Appalachian Trail: Child Protective Services [MESSAGE FROM THE KIDS]
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We’re the Crawford family and we're walking 2,200 miles from Georgia to Maine on the Appalachian trail with our kids who are 2, 7, 11, 13, 15, and 16 years old. We think it will take us 6 months but we've never done anything like this.
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"If anyone should be telling our parents if they're doing something wrong, it should be us. And there's 6 of us... and they're always asking us how we're feeling..." ~Eden
Good call, Eden. This is how family is supposed to operate. You get it.
Best part of the video. Once the kids realize they have you outnumbered.....Lol.
The part about trusting the parents more.
We unfortunately are becoming a country where you are guilty and have to prove your innocence especially in the media. So what do you do? Have to defend yourselves ? From what ? Nothing was wrong... that’s the craziness of it all. And how do you “defend” what has just been a once in a lifetime hike ? Better yet why the hell do you have to defend anything to anybody if all is well ?ugh I am glad you made us aware of what went on. Stay well
Wow! That's good to hear! 👍
Except if kids grow up a certain way, they can't really tell if it's normal or not. lots of kids growing up thinking it's normal to get beaten and yelled at and think it's their fault. Just because the kids don't object doesn't necessarily mean it's good for them. I'm not making any judgements here or saying it's abuse in this particular case, I'm just saying it's not a good point to base your argument on.
So it's pretty clear at this point that you're kids are more mature than some of your viewers.
That’s pretty funny.
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Hopeful Hiker agrees
they probably spell better than you
Omg, this is so funny!
This family stayed with us when hiking through Virginia. They seemed to be healthy and well taken care of when in Marion VA area. We saw no reason at all that CPS should have been called. They are great kids with attentive parents. I had never met them before and didn't know they had a youtube channel so I don't have a stake in this game. Bottom line, the kids are being taken care of so back off people. I understand that CPS is needed at times but in this case we observed kids that were happy, safe, and well cared for. That's my two cents.
It's annoying to hear you say,"we saw no reason at all to call cps",because it's like you think you're important enough to matter that much.
Christina Marie Joost Hilton they spoke their opinion that shouldn’t be an issue
Christina Marie Joost Hilton ..👎
Christina Hilton- you absolutely sound like a narcissistic moron. Must be involved with CPS
Ummm they have more of a valued opinion(since they actually met them) than any of us viewers. Smh....
Some people didnt have a grandparent that "walked 20 miles to school everyday (uphill! in the snow!)" And it shows 😉
I had a great uncle that told me about walking to school.More like 7 miles.
late comment but i just started watching your channel. i love the talk. great honesty and your commentary at the end was great. i see two real parents here. what is hard to see if all the goodness in the people that helped you along the way. it teaches everyone including your kids the real goodness of humanity.
You forgot to mention both ways... Too many Karens in this world. They all should go kick rocks
For fark sake it’s a thru hike, your meant to be cold, wet, hungry, sore, happy, full, hot & sweaty at different points, that’s what makes if fun & builds character
This is why cps never should have been invented.
I’m going to keep this as G-rated as I can because I don’t want to upset your children if they’re reading the comments section but...
CPS has better things to do. By calling CPS because you don’t like the way parents are raising their kids, you’re taking them away from investigating ACTUAL child abuse. There was a little girl who’s life was taken by her own mother and step-father recently... The school and neighbors had contacted CPS who then investigated but CPS is understaffed and overworked. If people didn’t call with bullshit accusations, taking time away from ACTUAL abuse situations, that little girl might still be alive.
Think about that before you call CPS out of spite.
It sounds like you’re doing everything I’d suggest already. (Contacting people who know what kind of parents you are) I suggest maybe giving the Hebrew teacher a call... she was in your home and around your kids. (CPS is notorious for digging harder on home school parents). Best of luck to you all. Try not to stress. I’m thinking of you all.
Passion Fruit CPS not only handles child abuse but also handles the exploitation of children - some could interpret the parents are exploiting their children to get the views on their channel. In the end I wish this family nothing but the best in all they seek
This is the same situation as people calling police for dumb reasons like being annoyed at a neighbor, not getting an order at McDonalds, or someone they've never seen before in their perfect suburban neighborhood. You're taking time away from someone who is being attacked, someone who needs medical attention and just someone who actually needs help.
So proud of the girls for wanting to voice their opinions. I know u two must be proud of all of them. Just keep doing the great things that u are doing. We all know u guys aren't perfect but u two are some of the most loving, caring, and attentive parents I've ever had the privilege of observing. So glad I found ur family, happy hiking Crawford family. Good job kiddos!!!
yes totally agree. The girls were so well mannered and polite. If it were me, I'd have said STFU n leave us alone. It is tough to plan for oneself alone on logistic, equipments, food, etc, let alone planning for 6 kids. It took specially kind of person to want to put in that kind of epic efforts to plan for all the kids. This parents definitely stand out among those who never take their kids anywhere and say better be suspicious than sorry...
They looked totally into it.
You're hiking as a family with young children in a day and age when city councils have to pass ordinances allowing kids to be more than 500 feet from their home without direct parental supervision. What you're doing is so far beyond the norm of many people's experience and expectations that it frightens them. So sorry they allowed their fears to intrude so fiercely upon your family. So sorry that you've got to keep a list of witnesses to your hike. I hope a few more miles down the road, this episode becomes simply one more event along a trail filled with richer, happier, more memorable experiences and Katahdin is reached with pride and elation.
People get frustrated with their lives when they watch others actually live. It’s a projection of their own lethargy and insecurity. I’ve been criticized for hiking.
People who criticize others for just hiking are really low in humanity ffs
Good idea with getting "trail witnesses " . As soon as it warms up someone will call about the kids being in the heat. Lol. And for the crybabies out there. Abusers do their thing in private. Sure as hell not on You tube
(besides daddyofive)
you are so right bat tracks - maybe the haters need to re-focus..
Got that right bat tracks!
Bat Tracks . You are SO right about abusers abusing in private..
I dont think anyone is being a "cry baby." It sucks for the family to go through that, it really does. However, I completely understand both sides. For someone who doesn't have hiking experience and sees a family bringing a little baby and a bunch of minors through the cold and putting them through extreme weather and putting there bodies through extreme stuff for 6 months, I wouldn't call an outsider a "cry baby" because they are extremely concerned. And the parents ARE "putting them" through stuff. It doesn't mean its abuse, but from an outsiders perspective to not understand that some people view that as child endangerment is pretty silly and ignorant. I'm not saying it is necessarily child abuse but there is nothing malicious or unloving about the people who were concerned. I just saw this video today with my boyfriend and kept saying "What the hell, this doesn't seem right. But I might be ignorant since I don't know anything about nature or hiking." The kids seemed fine, but we don't know whats going on behind the camera. I know that I might be ignorant to nature and hiking, but I still don't feel like its necessarily right to put your kids through that, but I think it is a gray line. It seemed like there were enough stops and 0 days along the way to show that the parents were trying to do the best thing. But I think and I mean no offence, but its kind of silly on the parents part to NOT think cps was going to be called when you are taking them away from civilization for 6 months. It doesnt mean anyones necessarily doing anything right or wrong but if you cant see both sides to the argument in this particular situation, you are just getting mad to get mad. Do I think the parents are abusers? No. Do I think it was child endangerment? Maybe. Do I think the parents should get there kids taken away? No, but even though i'm sure its an amazing experience, the parents need to wake up a little to the fact that in some way it is child endangerment or at least accept the fact that people are going to view it that way and its not a bad thing. Its great there are people looking out for there kids.
I was seething when I saw the comments being made about your family. The arrogance of someone thinking they have the right to tell you how to parent and then going as far as calling CPS just baffles me.
I’m glad it’s behind you all. That’s the beauty of the trail, you can outwalk anything.
It's just me Sully Whoever it was who called CPS certainly didn’t do it because they care one lick about these kids or this family. It would be hard not to resent a move like that. However, the situation has allowed for a helpful topic of discussion regarding parenting rights and freedoms and how to deal with active and potentially invasive criticism like this.
Tempus est surgere the line is very very thin there
I thru hiked the AT in 2016. You are all doing great and I am impressed with your entire family! You are providing an amazing gift to your children. This experience will not only bring your family closer together but will also significantly contribute to forging the character of your children. It is an adventure they will cherish for the rest of their lives. You should all be proud! I wish you continued success!
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What you're doing for your kids is amazing. The way they're planning the snacks, cooking the meals, etc... seems like they have assumed a lot of responsibility which is awesome. And they have to be bonding like very few other families. They'll be able to look back on this for the rest of their lives. Nice to have it documented on video for them. Don't stress about the hater comments - people are assholes online. Delete their comment and block them before giving them the satisfaction of a reply. Anyway, the weather should be better for the rest of your trip. Good luck! We're rooting for ya!
We’ve been deleting more and more.- Ben
Wow ! Unbelievable ! Your kids are so strong, independent, smart, healthy etc. Whatever you guys are doing, keep it up ! America needs more families like yours !
All three of the girls are so beautiful and I am glad to hear their thoughts. Thanks for taking the time to speak to us Eden, Memory and Dove. I know it's been said before but this is a trip of a lifetime and you have to bond more because you're all on the same team and working toward the same goal. I think you'll all grow closer.
I think it's a wonderful idea to gather names for witnesses just in case.
I wish the people complaining would watch your other videos to know how much time you all spend together and how you all interact. I love that your demonstrate your lives to the kids and with the kids not just tell them.
Keep on keeping on, Crawford family, you are the bomb!
The only people who know exactly how kids should be raised are people who have never had kids.
Wow a truer statement has never been said!! I completely agree!!!
You should get an award for this comment. No truer statement has been made.
You sarcasm is awesome...
Child abuse is keeping children glued to TV’s and Electronics. You are phenomenal parents and your children are blessed to be part of such an amazing family. ❤️
When you're on UA-cam, there will always be someone against you. That's a fact. They live a different world and want to judge and control. What a great family you guys are.
You as parents should be proud of these 3 ladies, their views are exactly what this world needs! WELL DONE PARENTS!
Not many people have to conquer the " C.P.S. Mountian " on the A.T..
You guys did it with style & grace.
Hike on. Hike strong.💪We all belong. ❤
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It's just as bad dealing with cps off the at.Imagine them coming to your home.Any place is bad.
I remember when I was in 8th grade, I told my Mom I was moving out. She said, the garbage bags are under the sink. I laugh now thinking about it. There is no handbook for being a parent, but I do know that as a parent (and for the majority of parents) we want the best for our children. My Mom was epic!
Ha ha ha ! My mom asked me when I was leaving and if I wanted help packing. No sympathy from her !
You are so lucky to be able to spend every waking minute of the day with your kids. No tv or electronics taking them away from living in the moment with the people they love. If you all finnish the entire trail or not don't matter at all. Every day your making amazing memory's.
Should you have flicked him? No. Was it a mistake? Yes. Was it abuse? No. As a survivor of parental abuse, I think that I would know. Actually, since it bothered you enough to apologize, is even more proof to me that you do not normally react in that manner.
Yes, the social workers have to follow up.
As for the hike; you are not the first family even with small kids, to hike it.
Keep on keeping on
I think you are giving your kids an amazing life experience. They are learning so much more on the trail than they ever would in a classroom.
Your kids said it all... they trust their parents and they’ll let you know if they have a problem because they have no fear around doing so.. what more could any parent ever ask for? Just perfect I say!!! 💜
I just now found your channel and I watched your trail video. As a school nurse I’ve seen abused children and this isn’t it. We preach health and exercise and getting outside, yet some don’t like it if it’s not in a backyard or in a neighborhood. If this had to be compared to allowing a child to sit in front of a computer or tv all day and night while eating unhealthy foods, getting out there is far better. Half of our students can’t run a mile because they are so out of shape. I prefer this. Your kids have been taught teamwork, importance of family, and perseverance. These are important life lessons to learn early on. I appreciate what I’ve seen about your parenting and the closeness of your family.
I see three strong, smart and introspective children who are way more in touch with life than some of the adults I know. I feel like some of the problem is simply due to the fact that we are no longer accustomed to people being genuine and transparent. People don’t know how to deal with that when they see it.
Keep up the good work in everything that you do.
P.S. I used to work for CPS and totally support your journey.
This is adorable. They don't have the words or the confidence, and they were all at a point where the journey sucked, but they also all knew that they wanted to trust their parents when their parents give them something hard to accomplish. You're doing a great job of raising independent thinkers, tempered by social expectations and whatnot. I really like this video - especially at the end where you explain what life experiences are. Kudos.
I'm so fortunate that my father took us for two months in an RV across the united states. Kentucky to California and back. We saw so many wonderful things and met so many beautiful souls that as soon as i was old enough i did it again myself 30 times through out my years. Always sketchy places to sleep and sketchy people to get away from. If i had never been on that trip as a kid i wouldn't have been brave enough to know where or from who to get away from. The lessons i learned have served me well. I'm 56 years old. I have lived an exciting life and had adventures people are afraid to have. Your children have benefited from your parenting as i did from my wonderful, brave Pops. God bless you and all the adventures left to come for your children, grandchildren every generation after. You are brave and your children will be brave because of it. Never forget THAT. Love Lisa Waters
People need to remember what we see in camera is only a 15 minute or so clip of a 24 hr day. Your children have a great handle on life. And who cares what those of us looking in "see" as wrong. Its a sample of life. And the comment one of your gorgeous kids said awesome. Everyone gets cold or experience pain just because you are on camera is the big thing. Every parent has made a knee jerk reaction to their child and you just happened to vlog about it. Keep on keeping on!
You guys rock. My heart stopped for a second when I first started this video. CPS is nothing to mess around with. I will say that if there is a report, they are required by law to go investigate. There are good agents and there are bad ones. My neighbor got called because her daughter, age 15, and daughter, aged 3, were walking in the cul de sac without shoes on. Some people need to learn to mind their own business. Sure there are situations when they are needed...when kids are malnourished or are abused. But just because someone is "concerned" (i.e. their ideas are different than yours) is no reason to call CPS. I'm happy to hear the case worker was a good one and let y'all go on.
You know, why can't parents just raise their children the way they want without judgment. We get judgments and raised eyes all the time (especially from people at our church) because I take our three boys to Christian rock concerts. We have a great time and it's amazing getting to see my kids praise God in their own way, even if that means jumping and screaming and mosh pitting. It's awesome seeing them be themselves and expressing themselves in their own way. I say this just to give you all encouragement, keep doing what your doing and enjoy this time with your kids. My oldest is 18 and the time just flew by! Oh and on parenting mistakes - indeed we have all made mistakes.
As a father of a beautiful 18 year old daughter. I feel for you. You gave your children an experience of a lifetime. To many parent these days send more time avoiding there children than being with them. You sacrificed your lives to show tour children that you loved them and wanted to share with them an adventure they would never forget. Families should do everything together. They don’t anymore, and it’s sad. My hats off too you. Keep up the great work of loving, supporting and teaching your children they can do what ever they set their minds too.
I know that I am about 5 years late with my comment but I just found y'all and watched your "movie" of your hike and then found my way to this video. I have a hundred things to say but I won't bore y'all with all of it, lol. What i will say is that your family s amazing and your children are so blessed to have you two as their parents. Hiking the AT as a family is amazing and mind-blowing but what I truly feel about it all is that by doing that with your kids you have set them up for a life of success. I don't mean financial although that will probably be a part of it,. but I am speaking of preparing them for life in general. You taught them how to set a huge goal and then to properly prepare for it by having them fully immersed in planning for and being prepared before heading to the trail. And once you hit the trail I believe that the life skills they learned are truly invaluable. Of course y'all know this so much more than I do but as I watched all I kept thinking was how, by setting a distance goal for each day and then sticking to it your kids learned that doing that is what makes for a successful, good life. Being cold, being in pain, being tired, being hungry, wanting to be alone but not being able to at times, being in a crappy mood but still having to work as a team and compromise, making meals with little resources and making sure everyone eats etc etc etc I could go on and on, lol. My point is that life sucks sometimes Sometimes life sucks a lot of the time, lol. Your kids learned that even though it's tough, they can handle it and still reach their goals for the day or week or year etc. I'm having a hard time putting my thoughts into a concise paragraph, lol, but I am just trying to say well done Mom and Dad. And well done kids. I'm so sorry that some idiot in NC (my home) called CPS. That is so very pathetic . I'm thankful it all went okay. I just wanted to let y'all know that your story touched my heart. Oh, and I saw r=that y'all got out of a church and there were issues I no l0nger go to church either even after basically living at church when I was growing up. CHurches are full of broken people who often like to break other people. I do have a very personal relationship with Jesus Christ though and He is all I need . Prayers for your family and God bless y'all
The girls nailed it! Keep on hiking and growing as a family.
I am sorry that your children had to be put in this situation. How sad is our world? It is VERY apparent from your videos that your children are loved and cared for and in no way put in a dangerous position.
So proud of you girls, for helping us understand what that experience was like for you. I was pretty bummed for you all when I saw that rather than waking up in a freezing bathroom to grandma and grandpa picking you up, you were met with a couple of CPS agents and a sheriff. I continue to truly enjoy this amazing story that your family is telling. I'm glad you are all getting a chance to process what happened with CPS.
You all are teaching your kids a lot. They will grow so much from this experience. Cps does have to follow up on every report. Sad that people feel the need to create a problem when it's obvious there isn't a problem. Keep on just being yourselfs. Good luck on your journey moving forward.
You guys are so motivating and I love every moment I get to share this journey through your videos. I only wish my son had this adventure. There will be nothing life can throw at you that will seem difficult or challenging. Enjoy every moment...you are a precious family!!! ER 71
I think you could be grateful that someone else was brave enough to make that call when they didn't understand all of your family dynamics.......gosh, can you imagine if someone else had taken your kids.....and you had no idea to look out in the forest for them? anyway, CPS have to do their job when they get a call---even when they don't believe any abuse or abnormal behaviors are expected. This really shows how well you have loved your kids--when confronted with such questions, their first concern was protecting you and keeping the family safe. I love following your adventure, and I hope this doesn't spoil your drive to keep going and doing things your own way. We need more families like yours. Bless you!
You guys are awesome and amazing parents. As a high school public teacher, I wish all parents were as great as you are at parenting. We haven't missed an AT episode of yours, keep it up! Your children are so articulate and good-hearted. It is very evident in your vlogs. You are doing SO MANY THINGS RIGHT, I could go on for days! God bless and happy trails!
Personally, I think you two and your family are AMAZING! And what a wonderful opportunity to allow your kids to share their thoughts and feelings on the topic. I'm an avid backpacker and WISH I would have had experiences like this as a kid. I have no doubt that hiking the AT, especially as a family, will be a lifetime treasured experience by each and every family member. Way to go! You ALL are an inspiration! 😀👍 Ps. I recall somewhere you answered a question about the kids missing school and your response was "they'll be learning more about life on the trail than they would ever learn in the classroom"... or something like that. How true! The life lessons, from the trail, will pay off in spades compared to whatever curriculum was missed, at any grade level. I just can't say enough about how incredible you all are!
Kudos to your girls being willing to talk about this...it shows how well you've raised them! Anybody who was blessed to grow up in a family that drove on vacations all over the US (some in the old family station wagon with one of the seats facing backwards!) knows how family members can complain, fight, get tired, etc. on a long trip. But I can guarantee if you ask anybody who was growing up during those times, years later they will remember those trips fondly and cherish them the rest of their lives. Hike on Crawford family!
My father and I met this family on the trail. Great people. Close family. Once in a lifetime experience for the family. It’s a non traditional type of child rearing. I say to each his own. I’m sure people worry about the kids health. It seemed to me mom and dad are in tuned with their children’s health and welfare. Keep it up family.
This is what family is suppose to be! Great job Crawfords! These memories will last a lifetime.
Very insightful video. I really value the kids' perspectives and you can tell Kami and Ben do, as well... I have a lot of respect for you both as parents. How anyone fails to see that your children's well-being and safety are your number one priority is beyond me. They are literally your life. How ridiculous.
Your family is so beautifully raw and I just love the dynamics of it. Keep doing what you love.
I was born in 1968. I grew up in the 1970s and 80s. We never wore seatbelts, bike helmets, nor did we use carseats. They weren't mandated. How on earth did I survive to adulthood??? By the time I raised my children in the 1990s, I could have been arrested for raising my kids the way I was raised. I think what you all accomplished was truly amazing. I hope you enjoyed it and remember it. It would be great to do it again later in life. I hope you get to enjoy things like this as you all grow older and CPS won't be so interested once you are older.
Started hiking in boy scouts, built snow shelter slept outside -22F. 42 now still backpack. Your kids will benefit from this the rest of their lives. AWESOME PARENTS!!
Every child has the divine right to experience discomfort. They have a right to take risks and live life for all it's worth. They have the right to find their strength.
Never let anyone tell you it is better to let them grow up soft, lazy, uninspired and bored to tears with life.
It’s so stupid that people would report you because you are all so brave and wonderful I’ve never seen a family so happy to do this and so determined than you guys. The kids all seemed happy when hiking and they hardly moaned. They loved it so the people who reported them are horrible.
Im glad Eden wanted to talk about CPS. This has to be the first video i have seen where a family talks about CPS.
All of you kids will be THANKING your parents for this for the rest of your lives. Trust me. You THANK them everyday. God bless yall.
You are above and beyond the majority of the sheeple zombies being bred today.
Your girls are wise beyond their years. Keep up the great work, Ben and Kami❤️
you guys didn't do anything wrong !!!! you are the greatest parents in the world !!!! you taught them so much ... best wishes, Douglas Cameron Atlanta
Look everyone can have an opinion but how in the world could someone contact CPS on a family trying to have an adventure of a lifetime. How about they call on the kid next door that never goes outside and plays video games for 14 hours a day. People need to take care of their own home and stop judging others. Be the best human being you can support, encourage, & most importantly be kind!
Watching from New Zealand - you guys are AWESOME parents!! I am loving how you are raising your beautiful family, and the AT hike is a fantastic experience for the family to share.
I can imagine in years to come, the conversations about this experience, and your children will also be amazing parents because of the way you two parent them. Keep up the great work!!
Hey, great to hear from younger Crawfords. Keep it classy and kind with CPS, I just kept smiling and shaking my head no to all the questions, because that was the truth. Nothing to hide with me, and I think the same is true for you. It was stressful to me too.
Kami’s part about parenting mistakes... YES! I follow you guys on IG and on here...I feel like a stalker. But I’m totally loving your family!
You guys are awesome!!! There's a lot of families in the United States that should be following your lead. When your kids get older, they'll look back at this experience and thank you. It's disappointing that people can't mind their own business but, I guess that's just life.
I followed you from the beginning and will continue to follow. Keep pushing North and best wishes to all!
My best experiences as a child came from choices my parents made....usually my father, who took us backpacking, cross country skiing, canoeing, and kayaking. Would I have chosen to go? generally not, as I enjoyed the lazy comfort of my bedroom. However, during these times I learned to endure, compromise, and survive in nature when things didn't go as planned.
I became a parent much like my dad. My now adult children know the beauty of nature and have the skills to manage an imperfect life.
I am so proud of you Crawford family. You are literally taking the road less traveled and that's not always going to sit well with people who can't conceive living outside their sterile environment.
This was a lousy situation to be put in, sorry it happened to you...
However... you seemed to handle it well.
Thank you for sharing this.
The world would be a better place if there were more families like yours!
Stay strong, keep sharing the love of a family together, and may peace always be with you!!
I would think the most important question for the kids is "Are you having a good time and happy you are doing this together?" Even if they weren't all for it in the beginning it seems like it is working out and they are learning more than they will ever get from sitting in a classroom and having meaningless facts shoveled into their brains.
Doing this isn't easy, but the experiences all of you are getting feels like something positive and very rewarding. Far too many people are not learning by doing and therefore have no practical way to apply facts spoon fed to them, rendering those facts kind of useless if you think about it.
Sorry somebody/s decided they knew enough from watching edited snippets of less than 1% of your day to judge your methods of raising your own kids!
I think it was a true gift that you all as parents gave your children by letting them experience the AT ! Family memories that will never be forgotten. Building a true bond and relationship with your children . Families lack that type of relationship these days .
But CPS didn't have much choice: Someone filled a complaint, they investigated, found nothing and moved on. Be happy they did as there are many kids who are not as luck as you(rs).
^^This
In FL not every call gets a report or an investigation. Not all calls are necessary
@@GW-gz8jh I doubt that is true. If someone calls CPS, they should be looking into it. It's their job. Sure, there might be a lot of bs, but if you write them off without checking, you run the risk of calling bs, and then being wrong. Deadly wrong. Where they find some kid dead in a meth house with a homeless drug addict trying to make a crack pipe out of the kids spleen.
They HAVE TO go look.
herranton1979 I’m a state mandated reporter that works with child services here in FL. It is actually true. Not all CPS calls involve drugs. This case did not so the drug example is not applicable. But they will tell you outright whether or not they will be filing a report and taking it further and no, they do not “have to look” here. Depends on the reason.
herranton1979 www.myflfamilies.com/service-programs/abuse-hotline/frequently-asked-questions.shtml (States there they will determine if the complaint warrants investigation. Even some complaints that meet illegal activity aren’t investigated always. That’s how so many children here fall through the cracks.)
Keep calm and hike on. Good job you guys.
I have very similar parents to you both regarding spirituality, believing in yourself and doing physical activities and I believe this has made a really strong person today. I looked at some of my friends parents who constantly wrapped them in cotton wool and even if at the time I thought...wouldn't it be nice to be wrapped in cotton wool, now I'm 32 and I'm a strong (mentally and physically - not all the time but I do feel it) and I'm also very independent, I am SO SO GRATEFUL my parents nurtured me this way. It has spurred me on to do half marathons, 24 hours hikes etc. Ben and Kami you did nothing wrong, I feel like these people who have a lot of time on their hands that write these comments have not been exposed too much to the challenges of life and are looking at your videos from cotton wool wrapped places. Your vlogs, the marathon challenges too have helped me so much!
This is the second time round I'm watching all your vlogs, they are so inspiring!
Hi there. I see you as a healthy family, in all possible senses. You all are a big inspiration! You really rock!
Being someone who has been through the pain and struggle, and continues to return to it, I'm very proud to know you and DON'T QUIT!!!
I'm glad you were able to get thru the CPS interview without problems. It angers me to the core that some cyber hiker, know it all, internet stranger thought this was a CPS worthy call. The system getting flooded with stupid shit like this is how true abuse is missed.
And you have all of my info if you need an additional witness. The time I spent with your family was amazing.
Also, I love the dynamic between Dove, Eden, and Memory. I appreciate hearing their thoughts on the situation. Thanks girls!
Memory is a combo of Dove and Eden! Beautiful strong girls!!
So sorry you all had to go through that, and REALLY sorry that you young ladies felt honesty wasn't the best policy (and I don't blame you a bit!). As I said in my previous post, at first glance I was very skeptical....after invested time in *getting to know* your family, I've become one of your biggest fans! You are such a unique family, and in my opinion, unique is definitely not a bad thing!
Also, as an aspiring AT thru-hiker (which is what brought me to your channel in the first place) I admire you all more than I can possibly express! Particularly the kids, you are more inspiring to this old retired school teacher than you could imagine! Hike on Crawfords!!!!!!!
So, I'm coming to this thread late. BUT, what have we become, as a society, where a parent can't take their family on a well planned event that is challenging and meaningful in so many ways and be shamed by the mob of well meaning but soft living folks to the point that our "society" would entertain taking children away from great and loving parents? Our ancestors did things like this as part of the "normal" course of life without all the emergency options this had at their disposal. The equipment was more than adequate, they were all well supervised and still hunted by trolls in the easy chairs. We are shaped by hard things not by sitting back and never living life. 1000 percent behind them and their right to reasonably shape their family. Great work so far! Great family!
Your family is totally awesome and you are raising strong, independent individuals in this day of helicopter parenting. Your children are growing up to think for themselves, be who they want to be and fight for their rights. Good on ya'. Hike on and enjoy each and every moment
Eden! I hope you read this comment!!! I have so enjoyed you and your family! My teenager's and I are going to section hike in Va this fall because of your family! You have encouraged us and made the trail experience believable and doable. Keep those heads held high and keep going! You guy's are AWESOME😊😉😀🎈🎉🏃P.S. Mom and Dad- you guys ROCK! I am so proud of you and can't wait to hike on the AT this fall because you ☕☕
I remember reading the comment of the person that called CPS so they could "sleep at night" and instantly my heart not only broke for you guys, but I was so worried. Not because I thought you did anything wrong, just because our system is so broken. And honestly, no good comes from the government getting involved in parenting (at least not in a case like this). As I said then, people that say they've never made parenting mistakes are either lying or delusional. And believe me, some of the ones I've made are some real doozys. Anyone who has spent even 5 minutes with your family knows how well taken care of your children are and what a blessing your family is. Also how brave of the kids to want to share their side of it. It had to be such a scary (and infuriating) time for them.
Those people are not parents. They're the kind of people who never want kids and have a fur baby
Some people would prefer puppy kisses over diapers, myself included. Live your own life.
I prefer toddler kisses to going out in the rain so my dog can go to the bathroom and then picking their poop up with my hand in a plastic bag.
Homebirth Homeschool Homestead Pfft, try harder. We live in the boonies, my dogs can poop where they please. Keep trying your best at that #vloglife though.
Ew so I don't have dog poop in my shoes I still win lol
ALL of you have SO MUCH TO BE PROUD ABOUT.☺
I just started following your videos and love it. I know you all finished the trail and was happy to see you folks fulfill your dreams. Your kids look happy and healthy and normal kids. There will always be people out there that have nothing better to do than damper your lives because they have nothing better to do with their lives and maybe are jealous. Their only duty is to make others upset and feel threatened. It’s unfortunate but it’s true. There could be a million other reasons. Live your lives to the fullest Crawford family and do what’s best for you!
thats insane and im so sorry someone put you all through that! I've been hiking and camping with my Dad since I was 5. In the snow, in extreme heat, up and down the AT and guess what? so far ive survived to 27 and plan to raise my kids the same way. you did your kids a huge favor by teaching them early to be resilient and adaptable in the most hands on way possible- lessons you learn on the trail are lessons you use everyday in life that simply cant be taught from the comfort of your living room.
So proud of your girls to speak up. That whole thing with CPS was wrong by the person who called them. You both are awesome parents. People raise their children the way they see fit. You are giving your kids an awesome opportunity of a lifetime of memories on the trail.
I was a CPS investigator for Kentucky for five years and had to deal with so many bogus waste of time reports. I am sorry you guys had to deal with that. Remember that Kentucky has no authority to investigate anything that happens in another state. Most Workers are good people but some have a vendetta. Others are very young and have no life experience. Just be careful with them if you have to deal with them again.
You are an amazing group of young ladies! So inspired by everything that you have accomplished. Learning how to cope with a bit of adversity and discomfort at a young age will make you more able to deal with what you might have to face later in your lives! Life is all a matter of perspective - and you all now have the perspective required to carry you through the rest of your lives. You are very fortunate to have such awesome parents!
I just came across your family channel by accident. I am so impressed with what you as a family have achieved. Being an educator myself, there is nothing more that your children will learn in school than what they learn through such life experiences. Keep rocking!
Your children clearly are articulate and focused on what they want vs what the family wants and are not afraid to speak their minds. You have raised them well. I have to say after teaching school for 35 years that your experience on the trail had more ways and more possibilities to learn new things and experience's. To me this was so beneficial to body and mind, and way better than sitting their butt's in a school desk for 45-55 minutes, give or take the age of each child. My answer is this, Hike on and continue to grow your children as you see fit. You family is lovely, more mature than any other of the same age. I will continue to view your vlogs.
Im so sorry you guys had to go through this. You are doing such an amazing thing with your children, for your children. You are doing what you are supposed to do as parents. I full heartedly support you all. You are honest, you are real and you have morals, which is not the norm nowadays. Thinking of you all, praying for you all!
It was great to hear from the kids.... I’ve been appalled by some people and their comments and reactions to you being on the trail - I’ve written so many responses to some of those people ... but then I didn’t post them - because I realized they don’t know you guys - I’m glad your kiddos could process through that experience- I’m sad your kiddos get to see those negative comments - I wish people thought about that before they post their hateful worlds - keep hiking - we are cheering you all on and I’d be a witness for you guys anytime -
I’ve thought of a lot of responses also and I always delete him too.-Ben
That's right, You guys stay who you are and keep being the parents you are. Your kids saying (they should be the ones to tell and would tell you if your messing up), was priceless
The most traumatizing part of their insanely tough journey was dealing with CPS... Perhaps other peoples' opinions of what is right isn't always right? ;) Great job Crawford Fam!
Go Crawfords! Your family, your rules, your adventure! No way would you endanger your kids. It is obvious how much you love them :)
Proud of you guys were speaking out especially the kids there needs to be an awareness raised that this agency does not act in favor of children you'd be surprised what slight unbelievable little things they will Dima parent unfit over-parenting is not perfect I really had a big eye opening experience discount DCFS really operates in a manner that is a no way right fair or even humane I had a family member go through this and I cannot tell you how much speaking out means so much to me and to them no more hiding no more silence it's time to speak out
I watched the video of the hike, these kids were some of the healthiest happiest I've seen. What incredible parents who would be willing to do this for their family!! It is obvious the children all wanted to hike the trail.
I am so sorry this has happened to you guys. People are so hateful and mean. Shame on those ignorant busybodies for putting fear, worry and dout in your little trooper hearts. None of you guys will ever be quitters in life. 😊💜
Has anyone never had kids that didn’t want to go on a family vacation? A camping trip? A family reunion? The freaking store...? Like come on people.. it’s a childhood experience these kids will remember forever!
This must have been very painful for your family. Clearly people don't think things through before they cast judgement, not fully comprehending the consequences of the alternative actions it all could have led to for your family. I pray you all have a way to put this well and truly behind you, don't let it have power over your lives. Let it be a lesson to everyone, there are many sides, struggles and truths to every story of peoples lives. Support and uplift, you are blessed to have a beautiful family that many would envy. Thank you for sharing this! :) Mrs. Crawford, mom of 6, I hope you smile and dance like nobody's watching! ♥
Opposite here... my sisters called on me and my parents, like I was taking advantage of them, I was totally caring for them in a very difficult time, we have not mended, both of my parents are gone now, but because of me they lived out their lives in their own home, sometimes you just have to be sure you did the right thing no matter how others(usually out of their own guilt) want to paint a situation
It's amazing that you can provide your family with this great experience together. This thru hike, which is most difficult to complete, especially with six children, is most impressive. I enjoyed watching your videos, and continue to have great times together.
I think your family is amazing. Just because you do things differently does not make you bad parents. Your kids are safe and happy and the experience you are living witn them may be hard, but it is amazing. I have no doubt that you keep your kids safe. The girls are right, people do have too much time on their hands. I love your vlogs and seeing your family crush this trail. Go Crawfords.💗
All your girls seem just wonderful and Dove is very well spoken! She sounds and looks just like you, Kami! I think this is an awesome experience for the whole family! Seems like y’all are doing a great job Mom and Dad! Keep it up!
JusttheSIXofus _ she does doesn’t she? ☺️
You are not the first family to hike the trail, nor will you be the last. I admire your teamwork. You're great parents and are raising fine young adults and children. I look forward to following your future videos! Ignore the trolls!!
i´m actually between you and your kids by age (i ´m in the begining of 26) and i´ve started to backpackpacking for overnights and overweeks and i love it so much...i feel so sad that my parents were just gouching and watching TV that i = ve never had that experiance ...
I´think if I started earlier I would love it...I´ve been always begging my parents to sleep in our car or outside..and now..in my age..i´m like....if i have kids...this new adventure doesn´t need to stop. THank you so much. I don´t think that the parents that report you though about the adveture, because they never know how that can bond youe family ...
thank you so much for showing me, that it´s just awesome no matter what generation you are. :)
P.S. sorry for my english, it´s not mine native language , if you have any questions, or comments, send me an PM. Thank you for inspiration :)