sub. Your reasoning is so matured n wise. Im 70 yrs old so I've been living some of what youre saying. Bless U

  • @odijeremiah5739
    @odijeremiah5739 Рік тому +1

    I like that advice, Funmi. Tell them some times I shared your comments with my daughter and sister ❤️

  • @debbieforareason364
    @debbieforareason364 Рік тому +6

    First!!!!!we love you mama. You can repeat clothes we don't mind!❤🎉

  • @uduakudo8908
    @uduakudo8908 Рік тому +7

    Hi Fumi!! You look beautiful! That silver necklace is everything!!
    I really appreciate this channel & your perspective!!
    Taking accountability actually gives you power....it's hard for some to accept this concept but that's how the Universe works .....you only attract who you are inside & this applies to everyone on the planet....
    I was crushed by My son's father....he never laid a hand on Me but he destroyed a part of My life by kidnapping My son when he was little.... & how could I face Myself.... this man tried to crush My Life....how could I have attracted this person? Fumi I shut everything down too!! It's been 3 years.... no dating, no sex, no serious romantic relationships .... just Me preparing for a great life & taking accountability

  • @tamera605
    @tamera605 Рік тому +15

    The preference can't handle not being chosen....oh well

  • @thebealemeredithfamily1456
    @thebealemeredithfamily1456 Рік тому +10

    Dunns River Falls. You must visit again

  • @VijaySubha1
    @VijaySubha1 Рік тому +8

    Sister Fumi, your look in this video reminds me of your modelling day pictures❤.

  • @rowenaramsaran4256
    @rowenaramsaran4256 Рік тому +5

    Ms. Fumi, Ur Skin, Ur Colours, Ur Glow, Ur Hair... WOW!!!!! Perfection!!!!! Absolutely Gorgeous!!!!!

  • @lindavizzi1171
    @lindavizzi1171 Рік тому +5

    Fumi I’m bowing down to you…that was some great great advice!

  • @haleyclarke1332
    @haleyclarke1332 Рік тому +45

    Self-control is such a vital quality. Control over your emotions, thoughts and actions. Everyday is a new opportunity to be a better version than yesterday. Erica has to look in the figurative mirror and find back the essence of who she is that will allow her to grow consistently into the best version of herself.

    • @newestbarbee3250
      @newestbarbee3250 Рік тому +3

      Exactly. Safaree will get on his hands and knees begging to come back if he sees her level up, thriving , new business , new man, unbothered, better off , happy and not giving a f about him

  • @AmakaN.
    @AmakaN. Рік тому +16

    Catch a break, let me breathe... Jesus Christ 😂
    I just love spice. No fakeness

  • @shamomar629
    @shamomar629 Рік тому +14

    Fumi, young, famous and African season 2 is out, a recap please. I can't wait to hear your thoughts on the dynamic

    • @sudanc3951
      @sudanc3951 Рік тому

      Really, when was the release date? That was drama too. Lol

  • @earthmatters8866
    @earthmatters8866 Рік тому

    Amen ❤🎉.. I love your advices, may Gif continue to bless your soul.

  • @islandgurlgj
    @islandgurlgj Рік тому +68

    I hope that Erica sees this message and takes the lesson from it. Safari is not worth all of this. Erica has had a hard life. She has been used and is so broken right now. Not one of us can cast stones. This I know...she is a beautiful queen who can do and be so much more than she is giving us right now. Let go Erica! If he wanted to be a MAN to you and his babies, he would be doing exactly that! He does not care that he is hurting you. He thinks that he has you wrapped around his little finger, and is making you look like a fool, publicly!! This I have no patience for. Dash way de bwoy! He ain't even that good looking!! Boss up and watch him drool over what he lost.

    • @vikeyshamurray7553
      @vikeyshamurray7553 Рік тому +1

      Who haven't had

    • @xg8329
      @xg8329 Рік тому +1

      Well Said!

    • @tanekamarshall9560
      @tanekamarshall9560 Рік тому

      U said it

    • @PreciousGift-kd7yz
      @PreciousGift-kd7yz Рік тому

      The Actions behind two adults, whether right or wrong always *effects* the children. Your statement is senseless n not worth commenting.
      Sick ppl should never be favoured as intellectuals, they're spiritually I'll n too purposely hurt someone who has to be responsible in caring for his own childrens well being is alarming, its child abuse, as you help advertise it. Predators should *not* be allowed around children.
      It is shameful n it needs to stop 🛑 *period*

    • @ashleyhaynes8877
      @ashleyhaynes8877 Рік тому

      Yes girl you said it all right there I appreciate all your realness