Aging & Alone: Homeless, Living in Canada at 70 Years Old
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
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Canada has become almost impossible to live in even for those with jobs and an education. Leaving our most at risk without hope. It's all starting to unravel and fall apart but no one wants to do anything about it. This is the story of how a 70 year old woman, who worked hard in Canada, still fell through the cracks and became lost in homelessness. The cost of living has made it impossible for her to escape, and now she relies on the church for aid.
I have an Update video for her being uploaded this Friday (06/21/2024) with more info on where she is now and ways to help.
Here is a GOFUNDME for her if anyone wants to do anything that way: gofund.me/dfc7ca23
Please leave a like or comment if you are able, as it helps a lot. Thanks for everyone who has watched and shared.
IT surprise me alot carribbean women make a plan to go back in their Jamaica
They Nevers come back
❤ God bless her keep her safe give her strength to go on day by day
@@sunshineandpositivity4life wow I am french carribbean IT is the same as you
We're you able to give her a donation? I pray you didn't take "NO" for an answer.
I don’t give 2 craps about anything my mother ever did to me…she’ll NEVER be homeless…if I can help her, I will! I pray this woman is in a loving home ASAP.
In kenya they have channels where they postvpeiokes plight and direct contact to these people and the harambee spirit" of being your brother"s keeper " very much still alive in kenya- people even chip noneyband build poor houses and give them sources of livelihood- this woman would've been helped very quickly.wish her contacts were on here to send her something.Im in Africa but would spare some money and send her even though not working at the moment. the Chanel could set up a way to help her so we can teach her pleeease.Could NEVEEEEER be my mother suffering like that ,NEVEEEERRR.
I agree wif u .
I know that's right!!! No matter what she did or didn't do, I would never allow her to be homeless, hungry, broke, nothing.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
amen
My mother was an abusive narcissist...I ran away at 15....when she became feeble in old age...and no longer capable of hurting me, I went back and helped her when she wouldnt see a doctor with cancer...she passed shortly after....have love in your heart for your enemies...especially if its family....I never hated her...God helped me to understand....
Times are changing. Adult children of abusive parents are done. Mistreat your children, THIS video will be the outcome.
You are such a wise and loving individual. Praying that God bless you for humbling yourself in your mothers time of need❤️❤️❤️❤️
You will be Blessed for this 🙏 ❤❤
@@toebeans3985depends on mistreatment. If it’s discipline that’s not mistreatment! Children can be aholes! But they too will see once they have kids!
Your mother probably was mistreated too.. it runs in the history of families.. but you can break that cycle and you did by turning the other cheek!
Lord please give this precious woman a home and restore her life and son to her.
In the Name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen!
We know The Lord hears our prayers, soon they'll both find peace❤
Amen to that.
Amen and Amen
RESTORE her son and her lord in just name amen
Amen.
IDC my Mother will NEVER BE HOMELESS AS LONG AS I BREATHE!
Your mother is a lucky woman to have a daughter like you. Blessings to you and yours🌹
Amen
Amen!
Yes Sam ❤
Amen 🙏🏽 but this woman had a son… so that’s a different story. Most of them don’t care about ageing parents. Facts.
The church should be helping this beautiful woman of God with a place to live.
Where's the Church? Why are we not helping? Stop keeping cds in banks! Help people!
Why the church? They are limited in what they can do. How about people start helping people instead of passing it on. People want a lot but they offer little.
@@sondrasmith2691The "church" is a pimp's paradise. Doors swing in one direction only. I have not come across one that follows the Ephesian model. The mega churches dont build homes for elderly nor do they have shelters for the abused or for those with addiction issues. The church "leaders" live high in the hog and speak flowery words with no action or fenuine concern for the less fortunate. That has been our experience. No wonder Christianity is on the wane--right along with other do nothing religious sects.
@@Altamau They are idol worshippers who are in no way limited as evidenced by the lifestyles of "The Rich and Famous " leaders.
@@sondrasmith2691you who is so quick to point the finger to the Church, assuming you yourself do not attend the Church, I ask you: if you were homeless(God forbid) would you go knocking on the Churches door? To your info, the Church helps so but so many people, entire families, people go beyond their private lives, health and wealth to help the others and you have no idea. Maybe you should volunteer and stop talking without knowledge.
God bless you
God please protect this woman.
DO NOT mistreat your children
Because the Lord may punish you in this life
@cutthechicken194 you don't have to mistreat your children. They are all taught to ignore their parents by the time they get into their 20's. You have to be independent the western society says. Then in their late 40's they regret for not spending enough time.
@xiondFirst No it's not taught, it's experience. When someone takes advantage of your age & inexperience to do wrong, staying away is the natural & logical response.
No one doesn't just cut off connection with their parents without justification. While no one should be homeless. I'm certain her son has his reason for cutting off the relationship with his mom.
As a Jamaican, A LOT of Jamaican parents are toxic and traumatize their children. Then act innocent like they are the victims. Things aren't always as they appear.
I reserve full judgement because her son was not interviewed. We don't know what his experience has been with her or what he had to endure.
As a Jamaican, I can attest that nowadays Jamaican people in general are toxic including the children. We don’t know why he no longer cares for his mother. There can be a myriad of factors that none of us are privy to. He may just be a wicked son or even have mental health problems. Don’t speculate.
Regardless that's your mother. Not unless the mom sexually abuse his son then I can understand that. If not then I don't understand the mere fact that when you born you are taken care of by your mom.
@@MOVE2DALLAS although we do not know the full story, I agree with the OP. Until we have heard her son’s side of the story, we can’t judge. Her son doesn’t owe her care if she indeed was a busive. There are many elderly people who were monsters in their youth. If she did not provide care for him in his most vulnerable state, then he doesn’t have to extend care to her.
@@MOVE2DALLAS If you are not a child of a Jamaican, who immigrated to a foreign country, and is from the lower economic strata, PLEASE WITHHOLD JUDGMENT. A lot of people commenting on here know NOTHING about Jamaican mothers, particularly immigrant mother's and how they treat their children.
@@kimbella1911I've seen enough to know he's probably justified. I'm not even Jamaican but I've had problems with my mother too and sometimes, it's just not possible to maintain relationships built on a toxic history.
In a sane society there is no reason why anybody should be homeless.
That's not how life works.
@@beastfromtheabyssokay, how life works?
In a sane society, parents don’t mistreat their children, so they don’t end up homeless.
@@sjoncb No!! But not when you are hounded by the government agencies and take student loans and their third party collectors follow to your jobs and break your confidence and all you thrive.
I believe that lots of these supports are cost by Accounting and Logical errors..
When you claim the credits then it affects your person even if you already received a reduced income..
I have a story to tell off Camera and it will help in getting us on tract.
Of course we are going to be homeless if your benefits reduced over and over in a 3 years span and especially losing your partners and you are let with the shared loads and increase legal fees for made up legal fees that no benefits derived from.
I have been hearing lots of these issues and more.. This is not fighting any government but the system needs to be overhaul and the not just leaving the workers to choose who should get what?
No matter what my mother had done, she will never be homeless and alone
Even allowing you to get sa? Please, if you had a great mom them be glad. Not everyone does.
DO NOT mistreat your child
Because the Lord may punish you in this life
Honestly, I can't imagine treating your mother this way. My mom was everything to be. I was her caregiver for 13 years, I took care of her, fed her, bathed her and dressed her until the day she died. She passed away in my home with me holding her hand up until she took her last breath. My mom did everything for me when I was a child. I couldn't live with myself if I hadn't done the same for her when she needed someone to take care of her. I hope her son sees this and realizes what a heal he's being.
God bless you always. I did the same for 15 years and God is always there for me. I cannot imagine how anyone could treat their mom like this
Well my grandma allowed her husband to molest my sisters and stayed with him till this day so stop judging her son is not here to defend themselves I don’t know why y’all act like it’s impossible for moms to be abusive or bad mothers that’s great you have a good experience but not everyone has
We don't know what this mother was like for her son not to want anything to do with her. It's extremely rare that a child, especially a son, would abandon his mother for no reason. Yes there are some horrible wicked children out there that despite their parents best efforts, they're selfish and only care for themselves. If that were the case in this scenario I doubt the mother would want anything to do with him. Many people who were fortunate enough to have wonderful loving mothers will never understand the pain that children with evil narcissistic mothers went through. They will always uphold mothers as heroes who can do no wrong.
My daughter is only a teenager but I know she could do something like this to me. She would definitely leave me homeless. And guess what my crime was? Being to soft with her. My mother was very harsh and cruel to me so I decided to make sure I'd be the opposite for my daughter and now she hates me for it. There are no rule books to parenting. I wish I had a daughter who loved me back.
Not everyone had the mother you had. It's important to recognize that everyone has a different life story and it's not always pretty picture.
No one especially a senior citizen should be homeless.Shame on her son
I agree ...but there are two sides to a story. We don't know what type of mother she was.🙏🙏🙏
I agree at least he's here because she never aborted him.
No one wants to abandon their Mom. She’s reaping what she’s seen.
The Bible in Ephesians 6: 1 -3 ,
reminds us;
6 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”-which is the first commandment with a promise- 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
It doesn’t say if you feel like it. There have been many adult children who have been unhappy concerning their upbringing, and/or how they were raised. If they had a nice house, money etc… yet, they love their parents. Many of this generation are ungrateful and disrespectful to their parents. Nevertheless, one day they too will become parents and ‘no one teaches you what kind of son and/or daughter you were like your own children’. Galatians 6:7
Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for you reap whatever you sow,…
Shame on the government too so many years working for this country and nothing at the end
We need to remember that we grow old while children grow big. Once a man, twice a child. We need to remember that. Hopefully someone will reach out to her. Once there is life, there is hope
Amen 🙏!
Profound and wise beyond words
People, locate this woman and bless her!
Her statement, "I gave them all of my heart and now I am alone" reminded me of a piece of advice my mother-in-law once gave me. She said, "Love them with all of your heart but do not give them all of your heart because they will take it and leave you with nothing. And sadly I now know and see what she meant. Praying she will find a safe home and good people who will make sure she is not alone and forgotten.
So sad, hope she finds a home with God help. God is the only one we are suppose to love with all our heart , God is the only one that never leaves us . We are suppose to love our love ones from our heart, but not with all our heart . God alone deserve all our heart .
She won't even take anything and is homeless. What a beautiful soul. How could her son abandon her?
She probably traumatized him because she herself was traumatized. Don’t shame him without knowing what type of relationship they had.
Oh what a beautiful soul...
Because she is not as bad as sounds. Someone who is really strugling would have taken the money.
@@LaAerialCompassion goes farther than judging, your turn will come one day! Knock knock
@@stays222 cut it out, we can be compassionate and without being fools. You must not know the damage a toxic mother can create.
I'm not specifically speaking to this woman, as I don't know what she's really like. But people need to stop bashing her son without getting the whole picture. I was made aware that an old school friend was homeless. I sat down with her while she cried that she couldn't find a job, and that no-one in her family would help her. I took this woman off the streets, gave her a room rent-free. All I asked for was the very occasional babysitting if my husband or I had to work late (maybe three times a month). Within a week, I could see why nobody in this woman's family wanted anything to do with her. She was demanding, dirty and lazy. The third time I asked her to babysit, she grumbled and said that she was tired of having to watch the kids. Mind you, at the time the youngest was about 8, and the others were teenagers. They were totally able to take care of themselves, I just needed an adult in the house. She literally complained about everything, all while getting free food and never lifting a finger. Things came to a head when she started sneaking her druggie boyfriend in the house at night. After I warned her and she still did it, I kicked both of them out. The police had to get involved when she started making threats to burn my house down while we were all asleep. I learned my lesson, I'll never fall for someone's sob story again.
not everyone is same. never ask things back when u give
yep, there is two sides to s story. some family members tell a good story to the public for self pity. my son is much like hers. dont mean i would end up on the streets. she could keep her dignity.
@Irod 567 some people are not grateful you was a blessing to her you didn't have to do none of the things you did you is a angel
My heart is cold at this point; I'm afraid to be sorry for anyone. I have a disabled child and she holds my heart.
I too have helped a homeless person they stole from me... they were messy unclean no hygiene just tossed whatever was in their hands right where they were. Their stories of the streets was more normal to them than conversation and they were just negative and about everything!!
I love that she is crocheting a quilt💞 I'm sure that relaxes her & keeps her sane. God Bless her🙏🏾
She said the quilt is her friend. She loves to crochet.
Yes❤️❤️🤲🏽
She's the daughter of Zion. Things will get better
I have to believe that 💯
@@weidaingram2325 And you are right by not believing it too. It's a lie and is behind much suffering kin the world.
All Praise's 🙌🏽 to The Most High Creator 🙏🏽
So all the people unfortunately do do overcome their adversity aren't the sons & daughters of "Zion"?
HalleluYAH
God, please reveal the love between this mother and son and remove the darkness that stands between them 🙏🏻
💕🌺🥭Lovely Beautiful Sweet prayer I love this, exactly what the situation needs. Infinite likes!
I agree with you
Amen
Why?? Some kids are sociopaths.
Amen
Can't imagine to leave your mum in the cold at 71!🤐 and only child..crazy world for someone who has given everything..beautiful soul.
Churches, step up to help these elderly people. Stop what is going on with elderly people becoming homeless and dependent on shelters or even living on the streets. God bless this woman. 🧡🙏🙏
I remember when churches were for the community they paid light bills gave housing food clothing. They don’t do that no more because it’s not a church it’s about them.
Many people would like to place the responsibility on the local church, but all churches are not large...as a matter of fact, most aren't. A church might only have 50 members, with half of them being her age...a 4th being school-aged children and a 4th actively working. Churches do a lot with very little sometimes. Maybe the creator of this channel can reach out and ask for donations as other channels are to help her get into a place. If he could raise 50,000, he could pay for her to get into a place for a few years.
First;
Why are churches still tax-exempt when they no longer do anything for the people?
If we had all the taxes churches SHOULD be paying like everyone else, we wouldn't have a housing crisis!
At 5:40 she praises the church for helping her. She said the church has really helped her and if she didn't have them, she didn't know where she would be.
Where are your Godly Christians???????
Thank God for Jesus. He is our best Friend. Faithful and true 💕🙏
لا إله الا الله وحده لاشريك له له الملك وله الحمد وهو على كل شيء قدير
@@طيبةالمدينة-ز3ثwell his son Jesus is with him. Scriptures prove it time and time again!
I'm 60 and grateful for my caring kids Im sorry for this lady God bless you
You loved them. They will love you back.
God wrap your arms around this lady, 🙏
I'm also a senior citizen and believe me this is a worry for most of us! My heart breaks for her
Me 2
Same here, so worried and preparing in every way possible 🙏🏻
Sometimes mothers give too much. Of themselves to their kids. The children becomes ungrateful. I have one child, a son, I am watching him like a hawk.
Sometime as the mother gives nurturing , they also give hell to a developing mind which cause them to hate you later on
And sometimes they’re liars!
Right... it has to be a balance
@Jana-vj3vf There's a reason for everything. Sometimes parents think they've done a great job, but in reality weren't as great as they thought. Kids also grow up, look back on their past, and realize where their parents failed. Some reach a point where they realize their parents did the best they could. Some may have trauma and have to cut off parents.
I am from Africa living in africa I took my son abroad to study for a master's degree he got a job in a bank Thank God I am a retiree and I get my pension salary every month I am staying in my house 🙏
Mercy Lord! Open doors for this lady. In Jesus name! Amen!
I would happily take her in. My family would embrace her and treat her with dignity.
Please help her
Shame on the Canadian government! What kind of sick society do we live in? Seniors who worked all their lives, to now end up on the street. Shame! Shame!
The extremely high rents are the bigger part if the problem. Gvmnt doesn't control them, I wish theyd put a cap on how much landlords are charging.
I'm wondering if the lady lost her resident status, if she was out of the country too long.
The church is helping, I hope it's sufficient....
I can't understand her son & family not being in her life, it's not typical of Jamaican families.
This is absolutely sinful 🙏!!!
I'm also 71 and I find that Canada has a tremendous amount of support for seniors. way more than most countries. It can vary from province to province, and if you choose to live downtown Toronto that comes at a cost. I live very comfortably on my CPP and OAS. Luckily I own a small house with a garden but there's subsidized seniors housing in all provinces. She says she's "grateful for the $2 she gets to spend" even though it's far more than $2 and she doesn't sound very grateful. Yes, we'd all love to retire to Costa Rico but that's not a very realistic option for anyone but the top 2%.
Shame on her family
I understand from her words that she is not homeless. Lonely, yes but not homeless or in need.
This breaks my heart… i wish my mother waa alive 😢
Wow u right ✅️ my mompass are way to ❤ I miss her 😢 so much
My mom is gone to 😢I miss her so much 😢
My mom is gone and not a day pass without me thinking of her-Or picturing her smile or the way her laugh sounded -
i Miss my mom💕🙏🏽
I feel for this beautiful lady. It's very rare for a Jamaican son to reject his mother. Jamaican men are usually protective of their mothers. With all the struggling she's going through she's still upbeat and hopeful. I hope she gets real help.
@nubiacairo8835, according to some of these comments saying the same thing has happened to them, it may not be as rare as you think. Times have changed and children against parents is a sign of the final days.
Your Only hearing one side of the story.
How do you know the son is a jamaican?
@@andreaphang68 the lady is Jamaican because of her accent. Other islands have similar accents that are NOT similar to us Jamaicans.
@@andreaphang68 1 minute into the recording the interviewer says that she came from Jamaica 😳
Lord bless this lady with a home , nice of you young man, putting this out there,you’re a blessing.
Honor thy mother and father that thine days maybe long. There is no evil emanating from this lady. Just a good soul.
@annefalola9278 Obviously you were not abuses to the point of being beating to bleed with a leather belt and your body being offered to pĕdos against money. So for you, it is easy to forgive and be judgemental
@@clickyici7255are you her son,?
@@ThereispowerinthenameofJesus almost
To no a person is to live with um. Ain't no child would let their mother stuffer if they are a good parent idc who u are. I'm talking from experience
Church needs to HELP the eldetly & widows more than a hug & being nice. HELP
How do you live with not speaking to your parent(s) ? What about forgiveness? Unfathomable. God, please continue to bless this lady. Take away the pain from her aching heart. Thank you.
There's always a reason. "Come see me and come live with me are 2 different things". The full story is not being told...........
Amen. Jamaican parents can be difficult, harsh, absent, non emotional, strict disciplinarians .
You have nonidea what kind of parent this woman was. Please don't judge a situation you know nothing about! No sane child wants to abandon their mother.
I take it you are not Jamaican, they can be some of the worst parents you will ever find.
@@rubylimey7614it’s trauma. Adult kids need to learn forgiveness and understanding . Parents need to take accountability for their wrong and apologize to their adult children.
She's adorable, she's smart, she's beautiful, eloquent and I love her. Having lost my mom this makes me tear up. Why would one do this to your very own mother and leave them homeless. None of us is perfect, God have mercy and open doors for this Mother. 🙏🏾🙏🏾. And if the son is watching this, May you be forgiven.
Gifted lady - her blanket looks so good
Buy one. Get buyers for her.😊
Additionally this lady has the ability to become rich she does crochet very nicely. I don’t think she realizes that she can crochet for a living. She can make millions opening a business by sewing, she is excellent. This lady has the ability and talent to get out of poverty, stress and her circumstances is keeping her ignorant. I hope the right people reach out to her and puts her back on track. Go and make your millions through your business and pass down generational wealth to multiple generations. Its best to do it the creators way.
Millions? You crazy af😂😂😂
@@LauriannaWhite Right.
😂@@LauriannaWhite
Millions through crotcheting?
She could make a living but not millions
Wow u r so right
This is so sad. My son pushes me away too and i was a Loving above and beyond mom with morals and provided a nice place to live. Spent time reading, cooking & playing with my son. Very family oriented and also provided private education...as a single mom. I dont get it either. God bless this lady. I pray this woman finds a family tovlove her.
God bless you
Don’t worry, it’s rational for (((single mothers))) to not get it.
Same here but God knows ❤.
She resembles my mother, I couldn't imagine not speaking for any reason. She seems like such a kindred spirit, I'd give all I could to help my mother.
Thank you for giving this woman a platform.
Thank you FATHER GOD for Blessing/placing your protective hedge around/about our senior sister, all the children/disabled/senior citizens/homeless spiritual family out in life that are alone, forgotten, abused/ mistreated!!!! We thank you FATHER GOD for inspiring the church, federal/local government, as well as we the community to reach out and help those that are struggling with the disparities of life!!!!!! Thank you LORD, for Blessing each of us to continue to pray for one another without ceasing, until homelessness is obliterated and help is Blessed to everyone in need in JESUS name we pray Amen, Amen, Amen!!!!!!!
Same happened to my aunt. 2 sons who don't want her in their lives. She was a good mom, always worked & put them through school. IDK how people can treat their mothers that way.
That’s why I don’t really care about my brothers as much, they are shitty people
Unless you were living in their house it’s not your place to decide what kind of upbringing they had . And men are suppose to leave the home and move on.
What did the mother do to her sons?
Two beautiful human beings, one young, one old. May God always bless and keep them well.
As well as you ❤
This just breaks my heart, please Heavenly Father help this beautiful woman.
Bless her with a portion to sustain the rest of her life.
Thank you Lord. For listening to my prayer request. ✨🕊️🙏🏽💕
WHO DID THIS TO THEIR OWN MOTHER!!!😢 My mother passed away month and half ago and Im still crying! I would give ANYTHING to have my mom back and some ungrateful does this to their own mom! Smh!😢
Sorry for the loss of your Mom. There is No other loss like it. Hang in there.
@@angelag.johnson1985 Thank you so very much!♥️🙏
While I agree with your sentiment. You don’t really know the true story in this case. She is only presenting her own side of the story. Some parents can be hell on wheels as well
Only hearing one side of the story. I’ve heard some stories about toxic and abusive parents causing children to run to preserve their mental health . This is sad
@@selvinlinton You're not perfect, no one is perfect! Honor thy mother and father!
Many elderly , immigrant women in America who came and worked as maids and Nannie’s for the rich are now homeless . They were paid small salaries and didn’t have families of their own now find themselves alone and homeless.
I was the only child my mom had. She passed away, 3 years now. To say that I miss her, is an understatement. Oh we had our differences and I wasn't always a pleasant child, but telling your mother you don't want to see her? I can't even imagine . She looks like a very amiable person. God will provide for her, I'm quite sure. Her son will regret his decision. ❤
Only also. Lost my mother when I was 23. I am now 70. I miss her every day of my life
She will rise and be strengthened by her life. Longevity and peace is her name. She is already blessed!
Amen!
Yes it’s happening everywhere me 2
Children don’t understand the aging process. But they will! Life is short and youth is gone before you know it
Be safe and well out there my friend
And elders forget what it’s like to be young and forget to give young people any grace or autonomy. I’m very familiar with Jamaican women. They are overbearing, narcissistic mothers and a lot of them do end up driving their sons away.
I love this lady. She is such a humble and genuine person. I pray that God will pour out his blessings and protection upon her and provide her with permanent housing. Thank you for sharing her story ❤ 🙏🏼🤲🏼
You love her?!?
Thank you for talking to her and being a listening ear and having empathy. That made me happy for her ❤
I’m here for you momma. Come to America and stay with me. Praying for you and love you!😘❤️🙏🏾 May the Lord bless and keep you.
This is total wickedness from any Jamaican kids to their parents, we were not brought up that way.
I pray to God that her son will find it in his heart to love his mother, just like God wanted him to .
You are in my prayers, mama , I’m asking God to open doors for you that will shock you in your wildest dream, amen!
You can adopt her as your mom
Maybe she was wicked to him, ever thought about that?
Of course she was wicked to him😂@@cross75man75
Of course she was wicked to him😂@@cross75man75
Mothers go through alot these days I know of a lady whose only son put her out because of a lady terrible situation with all what mothers give just for the sucess of their kids
Let’s continue pray for all those going through challenges and not to forget to give gratitude each week wake.
I hope this lady's got somewhere to live now and that she and her son have reconciled.
I won't speak on her situation because I don't know what actually transpired for her son to feel this way. My husband and I had to choose our children's mental health over his mother, but that's not the story she has told. My mother inlaw seems just as sweet as this lady and she said she's worked all of her life just as this lady, far from the truth🤷🏾♀️ I cried as if she was my mother time and time again. Some people don't see themselves in the same light as others viewing them.
This was heartbreaking. My god. Bless her and keep her. Please provide a way for her. Amen
Mom, please you are not alone, my only son married a woman from the Bahamas.
And she has always hated me, finally he texted and denied me being his mom.
And told me never to go contact he and his family, as he closes them over me anytime.
Chose to forgive them all, I still love them but will never try getting into his family.
Hang on in there mom, and Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. He will bring you out.
The same thing happened to me since my son married a Filipino girl. I put my trust in God to deliver us from this evil intrusion into our family . Keep praying keep trusting as it’s happening to lost of people. Losing our sons to evil women 😢
The Bible says "Woe to anyone who Forsakes their Maker. And Woe to anyone who Forsakes their Mother." What people don't realise is that eventually it will not End well for these sons. The same women will mistreat them in the future and show their true colours, the true evil 😈 that is within their hearts.
@user-bz5di7op4n May the Lord Answer all your Prayers and turn the hearts of all our children back to their mothers. Amen. 🙏 🙏 🙏 That is why we must Continue to Pray for our children.
Don't know what's going on these days....so ungrateful these kids. It seems to be a trend. Not only the sons, the daughters doing it too. They forget what goes around comes around....their kids is going to do the same thing to them sis.....she need to look some help from the govt. If needed. Don't they give pension over there? She work over there so many years and pay her tax....
@@PhillipWisdonmajority of Filipinos are family oriented & include both sides of family, even if other side is not Filipino _ poor, are happy with faith in the Lord. There are just evil people out there everywhere. Prayers to all🙏🙏🙏🙏
A beautiful woman with a heart of gold. Mum you are the best! Being resourceful at this age. God bless you.
I pray that one day your son will return back to you just like the prodigal son did.
Try to prepare for yourself so that you can take care of yourself as much as possible in your old age. I am 63. I spent 17 years as a caregiver to my elderly parents and my grandmother. I am an only child so there was no sibling to come forward and lighten the load, so to speak. I am a former stockbroker with the firm Morgan Stanley. One thing I learned while there is that people need to be prepared for old age from the moment they become 18. Many people don't realize how fast life will go by. Suddenly, they are elderly and they have not planned for the days when they will retire or perhaps not be able to work. Devoting oneself to a job or to children or a spouse is not enough. One also has to make plans around the fact that they may be old and alone one day.
You sound like me. Try to be prepared. You never know.
Our stories are similar growing up as an only child I did say the same as to prepare myself for the golden yrs even though I have children.
@Jade-nu9mt I’m not a only child & children. Still not counting on them.
@Jade-nu9mt Yes, I did at different times in my life and for different reasons. When I was a small child, my mom was always trying to find kids for me to play with. My mom had me at 32, while her friends had their children in their 20s. So all of those kids were older than me. When I was still playing with dolls, those kids were teenagers by then. I had some wonderful school friends after a while and we would get together to play. But sometimes, kids would come over and break up my toys and there were no repercussions, no punishment for them; they could just go home. As I got older into my teens and 20s, I also wished I had siblings because my parents would have had someone else to focus on besides me. I needed breathing space. When my parents became ill, I wished for siblings to at least be there to share things with, even if they couldn’t or wouldn’t help otherwise. After the deaths of my parents, I wished for siblings as other people who would have grown up in the same household with me so that we could all share memories. The only person that close to me now is my best friend since kindergarten. We are the main ones who remember our families and can share memories and insights about them and our experiences growing up.
@@rozchristopherson648 wow similar wishes! I grew up as the only child here in E. Africa , where every neighbors had 8-4 children. Raised by a widow my mum wouldn't want to have more children. I remember her friends would always tell her to get married and have more babies but she refused, she was all I had until I lost her in 2016 to throat cancer.
During childhood had to go to other houses to play where there were many children. I have always wished to have siblings especially when my mum was sick. Now I am a mum too of 2 and everyone who knows my story (which is weird here) is always encouraging me to have 4-6 babies which is really hard these days economy has changed.
Her mindset- seeing herself as queen, despite the circumstances is more sustaining than we know. ❤🙏🏾
All the comments condemning her son, please open up your pocketbooks and your home and support her. I'm sure you'll see a different side once you do. As someone who had to escape from my mother, I tried my hardest to secure her housing. But my mother is controlling, abusive, and prideful. Instead of accepting the help she arrogantly believed I would cave in and open my home back up to her. This time around I found the courage to stand my ground. It takes a lot for a child to sever ties with a parent. So before you cast your stones ask yourself what could have caused her son to sever ties with the woman who birthed and raised him.
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Men depart from home, where the heart of their mother lies, whereas women rarely do so. For some reason, it easier for a man to give up on his blood, be it his own children or mother. Men just move on without looking back. He will choose anything over his mother and to see a video of his mum crying for him will never breaks him. He is ignorant that he will grow old too and life will teach him best.
I’m a 66 year old mother of 3 adult children. All in their 40’s. My 2 daughters have chosen to distance themselves from me, I really wish I knew why, they were raised with all my love, never lacked for basics of life. My son is the one who treats me like his mom, we communicate regularly and are friends in his adult years. Please don’t judge all men the same!
@@charh3506 I am very sorry to hear your story. May God bless your son's life🙏🏽 I wish you good health and your heart to smile every day of your life, despite of what you are going through.
I have been abandoned by my daughter without a reason. Its not only men who do that.
I pray she gets all the help she needs
This is why we say generally better to have daughters than sons as a mother, daughters don't abandon their parents This easily, boys grown into men and some end up all about women and yes their families but while bussy caring for your wife and kids, your wife is taking excellent care of her own parents and leaves you looking like a clown and hope the boy has kids then he will know what goes around -comes around.Imagine your 70 yr old parent suffering while you are living well -hoooow?
@@allbyhisgrace8925daughters can be the worse when it comes to mothers! But the world is crazy so what can you expect now?
Alot of children are breaking off from their parents and not speaking to them these days. It's really sad. Family should always be there for each other.
Could it be the so called parents are the problem?
Always? Even if they're physically and s3xually abusive?
A lot of parents are , the problem
Bet if she won a lottery she would be found by her son.
nope. self orphan
Her Faith and Love is just so heart warming, I am thankful that God promise never to leave or forsake her ,Bless you angle❤
She needs support, however, we don’t know the full extent of the story. As someone who has had a mother do horrible things and never accept accountability….folks have reasons why they choose to go no contact with their parents. I hope she get helps and the support she deserves. Honestly, this economy and the way folks have to struggle to survive is huge reason why we have homeless seniors.
It could be his wife if he has one, there could be many reasons. We can't judge what we don't know.
Ive been through this also..its heartbreaking. You gotta learn how to take care of yourself in every way.
Maybe some people could donate some wool what a beautiful soul
She could knit a house
What a beautiful woman. I like her sunshine accent. Such a deserving soul.
I cared for my mum when she got sick for 3 years i lost her I miss her so much her son will regret it when his mum is not around anymore may that lady find a home. I am from England, and here renting is exp we hoping our new government will cap the rent so it can not keep rising we have got lots of homeless and we have 200, 000 may be more empty homes love sent to this lady may the sun start to shine again for her.
This is a sad situation to see an elder living in.
I think that there are many sides to a story, so I won’t judge her family without hearing their side.
I hope that the elder experiences a relief from her homelessness soon.
Most Jamaican people who moved to the UK (England) in the past 50 to 60 years, go back to their Caribbean islands after returning. It’s unfortunate that this lady suffers loneliness after 40 years living in Canada. I think after retirement,people should go back to their homelands. It’s better to die among friends and relatives.
I think that’s a very powerful statement. At the end of the day, family is what matters most. I think that’s probably the most important thing as well all age.
I'm not so sure that's good anymore...usually family and friends your age are no longer where u left them (whatever the reasons) and the younger ones are busy getting on with life...simple action towards u involves money..but..worst of all..medical system sucks in most of the parishes..money and good health u will be ok for the most part 😢
Yes, but what if they go back and most of the people they knew in their younger years have died? That happens too
Also, some of us send a lot home to friends and relatives who show no gratitude and will harm us directly or plot to harm us if we return. People are wicked.
Some Jamaican in England lonely too ,die on their own, some dnt have a house for them self .
What a nice young man and good interviewer too
A beautiful strong woman, mother, at 70 years old she is still showing resilience. She will rise above this situation. Her son will regret his actions and remember them in due course. His day will come.
He forgets he will be older and or someday be a father and never have the right answers on how to raise children!
My prayers are with her. 👑🪮🌺
What goes around comes around, Karma will come knocking at his door when he least expects it, one way or another.
A beautiful soul ❤. Peace and blessings to her and her son father god keep you arms wrapped around your children.
I would love to hear her son’s side of the story before jumping to conclusions. Very dangerous to judge situations based on one side. Hopefully this channel finds him and interviews him as well. May our Lord God provide for her needs🙏🏾
No matter whatsoever she might have done to him, for him not to call her, is a no no no. Our father hurts us, let our mother down until her death, and we never stop caring for him, when we have.
The Bible says to HONOR OUR PARENTS.
I still would like to hear his side of the story in order for me to assess and judge righteously until then, the jury is out 🙏🏾
I understand you’re need to hear the sons side. Regardless of the past, I hear one with a compassion for others, a desire to serve others, and one willing to bear her own troubles without burdening others.
That's what I was thinking 🤔, children don't do this for no reason. What did she do
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Do not leave her story.
People are so quick to take sides.
Can we hear the side of the son before judging?
Whatever the case might be, no ones leaves their mum homeless
God bless this lady. Thank you for taking the time to interview this amazing lady. If she lived by me I would be her friend. She is a cool person and great lady.
My mom could never be homeless, I love my mom so much. ❤ she have done so much for me and I really appreciate her so much. ❤❤❤❤
Watch this statement from our Lord..Honour thy father and mother that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.Watch it children !I pray God help her to find a home at this time of her life.
Amen
It's always like that , my neighbor used to be like that , his son would never stop by to see his father 😢
May God truly bless you sweet lady I know how u feel but trust in the lord god got yousomeone help this lady get a monthly room church help her God bless you sweet lady
Such a gracious soul. When she refused to take this young man's offer of help, that was true grace. God bless her, and may she find peace with her child while they both still have the chance to make up. Whatever harm they may have caused each other in the past. 'Forgive us our sins, as we forgive others their sins against us'.
Bless you momma...I feel you. I was married, worked, had two sons, adopted two girls, (family that fell into my lap) and two stepchildren. I poured myself out for my family. The children are grown, my husband and I split up, and I'm on my own.
If it weren't for Section 8 I would be right there with you. That terrifies me because I started out life as a homeless child. My sadistic, abusive father threw me out into the street when I was 15. It was rough, it was the 70s and there was nothing for a homeless child but foster care. The stories I heard from the kids running from that were horrific. That was not an option.
I survived all that, but I'm too old to go through it again. I. can't.
I'm so grateful that this awesome young man is helping you. I hope that people see this and follow his example, because they like to say, what can one man do? He has an idea...😏🌹👍🏽🔥💯🌹
May Allah swt help this woman. ameen
That’s the problem mama, you gave yourself away. As long as you live you can find your happy place inside of you. God bless you. 🥰🥰🥰
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That's a beautiful blanket.
81yrs. with the same story. Another Lady here at SHELTER, same story 71yrs. in Michigan USA
We're Greatfull to the Church here in Monroe, Oaks of Rightsousness.
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Something happened between both of them (mom and son) that she is NOT being honest about. I am sure there are other family members for her to reach out to for help. May God continue to help her maintain.
My sister in Christ I feel your pain...But God!!!. Keep on praying, God will pull all strongholds down. Seems to be a wonderful woman
Exactly what I taught. People have tried to help this lady and because of her pride and wanting to be independent she has refused help just like on the video. She is to be blamed. I'm a nurse and we offer group homes to them and they would rather go on the street. It's too bad.
She needss to take help and put away her pride. If she is serving god then she would know that help come in all forms from different people. I wish this lady would open her arms and welcome help but then again she is depressed hence her actions.
If A Parent Was Loving And Caring- They Would Never Be Left Alone To Fend For Themselves.
I don't know her story but there are exceptions. Some children can be wild
True. Parents, especially boomers don’t like to admit they were horrible parents. Kids grow unfortunately.
@@justinemirembe8910 Children Are Naturally Loyal And Loving To Their Parents- So If A Child Decides To Leave A Parent. That Says A Lot To Me.
My First Question To The Mother, Would be “What Did You Do That Made Your Child Go No Contact With You?”
@@moe_ramz Exactly And They Remember.
@@Lebo-Aaliyah Very true. It's one thing for them to be abusive and manipulative, in the past. Then, in present day, to admit their wrongs, apologize to their children, and change their ways by treating their children better.
Some of these parents are still horrible, abusive, manipulative, and malicious to their children to this very day. They aren't sorry for the pain that they put their children through and continue to do so. They just lie and act like they care for their own ego/self image.
With toxic parents, there is no love, no peace. They just want to use and abuse. Children get tired of their abuse and mind games.
Beautiful crocheting❤ PRAYERS FOR HER & OTHERS IN SAME SITUATION🙏🙏🙏🙏
She seems like a lovely lady it’s horrible what’s happening to her. May God cover her in safety and find her a home soon.
She has beautiful skin for 70 years! I live in B.C. in Canada and it is a living nightmare daily what has happened to the cost of everything. They have got to change the by-laws and it can't happen fast enough, to allow tiny home villages on all the empty acreages so that people like this can have a home, free from the tyrant landlords that are renting out homes for a kings ransom these days. Just horrible people in it for the dollar with no empathy. I have suffered at the hands of 2 in the last few years and I will sleep in my car before I will rent again . I am 70 also.
Yes she is
Many people have no idea what someone has endured. How many of you would take care of your abuser? The person who beat you, sexually assaulted you, verbally/emotionally abused you. A parent is not exempt from this. As a child, you are not responsible for the things that happened to you however, as an adult you are responsible for your healing. Keep that in mind as you judge others.
Indeed. A healed mind is not a bitter mind. A kind heart will demonstrate you're not like them. We will all stand before God and it is He who will open the book and judge us according to our deeds.
You don't have to be buddies, but honor God's Grace on your life. You may be the greatest mom ever... don't assume your kids will be any different. There doesn't have to be a reason...
His mercy is so great on this woman