Real Families: Breakthroughs in Student Behavior

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  • @D-me-dream-smp
    @D-me-dream-smp 4 роки тому +53

    This lady is a gem. She has such patience and compassion and hopefully she can change the direction of some of these children. This is a unique and interesting solution which reduces the disruption to the other classes while supporting these children’s educational needs. For the people being judgemental we are only seeing a glimpse into their lives and no doubt some of them are possibly dealing with different brain chemistry, may have had prenatal exposure to drugs or alcohol or have experienced unstable home life or trauma in their early lives. They may not have learnt the basics of boundaries, structure, emotional regulation and social skills in their early life.

    • @amitramlall4235
      @amitramlall4235 Рік тому +5

      I agree. We need more teachers like this lady, because they actually care. I never went to school, but I think that there are very few teachers that care. They seem too quick to put labels on the kids, instead of trying to figure out what they kids are interested in.
      Hope that helps.

    • @GeoAmigo2
      @GeoAmigo2 23 дні тому

      @@amitramlall4235There is a reason some teachers “Label Kids” They are overworked and underpaid and deal with a rise in bad behaviour and they don’t get paid to figure out what’s wrong

  • @robertcomtois2074
    @robertcomtois2074 3 роки тому +27

    We need more teachers like this woman she's such a sweetheart

  • @lewiswise7808
    @lewiswise7808 Рік тому +12

    I admire the teacher's patience when Jamie wouldn't get off the floor and she dealt with it in the most humourous way I've ever seen. She deserves a medal.

  • @globalwarmhugs7741
    @globalwarmhugs7741 2 роки тому +15

    What a lovely bunch of little kids. All it takes, for the most part, is the proper support for them to learn how to interact more positively with one another and with other children. This teacher is a gem. I wish that there had been ones like her in my childhood.

  • @ingeborg-anne
    @ingeborg-anne 5 років тому +59

    Man, I wish I could've gotten something like this when I was little. I was never taught the simple ability of praising myself for good work.

    • @ServiteJack
      @ServiteJack 2 роки тому +5

      It’s ok now ya? We’re never taught what we really need when we need it
      Why. Idk either. But moments we are everything begins right?
      Peace

    • @ingeborg-anne
      @ingeborg-anne 2 роки тому +3

      @@ServiteJack Hey, Jack! Yes, I'm far better at it now. Thank you :)

  • @sophie-xg5cx
    @sophie-xg5cx Рік тому +26

    When I was a child I had been permanently excluded from 3 schools before my autism diagnosis and when I got moved into a primary ages pupil referral unit they helped me a lot learn how to regulate my emotions and be able to take myself to a safe space to calm down and when I was able to move back into a mainstream primary just about end of year 4 I got put into a nurture room and was able to be fully reintegrated into the mainstream classroom just after Christmas in year 5. I am now in year 10 doing my mocks in a mainstream secondary school. I do have lessons in inclusion because I can't do certain lessons but I've not been excluded. I got suspended only 2 times during high school.

    • @ashlieleavelle
      @ashlieleavelle 10 місяців тому +3

      You are bragging because you were suspended only 2 times in High school? Please don't use autism as an excuse to be bad. I know your brain works differently. You don't HAVE to get in trouble at all. You can choose to behave. I applaud you for making progress.

    • @ryan-anarchist-2535
      @ryan-anarchist-2535 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@ashlieleavelle it's exceptionally easy to get excluded for autistic behaviour. One of my primary schools was about to permanently exclude me because I had autistic meltdowns there all the time, if my mum hadn't removed me first I'd have been expelled

    • @Misszebyrobloxvideos756
      @Misszebyrobloxvideos756 2 місяці тому

      same before people started thinking/knew i was autistic in year 7 i also kept getting in trouble detentions and got suspended one time but in around may/june/july people started thinking i was autistic but i have to wait 2 or 3 years for an official diagnoses

  • @terrie-annhone582
    @terrie-annhone582 4 роки тому +20

    What a lovely teacher, God ,bless her. That little boy needs help. Bless him lord.

  • @jenniferclark9367
    @jenniferclark9367 5 років тому +67

    If all teaches could be like this teacher...wow

    • @emilyraquelrodriguezsalina2149
      @emilyraquelrodriguezsalina2149 4 роки тому +1

      hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to uncover dealing with toddler tantrums try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbor got amazing results with it.

  • @karenfitzpatrick6256
    @karenfitzpatrick6256 2 роки тому +13

    I'm in the US where children are pressured to be in competition with everyone. With only one winner and the rest loses. Very self-centeredness that does not serve emotional growth.
    I'm so impressed with this UK school program that focuses on the individual child's emotional challenges. Where they are taught to overcome their fear, anger and insecurities. Where the ability to fit in and work with others is the top priority for success and supported by the teachers, parents and their peers.
    Well done! These kids have great training in self control and a healthy self confidence that will serve them well throughout life.
    Where as our children grow up always striving to "be first" without the coping skills to see the importance of their contribution toward the whole. Leading them to think "cheating" is fine as their integrity is compromised. You see it in the differences in our Societies. We've been concentrating on the wrong attributes to build strong and compassionate adults. And you are known for your reserved manner and respectful ability in relating to others.
    We could learn a lot from your educational example about teaching moral character and fair play to our children!

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +1

      You’ve made so many really interesting comparisons here I feel true compassion for the American children affected by such a competitive introduction to education and life. It’s awful isn’t it? I’m from a different country than Scotland & US and our system is more like the Scotland model thankfully. All I can suggest is to lobby politicians for change to the US system. Someone has to start somewhere I guess…? This film has really inspired me in regulating my own behaviour as well as the children in my life 🙏🏽

    • @coolkitty2075
      @coolkitty2075 4 місяці тому +1

      Thats horrible ❤

  • @Crafting_Through_Life
    @Crafting_Through_Life Рік тому +12

    That teacher getting Jordan into soccer and being there cheering her on really hit my heart. We need more teachers like her in this world.

  • @janesmith4h
    @janesmith4h 3 роки тому +15

    This teacher Blessed my soul. She calmed me down, and I'm an adult! AMAZING

  • @olivialaylaxox
    @olivialaylaxox 10 місяців тому +4

    i love that teacher, so calming,so nice and understanding. what a star!

  • @chelsearobson2871
    @chelsearobson2871 2 роки тому +9

    This video really touched my heart, My little boy is like many of these children & hes due to start school in September, I'm his biggest mascot & want what's best for him as seeing how these adult have such an impact on these lovely little children really made me smile knowing teachers do have a heart & see past the childrens struggles & help them. I have faith when my boy starts school in September he will be looked after.

  • @marioyt39595
    @marioyt39595 Рік тому +6

    The teachers in this are so calm, we need more teachers in this type of personality

  • @itspeekaboo
    @itspeekaboo Рік тому +4

    It's amazing what can be achieved, with resources and the dedication of some people.

  • @leighfletcher4101
    @leighfletcher4101 4 роки тому +43

    I know these children have problems, but as a teacher who has been attacked, threatened (my family too) and sworn at, it gets really old.

    • @zoedark7101
      @zoedark7101 11 місяців тому +3

      You shouldn't have to put up with abuse.

  • @jamieoakwolf5949
    @jamieoakwolf5949 5 років тому +24

    Me and Jordyn have so much in common: ADHD, No self esteem, Anger quick, keeping people at a distance.
    Nice to know I'm not the only one with this: Only 2 differences are I don't have the smaller class opportunity so I have nowhere to go and usually end up Isolated.
    Also I'm autistic

    • @PinkGoldAbby
      @PinkGoldAbby 2 роки тому +1

      Well this ain't about you hon 😀

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +5

      @@PinkGoldAbby what a nasty thing to say. Shame on you.

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +1

      Jamie Oakwolf my empathy and sympathy for you is strong. Try and find yourself a good adult therapy program for Autism and/or behavioural support if you can. You deserve care & compassion too, no matter what your age. 🙏🏽

    • @stevenpryer5880
      @stevenpryer5880 Рік тому +1

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    • @stevenpryer5880
      @stevenpryer5880 Рік тому +1

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  • @angelinagulizio5830
    @angelinagulizio5830 2 роки тому +8

    I don’t think the teachers in our system have that kind of patience! I can understand some teachers are underpaid but if it your ambition to be a teacher the rewards can be great All I’ve seen recently is teachers staying home and not coming to a agreement on anything So much as teaching as a calling🤧

  • @amenjen
    @amenjen 5 років тому +24

    Jason had a seizure. Poor baby.

    • @amenjen
      @amenjen 5 років тому +3

      Kaitlyn Hassler 10:35 mark. The teacher waves her hand in front of his face.

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому

      I agree with you - it did look very much like a seizure, however, his teacher was able to get a reaction from him and he was still shallow breathing throughout and able to maintain a good open airway with his posturing. His teacher would have been right there if he’d become unstable but thankfully he recovered quickly, no fuss was made & he didn’t have any adverse effects. Im sure they were well aware of what was going on & what to do if things changed. In my opinion - an extremely well managed episode and a full recovery - you can’t ask for better than that. 🙏🏽

    • @hello-un2rp
      @hello-un2rp Рік тому

      @@london_liv5539 what part in the video

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому

      @@hello-un2rp around 10:21. Jason recovers less than a minute later.

  • @dominewimbury2039
    @dominewimbury2039 5 років тому +25

    I hope that wasn't a seizure poor Jason had! It did go on for a good while

    • @kaylamccrone7440
      @kaylamccrone7440 Рік тому +1

      Or it could be that he’s not present in the moment it’s quite common in children like these

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +2

      I agree with you - it did look very much like a seizure, however, his teacher was able to get a reaction from him and he was still shallow breathing throughout and able to maintain a good open airway with his posturing. His teacher would have been right there if he’d become unstable but thankfully he recovered quickly, no fuss was made & he didn’t have any adverse effects. Im sure they were well aware of what was going on & what to do if things changed. In my opinion - an extremely well managed episode and a full recovery - you can’t ask for better than that. 🙏🏽

    • @ryan-anarchist-2535
      @ryan-anarchist-2535 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@london_liv5539 I used to have a friend who has absence seizures and they look almost identical to that. She would smile and even laugh slightly/quietly if you said something funny, but she would be staring into space and unable to move her head, just her face slightly

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 7 місяців тому

      @@ryan-anarchist-2535 mmm they’re certainly different aren’t they? As long as the person is breathing though, it should pass quickly.

  • @celiabonadies5667
    @celiabonadies5667 5 років тому +27

    One of the boys near the beginning seemed to have a seizure. I hope is getting help with that.

    • @dominewimbury2039
      @dominewimbury2039 5 років тому +6

      That's what I thought. Hope that's not a seizure he's having and they don't realise

    • @sweetsting1448
      @sweetsting1448 5 років тому +9

      He was dissociating, blanking out. Very common for people on the autism spectrum.

    • @shaylavale8540
      @shaylavale8540 4 роки тому +10

      @@sweetsting1448 It also looked like an absence seizure... He really needs testing. I too thought the same thing Celia Bonadies. I lived with simple, partial seizures most of my life. Only close family and friends could tell for the most part when I had a seizure. Many of my teachers thought I was daydreaming when I was in school.

    • @shaylavale8540
      @shaylavale8540 4 роки тому

      @Am better then everyone and Everything am a GOD I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope most people are educated enough not to do that anymore. Though I am sure many still think that way...

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +2

      I agree with you - it did look very much like a seizure, however, his teacher was able to get a reaction from him and he was still shallow breathing throughout and able to maintain a good open airway with his posturing. His teacher would have been right there if he’d become unstable but thankfully he recovered quickly, no fuss was made & he didn’t have any adverse effects. Im sure they were well aware of what was going on & what to do if things changed. In my opinion - an extremely well managed episode and a full recovery - you can’t ask for better than that. 🙏🏽

  • @Twdsuperfan2010
    @Twdsuperfan2010 5 років тому +10

    Jamie's care taker sounds like she's Ms. higgins from Sofia the first lol .

  • @Wildlifesupernannyfan
    @Wildlifesupernannyfan 4 роки тому +14

    I had ADHD but got diagnosed at just 8. I only had 3 major temper tantrums through out my whole school coreea which was 15 years in duration which wasnt too bad. One over lunch and two over a class problems.

    • @denise8791
      @denise8791 3 роки тому +2

      How did you manage the other times you didn't have tantrums? What made you not tantrum? It sounds like you perhaps had great support around you.🙂

    • @Giveme100ksubs
      @Giveme100ksubs 2 роки тому +2

      i got mostly at the age of 6 WERE I RANDOMLY SHOWED MY BOTTOM AT THE FRONT OF OTHER CLASSROOMS IN MY SCHOOL WTF IS WRONG WITH ME!??? i dont do that again and my ADHD is gone

    • @ryan-anarchist-2535
      @ryan-anarchist-2535 7 місяців тому

      Adhd can't go away. It's literally physically impossible to "not have ADHD anymore".
      You either still have it, but the traits and symptoms have calmed down, or you never had it in the first place. ​@@Giveme100ksubs

  • @Senacacrane
    @Senacacrane 7 місяців тому +1

    I think what's helpful is that these teachers in this school system are trying to help these kids and help them overcome difficulty suggest shyness such as insecurities and other stuff. I mean here in America, we don't often help kids who have behavioral issues. We try which is what's important. Important but it's always about competition here in America. For me. I have autism and yes I used to be shy but I don't blame parents all the time. I think it's the school system. That's very important. Without the supports that these kids have had, they wouldn't be here. They wouldn't be talking to people opening up, you know. Yes it is scary but this is the type of school system we need for people. Specifically kids with disabilities. Whether that's autism ADHD or other stuff.

  • @sundrawsun3386
    @sundrawsun3386 5 років тому +20

    Pls test Jamie for Authism. Hope he gets the help he needs soon. All the best for the family 💛

    • @TempoViolence
      @TempoViolence 5 років тому +3

      These documentaries are years old

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 3 роки тому +1

      @@ashleigh2737 needs discipline

    • @jcjanes1
      @jcjanes1 8 місяців тому +1

      I would hope these children are getting diagnosis. I suspect Jaime has ASD and FASD. Very difficult at times to manage. Needs lots of love at home and school.

  • @Aurora-kq7bo
    @Aurora-kq7bo 5 років тому +17

    I wish tax money went to this rather than army one plane cost ten years of education for all the kids in UK.... sad world

    • @karenfitzpatrick6256
      @karenfitzpatrick6256 2 роки тому +2

      I agree! I'm in the US and education is so under funded and a low priority, yet our military gets all they ask for.

    • @jcjanes1
      @jcjanes1 8 місяців тому

      I'm not familiar with the system in the UK. Canada has funding available to families for supports, and with diagnosis children can qualify for up to a full time aid in the schools

  • @carolwong1456
    @carolwong1456 2 роки тому +4

    Inspirational!

  • @jamessearson
    @jamessearson Місяць тому +1

    The schools are on a council estate showing naglection not the lack of motivation?

  • @amyleedenn7148
    @amyleedenn7148 5 років тому +9

    That child has a morbid death infatuations

    • @london_liv5539
      @london_liv5539 Рік тому +1

      Classic parental neglect & no supervision of what he’s exposed via technology sadly.

  • @ryan-anarchist-2535
    @ryan-anarchist-2535 7 місяців тому +1

    Does anyone know the name of theme park they visited?

  • @ashley2680
    @ashley2680 4 роки тому +10

    That lady sounds like she’s Scottish

    • @Ashley-ko4sm
      @Ashley-ko4sm 4 роки тому +6

      She is, this school is in Glasgow Scotland

  • @Santi.com.ar.
    @Santi.com.ar. 2 роки тому +2

    What happen to the parents of this children, there is the "problem", they go back home and you dont know how are they are brought up,. So the solution is temporary

  • @charmaineblackie98
    @charmaineblackie98 5 років тому +8

    What school are they filming this in????

    • @lisamillar1837
      @lisamillar1837 5 років тому +4

      Royston Primary School in either Edinburgh or Glasgow though from looking at the scenery I'm fairly certain its Glasgow.

    • @charmaineblackie98
      @charmaineblackie98 5 років тому +4

      @@lisamillar1837thanks. They are talking about my aunt but never said her name. I still cant believe it

    • @TabathaJo
      @TabathaJo 4 роки тому +2

      @@charmaineblackie98 what part were they talking about your aunt?

    • @ryan-anarchist-2535
      @ryan-anarchist-2535 7 місяців тому

      ​@@TabathaJoI'd *guess* the bit about the teacher that went off sick

  • @coolkitty2075
    @coolkitty2075 4 місяці тому +1

    I used to play on my own at school. No one cared in 70s

  • @throughsusanseyes5773
    @throughsusanseyes5773 3 роки тому +2

    I don't have a teacher I have a Instructer

  • @ositoosito4566
    @ositoosito4566 4 роки тому +8

    2 mins in and I’m done, I have no patience for kids this way, after a while I’d just walk away and let them throw their fit, if no one is there to watch and give into the behavior, who’s he going to throw the fit for?

    • @XxK47YxX
      @XxK47YxX 4 роки тому +18

      But eveyone leaving when they have meltdowns wouldnt prepare them for the life of socialisation ahead or how to appropriately behave around people if the people are just removed from the situation.

    • @olivialaylaxox
      @olivialaylaxox 10 місяців тому +3

      and thats why you definitely should NOT be a teacher

  • @emmahulse6184
    @emmahulse6184 4 роки тому +1

    I pushed kids on the fool

  • @2bbusybee
    @2bbusybee 4 роки тому +8

    They need supernanny

  • @lockout5731
    @lockout5731 4 роки тому +9

    I would expel Jamie big time

    • @Jacoe413
      @Jacoe413 3 роки тому +17

      And your attitude is part of the problem that these kids have.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 3 роки тому +6

      By law, every child has the right to an education. Appropriate placement must be found for every child. They cannot be expelled from public school.

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 3 роки тому +7

      @@lessehead they also need guidance and discipline

    • @nuviaerivez5876
      @nuviaerivez5876 Рік тому +2

      @@lessehead so do the other children and he us disrupting the entire class. What education, he does not even know how how to be a student. There is a real world out there and NO ONE is going to treat Jamie and give him chance after chance like he is given by that extremely patient teacher. That's not how the world works and what she is doing is not working at all.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead Рік тому +5

      @@nuviaerivez5876 As a 30 yr teacher, I agree with you! I’m just stating the facts. We’re not allowed to expel them. Unfortunately, most disciplinary schools have been closed bc of budget cuts, so no one knows what to do with these kids. I had many of them over the yrs who disrupted the class all yr long and were incapable of behaving. Not fair to anyone. Behaviors are a big reason why so many teachers are leaving the profession.