Self preservations vs lack of self preservation Black men who don’t need validation vs those who do Men who think about generations ahead vs those who think about themselves and today
@@shiftydj9275 it does if you don’t want to breed yourself out of existence. If you mix with white people and only mix with white people eventually there will be no melanin left in your DNA. And if you’re OK with that fine but most people I know are not.
A black man does not need to date a black woman. Stop trying to control and enforce a grown ass black man. If a black man does not have a preference for a black woman he should not be genital policed. I only talk to Asian, White, Spanish women. The other ethnicities of women are still beautiful women but I don’t view them sexually. Stop forcing black love on black men who don’t want that.
As a light-skinned man, I find myself most attracted to black women. I appreciate the shared cultural experiences and the deep connection we can build. I believe that dating within my own community allows for a stronger bond and mutual understanding.
I haven’t watched the video yet but I just want to say I’m a BW who LOVES BM. They’re so smart, handsome, hard working. If you decide to date outside your race then that’s on you but as for me and my family we are all married to black men & women. Generations of marriage and beautiful black families.
Also Black and White South Africans DO NOT have the same culture. One was forced to neglect their language and speak Afrikaans. One suffered through apartheid (which only ended in the 90s). White South Africans are British, Dutch etc White people own the economy behind a Black face. Classism = racism in South Africa. The black majority live in shanti towns, while the Europeans live in Cape Town etc.
im sorry your wrong black south africans actually dont speak afrikaans but their native languages many are bilingual.JUST BECAUSE WE WAS COLONIZED DOES NOT MEAN WE FORGOT OUR CULTURE Im black south african by the way and i speak zulu. Thats the case of many african countries we speak the colonizers lanuage but we also speak our native tongues so we are bilingual 😊 where do u get ur information from? please read more white south africans and coloureds speak africaans
Can the woman be vulnerable and not be on ten in a relationship with you all? Cuz I have not. I have had to speak to this in my relationships because a lot of men have decided their moms are superhero’s and expect their partners to be the same but only if that person is black. If their partner is white, black men seem to have more grace ime
No disrespect, these brothers weren't that deep and this is a deep topic. I appreciate them sharing their stories and experiences but it wasn't too insightful for me.
Right and this may or may not be an unpopular opinion 🤔 but there's a difference between tolerance/thinking you're inferior/settling and truly having a preference for melanated women. Dude with the locs really seemed to be leaning into tolerance and thinking non blk would be out of his league or superior. Even when talking about his parents ' relationship...
@@jadacampbell9331 I agree. No one should feel as though their partner settled for them because they can't attract what they truly desire and don't want to be alone.
Can next time you bring people who have more intelligence, white American culture be the foods they eat, the holidays they celebrate etc, thanksgiving is technically white American culture stuff like that is culture, from pop music etc.
There’s nothing wrong with having a “preference”. I hate when Black people try to make you “feel” guilty for not being with a BW. God didn’t make different colors for no reason. Go with you are attracted to.
I think its the reasons for attraction. Why are u attracted to another race vs your own? If i walked into a bar and it was every race of woman in the bar, why would the women that look like me be the least attractive? I get the guilt aspect but thats the fodder that surrounds the conversation. The real question is, if God created all different types of people, why do most people choose their own? How can i be attracted to something thats the opposite of me? U like blonde hair and blue eyes? HOW do u come to that conclusion that u like something totally different from u? Are u saying u attracted to everybody and it just so happens that BW is the least attractive? Im really curious about people who make these remarks because I think subconsciously, u do what u have been socially engineered to do. A BM with a latina or WW will always be more socially acceptable than BM and BW, no matter what the latina or WW look like. Honestly, whatever WM like, america will follow. If a WM came out and professed their love for BW, this conversation would be non-existent because love who u love is only a concept because of the current turmoil between BW and BM. I never hear any other group place love who u love at the top of their issues as a people 😂. Literally every group in the US ate more focused on positioning themselves for self reliance and here we are talking about this
@@christiancrews4278 a grown ass black man does not need to explain why he prefers to date outside his race or exclude races. I date three ethnicities of women. The other ethnicities of women are still beautiful but I won’t date them as a black man. I don’t date black women because I am just not interested in them sexually. You can’t force a black man to date a black woman it’s wrong and controlling. A grown ass man gonna do what he wanna do so leave the black men alone who date outside their race
I've mostly dated outside my race just because it has happened that way. I date who has similar interests, who is kind , funny, intelligent, and fine!😂. I've never said I'm not attracted to BM. That's crazy work. Race is the last thing l look at in a partner. I date who treats me well. And for the BM saying BW are loud🙄. That's called passion and personality. If you are disrespectful, you will get cussed out. If you are chill, you will get that back😊. Oh and we laugh loud and run while we laugh and hit people thats called feeling joy in our soul when something is funny😂.
@dlovely3493 but ur subconsciously saying "people outside my race have all the things that interest me"...all the things u named are not solely attached to people outside ur race. Anybody can have those qualities but u have decided that u won't find those qualities in BM hence why u have mostly dated outside ur race. That the subconscious we talking bout. U are not different than a BM swearing up and down BW this and that but would happily accept those same negative qualities had the woman been latina or a WW. I just never understood why the people who say they date everybody, which basically mean they don't date BM/BW for whatever reason they choose/ dont get with each other. U would have a BM and BW champion dating outside their race but won't date each other since they clearly have a common interest in not feeling a part of their community. Its such a weird concept.
black men produce black women.. its your sperm that produces black women.. white men produce white women.. are you saying a white man's production is better than yours? Are you saying his sperm has to be mixed with yours to make greatness?
What I don't understand is every time a black man doesn't date a black woman it's a ?negative comment and wonder why black women have ? something to say when they date up out of their race but to me it says hey a black man was made for a black woman God created it if he wanted you to be with a different race of woman he wouldn't have created a woman in your image so what I don't understand is how he asked him a question about was he open because a couple of decades back you got killed or hung white woman
Who sold their people into slavery and got (and continues to get) manipulated by the WM? There is no reason the majority should be getting dominated by a minority of people -- on their own continent.
@@chocolateangel8743 Also there is no reason that the same group of pink people have rebuild their strongly ruled and segregated cities. Not only have they rebuilt them but they are fully sufficient and function almost better than the areas containing black South Africans. The males are still pandering instead of getting rid of their enemies.
@ You’re soo hateful ! Every woman is different regardless of skin color! Rather than enforcing stereotypes in your own community which btw affects the mom and the women in your family and pitting everyone against BW there are other things you can talk about! If you like WM good! You can focus on the things you like about them rather than comparing them to BW and belittling black women. You have podcast equipment, and cameras that people will kill to have those equipments just to spread productivity and encourage others! But you are here tearing down someone with the same color of skin as you! You’ll never ever grow, because you aren’t doing the right thing!
Hey guys (The ones that only date BW), Yall don’t understand that Bm and Ww were victims of whyte male supremacy. Therefore we have more in common with one another and are the PERFECT match. We understand each other due to these circumstances.
I gotta disagree. WW were the BENEFICIARIES of their racial supremacy antics. They were the mothers in the homes of supremacy. They raised and nurtured those supremacists and many today still ARE. now, I've dated WW so I have nothing against them. But I understand that dynamic and so do they. Let one get mad and she will immediately show you the power she thinks she has over you.
Why would a black man be a perfect match for a white woman when white women used to own Black people when white women used to get black men lynched for fake claiming that they raped them? How is that your perfect match the perfect match for the black man has always been and will always be the black womanbecause nobody knows what we go through better than each other. White women also benefit from white supremacy still to this day where they can call the police on a black person mostly black men and get them locked up or killed you are not the perfect match and you never will be.
Victims of w sup? Just you two groups? 🤔 Most Black American people can trace their whyte lineage to… take a guess….. Their whyte great great great grandfather…. Gee, I wonder why 🤯
I disagree with the details in your comment. BM and WW alone were subjugated by white male supremacy?.. as if to say BW were not as well. As if to say they were not SA’ed by their slave masters, as if to say WW were not present within these households with more (but not highly concentrated) societal power and security within the societal hierarchy. Why are we isolating and disregarding important facts in order to uplift a group above the other? We are all humans, healing from the mistakes of those before us and trying to educate those present and to come not to repeat the same mistakes. The “perfect” match (perfection in a relationship is a progressive concept, because people don’t operate as stagnant beings) is somebody who respects you, shares similar principles with you, listens and is communicative and is just as willing for the relationship to remain prosperous - this can be obtained outside the bounds of phenotypical expression. Let’s stop this divisional agenda and approach.
Self preservations vs lack of self preservation
Black men who don’t need validation vs those who do
Men who think about generations ahead vs those who think about themselves and today
@mopride7249 love it. Thanks!
Pretty much
The thing is race has nothing to do with anything important lmao
@@shiftydj9275 it does if you don’t want to breed yourself out of existence. If you mix with white people and only mix with white people eventually there will be no melanin left in your DNA. And if you’re OK with that fine but most people I know are not.
A black man does not need to date a black woman. Stop trying to control and enforce a grown ass black man. If a black man does not have a preference for a black woman he should not be genital policed. I only talk to Asian, White, Spanish women. The other ethnicities of women are still beautiful women but I don’t view them sexually. Stop forcing black love on black men who don’t want that.
Alright. Now lets do an episode in reverse so we can compare black men to white men. 😊
@@whowhatwhen7977 it’s actually in the plans!
THAT is a very needed conversation ☝🏽
Black women and nothing else for me. Love myself too much to mix it up.
Dude with the striped shirt thinks he is the prize
What is wrong with is ,that l can't find the white version to this debate, even if it exists.
As a light-skinned man, I find myself most attracted to black women. I appreciate the shared cultural experiences and the deep connection we can build. I believe that dating within my own community allows for a stronger bond and mutual understanding.
The visuals, intros and parent/mom dynamics are so telling 🫣
I haven’t watched the video yet but I just want to say I’m a BW who LOVES BM. They’re so smart, handsome, hard working.
If you decide to date outside your race then that’s on you but as for me and my family we are all married to black men & women. Generations of marriage and beautiful black families.
Also Black and White South Africans DO NOT have the same culture.
One was forced to neglect their language and speak Afrikaans. One suffered through apartheid (which only ended in the 90s).
White South Africans are British, Dutch etc White people own the economy behind a Black face. Classism = racism in South Africa. The black majority live in shanti towns, while the Europeans live in Cape Town etc.
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im sorry your wrong black south africans actually dont speak afrikaans but their native languages many are bilingual.JUST BECAUSE WE WAS COLONIZED DOES NOT MEAN WE FORGOT OUR CULTURE Im black south african by the way and i speak zulu. Thats the case of many african countries we speak the colonizers lanuage but we also speak our native tongues so we are bilingual 😊 where do u get ur information from? please read more white south africans and coloureds speak africaans
@@hadi-sh5nl I didn’t say you didn’t speak several languages. I said many were forced to learn Afrikaans.
I appreciate all perspectives here, everyone was respectful and informative. New subscriber
Thanks for the sub!
Great video, host did a great job keeping everyone on topic
@@303truth thank you!!
Great topic 💯💯
@@stanleyroberson6052 thank you!
Can the woman be vulnerable and not be on ten in a relationship with you all? Cuz I have not. I have had to speak to this in my relationships because a lot of men have decided their moms are superhero’s and expect their partners to be the same but only if that person is black. If their partner is white, black men seem to have more grace ime
Now wtf did I click on this. The pompadour told me everything I need to know
"My name is STEVE!" 😂😂 MY Pop's name is Steve chill out!
No disrespect, these brothers weren't that deep and this is a deep topic. I appreciate them sharing their stories and experiences but it wasn't too insightful for me.
I was thinking the same thing!
Right and this may or may not be an unpopular opinion 🤔 but there's a difference between tolerance/thinking you're inferior/settling and truly having a preference for melanated women. Dude with the locs really seemed to be leaning into tolerance and thinking non blk would be out of his league or superior. Even when talking about his parents ' relationship...
@@jadacampbell9331 I agree. No one should feel as though their partner settled for them because they can't attract what they truly desire and don't want to be alone.
I definitely agree with you 💯 i was expecting a interesting conversation but very basic thinkers
Can next time you bring people who have more intelligence, white American culture be the foods they eat, the holidays they celebrate etc, thanksgiving is technically white American culture stuff like that is culture, from pop music etc.
Can you give some examples this is kind of vague. I'll give you Thanksgiving though that's pretty white
I thought the questions asked were interesting. and got at the roots of the men's preferences, and I thought that the men were intelligent.
You can OBVIOUSLY tell which of these 5 brother are Black and Proud! Rightfully so ⚡️🤎🖤⚡️
Obviously I’m commenting while watching…this is comical…😂
There’s nothing wrong with having a “preference”. I hate when Black people try to make you “feel” guilty for not being with a BW. God didn’t make different colors for no reason. Go with you are attracted to.
I think its the reasons for attraction. Why are u attracted to another race vs your own? If i walked into a bar and it was every race of woman in the bar, why would the women that look like me be the least attractive? I get the guilt aspect but thats the fodder that surrounds the conversation. The real question is, if God created all different types of people, why do most people choose their own? How can i be attracted to something thats the opposite of me? U like blonde hair and blue eyes? HOW do u come to that conclusion that u like something totally different from u? Are u saying u attracted to everybody and it just so happens that BW is the least attractive? Im really curious about people who make these remarks because I think subconsciously, u do what u have been socially engineered to do. A BM with a latina or WW will always be more socially acceptable than BM and BW, no matter what the latina or WW look like. Honestly, whatever WM like, america will follow. If a WM came out and professed their love for BW, this conversation would be non-existent because love who u love is only a concept because of the current turmoil between BW and BM. I never hear any other group place love who u love at the top of their issues as a people 😂. Literally every group in the US ate more focused on positioning themselves for self reliance and here we are talking about this
@@christiancrews4278 a grown ass black man does not need to explain why he prefers to date outside his race or exclude races. I date three ethnicities of women. The other ethnicities of women are still beautiful but I won’t date them as a black man. I don’t date black women because I am just not interested in them sexually. You can’t force a black man to date a black woman it’s wrong and controlling. A grown ass man gonna do what he wanna do so leave the black men alone who date outside their race
I've mostly dated outside my race just because it has happened that way. I date who has similar interests, who is kind , funny, intelligent, and fine!😂. I've never said I'm not attracted to BM. That's crazy work. Race is the last thing l look at in a partner. I date who treats me well. And for the BM saying BW are loud🙄. That's called passion and personality. If you are disrespectful, you will get cussed out. If you are chill, you will get that back😊. Oh and we laugh loud and run while we laugh and hit people thats called feeling joy in our soul when something is funny😂.
@dlovely3493 but ur subconsciously saying "people outside my race have all the things that interest me"...all the things u named are not solely attached to people outside ur race. Anybody can have those qualities but u have decided that u won't find those qualities in BM hence why u have mostly dated outside ur race. That the subconscious we talking bout. U are not different than a BM swearing up and down BW this and that but would happily accept those same negative qualities had the woman been latina or a WW. I just never understood why the people who say they date everybody, which basically mean they don't date BM/BW for whatever reason they choose/ dont get with each other. U would have a BM and BW champion dating outside their race but won't date each other since they clearly have a common interest in not feeling a part of their community. Its such a weird concept.
black men produce black women.. its your sperm that produces black women.. white men produce white women.. are you saying a white man's production is better than yours? Are you saying his sperm has to be mixed with yours to make greatness?
Im from Birmingham Al ,Hoover high is predominant White especially when he probably went.
Your name is Steve
The host is so biased. Wtf
What I don't understand is every time a black man doesn't date a black woman it's a ?negative comment and wonder why black women have ? something to say when they date up out of their race but to me it says hey a black man was made for a black woman God created it if he wanted you to be with a different race of woman he wouldn't have created a woman in your image so what I don't understand is how he asked him a question about was he open because a couple of decades back you got killed or hung white woman
I'm south african black man. We in the same boat
Who sold their people into slavery and got (and continues to get) manipulated by the WM? There is no reason the majority should be getting dominated by a minority of people -- on their own continent.
@@chocolateangel8743 Also there is no reason that the same group of pink people have rebuild their strongly ruled and segregated cities. Not only have they rebuilt them but they are fully sufficient and function almost better than the areas containing black South Africans. The males are still pandering instead of getting rid of their enemies.
Caucasians have a different DNA ok….its not just skin color…smh🤦🏾♀️reading is fundamental .
🗣️They spoke facts!!
That’s why they ain’t got no subs! Just 98, please keep it that way 😂❤
@@Enkaybe 😢😢
@ You’re soo hateful ! Every woman is different regardless of skin color! Rather than enforcing stereotypes in your own community which btw affects the mom and the women in your family and pitting everyone against BW there are other things you can talk about! If you like WM good! You can focus on the things you like about them rather than comparing them to BW and belittling black women. You have podcast equipment, and cameras that people will kill to have those equipments just to spread productivity and encourage others! But you are here tearing down someone with the same color of skin as you! You’ll never ever grow, because you aren’t doing the right thing!
Hey guys (The ones that only date BW), Yall don’t understand that Bm and Ww were victims of whyte male supremacy. Therefore we have more in common with one another and are the PERFECT match. We understand each other due to these circumstances.
@@SixtySevenYearOldStalker interesting point!
I gotta disagree. WW were the BENEFICIARIES of their racial supremacy antics. They were the mothers in the homes of supremacy. They raised and nurtured those supremacists and many today still ARE.
now, I've dated WW so I have nothing against them. But I understand that dynamic and so do they. Let one get mad and she will immediately show you the power she thinks she has over you.
Why would a black man be a perfect match for a white woman when white women used to own Black people when white women used to get black men lynched for fake claiming that they raped them? How is that your perfect match the perfect match for the black man has always been and will always be the black womanbecause nobody knows what we go through better than each other. White women also benefit from white supremacy still to this day where they can call the police on a black person mostly black men and get them locked up or killed you are not the perfect match and you never will be.
Victims of w sup? Just you two groups? 🤔 Most Black American people can trace their whyte lineage to… take a guess….. Their whyte great great great grandfather…. Gee, I wonder why 🤯
I disagree with the details in your comment. BM and WW alone were subjugated by white male supremacy?.. as if to say BW were not as well. As if to say they were not SA’ed by their slave masters, as if to say WW were not present within these households with more (but not highly concentrated) societal power and security within the societal hierarchy. Why are we isolating and disregarding important facts in order to uplift a group above the other? We are all humans, healing from the mistakes of those before us and trying to educate those present and to come not to repeat the same mistakes. The “perfect” match (perfection in a relationship is a progressive concept, because people don’t operate as stagnant beings) is somebody who respects you, shares similar principles with you, listens and is communicative and is just as willing for the relationship to remain prosperous - this can be obtained outside the bounds of phenotypical expression. Let’s stop this divisional agenda and approach.