Prostitute interview-Ivy (follow up)
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Soft White Underbelly follow up interview and portrait of Ivy, a prostitute from Pasadena, California.
Here's a link to Ivy's first video on my channel:
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Mark this was one of the most beautiful interviews. The way you console her, the advice you give her. Will go a long way I promise you. I’ve been there and I wish I had someone like you telling me these things as a young girl. I love how you call her beautiful at the end and not to rely on it. I wish more young girls would watch this. Brought me to tears. Thank you for everything you do mark.
Thank you. Ivy just showed up unannounced at my studio two weeks ago and it seemed clear she needed someone to talk to. I usually try not to give advice in these talks (at least, not on camera), but in this case I think she was looking for help so I shared my thoughts with her. Ivy has so much potential, but sadly, she’s had no good role models or guidance in her life. Her life can go in two very different directions right now and I felt the need to stop my usual Joe Friday impersonation on this channel and give my advice. It may help her or others, hopefully. I’ll upload another video this weekend with a fourteen year old prostitute named Momo who is in a similar situation. These girls’ stories are sad and difficult to hear but if you listen you begin to understand how they happen.
Edit: I’ve also just shot an update video with Chyna, the sixteen year old prostitute. This girl’s story get more interesting by the day, but she has asked me wait to upload her second video until she sorts out some personal matters. You’ll see that update shortly.
Truly !
Soft White Underbelly are these young ladies open to help or resources?
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly You are gifted, kind, compassionate... an angel behind the camera. May you continue to be blessed by the Divine and those whose stories you tell. Much love to you, Brother.
Soft White Underbelly I am so looking forward to Chynas update video. I’ve been following her video and comments pretty closely. This was a great interview by the way.
Atleast her Daughter is with the grandparents and not in the system
Fr, kids being in the system suffer from so many different forms of abuse.
Exactly. She can easily fix this problem...solution is get herself from around the ppl she is with, try to gain employment or go to school, possibly get a stable place to stay if she doesn't have it already. She still has access to her baby so it's not the end for her. She just has to put forth the effort.
Y’all wasn’t listening. Her mother which is the grandmother who was taking care of HER daughter, the grandmother called social services and they took her. That’s why she’s sad. Her own mother called on her!
This isn't always the best thing.
Disordered grandmother's create disordered grandchildren.
If it was her own mother.... That's disturbing.
If you dont have custody, you can't legally do anything for the child. The grand mom is thinking about what is best for the child.
The gmom can get her insurance and take her to the doctor...
The depression in her eyes and whole demeanor is completely heartbreaking. She’s such a precious young woman!
My heart fluttered a little when I initially saw the defeated look on her face. Tragic!! Love really is important and powerful beyond belief!!
Ivy you can do it just take the initiative ps. Don't give up maybe you should start by getting your GED if not already have then try a fast track lpn program for about a year you can make really good money but you need to seek and find knock and a door will open god bless hope everything works out for you god bless
Drugs can rob you from your soul… Such a hard and difficult path to be upon, at least she knows it’s because of her actions, she’s not making excuses
Yes, her pain/depression is palpably thick…she believes she’s without hope. When it takes her simply DECIDING. Deciding to find a way.
I pray she ‘decides’…for Ivy and for her baby girl!✨💞
HER SILENCE IS SO LOUD
Young, tired, hurt, in too much pain, depressed, almost ready to give up....loves her daughter...but still a time bomb. Sad situation.
Seriously I did while spiritual reading on this girl by accident
Deja Wiili she’s sad she feel like she just doing her life the way she doing it because that’s what she knows she feel like this may be where life stops for her because every time she tries to come out of it she falls back how ever she is convinced subconsciously and trained to believe that she’s no better than what she is so it’s like she walking in the word with her eyes sewn shut she need to listen to what god is telling her and stop settling for what she was trained to do
Deja Wiili she doesn’t realize yet that what she is doing is to build her mental strength but it’s also a choice Bc she doesn’t have to learn her Lessons the way she’s learning them but she was taught to believe that this what her life is
Deja Wiili she doesn’t know how to love her self because she don’t know what it feels like fore no one to love her and she tries but she don’t got enough belief in her self ,
I don’t think she has ever been spoken to like this by someone who really cares
Lol yeah ok
@@nasheemwhye5197 ok 😁
@@Venis-Pagina cause pimps say the same thing he's making money off her as well
Exactly
She came to talk to him.
You can tell those who walk in for the money and others who know Mark is clean and sober, and his role is to listen.
It’s Dec 2022, and I’m marathon watching the Ivy playlist. I suspect she has not done well, but there is still hope.
If Ivy only could grasp her strength and intellect.
She gets so close, but then…
She's already given up. Someone needs to check in on her often.
I agree.
I felt that also. Especially when she said " I don't get up as much I just sleep most of the time" broke my heart
Yes but do you really think Mark laita going to do anything bought profit from her story, as she suffers? YOU are 100% correct she needs a support group bad, of some form. Asking her depressing lines of questions and sending her back outside not going to help her. Like a jumper on a building, someone went up thier and just rehashed all her pain without and profession help and just left them up there.
@@bjammin7529 Mark is typically demonetized by these videos and typically these people need to be punched in the face with reality. He is also paying out thousands of his own money to many of the people on this show and helping them in ways nobody else can.
This is their reality.
Mark's interviewing style has changed somewhat, especially for the women. He's really trying to help and I applaud him. Hopefully they will catch on.
I agree he is amazing & really trying to help change the world little by little
Yes
I agree. His interviewing has developed to the point where I think they really take something positive from these interactions. Kudos to Mark as he’s clearly really worked on this and I don’t imagine these interviews to be easy at times.
og shut up 😂
I noticed
I see a sadness upon her. Ivy in this day I speak life upon your life. I speak blessings upon you and your daughter. I break all generational curses and blockages and haters who want to see you fall!. You are beautiful! You've been stepped on , humiliated for too long now! That all ends now! It ends tonight!. I open the doors for true love, motivation, clarity, creativity, wisdom, self love, self care upon your life💕. This year is your year! Abundance and peace your way babygirl
I stand in agreement in Jesus name
Yes! 👏🏾
Amen
💕
Amen!!!
Of all the interviews This one hit me heavy. I lost my daughter to the same thing a year ago. She overdosed on meth mixed with ketamine. She was killed.she didnt know. .She was only 20. I cringe when i hear ivy talk. I see my daughter Mikayla.My daughter left behind my 5 yr old grandson. Now myself and his other grandmother are.raising him. My daughter didnt have to do what she was doing.She had A FAMILY...BOTH PARENTS. I wish i could meet ivy. Hug her and tell ber how much i love her.Since my daughter has passed away.I try to mentor girls her age. U have no idea how my heart is crying. I pray that she realize that this is not worth it.and she is 20. She has a chance to get out. This Interview really hit close to home for me...because I miss mikayla every single day.🙏😪😢😢😢
I’m so sorry you lost you’re daughter... 🙏🏻😢💕
Tina Tutt I’m so sorry
God is giving you alead into how to remember the ways Mikayla could impact this young girl by your encouragement. Pray for His Divine Guidence.
@@sandypatin1221 Thank you
Condolences♥️🌹🌱♥️🌱🌹♥️🌱
She so gorgeous. I’m sick of how woman are treated. They gave us life and nurture us. Us as men need to step up and be better examples and treat women with respect
Lol
Simp.... she doing that shit to herself
Awww gee what a nice guy to comment such a thing
@@sosogood42 Facts.. she realize that early on.. in the first video that she did she said 3 to 5 hundred.. and she went from there.. that's in the 1st vid
Nice to hear for a change. Quite often on this page there are men talking about their looks, pimping them or being down right filthy. I thank you for being a real man.🤗🌈💜
Ivy is really thinking. I can tell, and I feel she’s going to get out of this lifestyle. I’m claiming it for her! Mark I appreciate you speaking words of affirmation to her and getting her to think. Loved this 🥺🥺 Ivy I’m rooting for you all the way♥️
She seems so fed up and over it... and I hope this pushes her to make new choices!!
M Gasser me too 😇
I agree, Ivy was soul searching.
Mark she is one that you should really try to help. She's ready. Keep an eye out for her please take her somewhere to get help if it's the last thing you do
Finding out at a young age that it's up to you to break generations of bullshit is scary as hell and it doesn't seem fair but you gotta do what ya gotta do
Facts
@@ASoulFulT Congrats for following your educational goals.
Adultchildren.org!
This is why while everyone talks shit about millenials, i hold so much respect for them. Theyre the ones who are supposed to change the game. So many people i see around my age (a lot of the time even younger) breaking toxic cycles. So much respect for you recognizing it also. Well wishes to this young lady & yourself.
It’s hard & it can be scary but it’s very possible when you have the will power to do it. I’ve broken a few generational curses myself by the grace of God & still striving
She needs a role model. She seems depressed and alone. I’m pretty sure she knows what she needs to do, I think she doesn’t know how to do it, what steps to take.
Amen.
Its likely no one in her life has ever encouraged her, or even wanted her to do better. It would be so hard to climb out of that lifestyle when everyone is trying to pull you back in. Such a young, sweet girl with her whole life ahead of her and she doesn't see any hope for a good future. Heartbreaking.
Yesss... exactly.... I agree...
Yea, she has the want to change and don’t really have a handicap except lack of knowledge and role model. If she gets that...she’s on her way up
You are exactly right!
This is probably my favorite interview that Mark has done. Others have been more wild, sure, but the emotion in this one literally bleeds through the screen. As someone with depression, he handled this in such an empathetic way. No assumptions, just a listening ear and a kind voice with lots of reassurance. Thanks for what you do Mark! I hope the best for her.
I agree. I have major depressive disorder and I know the thing that can trigger it the most are our children. I hope she can keep contact and work towards getting them back she seems like she will not be the same without that connection. Not everyone has that nurturing spirit but I can tell she has it
THIS !!!
That "you're the most beautiful girl , but just don't rely on it" she was NOT expecting that. She heard that.growing up I was always told "being the most beautiful girl is nothing u did, it just is. don't take mistake it for an achievement" (not that I ever did what she did).I don't think enough girls realise that being the prettiest is not such a gift it can be a curse too. Well done mark for pointing that out to her. What a great interview. The silence was needed.
Brought tears to my eyes when Mark told her how pretty she was. He's trying sooo hard to get her to see her worth 😥
She's extremely attractive. That's why on her earlier video I said I hope she doesn't become another Amanda. Amanda was just as pretty and look at her now. It's a damn shame.
She literally is stunning. More importantly, she's articulate and we'll spoken. She just needs help....our help
Love the idea...but are you doing something more than commenting on UA-cam? Honestly...truly honest...dont get butthurt...
I agree I immediately noticed her beauty and intelligence
Field Keeling what help did you have in mind?
Maybe she needs your help. Everyone is called to help someone or some cause. Perhaps she is your calling. Go for it.
Why do ppl always comment on how articulate black people are? It is not a complement... why do you assume she wouldn't be articulate. Geez
Ok I'm just going to say it..
This woman is TOO damn introspective, smart and self aware to be doing this. She needs to be running a company from home while just killing it as a mom.
I wish I'd not retired. I'd hire her in an instant! Please keep us updated. I have such high hopes... beauty and brains.
Have you seen her last interview..
Wtf
@@embananasplit2935 so many people show their ass with comments like that one. SW are people too, from all walks of life.
Most women on that channel seem smarter than most women in the corporate world ... more authentic, more self aware.
@@bubblesnblossom5233 no I believe when Ivy says in a response to her line of work "I'ma do better or I'ma die like this" and then continues to explain how discontent she is doing sw. This is not empowerment moment for sex workers, this person is fucking, in a very unsafe way, as a means for drugs,it's fucking horrible.
One of the best interviews. I can see and feel her depression. Thank you for dropping knowledge and speaking life into her.
She shows no emotion, no light in her eyes. It's so sad man. I pray she gets the help before it's too late.
She is numb :(
It’s never too late.... as time goes by it can be harder but it will never be too late.
She's BROKEN.
I'm believing in and for her to help herself. She has so much time on her hands. She can and will turn it all around for HERSELF FIRST.
I thought she showed tons of emotion. Just all negative ones..
She is so sad its crushing...I am sending her love
Mark is right! You cant take the easy road.
Take the path less chosen. Hard is easier than easy...because hard is like protein, it builds you. Easy is like sugar and breaks down structures you need like TEETH.
I've never heard it put this way before. I love it!
This is an amazing analogy x
Thank you! I needed to hear this today. I hope you have a great day.🙂
Very well said! My children are doing good but I’m sure they’ll be hearing this analogy from me. Lol
on point girl!!!!
i just love Mark and wish Ivy the best....He is giving her Fatherly advice
Thank you Mark with a great passion and love you showed this beautiful young ladywhat a great role model you are thank you so much Mark
No no doubt you can do this you love your daughter love yourself or your daughter you can do this I believe in you loving yourself is loving your daughter
I know that look and stare all too well, when she’s quiet is when I hear her the most.
the No eye contact is what bothers me....there's something deeper Ivy is trying to convey, I don't get a good feeling from it now that I watch this video a second time. She won't make eye contact.
I would say its some form of drug. I've been here so high I couldn't convey or make sense of something or anything logically. Its like its there,running 900 million miles a minute but couldn't get it out!
I feel people in the comments missed the symptoms of disassociation from PTSD.
I “zone out” a lot and stare into space.. something that was said triggered a response that made me turn inwards to think. You can tell she’s thinking in her head. Processing. Trauma takes its toll on the way your brain processes. I don’t have a drug addiction- I have trauma and mental illnesses from it.
Disassociating is a way your brain protects it help from the emotions. I got yelled at when I got upset so instead I go inward instead of showing external emotion bc my brain views that as unsafe to show emotion.
Just a thought to consider
@@cilla-themusiclover In my opinion, it’s difficult to make eye contact let alone keep it when you’re view point itself isn’t sound to you
@@tammiRue02 I can relate wholeheartedly ♥️
I never comment on videos but this one really pulled at my heart strings. As a young woman myself going through it , I was able to empathize with her so much and the kind words you spoke to and over her life will definitely stick with her. Her silence said everything she didn’t say and you could just feel her energy through the screen, It was so heavy. I really wish the best for Ivy, please update us in a few months Mark.
Well siad Mark
Her silence speaks volumes. Hope everything works out for her.
I actually cried when he told her she was beautiful and she lit up like a tree. Sometimes, you just need to hear it so you can feel it!
she knows she's beautiful already. in fact her ego is up the roof when it comes to looks, and that is why she relies on that in everyday life. easy money. too easy
@@technologu she doesn't necessarily think ppl think shes beautiful she thinks they want her because they want pussy . Yu think if she knew she was BEAUTIFUL that she would allow meb to PAY for her to do nasty things to her and not caree about her well being ? Thats people issues. They so skin deep like we're not talking about aesthetics when we're talking about a prosti. Abd thats hardly the criteria for men who pick them up.
I'm taken back by her pure beauty too. I think people think if your pretty and beautiful you must have it easy..
@@mptrqueen3514 women use beauty to get what they want: money, jobs, promotions. ugly folks need to work harder for all this. and even so they won't get it.
@@technologu thats like saying men use power to move around aswell . Using something at your disposal to navigate thru life isnt a unpractical tactic . Its ok when its intelligence but not beauty its ok when its strength but not a disability lmao like im reality yu can only do what someone allows yu to and yu caan only get paid be either the weak or those who are willing to pay yu . So unless shes a full time scammer which she isnt shes pro iding a service tho i disagree w the industry for mant reasons... she provides a service man men are glad she exists for
I’m so glad he told her how beautiful she is at the end. She really is gorgeous. She’s so young i pray she pulls strength from somewhere.
I loved that part 😭
Haven't even made it to the end, and just made that comment. I wish she saw it! She is beautiful ❤
@@julesmbc I was just going to comment that she's such a beautiful young lady.
@@theblaxican6802 💞
She really is so beautiful without a drop of make up and takes care of herself . She could absolutely turn this around and have her daughter back home with her in 6 months to a year
"If you want to change the world go home and love your family." Mother Theresa. Everything starts in the home. Bring the nuclear family back!
Yesssss!!!!
The most important part of this Universe ~
Best Quote from Mark: "You're never going to be ready, you just do it". That's it. That's exactly what this young woman needed to hear. She knows what she needs to do. Mark, you really gave your best advice in this interview. Perfect .
Cilla C amen! The best advice is usually short and simply said and that advice 100% is! I totally agree with you
Yes great advice. But you can't snap out of depression without meds at first unfortunately. Get stabilized and get your kids back and your mood will definitely improve and your energy levels
I can feel her sadness through the screen 😟 I get the feeling she's starting to disassociate. Poor baby. I hope she's able to pull through and get off the streets. She's young & has much more to offer the world. ♥️
She is depressed over her daughter, but she needs to know her daughter is in a better place and know needs to focus on herself and get out of this bad situation.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 well said
Very true!!
If her daughter is in the system then no way in hell is she is the best place!!!
@Iam Notafan She is depressed you can see it, and not just about her daughter, she is depressed about her life. She isn't "choosing" anything. She's lost and hopeless. If you can't see she is depressed...your perspective is blind. She is twenty years old and lost. She is stuck in a hopeless state. She knows her daughter is in a better place. She's aware of that, but she herself has no hope for herself. How can she concentrate on her child when she herself is a lost child? Saying she's tired and sleeps all the time more than once shows she is close to giving up.
I know what that means to be hopeless. She is a child with a child. "She" needs help. She needs someone strong to help her get out of the flux she's in but, there is no one. Not everyone is strong emotionally. Not everyone is like you. Saying she should take the time to better herself is not what she is capable of......She is lost. Appearing on this video was the best she could do to find help.....I hope she doesn't end her life.
Iam Notafan decided she’s depress?? Its so evident she’s depress and you can see it in this video and her choices etc.. and she literally says she depress from her own mouth in this video. Did you not watch the video ?
The deep sadness in her eyes really really grabbed my heart. She is actually very intuitive and connected to who she rally is. The struggle is very real in her. She's very intelligent and insightful. I feel her 💯 % and I see her pulling herself out of this.
She’s VERY depressed. She’s built so many walls around her, shame such a beautiful and smart girl.
Mark genuinely loves people. He’s a true humanitarian. She needed to be on that stool. I hope those words got through and gives her the motivation she needs to change. God bless you Mark ❤️❤️❤️
Mark is a top bloke
To sit and talk to Mark would be interesting
I think Mark does a lot behind the scenes to help, esp the women.
This was very painful to watch. I wanted to just reach thru the screen and hug this young lady until all her pain was gone! 😭😭😭. Her silences was deafening. When i was on the streets, i remember. To be in a cycle of that life is so devestating. You are so hopeless. When family doesnt care. When u have to do things u never thought u would have to do just to get by...then use to cover up said feelings about said things...the cycle then continues. She is disconnecting and it is painful to see this beautiful, sweet wellspoken young lady like this.
All i can say is this. If i can do it..she can too. I was a hardcore alcoholic(i have stage IV(4) cirrhosis and chronic pancreatitis)). It was hard, i put the drink down(3 days of the DT's in my tent puking and shaking) 5 months later my dog and i got our first apt. Its been 6 yrs now off streets. Becuz of the drinking i am terminally ill even tho no drinking. I pray to God someone will help this young lady. Mark is right tho, its gonna be tough but i know it can be done. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
sam ryon Your comment is awesome, amazing and inspirational. I’m so glad you made it.... I’m also a recovering alcoholic, so I know how hard that must have been for you. I’m glad you have some peace now with your dog.... from one dog lover to another... ❤️💗❤️💗
@@fernandapartridge5174 Thank you Fernando. I share my story here and on instagram is the hopes that it will help someone either by showing them that even when u have lost it all becuz of addiction, never give up cuz it is possible to have a life beyond your wildest dreams. Or maybe someone sees and says 'wow, maybe i should get help now instead of later.
My sweet doggy has made such a difference in my life. I thank God for her everyday. She is my best friend. God bless you and thank you again for your kind comment :)
That's the look of a tired soul. She needs to be checked on daily.
Losing her daughter has caused her to be so despondent. Hopefully that will be the catalyst for change. 🙏🏿
I think she lost a lot when her daughter was taking. She's depressed 😔. Even if it was for the best. Just a sad situation. Hoping and praying she pulls through.
It's very common for parents that are barely keeping it together for their kids, and then the kids are taken and they literally have nothing left to fight for. Just another part of the broken system.
IT´S evident that she is deeply affected by her daughter´s departure, luckily she is with blood, better that than in care. I hope her daughter will be motivation enough for her to get on the right route. Good luck Ivy, your whole life is ahead of you, you can shape your own future.
Her daughter could be her motivation if she stopped focusing on losing her and turning all of her focus on building herself up and do what she needs to do to get her daughter back in her care AND giving herself a life she can be proud of!
She was raised by blood and still ended up where she is
"Treat yourself as your daughter." Profound, wise words.
I really hope the grandmother doesn't alienate the child and gives Ivy an opportunity to rise up and reunify with her daughter.
You can get her back Ivy. It's in her best interest....IF you are sober and fit and not putting her in dangerous environments.
Take the help being offered. Jump into the programs feet first and give it your everything.
Your daughter needs you.
Smh ya that’s what usually happens. The guardian starts to feel entitled and stuff and doesn’t think about the child. Then the child grows up thinking the parent didn’t want them. It’s fckd
although she was born with the worst cards, the universe gave her beauty. the girl is beautiful. I pray that she realizes it and overcomes it all.
Beauty only means something to those who don’t posses it
Physical beauty is actually worth very little, it can be a burden.
Lol, yes realize you’re physically beautiful and it all just falls into place magically
positive perspective
You're acting like she wouldn't matter if she didn't look good. Sickening that people base so much of your worth on looks.
27 year old Australian man brought to tears watching this. Thankyou mark. I really hope she finds the strength. It just takes one good day to build momentum for a better life
What's Australia got to do with it
Its so beautiful how he’s speaking life into this Queen as if she were his daughter. Love that speak life into one another 💕✨
Yes!!
The way he's talking to her warms my heart I absolutely love it. The kindness, the care, the concern, the consideration and the Beautiful advice he's giving to this very young girl. That warms my heart.💝
She does seem depressed hope it gets better for her 😢
Ericc O right. She really made me cry. I hope things get better for her.
@@myheartisinjapan3184 Me too
I had to give my son to his dad just so I can go to work. No courts involved Nd I see him every other day but I still feel like a bad mom. Even though I took care of him in a shelter for a year in a half. He cries every time I leave.
@@jasminewalker3522 Your not a bad mom your a responsible parent that's handling your business the rite way😊
Tavio Bridge you should not be so judgmental of people. You have to walk in their shoes. You never know how hard things got for a person. I think she did the best thing she could do.
She seems like she is done with the lifestyle. I think she will get out and succeed. She seems so insightful.
it's like you can actually see the depression in her face and energy
Oh big time. And if not given the proper treatment the girls turn to uppers to try and get happy
She just looks so much more down since the last interview her daughter is her world that was what kept her spirits up 💔🙏🏾😢
please keep doing updates on her.. i want the best for her so bad 🦋🦋
She's suicidal. She needs help asap. I have worked in mental health for many years she needs the help now.
I see you black girl. I'm sorry the world doesn't protect or value us. I know you're tired of being strong but there's more to your story. Don't give up here.
There’s women of all races living that life. They’re all human and feel human emotions regardless of race
The "World" don't protect or value no one.
@@townbythetown of course you had to pull the all women stunt. She is speaking from a black womans experience. That is it that is ALL. Stfu
i love you black girl . - another black girl
@@townbythetown I'm not talking about them, though, am I?
She's so beautiful and so sad and so lost and so young. Saying a prayer for her ❤️ I truly hope she can turn this around
This interview is literally bringing me to tears. Just the way Mark is holding space for her... allowing her to just be in the moment without judgment and all the gentle offerings of support and encouragement. Just beautiful to see how good we can be to each other as humans.
She’s At Her Lowest You Can Tell...Praying For You Ivy, This Interview Broke My Heart Man. Thank You Mark For Trying To Guide Her In The Right Direction She Needed To Hear That Because You Can Tell She Doesnt Have Anyone To Tell Her That..
My God, she reminds me of myself. If you have a family that has made bad decisions you tend to feel beholden to that.
But God is saying follow Me. I’ll be with you and never leave you. I had to make hard decisions to stop doing things my family did and start doing things my family didn’t do.
What helped me most was reading the Bible, listening to sermons, and hearing what God was saying to me through those words.
I pray that this is your turning point lovely Ivy. Mark is right. You must be strong and very courageous for yourself. God will give you a way out. Take it. You have great rewards up ahead. ❤️
Amen! The Bible made me feel whole for the first time in forever
Well done girl 🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️
My parents are alcoholics. I am, but quit drinking around 5 months ago. I dont keep count. Tomorrow I'm quitting smoking cigarettes while I have 4 days off of work. A person can break the cycle with Jesus's help, but they've got to want it. I wanted to write a comment to you because you said you've been watching sermons. I dont go to church and I dont get excited by pastors or religion in general. However, the other day I found a preacher on youtube, who preaches with the Bible only and he got me fired up! His name is Pastor Gino Jennings and to me, he is one in a million. He's genuine and righteous. If you're interested, I think you may enjoy the way he teaches. He's definitely a man of God among false prophets and charlatans. He got me excited about my Bible. Anyways, God bless you, and take care!
God vows you. Beloved. You are unconditionally loved by the Lord. He delights in you.
BOODRO WEBB Thank you, I’ll check him out! Wow, look at God, sending you exactly who you need to hear, how you need to hear them so that ultimately HE can talk to you.
That is one of my favorite things about God. He loves us on an individual level and doesn’t just write us off.
Father God, in the name of Jesus I’ve come in to pray for my brother Boodro Webb and his continued sobriety along with his success of being able to quit smoking. Let him know that he is more than a conqueror through Him that loved us, Christ Jesus. And let him know that he is blessed beyond measure. Satisfy him through your Holy Spirit. Show him his path and give him the courage to walk in it. Amen 🙏🏾
Shes just a baby herself, I feel so bad for her.
💔💔I sleep when I’m depressed too I pray everything gets better depression is very hard dealing with especially going through it alone just always remember after every storm there’s a brighter day 💪🏾❤️
This made me so sad. She really don’t want to live that life and you can tell. Very pretty girl and I wish I could help her.
Her daughter is her savior, she seems like shes insecure about going out there and getring money the legal way...ivy you can do it..ur strong and beautiful, dont give up u have a daughter that needs you...God Bless you honey...im praying for your safety and future with your daughter
Wow... phenomenal words Mark, words I will never ever forget... " The easy way out, is never the right way" I am speechless, those words are profound!
And the easy way out won’t get you what you want.
@@dee4hd YES!!! Love this!
She is gorgeous , such a natural beauty
Mark really poured into her in this interview, I can always tell when he really feels for someone. God bless you man❤
Wow, he really knocked it out the park with this interview. She is a beautiful young girl who’s also smart and he told her that. He lifted her up without expecting anything in return. I loved that moment. I hope she can change her life. Maybe this moment was her new beginning.
This poor baby is so broken and defeated I literally cried. She wasn't even given a chance from birth. Iam praying for her it touches me because she reminds me of my oldest granddaughter and if it wasn't for our family bond oh Lord have mercy 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This young lady is looking for a way out. She just doesn’t know how.
A LOT OF WHAT MARK SAID ARE THINGS WE ALL NEED TO HEAR...
THANK YOU MARK❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ivy, you smiled when Mark called you beautiful . You are pretty but you’re also smart. You have strength on the inside but you have to reach inside and use it to better your life. Beat the street life by divorcing it completely! You can beat this!
DazzleMeRed Rockafella amen! She has so many things going for her. She just needs to embrace it and give herself more credit.
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Huge shift from last video. Mental health shift. ❤ her sleeping more, sadness, deadness in her face, non verbal, fidgety. She is beautiful, Mark. You brought a smile.
The way she takes what he says so calmly and without being defensive or offended makes me feel like she wants/needs a father figure so badly.
She's HIGH.
I’m happy you told her she was beautiful! She is & her spirit needed to hear that.
I wish people would stop mentioning her beauty as if that makes her more worthy of redemption. As a society let’s value all life and people regardless of what we have constructed as worthy.
Yes!
Exactly! Well said
Thank You 🗣👏🏾💯
I think he is trying to build her self esteem.
@@axpsanchez Yes, and that is good, but that should have nothing to do with looks. If it was a boy nobody would say the same thing..
Hi Mark, I'm a 25 yr old social worker from Australia and I think the work you did in this short interview was amazing. You gave your all to try and influence her within her own decision making, provide her with the means necessary to make an informed decision in her life and instigate the agent for change. It is not an easy task to challenge someone on their own beliefs and values but you handled it with practiced skill and we also need to recognise that takes courage because you never know what reaction you will get. I noticed the script changed in this video as you're not usually so involved and normally have minimal involvement to give the people you interview space to tell their story. We can all see your huge passion, jumping in and helping her after seeing that she was starting to give up and accept her situation. She needed to hear the advice you gave her. I have the utmost respect and admiration for your work and your campaign. Also the subtle approaches you take to influence change in the lives of your interviewees. Take care of yourself, Kerrie.
Thank you Mark Laita-you are setting the bar higher and giving recognition with true compassionate understanding, kindness and acceptance. Your words open up a sunshine of possibilities and the floodgates for positive change.
ETA🌹
16:00 when she whispers "I don't have any" after Mark says she has to have courage😭
She's definitely the most beautiful girl you interviewed.
I said the the same thing so gorgeous!! She doesn’t need to be doing this ☹️
Poor thing she's so depressed....she really needs a mentor.
Mark, I respect your work so much. She is at a fork in the road. this story can go 2 different ways... That Depression can definitely send her spiralling fast. I pray this pressure she is under motivates her to do better
L💜RD G🕊️D, PLEASE DELIVER THIS YOUNG LADY FROM THE HANDS OF THE ENEMY SO THAT SHE WILL SEE HER SELF WORTH AND GIVE YOU GLORY. IN JESUS' BLESSED NAME WE PRAY. AMEN!!.
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Amen!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Jesus ain't done a thing from day one..
When man the story up 2000 years ago!!
Darrell amen brother in Christ! Amen
Amen
@@toptipple He gives us a choice. What we choose is up to us.
She’s so pretty with a nice body and doesn’t even realize she could be doing something so much different modeling or something
Why everyone who has a nice body has to model. It’s MORE TO LIFE BESIDES modeling. She can be a lawyer. Doctor. Teacher. And anything she choose to be.
@Ms. Preko cause you lame 😒
She realizes she just doesn’t care
@@nasheemwhye5197 true that
@@LovettbalngoodsLLC girl take ya Martin Luther king ass speeches elsewhere
What a change in a month!!! My heart (and money) goes out to Mark and what he's doing. Great work! IMPORTANT work!
"Pretty" means nothing to a broken soul.
Yes, maybe not the correct words but said with loving intentions I feel
You’d be surprised..... it may just sow enough seeds in her mind for her to do something about her situation right now. She really IS beautiful, but she will not stay like that forever. It is up to her, nobody else can do this..... She’s young enough, smart enough, sweet enough and beautiful enough to really make something of her life.
The fact she has a daughter to fight for, may just swing it for her. I am praying for her. ❤️
@Michael Morris psh!!
@Michael Morris LOL
@Nobert Rord {{{{{hugs}}}}}
You talked with her so beautifully; giving her a truly fatherly advice - that’s really amazing. I hope she’ll reflect upon it.
I’d be depressed too if my daughter was ever taken away from me... see the sadness in her eyes...😢
As they should..Respect to the grandparents for protecting their grand baby
Why did they not protect her
I’ve been where she’s been. I was depressed my parents were raising mine. Like he said at 12:48 making one good decision leads to more and leads to feeling better about yourself. I found a job, and ever since then life has been great. I pray every girl in the game GETS OUT. It’s Never too late!!!!!! Miracles happen in 2.5 seconds.
She’s so broken but not beyond repair. She understands the concept of hope, but she’s so deep into her depression that it’s such a foreign idea to actually view as attainable. I believe in her. She can do it, once she gets over the fear of getting out and a lack of a support system. Like Mark said it’s not about being ready. You just have to do it. There’s nothing scarier than the unknown. I just want to hug her. She’s so hurt.
I truly had a hard time hearing the brokenness in her voice, She is a beautiful, stunning woman. I hope the best for her I hate knowing she is sad and depressed. She is soft spoken and smart. I pray her and her daughter live a better happy healthy beautiful life. She is so young and mistakes are made to be we all have the chance and option to learn from them and heal, grow become even better. I do hope that for her. God Bless.
Mark, Marc (?) normally doesn't say this much. I get why though.
How she's sitting there, her pain is almost tangible😞
Mark... What an amazing man you are. I can't tell you how many times I've commented those same words on other interviews you do. After watching this old interview trying to see where this beautiful and very smart young lady comes from, I see just how kind you are and what a difference you have to be making for all you interview. Esp broken young ladies like Ivy. Tell her she's beautiful not wanting anything in return from her had to feel good. She took your kind words with her and has those for the rest of her life. Maybe this all started as just " something" but not to push any spirituality on anyone but you're doing gods work. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Good bless you and Ivy.
Her expressions during that awkward silence at the end was pure art and she doesn’t even know it. I’m sure Mark has resources to connect her to.
When she said she was 20 my mouth actually fell open. SHE NEEDS SUPPORT.
The easy way won’t get you what you want .... The truth that a lot of us hate to hear, very strong words Mark
She just needs someone to believe in her. And help.
No, she needs to believe in herself
I have stumbled on this channel a few weeks ago and I can't stop watching these powerful biographies. As a child of parents who were both addicted to crack, my heart breaks for so many reasons. I appreciate how you encouraged and inspired Ivy. People who don't understand addiction don't understand the toll it takes on a person's psyche and identity. I am praying for Ivy.
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Same here, both parents crack and heroin and ultimately this addiction took them to they're grave. I just came across this page and i can't stop watching these biographies ❤️ These are definitely hitting my heart and soul
This young beautiful girl breaks my heart. You can see what an amazing mother she is. So many people out there don't care where their kids are or willingly give them away. She's truly depressed without her baby girl. I pray her life takes a turn, she gets her baby back and lives a long healthy life. ✝️✝️🙏🏽🙏🏽
Her spirit is tired and heart beat slow this world will do that to you she’s weakened she’s loosing her strength to fight because her spirit is crushed
Love it deep
Mark really tried to give her sound advice like a father would to his daughter. I truly hope she listened.
Agree - he doesn't usually speak as much as he does in this interview. He really is trying to get through to her.
She knows it. She’s aware...just confused on how to move forward. No one has ever made it out of a depressed state.
The words a worthy father would give& an unworthy father wouldn't know to give.
Yes he was very tender. Fatherly. I'm glad she keeps contact with the children it meayso much for kids to know their parents care and are trying to get them back
I LOVE what he said to her...treat yourself with rhe same care you would yoir daughter.
When Mark said out of silence "do you know how beautiful you are?"... I think in that moment she needed that. And think about how amazing that must have felt hearing it from a man who wasnt trying to get anything out of her or use her.
I want to take this girl in and show her how to love herself 😔
The way she paused when he called her beautiful is almost like she didn’t already know. That’s horrid
I wanted to give her a hug so badly. You can see and feel her pain and feeling of hopelessness. Like Mark said, It isn’t an easy road ahead of her finding her way out, but once she begins to take steps forward it will be a beautiful journey. I wish there was some way I could help her.