1 - 1:15 - Start as early as possible. 2 - 5:06 - Avoid Financial Waste. 3 - 6:40 - Stay Debt Free. 4 - 9:21 - Stay single as long as possible. 5 - 12:34 - Get in the gym! 6 - 14:41 - Test and Fail. 7 - 16:10 - Lose your EGO. 8 - 18:28 - Become more self-aware. 9 - 20:28 - Developing a long-term mindset. 10 - 22:55 - Become selfish with your time. 11 - 25:31 - The progression Bias & maturing quickly. 12 - 32:47 - Leave nothing to regret. Really enjoyed listening to this video Kris. Based on the comments I've seen in the last couple of your videos, I really think you should consider doing 1-1 consultations with people, that is of course if you would find the time and/or reschedule your current plan regarding your goals. I Also think that doing a 1 hour live stream once a week where you answer peoples' questions would significantly increase views and potentially subsribers.
That's great news. 22 is a baby, I'm 28 and I feel like things haven't even begun yet. I think this year is the year they will, but it's made me realise how much time we have. Not to mention every gym guy/fitness influencer looks better at 40 than they did at 20. If you work on yourself every day getting older is fun, if not it's daily regret
@@Repsforjesus67 Yes, thinking your life will get better at 35 and after is just cope. Every man wish they were 25 again physically when they get old. Remember that life is also shorter than we think, even for men. So yes, think long term, but maybe don't overthink it.
Im 19 and have started watching this type of videos for entertainment since 17, little did i know how much this would help for me to move forward in life and find my own inspiration In conclution: THANK YOU!
your point about relationships/sex and staying single (staying aloof in regards to sex and relationships) is a good point. I feel I have wasted so much time on chasing online dating, trying to get laid, having pointless texting conversations with women and come out empty handed many many times. I'm in my mid 20s
Agreed we all have. The joke is even if it leads to sex, there's still no real benefit, it's still wasted time and an hour or 2 of pleasure. I'm not above one night stands, sex, etc I love being around women, but I've come to realise sex and lust are so primitive. We spend our whole lives trying to create good looking kids so they can create good looking kids easier than we did due to their looks. How else can you explain our pursuit of sex and the most attractive mate? We're basically living to make sure our genetics continue in their finest form, I think we should all drop the ego and chase after more meaningful challenges such as climbing the Kardashev scale
started my first real business with 18. Tried a lot of stuff without much great success. I am 22 now and think my business will succeed in the next months or maybe a year. Never been more excited in my life!
This is great because you're so young. I love the optimism, but give it 5 years minimum. This allows you to make the right decisions for sustainability. You might be right and it's ready to blow, but I did the same at 22, I spoke about "in a few months" and I realised over time that enjoying the journey and the struggle was the best part
I really enjoyed this video as am soon saying goodbye to my 20s. One rule which I added for myself is do a little everyday (consistency). For example I've learnt its better to work on a business for 15mins/day for weeks at a time than 2 hours everyday for 1 week then nothing for weeks due to crashing. The total output of work is more with consistency!
Yessss! I had this same discussion the other day. Even on my lasiest days, which are rare I must admit, I still think as long as I do at least 4 hours today it's 4 hours closer and better than nothing. It's the same with nofap or diet or a gym routine. 1 single day goes wrong and people fall off the horse and lie in the mud. Just get back to normal the next day, it'll create a 95%/5% ratio where most of the time you're doing the right things, can't be perfect everyday
As a 20 year old man, I just wanted to say thank you. This is exactly the stuff I need to be feeding my mind at this point in time and it's confirmation I'm moving in the right direction. Funny enough as well we have very similar qualities and life experiences. Anyways, thanks again!
Turned 20 11 days ago - gonna rewatch all of these videos man Hit a great week in my business this week. Thanks for everything you do bro, i wouldnt have dropped out of school if it wasnt for you
Hey Kris, I've been watching your videos for 3 months, and I turn 20 today. The UA-cam algorithm sent this in my recommendation. Couldn't have asked for a better birthday gift. Thanks, mate.
I'm 17 this year, 4 mo ago into self-improvement cause of being dumped. Now I'm doing side hustle which give me money as much as 25 y/o job in my country, Feeling good cause doing it early, I don't buy materialistic thing, I have good laptop for my side hustle, and 1,000,000 IDR phone ($67). This week I found your channel, been thinking of 10-15 years without woman. Thanks for the advice kris
Great video man. I am 29 now and stopped going to the gym the last year because I can "still get away with it", starting at 21 but now I am finally starting to look soft lol. You also reminded me that being single as long as possible can in fact be very productive, and the best is yet to come in our 30's in terms of relationships and opportunity! I am putting in a video request.. body language analysis / Charlie Hunnam in sons of anarchy !!!
Thanks Fionn. Yeah haha it'll catch up with you eventually. Being single as a man is freedom, the second you tag out you'd better have ticked all of your selfish life goals. Yeah sure man I'll take a look at some clips, see what I can do
You can get rid of back issues man! Exercise, swimming, stretching, physio. I'm 36 - come through tons of physical issues over the years and getting better every year.
Excellent advice from *Mr 1STMAN.* All of his suggestions are very straightforward but they do require discipline. Three important things to keep in mind: 1 - your explosively energetic twenties are very precious foundational building blocks; 2 - don't expect anything to be handed to you on a plate; 3 - if you keep yourself in shape, you can remain physically and mentally vigorous well into your sixties. I speak as a very active sixty year old man. There are literally millions of people everywhere who don't take any notice of these ideas; just turn your head and look at them all.
«things are only The one that got away when u have a scarcity mindset because u cant get anymore of that» that hit me because i had big regrets from my past relationship but im like 18 years old.
It’s called “taking the red pill “ here in USA and I definitely see what you’re saying where you went 2-3 years with out dealing with women I did the same thing .
Hey mate, I apologize if this Text comes across as a little bit cringe, but I just want to say that your content is very helpful and inspiring. Especially this one ..... this is the shit!! 👍🏻 I am 24 now, and I have finally chosen the path I want to be in, which is being a pilot. It is a difficult path, where I must be determined, disciplined, and give up on a few temporary pleasures in life, and it might be a long path as well, so therefore I constantly look for such videos on youtube in search for information and tips on how one can get better emotionally and physically and achieve their goals, because there are those up and down days that occur in life, and whenever I feel down, I need someone I can look up to, or sth that someone did that I can look up to and get inspired. And I just want to say I am glad I got to see this video of yours. Its very positive, inspiring, and true. Thanks a lot for taking your time and doing this man. You are investing your time in a very positive thing. Just don’t ever stop sharing your thoughts and doing what you are doing, because I swear that there are many guys like me out there hungry and looking for answers on how to reach full potential in many dimensions, and everything you post helps a lot. I am really happy to see a world where men try to guide other men on how to grow up better and tougher. I love this world for that. Please keep up with your good work! I also have a request. Can you do a video analysis about either the Witcher (starring Henry Cavill ), or Jon Snow from Game of Thrones ( starring Kit Harington ), whichever you find better? Respect from Edmonton, Canada mate! Cheers! 🙋🏻♂️
Man, this is the kind of think I want to be having conversations about with my grandparents, people with a whole life behind them, this is some wise shit. Really underestimated channel.
I'm 16 right now and it might look or sound weird but i agree with the mindset of being prepared for the future. I have started going to the gym and i currently read books and do an internship, with the hope that my future self will be happy of the decisions that I'm currently making. There's still more 4 years for me turn 20 but i am pretty sure my life will become clearer and better by then. Love your content!
1- technically at 19 now 21 starting business at 19 just investing 2- making more then spending about 50/50 at 9to5 with own place 3-no debt just making money 4-now single idk for how long so wouldnt check that 5-from 12 :D 6-failed 2 business already and in many areas 7-still on my way 8- working on it 9- my plan is to become succesfull at 30 10- idk about that one 11 - already out of perent house and working on my mindset 12 - i dont wanna regret anything that i done
Great video man.... the point you don't count is the fact that not everyone is in that situation of starting a business or having options in life regarding anything when in 20s. Some people are born in a country they don't like, a bad passport/visa etc....so the priority changes...we need to first get out of that country first depending on how much money your parents have....get a job work for 5 years just to get a passport that allows you to start a business and be free or whatever... your system is not flawed but it's not for everyone man
This was an amazing video. You are helping my mindset grow into a much more positive optimistic mindset I actually look forward to my future now and putting in the work.
Your channel is a gold mine I’m glad I found it must be fait bc like u said if your watching this video you probably already have it or whatever you said. I’m agree with your fitness and success is the main things u should focus on as well in another video. I’m here at 18 just starting my journey to success
Nice man, glad you're here, so much more value to come from this channel. You're positioned perfectly at such a young age, fitness and success for 12 years! Just imagine where you'll be on day 1 of the male advantage years
This video honestly changed my life in 10 minutes. I was like nonstop thinking about girls, even obsessing about some of them, but this has honestly opened my eyes. Now I just view them as normal human beings that I could be if I'm supposed to, if not then I'll just continue grinding. Thank you man, honestly!
Hey man I know this sounds kind of weird but you've always been someone who inspires me, someone I look up too. Eventually down the road, I plan on starting my own business but currently, I'm working for this startup called 2020 gene systems. I was wondering if I'd be able to connect with you, through a call or something just so I could ask you some questions. I just graduated from university (I'm 22) and am trying to figure out how to transition from working to starting my own business. Or what industry to work in to build the skills necessary for starting a business. Your videos have always been a tremendous help and I'm glad you post quality content so regularly. Any advice at all would be much appreciated!
Not weird at all, I have men that I get inspired by every day. 100% we're organise something I don't charge for my time or anything like that so don't worry. I love the position you're in right now, huge potential. You're clearly smart due to your education and self-aware enough to ask the right questions this is a huge plus. My next steps for you would be; Work for 2-3 years in a big company. Work 2-3 years in a small company (any industry). People say to work in the industry you want to go into but this isn't always a good idea as you become a clone. This will give you experience of the top and the struggle at the bottom. Marketing, sales, HR everything is different in a small company compared to a big one and vice versa. During this 6 year period, start a company that......1. You're good at 2. You enjoy 3. Has huge earning potential. Like don't be those people who claim to be the next bill gates and they've just started a custom birthday cake company or their own hedge trimming company there's no money there. I picked clothing, streaming platform and eventually gym because all 3 are billion/trillion dollar industries. Next save every penny you can from your job/s. Work every hour possible including lunchtimes and be patient. Give yourself 6 years. This isn't 6 years to succeed or be a millionaire by 30, that shit never works, this is 6 years to figure out the eventual direction of the company. I started 1stman/msicollege around 21/22 years old. I sit here today after 6 years of working every day and have only just figured out the indentity, revenue streams, ethos, marketing etc. Spend 6 years testing, learning and pivoting. 28 seems to be a good age too. Everyone I know who's successful saw the first real signs at 28. My old mentor went from broke to £30k per month at 28 and everything changed overnight, but this was after 5 years of patience and daily grind.
Hey Harrison, appreciate it man. It's an easy way to grow an audience. This is and will always be the foundation of 1STMAN. If I create free content with no ads, and it helps people then I'm able to grow an audience. Without attention/an audience your business is nothing. If I create a product/the future streaming platform and no one knows about it then there's no point. This audience gives me leverage in everything else I do, builds trust and keeps me sharp as to what's going on in the male industry
My advice is don't do drugs, if you need pain medication it's their over the counter. If you need to trip smoke a cigarette. If you need to calm down have a pint. Stay legal fellas. Also start shaving shave every morning, grow a beard later in life.
the stay single one is something i wish i done, would have developed so much as a person and saved so much money. Thankfully i've found a unicorn it's not so bad
29:00 achieving excellence and success is the most dominant. It tops it all off. It overshadows the sloppies, bad habits (ed sheeran 👽😳) and overall wasting time. 👽
I agree with most of the stuff you said it’s not necessary absolute. You can still go out and have fun partying while focusing on self development. It’s all about balance imo.
I think you can slowly add things as you age. Like I'm 29 and I now use Saturdays to do something nice. Once I turn 30 it might be the entire weekend. But at somepoint there has to be like 5 solid years of work
95% of my peers are married with kids, stuck in the quicksand. No time for self improvement or freedom to pursue goals. They can’t take any risk to build a business or become successful. They need the security of a paycheck so their family won’t starve.
i want you to watch some elliot hulse and have discussions with him about families, religions, marriage,virginity and all those great topics. it would be an incredible video/videos
What do you recommend as a starting point for people looking to start a business and become successful? What books and/or UA-cam channels do you recommend? Do you already have an existing video on this topic?
Great content. I'm 26 going on 27 and just like you, I did not know there were books that can help develop skills and point out strategies in business and finance until I was like 23. God made it clear to me that I wouldn't have had the wisdom to apply what I have learned in books anyways so I don't dwell on it. It let's me know that I had to mature before I can appreciate what I have learned. It's great that you point out that men aren't like women and are at their prime in their 20s because our looks don't determine our market value so to speak. We also have to understand that we don't need a female or anyone for that matter to validate us for us to know our worth. I deal with this every now and then but I've never been one for relationships so it doesn't consume me. And some friends proved themselves not to be friends since they don't understand my mission. "Think about what a 36 year old would want or are aiming for." That is gold. It's great that you cover such a broad target audience it allows all to learn. Even elderly men could still learn from this video because we cant change our past but we can learn from it.
Can you also maybe do a vid for teens? Currently 16 and i have some big plans and goals. Ive watched a lot of ur content whether its business or body language or life advice. Ive always tried and for the future i just wanna be the man who has his shit sorted out and doesent look back regretting his decisions. If you could give some advice that would be pretty awesome because i am trying to succeed and grow in life but i also dont wanna lose 100% of my teen years trying to figure out shit about the future. For now since im still under 18 i cant do a lot but ive been working on myself in the gym and ive been doing good in school even tho im not really interested in it.
Hello buddy thank you for watching my videos, really appreciate your time. For teens it's pretty much the same advice, except I'd throw in "test more" you have so much time you can mess up 100 times and not care. Throw money at every idea, new skill, etc, you'll learn skills that will help you in your 20's. Just test, test, test, experiment, try everything until you figure out what you like, you're good at and which industry has the most earning potential. Find a balance between these 3 and you're golden. The fact you're on this channel though asking these questions means you've already won 50% of the game. Most people your age are 15 years away from where you are now. Also remember the progression bias, think long term, what you want right now will completely change when you're my age so be as patient as you can and make decisions for the good of the long term
I do not beleive in the word maturity I believe it is better to think about it as a constant state of maturing. I do not really believe it is attainible if you lnow what I mean but I get what you are saying. But Great Video I actually wrote all these down valuble information.
And here I am trying to do the opposite. All I do is build my body, improve skills, learn, work and save money to buy a house just because I have no one or nothing to waste time on. I actually have to put in more effort finding a relationship, maintaining a friendship or finding something enjoyable but not too time consuming or expensive to the point where I'd feel guilty. Work and growth is the easy part. Living and enjoying life is just so f*cking difficult.
34:30 Basically to do what's best for your situation, take feelings out of this. Don't let your feelings dictate your actions. 👽 *edited (you get what I'm tryna say, acknowledge how you feel, keep it in mind but focus on the mind).
All that is good, but you can't tell a 16 years old kid to start building a business. He doesn't need that stuff, he needs different things. He's an emotionally driven creature at that moment and his body/mind requires certain things/experiences.
Agreed, I've often said before 18 there's nothing you can really do, this is why I say 30 is actually 12 years old, but starting to think about these things gives you a giant headstart
Immediately. Best thing you can do as a man is isolate yourself from all distractions. Women, porn, partying, gaming etc and focus on fitness and wealth
So as a 20 year old who's never had sex or a relationship and that thinks about it all the time, is it a good idea for me to indulge in that lifestyle of partying and hooking up that i really wanna try before giving it up forever? I feel like you can so easily leave it behind because you altready had an abundance of all those things, and i think that's crucial to develop and truly internalize this mindset that you're promoting. So maybe just going out and having fun for a few months would ultimately be beneficial. In reality i know that 36 year old me will regret never experiencing any of it, and i think that if i don't try that shit out now that i'm the perfect time frame for it then i'll forever regret it.
Focus on improving yourself a bit first then you are more ready . Just go gym. Read. Save up . And you will later realise it’s not as important as you think it is. Girls aren’t going anywhere man most of the time girls like older guys. I was like you until I lost my virginity at 19 after a week partying at uni and a girl I invited me back to her room and it’s was fun and a good experience but not as good as you think it will be. Much better to spend your time thinking about bettering yourself for the future and just focus on delayed gratitude. Get the mindset of getting excited to see how much you’ll improve in 1 year....2years....5years......10years. Trust me.
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1 - 1:15 -
Start as early as possible.
2 - 5:06 -
Avoid Financial Waste.
3 - 6:40 -
Stay Debt Free.
4 - 9:21 -
Stay single as long as possible.
5 - 12:34 -
Get in the gym!
6 - 14:41 -
Test and Fail.
7 - 16:10 -
Lose your EGO.
8 - 18:28 -
Become more self-aware.
9 - 20:28 -
Developing a long-term mindset.
10 - 22:55 -
Become selfish with your time.
11 - 25:31 - The progression Bias & maturing quickly.
12 - 32:47 - Leave nothing to regret.
Really enjoyed listening to this video Kris. Based on the comments I've seen in the last couple of your videos, I really think you should consider doing 1-1 consultations with people, that is of course if you would find the time and/or reschedule your current plan regarding your goals. I Also think that doing a 1 hour live stream once a week where you answer peoples' questions would significantly increase views and potentially subsribers.
Thanks man appreciate the time you took and the work
Thank bro
thank you so much
@@1STMAN I'm yo 69th liker 👽😳
Great , thank 😊
From the age of 18-22 i’ve been so scared of getting older but i feel a lot better about it thanks to your channel 😂
That's great news. 22 is a baby, I'm 28 and I feel like things haven't even begun yet. I think this year is the year they will, but it's made me realise how much time we have. Not to mention every gym guy/fitness influencer looks better at 40 than they did at 20. If you work on yourself every day getting older is fun, if not it's daily regret
@@1STMAN That’s not true, fitness influencers easily peak at around 28-30. The ones you’re seeing that look better at 40 are on juice, like The Rock.
@@Repsforjesus67 Yes, thinking your life will get better at 35 and after is just cope. Every man wish they were 25 again physically when they get old.
Remember that life is also shorter than we think, even for men. So yes, think long term, but maybe don't overthink it.
@@nighteyes360 no.
@@Repsforjesus67 They might not peak at 40 but they will look better at 40 than they did at 20.
Im 19 and have started watching this type of videos for entertainment since 17, little did i know how much this would help for me to move forward in life and find my own inspiration
In conclution: THANK YOU!
No worries man, glad the videos help, thanks for watching
youre gonna turn out great bro!
I’m 19 too where you from brother?
@@bigscapone1261 I'm 19 too, Let's all level up together man, I'm from India btw
@@SankeerthanMovieCocktails do you live in India . Cause I live in london
your point about relationships/sex and staying single (staying aloof in regards to sex and relationships) is a good point. I feel I have wasted so much time on chasing online dating, trying to get laid, having pointless texting conversations with women and come out empty handed many many times. I'm in my mid 20s
Agreed we all have. The joke is even if it leads to sex, there's still no real benefit, it's still wasted time and an hour or 2 of pleasure. I'm not above one night stands, sex, etc I love being around women, but I've come to realise sex and lust are so primitive. We spend our whole lives trying to create good looking kids so they can create good looking kids easier than we did due to their looks. How else can you explain our pursuit of sex and the most attractive mate? We're basically living to make sure our genetics continue in their finest form, I think we should all drop the ego and chase after more meaningful challenges such as climbing the Kardashev scale
@@1STMANprofound outlook on life mate
started my first real business with 18. Tried a lot of stuff without much great success. I am 22 now and think my business will succeed in the next months or maybe a year. Never been more excited in my life!
This is great because you're so young. I love the optimism, but give it 5 years minimum. This allows you to make the right decisions for sustainability. You might be right and it's ready to blow, but I did the same at 22, I spoke about "in a few months" and I realised over time that enjoying the journey and the struggle was the best part
You should start a podcast bro. I could listen to it from hours to end
I really enjoyed this video as am soon saying goodbye to my 20s. One rule which I added for myself is do a little everyday (consistency). For example I've learnt its better to work on a business for 15mins/day for weeks at a time than 2 hours everyday for 1 week then nothing for weeks due to crashing. The total output of work is more with consistency!
Yessss! I had this same discussion the other day. Even on my lasiest days, which are rare I must admit, I still think as long as I do at least 4 hours today it's 4 hours closer and better than nothing. It's the same with nofap or diet or a gym routine. 1 single day goes wrong and people fall off the horse and lie in the mud. Just get back to normal the next day, it'll create a 95%/5% ratio where most of the time you're doing the right things, can't be perfect everyday
In my early 20's. Always grinding. Thank you for the video brother.
Nice Jerry, never lose your optimism, it's the best drug in the world, it's why I bother waking up everyday
As a 20 year old man, I just wanted to say thank you. This is exactly the stuff I need to be feeding my mind at this point in time and it's confirmation I'm moving in the right direction. Funny enough as well we have very similar qualities and life experiences. Anyways, thanks again!
I was exposed to this when I was 23 and now I am 24 going on 25 taking charge of my life. Thank you!
Turned 20 11 days ago - gonna rewatch all of these videos man
Hit a great week in my business this week. Thanks for everything you do bro, i wouldnt have dropped out of school if it wasnt for you
I turn 20 in 3 weeks aha, right there with you
Thank you for providing so much value for free man! Raising a new generation right here
No worries man, always happy to help. Hopefully, we need a new mindset, men are struggling
I'm glad I found this guy rn I'm 17 and I'm planning to live a hell of a life now
Hey Kris, I've been watching your videos for 3 months, and I turn 20 today. The UA-cam algorithm sent this in my recommendation. Couldn't have asked for a better birthday gift. Thanks, mate.
Im 21 . And I’m glad and grateful that I saw this today. Thank you brother. 👍
I'm 17 this year, 4 mo ago into self-improvement cause of being dumped. Now I'm doing side hustle which give me money as much as 25 y/o job in my country, Feeling good cause doing it early, I don't buy materialistic thing, I have good laptop for my side hustle, and 1,000,000 IDR phone ($67). This week I found your channel, been thinking of 10-15 years without woman. Thanks for the advice kris
Dari Indonesia kah bro?
As someone going into their 20s, this video was gold! Great to see despite it being 3 years old, all the information is timeless
Great video man. I am 29 now and stopped going to the gym the last year because I can "still get away with it", starting at 21 but now I am finally starting to look soft lol. You also reminded me that being single as long as possible can in fact be very productive, and the best is yet to come in our 30's in terms of relationships and opportunity! I am putting in a video request.. body language analysis / Charlie Hunnam in sons of anarchy !!!
Thanks Fionn. Yeah haha it'll catch up with you eventually. Being single as a man is freedom, the second you tag out you'd better have ticked all of your selfish life goals. Yeah sure man I'll take a look at some clips, see what I can do
@@1STMAN ya man thatd be cool to see. Jax teller would be another good alpha male body language video to do I reckon!
Just turned 36. Feel so much more happier than in my 20s and feel I can accomplish anything. Backache sucks but that's about it!
Nice man. Glute training is the key. Too much sitting
You can get rid of back issues man! Exercise, swimming, stretching, physio. I'm 36 - come through tons of physical issues over the years and getting better every year.
Appreciate you Kris 🙏🏾 it’s amazing to see the progression you have made in the last year and 1/2
Thanks man, hoping to bring it all together this summer for the full transformation so you guys can see what's possible
@@1STMAN excited to see it. I’m hoping I can be doing that as well 6-7 years from now when I’m 28-29 years old
Excellent advice from *Mr 1STMAN.* All of his suggestions are very straightforward but they do require discipline.
Three important things to keep in mind: 1 - your explosively energetic twenties are very precious foundational building blocks; 2 - don't expect anything to be handed to you on a plate; 3 - if you keep yourself in shape, you can remain physically and mentally vigorous well into your sixties.
I speak as a very active sixty year old man.
There are literally millions of people everywhere who don't take any notice of these ideas; just turn your head and look at them all.
Just want to add that even if you're aware of this knowledge, it's as good as useless if you don't take action to implement it into your life.
@@dairyfarm8540 The decision NOT to act is indeed a choice many people take.
staying single? You're making this sound easy brother
Hahaha, no sex is hard staying single is pretty easy. There's some tempting women out there but very few who can get you to where you want to be by 30
Staying single... Guess I got one thing right like it's natural to me..I don't need to anything it just happens 🥺😭
when you focus on yourself begin to see improvement, you see improvement women will flock you
🌝 I am pro
Never had one 😂
Its hard to not marry. My friend mostly married at age 25 or 26. Now if i want marry at age 30, it means i going solo. Goodluck for me
«things are only The one that got away when u have a scarcity mindset because u cant get anymore of that» that hit me because i had big regrets from my past relationship but im like 18 years old.
Even though I know most of the things you talk about, it’s still inspring.
im 16 and i allready have the same mindset as you thank you so much i learnd alot from you keep up the grind!!!
At 16 that's dangerous Nikola. Keep that mindset through until 30 and the sky really is your limit
Love the content bro. Its good to get ideas from other people's experiences.
Thank you. 100% it prevents you making the same mistakes
That last bit is 🔥. Don’t make her the woman that got a way. She will just be another woman when you have options
Wish I had heard this ten years ago, but I'm still grateful to be hearing it now.
It’s called “taking the red pill “ here in USA and I definitely see what you’re saying where you went 2-3 years with out dealing with women I did the same thing .
Hey mate, I apologize if this Text comes across as a little bit cringe, but I just want to say that your content is very helpful and inspiring. Especially this one ..... this is the shit!! 👍🏻 I am 24 now, and I have finally chosen the path I want to be in, which is being a pilot. It is a difficult path, where I must be determined, disciplined, and give up on a few temporary pleasures in life, and it might be a long path as well, so therefore I constantly look for such videos on youtube in search for information and tips on how one can get better emotionally and physically and achieve their goals, because there are those up and down days that occur in life, and whenever I feel down, I need someone I can look up to, or sth that someone did that I can look up to and get inspired. And I just want to say I am glad I got to see this video of yours. Its very positive, inspiring, and true. Thanks a lot for taking your time and doing this man. You are investing your time in a very positive thing. Just don’t ever stop sharing your thoughts and doing what you are doing, because I swear that there are many guys like me out there hungry and looking for answers on how to reach full potential in many dimensions, and everything you post helps a lot. I am really happy to see a world where men try to guide other men on how to grow up better and tougher. I love this world for that. Please keep up with your good work!
I also have a request. Can you do a video analysis about either the Witcher (starring Henry Cavill ), or Jon Snow from Game of Thrones ( starring Kit Harington ), whichever you find better?
Respect from Edmonton, Canada mate! Cheers! 🙋🏻♂️
geralt for sure
this channel clearly doesnt get the attention it deserves...
Thanks man, it's all good no rush
@@1STMAN just discovered you,wish I found it earlier.
Hamza sent me here , and I'm loving your content
Feeling really good about this video, I think I'm on the right track!
Man, this is the kind of think I want to be having conversations about with my grandparents, people with a whole life behind them, this is some wise shit. Really underestimated channel.
I'm 16 right now and it might look or sound weird but i agree with the mindset of being prepared for the future. I have started going to the gym and i currently read books and do an internship, with the hope that my future self will be happy of the decisions that I'm currently making. There's still more 4 years for me turn 20 but i am pretty sure my life will become clearer and better by then. Love your content!
I'm gonna take advantage of my 20s to the fullest !!! Already started investing and working out a year ago when I was 18. Hell ya
Excellent work, I passed this onto my 16 yr old son.
Well i m 17 working hard every day honestly its so nice to know there is something at the end of the line
1- technically at 19 now 21 starting business at 19 just investing 2- making more then spending about 50/50 at 9to5 with own place 3-no debt just making money 4-now single idk for how long so wouldnt check that 5-from 12 :D 6-failed 2 business already and in many areas 7-still on my way 8- working on it 9- my plan is to become succesfull at 30 10- idk about that one 11 - already out of perent house and working on my mindset 12 - i dont wanna regret anything that i done
Rule 13: More suffering makes abiding by all of these rules effortless (it forces maturity and doesn't discriminate with age - look around you).
Always helping out with these gems
Great video man.... the point you don't count is the fact that not everyone is in that situation of starting a business or having options in life regarding anything when in 20s. Some people are born in a country they don't like, a bad passport/visa etc....so the priority changes...we need to first get out of that country first depending on how much money your parents have....get a job work for 5 years just to get a passport that allows you to start a business and be free or whatever... your system is not flawed but it's not for everyone man
Thumbnail is sick man. Vid was very informative too.
Who is on it
Thanks James
Guy from Stranger Things
"the real regret comes from not doing what you have to do to be the man you want to be"
This was an amazing video. You are helping my mindset grow into a much more positive optimistic mindset I actually look forward to my future now and putting in the work.
Your channel is a gold mine I’m glad I found it must be fait bc like u said if your watching this video you probably already have it or whatever you said. I’m agree with your fitness and success is the main things u should focus on as well in another video. I’m here at 18 just starting my journey to success
Nice man, glad you're here, so much more value to come from this channel. You're positioned perfectly at such a young age, fitness and success for 12 years! Just imagine where you'll be on day 1 of the male advantage years
I'm 15 bro, and I will have this in mind when I get 16,17,18
You can start this stuff now, the earlier you start the better
Im just really unsure on what to focus on, Programming, online website, stocks and so on. There are so many opportunities, and some times I get lost.
@@adamabrahamsen5616 grades, health, social life, and any hobbies you want like programming etc.
@@adamabrahamsen5616 health than wealth than hobbies after
This video honestly changed my life in 10 minutes. I was like nonstop thinking about girls, even obsessing about some of them, but this has honestly opened my eyes. Now I just view them as normal human beings that I could be if I'm supposed to, if not then I'll just continue grinding. Thank you man, honestly!
Best video on UA-cam
Thank you, that's very kind
Great video bro, I'm 2 years old and on my grind.
Hey man I know this sounds kind of weird but you've always been someone who inspires me, someone I look up too. Eventually down the road, I plan on starting my own business but currently, I'm working for this startup called 2020 gene systems. I was wondering if I'd be able to connect with you, through a call or something just so I could ask you some questions. I just graduated from university (I'm 22) and am trying to figure out how to transition from working to starting my own business. Or what industry to work in to build the skills necessary for starting a business. Your videos have always been a tremendous help and I'm glad you post quality content so regularly. Any advice at all would be much appreciated!
Not weird at all, I have men that I get inspired by every day. 100% we're organise something I don't charge for my time or anything like that so don't worry.
I love the position you're in right now, huge potential. You're clearly smart due to your education and self-aware enough to ask the right questions this is a huge plus. My next steps for you would be;
Work for 2-3 years in a big company. Work 2-3 years in a small company (any industry). People say to work in the industry you want to go into but this isn't always a good idea as you become a clone. This will give you experience of the top and the struggle at the bottom. Marketing, sales, HR everything is different in a small company compared to a big one and vice versa.
During this 6 year period, start a company that......1. You're good at 2. You enjoy 3. Has huge earning potential. Like don't be those people who claim to be the next bill gates and they've just started a custom birthday cake company or their own hedge trimming company there's no money there. I picked clothing, streaming platform and eventually gym because all 3 are billion/trillion dollar industries.
Next save every penny you can from your job/s. Work every hour possible including lunchtimes and be patient. Give yourself 6 years. This isn't 6 years to succeed or be a millionaire by 30, that shit never works, this is 6 years to figure out the eventual direction of the company. I started 1stman/msicollege around 21/22 years old. I sit here today after 6 years of working every day and have only just figured out the indentity, revenue streams, ethos, marketing etc. Spend 6 years testing, learning and pivoting.
28 seems to be a good age too. Everyone I know who's successful saw the first real signs at 28. My old mentor went from broke to £30k per month at 28 and everything changed overnight, but this was after 5 years of patience and daily grind.
this guy gives amazing advice!
I really enjoy all of your videos and grateful for them definitely taking it in,but just wondering why you make them? Just genuinely curious
Hey Harrison, appreciate it man. It's an easy way to grow an audience. This is and will always be the foundation of 1STMAN. If I create free content with no ads, and it helps people then I'm able to grow an audience. Without attention/an audience your business is nothing. If I create a product/the future streaming platform and no one knows about it then there's no point. This audience gives me leverage in everything else I do, builds trust and keeps me sharp as to what's going on in the male industry
So great to hear this at my current age
Thanks for amazing advices my friend! 💪
Thanks for watching Huey
These rules and this video are awesome really valuable info
My advice is don't do drugs, if you need pain medication it's their over the counter. If you need to trip smoke a cigarette. If you need to calm down have a pint. Stay legal fellas. Also start shaving shave every morning, grow a beard later in life.
I like your vid man.. Great job!
thanks for making me start at 14
Needed this
I've been saving this video for when i turn 20 lol
the stay single one is something i wish i done, would have developed so much as a person and saved so much money. Thankfully i've found a unicorn it's not so bad
What?
Ive said this too
Id never want to win the lottery i want to experience the journey to succes.
Yeah it would suck, everything you've ever dreamt about overnight, that's boring
I needed this thanks
''Living with regret, dying with regret, it's just not nice, guys''
29:00 achieving excellence and success is the most dominant. It tops it all off. It overshadows the sloppies, bad habits (ed sheeran 👽😳) and overall wasting time. 👽
I agree with most of the stuff you said it’s not necessary absolute. You can still go out and have fun partying while focusing on self development. It’s all about balance imo.
I think you can slowly add things as you age. Like I'm 29 and I now use Saturdays to do something nice. Once I turn 30 it might be the entire weekend. But at somepoint there has to be like 5 solid years of work
95% of my peers are married with kids, stuck in the quicksand. No time for self improvement or freedom to pursue goals. They can’t take any risk to build a business or become successful. They need the security of a paycheck so their family won’t starve.
i want you to watch some elliot hulse and have discussions with him about families, religions, marriage,virginity and all those great topics. it would be an incredible video/videos
13:00 - 14:00 prevention is better than cure. 👽
What do you recommend as a starting point for people looking to start a business and become successful? What books and/or UA-cam channels do you recommend? Do you already have an existing video on this topic?
Great content.
I'm 26 going on 27 and just like you, I did not know there were books that can help develop skills and point out strategies in business and finance until I was like 23. God made it clear to me that I wouldn't have had the wisdom to apply what I have learned in books anyways so I don't dwell on it. It let's me know that I had to mature before I can appreciate what I have learned.
It's great that you point out that men aren't like women and are at their prime in their 20s because our looks don't determine our market value so to speak.
We also have to understand that we don't need a female or anyone for that matter to validate us for us to know our worth. I deal with this every now and then but I've never been one for relationships so it doesn't consume me.
And some friends proved themselves not to be friends since they don't understand my mission.
"Think about what a 36 year old would want or are aiming for." That is gold.
It's great that you cover such a broad target audience it allows all to learn. Even elderly men could still learn from this video because we cant change our past but we can learn from it.
It's crazy to think these roadmaps were there all along
The same thing happened to me. Worked odd jobs to pay for studying abroad. It's a waste of money.
Yes, but i think we need balance.
Dating women once in a while is great. Life needs to be enjoyed.
But never get too emotional. Don't become needy.
Can you also maybe do a vid for teens?
Currently 16 and i have some big plans and goals. Ive watched a lot of ur content whether its business or body language or life advice. Ive always tried and for the future i just wanna be the man who has his shit sorted out and doesent look back regretting his decisions.
If you could give some advice that would be pretty awesome because i am trying to succeed and grow in life but i also dont wanna lose 100% of my teen years trying to figure out shit about the future.
For now since im still under 18 i cant do a lot but ive been working on myself in the gym and ive been doing good in school even tho im not really interested in it.
Hello buddy thank you for watching my videos, really appreciate your time. For teens it's pretty much the same advice, except I'd throw in "test more" you have so much time you can mess up 100 times and not care. Throw money at every idea, new skill, etc, you'll learn skills that will help you in your 20's. Just test, test, test, experiment, try everything until you figure out what you like, you're good at and which industry has the most earning potential. Find a balance between these 3 and you're golden. The fact you're on this channel though asking these questions means you've already won 50% of the game. Most people your age are 15 years away from where you are now. Also remember the progression bias, think long term, what you want right now will completely change when you're my age so be as patient as you can and make decisions for the good of the long term
1STMAN thank you for the advice, your videos have helped me a lot and im definitely looking forward to seeing some more!
"Living with regret, dying with regret is just not nice guys."
🤣
I do not beleive in the word maturity I believe it is better to think about it as a constant state of maturing. I do not really believe it is attainible if you lnow what I mean but I get what you are saying. But Great Video I actually wrote all these down valuble information.
Chris I'm 22 and you really helped me get my shit together thank you
Thank you!
Curious if this list still applies a year later Kris. Maybe do an updated video if your thoughts changed. I'm 25 and enjoy the guidance
21:35 Basically, if this decision feels like you’re eating vegetables, it’s the best decision
28:30 I'm 14 and I'm starting to think like that a lot
And here I am trying to do the opposite. All I do is build my body, improve skills, learn, work and save money to buy a house just because I have no one or nothing to waste time on. I actually have to put in more effort finding a relationship, maintaining a friendship or finding something enjoyable but not too time consuming or expensive to the point where I'd feel guilty. Work and growth is the easy part. Living and enjoying life is just so f*cking difficult.
Bless mate
Knowledge bombs
@1STMAN how do you now all this. you are speaking really confident and are focused on what you say. so i am curios on wher you got your knowledge ?
Hard short-term decisions make good long-term results.
Easy short-term decisions make bad long-term results.
34:30 Basically to do what's best for your situation, take feelings out of this. Don't let your feelings dictate your actions. 👽
*edited (you get what I'm tryna say, acknowledge how you feel, keep it in mind but focus on the mind).
Can u make a video for the "1st women" who consume your content 😁
I'm watching this at 14 It clicks
Your sht is deep man
Which is a scary prospect, scary scary prospect.
All that is good, but you can't tell a 16 years old kid to start building a business. He doesn't need that stuff, he needs different things. He's an emotionally driven creature at that moment and his body/mind requires certain things/experiences.
Agreed, I've often said before 18 there's nothing you can really do, this is why I say 30 is actually 12 years old, but starting to think about these things gives you a giant headstart
So how long do we have to start following these rules..cuz I'm 25, and belive me I'm more of a mess than anyone could possibly be
Immediately. Best thing you can do as a man is isolate yourself from all distractions. Women, porn, partying, gaming etc and focus on fitness and wealth
@@1STMAN aye aye captain
@@dopekartistaddictionofart7837how are you doing 3 years later?
Hi bro! Love Love Love Love👍👉💯💯💯💯
So as a 20 year old who's never had sex or a relationship and that thinks about it all the time, is it a good idea for me to indulge in that lifestyle of partying and hooking up that i really wanna try before giving it up forever? I feel like you can so easily leave it behind because you altready had an abundance of all those things, and i think that's crucial to develop and truly internalize this mindset that you're promoting. So maybe just going out and having fun for a few months would ultimately be beneficial.
In reality i know that 36 year old me will regret never experiencing any of it, and i think that if i don't try that shit out now that i'm the perfect time frame for it then i'll forever regret it.
Focus on improving yourself a bit first then you are more ready . Just go gym. Read. Save up . And you will later realise it’s not as important as you think it is. Girls aren’t going anywhere man most of the time girls like older guys. I was like you until I lost my virginity at 19 after a week partying at uni and a girl I invited me back to her room and it’s was fun and a good experience but not as good as you think it will be. Much better to spend your time thinking about bettering yourself for the future and just focus on delayed gratitude. Get the mindset of getting excited to see how much you’ll improve in 1 year....2years....5years......10years. Trust me.
Build yourself up and your money stay single only when you need them for fun
When your financial covered dating is alot better but don't get into a serious relationship
I'm 18 watching this👑👑🔥thanx king
18 is such a great position to be in with this kind of knowledge. Appreciate you watching man
Rational ego is key.