Why Your Silence Makes Your Ex Miss You
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2023
- Why your silence makes you ex miss you after the breakup or divorce.
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Once it's been over for 3 months, youll start to realize how mean they were and you will never want to be with them again
Yup
Its hard to love someone that is mean and doesnt respect you. It pushes you away from them. You have to draw the line somewhere
Happened to me at around the 7th week.
It's crazy, than one you realize it, they might try to get back with you
2 mouths
the longer you keep your distance, the more you realise how little you were settling for, the disrespect you tolerated, and how to deal with similar pessonalities in the future.
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I came to this realization recently. Who wants the garbage who wants the lies who wants the baggage
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😂😂😂😂I was that person. The one that wanted to talk to work it out that would love him forever.... I told him, if I wanted things to change, something had to change... So I changed! I know he doesn't believe me... I'm sure he thinks I'll be back.... Well, he can wait till the sun blows us all up because.... I'm gone!
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When You Even Think About Those’s What Too Be’s Crazy Folk’s ! Read The Bible Or Pray ! They Are Not Worth Your Thought ! Let Alone A Memory ! You Are Better Then That ! Take A Class Or Exercise !😜🤣😂🙏🏿🩸🔥❤️ Do Something For You For A Great Change ! Don’t Dung ! And Step Back In It ! NASTY 🤢 ! You Are Better Than That ! Love Self ! 🙏🏿🤣😂🩸🦾💕❤️😜😎🦶🏾🦶🏾🏃🏻♀️ And Keep Running 💥🔥🌪️🌈☀️☄️⚡️✨🌟⭐️💫 You Are More Then That !
Yessss babe!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@mayraromero38335 thank you ❤️
Good for you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You are right, I’m done. If I go back I am settling for more of her crap. Her behavior is unacceptable and not worth my time. Thanks Weav.
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You are 100% right the longer you stay away from a past relationship the more clarity you have and the more things you realize that you should have stayed away from that in the first place they say time heals all wounds but it also gives you Clarity in your reflections of the bulshit you put up with and shouldn't have in the first place
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Im so glad I found you. I been in a delayed breakup. Physically we been broke up. But mentally and emotionally never left. Now its finally getting go the mental and emotional piece and its hard.
Thank you for following along. Stay strong!
Yessssss, you got that right , That REBOUND RELATIONSHIP *** those are the worst, strengthen YOURSELF and let GOD DO the rest.🙏👍🙏
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That's what I'm doing now, only GOD is helping with this loneliness.. it hurts like heck
@@tinasettle1026 I don't know you , I need to let you know this: You have to look at the end result, with GOD INVOLVED, you will have JOY IN THE END, you just have to THINK POSITIVE, NO PITY PARTY because that will take a toll on your LIFE. 🙏🙏*** TRUST IN GOD****🙏
@tinasettle1026 God if freedom and he set you free for freedom's sake. Girl. You're free!
@@tinasettle1026galatians 5:1 It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm then, and do not let yourself be burdened again by a yoke of slavery!👌
I elected for silence and almost a year later .. this fool called and left a message !!! His ass as been blocked for a year ! Still blocked and I was so proud of myself for my silence to speak for itself .. it’s so powerful even if the process is hard as fuck !!!! But I was that girl always wanting to talk and straighten everything out .. ha not no more .. he expected me to and I didn’t .. #blocked
That’s strength!
We owe it to ourselves to focus on us and let go of someone who doesn't have the respect to communicate 💯 ✌️and self l❤ve
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But she broke up with me, now I don’t give her my attention anymore. But she’s still friendly and says she’s wants me in her life and to be friends.
Amen… If they can replace you so easily all those years forgotten, then 👋 they were never worth you. Remember love yourself first xx ❤
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I needed to hear this. Today. Right now. I’m moving on for me.
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One-sided relationships
Let it go!!!! 9 times out of 10 we know what animal were dealing with. You speak facts.💯❤️
Thank you for watching
😂 This is so true, but to the point where I feel like I need to say something to get them to stop missing me. There was a time when I would have enjoyed this and secretly wanted them back in my life, but I'm in such a different place now where Im ready to move on, put myself first and deal with non abusive people who actually love and respect me. Ignoring them completely definitely makes them miss you, but that wasn't my goal... my goal was to heal and move past them. 💀 I am thinking about moving states now, smh.
WEAV A REAL ONE! ALOT OF PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR SHIT LIKE THIS SO THEY CAN KEEP PUSHING💯
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That’s real. And the most unfortunate thing is typically you came in the relationship mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually stronger than what you became with them. So it’s having to work back at who you really are. Like the ultimate backtrack.
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Exactly
Exactly, which is wild to me. But I realized he put on a persona, and I didn't believe it while he was slowing unmasking. It's funny because I've stopped talking to people at the first sign of bs. And somehow, he slipped through the cracks. We'll be even stronger after this. We got it🖤
@@Intuitivelyspeaking13 Let’s boomerang 🪃 beloved! Thank you for sharing that
Good great no more gaslighting, lovebombing...mind games lies that he thought I overlooked. He's a rebounder to women who have been there all along. I'm learning a lot about myself so I can be better for my next love.❤ Ifeel myself getting stronger, I don't think he ever cared just survival tactics
Stay inspired! 🏁🏁🙌🏾
Dating apps make rebounds faster too
@lesliesantos8595 yeah I know, that's probably how he met these chicks...it doesn't matter they don't know him yet. 💯
I feel it was survival tactics too. He was a great pretender. 😡😞 If I learned anything from being in long term relationships with men I loved (and who claimed they loved me and would always be together forever) that were supposed to end in marriage….MEN LOOK OUT FOR THEMSELVES ONLY! They figure out how to get THEIR needs met by any means necessary and don’t care about the fact they’re using you and wasting your precious time as a woman. It’s not easy for me at ALL since I can’t detach from someone whom I loved with all my heart. 😞 We were going to be together forever and he promised so many things we would do when he came back after us being forcibly separated the past couple of years (he was deported). We said we were going to do whatever it took to stay together. But his communication dropped with me lately the past few months. It is SO painful 😓. My whole future was going to be with him. It’s a complete crush to my heart.💔Ending a 10 year serious relationship isn’t easy at ALL. I’m crying all the time while he had already moved on a long time ago, perhaps over a year ago without being honest with me about his feelings.
@irinaivanovic9792 I'm sorry you are going through this..key word through) I understand my husband promised me alot also, it's heartbreaking 😢 💔 work on yourself prayer and meditation, join a gym for stress relief do something nice for yourself every week put that love that you gave him, back into yourself. Stay strong .
Once I got out is when I realized I was the one you're talking about. 5 years Always communicating always putting forth effort to interact cleaning HIS place (wifey duties🤬) and getting crumbs of effort in return. Never talked about the future with me in it..marriage or otherwise. Dealing with his stank teen children. I realized God didn't tell me to be in this MEESSS. I did! Got out a couple months ago... lost 20lbs watched self help vids likes these..weight LIFTED. This WILL not happen again. U ain't intentional....goodbye
Thank you for watching. Stay inspired on the journey! 🏁💪🏾
Very true, I was always the one that brought us back together
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Me too. 😢
All he says to not do I’ve done and she’s the one who had affair and destroyed our family and I’m fighting for it - it’s amazing how much love you can show and these terrible people make us want them
Stay strong! 🙏🏾
Narc's love to give you the silent treatment but can't take it...BLOCKED on every platform...Don't worry about what TF im doing...HIS LOSS!✌🏾
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Bro never lies❤💯💪
Ty for watching
Love your message and your tone!! Keep shining your light! ❤
Thank you!
Needed to work out some anger before no contact. Asked him if she was nicer than I am. The silence was so deafening it made me chuckle. Kudos to her if she puts up the same fight I did.
Live and learn
She will. But she'll have to learn like you did. I say it doesn't matter the type of women they get they will do the same thing. Tell the same lies, and play the same games. 😢
Just what I needed to hear today! And not just for relationships. In general! Thank you!
Stay inspired
I dumped his sorry ass almost 10 months now, best thing I ever did, got to spend time healing and getting to know myself,and developing a relationship with God, all of which would never have happened if I was still with him.✨💜✨
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Moving is silence is the way to go.. His entire psychological process scares me to death. Need to stay away..
Stay safe! 🙏🏾
Yeah, just change for yourself keep things as a grain of salt, learn from it depending on how bad it was, heck pray for them. You won if they move quickly to a rebound.
Your Right ! I Am Truly Working On Me ! And I’m Loving It ! Didn’t Never Know How Too Be Selfish ! And Don’t Never Want To Be That Sick ! Thank You !❤😂😂😂
Thank you for watching! 🙏🏾
I'm in love with Jesus best man ever ❤
Love your videos. They always make me feel better. I can do this! Thank you!
Thank you for watching. Appreciate the love!
Well in my situation...he always came back. He always reached out TO ME always talked about being with each other. He broke up with me twice now. I am hurt and upset but I don't chase anyone. I never did. I still care for him but it's definitely time to upgrade and move on. It was never cheating but lack of communication. He never even said "hey we're done" until a week went by and I seen him. He was a coward honestly 😔
Stay strong and keep it moving! 🙌🏾
Your words are so powerful…. Thank You.
Facts Bro, 2 years 5 months no contact, that past behavior reaching out that's gone. Peace Bro 💯👍🏿
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It's good when I'm down, just to listen to your words and they perk me up again. Thank you 😊
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The fact that I don't have a social media account, probly frustrates the officious.
My god nearly two months into this breakup this MF’n hit 💥 🥊 Weav!
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I'm doing my best why God takes care of the rest 🙏
One day at a time! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yessirrr so eloquent and well spoken and so very true
Thank you!
When the relationship goes stagnant n i begin to do no contact thats when i build my silence to develop strength.
Silence is my new norm 🙏🙏
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Oh bro...
You are sooooo spot on!! 😉
Thanx for reminding me how much I gave and how much I lost and how I AM NOT GOING TO REPEAT THAT CYCLE🥱🙄
YOU ROCK BABY 😉
Thank you for watching. 🙌🏾
Brother, you are keeping me alive right now. Its so hard to grow when you're used to being a doormat. Thank you for the truth.
It’s a process for sure, a long yet necessary one though. Stay inspired and keep healing! 🙏🏾🏁
That part they be forgetting that they teaches us the game.
Flawless victory 🎉
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Yesss, you right my dude! Keep hitting us with that shit. Peace and love my brother.
Thanks for watching! 🙏🏾🏁
Thank you , great advice and makes me feel better. ⭐⭐👍😄
Thank you for watching!
❤❤❤ Yes Sir, Thank you for this message with positive healing energy ✨
Thanks for checking out the video
Lord, thank you for the believers who helped shapely my faith. For the boldly witness for you....
FOR “YOU””” that’s RIGHT!!!! 😎
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Thanks, man. I really needed to hear that today. God bless.
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Keep blessing all of us
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That part. Mic drop!!!!
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Amen 💙
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U are on point noted ❤
Thank you!
Man! I just found you. Damn I should’ve came across you along time ago. Outstanding service and advice! Stay hard.
Thank you for following along! 🙏🏾🫡
YES, EXACTLY HOW I FEEL!
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This hit me different ❤! Please never stop doing these videos. Love your channel!
Thank you. 🙏🏾
Really nice listening to ur videos. Feel like you've got my back. Especially when I feel low. When I was younger I was compared to the lovely Vanity after 22 years of being alone to heal i let this guy into my heart unfortunately he thought i was his age in my early 30s unfortunately im 51 I never expected to get hit on by a younger guy and had to break it to him. What a huge disappointment 😔
Thank you for watching. Stay strong! 🙏🏾
@@WeavToldMe Thank u lots 💓
No more trust in a relationship...thats why I move on
The greatest path to success be it personally, financially,spiritually etc… is paved with LOGIC not emotions. Tone down the heart and crank up the brain.
He stop speaking to me about 3 months. I did the samething to him.he started coming around don't want to speak about what happen . He told me it was over then here acting like we in something still i said no when he ask me out .I said no he vex now
Stay strong
Definitely owe it to myself put up with some things and I knew better. Wasted year but lesson learned ❤
Stay strong!
The no contact has help me grow so much
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That’s true facts!
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Truth
I'm done ✔️ with it all
Totally correct 💯
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Thank you so much bro, this is the only thing I know how to do at this point! Continue evolving into the man I want to be!💯🙌🥰❤️🔥
One day at a time! 💯
@@WeavToldMe Amen brotha, thank you for your wisdom! May god bless you!
Leave them in the past and never ever look back !
👏🏾👏🏾Factz on top of FACTZZZ❣️❣️
Thanks for watching! 🙏🏾
"Amen" Hallelujah! Thank you Lord and Brother!
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Amen love this bro
Thank you for watching
I STRONGLY BELIEVE IT I CLAIM IT AMÉN 🙏🙏🙏❤
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I love this podcast. !!!!!!!!
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Right ✅️ 😊
It's so hard because I want her and what we had so badly!
Stay strong
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"You need to remember who the fuck you are" WTM❤
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BLESS YOU THANK YOU
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Beautiful work 😣🍾😈
Right!!❤❤
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Thank you for the advice
Thank you for checking out the video! 🙏🏾
Great video Bro BRo 🎉
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Yes indeed 😊
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Your videos are awesome and real!!
Thank you. Truly appreciate the love 🙏🏾
I needed this💯
Ty for watching 🙏🏾
Ty for watching 🙏🏾
needed this today
Thanks for watching
Thank you brother for your message it's true to God be the glory in Jesus name amen 😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏 amen amen amen
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Your videos are better than vitamins! ;-)
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Thanks for these videos bro
Ty for watching 🙏🏾
I actually felt that today, if you want I can tell you the story
Perfectly said man! 👌🏻
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I love your videos so much ❤
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I just want him to want me back now so I can dump him. Then he can be in this awful pain.
Stay strong
That’s precisely how I feel too.
Yesssss❤
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Absolutely.
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Yes 🙏 been gone
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❤Thank You.
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