Prostitute interview-Paradise

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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Paradise, a prostitute on Figueroa Street in South Central Los Angeles.
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  • @buttercup000
    @buttercup000 3 роки тому +1359

    Eleven years old? The penalties are not harsh enough for these adults who abuse innocent children.

    • @superkool7
      @superkool7 3 роки тому +130

      At the risk of sounding like a psycho (which I’m not), it’s too damn bad there isn’t an organization that hunts predators. Hunts them like animals. I’d literally do it for pretty much free. Pay for my ammo and my gas lol and were good

    • @mcatherinew4779
      @mcatherinew4779 3 роки тому +12

      Absolutely.

    • @mcatherinew4779
      @mcatherinew4779 3 роки тому +49

      @@superkool7 I'm not a psycho either, and I wholeheartedly agree.

    • @johnnyjones7993
      @johnnyjones7993 3 роки тому +37

      Only if we got behind save our children like we did George Floyd 🤔

    • @pamelastates5600
      @pamelastates5600 3 роки тому +28

      @@superkool7 @ I’m 💯 with you!! My 7 yr old niece was murdered and the caregivers man& women got 15 yrs here in Canada 🇨🇦. That was a fucken joke!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 yes I’m still angry!! I’m not a psycho BUT EVERYONE GOT THEIR LIMITS!!!

  • @bigsmoke727
    @bigsmoke727 3 роки тому +747

    A common underlying theme from a lot of the people who are being interviewed is to listen to and love your child.

    • @rhianana214
      @rhianana214 3 роки тому +18

      & the main one.... pay attention!!!

    • @ShyShyTheGem
      @ShyShyTheGem 3 роки тому +2

      Hallelujah

    • @user-zi1kl4zf4g
      @user-zi1kl4zf4g 3 роки тому +2

      Spot on

    • @jviarruel
      @jviarruel 2 роки тому +1

      Mainly stop bringing EVIL men or ppl around your children!

    • @sopeezy8319
      @sopeezy8319 2 роки тому

      Always listen to your child & make them fell comfortable to tell you anything.

  • @idontgetpaidenoughforthis
    @idontgetpaidenoughforthis 3 роки тому +762

    My heart hurts for her. God protect her and her daughter and her son and lead them out of this in your perfect peace.

    • @OGAdriana
      @OGAdriana 3 роки тому +4

      Ma'am! I knew you were my people.

    • @darriusmackey7981
      @darriusmackey7981 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @singlemom8985
      @singlemom8985 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @kadeelacayo4806
      @kadeelacayo4806 3 роки тому +5

      “God” should have never let this happen. That would have been perfect peace, she was 11. She didn’t have the free will people say you have when someone says god should have never allowed this to happen. It is up to us to help these people

    • @2clicks2theright375
      @2clicks2theright375 3 роки тому +6

      @@kadeelacayo4806 god gives us free will. It’s up to us to seek HIM

  • @ashthrice6s
    @ashthrice6s 3 роки тому +715

    And they put these women in jail. They are victims. It's heartbreaking.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 3 роки тому +29

      Yep. And making it illegal is the perfect set-up for exploitation.

    • @seldom_seen8713
      @seldom_seen8713 3 роки тому +9

      She is no longer a victim. She is a willing participant at this point. She is breaking the law a deserves to be in jail. She also deserves a better chance at life if she so chooses.

    • @182curlyhead
      @182curlyhead 3 роки тому +32

      How is she not a victim at this point? Of course she is, this is all she knows since she was eleven. She needs support to break free from this vicious cycle of trauma. Common denominator in all these videos? Men. The focus should be on how they should be better educated and punished for all the harm they cause...

    • @Cynnas
      @Cynnas 3 роки тому +28

      @@seldom_seen8713 You're rude, heartless and wrong. I bet you voted for Trump. 🙄

    • @seldom_seen8713
      @seldom_seen8713 3 роки тому +6

      @@182curlyhead once you are an adult you are responsible for your own actions. How do you know the men that date her aren't victims in their own right? You can't make excuses for adults making poor decisions. That goes for men and women. We all have some sort of sad story.

  • @ajohnson19
    @ajohnson19 3 роки тому +552

    “The streets don’t love nobody”, this is the honest truth.

    • @Bebedollie
      @Bebedollie 3 роки тому +3

      Facts

    • @rachelle3411
      @rachelle3411 3 роки тому +6

      Sadly but gladly that was one of the first lessons I learned as a child.

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 3 роки тому +2

      People in general dont

  • @thatsjustgrace
    @thatsjustgrace 3 роки тому +280

    3 minutes in and I just want to give her the biggest hug. The sadness in her voice is piercingly loud. She seems so genuine and even though I don’t personally know her, I grieve the childhood that was stolen from her. I really pray she finds a way out and is able to rebuild her life

  • @V1124az
    @V1124az 3 роки тому +484

    She sounds like she’s about to cry with almost every word she speaks. Most people have been “hardened” or desensitized by the streets, but she actually has empathy, emotions, etc.🙏🏻😇

    • @gomezk1493
      @gomezk1493 3 роки тому +18

      A lot of that is drugs, she says she doesn’t drink or do drugs so that could also be apart of it. You can feel more when you have a sober mind🥲

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 2 роки тому

      The Point is "The Streets" are Supported by Individuals that are not in "The Streets": not by Individuals that are in "The Streets": What each Individual Has is each Individual's, until any Disrespectful Individuals Rape.
      The Interviewee stated, "...made Me love What I was about to Do...": that Occurs because of a Hope to Escape What is already a Trap.
      Her Worst Fear should be crossing any United States' International Border: Where Slavery is Lawful. 😶.

    • @SICresinwrks
      @SICresinwrks 2 роки тому +7

      @@gomezk1493 absolutely, i got sober 6 years ago and that was something i was not prepared for after so many years of drugs to block my feelings

    • @gomezk1493
      @gomezk1493 2 роки тому +6

      @@SICresinwrks yep people don’t realize how numbing it is that’s why some addicts do things they’d never do because they block out the emotions behind the actions, like stealing from family or leaving their kids. And at the time it feels like the world is against them because they can’t feel other peoples love for them as much either, it breaks my heart to see stuff like this and I am so proud of you for overcoming your addiction!! Happy 6 years❤️

    • @jullethiajohnson8899
      @jullethiajohnson8899 2 роки тому +2

      Yes my heart goes out to each and everyone involved

  • @mariesandiego5291
    @mariesandiego5291 3 роки тому +187

    There is sooooo much sadness in her voice. So so sad.

  • @monave2938
    @monave2938 3 роки тому +117

    She is probably the sweetest girl you’ve ever interviewed. I hope she makes her way out of this life & makes her dreams come true.

  • @brittanyleblanc910
    @brittanyleblanc910 3 роки тому +585

    Paradise, we’re all rooting for you. Be the example, you can do it. Save yourself, be the one.

    • @494ava
      @494ava 3 роки тому +9

      Paradise you are worth checking in on and helped to see what this beautiful life

    • @494ava
      @494ava 3 роки тому +5

      Has to offer you. Abandonment issues don’t have to define who your amazing soul has to offer. I never had a child that survived SIDS TO MISCARRIAGES. I would love to see you succeed and prove to yourself how important you are and can be. Believe in The Most High and pray pray pray. There are people out here who definitely care and show you your Worthy of life’s riches, not just money but security real family and the love of your children. I’m praying for you and I hope you feel the love.

    • @2clicks2theright375
      @2clicks2theright375 3 роки тому +4

      She is very weak minded and is completely enslaved in the dark underworld. There isn’t any hope for her…

    • @2clicks2theright375
      @2clicks2theright375 3 роки тому +3

      @@bexleybeyond7524 wake up dipshit… she is stuck in the underworld… no hope for her unless she wants to make a Change… especially in California! They have endless social programs to help someone like her

    • @kpeezyforsheezy
      @kpeezyforsheezy 3 роки тому +8

      @@2clicks2theright375 you have some fucked up energy. Do the people around you know this side of you? Are they just as fucked up?

  • @miroz5824
    @miroz5824 3 роки тому +356

    What a gorgeous young queen! She does not deserve this :(

  • @viralbuthow000
    @viralbuthow000 3 роки тому +183

    The toughest one to watch in a while.

    • @WHATWOULDSHEDOtheshow
      @WHATWOULDSHEDOtheshow 3 роки тому +3

      I thought that too. My heart breaks for them all. I haven’t felt this sadness since I first saw Amanda. 😔😢💔

  • @vanessavarela3259
    @vanessavarela3259 3 роки тому +280

    the sensitivity, understanding and empathy this woman shows is absolutely heartbreaking given what has happened in her lfe. no human deserves this. i so feel for her

    • @aliehawhite8616
      @aliehawhite8616 3 роки тому +5

      I absolutely feel the same. She is so smart, and you can tell she has a heart and compassion. To be dealt the hand that she has and still be able to show those qualities speaks so much of what an amazing woman she is.

  • @upta-q.a.m.p343
    @upta-q.a.m.p343 3 роки тому +512

    She's seems like a really nice person, I wish her the best..

    • @aishahismail590
      @aishahismail590 3 роки тому +1

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @deprivome938
      @deprivome938 Рік тому

      Are you serious? She said men are self centered and think about themselves but she has kids wondering if she’s going to make it home.

  • @Mohjoe62
    @Mohjoe62 3 роки тому +457

    When Mark asked why she doesn’t leave her pimp, I felt her fear. She’s afraid.I'm very sorry for her, I hope you get out of this, girl.Love from germany

    • @Mohjoe62
      @Mohjoe62 3 роки тому +7

      @@thestrangemanreturns Yes,it is.It has even been a recognized profession for a few years

    • @pottymouth9891
      @pottymouth9891 3 роки тому +18

      @@thestrangemanreturns It being legalized makes the environment safer for the people involved in prostitution. Think about it, it’s legal so a prostitute can go to the police if she’s beat, r4ped, etc.. and they have safety regarding pimps because it’s likely still a trafficking charge for them. Hopefully they’ll unionize soon lol.

    • @Mohjoe62
      @Mohjoe62 3 роки тому +6

      @snlsnl44 Then I expressed myself wrong. Of course it is not good to sell your body. I just wanted to say that it is only illegal in Germany if you do not have a license

    • @spencejoy
      @spencejoy 3 роки тому +6

      @@thestrangemanreturns Making it legal actually prevents women being trafficked by "pimps".

    • @jessmore1633
      @jessmore1633 3 роки тому

      You are worth so much more! ☹️

  • @charliestaples2787
    @charliestaples2787 3 роки тому +436

    She’s so beautiful and smart it breaks my heart she has this life. It’s not fair just not fair

    • @AdaptiveApeHybrid
      @AdaptiveApeHybrid 3 роки тому +17

      It isn't fucking fair at all, you are absolutely fucking right.
      Life isn't fucking fair. Life is brutal and painful and terrifying and unfair.
      And this is why we all have a fucking responsibility to one another. We are all fucking culpable.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 роки тому +4

      @@AdaptiveApeHybrid Yes, we Do need to watch over and help one another.👍💖

    • @seldom_seen8713
      @seldom_seen8713 3 роки тому +1

      Have you ever thought that she actually is ok with what she does? Didn't you hear her complain about waiting on a paycheck?

    • @charm9892000
      @charm9892000 3 роки тому +10

      @@seldom_seen8713 you obviously missed the entire fucking point of what she was saying 🙄

    • @TylerDBrett
      @TylerDBrett 3 роки тому +2

      Agree. I hope she makes it

  • @theenwaamaka7449
    @theenwaamaka7449 3 роки тому +94

    I cried watching this one. She’s really suffered. She’s been imprisoned for most her life. I wish her all the best and hope that someone sees the light in her and helps her out of this

    • @juneplum3229
      @juneplum3229 2 роки тому

      Imprisoned. Jesus! She can’t get away from the Pimp? 😢

  • @mackenzied3611
    @mackenzied3611 3 роки тому +231

    God forgive me for ever complaining. Bless this sweet women 💛

  • @rideorfly13
    @rideorfly13 3 роки тому +257

    Looking past this sweet girls story, what the hell are we doing as ‘civilized societies’ to allow innocents to be cast out and lost into a historically abusive system?! Societal issues run so deep yet it’s people like this that suffer the worst of its blows

    • @modaciouslav4792
      @modaciouslav4792 3 роки тому +5

      @@Misitheus EXACTLY 😡 it’s so disgusting

    • @leeleemee
      @leeleemee 3 роки тому +1

      @@Misitheus Damn!

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 роки тому +1

      Well said and so true

    • @rwalkman10
      @rwalkman10 3 роки тому +5

      This isn't about just addiction she was trafficked as a young child what are you all talking about

    • @inthenameofpain4646
      @inthenameofpain4646 3 роки тому +4

      Everyone caught up In they own problems & u can only help those who seek it

  • @chynahargress
    @chynahargress 3 роки тому +57

    At the end when asked can she get away from her pimp and she said no it started crying. This poor woman has been held hostage since she was 11 years old by men. She will be in my prayers tonight.

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 3 роки тому +130

    Paradise's story made me cry. I really hope she is serious about living her dream life and becoming that success story. She seems amazing and she deserves every blessing and success that comes her way.
    Be strong Paradise, you can still see the light at the end of the tunnel, just keep walking towards it 💜 you are loved 💜

    • @louisianarainwater
      @louisianarainwater 3 роки тому +2

      💚💚💚

    • @rozevans2120
      @rozevans2120 2 роки тому +2

      Paradise, you capable of so much more. If you can envision it .. . it can become reality. I'm praying tht she can see better days ahead for her & her kids. Lord Jesus!!

  • @mcatherinew4779
    @mcatherinew4779 3 роки тому +156

    The Foster System needs to change drastically. Every time I hear these children go in, it's almost always a very negative story; I'm so sick and incredibly sad for the trauma they endure.

    • @henderson1985
      @henderson1985 3 роки тому +6

      True !!Yes yes yes . My Gma has been in foster system for 30 plus years . Foster system isn’t always helpful!!!!

    • @gonagetcha8102
      @gonagetcha8102 3 роки тому +10

      I have a friend who works for DHS ..She would get dirty looks from her "COWORKERS" for doing her job. In Philadelphia there is an epidemic of NOT TAKING CARE OR CHECKING UP ON THE KIDS THEY ARE ASSIGNED ....its sickening the stories I hear and the horror stuff that goes on and is NEVER on the news. MEDIA WHERE YOU AT ??? Failing these kids like everyone else. How do these crumb bums have jobs. Bc THEY all stick together. My friend actually went back for their Masters degree applied for the supervisors job and all of a sudden the credentials changed ...now you don't need a master degree. So now all the LAZY KID KILLERS WHO SIT AROUND can apply for the supervisor's job. My friend who got their Masters degree was beside herself when she was turned down for the supervisor's job she applied for. I told my friend go get a lawyer and fight this. How dare this corrupted city get away with DESTROYING and ABUSING OUR CHILDREN. Its bad enough they destroy this city as it is but to have some LAZY SKANK run a department that involves our poor innocent babies, kids,& young adults is just a nightmare right in front of our eyes. DHS is in the Philadelphia Daily News once a year. Unbelievable with all that goes on they'll talk about JUST ONE STORY that will make the news bc its out in the open and some good hearted ppl made a stink about it or we would NEVER hear about it. 2month old baby was SCREAMING BLOODY MURDER the woman who came forward. When the cops entered the room the crummy dirtneck scumbag continued to rape this infant til the cops took that baby off of that skank crumb. They woman said she never knew a 2 mon old baby could scream like that. And thats one story . I can go on and on with stories but I get sick to my stomach by the thought of it. Sorry if I made anyone sick. I'm heading to go throw ??

    • @ellefont3813
      @ellefont3813 3 роки тому +12

      @@gonagetcha8102 I think the foster care system is trash across America. I think these people are not vetted enough and they end up in homes that are just as abusive as the ones they have been taking away from. It’s sad. But, if the people inside can’t change it; These kids, babies, and young adults will always be in harms way. Sad shit to know people that want to make a difference can’t because of politics.

    • @SabrinaHendrix.
      @SabrinaHendrix. 3 роки тому +2

      Dysfunctional People need to stop having kids if they can’t or are not willing to care & love them. I don’t care how much money they put into the system foster care will always be trash because it should never exist in the first place people taking care of other peoples kids is not realistic but the good kind people that do take in other peoples kids some people do it for the kids & others do it for the money not all but most. I remember in high school there was this boy that would always wear dress clothes suit and tie to a public school and he would change or asked other people could he borrow their clothes on the bus before he got to school then he would change back into suit coming back home on the bus he was a foster care child and so for the foster parent to save money for themselves they make the kids come to school in suite & tie Which is so unfair because they’re getting money monthly for these kids so they can buy the clothes that they want it is so unfair to send kids to public school with suit and tie when other kids are wearing the best of designers if you’re going to do that then at least put them in private school where everybody wears suits and ties but to outcast kids because you want to make extensions to your house and buy Cadillacs and BMWs and put extra money in your pocket is criminal.

    • @janeaaf
      @janeaaf 3 роки тому +3

      I know that family reunions are important. And the ideal situation is to put kids back with their families but it’s bs. My mom had 3 siblings for 3 yrs. and the social worker went hard to remove them from my mom cuz she was on top of everything and by her being a diligent parent , it shined a light on the case workers negligence.
      So instead of working with my mom, she made it her mission to take the kids. Thought she was punishing my mom “cuz she took money out her pocket” but really the life they had, that money wasn’t covering it.
      It breaks my heart because they were on family vacations. Huge christmases and birthdays. And now their in the shelter wit a mom wit mental illness. All because someone rather look good than actually help

  • @kaykay1113
    @kaykay1113 3 роки тому +76

    She’s so wise. Stay strong Paradise, I hope your dreams come true one day.

  • @joyrn7663
    @joyrn7663 3 роки тому +77

    Paradise seems like a sweetheart. I'm so sorry she was trafficked and was forced into this lifestyle. She is beautiful and intelligent and is capable of anything. I hope she gets out soon and wish her and her children the best.

  • @bearcub1811
    @bearcub1811 3 роки тому +337

    When someone like her shares a dream to start a business or go back to school or whatever you could ask them, "what do you think you need to get there or what would help you achieve that goal?" Maybe someone in the audience might be able to reach out and help them with something like advice or contacts. They might be able to help in a way that does not involve money but providing resources to help her get started. Sometimes we just need a little help to get started and then its much easier to keep going in the right direction.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 роки тому +5

      Sad thing is, she won't quit the business for her boyfriend so you think she'd quit to get help from an agency to begin a new life?

    • @mailainathrone8241
      @mailainathrone8241 3 роки тому +6

      That would be nice

    • @mw-qt1hx
      @mw-qt1hx 3 роки тому +7

      @@marylougeorge9890 boyfriend: doesn’t offer anything but companionship & sex
      help from an agency: offers help for her & her two children
      you sound very confused miss Mary Lou

    • @mw-qt1hx
      @mw-qt1hx 3 роки тому +5

      this is a great idea. this woman definitely deserves any help she can get! so do her two kids

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 роки тому +4

      @@mw-qt1hx I get it. You make sense. But her not willing to leave the life for her boyfriend says a lot about her willingness to move on.

  • @CeeCeeArt
    @CeeCeeArt 3 роки тому +120

    "What do you think about men?" They are freakin dirtbags. She's one of the first ones I've seen who still has her kids and takes care of them. Good for her. I hope she stays safe and gets her business.

    • @jazz7878
      @jazz7878 3 роки тому +16

      Sad for the kids .. imagine what they’re going thru

    • @a.wanderer5006
      @a.wanderer5006 3 роки тому +13

      That part wasn't clear. Does she put them in daycare or is her boyfriend watching them?

    • @SuperMsPharmacy
      @SuperMsPharmacy 3 роки тому +9

      Super sad that she is teaching her daughter the game. Kids see everything we do and copy us.

    • @bobby_Digital77
      @bobby_Digital77 3 роки тому +17

      All men are not dirt bags……. Some of us are fathers who murder someone who messes with there kids……. I have 2 sons and newborn girl…….. my boys are well trained. Me and my wife preach character……… my baby girl is my heartbeat………. I will murder someone for my Lil lady……… and I let those know whether it friends or family

    • @elijahgavin6706
      @elijahgavin6706 3 роки тому +3

      @Juss MAK I mean to be fair the OP literally just said that’s what she thinks about men, not a specific group or kind of men. If someone asked me what I thought about women and I responded “they’re trashbags” women would be shrieking misogyny 😂 and they would be right

  • @Bebedollie
    @Bebedollie 3 роки тому +49

    Even after all the hurt and pain and hard stuff she's been through she still has a pureness a wholeness about her. Her heart shines like a bright star in the sky. 🧡

  • @a.nadyaaa_
    @a.nadyaaa_ 3 роки тому +28

    I’ve practically seen every interview he’s done with these young women who work the streets and hearing them tell their stories breaks my heart more and more every single time. But the relentless pain, sorrow and exhaustion in her voice stands out to me in the worst way and I really wish I could just give her a hug and words of encouragement 🙏🏾💔🌻 God Bless her 💛

  • @user-lz1oo9jx9o
    @user-lz1oo9jx9o 2 роки тому +18

    This one made me cry. Heartbreaking that her life was stolen at 11years old. She was child sexual trafficked and forced into sex work. She’s a beautiful soul and I pray that she breaks free somehow.

  • @ctrl_alt_delete4729
    @ctrl_alt_delete4729 3 роки тому +49

    She seems like such a loving, beautiful young lady who never had a chance & it breaks my heart. At her young age she has stories most of us will thankfully never experience 😢🙏🏻

  • @serenityjcm1394
    @serenityjcm1394 3 роки тому +64

    So heartbreaking to hear about all she's been through. I hope she finds her way free to a more happy life. 🌻

  • @kikerz4071
    @kikerz4071 3 роки тому +66

    This broke my heart.

  • @ALLYRTV
    @ALLYRTV 3 роки тому +22

    It’s like she’s so numb from the pain she can’t even shed tears😢 I pray she finds a better way🙏🏽❤️

  • @ThatsSoBeba
    @ThatsSoBeba 3 роки тому +90

    As a mother of a 5 year old son, I couldn’t imagine the possibility of not coming home to him. This girl is STUNNING!!!!! She can get help to be able to be a full time mom. She got this. She is still so young and so beautiful!

    • @jessikallyn
      @jessikallyn 3 роки тому +1

      GIRL. The truth in these videos is scary and so real, it could be any of us…especially knowing where we come from. Love you always!

    • @ThatsSoBeba
      @ThatsSoBeba 3 роки тому

      @@jessikallyn love you more ❤️

  • @Kay_Watermelon
    @Kay_Watermelon 2 роки тому +10

    When Mark asked her if she gets high or drunk before her dates, I've never seen anyone get so dead serious so fast. She is so damn smart. Her answer was one of the most intelligent things I've ever heard from a woman doing what she does. She does everything she can to keep aware and keep herself as safe as she can.

  • @badcassandra2915
    @badcassandra2915 3 роки тому +35

    You're capable of so much more. You're smart, you understand a lot, you explain yourself perfectly, and you are worthy of love and respect. We are all rooting for you.

  • @lillyanp4
    @lillyanp4 3 роки тому +111

    DAMN!! Eleven. I have a 15 year old daughter and I couldn’t imagine that shit. People are sick who did that to her at that age. I wish the best for her and her kids.✌🏻

    • @shellabella8625
      @shellabella8625 3 роки тому +6

      And who the F pays for that?! Lock them alllll up!

    • @dannymomoful
      @dannymomoful 3 роки тому +1

      @@shellabella8625 OMG OKAY, TF ‼️

    • @a.w.3772
      @a.w.3772 3 роки тому +5

      The fact that so many men WANT a child sex partner is beyond despicable. Yet society is begining to normalize pedophilia. "Men will be men..."

    • @dannymomoful
      @dannymomoful 3 роки тому +1

      @@a.w.3772 Omg so true 😱 just disgusting 🤬

    • @db16548
      @db16548 Рік тому

      Men in general are disgusting!

  • @Chyyyyyyyyyyy
    @Chyyyyyyyyyyy 3 роки тому +27

    A mother’s love is so important 🥺no matter how old we may get we all need our momma. God it’s so important. I feel for this young lady, I know that void of not having your mother so well… that pain alone can alter the whole direction of your life..wow to think shes only 25 like me and she has been through as much as she has 💔💔💔

    • @juliettezea9507
      @juliettezea9507 3 роки тому

      Yeah I think it’s more important than a fathers

  • @lexfahey7399
    @lexfahey7399 3 роки тому +14

    This made me incredibly emotional. She an amazing woman who has goals and aspirations. Even in a situation that would make one selfish and want to give up. She still brings up how she feels for any others going through similar things. One of her dreams is to help others, and that’s just shows vividly what a strong woman she is with an amazing heart. Bless her soul. Her baby’s too. May she be given a way out that she so greatly deserves. Mark I appreciate your videos so much. This one in particular stood out to me. She’s beautiful, and kind, and deserves nothing but happiness.. If you can follow up with her later on that would honestly be so meaningful. 🥺♥️

  • @Hi-bl8rm
    @Hi-bl8rm 3 роки тому +197

    ☹️😞😢 So many pervy, disgusting, mean, a hole guys in this world. It’s scary and sad.

    • @brankamaksimovic6380
      @brankamaksimovic6380 3 роки тому +9

      Yes, yes

    • @Grek1574
      @Grek1574 3 роки тому +11

      Don’t be a sexist- not only a guys do such stuff.

    • @bruthakam6180
      @bruthakam6180 3 роки тому +4

      @@Grek1574 exactly

    • @ThatsSoBeba
      @ThatsSoBeba 3 роки тому +29

      @@bruthakam6180 your right. But it’s a very small amount of woman that do that, and yes it does happen, but men take the cake on that shit. Way more than women.

    • @lucoolio
      @lucoolio 3 роки тому +2

      Cool Generalization

  • @BeautyAndHerBeasts
    @BeautyAndHerBeasts 3 роки тому +82

    Honey, you can be a server, you can even be a cocktail waitress, there's PLENTY of jobs where you get that fast money. I do hair, I make $ every day. Start school, chase your dreams NOW! Bless your Soul beautiful! You can do this!!!!

  • @Boricuagoddess0831
    @Boricuagoddess0831 3 роки тому +25

    Damn at eleven years old I was still at home playing with Barbie and ken and watching cartoons having a child’s stress free life and that poor baby was working the streets having to grow up early I’m so greatful for my parents for letting me be a kid at times I want to go back and pretty sure they would let me but wow I wish she had my childhood that was stolen from her

  • @jasminewilliamson1885
    @jasminewilliamson1885 2 роки тому +4

    She said she has a 172 cases of prostitution in multiple states & when he asked can she get away from her pimp she said no & broke down crying....I seen a lot messed up videos on here but this one broke my heart, I pray the Lord grants her a better lifestyle & peace. Nobody should have to go through this.

  • @serenityfreedom3096
    @serenityfreedom3096 3 роки тому +79

    All you need is a few hundred dollars and a 1 way bus ticket to anywhere! You can be a home health aid to get income and a place to stay. Run! Start your own business. Get on your feet and go back for your kids before the game gets them! No more hookin'. The worst part of your life CAN BE OVER! You are brilliant and more than capable to be done with it!

    • @evolvedempress8953
      @evolvedempress8953 3 роки тому +6

      This right here Facts ‼️‼️

    • @ThatsSoBeba
      @ThatsSoBeba 3 роки тому +4

      FACTS!!!!!!

    • @heartlesswoman1904
      @heartlesswoman1904 3 роки тому +13

      Maybe the pumps know where her kids are. It’s not that easy, she’s mentally and physically trapped

    • @serenityfreedom3096
      @serenityfreedom3096 3 роки тому +1

      @@heartlesswoman1904 if that is the case, she can get them in a protected status. Most crooks/ pimps are soft, they won’t even work!

    • @heartlesswoman1904
      @heartlesswoman1904 3 роки тому +6

      @@serenityfreedom3096 Most pimps are soft? I guess you don’t know how abusers work

  • @carris2scents57
    @carris2scents57 3 роки тому +18

    She was so passionate about how to watch your kids close and know what they're doing.. Yet she's doing the exact thing her mother did when she was a kid😩 I pray that this generational curse can be broken! 💔

  • @TheDonFinnemore
    @TheDonFinnemore 3 роки тому +115

    He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” - Revelation 21:4

  • @jenniferb9506
    @jenniferb9506 3 роки тому +162

    Don't worry about saving somebody's kid. Save yourself and your own kids.

    • @LoveAshh.LongTime
      @LoveAshh.LongTime 2 роки тому +8

      It takes a village to raise/guide a child/kid. Whether they belong to you or not 📌 ᴛʜᴀᴛ's part of adulthood

    • @dwaynaavery6616
      @dwaynaavery6616 2 роки тому +2

      Ironically that very attitude is why we so many children get lost out here! I could NEVER watch someone telling their story and think what you posted! Just sad.

  • @astrokidd4279
    @astrokidd4279 3 роки тому +26

    Damn 🤦‍♀️. This is a cruel world we live in.

    • @Victoria-uq8mf
      @Victoria-uq8mf 3 роки тому

      Is so sad

    • @janicejacome
      @janicejacome 3 роки тому

      You hopefully have no idea of the insanity that is THIS WORLD! She's so sweet and gorgeous but if they HANDED HER the business she'd eventually give it to some abusive asshole. NOT criticizing this poor baby but l'd like to have 5 minutes alone with MOMMY DEAREST or whomever hurt her so deeply that she's SOOOO scarred. What a Sweetheart...

  • @xxbiancaxx9933
    @xxbiancaxx9933 3 роки тому +38

    paradise ur beautiful & i love listening to u speak ❤️ i’m sorry life dealt u the worst cards but i believe u will come out strong 🙏🏽 god bless u & again thank u mark for using ur platform for precious souls like paradise to speak their truth ❤️

  • @mzfancy4767
    @mzfancy4767 3 роки тому +22

    Mark I have never felt the emotions I have with Paradise's interview as I have with any others. I loved Amanda and Bonafide... But Paradise touched my heart. I will continue to pray for this young sister and her two little ones. She remind me of many young ladies I've mentored here in Chicago. Paradise has a light within her that I pray she shines soon. 💞

  • @pssmith694
    @pssmith694 3 роки тому +17

    Heartbreaking. I hope this sweet child finds someone that loves her.

  • @carolynrupard2699
    @carolynrupard2699 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you Soft White Underbelly for what you are doing. You are giving me an awareness to this dark pit I never knew existed. Praying for all these people you meet and help.

  • @TheMillennialPlantDad
    @TheMillennialPlantDad 3 роки тому +48

    She just needed someone to talk to. You can tell she’s had so much to unpack. Over and over again with these videos and one thing is clear, some people should never have children. All I can do is pray that she finds healing and that God restores and comforts her . God please help her and the many people who are hurting and damaged from failed parents and a corrupt system

  • @sreekarpradyumna
    @sreekarpradyumna 2 роки тому +3

    How do kids get forced into prostitution and this just goes under the radar in the US? This is crazy.

  • @sarahpalmer8100
    @sarahpalmer8100 3 роки тому +6

    This poor girl, she has such a beautiful soul. She is so sensitive after everything she’s been through.

  • @raymondjohnson7878
    @raymondjohnson7878 3 роки тому +19

    If you never been on lower side of life ,don't put your mouth in the position to judge anyone on white under belly.

  • @sisyaffayahyisrael2112
    @sisyaffayahyisrael2112 3 роки тому +119

    Paradise if you're reading the comments, please get out this lifestyle, they're agencies that can help you. Go for your dream of doing hair. Praying for you🙏🏿.

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower 3 роки тому +3

      Do not get cosmotology whatever you do... she going to compete with the 7 million other girls today who get a 'cosmotology' degree in this country. ha. Do a craft in it and stick to that 1 thing, like unique styles. Cosmotology is a loss of your money for things you can practice for free

    • @louisianarainwater
      @louisianarainwater 3 роки тому +1

      💚💚💚

    • @southernfreedom1883
      @southernfreedom1883 3 роки тому +1

      @@dertythegrower you’re view of cosmetology is off. Sure, some hair stylists get a degree and don’t put effort into it. On the other hand, I’m in my 28th year of my career as a cosmetologist, and I put in the time and effort in the beginning, and have always kept up with continuing education. It’s been a very lucrative career for me. It can be for anyone. Any choice of careers can go either way. It all depends on how you chose to work at it❤️

    • @sisyaffayahyisrael2112
      @sisyaffayahyisrael2112 3 роки тому

      @@dertythegrower how dare you defer someone dreams

    • @divinegoddess3060
      @divinegoddess3060 3 роки тому

      @@dertythegrower Please dont project your fears onto others.

  • @allysonsirois2664
    @allysonsirois2664 2 роки тому +8

    It hurts me to see how she is completely grounded in her reality, it’s her strength, and a reason why she could really hang on and try to get out of this horrible life. She is a strong woman, with the right help, she could thrive and inspire people. My heart goes to her and her children. Stay safe❤️

  • @cmay5145
    @cmay5145 3 роки тому +2

    Great video. Best questions asked thus far!

  • @matildajones5035
    @matildajones5035 3 роки тому +3

    She's soooo beautiful. The hard life has caused her to look drained but you could still see that she's beautiful. Bless you gurl. Praying for you.

  • @LoneWulf278
    @LoneWulf278 3 роки тому +19

    She seems so nice. They all do, tbh. I can’t believe society teaches us that these people “have no soul.” They’re human beings at the end of the day and should be treated as such. 😔

  • @mariaalvarez8915
    @mariaalvarez8915 3 роки тому +14

    Everything starts with a word, she’s prophesying over her life. Praying that that brings you life and the people God wants for your life.

  • @e-Mari
    @e-Mari 3 роки тому +6

    She’s incredibly caring about children and that is so important. I truly hope she achieves her dream of opening two businesses.

  • @annabedford9608
    @annabedford9608 3 роки тому +35

    I truly hope that she gets out of the game and gets her life on track. I understand what she said regarding that what she's doing is all she knows but I hope she leaves her pimp and gets on track. To Paradise, girl you are stronger than you know. I wish I lived in the U.S (I live in Australia) so I could personally help you out. You seem very genuine and you know what you want. It's up to you to grab it!!! Good luck for your future!!!

    • @julienbee3467
      @julienbee3467 3 роки тому +1

      Genuine and normal. It was heartbreaking and painful to watch

    • @a.wanderer5006
      @a.wanderer5006 3 роки тому +1

      Really? She seemed a bit disingenuous to me. She doesn't have friends, so she would probably not take help. Imagine trusting a boyfriend but not friends!

    • @bakeraus
      @bakeraus 3 роки тому +2

      @@a.wanderer5006 Just seems like she doesn't trust people due to past and the culture she lives in. Dog eat, dog world out there.

    • @julienbee3467
      @julienbee3467 3 роки тому

      @@a.wanderer5006 yes but don't you think it's more and more difficult to find and keep real friends ? And I'm sure she's thought of her past so many times

    • @a.wanderer5006
      @a.wanderer5006 3 роки тому +2

      @@bakeraus Mos def but she trusts her 'boyfriend' who is probably actually her pimp. If she had more good old-fashioned girlfriends she might find there are people who don't want to exploit her.

  • @astoldbyzee1308
    @astoldbyzee1308 3 роки тому +4

    Her wisdom and tenure is astonishing. She really shines a light on the world in this lifestyle. She's DIRECTLY talking to young girls, and we feel it. It felt like an elder/grandma talking to you about life because she 1000% genuinely wants better for you than her. Paradise has such an old soul- goes to show you how the streets will age you. Also makes you question why the world is so nasty...
    Paradise, if you ever read this, we can see you're heart. You were trafficked and not helped and you didn't deserve this; you're not the reason why this is happening to you. Sending my largest of prayers your way.

  • @sherridickey7351
    @sherridickey7351 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for a great video mark. And that broke my heart poor girl I hope and pray you make it through it you can do it you got the strength just make yourself do it I know it's easier said than done

  • @hair2bclassy
    @hair2bclassy 3 роки тому +9

    This interview really made me shed tears man! This girl was given a bad deal from birth.

  • @dawnettanoble7572
    @dawnettanoble7572 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Mark! I have seen so many of your interviews and everytime my heart just break especially for all these young women. because im a MOM!! and I have 2 daughters that are amazing. some of these girls are my daughters ages! so my prayer is for them all to get the help they need. I will keep them all in my prayers. and may God bless you Mark for what you are doing because sometimes all people need is for someone to listen. 🙏🙏

  • @villalobosregina
    @villalobosregina 3 роки тому +67

    This lovey girl deserves all the love.
    Why?
    Why does this happen to certain children?

    • @sisyaffayahyisrael2112
      @sisyaffayahyisrael2112 3 роки тому +1

      @Regina Villalobos I wonder the same thing 😢

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 3 роки тому +3

      @@sisyaffayahyisrael2112 Failure of parenting.

    • @talismon63
      @talismon63 3 роки тому +6

      @@tubester4567 it’s not just a failure of parenting, any fool can see that! There’s a lot of psychological and mental abuse going on there that’s been perpetuated and hopefully it stops with her if she gets help. But probably not because she said her 4 yr old daughter knows the life and she hopes she doesn’t follow in her footsteps.

    • @customfittedinc
      @customfittedinc 3 роки тому +1

      What kind of question is that

    • @customfittedinc
      @customfittedinc 3 роки тому

      @@talismon63 right ignorant people who battle with their own demons

  • @daisyrosemusic
    @daisyrosemusic 3 роки тому +17

    Who in this country CAN SAY 'AMERICA IS THE BEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD ' After watching SOFT WHITE UNDERBELLY videos?.

    • @maplecookies2036
      @maplecookies2036 3 роки тому +4

      It happens all over the world.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 3 роки тому +4

      Well, you don't need SWU to know the US is not in the top 10 of best countries to live in.There are a lot of europian countries where the standard of living is better. The top 5 doesn't include the US, neither the top 10. It's not a sign of health to have skid rows in every major city. There's also no health insurance for everyone regardless of income, and that's a big problem.

  • @robinthornhill2
    @robinthornhill2 2 роки тому +2

    These videos are so gut-wrenching but necessary to reveal the side of life so many of us don't see. Much prayer and help are needed for all those involved.

  • @zacharyharris438
    @zacharyharris438 3 роки тому +9

    She seems like such a sweet soul and good person. Your life will change for the better, know it will.

  • @jenniferb9506
    @jenniferb9506 3 роки тому +21

    What drives people to enslave their own? This is going to keep getting worse if we don't find ways to pull people up. And people think it's not going to happen to their families, but it will.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 роки тому +2

      We need equal quality of education in all neighborhoods. Not according to where you can afford to live!

  • @humblebrown8864
    @humblebrown8864 3 роки тому +11

    I can’t stop crying… we’re rooting for you Paradise. I pray she gets out of the lifestyle

  • @katie78514
    @katie78514 3 роки тому +1

    This breaks my heart. Thank you Mark for bringing awareness.

  • @gabrielledeschamps63
    @gabrielledeschamps63 3 роки тому +3

    This video broke my heart. Praying you make it out Paradise baby ❤️

  • @angelachristina
    @angelachristina 3 роки тому +11

    I hope you find your way out, Paradise. I hope you can fulfill your dreams and be your kids a good loving mom without the fear of not making it home tonight. I wish you peace and happiness!

  • @samanthacostido7823
    @samanthacostido7823 3 роки тому +11

    “If you breed and don’t care for your seed, what is you? ” one of my favorite lines from Tobe”s song FyeFye.

  • @kool-aidpeppers5242
    @kool-aidpeppers5242 3 роки тому +2

    I so feel for Paradise and all of these women and men going through this. Mark, you are a champion to these poor souls by getting their stories out. There may be hope for some of these people. It makes me so angry that people have to go through this. It makes you wonder, any one of us looking at these stories could have been Paradise if our situation was a little bit different. I weep for these people.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @dakota7222
    @dakota7222 3 роки тому +2

    It’s heartbreaking to see and hear the struggles and suffering of these young women caused by the neglect and abuse inflicted on them from their own parents.

  • @Ghostdog4
    @Ghostdog4 3 роки тому +7

    Her innocence and soul were stolen. I have no words other than same one needs to save her. She has no memory of what a normal life was.

  • @LacedwithLacey2424
    @LacedwithLacey2424 3 роки тому +29

    God bless her😭😭😭❤️ Know your worth ladies😭😭 You’re not a piece of meat. You’re worth so much more than your body and your looks. Poor Girl. Breaks my heart. I am so sorry this happened to you. I have a 11 year old, I can’t fathom it!

  • @lisafrederick8870
    @lisafrederick8870 3 роки тому

    So happy to see ads on your channel!! Hopefully you'll start seeing some money come in😍😍😍😍

  • @_Eastcoastcoco
    @_Eastcoastcoco 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, much love to her! One of the best interviews ❤️

  • @tywonfoster2768
    @tywonfoster2768 2 роки тому +4

    I love how down to earth she is. Everything is straight forward. No shade

  • @MH-nc5jd
    @MH-nc5jd 3 роки тому +6

    You can tell this started early in her life when she was a young girl.. she crying for herself when she's talking about girls thinking of doing this type of thing or getting involved in this lifestyle.. she talking to herself and crying for herself, and it's super sad..

  • @mariafitts
    @mariafitts 2 роки тому +2

    Man she sounds like a great person, I hope she gets the help she deserves. She’s so real I can feel her honestly in her voice and facial expressions

  • @Ella-gx2wq
    @Ella-gx2wq 3 роки тому

    Hearing these life stories completely breaks me, this world has so much healing to do. At age 11... Paradise you beautiful soul I hope peace and comfort just wrap themselves around for the rest of your life. You are so wise and I’m rooting for you and all your successes in life.

  • @blancacarrizales5249
    @blancacarrizales5249 3 роки тому +6

    She has a big heart she includes male struggles and that shows a lot. I hope u accomplish all ur dreams sweetie

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 2 роки тому +3

    This is a good example of mental enslavement. It starts out small. Then totally encapsulates someone.

  • @KimbradleyMasterGardener
    @KimbradleyMasterGardener 3 роки тому +2

    Paradise, sending you courage and blessings from Nashville!

  • @tamiwallace7572
    @tamiwallace7572 Рік тому

    I've watched so many of these videos. This one breaks my heart. So much pain in this beautiful young lady. She deserves a chance for a better life.

  • @mcatherinew4779
    @mcatherinew4779 3 роки тому +12

    Mark, thank you for all the work you do for these people. If for one moment they feel care, and just a glimmer of care i know it has the potential to make a gigantic difference in their lives. Blessings to you and your own life.

  • @nikkiibradley3312
    @nikkiibradley3312 3 роки тому +30

    My heart hurts for her 🥺🖤

  • @brandonyoung4168
    @brandonyoung4168 3 роки тому +1

    I've been watching routinely for a year or so now and this hit different. She has dreams still and that's inspiring, but that look of fear and desperation when asked why she doesn't leave speaks for itself. God Bless🙏

  • @eboniarmstrong4401
    @eboniarmstrong4401 3 роки тому +3

    My God. I want to hug her! Praying & rooting for you, sweet girl! ❤️

  • @wendyelleady2535
    @wendyelleady2535 3 роки тому +4

    11 years old my heart breaks for her. Praying she gets out. She is so beautiful her dimple and her skin is flawless

  • @shandahoward9112
    @shandahoward9112 3 роки тому

    Paradise, sending you love! Your message was powerful ❤

  • @Rockysmom1234
    @Rockysmom1234 3 роки тому +2

    Sending love and prayers for strength and courage to break away, Paradise. You are worth it.

  • @CraftedD_555
    @CraftedD_555 3 роки тому +26

    I found it odd that the host chose to focus on beautiful women and the type
    Of men that pick them up in a comical form right after she poured her heart out about her brokenness. Makes me wonder was he uncomfortable or just being insensitive.

    • @mslorries
      @mslorries 3 роки тому +1

      I totally agree. I thought that was weird and insensitive.

    • @jessicaellina3878
      @jessicaellina3878 2 роки тому +1

      YES!!! I shuddered at that comment.... was he trying to make her feel even more worthless??? Try to be a bit more sensitive, Brad Pitt..... NOT...