Valkyrae's thoughts on Marriage
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After finding out about Abe and Wendy this hits different
THEY DIVORCED??!?!?
Why did they divorce ?
All I know is Abe has been living with Ryan Higa since the beginning of August after trying to save their marriage.
There are rumors going around that Wendy cheated because she didn't explain much and a lot of otv stopped following her on socials, but nothing is confirmed and I don't like putting that kind of unsubstantiated information out in the world because I know how the internet treats women, in general, let alone one they have active reasons to dislike.
@@469ka37 your comment as to be the most level headed i've seen about what happened, Wendy got destroyed by everyone without any shreds of evidence, so thank you for that.
@@469ka37 @glcsander Let's be honest. 90% of the group no longer does anything with Wendy. That with all the little slip-ups the group has done like the picnic stream for example. She joined the champions club 1000%.
Bro imagine telling someone you want a divorce at their funeral. That shit is FOUL.
Yeah lol the rest of the video was fine but saying death is divorce is funny
DUDE IMAGINE 😭🤣
I mean the marriage is void at death under the "til death do us part" clause of the agreement lol
GIVE ME A SIGH
*lights shut off* 💀
@@Sup-jz2ow Yeah, people acting like you stay married to a dead person lmao
Hahaha the way she said that’s so permanent!!
😂😂😂👏👏
She should have told Abe that😂
Found out recently that in the Philippines, divorce is illegal. All can think when she said that was "... yeah..." It's no wonder my parents are still together
And then goes on to list the reasons why you would get divorced
Divorce after death is wild! How you gonna slide me them papers on my coffin ⚰️
Fr I'd just burn them. Or rather the guy shoving me into the oven will on my behalf.
That's only if someone is petty
It's automatic divorce when you die bc it's practically a clause in the agreement "til death do us part" lol contract ends at death😂
Bro if they die and you're alive the marriage is over 😂
@@Nemesisxv2I know I was just making fun of the context because she used death a reason for divorce. It’s not a divorce if your spouse dies. You become a widow
I don’t think you need a divorce if you’re dead 🤣
i assumed she was implying like that if a family member died that sometime changes people and then they may want a divorce
@@athraledagt5784 No.
@@athraledagt5784 I didn’t even think of that lol..
She definitely meant when a close family member or a friend dies it can definitely lead to that. People change when they go through something like that
Well you will need to if you wanna marry again 💀
Prenup is smart af. The reasons she listed as to why people get divorced is valid, however, if you already thinking that, then marriage isn’t the lane for you😂
thisss
Your not wrong. But divorce makes the value of marriage less. You got people rushing into it too much.
Prenups don’t always do what you think. And it really only protects you from the money you had before marriage. If she marries someone gets a prenup and continues to make millions he’ll be entitled to some of the money that’s made after marriage. If the court system is fair that is, which it’s not. So this only works with women not the other way around.
@@azonnozaDivorce is good though it gives people the opportunity to escape a bad situation
The fact she mentions someone getting bored or finding somebody else, proves one thing
Our generation is f'd up and is going to make it worse with fatherless children which statistically produces more criminals, more abuse and general worse place to live
Seeing my parents fight so much when i was a kid because my father was an alcoholic. Left a bad taste in my mouth about marriage and alcohol. So I always saw it as just a legal contract. A piece of paper and a ring. It's not what really represents a person's commitment and reason to be with their significant other.
You fell in love long before marriage was a question. And I agree with what Rae said. Im not against it, but I'm open minded to it when i know for sure she's the one. You jus need to take a chance and see where your heart leads you.
Live your life ppl 🤙🏼
This felt very relatable. You’re not alone!
My parents are not married both 59&57 together for 35years. And we don't have divorced here so i get it why they choose not to get married.
"that's so permanent" that's kinda the point
The divorce rate is like 80% here in the states lol
It's not really permanent at all and can be divorced or annulled with relative ease
@@Jayonase42580% is generous and hypergamy is sky high lol
@@mrevilduckyyeah and it'll cost a substantial amount of money that's not worth the squeeze to do
not really permanent at all, its just a piece of paper and the ceremony is just a money sink that society has made people believe is necessary. When all that matters is you love the other person you at best just need to go to a court house if you want to do stuff like joint taxes and such otherwise theres you should just be happy to be with each other you don't need society's validation by following the traditional customs.
It's such a Filipino thing to say that she's already splitting her money with her family lol
Just casually talking about divorce over an intense round of competitive valorant lmao
A lot of people just get married because they think that’s the next step or what they are supposed to do. But you should only marry somebody if you want to spend your life with them and they want to spend their life with you. Don’t need to rush it, live together and figure out if it’s the right thing before getting married. You should know if it feels right in your heart
I think being aware of this is overall pretty healthy
no yeah it really is… i feel like people just rush into marriage without further consideration of the future, and then something goes wrong and it’s just a hot mess… i think that rae wanting to remain financially stable and not just financially but just overall maintain a stable lifestyle is very, very good. something everybody should really think about before just doing things because “they absolutely have to”. marriage is a beautiful thing but it just might be what ruins your life as well if it doesn’t go as planned. sad truth.
Idk I feel like a factor in the rising divorce rates is the fact that more and more people are entering marriage with an exit strategy.
@@Blayd9 oh…? never heard of that. that’s very odd. what would they benefit from doing that?
@@rflrch20they wouldn’t. They would die alone and sad.
@@HaroonKhan-ov4ru yeah it’s very odd
"people die" is a wild reason for a divorce
Very true. My parents are I’d 70s/late 60s and they’re getting separated this year.
My Dad is 66, and my mom is 63. They have been married for 43 years. I know it can work. I also know it isn't for everyone. As my brother has been married 4 times and divorced 4 times. As well as my other two brothers once each. And my sister. 7 siblings 8 marriages 1 marriage still alive.
@@devinyzaguirre94388 marriages is crazy
And? Has the marriage harmed them? Do they regret their last 40 years? Do they regret being tigather while havibg you? I dont think so.
@@armingleiner5292Lots of people are in long term loveless marriages. Decades of hating the person you married.
@@mrevilduckymaybe because people are pressured to get married?
“People die” is wild😭😭💀💀
she is not wrong.
If you're getting divorced because your bored you need to communicate more. If you found another person you looked for it. The reasons divorce so often is dumb and sickening.
If it’s so dumb and sickening then why does it happen so much 💀😂
@@Angel_Auraabecause most people are dumb and sick.
@@Angel_Auraa because people are dumb and sickening. take your vows seriously or dont get married. if youre getting divorced because youre bored or found someone new you probably sucked at keeping your own marriage alive.
@@bbouncy12👍
If you truly love someone you wouldn’t get a divorce from something like boredom, it’s just an excuse for yourself for why you divorced them. Same with most other reasons. Like if someone changed from the way they were when you married them you might no longer love them and it might be better to get divorced.
Better opportunities? Just stay single at that point
She’s a woman that’s how most think! 😂
I dont understand why prenups are looked down. You built an empire if shit goes down you should protect your empire
Whole point of marriage is to go through those situations together and come out stronger… not just give up and get a divorce! Sad way of looking at marriage 😢
You’re right it’s a shame people treat marriage like it means nothing.
One of the things I’m worried about in a marriage is that how to get along with the other family.. especially as a woman, I feel like the mother in law most of the times are not as nice 😢
As a married woman, my mother in law is amazing! Like sooooo amazing, I get so spoiled. It's my husband that didn't get as lucky 😂
Also, my husband and I were together for years before we got married, so we had plenty of time to get used to each other's families beforehand. It's not that scary when you love your SO. 😊
"People DIE." Had me 😂
I feel like getting a prenup should be the default.
Honestly i agree if one party makes so much money then a prenup shouldnt be an issue, cause if u find it offensive its pretty much a red flag 🚩
I think it depends whether they gonna be a (mutually agreed) stay at home partner or working. But in this case Rae clearly wants a working partner so, yeah.
She’s so real
Feeling this moment. My brother got married and has a kid. I'm eldest as well 😅. I agree on the prenep as well, gotta protect yourself.
People don't understand how difficult marriage actually is, and they don't understand that real Love is a choice you make daily as a sacrifice for someone else and most people nowadays are too selfish and immature. That's why it ends in divorce.
Marriage is suppose to be permanent. Even if you get bored or if some interest change. You stay through it all and work together because marriage is bringing two people into one. Of course cheating and abuse are valid but bored, change, someone better. Terrible excuses for divorce
People change. There’s nothing you can do to stop change no matter how much you fight. “Working things out” in that case would just mean you pretend …
It went from Wedding to death within a minute😂😂😂
Gonna be hilarious to revisit this in 10 years
Your sister watching this video deciding not to get married.
I really feel like if divorce is an option for you it’s better not to get married because it just ruins your life and finances
Money changes people. Whether you have it, need it, and everything in-between.
I want to find someone I can trust indefinitely and unconditionally with what I leave behind. I will likely die alone.
I mean she's not wrong. It doesnt even have to do with being a celebrity. Given the options available now, you cant predict any 2 people being loyal to one another
Me and my gf agreed to a prenup if we ever get married in the future. Idk, i think it's a good idea especially if one of the partners has a problem against it. Kinda shows their true intentions, no?
Not Rae stating de@+h as a reason for divorce⁉️ literally part of marriage vows😭
I mean to be fair if it wasn't an automatic divorce I would've served those papers nonetheless xD Even the baddest of girls don't look that good after a few months of decomposition :')
@@reznovvazileski3193i wonder what u look like
@@pestoepasta Not like a decomposed corpse that's for sure. Close call once but needless to say by the fact I'm typing this it wasn't close enough to look like a decomposed corpse.
Yeah… till death do us part. 😂 It’s part of the vows to move on when someone dies.
I don't think she meant that. What she's trying to actually is that "What is marriage for when people die?"
I feel like there aren’t reasons for divorce, only reasons why marrying at the wrong time can lead to divorce. Divorce is amongst the final steps, meaning you should have had at least a few years together. If you still get married and divorce even after that then I just think you weren’t fully there in the first place. And another thing, you should never “get bored”, in my opinion, that is the dumbest reason to divorce. Unless you meant the love isn’t there anymore, which can mean 2 things, 1. You never really loved them and you only chased that high you got being around them or 2. Something happened to cause you to lose that love. It could be getting cheated on, lied to or anything of that sort. My view on marriage is the “till death due us part”, anything besides that I’m biased against.
Yes rae keep your bag Its well deserved Your an Icon In the gaming community
Facts I agree with her 💯💯
Interesting in the usa there's a 50% divorce rate.. people don't value what marriage is really about and need to understand that you cannot just get divorced for every small reason. Be mature and work through your problems. The only valid reason for a divorce is if your partner cheats on you... as simple as that. Rather don't get married if you're going to get divorced because you don't like the way your partner does a certain thing !
This is a certified forsenCD Clap moment
Rae has THEEE best faces in the whole game. 🤣
Valkyrae is my spirit animal 😂😂
Marriage is commitment and love is work...
She's thinking straight!! Very well said! 🖤
The key is the right person fr🤞🏽
I smell the stench of redpillers in the comments as they make broad sweeping assumptions about her that because she's a woman that she would suddenly turn into a gold digger if her partner made more money than her and flip her stance on prenups.
Sure you do dummy.
Relax
@@askunnakuku4007 no
@@askunnakuku4007relax yourself
You're trying too hard to sound cool
She so me 😂
My family thinks I'm crazy for feeling the same way about it
What a glorious way to live one’s life
One of those reasons, not like the others. 😱😆
I’m divorcing because you died
That’s an issue with how easy it is to be divorce, people are finding it difficult to maintain relationships. The ideology to “look for something better” is toxic, instead working on being better with your significant other would fruit more merits, a person you could trust and understands you. Btw this is just a comment on a general Matter, not a dig at Rae.
If you ain't no punk, holler 'we want prenup!', ya, it's somethin' that you need to have. Lol Ray is over here spitting her inner Kanye.
“People die” that’s not how divorce works Rae!
I love the transition from So Permanent to Divorce 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🫶🤣🤣🤣🤣
How depressing jeez lol
I wish i can find someone with rae's personality and mindset
Rae and Hasan 🙈, nah people would hate that plus they friends
So the person can divorce you for such stupid reasons??? Yea good luck
@@nop128where did you get that?
@@nop128 yeah rae def not marriage material with that mindset
@@TheJScarrrmaybe for you, not everyone else has a similar mindset to yours. if you ask me she’s only being mindful of her actions in life. i always say that while marriage may be a beautiful thing in and of itself, it just might be what ruins your life in the future if it goes sideways. people often rush it and that’s why there is so much divorce. well, that and of course feelings may go away and things may change… but most of the time people are just pressured into getting married and getting kids as soon as possible and that later just doesn’t work out. these are serious life changing decisions, you shouldn’t just rush them. if Rae wants to maintain a stable lifestyle, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. i think it’s a very healthy mindset.
Rae telling people she aint getting married, me: HOLY SHIT WHAT A CLUTCH!
"Thats so permanent"🤣🤣🤣
Shiiiiit. I’ll sign the prenup 😂
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People are also cowards who cannot adhere to thier promises. People are also selfish that they will only find value in themsleves and not in the togetherness. Sad
Hell yea preach brother.
The queen ain't wrong divorce rates are wild😅
A prenup is always the right way, people say differently just want to hustle
Can men sighn for it as well?
@@angelnegrete4163 yes, and go do it
@@angelnegrete4163 That's a dumb question, anyone can.
Speaking my language lol PREACH!!!!!
Congrats to the sister!
Reasons for divorce: "people DIE" 🤣
I’m sensing you have a lot of trauma in this particular aspect of life , I hope you can work through it, love is a beautiful thing and I’m sorry your view of it was tainted by bad people or experiences
Nah shes right. Never marry without a lot of thought put into it.
@@Flashbatninja when did I say just marry blind tf💀 I’m getting my prenup and making sure I got a for life bae fym 💀
One of raes reasons for divorce, "people die" 🤣
Valky talking over this WWE ass commentary 😂😂😂
dude she is SO real for this
Not really. All the reasons for divorce she listed were superficial (apart from death obviously).
@@CactusBrannigan doesn’t change the fact that she’s right
@@CactusBranniganThey are common tho, seems like she listed real things that happen rather than ones that could happen to her. It’s just how the reality is
Your job's so permanent
Her "bag" will run out eventually.
@@joseortega7815it won’t run out if they invest and have savings which they probably do.
@@joseortega7815not it she’s smart with the money she makes a ton from streaming she doesn’t even have to reinvest or save as long as she isn’t a complete idiot but then again I see a lot of celebrities blow through 50 mil like nothing and end up broke
@@joseortega7815 lol shaming someone for being successful? Will her not getting married effect your life personally or do you just others not living how you believe is the "right" way?
@joseortega7815 You reek of insecurity. Do you think she hasn't already invested her money in cash flow streams? The woman is in her 30s, not a teen influencer with sudden success. She is old enough to understand that her streaming days must come to an end at one point.
Prenup is so good I have to say 😂
Protect the bag at all costs 💰😎
She seen fuslie and Edison split, Wendy and abe split. Ain’t shit sacred in this world anymore.
Her parents as well and who knows countless other people in her life. I'm with her, I have a partner who wants marriage & children but its always haunting me that it won't work because of no good role models to show that it can be successful
She says she’s open minded quite a bit but then goes to say that if it’s with the right person. So that means she does want whatever she’s talking about when she says that. Almost all of us want these things but only if it’s the right person. Also prenups don’t mean you don’t share money during a marriage it just means they don’t get anything from a divorce
Somehow I don't think any guy will argue with that
Tell me you’ve never felt love without telling me you’ve never felt love.
I meaaaaan come on Rae a prenup won’t be necessary cause you’ll want someone who makes just as much as you if not more. 😂
Why would she care. You toxic
How would you know what she wants? Da fuck
This mentality is why divorce is so high
yep. Not even mature enough to understand intimate relationships, yet concludes. The system is succeeding in these type of people.
Wise words end of the day anyone marrying Valkyries going to know if she has tons of money it's only a safety-net at that point
"People die" lol
If they say no to a prenup, they already showed their true intentions.
I think it's more of if you're someone who says, " there must be a prenup" than you're probably not someone who needs to be married. Find love, sure, marry, no because you're not willing to trust in your love to be quite litterally permenant
@@timmyboy99
I mean when your someone that’s making BANK like her, even if your not, it’s better to play it safe then sorry and lose everything cause possibly one day you and your partner have a falling out over something, big or small.
You can love someone and still be cautious of the assets you have been building your life around.
@@GaiaTorterra
That's why you don't marry, if you aren't willing to risk your wealth over love than you don't marry. Simple.
@@timmyboy99
Why should people HAVE to risk their wealth for love? That’s the stupidest thing I’ve heard.
A person is allowed to have love and set boundaries.
@GaiaTorterra I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm just saying what's the purpose of marrying if you are not fully committed. It's called a lifelong commitment for a reason. If you are worried that you'll break up one day and lose half your stuff, then don't marry if you aren't committed. If you have a partner who is willing to prenup. Than you are both in agreement that neither of you are fully committed
She kinda said if you get bored leave your marriage lol
She was stating reasons that she has seen marriages fail from others
Marriage is absolutely possible. If you want to do it right, you have to choose each other every day. You have to operate from a place of selflessness and love. Don't let things go unattended to and maintain yourself in the storms. Marriage is scary because we don't want to fail. But we don't have to if we approach it with confidence and a willingness to commit. "For better and for worse..." is a fluctuating thing. It's just remembering that nothing is 50/50, but 100/100. All of me for all of you. I suppose i say all this to say, don't be afraid. A lifelong love is possible, but we have to remember that we are that half
A prenup isn't as legally binding as it looks in movies
W take rae definitely agree on this one.
You will live alone, sad and depressed.
@@promontoriumThe fact that society puts romance at the top of life's happiness Is the reason why so many fail. Marriage is not your one miracle solution to having a happy life. You can be fine in other areas of life & Live happily without a romantic commitment.
I know she’s obviously just talking about a hypothetical situation but I have to say I don’t understand what mind set you have to be in to think of a prenup because you’re even with anyone. It’s such a negative mindset to have about relationships. Going into them thinking “this probably won’t work out” is going to put you in a situation that doesn’t work out.. just sad to see.
Just because you probably won't crash into a tree in your car does that mean you shouldn't wear seatbelts? Protective measures should ALWAYS be taken because there is ALWAYS a risk of things going badly. Be it your fault or their fault or just bad freaking luck, things can and will go wrong in life and you cannot predict the future. Doesn't mean you want them to happen or expect them to happen, but if they do happen and you don't have those systems in place you absolutely scammed yourself.
Prenup doesn't equate to "this probably doesn't work out" mindset. If my partner would be much wealthier than me, I'd suggest her to take a prenup. And I'd still only get married if I'd think it will work. We can share things during the marriage but if it ends, I have no business taking what is hers.
This is a cop out response because risk mitigation isn’t expecting the worst to happen. It’s as simple as mitigating risk😂.
“If this doesn’t work out then one of us can’t rob the other if that was the initial intention”
No one marries expecting divorce.. except the ones where the one who wouldn’t sign the prenup takes half of the others assets and paid for life as long as they never get a job again.😂
What’s ACTUALLY sad is that 60% of marriages end in divorce. Thats like saying 60% of houses burn down, but owning a fire extinguisher will push you towards the fire😂
Completely illogical, the reason thats a popular opinion is because women initiate 80-90% of the divorces and the court gets 30% of what the woman (who receives alimony 90% of the time) is given.
It financially benefits women and family court to divorce (men specifically usually).
Even going with a positive , no prenup mindset. Look at the divorce rates.
@@tomis1398 This here. As a poor person myself I just wouldn't feel right not signing one either cus there is always going to be that someone looking at your marriage thinking you had the wrong intentions going into it. I don't want a shred of doubt about why that marriage happened. Nor do I want the person I love to feel scammed in the event something would go wrong in a far future because again, that's not what I'm doing it for.
If we're saying people that want you to sign a prenup do it with the expectation of getting divorced. The same can be said the other way around. If you don't offer to sign a prenup yourself you do it with the expectation to get divorced and you want that bag. If you truly believe you never get divorced anyway, what's the difference if you do sign it right? :P
Felt this
I'm so happy she say that because I don't want no woman to take what I built
😊
The amount of men who got offended by what she said 😮. Ew. Which makes her opinion much stronger because of those men.
I'm 51, and I don't ever plan on getting married. I used to want to when I was younger, but they just couldn't see me for who I was because I was different on the outside. For me, it isn't worth it.
I accept your terms. Let’s get married.
So she's understanding what every guy has been going through since "no fault divorce" became a thing. I'd love to get married, id hate to be scammed.
go cry about it? tf was this little rant about?
@@whenitsover3479 do you wanna see a rant about statistics? I think Valk in her successes should have that right. How about stop being a simp.
@@whenitsover3479bro thinks he hard by typing on a UA-cam forum
@@whenitsover3479 What are you on? He's literally agreeing with her about the value of a prenup :') Damned if you do damned if you don't with you soy people.
@@whenitsover3479Loser
Love and Marriage seems to be blurring between the lines from the amount of divorce that happens lately.
Actually look up the statistics.
@@promontoriumwhat statistics? That out of all 8 billion people, 1/3 or 1/2 get a divorce after first marriage.
this is why I likes rae. we be thinking the same. if you didn’t help me get the bag, you’re not getting the bag.🤑
Smart move honestly.
Hasan better get to that prenup!
They’re not serious enough to even talk about that. 👀💀