6 Must Do’s & Don’ts For Solo Cruisers

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  • @spectrumtraveler30
    @spectrumtraveler30 Місяць тому +166

    Being an autistic adult, socializing is difficult and confusing, especially when it comes to small talk and eye contact. But I love cruising for two things: ship + the ocean. No bar hopping, no attending shows, just me, my kindle, the ship + the ocean. I am starting my UA-cam channel on what it’s like to travel while being autistic, and cruising is such a huge love for me. I have not come across many autistic adults who love cruising, or even gone on a ship. So I’m hoping my content will be inspiring, educational and fun to watch

    • @cheetocairo
      @cheetocairo Місяць тому +8

      Very cool! I'm AuDHD and absolutely love cruising either alone or with my close friends. Often though, I run into moments of frustration or feeling uncomfortable when I'm with my group because of the varying opinions on what's going on or they think I'm being inflexible, annoying or whatever.

    • @DiddyUp
      @DiddyUp Місяць тому +7

      I can relate a little having social anxiety. Its a shame I can only open up with alcohol. I am perfectly at peace on my balcony with room service. I enjoy some shows and the casino but im mainly into the good ports.

    • @Epiphany_janae
      @Epiphany_janae Місяць тому +7

      From one Autistic person to another….do it! Id def watch. 😊

    • @Hempgodess69420
      @Hempgodess69420 Місяць тому +1

      Do you like it when people talk to you?

    • @dv8mr226
      @dv8mr226 Місяць тому +2

      You can mix autism with social things. I’m an introvert on the fringes of Don’t talk to me, but I do technical sales. My love of computers that have no emotion but also the admiration from humans who say “ you are so smart” on a topic. You just need to find a topic the other human is interested in and provide some view point, we tend to think inside our own heads, you can share that and not all people think you are a narcissist. Conversations are about them not you, when I learned that it helped me be more social.

  • @diannebrideson2368
    @diannebrideson2368 Місяць тому +84

    I am completely comfortable dining alone in the main dining room with my Kindle!!

    • @rbrown5434
      @rbrown5434 Місяць тому +3

      Correct. You can also set with other solo travelers at a larger table. I do it all the time. I do not worry about what other people think and have met plenty of people. The middle east was fantastic.

  • @MJinFlorida
    @MJinFlorida Місяць тому +49

    I travel solo most of the time, Vegas, cruising etc. My rule for personal safety is just to never tell anyone I’m traveling solo.

    • @user-fk3ir9qf9y
      @user-fk3ir9qf9y Місяць тому +2

      I always say if ask if I’m alone….No my partner prefers the casino.

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 Місяць тому +6

      I do this at home. If any one is in my house to repair something, I always say my boyfriend is at work.

    • @Arya-pe1dr
      @Arya-pe1dr Місяць тому +1

      👍👍Thanks so much for that tip for when i take my first cruise. I am big on safety during my daily travels in general and so this is good to know!

  • @robinbrook5624
    @robinbrook5624 Місяць тому +53

    I've been going solo for about 18 years. Occasionally I will invite a friend, but so often it cramps my style. Having complete freedom to do what you want, when you want with zero compromising is priceless.

  • @CurlyVeggie
    @CurlyVeggie Місяць тому +43

    I don’t cruise solo, but in regards to being stared at…when people stare at me, I’ve gotten very comfortable with staring back until they look away!

  • @JazzyLnae
    @JazzyLnae Місяць тому +54

    My best vacations have been solo. You can do what you want to do, when you want to do it. I could have zero interactions with people on my trips & be content, but I always seem to meet people on my trips, especially the solo ones. Im going on a solo cruise soon & looking forward to the peace & relaxation.

  • @Montgomery539
    @Montgomery539 Місяць тому +33

    Tbh solo cruising can be better than with a group or family … no responsibility for anyone else, no drama and no restrictions or expectations. Having said that with my family we know how to roll and equally give each other space . Saying that I will definitely try a solo cruise as an experience and just go with the flow when I want 🎉

  • @cheetocairo
    @cheetocairo Місяць тому +16

    The first thing is you need to be your own best friend. If you dont enjoy being alone with your own thoughts, you may not enjoy solo travel. If you absolutely require external stimuli and social interaction to have a good time, then you may not like solo travel. Also, generally no one cares what you are doing. If you are confident and comfortable sitting alone, eating alone, etc. most people don't give you a second thought let alone stare. If you've never solo traveled, you can start by going to dinner alone, a movie alone, etc and see how you feel. Personally I absolutely love the freedom of being alone and have a great time. Even dining in the main dining room, I enjoy my food, people watch, watch the ocean, just have a pleasant meal.

  • @mariebrooks7341
    @mariebrooks7341 Місяць тому +21

    I love solo cruising because I need my space, peace and rest. I book excursions through the cruiseline and stick with the group. I enjoy eating alone or can eat with a group. It gives me flexibility to set my own schedule everyday. I never give out my cabin number to anybody for any reason. If I decide to join people for an event, I meet them there. I don't go to other folks cabin either. My head stays on 360 swivel on watch at all times. I like an ocean view or a balcony for 7 or 8 days; short cruise is 5 days for me, 3 or 4 is way too short. I won't cruise Norweigian in that solo cabin and really don't want to socialize in the singles area. I did book a solo cabin on Celebrity and that was great because usually I wind up booking a regular cabin on the cruiselines and paying the single supplement. On Royal Carribean and Celebrity it's double points, not on Carnival. I join the Facebook group for the cruise and enjoy communicating with others who are on that cruise. Solo cruising is taking off more for sure. I tell my friends that I do not share a hotel or cruise cabin and definitely not a resort condo. I want my space and peace yet enjoy being with other people. If you can afford it, cruise solo at least once and you might decide not to share space ever again. Who cares if people whisper when I am dining alone. I love my alone dining time and who cares what anybody says. Did they pay for my cruise? I have never felt lonely or left out. I feel that I don't have enough time to do everything. I'm out and about more than in my cabin and attend most of what I have as a favorite on my schedule. I hate to have people also asking me about why I am by myself. BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO BE BY MYSELF. I do a lot of volunteer work and also work intermittent at a medical school, volunteer for a state pageant and at my church so I am very social. Cruising is my ME time, relax and enjoy life MY WAY time so I don't need anybody attempting to put me in a box because they need to have a companion. We are all different and should be respected for being uniquely who we are. Good video Jay. Solo cruising totally ROCKS.

    • @Arya-pe1dr
      @Arya-pe1dr Місяць тому +1

      👍👍👍Well said especially about not sharing ur cabin number and not going to anyone's cabin! I will remember for my first cruise!

  • @sailorlac
    @sailorlac Місяць тому +28

    Had a great solo trip on NCL, upgraded to balcony cabin, had the upgraded premium drinks and restaurant package. This was also when the pandemic restrictions had just ended, so no kids and ony 40% capacity. It was a dream!

    • @sailorlac
      @sailorlac Місяць тому +1

      Also, all of your advice is awesome, just like you.

    • @rockdefdiva
      @rockdefdiva Місяць тому +3

      No kids is always a nice perk to a trip

  • @theinspiredhomedecor
    @theinspiredhomedecor Місяць тому +25

    Just got off my 4th solo cruise yesterday. Love it
    I’m very much an introvert so I never attend the solo meetings and I don’t care if I meet people or not. I cruise so I don’t have to be social if I don’t want to be. I do my excursions solo so I get to see different places. Most of the time I don’t go out of my way to talk to people. Of course if someone starts talking to me I will talk back but I rarely initiate conversations. But I’m still enjoying myself trust me. I’m about to book my 5th solo cruise and it will probably be in Europe again.
    I don’t mind sitting at the table by myself, I prefer it, so I don’t have to go through all of the small talk and people asking me a bunch of questions. On my last cruise, I was sat at a larger table and the people didn’t show up the first night. I was happy about this and I enjoyed my dinner alone. But I asked the staff to move me to a solo table so I would be more comfortable.

    • @MJinFlorida
      @MJinFlorida Місяць тому +4

      This is my exact preferred method of solo cruising, and solo travel in general

    • @cjup98
      @cjup98 29 днів тому

      I want to do this so badly. I am also an introvert and boardline agoraphobic which makes it extremely difficult for me to be out and about and to interact with others. It also holds me back for a lot of things I want to experience. I have cruised with family about 5x. I love it! It's definitely my "thing" now. But my ultimate goal is to be able to do one solo. I opened up so much my last cruise about 2wks ago. Meet a few good people. I would love to be able to experience more of that. Cruising seems to make meeting and talking to strangers easier for me bc everyone is there to meet people and have a good time!

  • @Canadian_Guy_82
    @Canadian_Guy_82 Місяць тому +8

    If there's one thing I've learned from quite a few solo trips (cruises, land trips, etc).. NO ONE cares that I'm sitting or eating alone. Everyone is in their own little world dealing with their own lives. They don't know if my partner might just not be feeling well, or if I'm completely alone. It was a concern on my first solo trip but that stress was quickly wiped away. I've never felt judged or had weird looks.. if anything I've gotten looks of "god, I wish.. my kids are driving me crazy right now" lol. Solo travel is awesome!!!

  • @pryttyfatchick
    @pryttyfatchick Місяць тому +6

    Ive been cruising solo since 1996. I dont go on cruises to meet people. I have to deal with people in my everyday life, Im on vacation to relax and spend time alone. Not everyone is a social being. I will chat with people im sittinf next to in the dining room or at showa, but I dont go out looking for crowds of people to meet.

    • @queenmb007
      @queenmb007 Місяць тому +2

      "NOT EVERYONE IS A SOCIAL BEING"...... that's real talk! Extroverts don't understand or believe that because they look at things from their perspective. They can't imagine anyone not wanting to be around other people, but trust me, we're out here. Introverts are perfectly happy beginning alone(not lonely). We don't need, and more often, don't want companionship and would rather not have others around at all. Cruising in a balcony cabin is the perfect place for that. I've done most of the excursions that I want (swam with the dolphins, rode the camels, snorkeling the great barrier reef, swimming with the stingrays, ruins ruins and more ruins, blah blah blah), so now I usually spend the entire 7 days in my room on my balcony being in love with the ocean. I order room service but may go out to the main dining room or restaurant once or twice(to be stared at for eating alone, I think it's funny). For me solo means solo. I love it!

  • @harlanabraham7772
    @harlanabraham7772 Місяць тому +23

    Solo accommodations are usually more expensive than if you took a double room. You may join groups online, however, it doesn't mean that you will meet them on the cruise. Want to meet people go to the casino. Dining is important. If people want to stare let them. Not a very social person.

    • @Nrustica
      @Nrustica Місяць тому

      show me a solo cruise not more expensive than a double room

  • @arnitapalmer4886
    @arnitapalmer4886 Місяць тому +6

    Honestly LOVE solo cruising! Book cruises, excursions, dine alone in buffet or main dining and same with activities. Definitely prefer! It's Simply PEACEFUL! Like a whole New World!!!

  • @luvtravel6207
    @luvtravel6207 Місяць тому +8

    I love solo cruising. I do the specialty dining, the excursions that I want, a drink package for coffee and a few cocktails, watch the shows and enjoy the live music. I’m super comfortable in my own company😊and I meet so many people.

  • @user-zv6ce2hn4t
    @user-zv6ce2hn4t Місяць тому +10

    I much prefer to cruise solo.

  • @morgee1040
    @morgee1040 Місяць тому +4

    Most cruiselines have single mixers every evening. Cruising solo doesn't always mean you are single, so i dont want to mingle or find anybody to bed westle with. I don't mind people staring, but I always ask the Maitre d to find me a corner table for 2.

  • @ricktaylor5397
    @ricktaylor5397 Місяць тому +9

    In my experience, it’s usually the crew that brings up the issue of why you are traveling solo. This usually happens on port days when you choose not to leave the ship. They must think you are bored, when you’re actually trying to relax.

  • @angelaharrison4314
    @angelaharrison4314 Місяць тому +4

    Idk, I never felt weird about cruising alone. I cruise alone for a reason. If I wanted someone with me I'd bring someone. I cruise to relax.

  • @Smart_Think
    @Smart_Think Місяць тому +5

    Great video. As someone who eats out (by myself) often, i have learned that its best to not go dine out on fridays or saturdays as those days are when i feel most judged, but any other day i dont care and if someone is staring thats their issue. Somepeople never did anything in their life alone.
    They choose to not enjoy things unless someone is with them, sometimes people are admiring you being able to eat alone or go soemwhere alone

    • @aaronhill443
      @aaronhill443 Місяць тому

      I taught myself that in the Navy almost 30 years ago. When I wasn't with other shipmates and friends, I would treat myself to movies, dinners, etc. I always avoided the weekends because i deemed those as "date nights/couples nights. I would go to lunch earlier during those days, but never dinner especially if it was a place where you had to wait on a table.

  • @avaleesdad
    @avaleesdad Місяць тому +12

    I embark on a solo cruise tomorrow! First MSC cruise and first time with a drink package.

    • @avaleesdad
      @avaleesdad 26 днів тому

      What in the Carnival, though never sailing Carnival. I assure you the MSC meraviglia is the wildest shil at sea.

  • @gayle4718
    @gayle4718 Місяць тому +5

    Solo cruising is the best!

  • @maureendenave5855
    @maureendenave5855 Місяць тому +4

    That was a very helpful video. I’ve been thinking of cruising alone for a while and your video helped me decide to go for it. Thank you!

  • @ME-js5hd
    @ME-js5hd Місяць тому +3

    I'm headed for my third solo cruise soon and I love it. Dining isn't an issue for me but there were two times that ppl saw me and invited me to their table. Another instance, a guy came and invited himself to mine. Solo cruising is great for those who like to meet new ppl.

  • @angiecho8530
    @angiecho8530 Місяць тому +3

    I went on my first solo cruise this past January. I loved it! I chilled when I wanted to and socialized at events attended. I even met another solo female and we went on a fun excursion together so we wouldn't be alone. Also went to eat at the dining room daily by myself. Didn't notice or care if people stared because I was eating alone. Met some really nice people and had a great time relaxing as well. Can't wait to do it again.😍

  • @terrifromm5085
    @terrifromm5085 Місяць тому +4

    My first cruise ever was to the Mexican Riviera as a solo on Princess. I had a blast!

  • @dmora2386
    @dmora2386 Місяць тому +7

    You wouldn't BELIEVE how many people were on my last cruise solo. It was wild. I was technically solo, but was with a big group in diff cabins so I went and hung out with the solo activity stuff and I was suprised lol

  • @crazy4dariver
    @crazy4dariver Місяць тому +1

    Best thing i ever did... shuffleboard. My partner was 87 and her friends were OLDER. It is one thing to watch history on TV and another to talk to people that created it. I joined Ms Sarah for the Captains Dinner dressed to the nines.

  • @Lavender5001
    @Lavender5001 Місяць тому +8

    The guy giving lapdancing is too lit

  • @loreleilawson5296
    @loreleilawson5296 Місяць тому +4

    My first cruise ever was solo, and I had so, so much fun! Do shared dining in the evening and try EVERYTHING...I must have loved it, I am heading out again in September 😊

  • @GlitterSparklez1
    @GlitterSparklez1 Місяць тому +2

    I love your channel. I'm taking my 1st solo in March 2025 with NCL. I really don't think I'll ever cruise again with others. I love my own company. I'm fine doing things alone. I do, however, want to meet with other solo cruises as well.

  • @dianecrawford3591
    @dianecrawford3591 Місяць тому +4

    I am planning a solo cruise. My first cruise. Good advice 👍

    • @Arya-pe1dr
      @Arya-pe1dr Місяць тому

      👍I am right there with u....planning first cruise solo!

    • @1PrinceJay
      @1PrinceJay Місяць тому

      Go for it!! You will love it and it’s a well deserved good time.

  • @dazzleheights
    @dazzleheights Місяць тому +7

    I don't see no problem cruising by yourself. Because, at the end of your life, you die alone a love cruising by yourself. I don't care what nobody thinks. All I know is that I have my credit card in my pocket that's My best friend cause together and I'm good to go

  • @user-fk3ir9qf9y
    @user-fk3ir9qf9y Місяць тому +2

    I cruise every Birthday Solo, I love to be waited on, enjoying all the ships crew always friendly. Sometimes in MDR I sit with 8 more cruisers, and sometimes I like to sit alone. The difference is how long I want to be in the MDR….I prefer the early shows.

  • @daniellem578
    @daniellem578 5 днів тому +2

    I just did a cruise alone last week MSC. I love cruises but let me say NEVER do MSC alone! I felt so lonely/single. That cruise is ONLY for couples/ or family with kids!!! I felt like a fish out of water there!!

  • @slowrunner3737
    @slowrunner3737 Місяць тому +2

    I will be taking my 6th solo cruise in November and I have never felt “singled out” or judged eating alone. I have been traveling on Royal Caribbean and have not been able to book a solo cabin thus far, but I’m not mad because I’m accruing double points. I’ll be diamond on my 7th cruise. To clarify I am 54 SWF and not looking for a hookup. I just need some me time and if I connect with anyone on a friendship or potentially more level, I’ll just take that as it comes.

  • @TravelWithBen121
    @TravelWithBen121 Місяць тому +2

    I cruised solo on NCL in a studio cabin and it was great! I did a transatlantic 13 day cruise so plenty of time to chill and meet people. I also filmed vlogs everyday during the cruise and never had any problems! Great tips, J!

  • @aaronhill443
    @aaronhill443 Місяць тому +1

    I love solo travel. I have taken people on cruises and like you said, we have different wants and needs. It gives me a chance to be selfish and do what I want to do, when I want to do it. I always just talk to people in the elevator or on shore excursions just by asking them, "where are they from?" or looking at the color of their keys and asking, "how many cruises they have been on?'. Those are two ice breaking questions that mostly everyone will answer with great enthusiasm.

  • @Imeraldi
    @Imeraldi 4 дні тому

    I travel solo often. I did Norwegian solo and it was nice. Doing another in December. I have done solo on MSC and they were accommodating for me. Nothing compares to solo

  • @dee_mcgee11
    @dee_mcgee11 Місяць тому +2

    Solo cruiser here!

  • @shellyedwards7526
    @shellyedwards7526 Місяць тому +2

    Carnival lets you choose to eat alone. I always do.

  • @anitasmith4559
    @anitasmith4559 Місяць тому +4

    The sled ride looked like loads of fun.

  • @dawnbanerdt-adams8356
    @dawnbanerdt-adams8356 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a 60 yo recent widow, so I'm not looking to hookup. But I do enjoy going to shows, and am a foodie. While I'm shy and introverted, I do like hanging out with others who might have common interests. I think it would be fun to sit in a place, have a drink or two, and people watch. I don't care if people stare at me while I'm eating. I might smile and ask them to join me, who knows?

  • @Boa_Omega
    @Boa_Omega Місяць тому +3

    Much too long no see Jay. I hope you have been doing well and having time for fun. Thank you for your help.

  • @triamoore2931
    @triamoore2931 Місяць тому +2

    Like your haircut Jay!

  • @lizkotchek928
    @lizkotchek928 Місяць тому +1

    I am very social and meet alot of people when I cruise because I am a smoker. That said, I wouldn't go out to dinner by myself let alone go on a cruise by myself. I envy people who are comfortable traveling alone. My brother spends half the year in Italy and goes alone. Also want to say that I can't get enough of watching you dance. I would love to see a 5 minute video of just you dancing. You have amazing talent. Love from your #1 fan living in Delray Beach.❤

  • @steve1la
    @steve1la Місяць тому +1

    I cruise several times a year mostly by myself. I do not spend a lot of time in my cabin I go to shows and the casino and spend time soaking in the hot tubs and almost no time in the bars. I never realized that I was supposed to be embarrassed or ashamed about being by myself. I always request a signal table for dining and have never felt that people were staring or talking about Mw most people seem to just be trying to have a good time and are not that concerned with others as long as You are not rude to them.

  • @michealcain5355
    @michealcain5355 Місяць тому +1

    I am a single traveler. My last two trips were on Amtrak. I willbe taking my first cruise someday and I really liked that video. Keep up the great work. Mike from Vegas.

  • @DaveW966
    @DaveW966 Місяць тому +3

    I'm a little bit surprised on your comments about being stared at as a solo cruiser. I've taken 4 solo cruises in the past year, and have never felt like I was being stared at - at least any more than is normal. I think the only difference between solo & with someone, is that because you are solo - it's easier to notice people watching you - because you are by yourself.

  • @lisamoore5568
    @lisamoore5568 Місяць тому +1

    My last 11 cruses have been solo ranging from 7-21 days and I LOVE it!! I can’t even cruising with someone and the hassle of having to figure out bathroom usage, wake-up schedules, etc. I go with holland most often. Celebrity is my 2nd fav. Trying MSC for the first time in the fall.
    Carnival and NCL … NEVER AGAIN!

  • @TOhara-eb2lp
    @TOhara-eb2lp Місяць тому +3

    Never tried to cruise solo, always wanted to try.

    • @karenthomas1994
      @karenthomas1994 Місяць тому

      I love solo cruising. I'm a loner , big time. I'm a long haul, solo truck driver.

  • @TCB_Aries
    @TCB_Aries 12 днів тому

    My very first cruise was solo, I had a great time. When I returned, the friends who were scared to go asked me if I was bored being alone? I told them the ship had over 2,000 people, I never felt alone,.

  • @mariebrooks7341
    @mariebrooks7341 Місяць тому +1

    Even on a group cruise, I still have my own cabin. I am a travel agent and took a small group of family and friends on a short cruise. They wanted to do their own thing and I as available if they needed anything, THEY DIDN'T, which was awesome and ME time for doing what I wanted just like my solo cruises. I did link up with them sometimes for a meal or before an excursion since we all had different excursions. They loved it and are ready to go again.

  • @sherylvaillancourt446
    @sherylvaillancourt446 Місяць тому +2

    As a new older solo, thanks for the info, especially solo supplement.

  • @jurgenmuck3102
    @jurgenmuck3102 Місяць тому +1

    I'm a confident solo traveller and I'm German, and that's why I'm a staring-expert. 😂 I always win the staring contest... 😇And to be on the safe side I have a bunch of shirts and hoodies with the imprint "Yes, I'm cruising solo! And I love it!"

    • @hymnodyhands
      @hymnodyhands 11 днів тому

      Ich bewundere Ihr Selbstvertrauen --- I admire your confidence!

  • @gin376
    @gin376 Місяць тому

    Just did my first solo trip had an amazing time! I joined a fb group and met some amazing people. I was solo, but I wasn’t completely alone.

  • @debracartier2947
    @debracartier2947 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for the tips Jay! I’m going on my first solo cruise for my birthday in October and I’m not really nervous. But, it’s a 7 day cruise and being alone that long makes me a little anxious. I’ve traveled alone before but, it was to meet up with friends. But, as a empty nester, I’m ready for a new adventure! 😁

  • @Place2travel
    @Place2travel Місяць тому +2

    Best video on this subject 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thanks

  • @Nrustica
    @Nrustica Місяць тому +3

    Wait staff can be especially annoying to solo diners. Repeatedly asking me questions with my mouth full

  • @robertfoerster566
    @robertfoerster566 Місяць тому

    I loved my first solo cruise after 10 cruises with others. Go with zero expectations, other than some nice food and relaxing and just let the world come (or go) to/from you. I was very fortunate to be approached by two people on the first night dining to join them, I moved my seat at the martini bar to let a group of four sit together and we hung out on and off throughout the cruise!
    Now I never went in expecting any of that, I also ate alone a few nights at the restaurant and I was just fine with that. Now of course, being talkative and carrying an air of openness etc., does help but you could enjoy yourself even if not. If you are outgoing and wishing to make connections, I always suggest some bright clothing and being chatty with the crew, others will notice and if they too are open to cruise friends, they'll find you!

  • @sterlling1
    @sterlling1 Місяць тому

    I went to Italy with a friend but was solo most of the time. It was wonderful

  • @1PrinceJay
    @1PrinceJay Місяць тому

    February was my 1st solo cruise and I absolutely loved it and doing it again Next February (to escape the Michigan winters).

  • @lindakegler7700
    @lindakegler7700 27 днів тому

    I have started taking more solo cruises. I usually take my daughter but most of the time she doesn’t want to do any fun things. She prefers staying in the room on her laptop. She brings most of her food back to the room too. I am tired of paying all the extras for her to go b/c I am basically by myself anyway. So now I have 2 solos booked. So far I have been on 6 solo cruises and have thoroughly enjoyed them.😊

  • @TinaBiebe
    @TinaBiebe Місяць тому +1

    I cruise solo as I’ve been unmarried my entire life, and I just have to budget accordingly buy have a fantastic time. I appreciated that NCL had the loosely solo
    facilities on their Bliss and Getaway but many times my travel agent scored me an upgrade so I had a balcony on my Encore birthday cruise in 2020. Next year I’m cruising solo to Alaska for a mini-suite. I’ve shared hotels and cruise cabins in the past and have had to deal with everything from snorers to waking me up after they’ve been partying. I’d rather just have my own. It’s more relaxing, if i stay onboard I’ll have a book or a camera. I’m never bored and I have usually made friends through Cruise Critic and I always meet people. It’s a great adventure.

  • @joycelynngloverellison4395
    @joycelynngloverellison4395 Місяць тому

    Thank you for these tips.

  • @bubbles205
    @bubbles205 Місяць тому

    Great info

  • @rosalynnecole23
    @rosalynnecole23 Місяць тому

    Excellent tips J!

  • @kellyssong
    @kellyssong Місяць тому +2

    Thanks, Justin. I enjoy cruising solo.

  • @PR-fr6ko
    @PR-fr6ko Місяць тому

    Great video, Jay.

  • @christinelopez3195
    @christinelopez3195 Місяць тому

    Thank you for the great ideas.

  • @ParrotplaySix
    @ParrotplaySix Місяць тому

    Years ago (probably in the 70's) when I travelled single a few times, the cruise lines had what was called a quad cabin. They would put the singles in there who didn't want a entire cabin. When I was young I couldn't afford a cabin and I wanted to cruise, paying 1/4th of a cabin was very inexpensive. Times where different then and I never had a problem.

  • @eunicerofsky2089
    @eunicerofsky2089 Місяць тому +2

    I found that couples prefer to be with couples. When traveling single you are better off socializing with other singles, when eating in a restaurant ask to be seated with other passengers. It is an uncomfortable experience for a new widow or widower who is traveling alone for the first time, please sort them out and make them feel included and comfortable

  • @nay0333
    @nay0333 19 днів тому

    Solo Cruiser here and I love it

  • @woahdaniel
    @woahdaniel Місяць тому

    I see you with the 48 Laws of Power, incredible book

  • @deepshotone
    @deepshotone Місяць тому

    I cruised solo back in 2015 out of long Beach. I met a lot of cool people and enjoyed my quiet time. Loved it

  • @cutetrinilawyer
    @cutetrinilawyer Місяць тому

    I'm going on a cruise July 28th from Barcelona with 27 people. We ended up with an odd number of people and I volunteered to go into a cabin alone. So even though it's not a solo cruise, I love the fact that I can do what I want by default!

  • @wkndgrltrp
    @wkndgrltrp Місяць тому

    I have a stressful job, so my intention is always to relax. I booked a solo cabin on Virgin at midnight when their Mermaiden sailing opened and all the cabins in that category were sold out by the next day. I met a cougar flavored jellybean on my last cruise. It wasn't a good look. Don't think I've ever had people staring at me eating alone. Even when I traveled with others I've eaten alone. I find people have been friendly and will strike up a conversation.

  • @olgaquirarte4946
    @olgaquirarte4946 Місяць тому

    Good tips!

  • @dianethompson2295
    @dianethompson2295 Місяць тому

    Great solo traveler tips. Thank you!

  • @LJLMETAL
    @LJLMETAL Місяць тому

    I've only been on one Cruise, and I plan on going back to that particular Cruise, every year. I love Heavy Metal Music, and that Cruise is what it is based around.

  • @crazy4dariver
    @crazy4dariver Місяць тому

    NCL..moonwalked to the bar from the smoking section. Women half my age were suddenly interested. (My crew at the bar were shocked)

  • @tuscany4445
    @tuscany4445 Місяць тому

    On Mardi Gras currently 🎉 yea it's alot of ppl solo maybe due to the holiday..I'm guessing a tip can be if you want to surround yourself with others around the holiday's..Solo Cruise❤

  • @DanetteSWhite
    @DanetteSWhite Місяць тому

    Thanks for the tips. I've never cruised solo.

  • @mvsgeek
    @mvsgeek Місяць тому

    I love solo cruising. I love cruising with family/friends. I love cruising! My last cruise (15 day Panama Canal with Total Eclipse) was a solo trip. I even celebrated my birthday on that cruise. Never felt lonely. Met many nice people and a few people that I tried to avoid. (haha).

  • @chandradaniels1332
    @chandradaniels1332 Місяць тому +1

    I agree I always travel solo now

  • @mikeycj
    @mikeycj Місяць тому +1

    People don't care as much as you think they might. Go out and have fun.

  • @DennisH1968
    @DennisH1968 Місяць тому +1

    I will actually be taking a cruise out of Miami tomorrow but with a friend and his boyfriend. Last October I did take my first solo cruise and I was nervous about it and then the first day or so I was thinking I made a mistake. Like you said, you have to put yourself out there and that’s what I did; went to the solo meetup group and also the LGBTQ group and met some great people. It ended up being one of my best cruises I’ve taken. I know I’ll do it again for sure

  • @barrymckeever9738
    @barrymckeever9738 Місяць тому

    Great video J, never cruise alone but sounds like it could be enjoyable!! Like you said you never know who you could meet!!!! 😊

  • @maguiwallace8078
    @maguiwallace8078 29 днів тому

    As an introvert, I am that person that love being alone and left alone. I don't like to talk when eating, so I'm perfectly content eating by myself. Actually, I'm going on a MSC cruise and I haven't seen the option to reserve a solo table. Seating with strangers is very stressfull for me. Beside polite conversation, I don't need more interaction at all.

  • @MyLeg.
    @MyLeg. Місяць тому

    Honestly, I wish I had the social skills to cruise solo 🤣 for now I’ll probably keep cruising in a group.

  • @CookieCoCo_OG
    @CookieCoCo_OG 25 днів тому

    When I am traveling alone it doesn’t bother me about everyone being booed up. I am not looking for a boo. I am here for a good time BY MYSELF. I am that person you were talking about being weird cause I do not talk to anyone and do not want anyone to talk to me 😂😂😂

  • @MonkeyDKLuffy777
    @MonkeyDKLuffy777 Місяць тому

    Just got off Mardi Gras today!! It was sooo much fun!!

  • @crazy4dariver
    @crazy4dariver Місяць тому

    True..once tapped..you are done. And if you are solo ANNOUNCE IT. 10 DAY Mexico the third wheel HOTNESS and I started talking and pretty much paired up through excursions and the works. She's back in her relationship..and we still talk! Winner winner chicken dinner

  • @AzDoll714
    @AzDoll714 Місяць тому +2

    Personally, if I were to go on vacation alone it would be to get away from people and not to socialize with strangers.

  • @vmbay2212
    @vmbay2212 Місяць тому +1

    Totally agree…. A mutual friend and his wife invited six couples to go on a cruise with them; out of the blue, the husband calls everyone and states “Their” Divorcing” thus cancelled their cruise. Sidenote: Incredibly the host of the cruise was expecting the other six couples to cancel their cruises; in solidarity of them getting a divorce?!

    • @yushengwixoss
      @yushengwixoss Місяць тому

      I guess he thinks like he is having divorce and you guys should not go for fun because it is not respectable and not appropriate?

  • @tishr9670
    @tishr9670 Місяць тому

    Going on first cruise ever solo on virgin. Im excited.

  • @lynnfriel
    @lynnfriel Місяць тому

    I have been solo cruising for the past 3 years.
    My considerations might be different as a female solo cruiser. My main goal is 'to see the world.' Knowing how to deal with unwanted attention and what to do when you get unwanted advances is crucial. Meeting people in the Facebook cruise groups is a great way to meet people before you get there, but be careful when giving out too much information to people just because you met them in the group.
    Princess cruises often will drop their solo supplements on their last-minute sailings. You can change options from 2 people to 1 and sort by price to find some very cheap options.
    I want to comment on your dining piece. Eating by myself was the hardest part when I started solo cruising. I have found that bringing a Kindle with something I want to read helps. In fact, as soon as I have something I want to read at a steakhouse, my neighbors will decide they want to chat, lol! Happy solo cruising, all!

  • @nursecory7033
    @nursecory7033 Місяць тому

    Agent J you are 2 weeks late for me. Yet I still appreciate the info bro. Thank you. I live in Tampa.