My psychology professor said (years ago) that when a baby cries and is comforted by his mom, the baby feels more loved and becomes more open to his parents (as he grows older). So I think you’re right 😊 There’s really nothing wrong daw if you carry him while he cries 😊
I love how you keep saying "overwhelming" instead of "frustrating". Goes to show how optimistic you are given your situation, as a new parent. How inspiring🤎
Me too! I was told many time that “wag sanayin sa karga si baby” but I really cannot stand seeing my son crying. Comforting my son is my job and he’s not going to be so little for a long time so cherish every moment.
I like how Slater supports his wife especially on her breakdowns. I am not a parent or married but I always enjoy watching Kryz' vlogs on taking care of Scott. The journey of a new parent looks amazing to me. Mrs. Young's vlogs are still new to me and I am so proud of her for being such a dedicated mother.
I love the REALNESS of this vlog. Exactly how my 2months post partum was like.. stuck in bed, breastfeeding all day. My baby is now three. So independent and inquisitive. I miss how clingy and dependent she was when she was a newborn. Cliche as it may sound but they really do grow up so fast. Cherish every moment of it ❤️
kadtong gianak sab nako akong first born, nakaingon kog “how i wish naay book on COMPLETE parenting manual/guide” pero wala .. pero na learn nako na “ mother’s instinct “ is the best guide.. listen lang sa imong motherly instinct Kryz kay mao nay saktong e follow.. 👍🏻 basta first time mom, dili lalim ..pero keribels ra kaayo ..
Love how raw and honest your videos are ! I am a mum of two and I can tell you as all mums out there would agree... it will definitely get better - 3 months up esp. when they start to smile and look at you and love you back. All the tiredness is all worth it!
I love how your vlogs are sooo relatable. I’m also a first time mom. The highs and lows of being a new parent is indescribable. Know that you are not alone and believe me when I say that better days are coming.
fun fact: i'm only 17 and watched almost all her lifestyle vlogs especially with her hubby and scottie. just so u know, u and kuya slater are my inspo in lyf for having a wonderful family and a lovely home. ily three T_T
I remember the days when i first became a mom and almost everyday id have a breakdown when my kid doesnt sleep at night. I have to take care of him alone since my partner only comes home on weekends from school. But then weeks, months passed and i got to know more my baby, what positions in sleeping hes comfortable with, whether he wants to lie down on the bed beside me, or on my chest, which boob he prefers feeding from, that he doesnt wanna be disturbed when hes sleeping even if its his schedule to feed m, if hed like to be carried or swayed, what time hed like to take naps or go to sleep. I figured being a mom is not only a responsibilty but a skill you really need to learn. 🤣 i learned how to adjust his sleeping patterns and in 4 months time he already sleeps straight at night and the list of skills and lessons continue as more months passed. Its definitely not easy but youll get a hang of it soon! I adore you for just being so strong despite the situtation. Scottie is already proud of you! Thank you for sharing this Kryz! Laban inahan! ☺️💜💋
I've been following your journey since time immemorial. The kikay Kryz, which I came to know five years ago, is now becoming the best #SkyMomma and that's making me emotional.
I found the best word to describe your vlogs, its very "therapeutic". Don't worry ate Kryz, these are the kind of vlogs that entertain us, you do not have to try so hard. We love Scottie and Sky fam
kaya un mga arabo mga bagong baby panganak nakabalot yan parang balot hehe ulo lng wlang balot kaya lage tulog un baby nla balot na balot ng towel na puti
Kadtong newborn pa akong daughter, I went through similar situation as yours. There are times na i feel so tired na mag hilak2 na lang ko but then, i just keep reminding myself na “karon ra ni”. Ingon pa sa akong mama, “karon ra na kay gamay pa” those words kept me going. Palakpakan tanan mama in the world oy. Dli lalim ❤️ karon ra na, momma kryz. It will get easier soon ❤️
I love this vlog cause it is raw and real talk about “the parent life” having a baby is a blessing, gives us joy and fulfillment however it is really not a “walk in a park” every.single.time. I wish you all the best guys. The best days are coming. -Single mom here😊❤️
Watching this just to feel like my feelings are valid. I do not see a lot of vlogs that show the other side of parenthood. Thank you for making this vlog and making us first time moms feel like we are not alone on this rewarding but a lil tougher than expected journey.
I became a first-time mom too in February and I totally understand how overwhelming it feels! Every single day of waking you don't know what to expect - all I can say is prayer helps! The first 3 months of a baby's life is unpredictable and there's no real fixed routine but to manage around his/her needs of feeding, sleeping, pooping. Just to cheer you on that the days WILL get better! Literally take it one day at a time, and your greatest joy will be in how fast baby grows each day!
I cried hearing what youve said about comforting your son. You are doing great Kryz. I also did the same. Mine was sooo clingy even she is 2yo now. Hindi mo pagsisihan lahat ng ginawa mo. That is your instinct as a mom.
I so remember the days that I were in your shoes. I am first time mom also and it was a really crazy transistion for me and for my hubby also. No matter how you physically,mentaly ,emotionally and financially prepare in having a baby it really is very very much different from what we expect. So exhausting and tiring and so fulfilling and happy also. It is really a roller coaster of emotions especially for me as I experience Post Partum Depression. But thank GOD that I got over it. More powers to you Ms. kryz and Mr.Slater.Enjoy Parenthood❤😍👏👏👏
Hi Kryz! fellow new momma here with my 4 month old little girl. The first 3 months (also has been termed the "fourth trimester") is very trying for mom and baby. Baby is just adjusting earth side after being so cozy and snug for 9+months in your belly. I've also been told "wag mo sanayin sa karga ang baby" BUT you can never spoil your newborn! Just give all the love and cuddles he can get. I find lots of skin to skin too helped with my little one's fussiness
Kryz, my baby had similar symptoms to baby Scott. She cried uncontrollably, had frequent hiccup, and would spit up and she constantly on my boob. Turns out she had acid reflux, she was given acid reflux medication and was a completely different baby after that. But by all means comfort your baby in every way that you feel your instinct is telling you to do 💕💙💕 mama knows best 😉
@SuperSweetgirl007 is right. Scottie might be feeling not ok and to be near you is the only comfort that he will feel fine. Try to talk to him-telling “he will be ok”, enough milk since he is full or anything that will let him think or feel that “it not feeding that what he needs”. You will be surprise-bec he will get used to your talking..Just be patient.. Don’t worry about other Mama’s style- we have our own right in every way..They are just concern.. Do what ever suites you, dear💖
Na remember jud nako akong first few months in motherhood ani nga vlog. * 1. Baby crying inconsolably, you did everything, and you want to cry too because you really don't know what to do. 2. #1 struggle: You don't know how to put your baby to sleep. 3. The mom bun. The most trendy hairstyle for moms. 4. Even having 5 minutes to yourself is a luxury 5. Kanang maglisud ka sa imong milk supply. Breastfeeding is hard work. 6. Kanang mapatulog nimo ang baby after 1 hour (or more) of karga karga, kanta kanta, etc. WINNER jud kaayo ang feeling ana, especially if 3AM in the morning. 7. Kanang muhilak nga walay hinungdan or getting lost in your thoughts. 8. Losing your sense of identity, especially if career woman ka tapos karun food supply ni baby na imong life goals. 9. Kanang hubby nimo who's trying his best pero his best is not enough maskin unsaon. Like their boobs should breastfeed, too! Unfair kaayo 😂 10. Kanang sige ra ka check if breathing si baby. I could go on ani nga list. It's so overwhelming jud tuod. Pero kapit lang jud sizt. You are doing an awesome job. People will always have something negative to say, will always give their opinions on how you should do your job as a parent, pero just brush those things off. No one knows your baby like you do, so you do you. Keep loving yourself pa din. You are the most important person in your child's life right now. So keep up the great work! Love you @Kryzzie!
Donot worry because that is normal feeding for some babies like when I had my second daughter, she was feeding from me 24/7 literally for 5 years right before she entered pre-school where my ultimate fear reached its level, but for some 'miracle', she just stopped feeding. Today I talked with her about it and made us much closer, even at her age 20 now, she still sleeps sometimes at my side in the feeding position. God bless you both for you will be a geat parents🌝
All I can say Ms Kryz is enjoy the moment. Babies grow up too fast. Parenting doesn’t have a perfect formula. Each baby has their own style. If everybody else thinks you pamper your baby too much, let them be. It’s your baby and a mom knows what’s best for her baby even if it doesn’t suit the standards of others. You’re going to be just fine. I’m sure the coming months will be much better and you’ll get to enjoy Scottie more. Hugs to a wonderful mom like you. 🥰
I appreciate your candor ❤️❤️ my baby is also fairly new, nearly 4 months old, and the first few months really were the toughest. Just take it a day at a time, a step at a time, a feed at a time and before you know it he's more awake na, smiling and interacting, and it will be even more rewarding ❤️ you're doing great, you got this!!
auuuhh.. I'm a first time mom too and definitely felt the same more than 2 yrs ago.. it's so normal.. regarding kay baby Scotie that he won't stop crying, malamang nga kinakabagan sya, try to tap his tummy, if it feels naninigas or matigas, it means may kabag. what i do na turo ng parents namin and mga lola lolo,pahiran ng aceite de manzanilla. pero d naman naniniwala doctors. pero i stilladapt it kasi noong araw pa un na ginagawa sa babies pg kabagin. i still choose to believe sa matatanda na madaming experience :) also, i love how sweet you two are .. praying na you'll be the same until mgng lolo at lola na kayo.. GOD Bless Kryz and Slater and baby Scotie and Sky.. hehe such a beautiful family 😍♥️
When Krzy said “SUCCESS!” I felt it 🤣 We have a baby in our house and it’s a real struggle letting them fall asleep on a bed and not on the mother’s arms 🤣🤣🤣
Super nakarelate ako super emotional while watching this. Hindi totoo yung "wag sanayin kargahin ang baby". They are babies. They need us the most during these times. Mamimiss dn natin yan paglaki nila and tayo lang meron sila this time so cuddle them as much they want to. You're doing a good job Kryz!!! I am breastfeeding for almost 17 months now and it's really hard at first. Unlilatch is really the key and padede lang ng padede kung gusto ni baby 🥰
And here comes the most awaited person on your vlog ate krizzie. Babyy scottie, cute baby like his mommy and daddyy ❤️❤️❤️ ilove your family ate stay safe and healthy everyday ❤️❤️
Awww Kryz! You are doing such a great job! I love how you said you choose to comfort your son. As someone had already mentioned, I don’t believe in “wag mong sanayin sa pagkarga anak mo”. Psychologically, babies who are comforted by their parents a lot grow up to be secure people. While parents who hesitate or ignore their baby’s needs will have children who have either anxious or avoidant attachment style. It really affects them too and the relationships they will build in the future. So for me, I admire that you just go with what you know and what your instinct is telling you, loving and being there for Scott, the best way you know how. You are doing really well and Slater is too, cute kaayo mong duha. So much respect and love for you and your family ♥️
I always tell myself that “this too shall pass” everytime we hit growth spurt even tho its like forever! Been EBF for 18mos now w/my 2nd baby and i can tell that its all worth it w/my 2boys👍🏻 hugs n kisses to you & baby scottie🥰😍 btw, my hubby have the same talent as slater... KO throughout the night & mostly takes nap when the baby is also at nap.how annoying😁
Kryz just want to say thank you. Watched your vlog at 4am last night.. And your video helped me survive my sleepless night taking care of my newborn. Your strength as a mom.. Inspired me that i too can make it and survive the mama pains. Just went thru CS and nursing my baby has been a struggle for me because of severe pain.. So just thank you for being an inspiration to many.. And sharing your journey
I really admire you ate. I'll be having my second baby soon. And it's true, if your a first time mom, u'll really get frustrated pagka hnd mo alam if may something wrong kay baby and I admire how you manage it. Seeing how beautiful #SkyFam is so inspiring. 😍❤ Keep the love and peace in your fam. 🤗
awwwww it's so sweet of slater to still treat you like his baby 💖! Dapat may free bite(s) na erday. You such a good momma even if there are days that you feel like you're doing things wrong, I saw how passionate and dedicated you are as a mum and a good wife ❤! So much love for your fam, Godbless 💖!
Karelate na jud ko ani. First time mom here. My little one is turning 1 month this saturday. Grabe di jud lalim. Way tog, fuzzy baby, moro reflex, fever due to clogged milk ducts, sige ra totoy si baby. Everything is uncomfortable. Karelate pud ko sa tahi thing down there still healing then sige ra kugos lingkod kay hilakon si baby. I really felt this video. At least im not alone. Thank you kryz. God bless.
The constant crying is normal for a breastfeeding baby, Ms Kryz. Story of my life din yan. They are always clingy because they are dependent on you.Prayers help, too:) Get an anointing oil and pray for your baby's protection din po. Wishing you the best in your mommy journey!
Hi Kryz my son was like that as well. I realized what I ate or drank made him gassy and cried a lot, probably b/c of tummy pains. When I stopped dairy products and stopped eating chicken and eggs he didn’t cry much and his eczema improved. So I removed certain allergen foods from my diet until I stopped breast feeding. We also use to massage his tummy to soothe him with some kind of ointment from the Philippines. Which also helped. Now that my son is older we learned he has allergies to milk, corn products, wheat, and chicken. Take care. It will get easier. ❤️
i was smiling like an idiot from the start until the end of the video. this is so overwhelming, i cried for like 10 times. i feel so happy for both of u! i'm so proud of u kriz! scottie will have the best mom and dad🥺😭💜💜💜
I know this is tough for you but it’s a discovery seeing you this way. I always thought that everything was so easy for you but I just realized you are still a normal, vulnerable person. Keep going, Kryz!
I hope you find vlogging and talking to us somehow therapeutic as you go along with the transition of being a new mom. Thank you for being thoughtful, you were always thinking of ways how we can be entertained by this vlog but honestly it’s real and very entertaining, you just showed how new moms cope with the changes of having a newborn, overwhelming it may seem. Remember that this is a phase we have to go through, and little by little you’ll get the hang of it. You are one tough momma Kryz!
Me too! a lot of people would always say "wag mo sanayin sa buhat" wala ako paki lol! lagi ko syang buhat baby ko dati, now she's 4yrs old, ayaw na magpabuhat, ang bilis lumaki ng bata, carry your baby as long as you can , as long as your baby wants to... as long as your body allows you to.... :) you're doing a great job being a new mom!
Each baby is unique...in case though, do try the swaddling, there are different kinds...white noise helps as babies are not used to a quite environment given when they were in the tummy, they were hearing a lot of noises inside our body...keeping them warm also helps...try swaddling him with wraps that has your smell...very effective for my baby. 😁 don’t worry, which ever you try and stick with, what’s important is that your baby will feel secure and loved. 😍 you can do this Momma 💕
Hello Ms Kryz! You are both doing a great job as first time parents! I read on the internet that in 2017 study shows you should pick up your baby every time he cries. Babies who are cuddled more grow up to be healthier, kinder, less depressed, more empathetic and more productive! So good job!
Mommy Kryz... You're doing a great job dear. Just embrace the moment. I remembered asking the pedia about the feeding interval for EBF, she told me wala...it all depends on d baby. If d baby wants to nurse every 5mins then every 5mins it is. They'll always be hungry coz bmilk digest super fast compare to formula milk. ;) my li'l maddie still latches up to now and she's already 3 1/2 😄. Pedia said if kaya until 5yrs old...do it. She's done it din daw with her youngest. 🤗🤗🤗 play music and make normal house activities and noise when baby's sleeping... seems like they like it better....but as soon as it becomes super quiet that's when they wake up and starts crying 😃😃😃
How’d you come up with his name? When did you decide on it? I think I saw a part of an older vlog where it seemed like you didnt know his name even after you gave birth na?
I never thought I would be able to relate this much to your life, you being kikay (and living in that dream house of yours lol). But I'm a first time mom (gave birth last May 26, 2020) with a high needs baby much like Scottie and I'm so glad I stumbled across this video. I've been a fan since your long-haired, digipermed phase and I am so amazed of the woman you've become! I also choose to comfort my baby in spite of what other, more experienced moms say because, like you, I can't bear the sight of my baby turning all red and sometimes purplish from crying so much. I have also read that you can't really spoil a child during their first 3 months of life. Attached parenting at the early stages actually lets them feel secure in your care and gives them the headspace to learn more about the world, without fear, and I would choose that any day over teaching them to become independent at such a tender time! (see the Babies series on Netflix for more info on babies. Love this series!) Hug, Kryz. Mommas help mommas.
Hi Ms Kryz! I hope my baby could hve also some breastmilk. Im one of those unlucky momma who doesn't have much milk 😭😭😭. My baby was born last june 17.
Same here , im a mother of 2 , a girl and a boy and same what youre feeling. I dont like hearing nor seeing my child cries so i always try to comfort my babies. Try talking to your baby it suits them as well hearing your voice.
Love ur vlog kryz, at first i thought that after ul give birth u will have a nanny to take care of the baby, but i was wrong. Watching u so hands on with ur son makes me love u more. U r a real person. Watching this vlog kai naremember pod nako akong kaagi as a first time mom to my son Job. Dili gyud lalim mahimong inahan. U r blessed because u have slater to comfort u and back u up when u need help. It was also on those first year when i found out that my son has epilepsy. So sad, mao nga dli jd ko makalimot sa akong kaagi. Na bilib kaau ko nmo na gikaya jd nmo, abi gyud btaw nako na maarte kaau ka😅, dli d i. Normal ra gyud nang mg breakdown ang inahan. We are still human and we also have our limitations. Its okay to cry sometimes especially if kapoi na gyud. We just need to ask the Lord for strength everyday na makaya lang natu and ask Him also to help us become the mom that our child needs. So proud of u kryz. Will look forward to more of ur vlogs. Love u and Godbless u and ur little family.
Ahwwwww... ana jud tinood jud bitaw ba nga kung muhilak ang baby dili jud malikyan nga dili kargahon labi na ang mga mama.. wala juy bata siguro nga dili anad sa karga.. BLESSED kaayo ka ate kryz kaybdaghan kay milk☺☺
Super relate jud koooooo, ang sleepless nights and kapoy is sa first 2 months lang.. 3 mos mejo relax na. Go go go lang my baby is 4mos already taas taas nko tulog sa gabie. Swerte kaayo ka Ms, Krys kay naa si Slater sa imu side always.
Hi Ms. Kryz! If no one has said this to you yet, YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB! I'm a first time mom too and I can totally relate to your struggles. No one taught us about the 4th trimester, which is the 1st month of our newborn babies. I was able to get passed through it with the help of side lying position. Try it. It will make you and baby's life so much better. Just make sure that you and your baby are on tummy to tummy position, place a bolster at your baby's back to make sure that he is secured on side position and you can place your pregnancy pillow at your back too so that you'll be comfortable. All you gotta do all night is to let your boob out. Also, don't mind those people who say that "baka masanay sa karga" remember this, MINSAN LANG SILA BATA 😊
You are the best mom for Scottie. We always choose to comfort our children, and I guess there is absolutely nothing wrong about it. We appreciate every update you give us, if you think there is nothing much, but for us this is a big something that we all look forward every wednesdays and sundays! Hugs to you, SKYFam! 😘
That "wag sanayin sa karga si baby" is a no no for me. Been doing that to my baby when she was still an infant, nacorrect man gyud. Kaya, you just have to trust your parenting skills mommy kryz! You got this. 💕
That is why im so amazed with you guys! 🥰 Okay ra kaayo na, Kryz.. tanang kakapoi, worth it makita ug makauban lang natu atung bb.. tanggal tanan kakapoy.💙😍 labi na makita natu sila naka smile.. arrggh!😍😍 God bless you both!😘🤗
I see the rawness and realness of it all.Just hang in there Momma Kryz.We've been here for you since then,we're still here for you now to cheer.Love you three!😘
What helped me a lot in my first 2 months was the Happiest Baby on the Block book by Harvey Karp. Each baby is different pero iyahang insights are helpful. And pasagdi ng mga advise sa lain oi. You do you. Tinuod na struggle ang breastfeeding especially in the beginning but looking back, I will not have it any other way. Congrats to you both!
Scottie is in growth spurt stage that means more cuddle! Pussy talaga ang baby pag ganyang stage. 😅😅😅 Wag po maniwala sa myth na wag sanayin ang bata sa puro karga, they're just adjusting kaya need nila usually ng skin to skin to comfort them. Minsan lang sila baby kaya sulitin na ang sleepless nights! Waiting for next vlog with scottie! Love lots! More energy po para sa inyo ❤❤❤
My psychology professor said (years ago) that when a baby cries and is comforted by his mom, the baby feels more loved and becomes more open to his parents (as he grows older). So I think you’re right 😊 There’s really nothing wrong daw if you carry him while he cries 😊
Yes. It is based on attachment theory if you are interested
Yes, Erick Erikson's developmental theory.
@@dia8639 More like John Bowlby or Mary Ainsworth's theories
Seeing Scottie now, this might be one of the reasons why he's so sweet and loving.
I love how you keep saying "overwhelming" instead of "frustrating". Goes to show how optimistic you are given your situation, as a new parent. How inspiring🤎
“I choose to comfort my son” wow i teared up a bit 😭😭😭
Why do I feel like their life with their baby is the continuation of the stories that I have read in Wattpad after the epilogue! Such a great family!
OMG YESSS!!!
and you're right😭
Me too! I was told many time that “wag sanayin sa karga si baby” but I really cannot stand seeing my son crying. Comforting my son is my job and he’s not going to be so little for a long time so cherish every moment.
Awww go all the way mommy. Hope for you, your son, and the rest of your fam safe ❤
Same here! Really my baby is a cuddle addict😂
Same sentiment momma my little girl is a colicky baby everytime she cried I really cannot stand not to comfort her even if she's inconsolable.
I like how Slater supports his wife especially on her breakdowns. I am not a parent or married but I always enjoy watching Kryz' vlogs on taking care of Scott. The journey of a new parent looks amazing to me. Mrs. Young's vlogs are still new to me and I am so proud of her for being such a dedicated mother.
I love the REALNESS of this vlog. Exactly how my 2months post partum was like.. stuck in bed, breastfeeding all day. My baby is now three. So independent and inquisitive. I miss how clingy and dependent she was when she was a newborn. Cliche as it may sound but they really do grow up so fast. Cherish every moment of it ❤️
kryz being babied by slater is EVERYTHING 😭❤️ Ilyyyyy
kadtong gianak sab nako akong first born, nakaingon kog “how i wish naay book on COMPLETE parenting manual/guide” pero wala .. pero na learn nako na “ mother’s instinct “ is the best guide.. listen lang sa imong motherly instinct Kryz kay mao nay saktong e follow.. 👍🏻
basta first time mom, dili lalim ..pero keribels ra kaayo ..
Love how raw and honest your videos are ! I am a mum of two and I can tell you as all mums out there would agree... it will definitely get better - 3 months up esp. when they start to smile and look at you and love you back. All the tiredness is all worth it!
I love how your vlogs are sooo relatable. I’m also a first time mom. The highs and lows of being a new parent is indescribable. Know that you are not alone and believe me when I say that better days are coming.
Awww Kryz it’s so beautiful seeing you as a mom! Welcome to the club ❤️ definitely relate to the not being able to shower dilemma 😂
“We all have our different parenting style”. - TRUE! I agree Ms. Kryz☺️
fun fact: i'm only 17 and watched almost all her lifestyle vlogs especially with her hubby and scottie.
just so u know, u and kuya slater are my inspo in lyf for having a wonderful family and a lovely home. ily three T_T
I remember the days when i first became a mom and almost everyday id have a breakdown when my kid doesnt sleep at night. I have to take care of him alone since my partner only comes home on weekends from school. But then weeks, months passed and i got to know more my baby, what positions in sleeping hes comfortable with, whether he wants to lie down on the bed beside me, or on my chest, which boob he prefers feeding from, that he doesnt wanna be disturbed when hes sleeping even if its his schedule to feed m, if hed like to be carried or swayed, what time hed like to take naps or go to sleep. I figured being a mom is not only a responsibilty but a skill you really need to learn. 🤣 i learned how to adjust his sleeping patterns and in 4 months time he already sleeps straight at night and the list of skills and lessons continue as more months passed.
Its definitely not easy but youll get a hang of it soon! I adore you for just being so strong despite the situtation. Scottie is already proud of you! Thank you for sharing this Kryz! Laban inahan! ☺️💜💋
Can you share what schedule you followed for this
This is what I am looking forward to every Sunday, Ate Kryz! Bonus because it's almost half an hour long. Have a blessed Sunday, skyfam!!!
I've been following your journey since time immemorial. The kikay Kryz, which I came to know five years ago, is now becoming the best #SkyMomma and that's making me emotional.
I found the best word to describe your vlogs, its very "therapeutic". Don't worry ate Kryz, these are the kind of vlogs that entertain us, you do not have to try so hard. We love Scottie and Sky fam
Nasa adjustment period pa kasi siya. Nasanay sya sa loob ng tiyan na masikip. Thats why gusto lagi ng karga or hug.😊😊😊
Okey Lang Yun krys, you're a first time mom. Gusto lagi ni baby Scotty na kargahin sya.
kaya un mga arabo mga bagong baby panganak nakabalot yan parang balot hehe ulo lng wlang balot kaya lage tulog un baby nla balot na balot ng towel na puti
Kadtong newborn pa akong daughter, I went through similar situation as yours. There are times na i feel so tired na mag hilak2 na lang ko but then, i just keep reminding myself na “karon ra ni”. Ingon pa sa akong mama, “karon ra na kay gamay pa” those words kept me going. Palakpakan tanan mama in the world oy. Dli lalim ❤️ karon ra na, momma kryz. It will get easier soon ❤️
I love this vlog cause it is raw and real talk about “the parent life” having a baby is a blessing, gives us joy and fulfillment however it is really not a “walk in a park” every.single.time. I wish you all the best guys. The best days are coming. -Single mom here😊❤️
Watching this just to feel like my feelings are valid. I do not see a lot of vlogs that show the other side of parenthood.
Thank you for making this vlog and making us first time moms feel like we are not alone on this rewarding but a lil tougher than expected journey.
oh to be like baby Scott peacefully sleeping knowing he got a bright future ahead waiting for him 😣😭❤
I became a first-time mom too in February and I totally understand how overwhelming it feels! Every single day of waking you don't know what to expect - all I can say is prayer helps! The first 3 months of a baby's life is unpredictable and there's no real fixed routine but to manage around his/her needs of feeding, sleeping, pooping. Just to cheer you on that the days WILL get better! Literally take it one day at a time, and your greatest joy will be in how fast baby grows each day!
22:16 is so cute, hubby comforting the wifey. Moms need love and comfort too. 💯
Overall, this was a very wholesome vlog. Stay safe SKYFAM. 💞✨
the way you say choose to comfort your baby, i'm touched
Omggg!!! Goodmorning Sky Faaaam, especially to Baby Scottie🥺❤️ What a lovely Sunday!🥰 A vlog with Baby Scottie is the most awaiteeeedd!!!
I cried hearing what youve said about comforting your son. You are doing great Kryz. I also did the same. Mine was sooo clingy even she is 2yo now. Hindi mo pagsisihan lahat ng ginawa mo. That is your instinct as a mom.
I so remember the days that I were in your shoes. I am first time mom also and it was a really crazy transistion for me and for my hubby also. No matter how you physically,mentaly ,emotionally and financially prepare in having a baby it really is very very much different from what we expect. So exhausting and tiring and so fulfilling and happy also. It is really a roller coaster of emotions especially for me as I experience Post Partum Depression. But thank GOD that I got over it. More powers to you Ms. kryz and Mr.Slater.Enjoy Parenthood❤😍👏👏👏
Hi Kryz! fellow new momma here with my 4 month old little girl. The first 3 months (also has been termed the "fourth trimester") is very trying for mom and baby. Baby is just adjusting earth side after being so cozy and snug for 9+months in your belly. I've also been told "wag mo sanayin sa karga ang baby" BUT you can never spoil your newborn! Just give all the love and cuddles he can get. I find lots of skin to skin too helped with my little one's fussiness
Kryz, my baby had similar symptoms to baby Scott. She cried uncontrollably, had frequent hiccup, and would spit up and she constantly on my boob. Turns out she had acid reflux, she was given acid reflux medication and was a completely different baby after that. But by all means comfort your baby in every way that you feel your instinct is telling you to do 💕💙💕 mama knows best 😉
@SuperSweetgirl007 is right. Scottie might be feeling not ok and to be near you is the only comfort that he will feel fine. Try to talk to him-telling “he will be ok”, enough milk since he is full or anything that will let him think or feel that “it not feeding that what he needs”. You will be surprise-bec he will get used to your talking..Just be patient..
Don’t worry about other Mama’s style- we have our own right in every way..They are just concern.. Do what ever suites you, dear💖
Hi mamsh, i think my baby has acid reflux too. Didnt know meron pla meds for that. What meds po were adv by his pedia?
Oh wow I didn't know babies can have acid reflux, i will embed this in my mind for future babies I'll have ❤️
Na remember jud nako akong first few months in motherhood ani nga vlog.
* 1. Baby crying inconsolably, you did everything, and you want to cry too because you really don't know what to do.
2. #1 struggle: You don't know how to put your baby to sleep.
3. The mom bun. The most trendy hairstyle for moms.
4. Even having 5 minutes to yourself is a luxury
5. Kanang maglisud ka sa imong milk supply. Breastfeeding is hard work.
6. Kanang mapatulog nimo ang baby after 1 hour (or more) of karga karga, kanta kanta, etc. WINNER jud kaayo ang feeling ana, especially if 3AM in the morning.
7. Kanang muhilak nga walay hinungdan or getting lost in your thoughts.
8. Losing your sense of identity, especially if career woman ka tapos karun food supply ni baby na imong life goals.
9. Kanang hubby nimo who's trying his best pero his best is not enough maskin unsaon. Like their boobs should breastfeed, too! Unfair kaayo 😂
10. Kanang sige ra ka check if breathing si baby.
I could go on ani nga list. It's so overwhelming jud tuod. Pero kapit lang jud sizt. You are doing an awesome job. People will always have something negative to say, will always give their opinions on how you should do your job as a parent, pero just brush those things off. No one knows your baby like you do, so you do you.
Keep loving yourself pa din. You are the most important person in your child's life right now. So keep up the great work! Love you @Kryzzie!
Donot worry because that is normal feeding for some babies like when I had my second daughter, she was feeding from me 24/7 literally for 5 years right before she entered pre-school where my ultimate fear reached its level, but for some 'miracle', she just stopped feeding. Today I talked with her about it and made us much closer, even at her age 20 now, she still sleeps sometimes at my side in the feeding position. God bless you both for you will be a geat parents🌝
All I can say Ms Kryz is enjoy the moment. Babies grow up too fast. Parenting doesn’t have a perfect formula. Each baby has their own style. If everybody else thinks you pamper your baby too much, let them be. It’s your baby and a mom knows what’s best for her baby even if it doesn’t suit the standards of others. You’re going to be just fine. I’m sure the coming months will be much better and you’ll get to enjoy Scottie more. Hugs to a wonderful mom like you. 🥰
I feel like Kryz is about to cry because she's so tired but she can't cause she loves being a mother.
Love this, seeing the whole and super real new mom thing keep em coming! Love you and your husband's relationship
I appreciate your candor ❤️❤️ my baby is also fairly new, nearly 4 months old, and the first few months really were the toughest. Just take it a day at a time, a step at a time, a feed at a time and before you know it he's more awake na, smiling and interacting, and it will be even more rewarding ❤️ you're doing great, you got this!!
BTW I read you can never spoil a newborn, so hug and comfort away!
Ate Kryz's transition from a lady to a momma is quite natural. Never expected her to be this so motherly ✊🥰. Scottie is so lucky to have this parents.
Omg I remember when you were the one who's preparing your own breakfast and now Slater's doing it for you. I find it so sweet 😭 my hearttttt ❤️
auuuhh.. I'm a first time mom too and definitely felt the same more than 2 yrs ago.. it's so normal.. regarding kay baby Scotie that he won't stop crying, malamang nga kinakabagan sya, try to tap his tummy, if it feels naninigas or matigas, it means may kabag. what i do na turo ng parents namin and mga lola lolo,pahiran ng aceite de manzanilla. pero d naman naniniwala doctors. pero i stilladapt it kasi noong araw pa un na ginagawa sa babies pg kabagin. i still choose to believe sa matatanda na madaming experience :) also, i love how sweet you two are .. praying na you'll be the same until mgng lolo at lola na kayo.. GOD Bless Kryz and Slater and baby Scotie and Sky.. hehe such a beautiful family 😍♥️
When Krzy said “SUCCESS!” I felt it 🤣 We have a baby in our house and it’s a real struggle letting them fall asleep on a bed and not on the mother’s arms 🤣🤣🤣
Super nakarelate ako super emotional while watching this. Hindi totoo yung "wag sanayin kargahin ang baby". They are babies. They need us the most during these times. Mamimiss dn natin yan paglaki nila and tayo lang meron sila this time so cuddle them as much they want to. You're doing a good job Kryz!!! I am breastfeeding for almost 17 months now and it's really hard at first. Unlilatch is really the key and padede lang ng padede kung gusto ni baby 🥰
And here comes the most awaited person on your vlog ate krizzie. Babyy scottie, cute baby like his mommy and daddyy ❤️❤️❤️ ilove your family ate stay safe and healthy everyday ❤️❤️
Your doing a good job kryz💪
Awww Kryz! You are doing such a great job! I love how you said you choose to comfort your son. As someone had already mentioned, I don’t believe in “wag mong sanayin sa pagkarga anak mo”. Psychologically, babies who are comforted by their parents a lot grow up to be secure people. While parents who hesitate or ignore their baby’s needs will have children who have either anxious or avoidant attachment style. It really affects them too and the relationships they will build in the future. So for me, I admire that you just go with what you know and what your instinct is telling you, loving and being there for Scott, the best way you know how. You are doing really well and Slater is too, cute kaayo mong duha. So much respect and love for you and your family ♥️
I always tell myself that “this too shall pass” everytime we hit growth spurt even tho its like forever! Been EBF for 18mos now w/my 2nd baby and i can tell that its all worth it w/my 2boys👍🏻 hugs n kisses to you & baby scottie🥰😍 btw, my hubby have the same talent as slater... KO throughout the night & mostly takes nap when the baby is also at nap.how annoying😁
Kryz just want to say thank you. Watched your vlog at 4am last night.. And your video helped me survive my sleepless night taking care of my newborn. Your strength as a mom.. Inspired me that i too can make it and survive the mama pains. Just went thru CS and nursing my baby has been a struggle for me because of severe pain.. So just thank you for being an inspiration to many.. And sharing your journey
I really admire you ate. I'll be having my second baby soon. And it's true, if your a first time mom, u'll really get frustrated pagka hnd mo alam if may something wrong kay baby and I admire how you manage it. Seeing how beautiful #SkyFam is so inspiring. 😍❤ Keep the love and peace in your fam. 🤗
Hearts By Aika shes just so lucky to have hes husband beside him
Ms. Kryz the warmth of your love and the smell of you as his mom gives him comfort. Enjoy your baba they grow up so fast :)
From Kikay Kryz to meeting her Blogger Jowa to having Scottie. So proud of you, Momma! God bless you always! ❤
Sky parents najud kaau oy! Goodjob Kryz and Sir Slater ❤️❤️❤️
awwwww it's so sweet of slater to still treat you like his baby 💖! Dapat may free bite(s) na erday. You such a good momma even if there are days that you feel like you're doing things wrong, I saw how passionate and dedicated you are as a mum and a good wife ❤! So much love for your fam, Godbless 💖!
Karelate na jud ko ani. First time mom here. My little one is turning 1 month this saturday. Grabe di jud lalim. Way tog, fuzzy baby, moro reflex, fever due to clogged milk ducts, sige ra totoy si baby. Everything is uncomfortable. Karelate pud ko sa tahi thing down there still healing then sige ra kugos lingkod kay hilakon si baby. I really felt this video. At least im not alone. Thank you kryz. God bless.
"This person here. The bigger person,not the littleperson. The little person just have breakfast" Slater saying this got my laughing so hard🤣🤣🤣
Everytime i watch her videos. I cry. I dont know why. 😭 being a parent is such a fulfilling moment. 😊❤️
galing nmn . So blessed being a bfed mum. 💜
The constant crying is normal for a breastfeeding baby, Ms Kryz. Story of my life din yan. They are always clingy because they are dependent on you.Prayers help, too:) Get an anointing oil and pray for your baby's protection din po. Wishing you the best in your mommy journey!
Awww you had a breakdown and it was pretty obvious in your eyes :( wish you all the comfort Kryz *virtual hug*
Hi Kryz my son was like that as well. I realized what I ate or drank made him gassy and cried a lot, probably b/c of tummy pains. When I stopped dairy products and stopped eating chicken and eggs he didn’t cry much and his eczema improved. So I removed certain allergen foods from my diet until I stopped breast feeding. We also use to massage his tummy to soothe him with some kind of ointment from the Philippines. Which also helped. Now that my son is older we learned he has allergies to milk, corn products, wheat, and chicken. Take care. It will get easier. ❤️
“Lactating Father”
Me: 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
i was smiling like an idiot from the start until the end of the video. this is so overwhelming, i cried for like 10 times. i feel so happy for both of u! i'm so proud of u kriz! scottie will have the best mom and dad🥺😭💜💜💜
I have been patiently waiting for this. Finally 😭❤️
purya buyah kaayo si scotttieeee. liwat kaayo ni kuya slaterrr😊
Yassss 27 min long vlog ahhhh my sunday is complete 😍😭
Happy Sunday!! 🤗❤️
@@kryzzzie Amping mo dira sa Sugbo bisan ug naa pa ang hulga sa COVID-19.
I know this is tough for you but it’s a discovery seeing you this way. I always thought that everything was so easy for you but I just realized you are still a normal, vulnerable person. Keep going, Kryz!
minsan lang siya baby. so carry him often. ❤️ babywear him so you can free your hand. 😁
I hope you find vlogging and talking to us somehow therapeutic as you go along with the transition of being a new mom. Thank you for being thoughtful, you were always thinking of ways how we can be entertained by this vlog but honestly it’s real and very entertaining, you just showed how new moms cope with the changes of having a newborn, overwhelming it may seem. Remember that this is a phase we have to go through, and little by little you’ll get the hang of it. You are one tough momma Kryz!
Just here to tell everyone that Jesus love you❤️ Repent from your sins and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and He will never leave you!!
Amen
Me too! a lot of people would always say "wag mo sanayin sa buhat" wala ako paki lol! lagi ko syang buhat baby ko dati, now she's 4yrs old, ayaw na magpabuhat, ang bilis lumaki ng bata, carry your baby as long as you can , as long as your baby wants to... as long as your body allows you to.... :) you're doing a great job being a new mom!
Make a cloth " duyan" for him. He feels always being cuddled by you with it
This actually worked for us because my baby was also fuzzy when she was 2 months old.
oo duyan will help
Each baby is unique...in case though, do try the swaddling, there are different kinds...white noise helps as babies are not used to a quite environment given when they were in the tummy, they were hearing a lot of noises inside our body...keeping them warm also helps...try swaddling him with wraps that has your smell...very effective for my baby. 😁 don’t worry, which ever you try and stick with, what’s important is that your baby will feel secure and loved. 😍 you can do this Momma 💕
Vlog with Scottie is here! 💕
Hello Ms Kryz! You are both doing a great job as first time parents! I read on the internet that in 2017 study shows you should pick up your baby every time he cries. Babies who are cuddled more grow up to be healthier, kinder, less depressed, more empathetic and more productive! So good job!
Scott looks so muuuuch like Slater ate Kryz! Liwat jd 😂
Ahhhh kakyut atong gihimo kag baby ni kuya Slater🥺😍😍 Love u guysss❤
He might be in a growth spurt :) they tend to nurse more and be more fussy when they are in that stage. Hang in there, momma!
Agreeee and it's hard pag nasa growth spurt
Mommy Kryz... You're doing a great job dear. Just embrace the moment. I remembered asking the pedia about the feeding interval for EBF, she told me wala...it all depends on d baby. If d baby wants to nurse every 5mins then every 5mins it is. They'll always be hungry coz bmilk digest super fast compare to formula milk. ;) my li'l maddie still latches up to now and she's already 3 1/2 😄. Pedia said if kaya until 5yrs old...do it. She's done it din daw with her youngest. 🤗🤗🤗 play music and make normal house activities and noise when baby's sleeping... seems like they like it better....but as soon as it becomes super quiet that's when they wake up and starts crying 😃😃😃
How’d you come up with his name? When did you decide on it? I think I saw a part of an older vlog where it seemed like you didnt know his name even after you gave birth na?
I never thought I would be able to relate this much to your life, you being kikay (and living in that dream house of yours lol). But I'm a first time mom (gave birth last May 26, 2020) with a high needs baby much like Scottie and I'm so glad I stumbled across this video. I've been a fan since your long-haired, digipermed phase and I am so amazed of the woman you've become! I also choose to comfort my baby in spite of what other, more experienced moms say because, like you, I can't bear the sight of my baby turning all red and sometimes purplish from crying so much. I have also read that you can't really spoil a child during their first 3 months of life. Attached parenting at the early stages actually lets them feel secure in your care and gives them the headspace to learn more about the world, without fear, and I would choose that any day over teaching them to become independent at such a tender time! (see the Babies series on Netflix for more info on babies. Love this series!)
Hug, Kryz. Mommas help mommas.
Hi Ms Kryz! I hope my baby could hve also some breastmilk. Im one of those unlucky momma who doesn't have much milk 😭😭😭. My baby was born last june 17.
Same here , im a mother of 2 , a girl and a boy and same what youre feeling. I dont like hearing nor seeing my child cries so i always try to comfort my babies. Try talking to your baby it suits them as well hearing your voice.
Try to use pacifier when he's full but still wants to eat.
Did the same with my newborn.. And it helps..
I agree and it might help. Coz here in US as early as one day old the nurses soothe my baby with pacifier.
Ganyan din ako sa baby ko nun.
Me too. 😬
Love ur vlog kryz, at first i thought that after ul give birth u will have a nanny to take care of the baby, but i was wrong. Watching u so hands on with ur son makes me love u more. U r a real person. Watching this vlog kai naremember pod nako akong kaagi as a first time mom to my son Job. Dili gyud lalim mahimong inahan. U r blessed because u have slater to comfort u and back u up when u need help. It was also on those first year when i found out that my son has epilepsy. So sad, mao nga dli jd ko makalimot sa akong kaagi. Na bilib kaau ko nmo na gikaya jd nmo, abi gyud btaw nako na maarte kaau ka😅, dli d i. Normal ra gyud nang mg breakdown ang inahan. We are still human and we also have our limitations. Its okay to cry sometimes especially if kapoi na gyud. We just need to ask the Lord for strength everyday na makaya lang natu and ask Him also to help us become the mom that our child needs. So proud of u kryz. Will look forward to more of ur vlogs. Love u and Godbless u and ur little family.
i am so amazed by how you can swallow the pills altogether!!! Hahahaha Im even having a hard time swallowing just 1 pill. Hahahaha
Ahwwwww... ana jud tinood jud bitaw ba nga kung muhilak ang baby dili jud malikyan nga dili kargahon labi na ang mga mama.. wala juy bata siguro nga dili anad sa karga.. BLESSED kaayo ka ate kryz kaybdaghan kay milk☺☺
Super relate jud koooooo, ang sleepless nights and kapoy is sa first 2 months lang.. 3 mos mejo relax na. Go go go lang my baby is 4mos already taas taas nko tulog sa gabie. Swerte kaayo ka Ms, Krys kay naa si Slater sa imu side always.
Syempre "👍🏻" kay gwapa man ka ms. Kryz bisag unsaon❤️☺️
Liwat kaau si Scottie nimo Kryz!!! Congrats againnn and enjoy every bit kay dali ra gyud kaau sila mo dako!!!!😭❤❤❤
Hi Ms. Kryz! If no one has said this to you yet, YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB! I'm a first time mom too and I can totally relate to your struggles. No one taught us about the 4th trimester, which is the 1st month of our newborn babies. I was able to get passed through it with the help of side lying position. Try it. It will make you and baby's life so much better. Just make sure that you and your baby are on tummy to tummy position, place a bolster at your baby's back to make sure that he is secured on side position and you can place your pregnancy pillow at your back too so that you'll be comfortable. All you gotta do all night is to let your boob out.
Also, don't mind those people who say that "baka masanay sa karga" remember this, MINSAN LANG SILA BATA 😊
Grav jud maka addict imong vlog jud ate😂 Instead magstudy for boards nalingaw kog watch sa imong mga vlogs💕
You are the best mom for Scottie. We always choose to comfort our children, and I guess there is absolutely nothing wrong about it. We appreciate every update you give us, if you think there is nothing much, but for us this is a big something that we all look forward every wednesdays and sundays! Hugs to you, SKYFam! 😘
That "wag sanayin sa karga si baby" is a no no for me. Been doing that to my baby when she was still an infant, nacorrect man gyud. Kaya, you just have to trust your parenting skills mommy kryz! You got this. 💕
That is why im so amazed with you guys! 🥰 Okay ra kaayo na, Kryz.. tanang kakapoi, worth it makita ug makauban lang natu atung bb.. tanggal tanan kakapoy.💙😍 labi na makita natu sila naka smile.. arrggh!😍😍 God bless you both!😘🤗
You’re are so practical in life! ❤️ You’re my idol now. ❤️😘 God bless you.
para sayo ang laban na to....ganahan kaayo ko sa inyong little family ...GOD BLESS and AMPING ALWAYS
enjoy scottie while gamay pa miss kryz coz dali ra kaayo sila mo dako and makamiss ila pagka baby ❣️.#labaninahan!!!😍
such a wonderful parent😍 swerte kaayo si scottieeeeeee baby boy.
I see the rawness and realness of it all.Just hang in there Momma Kryz.We've been here for you since then,we're still here for you now to cheer.Love you three!😘
What helped me a lot in my first 2 months was the Happiest Baby on the Block book by Harvey Karp. Each baby is different pero iyahang insights are helpful. And pasagdi ng mga advise sa lain oi. You do you. Tinuod na struggle ang breastfeeding especially in the beginning but looking back, I will not have it any other way. Congrats to you both!
AHAHAHAHHAHA cute kaaaayo!! Klaro gyud kaayo pagka intsik ni baby oyy! You’re doing a great job so far ate Kryz! ♥️✨
Scottie is in growth spurt stage that means more cuddle! Pussy talaga ang baby pag ganyang stage. 😅😅😅 Wag po maniwala sa myth na wag sanayin ang bata sa puro karga, they're just adjusting kaya need nila usually ng skin to skin to comfort them. Minsan lang sila baby kaya sulitin na ang sleepless nights! Waiting for next vlog with scottie! Love lots! More energy po para sa inyo ❤❤❤