ASMR | I'm never going to leave you | [F4A] [NB4A] [comfort] [abandonment issues] [trauma]

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2025

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  • @duncanvillalobos6157
    @duncanvillalobos6157 Рік тому +160

    You can't be abandoned if you don't have anyone to abandon you, I'm always one step ahead of my traumas

    • @AzzyWolf247
      @AzzyWolf247 Рік тому +3

      FINALLY, SOEMONE THATS LIKE ME

    • @jbourbon3734
      @jbourbon3734 Рік тому +2

      Sounds lonely

    • @XeniaTheFox
      @XeniaTheFox Рік тому +1

      they're just like me frfr

    • @kneega
      @kneega 10 місяців тому

      @@jbourbon3734it is? tf?

    • @venomgaming7014
      @venomgaming7014 6 місяців тому

      Relatable. And my parents are the reason for my life altering trust issues.

  • @pitiedindiana12
    @pitiedindiana12 Рік тому +29

    This hits really close to home. I’ve had people in the past who I knew for years leave me on a dime. It’s kinda hurt my ability to make new friends but I’m trying. I definitely need time to really get to know someone and trust them.
    Thank you for such a sweet audio! If I had a partner like this I wouldn’t have to worry.
    Yes to the reverse comfort as well ❤

  • @ouchpaw3518
    @ouchpaw3518 Рік тому +17

    Your reverse comforts are very unique and I would love a version for this 💛

  • @framedchips6462
    @framedchips6462 Рік тому +4

    Your voice is incredible, especially for what kind of content you’re making, it’s the perfect “mommy/caretaker” voice and I can’t get enough

  • @spidergalva
    @spidergalva Рік тому +16

    My abandonment and parental issues are really startin to show

  • @SenailCooledge
    @SenailCooledge Рік тому +8

    I hate how easily this fear is triggered for me but I'd definitely like a reverse of this!

  • @venomgaming7014
    @venomgaming7014 7 місяців тому +1

    Considering sometimes my parents don’t even want to talk to me or blame me for something my brother did (yes they do that a lot), I need this. And they’re the reason I have trouble with trusting people and thinking people will leave me when I’m at my lowest.

  • @athenaj5855
    @athenaj5855 Рік тому +3

    omg i really needed this!! like it's my first day of period and i was feeling horrible... then you just posted this asmr 😭 thank youuuuuuu

  • @BloodyAugustRoleplays
    @BloodyAugustRoleplays Рік тому +9

    Very soothing😌. Thank you, Lance.🖤🖤

  • @noone-fr2ks
    @noone-fr2ks Рік тому +10

    yes to the description

    • @adelaide8219
      @adelaide8219 Рік тому +4

      Yes to this comment saying yes to the description

    • @lillia_love
      @lillia_love Рік тому +3

      @@adelaide8219 yes to this comment saying yes to that comment saying yes to the description

  • @dumbcheese8552
    @dumbcheese8552 Рік тому +2

    Didn't think I had abandonment issues until I was crying to this at 2:15 in the morning

  • @alisonwallace5619
    @alisonwallace5619 Рік тому

    I definitely felt this one hard. I've never had any romantic relationships (not yet anyway 🤞). But I know what it feels like to not be included or feel like no one really wants you around.
    I'm so sorry that this was inspired by real life events Lance, feeling abandoned absolutely sucks. I do hope that you always remember that you do deserve love and acceptance and that you've had such a positive impact on others' lives.

  • @christofferthorsson607
    @christofferthorsson607 Рік тому +1

    I don't even know why I have these issues/thoughts. Can't think of what event would cause them to develop. But it's always nice to listen to these and imagine that they are unfounded.

  • @residentevilgamer5432
    @residentevilgamer5432 11 місяців тому +1

    Been in this situation before she reassured me that she would always be here with me, but she still left me anyways at the lowest point in my life, for someone better that’s how it always goes unfortunately. Even though I loved her with all my heart I guess she really never truly loved me

  • @opticace6385
    @opticace6385 Рік тому +7

    I don't know if I'm the only that has a hard time believing people you care for and love will stay..

  • @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462
    @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462 Рік тому +50

    You promise?

    • @yozii_wav
      @yozii_wav Рік тому +2

      if she's not i promise. as a bros of course

  • @Thekeytoeverything
    @Thekeytoeverything 4 місяці тому

    I love this!
    I’m your 700th like!

  • @kuratheartist6014
    @kuratheartist6014 Рік тому +2

    Welp this hit a little too close to home and now I’m trying not to sob at almost 2am

  • @winter9267
    @winter9267 Рік тому

    Thank you, I've had many close people leaving me because i'd be considered too weird and as we get older, we get drifted away. Now, I have a very close friend who I adore and trust a lot. But recently, I keep getting this feeling that, they are trying to leave me and it's been terrible for a couple of weeks, it gets even worse at night. Thanks to you that last night, I felt asleep easily instead of beating myself over with these thought.

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the comfort ❤

  • @lapislazoli
    @lapislazoli Рік тому

    Soooooo found out couple of weeks ago thst i have abandonment issues due to bullies and finding this is actually really nice

  • @topoo-kw8zr
    @topoo-kw8zr Рік тому +1

    So I have this partner of mine that confuses me. She loves me, show and tell me she does, but i get this feeling that she can leave me any moment and would still be fine.

  • @CodyASMR
    @CodyASMR Рік тому

    I got abandoned today, needless to say, my abandonment issues have only gotten worse…..

  • @Srt_resium
    @Srt_resium 10 місяців тому

    I hope I don’t have these issues by the time I find someone

    • @LanceAudios
      @LanceAudios  10 місяців тому +1

      the right person will help w the issues 💜

    • @Srt_resium
      @Srt_resium 10 місяців тому

      @@LanceAudios thanks ;w;

  • @bingusreal
    @bingusreal Рік тому +1

    More of this🎉🎉🎉

  • @tazlambird
    @tazlambird Рік тому

    I don’t have abandonment issues, it happens all the time!
    (Sorry for the bad joke, I think I’m funny)

  • @srabonsaha6701
    @srabonsaha6701 Рік тому +1

    pinky promise?

  • @ussistar2523
    @ussistar2523 5 місяців тому

  • @TheGiftedBraincell
    @TheGiftedBraincell Рік тому

    What you tryina say...I smell like cheese or something...

  • @nana_55iixx
    @nana_55iixx Рік тому +1

    Hii😐