How My Frugal Lifestyle Was Keeping Me BROKE!!!
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- How My Frugal Lifestyle Was Keeping Me BROKE!!!
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I totally love this video, The 3 Most expensive things in the world are Convenience, Impulsiveness and Cheap stuff! This is exactly what I talk about on my channel and on one of my latest videos. DO NOT BUY WHAT YOU DONT NEED. But you should still stock up on things you do need. I recommend getting freezer or 2 and some good shelving and buying on sale/with coupons everything you know you will need and fill up that storage. But again only if you need it and are going to use it. Also just because its cheap does not mean its worth it, I have bought some expensive stuff but its stuff that will last for ever so i don't have to buy 100 of the same thing over my life time.
Who agrees with my comment? Who Disagrees?
Agreed!
I agree
I think it depends on how much one uses something too. I have the kitchen aid professional mixer, and I love it. I buy good leather shoes and handbags, they last for years. However good can be basic but well engineered. Plus suiting what one purchases to their specific needs. Just buying the “best” because it is suppose to be “the best” is not always the reason to spend the extra money. It is very personal, and doesn’t actually always out preform other models and brands. The more bells and whistles the more opportunities for repairs.
Agree
@silentnot4812 totally agree with you. I stopped buying stuff at dollar tree store and just buy a few months' supply of things Sam's club has been great for us retired folks. See more and more seniors going there lately.
I wish I had all the money I spent “saving money “ 😂😂. At least though I was saving money! 🤦♀️
Oh yeah
😂well put
Our wise parents. My Mom always said : "It's not what you make, it's how you spend it." So true!
Yes, shopping "for sales" is not frugal!!
Best tip - Stop shopping!!!!!!! And spending!!!!!!
Best advice, for sure!
Very true. I know several millionaires who never really earned much money in a given year. And I know quite a few people who have huge income and stay broke.
@@Duke_of_Prunes Exactly!
Your Dad sounds my late Dad "it's only a bargain if you need it".
Dawn, this is why we love you.,, you are just a normal, honest person who has opened up their life to all of us. Everything you talk about, I’m sure many of us can admit to doing the same thing at some point. Thanks for all your videos! I enjoy reading tips too, that people leave in comments.
Wow, thank you
I agree! She has a very helpful community of subscribers who have great ideas.
My mom was Smart when I started looking into coupining. She warned me that you
buy stuff you don't want or need. Best device. Yay mom
Your Dad has a fantastic mindset 😊
Thank you
My mom shopped like that when she could get out and about. I cleaned her house out and she had so many items bought and not used or given. It really made me reflect more.
I used to manage a Bath and Body works store (20+ years ago). When we had sales , oh my gosh, people would come in and buy 20-50 lotions, and shower gels. And they just wanted to stock up. Lol.
Oh wow
I used to shop the same as you Dawn, shop all the sales believing I was saving money. All it accomplished was I couldn't keep track of how much I was saving and my pantry, cupboards and refrigerator looked like a packrat.
Buying more then we could use is my downfall
I'm happy you talk about this subject Dawn, because it was after watching one of your videos on this subject in the past, that woke me up that I was that "frugal" type of person. To be honest, it is still a struggle to not give into temptation when I come across amazing clearance finds. I repeat in my head "Death by a thousand cuts" because that's what you tell us, and that really helps me. I was doing so well with not shopping at the Dollar Tree for things I don't need, but I recently got into the habit of watching people's Dollar Tree shop with me videos in the evenings because I find it so relaxing. Well, I had to find a different way to unwind because I found myself shopping at the Dollar Tree more often looking for things I don't need that only add clutter to my home. I know better, and I am embarrassed I am that easily led. I just needed to stay out of the stores, stop watching shop with me and haul videos, and not browsing stores online. There are plenty of other things I should be doing with my time. I have gotten so much better with only buying groceries my family needs, and sticking to my budget. I try to make the majority of our foods from scratch, and I meal plan. Now my husband on the other hand would come home from the store with the lavender flavored hummus if it was on super clearance, but to be fair, he would eventually eat it because he hates waste. Lol.
You sound very smart
I know what you mean! There are so many useful gadgets shown on those videos. I don't shop there because, as you said, I'd end up with useless clutter.
@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom I'm a real dummy Dawn. I just try my best to listen to smart people like you:)
You have absolutely helped All of us, and We Appreciate and Love You. Enjoy your Day, and Happy Thursday Everyone ❤
You are so welcome
Happy Thursday to you!
I used to do all that mess with coupons and clearance too. Mostly it was a total waste of money. I didn't have enough space so I was constantly giving things away, which is nice, but not for saving money!
I stock up on things I use all the time then something changes and I have a load of stuff I won’t use. Olive oil, and now I’ve gone carnivore, face cream then I learned about benzenes and didn’t want to touch it any more, a months worth of baking ingredients and then I realised it was making me ill. Snacks for my Grandson and now he doesn’t like them any more. I always think it won’t happen again, and it happens again!
I rarely stop at yard sales or go into thrift stores anymore. And when I do , I have something I’m needing. And lately, if I can’t find that needed item, I walk out not purchasing anything. God knows I don’t need anymore clothes or shoes or any kitchen gadgets. So, I’m not buying those random things right now. More money in my wallet 😅
Sounds good
I have particular items in mind when I. I don't go thrift store to blindly shop.
As a larger woman I'd have to say clothes from the cheapest of stores that were not flattering but the price was good. Because eventually I ended up not wearing them due to feeling uncomfortable and self conscious about how I looked. I'm trying really hard to pay attention to minimalism to help me direct my spending but also because I struggle with having too many things to take care of in my home.
This summer I am saving money by only going to the grocery stores when I absolutely have to. I am eating all canned goods before buying more. I also have been
Clearing down my basement freezer before I buy more.the freezer is only a quarter full now. When it's gone, then I'll get more.
As for dollar stores, I am putting a halt on most purchases. Only items now are greeting cards, spices,
Garbage bags, personal and cleaning liquids. That's it!
Mine downfall used to be if I walked into a store I felt like I needed to buy something, but I no longer do that saves a lot too
I love it when you say charge plate, I remember credit cards being called that.
Rationalizing keeps people from working harder, resting more, eating healthy, waisting money, letting chores go, loosing weight, living above their means and on and on. I know because I am guilty on some of these items. I think it is human nature but recognizing ones tendencies to rationalize is part of personal growth. But why is it so dang hard🤣🤣🤣🤣
Technically, the charge plate was the metal device you would put your charge card on and the cashier would slide that paper with that carbon copy over the top of the card. Just sayin. I’ve never heard the card itself called a charge plate. But it does bring me back decades to hear the terminology 😃😂
So true
True!
Over the last few years, I also did a lot of "panic" buying...the world didn't come to an end and I'm now using up my stockpile and shopping twice a week max, checking flyers before I go! I factor in the drive time/gas to see if the savings is worth the drive.
Lynn here that’s one thing I don’t do ( stock up) I only keep one ahead of mayo bread etc.
Hey! My $5 LA beach glasses are great! Can’t see through them but I look awesome!🤣🤣🤣
We buy basic items and very little processed foods.
That is awesome!
I've learned not to buy cheap stuff. I only buy good quality now.
False economy, buy the highest quality at the cheapest price. Shop Grocery Outlet WOW deals, and buy everything else used, but in perfect or amost new condition.
I always say I wish I was around for "the good old days!". Easy, simple living. Have a good evening.
In the past I thought buying discounted on special reduced whatever saved me money only to waste my money so I am a minimalist frugual thrifty money saving person I choose needs over wants quality over quantity I do slip up every now and then
You could totally have a merch line with your dad’s saying on it. 🥰
Great idea!!
I did that for awhile. I learned to stop and buy from a list. I know how much I need or use in a year. I try for a 3mo to 1yr stockpile. I rotate. Try to combine simplicity with frugality. I started only buying from my list. I actually shop less doing this.
Example: I use tp at a rate of 1 roll per week. It goes on sale once a month. I usually by 3 months worth @ $0.50 roll for Charmin, normal price $1.50-$2 a roll. I do this with everything.
Hams are on sale at Christmas and again in April, I buy according to when the next deep sale price comes around. Christmas 3 months worth and Easter 8-9 months worth.
I do not need to take advantage of every sale. I do usually take advantage of sale where it is free or I get paid to buy the item, but even then not all the time. If it’s something I don’t need I get $5 to buy, I still only get it if I can give it away on my way home from the store.
Good way to save in the long run!
Your openness and honesty are encouraging.
Thank you
I love ur fathers statement. Save money, fold it & put it back in ur wallet
Ah Ha Yes! - First commenter! Whoo-hoo!
> Never buy ahead. Buy when you need it.
> Never stock up on items that are on sale.
> Forget shopping sales. Stick to the list of what you need.
> Never buy to prepare for weather events. (Shops no longer except those returns.)
Think of alternatives to expensive items
> Use long handled kitchen tongs for arranging firewood in a small wood stove. Fireplace tools are expensive and not needed. One stove shovel for clearing ashes and long handled tongs. Done.
> Use a 5-gallon bucket for bringing firewood in from outside. It has a handle, costs $2.50 or less to buy, it can't carry so much that it's too heavy to lift, yet can carry enough to last most of a very cold day. Easy to cover with contact paper to match the decor of your home.
Thanks for the tips!
I've never shopped like that. I only go shopping for exactly what I need, buy it, & come home. I detest clutter & can't stand having a lot of stuff. I'm very OCD!
Sounds smart
Hi Dawn! Well, my story is different.. I realized quite some time ago, if I was going to stock up, it would be non-perishable items (TP, Kleenex, Personal Items) that helps tremendously in the winter months here.
Very smart!
Good morning Dawn… you had me in stitches when you mentioned lavender flavoured hummus .😂😂 I have been guilty of all you mentioned, its amazing how our brain gets triggered to do these things.. I agree with your Dad!!! Maybe get some tshirts made with that logo… take care..😊
Thank you love
This is not for everyone!!!!
But our family stopped depriving ourselves from luxurious vacations… for a long time we thought being frugal meant not spending money on vacations and doing fun little things for entertainment. Like going to movies or buying little treats.. instead we stopped a lot of small things like nail appointments, movie tickets, new outfits, or local amusement parks… and saved those little luxuries for a BIG trip!!
Not depriving ourselves of the big thing by skipping the little things saved so much!!!
Love it
🤔👍🏻 Yep guilty,then I gotten alittle smarter. Love your your father saying♥️. Thanks for sharing 🤗 God bless
You are so welcome
I only buy what we need when it's on sale
That's great! 👍
U sound like my conscience! Thrift store shopping is where it is!!!!
My spending is pared down to necessity. I may stock a small amount of food items on sale, but actually working to use the food items I already have, supplemented with what I need. Am doing a major declutter/de-own in the whole house over the rest of the year, so do not want to acquire anything unless it's truly a need. I want room in my cabinets, simplicity, and keeping any costs down I can.
Good for you! That's a big job, good luck.
I used to buy sale items … stock up items and clearance items I could eventually use … no more waste of money … if I’m getting low on something it’s ok to buy another can of something to replace but no more stock piling often if it’s food u forget u have it and don’t have a chance to eat it before it’s no longer any good also clothes and blankets I would buy on clearance just to have extra no more unless I really love something it no longer comes into the home it’s money wasted on something that is just ok .. and it could be forever before I need or want to use it so unless I love it I don’t buy it and that saves me money and time because the more u buy the more u have to clean and organize . No thank you ! That’s more work I don’t need ! 💕
Yes, I'm broke because every dollar not allocated right into savings lol.
I was a garage sale and thrift store fanatic but soon realized if I didn’t have a specific goal in mind or budget, I would get what I just felt like getting. I can get housewares and yarn and craft items from my Buy Nothing group.
That's wonderful!
Good discussion of living and learning from experience.
Cheap shoes was a huge problem for me a few years ago. Since I was walking alot I figured I'll just replace them. Well I replaced too many in a year. I regretted that!
Totally understand
I have to stay off shopping sites and out of the stores to save money. No sales or whatever. I've learned not to buy cheap stuff, it doesn't last. I now buy good quality I don't have to replace frequently.
Shopping at a variety of stores or driving a ways to get a sale item. Used a lot of gas.. More than the savings.
Yes. This sounds so much like me. I’m not sure minimalism is the answer because I think we should have some stock of everyday items but not like what I have. Covid did it to me plus admittedly I watch a lot of prepping videos and sometimes I get anxious
So true! I understand
I was the same with coupons and thifting . I didn’t have to buy anything during covid. I save more money now by making my own cleaning products and being frugal. When I was couponing, I was buying stuff that I didn’t even like. Now I don’t even buy any of that stuff I spend less than I did with my extreme coupon.
Good for you!
I don't know if it's allowed for me to put the title of a youtube video on here or not...if not just delete this post. I refrained from putting the link here though, so I hope this is ok. I just saw a video this morning that was posted about a month ago about cereals having toxic and carcinogenic ingredients (having the potential to cause cancer) in them, and hoped that by posting the video title that it might help others to know about this. The title is: "Toxins found in popular cereal brand and fast food chains across America".
Yea, & I had read that Cheerios was high on the list.
@@karendjohn8803 And Cheerios used to be my favorite cereal when I used to eat cereal. No wonder so many people have health problems!
Was on our Canadian news yesterday that paperstraws now have a chemical in them that can be carcinogenic. Use plastic straws, safer!
yes they said on the News that Cheerios has plastic in it and pesticides, why don't they take it off the shelves
@@bunniesandroses499 When I watched the video, it was basically saying all of the popular cereals have the same problems, but I agree they should take them all off the shelves if all of that is true!
Now if I go to a garage sale. I stick with a list. There are certain things I need . I don’t need junk .
Those who feel the need to just buy because its on Clearance or Sale even if its not something they would not otherwise buy should look into themselves. What need are they trying to fill?
Dawn,a deal is NOT a deal if you can't use the item.
Did not plan on buying it
Have nowhere to put it.
Also,buying just because you think it's a good deal,no.
It may be on clearance because of a defect,.
Always ask yourself why is that on sale, discount, clearance.
Would I buy it at full price.
Where would I put it
Will I actually use it.
I'm guilty of buying clothes at the thrift store because I envision the item looking differently on then what it looks like in reality. If I try it on at the thrift store, that usually nips it in the bud but most of the time I'm in a hurry so I will just buy it. Then I regret it later. Sometimes it goes in the pile of clothes to donate back to the thrift store. Or worse, I let it take up space for 6 months or a year thinking I will lose weight or I'll buy a pair of pants that will look fantastic with the item. Sometimes I do lose a few pounds and the item does look nice. But not often enough to justify buying the item in the first place. 😊
Lavender flavoured hummus sounds crazy!! 😂 Will definitely save my money there! Luv you! ❤
It's so good!
Dawn it's called impulse buying
True!
Do you and your husband ever take a real vacation (with travel)?
Not in a long time
This is so eyeopening! I think I've done the same thing--it's on sale so I have to but 4 when I was originally only going to buy 1. Two for $5.00 doesn't mean you HAVE TO buy 2. You can still buy one for $2.50. I got suckered into that a lot of times. Now buy one get one free that's another story. I'll take the free one, thanks. :)
Great point
I have given away so many items that I bought at great deals and never had a use for
Good point about rationalizing. I do that.
When I was younger, my then boyfriend and I loved to spend time and money going to garage sales on the weekend. It didn't seem like much at the time (perhaps $25.00 to $30.00+ per weekend) but I now wish that I had saved and invested most of that money. Yes, there were some treasures found along the way, but going to these places encouraged shopping and spending because they were bargains. I still go now but only a few times a year.
I live going to them to
Saving money can be an addiction. Just like people who cannot control their spending because of the high they get getting something new, people shopping for bargains get a high from how much they perceived they saved. So even if something is a bargain if you really don't need it it really isn't a savings.
Valid point
So true!
I have done the same think I like your down to earth approach am guilty of this my self
i agree with this. i see so many "thrifty youtubers" doing like 2 or 3 dollar tree hauls every week-spending at least $40 a time-i know they do it for views but good grief what a waste of money.
To me, it is not a waste of money if we use the items.
@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom i agree, but to go there multiple times a week and buy that much worth each time-there is no way that much would be needed each week-that is over $120/week for dollar tree...many items are not basic need items in the hauls
I have a couple things I do that😢 helps.
First, I only do a full grocery run every fortnight. Doing a full grocery run includes doing a stock take, starting a meal plan, and only buying what I am using and need that I can use. Only coupons I do are on store apps.
Thanks for sharing!!
Very smart!
I can see how it is easy to say oh it is a good deal. I like to thrift and and I also find how I can afford a decent amount of groceries is I mainly shop the store adds and markdowns. But yes we can only eat so much and if I have a good amount of stuff stored in my freezer I have to make it through more of that then just buy buy buy. I think so many times people are afraid they will run out of food in our world so they stock up like crazy and that is the panic mind set of shopping and I do not want to live like that. yes I like to save money but like you said if we can stock up and stay in our budget that is so important and I am like you I many times would go over and I have wanted to work harder on being mindful. Even my thrifting trying not to do that as much so when I do it is a treat not just something I do all the time. I think sometimes things can start to become addicting if we do not real them in. I have noticed that can be the case with thrifting. I would thrift and shop so much when I was younger before we had kids and man when it comes to doing things your mind will say oh I can do shopping. Rather than finding something simple and free to do.
Thinking about you. Watching Storm Chasers Granbury, Dallas area. Ya'll stay safe!
We are safe
@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom Great!:)
I'm going to say cheep or on sale snacks. They end up being really bad tasting and they get tossed.
True!
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
I used to stock up on shampoo and conditioner when it was on sale for $0.49. That was like 20+ years ago. I had so much. I donated some and I'm still using up a few bottles. I'd put it in gift baskets too. Bought way more than we could ever use. I finally used up all the air fresheners that I got really cheap or free. I don't find deals like that anymore, but like you said, it's not worth it if you don't use it.
I did the same thing
I did the same thing
I was a coupon queen
True!
I'm always puzzled by the extreme couponers that have a whole store of items in their basement. More stuff than they'll ever use.
They are probably shop a holics!
Some donate
I know, it seems so wasteful to me.
One of everything in use, and one in the cupboard. Works for everything except underwear, hahaha!
He he
I was never a big coupon user; however, I remember using a coupon to get free Tide powder detergent. The coupon was for a dollar off, and I'd find the small box that was 99 cents. The stores quit stocking that size, lol. I don't mind stocking non-perishable items if I have the storage space. I follow my grandmother's advice to buy the best quality I can afford and to take care of it. I know I reference that often, but it helps me buy things that last. Great video! Love to all, Linda 💕
Oh wow! Great deal
I only grocery shop once a month. I meal plan for a month. I read alot . I only go to the library for books
Great idea
I could see where that would happen, especially for me on teaching stuff especially art supplies and classroom books. The one thing that I did discover during the pandemic was a true number on what it took supply wise to get by. I am not putting up what I used to for that SHTF day where Armagedón actually happens. I am finding that I really only need about 6 months worth of stuff put up not years worth. Although I was very disappointed when my years (plural) of toilet paper ran out because Dollar General no longer stocks that brand. You may laugh but there are things that are free at the Senior Center that I just walk on by because I don't see them as healthy. People were hauling bags of candy out the other day and I didn't take any of it home, instead just stir fry stuff. I have picked up boxes of donuts and put them back even though I LOVE donuts and they are free. A "good deal" for me as I age is one that is healthy. I finally looked up Silver sneakers, which is free to me, and I will start right after this next round of flooding coming to my part of Texas on Mother's Day and the Monday after. Pray for my neighbors and the bridges to hold as several small ones that allow the rural communities to commute have been damaged and closed.
Yes, I'm praying for those in the storm area!
@@3TXSisters Me too! They just can't catch a break. Hopefully we get a chance for them to get dried out. My daughter lost everything in Ike in Galveston because she couldn't get back in for 2 weeks. We had also had 2 false alarms just weeks before, and by the third round of "Wolf, wolf, wolf!" she had tuned the seriousness of it out. Ground floor apartment, nothing left. I know the hurt they are going through, the panic. IF my house ever floods, I am putting it together, selling and moving to Tennessee.
@rusticgardenretreat4892 We live in hurricane country. You learn how to deal with it. Our house isn't on the water and we're high enough that we're not going to flood. We did reinforce our house and installed hurricane shutters. A whole house generator was installed after Ivan. It helps so much. I hope your daughter is safe!
@@3TXSisters My daughter is fine. We are of like minds as she moved from Galveston and left UTMB after the flood of Ike. Like me, she lives on the high ground in her town. Not to say that it can't happen, but if either she or I flood, then our towns are in serious trouble! We consulted elevation maps, and the less reliable flood maps before making our purchases. I considered installing a generator for the whole house, but to be honest neither she nor I plan on staying in Texas. We will one day move when she retires in 11 years. IF the world would ever settle down, we would move to Italy, but if not, Tennessee. We both love Italy. Too opposing destinations Italy and Tennessee, but Tennessee like Texas does not have an income tax. Unlike Texas, Tennessee doesn't have hurricanes, but does have the Appalachians.
While I LOVE your channel, it's popping up with a msg under the thumbnail that says these products earn commission and it tempts me by showing products you promote (I guess you promote?) It's making me feel like if I click on it, I'm tempting myself to buy stuff.❤
You do not need to click on any add .
Buying quality. Good advice.
Always!
I had to realize that I only needed 2-pound bags of flour, because I just don't bake as much any more.
I am totally dependent on my social security chrck each month with no other income. Oh right, i get $23 in food stamps. Yea!! I have a credit card for emergencies like hurricane evac every year to replace the food i lost with no electricity. A few months ago i used the card to buy a new tv and then my phone died so i bought a new one. Now i have a large balance and will take months to pay the balance. I hope we dont have any bad storms this year.
I pray you and your family stay safe to summer and have a very.
I'm even full summer with no storms. I also pray that. Your health is good? And maybe you might be. Able? To pick up a little sidehouse all to help you out.
I buy quality when on sale am working progress
Good for you! 👍
I only buy stuff on sale that I'll use eventually
That would be an awesome T-shirt
Hi Dawn I use to shop without a list or even a budget....Aha!! What a waste of my hard earned money....But now I make a grocery list and a budget now and forever....
But I enjoy shopping!! Not....I dont shop to shop Dawn...I use a strategic way of shopping. What is it? I don't do it. I keep my money in my pocket like yr dad says don't spend it I dont....that is the best way to keep it don't spend it and I dint do that....But Great Video...!!😊😊😊
Very wise
I totally agree with your dad..
I am an extreme couponer, but only for specific items, I know people I donate to, can use immediately.
Used to buy pants at the thrift store 2 for $5. They never fit right.
My daughter gets her pants from Old Navy
Excellent video. Please Lord let me learn not to buy cheap junk!
You and me both!
@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 😁🙏
Did you ever stop to think, if its all make in China, why would one be better than the other, now if you find something make in Italy buy it
I know!
@@3TXSisters Why is it such a temptation LOL
Joy Joy Joy Joy
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