Dinner Etiquette 🍽️ ASMR • Soft Spoken • Gentle Proper Eating • Crinkly Shirt

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  • Welcome to our dinner etiquette lesson. Today we will learn how to exhibit confidence and excellence in every move you take at the table. You will learn what to expect from your surroundings, how to properly eat and converse during the meal. Thank you for your time.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @SwagimirPutin
    @SwagimirPutin 4 роки тому +6283

    Maria, this is a bit advanced for society right now.
    We only just finished learning how to wash our hands!

  • @leeraxd
    @leeraxd 4 роки тому +6755

    I’m ready to be queen of Genovia

    • @albinocyclopse9952
      @albinocyclopse9952 4 роки тому +104

      Ah ha!.....I understood that reference

    • @sotxjul
      @sotxjul 4 роки тому +52

      Yess!! I love Princess Diaries 💘

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 роки тому +35

      Omggggg blast from the past right there haha

    • @crispykfc454
      @crispykfc454 4 роки тому +3

      nah i don't get it

    • @gabriellap.7238
      @gabriellap.7238 4 роки тому +12

      @@crispykfc454 it's from the princess diaries

  • @literalmonkey6535
    @literalmonkey6535 2 роки тому +1336

    Me while eating instant noodles out of an plastic bowl on my couch:
    "Finally, something cultured!"

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 Рік тому +3

      lol

    • @garyzod8818
      @garyzod8818 Рік тому +6

      Id bet she is a harsh disciplinarian, oh my word.

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 Рік тому +7

      @@garyzod8818 in your dreams maybe.

    • @calprey
      @calprey Рік тому

      @@dallasdandigitalproduction393 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona Рік тому +3

      @@KenzieLynn666 I’m watching this like “this is very relaxing but I don’t respect the culture of baseless banal signifiers behind it at all” like if anyone got mad at me for ever breaking the imaginary dinner choreography rules irl I’d just be disappointed in them for caring about something so valueless lol

  • @amy-bethtaylor2656
    @amy-bethtaylor2656 3 роки тому +710

    If she made more of these, even if they were almost the same, I would watch every one of them. I love this.

  • @AP-pb7br
    @AP-pb7br 4 роки тому +962

    The future of ASMR are soft spoken videos that actually teach you something , as simple as it may be. This was absolutely wonderful.

    • @brock500rbh
      @brock500rbh 4 роки тому

      like how to eat..... we all have this masted i think

    • @TheTonk44
      @TheTonk44 4 роки тому +18

      This does take ASMR to a whole new level. Educational ASMR , what a fantastic concept!

    • @monicascorpio4287
      @monicascorpio4287 4 роки тому +6

      The Best things in life are free,
      And ASMR is just that. Heaven on earth. Tremendous Maria. Thank you and Love you for touching souls in the most gentle way.

    • @hoffwell
      @hoffwell 4 роки тому +6

      Agreed. I'm finished with 'cranial nerve examinations' and other such nonsense.

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 роки тому +4

      @@TheTonk44 a lot of other asmrtists are already doing educational asmr (let's find out, the French whisperer, phoenician sailor, etc.)

  • @zazzycatlady
    @zazzycatlady 4 роки тому +990

    i would love to see this evolve into a mini series. more etiquette lessons seem like such a dream! I was thinking about maria showing us how to eat the most difficult foods with proper (antiquated) grace 💓

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 4 роки тому +12

      like spaghetti

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 роки тому +2

      Yes!!! More please!!

    • @hoyle9986
      @hoyle9986 4 роки тому +3

      I TOTALLY AGREE! Informative & relaxing!! Win win!!

    • @ahnigeogerian125
      @ahnigeogerian125 4 роки тому +1

      YESSSSSS this was super interesting!

    • @Kaynotnice
      @Kaynotnice 4 роки тому +4

      Agreed!!! So good!! Table manners really are a dying art

  • @elenastidham
    @elenastidham 2 роки тому +392

    I am still not over how spot-on she is. In my first job I was a caterer, we were taught all this when we set up plates, and she even touched on not helping us when we switch plates! We appreciate you trying to help, we really do, but so many accidents happen that way and so many people would even get burns from it. We just ask you stay still :)

    • @wholelottanuts
      @wholelottanuts 11 днів тому

      bro just give me my damn food and i'll eat it like a pig, who cares about etiquettes

  • @itsblitzzz
    @itsblitzzz 3 роки тому +1169

    I don’t know how I missed this video but it is absolutely the best!! Everything about it is perfectly relaxing. Thank you, Maria. This is a new favorite. 🤩😍😴😴😴😴😴

    • @georgew5038
      @georgew5038 2 роки тому +3

      Probably because she does 40 videos a day

  • @Blue-jo9fl
    @Blue-jo9fl 4 роки тому +5762

    I love how she's doing her own thing and not following a trend like some other asmrtists.

    • @kath.andrews
      @kath.andrews 4 роки тому +250

      What trend? I'm curious because I just watch Maria, Latte and WhispersRed.

    • @alejoey44
      @alejoey44 4 роки тому +97

      Paul Harris they’re the same three I watch! (Virtual high five!)

    • @jaiden1520
      @jaiden1520 4 роки тому +89

      Paul Harris like popular things to do for asmr videos, stuff that’s like a popular trigger and gets a lot of views

    • @neurotoxic6407
      @neurotoxic6407 4 роки тому +243

      When you consider that many of these "trends" are things that Maria has already done...

    • @daily_gamer6080
      @daily_gamer6080 4 роки тому +189

      Nearly every other asmrtist has followed HER lol

  • @julianacaggiano
    @julianacaggiano 4 роки тому +1013

    She reminds me of Julie Andrews as Queen Clarice in the Princess Diaries teaching Mia (Anne Hathaway) how to be a princess. And I love it!

  • @JosephBrown-cw9ml
    @JosephBrown-cw9ml 2 роки тому +192

    This lovely woman has saved me during, minimally, 6 dinner parties. I’m so grateful.

    • @milliedavis2987
      @milliedavis2987 2 роки тому +15

      literally same, some of these tips are absolutely lifesaving

    • @jbfangirl8529
      @jbfangirl8529 6 місяців тому +5

      You guys go to dinner parties? I need more cultured friends 😂

  • @af5354
    @af5354 3 роки тому +200

    before asmr was really a full fledged community, i used to watch these incredible slow and meaningful etiquette videos on youtube that were peak unintentional asmr. I haven't been able to find them, this video is a supreme treat! 10/10!!!!

  • @Tfisch1010
    @Tfisch1010 4 роки тому +4373

    As a chef in a fine dining restaurant this is bang on. Only critique is the bread plate is way smaller, but you are obviously working with your home dishes and don't have my insane plate budget. This is so well done!

    • @ROFLitzSaur
      @ROFLitzSaur 4 роки тому +25

      whats the restaurant called

    • @meghanconetta1338
      @meghanconetta1338 4 роки тому +244

      As a waitress in FD I can confirm that the majority of society NEEDS this video lol

    • @Tfisch1010
      @Tfisch1010 4 роки тому +327

      @@ROFLitzSaur why do you want to know where I work internet stranger

    • @abefrohman81
      @abefrohman81 4 роки тому +30

      @@Tfisch1010 Yessss... tell us where you work.

    • @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979
      @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979 4 роки тому +29

      Tasha Fischer So would people be judged at the restaurant if they didn’t show the etiquette like in the video?

  • @Lowback
    @Lowback 4 роки тому +4617

    This is a lot to keep in mind when I eat my McDonald's

    • @MuItiASMR
      @MuItiASMR 4 роки тому +52

      Or my pizza

    • @fefejewell
      @fefejewell 4 роки тому +77

      These comments are giving me life! 😂

    • @nicholaskloss7198
      @nicholaskloss7198 4 роки тому +22

      Lowback I hear McDonalds and Wendy’s are running out of beef. So you may just need a salad fork.

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 роки тому +36

      U.K. McDonald’s are all closed. We’re all not ok. Send fries 🍟

    • @_feniks_9809
      @_feniks_9809 4 роки тому +8

      Or sushi!!!!😋😋😋

  • @kimberlygiron6907
    @kimberlygiron6907 3 роки тому +749

    I’m going to be so professional when I get back to Olive Garden

    • @gingercashcat
      @gingercashcat 2 роки тому +10

      🤣🤣

    • @trenchcoats4life891
      @trenchcoats4life891 2 роки тому +14

      WHEN YOU'RE HERE, YOU'RE FAMILY!
      Must be Vin Diesel's restauarant.

    • @EmeraldView
      @EmeraldView 2 роки тому +8

      OMG, I'm so doing this there.
      Maybe even at Applebee's

    • @southbrazosbass244
      @southbrazosbass244 2 роки тому +15

      It's funny because in some small country towns people consider olive garden to be fine dining 🤷

    • @yume.online__
      @yume.online__ 2 роки тому +4

      @@southbrazosbass244 oh no. I CONSIDER OLIVE GARDEN TO BE FINE DINING!

  • @cayden9224
    @cayden9224 Рік тому +79

    The amount of research that goes into these videos is insane and it just proves how dedicated she is to making good content.

  • @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915
    @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915 4 роки тому +3338

    Maria: Elegantly setting a beautiful table for a sophisticated meal
    Me: Eating ramen on my bed with a green fork

    • @ashkinstherobot
      @ashkinstherobot 4 роки тому +100

      Girl I'm drinking wine and eating leftover pizza watching this

    • @plusultrafox5647
      @plusultrafox5647 4 роки тому +6

      Thank you for this 😁

    • @SophieJackson1993
      @SophieJackson1993 4 роки тому +22

      I’m eating toast with cheese chive spread on my bed.

    • @PixiePrinses
      @PixiePrinses 4 роки тому +39

      i'm eating ice cream straight out the tub lol

    • @emiliana1767
      @emiliana1767 4 роки тому +43

      I'm eating cookies while sitting on a kids chair in the kitchen in order to procrastinate from cleaning the kitchen and reward myself for attempting to clean the kitchen 👌

  • @gardevikrath5691
    @gardevikrath5691 4 роки тому +783

    I’ve watched this several times now and it’s quickly become one my personal favorite videos of yours. Keep up the great work and stay safe

    • @doggooverlords3041
      @doggooverlords3041 3 роки тому +10

      Same it taught me how to have a nice dinner with my imaginary friends😂

    • @karenl.281
      @karenl.281 3 роки тому +2

      Same. Love ones like this. I play them while I work.

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 3 роки тому +2

      i came here to make this exact comment!

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- 3 роки тому +1

      I agree!!

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 3 роки тому +1

      Same this is my favourite ❤️

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 3 роки тому +273

    PLEASE MARIA MAKE THIS A SERIES I BEG OF YOU ! WE LOVE LEARNING ETIQUETTE AND ESPECIALLY FROM YOU QUEEN !

    • @Finn959
      @Finn959 Рік тому +2

      Watch jamila musajeva

  • @BuzBuzxo
    @BuzBuzxo 3 роки тому +278

    *All Those Years Of Watching Titanic Has Prepared Me For This Very Moment-*

    • @jackiep2948
      @jackiep2948 3 роки тому +5

      😂

    • @shantinellfoster4637
      @shantinellfoster4637 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @rachels5953
      @rachels5953 2 роки тому +7

      'Just start from the outside and work your way in' has stuck with me forever 😂😂

  • @mariaaniag2385
    @mariaaniag2385 4 роки тому +390

    Maria: eating healthy wholesome foods being elegant
    Me: eating ramen noodles with a spork

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 роки тому +10

      More truth in this comment then many would admit to!

    • @kelseygirl2481
      @kelseygirl2481 4 роки тому +5

      That's such a good idea!

    • @madelinetorye9967
      @madelinetorye9967 4 роки тому +7

      I fail to see whats wrong with a spork. I think that is a fine idea for romen noodles

    • @jacobchesser3373
      @jacobchesser3373 4 роки тому +2

      @Will Loehr this deserves to be top comment lmfao

    • @thebrisaeflores
      @thebrisaeflores 4 роки тому +6

      **ever so gently, with all of the grace, taps a few drops of Tapatío**

  • @BountyFlamor
    @BountyFlamor 4 роки тому +275

    About what I would like to see on your channel: an afternoon tea role play would be much appreciated.

    • @Magirl-xq4hr
      @Magirl-xq4hr 4 роки тому +3

      BountyFlamor oh yeah I love tea

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 роки тому +1

      She has a few Tea videos. One of my fave is quite awhile ago, like 7 or 8 years ago I think.

    • @ameliethisisme
      @ameliethisisme 4 роки тому +1

      great idea

    • @johneden2033
      @johneden2033 4 роки тому +2

      Tea? You mean that stuff we dumped into the harbor a while back?

    • @deanwinchester2613
      @deanwinchester2613 4 роки тому +2

      Yes, like a high tea role play.

  • @roxybeaudet6777
    @roxybeaudet6777 Рік тому +119

    I love this vid. I come back to it often. What would also be awesome is if you did etiquette videos for different countries, because many countries have unique things that they consider to be polite/impolite and that would be very interesting and relaxing to learn.

  • @VenusTheShinyStar
    @VenusTheShinyStar 3 роки тому +194

    This video called me a rude slob in every polite way possible but I love how calm and fancy she is

  • @DadandBubs
    @DadandBubs 4 роки тому +373

    More etiquette lessons please ma’am.
    Speech, writing, introductions, etc...
    I need help being a proper human being.
    Thank you.

  • @betterdaysmacrame
    @betterdaysmacrame 4 роки тому +420

    Thank god, because eating is all I do these days.

    • @gabbyelaine92
      @gabbyelaine92 4 роки тому +8

      emilyballcreative quarantine eating is REAL 🤣

    • @mei-lingthomas1942
      @mei-lingthomas1942 4 роки тому +2

      After quarantine this is what life has come to 😂👌

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 4 роки тому +1

      Same here 😂😂

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 роки тому +7

      guys, how to stop?
      I wanted to be skinny this summer, but food is so tasty and I just NYAMNYAMNYAAAAAAAAAM
      don't do that to us, corona

    • @Psycho.Bengali
      @Psycho.Bengali 4 роки тому +1

      emilyballcreative ahhh same I’m so fat p

  • @tylerx8848
    @tylerx8848 3 роки тому +183

    I never realized how barbaric I ate until watching this lol.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 роки тому +31

      It's okay to not act like you're disarming a bomb every time you take a bite of salad.

  • @BryanBalak
    @BryanBalak 2 роки тому +228

    Maria: We break the cookie into small bite size pieces...
    Me: Watch me fit this whole cookie in my mouth in one bite... 🍪😁

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 роки тому +6

      I think breaking these cookies into 2 halves would be okay.

    • @Thiccubus
      @Thiccubus Рік тому +1

      @@frankfahrenheit9537 Two halves is acceptable, anything more and you might as well smash it with a hydralic press and snort the dust.

    • @katybug6572
      @katybug6572 Рік тому +5

      That’s not proper.. tsk tsk 🫵 lol

    • @ninab.4540
      @ninab.4540 10 місяців тому +1

      Doitdoidoit

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 9 днів тому

      This comment is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @uhohitschellie
    @uhohitschellie 4 роки тому +371

    The scene from Titanic where Molly Brown tells Jack to "start from the outside and work your way in" has informed my ability to use silverware in fine dining ever since. I'm very excited to have Maria teach me more techniques.

    • @uhohitschellie
      @uhohitschellie 4 роки тому +41

      It also blows my mind that these videos are intended for relaxation but they should be considered actual training guides (like the towel and clothes folding, too!) because they are just so well researched and executed.

    • @kristenf8335
      @kristenf8335 4 роки тому +4

      Hahaha same!!! 😂

    • @Chloe299XxX
      @Chloe299XxX 4 роки тому +6

      Michelle Horn same! every time I get confused I think of this scene 😆

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly what I was thinking, that scene probably taught a lot of us basic table etiquette

    • @LunaLeea1
      @LunaLeea1 4 роки тому +7

      @@uhohitschellie also Julia Roberts learning to eat with fine cultery in Pretty Woman!

  • @tabbycatcrume
    @tabbycatcrume 4 роки тому +711

    Is this how we eat in public? Because I can’t remember anymore...

  • @vinodmehra188
    @vinodmehra188 3 роки тому +91

    4:16
    She: Would you like some bread?
    Me : Yes please.
    She puts it back.
    Me : *(embarrassed)* or maybe not.

  • @kingworm7168
    @kingworm7168 Рік тому +24

    Girly I keep coming back to this video like 3 times a week. Can we pleeeeeeeeeeeeaase please get a new etiquette video 🥹 these are so so good

  • @lpdeese
    @lpdeese 4 роки тому +624

    Maria said lemme get y’all together so when quarantine is over y’all have manners 😂😂😂

  • @holasarrita
    @holasarrita 4 роки тому +1253

    I knew this would be wonderful as soon as she said “derrière.”

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 4 роки тому +8

      always the first thing I look for

    • @cedricdubs2143
      @cedricdubs2143 4 роки тому +1

      Timelaps pls :)

    • @Ayraaaful
      @Ayraaaful 4 роки тому +5

      Jhin le virtuose 1:56

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 роки тому +27

      it's funny cause in French it sounds a bit rude lol you would say "postérieur".

    • @rainneko3
      @rainneko3 4 роки тому +10

      2:02
      *"butt"*

  • @hsvlove8799
    @hsvlove8799 3 роки тому +187

    THIS ladies and gentleman, this is ASMR

    • @jdovgy
      @jdovgy 2 роки тому +1

      It precisely is (also omg, hello! a wild kanjagi found!)

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 роки тому +18

    Not only is this helpful, but the "Always, Sometimes, Never" hand position moment gets my head tingling without fail every single time which has started to become so rare. Whatever you're doing here, keep doing it haha

  • @iihxney_bear3171
    @iihxney_bear3171 4 роки тому +1274

    This feels like something from Princess Diaries.

    • @jackieskellie
      @jackieskellie 4 роки тому +27

      iihxney_bear Maria is an etiquette coach from Genovia 😍

    • @avilestiffany
      @avilestiffany 4 роки тому +15

      Luv that movie. I cross my ankles b/c of that movie lol

    • @asmrstateofmind5122
      @asmrstateofmind5122 4 роки тому +2

      So classy 😍

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 роки тому +1

      @@avilestiffany Hah, I cross my ankles bc of the "Phineas and Ferb" episode, when their british cousin was teaching Candace, how to behave like a lady.

    • @PPMSwift
      @PPMSwift 4 роки тому +5

      GENOVIA! THE LAND I CALL MY HOME

  • @Marybringsgoodnews
    @Marybringsgoodnews 4 роки тому +627

    “Do not put the whole cookie into your mouth.”
    😂😂😂

    • @dontknowyou2385
      @dontknowyou2385 4 роки тому +2

      Mary Brings Good News :(

    • @selenabranch936
      @selenabranch936 4 роки тому +17

      Maria : * gently and elegantly eats cookies*
      Me : * inhales cookies like kirby*

    • @Ashlolz
      @Ashlolz 4 роки тому +4

      Well that's not very good news Mary

    • @tlmctaggart
      @tlmctaggart 4 роки тому

      Is this based on Gloria Star’s videos?

    • @RebekahFerro
      @RebekahFerro 4 роки тому +1

      I felt personally attacked by that one 😂😂😂

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 роки тому +9

    Commenting again to say that this video must be in the Top 5 best ASMR videos of all time for me, and I've been listening/watching for nearly 10 years... It's not only the position of the microphone and the subtle rustling that makes it feel like actually in the room hearing clothes naturally move, but the soft, patient tutorial/lesson delivery that makes it the most relaxing (and educational!) thing to listen to over and over.

  • @RockyFloral
    @RockyFloral 4 роки тому +149

    When I took home economics in 8th grade we had to learn table etiquette and then we went on a field trip to a “fine dining” restaurant experience and my teacher actually graded us on how we acted throughout the dinner. Many people failed..

    • @assmosis4573
      @assmosis4573 4 роки тому +6

      Flora Papadimitriou your teach is a boss!

    • @avakay1
      @avakay1 4 роки тому +5

      i’m did this in 11th grade!

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 роки тому +2

      Lucky! My schools too broke and ratchet to be able to go to a restaurant Lol most of the children there including me are not lucky and low on money with our families and ya know.... But um ... Yeahhhh that's cool!!!

    • @nihilisticbarbie
      @nihilisticbarbie 4 роки тому +1

      @@i___270___x8 there's videos on UA-cam if you're genuinely interested in learning formal table manners

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 роки тому

      @@nihilisticbarbie thank you 😊 ill check em out

  • @MsQuickSilver
    @MsQuickSilver 4 роки тому +335

    This food etiquette/table manners lesson was absolutely divine, Maria. Your uniquely relaxing voice, graceful hand movements, knowledge and self-confidence, it all felt to me as though you were the teacher from Heaven. Tingles galore! Thank you and bravo for a job well done. Keep up the great work, Maria, because in these stressful times we need you more than ever. Greetings from Montreal. 😍💖🌈👍🇨🇦

    • @jeannineasselin761
      @jeannineasselin761 4 роки тому +4

      Hi from Montreal !
      Bonjour de Montréal !

    • @awesomedude6249
      @awesomedude6249 4 роки тому

      Us wrestling fans don't really like Montreal. Just search up "The Montreal Screwjob"

    • @Glooomyy
      @Glooomyy 4 роки тому +1

      Oh hey I'm from Montreal too!:D And yes, I totally agree with this comment💓💓 I took a nap from this video earlier and it was wonderful.=0=💤💕 Anyways, I hope you and your family are safe and doing well!💗

    • @scity3301
      @scity3301 4 роки тому +2

      @@jeannineasselin761 bonjour de quebec

    • @tysmith5653
      @tysmith5653 4 роки тому

      Greetings from a place near Calgary

  • @LizCanKnit
    @LizCanKnit 3 роки тому +33

    This was great! Would love to see how drinking is incorporated. Conversation etiquette is sorely needed as well.

    • @c3ka
      @c3ka 2 роки тому +3

      Conversation etiquette, yes!!! Especially in an age where we've forgotten all about articulation.

  • @Walker.Does.Photography
    @Walker.Does.Photography 3 роки тому +207

    I can’t imagine how people are able to eat like that 😂😂😂 you need to enjoy your food comfortably without it being stressful 😆

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 роки тому +89

      Rich people refuse to enjoy things comfortably

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 роки тому +10

      Just do it. It is not stressful. When I see people using fork and knife
      as if they wanted to repair their car - terrible. A laugh.

    • @paolamaria399
      @paolamaria399 2 роки тому +14

      It's disgusting to have a meal with someone who's mannerless. It's uncomfortable for the people aroud to watch or even to listen if they make sounds when eating or drinking.

    • @janheard3826
      @janheard3826 2 роки тому +5

      @@CarlsCozyCorner Plenty of uncouth rich people

    • @soirema
      @soirema 2 роки тому +8

      Its not stresfull its beatifull

  • @QueenofAnon
    @QueenofAnon 4 роки тому +130

    this video has a similar vibe to your old towel/napkin/clothes folding tutorials, and those are my absolute favorite videos of yours to date! thank you for blessing us with knowledge, manners, and relaxation in these trying times.♥️ you are a goddess, maria! 🥰

    • @daisyblu3000
      @daisyblu3000 4 роки тому

      cloud nine so true! the pace, voice level and overall gentleness and the “step/explanation” type really do bring me back to those vids. awesome as usual 💕🤗

    • @laineyerin5801
      @laineyerin5801 4 роки тому

      I second this! These are the ones I still get tingles from. Thank you so much Maria!

  • @hugznotdrugs2
    @hugznotdrugs2 4 роки тому +516

    Maria: How to be proper at the table
    Me: *nodding* in my pajamas drinking out of a Dixie cup

  • @Danthonyt
    @Danthonyt Рік тому +36

    This is still my favorite ASMR video of all time!

  • @BarrocoTarot
    @BarrocoTarot 3 роки тому +868

    The worst you can order is Spaghettis please don't do that if you are on a special date or try to seduce someone lol. An amazing and lovely video. It was really helpful. Thank you.

    • @leah7348
      @leah7348 3 роки тому +25

      What if you twirl it up onto the fork so it's less messy?

    • @solanum6039
      @solanum6039 3 роки тому +84

      @@leah7348 Spaghetti will always be messy. 😅

    • @francescoantoniocrisconio194
      @francescoantoniocrisconio194 3 роки тому +61

      You guys just don't know the right technique. I eat spaghetti often and i'm never messy with them

    • @verom8657
      @verom8657 3 роки тому +35

      @@francescoantoniocrisconio194 same. I'm only messy if I'm super hungry but typically dont make a mess

    • @venanciafox8765
      @venanciafox8765 3 роки тому +13

      Wait, I saw this in a movie called Brooklyn with Saoirse Ronan! It CAN be done! 🇮🇹♥️☘️

  • @harisharris5902
    @harisharris5902 4 роки тому +1876

    Maria is like CEO of ASMR

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 роки тому +37

      Shes the queen of ASMR actually 😁

    • @Jayliah_
      @Jayliah_ 4 роки тому +18

      Haris Harris Maria and Latte are the best!

    • @pvdmtubeasmr6095
      @pvdmtubeasmr6095 4 роки тому +17

      More like the CTO: Chief Tingles Officer!

    • @ange1i
      @ange1i 4 роки тому +2

      Haris Harris the one and only! :))

    • @zinmomo7192
      @zinmomo7192 4 роки тому +2

      Yes she is! :D

  • @hannylovely5
    @hannylovely5 4 роки тому +540

    Me, sitting at an elegant table next to my dog during quarantine: So, Molly, please do tell me how your afternoon was. Did you say hello to the mailman again today?
    My dog, Molly: *does not care that Maria worked hard to teach us table manners and is devouring everything in sight*

  • @aldausa
    @aldausa Місяць тому +1

    i will never get tired of this video, the "soup moment" lives in my head rent free
    tysm

  • @Deeeeeeeedz
    @Deeeeeeeedz 2 роки тому +24

    It shook me to the core when I learned that salad had to be ✨ cut ✨

    • @moonyshowl
      @moonyshowl Рік тому +1

      Honestly though, I usually just try -and fail horribly- to stuff it all in my mouth

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 9 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ohokay8392
    @ohokay8392 3 роки тому +1883

    me, fingers coated in Cheeto dust “do go on maria”

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 роки тому +64

      Me eating takies with chopsticks" yes...how interesting "

    • @nourhanhassanzahran2385
      @nourhanhassanzahran2385 3 роки тому +8

      @@someone8240 DUUDDEE😭😭💀💀

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 роки тому +11

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 well, it keeps you're fingers from getting coverd in chip dust

    • @kaylyndincler6933
      @kaylyndincler6933 3 роки тому +1

      Yes🤣

    • @ohokay8392
      @ohokay8392 3 роки тому +4

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 he got a point doe

  • @LC-cj6cn
    @LC-cj6cn 4 роки тому +301

    this was interesting to watch. as a French person I learned to never cut my salad : you fold it, because it avoids making that sound (you know what sound lol). And also I learned we are to never cross our fork and knife (whether it's on the plate itself or even on the side. just never cross them). Also when drinking wine, we ate given two glasses on feet : smallest is for the wine, biggest is for the water (because you should drink more water than wine).

    • @violet20205
      @violet20205 4 роки тому +26

      Exact ! Ne jamais couper la salade !!

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 роки тому +15

      Laurys C so interesting! in the united states we never learn about drinks because it’s assumed that that information isn’t necessary until you are 21, so most people have to figure it out on their own

    • @LC-cj6cn
      @LC-cj6cn 4 роки тому +7

      @@colbymcarthur7871 I learned via my parents when I asked why they had two "wine glasses" but just used one.
      It shouldn't be about "it's wine glass so it's alcohol so you shouldn't know because you're a minor", because it's just explaining why the table is set that way. Also as a kid I used to help set the table for family dinners (the ones you're like 7373838 at the table lol)

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 роки тому +4

      Laurys C Oh that makes sense, my family normally already has our drinks from earlier (whether water, beer, wine, etc), so we don’t usually put glasses down to set the table

    • @mam2896
      @mam2896 4 роки тому +7

      True and crossing cutlery upon finishing indicates you were not happy with the meal 😅

  • @neonevaa7943
    @neonevaa7943 6 місяців тому +6

    this is the first asmr video i ever watched and it was in 2019. i wanted to learn more about table etiquette and ended up here. every now and then i come back to this video especially when im feeling down. thank u maria

  • @Phoenix-zy1cx
    @Phoenix-zy1cx 4 місяці тому +3

    I just noticed the really beautiful and subtle sound mixing in the first minute and a half. All of the ambient sounds are crisp, while the soft song slowly grows more clear yet does not overpower. It's a masterpiece of sound design.
    I think each ASMRtist develops an audio style. Yours is very distinct and cannot be imitated. I hope you are proud of your artistic sound. :D

  • @drdoloresmize5386
    @drdoloresmize5386 4 роки тому +103

    She SETS the trends!! This one was SO lovely!! Crisp white crinkly shirt, with black pants. The black chargers, white plates, and there is not a single spot on that glass and stemware!! Your attention to detail is just exquisite!! I loooooove you doing tutorials!! Nobody is better at it than you are!

  • @madina4568
    @madina4568 4 роки тому +284

    She radiates sunshine, sweetness and she is just such a *Maria* . Simply We all do love her.

    • @jerrysoriano9827
      @jerrysoriano9827 4 роки тому +2

      maria being maria.

    • @kazbar7611
      @kazbar7611 4 роки тому +2

      I may be wrong but I thought Maria said at the start of the video, she was going to demonstrate the European and American way of eating?. But it looked to me like she ate the salad and the main course the same way. As a European I'm curious as to what the difference is?. This is not meant as a criticism, I really enjoyed the video Maria. I just wanted to know what the difference is and thought I might have missed it?.

  • @dragonnymphs5882
    @dragonnymphs5882 6 місяців тому +3

    Black space for anyone sleeping
    Goodnight x

  • @truestormi8444
    @truestormi8444 3 роки тому +16

    I really love this kind of asmr, where you give tingles and new knowledge to people.. thanks maria

  • @labonihira
    @labonihira 4 роки тому +2069

    This video feels like a subtle clap back to those crazy mukbangers 😂

  • @thebestyoda
    @thebestyoda 4 роки тому +1437

    When you start watching this to fall asleep but end up watching the whole thing because you realise how you dont know any of this

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 роки тому +4

      How do u not know any of thia i see people do it all the time and alot in movies hahha

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 роки тому +3

      Accurate

    • @savagejacob6301
      @savagejacob6301 4 роки тому +1

      True true

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 роки тому +1

      @@evelyng.4083 I didn't just say tv hahaha just incase of others

    • @emeralddragongaming2930
      @emeralddragongaming2930 4 роки тому +3

      @heleen b well not everywhere in Europe, rich countries perhaps but where I live now the main and often only tool for eating is spoon and only one for all kinds of food a and a single plate too

  • @ara.4497
    @ara.4497 Рік тому +2

    These etiquette rules make a lot of sense and are very respectful and caring for everyone involved in the formal dining experience. Thanks for this great surprisingly relaxing ASMR presentation!

  • @carriebasler6927
    @carriebasler6927 3 роки тому +1

    I so enjoyed this so much. I am 53 years old and learned a few new things today. Thank you Maria! Been watching for a few years now. Love your work!

  • @jay-tr2we
    @jay-tr2we 4 роки тому +1246

    Me: Interesting
    *continues to eat chips in bed*

  • @ac421
    @ac421 4 роки тому +91

    Many people (most) were never taught how to eat this way as I think most we’re really never exposed to it. I think this video was a very good idea. Something interesting, relaxing and informative. Thank you!

  • @CoffeeQueen03
    @CoffeeQueen03 3 роки тому +4

    This was truly helpful and I feel so informed and even fancy now, thank you so much!

  • @Ineke1466
    @Ineke1466 8 місяців тому +2

    Love this❤ This is normal for me, Table manners were part of my education and I’m happy that my mother taught me these

  • @TomPMelanson
    @TomPMelanson 4 роки тому +35

    As a catering event manager, I have to say thanks for the accuracy of this video! Once I learned how to eat with heightened etiquette, I never went back. It's second nature to me now. So glad others get to enjoy!

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker 4 роки тому +2

      Tom Melanson it really is so much more pleasant for others around you, thank you for being considerate

  • @atmydarkesthours2713
    @atmydarkesthours2713 4 роки тому +355

    When you asked the “ person” if they wanted bread I really expected your husband to take it from you 😂😂

  • @valerieholdman5760
    @valerieholdman5760 2 роки тому +4

    She never ceases to amaze me😊🥰👏🏼 This was very educational. I never knew this. Plus she makes everything so mesmerizing to watch💯

  • @fingergunsflowers1182
    @fingergunsflowers1182 10 місяців тому +2

    This is so amazing and unique! Usually etiquette classes are formed as stressful and up tight environments but you’ve shown me how it’s actually a wonderful and informative experience ♥️

  • @starrygrl4
    @starrygrl4 4 роки тому +447

    Less than 3 minutes and I already can understand I’m doing everything wrong

    • @carladargent6209
      @carladargent6209 4 роки тому +1

      Bruh same

    • @leileiX
      @leileiX 4 роки тому

      Me too.. I feel bad .-. I think i'll take some notes. xD

    • @cristinarnold
      @cristinarnold 4 роки тому +1

      Damn you made it to 3 minutes before realizing that! It took me .02 seconds😂💚✌

    • @user-ph1dm4hg5v
      @user-ph1dm4hg5v 4 роки тому

      Doctor Who: Revolution only when you’re at an expensive and luxe restaurant, nobody eat’s like this at home with their family’s lol

    • @cypher2540
      @cypher2540 4 роки тому

      It took me the hole video to understand stand I do everything wrong on the table

  • @misskris62
    @misskris62 4 роки тому +94

    Can we acknowledge that sis made a whole 4 course meal in order to make this video? 🍲🥗🍗🍪 what dedication!

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 роки тому +5

      misskris62 what if she just wanted a good meal and then was like this could be content?

    • @user-pc7ih3cb4y
      @user-pc7ih3cb4y 4 роки тому

      Who is sis?

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 роки тому

      Евгений S she’s talking about gentle whispering

    • @47462vladi
      @47462vladi 4 роки тому

      @@user-pc7ih3cb4y "сестрёнка", обращение к Марии

  • @lindaspratt1152
    @lindaspratt1152 2 роки тому +91

    I so appreciate creative, realistic role-play! So tired of phony eye exams, haircuts, makeup sessions and the other usual suspects. I also don't like ASMR folks who are obviously trying hard to trigger by repeating words, tapping, unnatural mouth noises etc, it ruins it for me.

    • @columkenn
      @columkenn Рік тому +4

      Mukbang are the worst

  • @sunshineladyxxx7975
    @sunshineladyxxx7975 4 роки тому +82

    Whow, never seen such a detailled instruction for proper eating like this. This is not only ASMR but also really helpful! I learned the rules for correct eating at a fine table in my earliest childhood, but it is really nice to remember that all now. We all tend to get used to a little messy behaviour at table when we eat all time alone i think. *gg*
    Thank you so much Maria, you are perfect at anything you do!

  • @aimeephillips6571
    @aimeephillips6571 4 роки тому +65

    As someone who's worked in hotel restaurants for several years, I just want to say, this was so accurate and well done! Also I'm so glad you mentioned about not moving or trying to help between courses! 🙏

  • @blannibal3610
    @blannibal3610 2 роки тому +7

    We need another one of these. So good

  • @KaterinaK8
    @KaterinaK8 Рік тому +2

    Умничка.Весь ютюб обучили, правильной сортировки стола и правильному этикету.

  • @Sangonomiiya
    @Sangonomiiya 4 роки тому +1982

    This has the energy of “im Enissa Blanche and im your freestyle dance teacher” but it’s like actually serious

  • @aimeeisgoingtomars
    @aimeeisgoingtomars 4 роки тому +323

    Reminds me of the times when my dad taught us table etiquette, he always said 'never meet your food when bringing it to your mouth, you're not a chicken so dont peck at it' 😂

    • @ivania.
      @ivania. 4 роки тому +25

      aimée my mom would say “food to mouth not mouth to food” 😂

    • @bluesummers5051
      @bluesummers5051 4 роки тому +29

      I was always taught to lean forward (like actually slouch) until my mouth was over the plate and a little beyond so that the food wouldn’t fall on the table/floor 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @krystallinum
      @krystallinum 3 роки тому +9

      Maybe I am a chicken, dad.

  • @tiyetiye379
    @tiyetiye379 3 роки тому

    Maria, I think this is my favorite video of yours that you’ve done all year. I’ve lost count of the number of times it’s sent me off to sleep, so thank you for all the work you put into this and so many other videos!

  • @annaleemontano8438
    @annaleemontano8438 11 місяців тому

    LOVE ur soft spoken videos! Please do more. Thank u!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @maryhaucke-davis7750
    @maryhaucke-davis7750 4 роки тому +141

    I loved this Maria. It reminded me of being a little girl at my grandmother’s house. She would invite me for “tea” and taught table etiquette. I loved her lessons!

  • @havingicecream
    @havingicecream 4 роки тому +49

    Honestly, it suprises me every time how Maria slips into these roles so perfectly, but is still unmistakenly Maria

  • @heathermcconochie2572
    @heathermcconochie2572 Рік тому +1

    One of my all time favorites! Would love more videos like these. Prefer this style to the role plays.

  • @jobckts682
    @jobckts682 2 роки тому +4

    Another Masterpiece from Maria. Such a Pro. Buttered Bread got Me tingled.

  • @ClemiASMR
    @ClemiASMR 4 роки тому +31

    One thing I love when Maria does videos like this is you can tell she has put so much time and effort into really learning about dinner etiquette, rather than just pretending for the sake of the video. She's always so committed and I love that ❤️❤️

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 роки тому +1

      Tbh she strikes me as the kind of person who already knew this.

    • @ClemiASMR
      @ClemiASMR 4 роки тому +1

      Jim Lee that’s true!!

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 роки тому +1

      @@ClemiASMR I think you might be getting a new sub :)

  • @casano3
    @casano3 4 роки тому +172

    me watching this as i enjoy my breakfast at 3pm in the same sweatpants and tshirt i've worn for two days in a row

    • @emlish
      @emlish 4 роки тому +19

      Two? Those are rookie numbers

    • @WhisperAudiosASMR
      @WhisperAudiosASMR 4 роки тому +5

      casano3 pssshhhh only two? Sissy 🤣

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 роки тому

      @@emlish 😆👏👏👏👏

    • @cedarmusic
      @cedarmusic 4 роки тому

      casano3 That made me laugh excellent work

  • @Ace-1525
    @Ace-1525 Рік тому +3

    Me watching this to prep for holiday dinners with my inlaws.
    But seriously, I learned so much here! Thank you!!!

  • @n.b.7994
    @n.b.7994 9 місяців тому +1

    This is so good. Still one of my all-time favorites.

  • @cullensmith1817
    @cullensmith1817 4 роки тому +125

    Maria:Total class.
    Me:Eating shredded cheese out of the bag in my bathrobe.

  • @gabydickersonram
    @gabydickersonram 4 роки тому +82

    This woman makes me feel ASMR like crazy AND she teaches me manners. She is perfect

  • @wendyischarms
    @wendyischarms 2 роки тому +2

    These are my favorite videos, where I learn at the same time as I relax!!

  • @pamburt
    @pamburt 3 роки тому +29

    Exactly how I was taught to behave as a teenager for eating out in restaurants, or if invited for a meal at someone else’s home. No, it’s not “rich people “ who try to follow these rules, it’s everyone with basic manners. Of course I’m from the UK and I’m from an older generation, so I don’t think kids are taught this stuff anymore, more’s the pity. It looks archaic to young people now but I still think it creates a good impression if you’re eating out in public (and you’re not just slumped in front of the tv eating TV dinners)! Well done Maria👍🏻

    • @dnr2089
      @dnr2089 2 роки тому +1

      I’m from the uk too….in my 60s. People today haven’t a clue about table manners. I often see children being allowed to eat with their hands, and it appals me!

    • @megatronskneecap
      @megatronskneecap 2 роки тому +5

      @@dnr2089 Luv, anglo saxons and tribes went around eating all sorts with hands - It's not a crime infact it's perfectly normal history. You say 'children' babies and such eat with hands because holding two bits of metal or plastic when eating is stressful.

  • @jbfangirl8529
    @jbfangirl8529 4 роки тому +100

    Maria can’t be human. Her talent knows no bounds and she’s impossibly lovely and kind! ❤️

  • @callmekyle4950
    @callmekyle4950 4 роки тому +460

    Me: so how’s your day
    Maria: *chewing*
    Me: same
    Thx for the likes god bless

  • @chuckycarbone3295
    @chuckycarbone3295 2 роки тому +16

    8:40 - 9:30 where she tastes the soup gives me the most intense tingles of anything I have EVER seen. My favorite ever asmr clip of all time. I watch it every night and it never gets old. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT THIS VIDEO

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Рік тому +2

      OMG SAME really this is my favourite part

    • @chuckycarbone3295
      @chuckycarbone3295 Рік тому

      @@Cerveza- She is so cute. A true artist. So tingly the eating soup. Literally never had tingles this intense

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Рік тому +3

      @@chuckycarbone3295 well I don't really experience tingles but just that part I feel so much warmth and wholesomeness somehow haha

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- Рік тому +1

      Well through the whole vid, but especially that part

  • @insomb
    @insomb 2 роки тому +9

    Wow, I've never had an etiquette lesson on eating, this is both very relaxing and informative.

  • @Carolina-oc1tw
    @Carolina-oc1tw 4 роки тому +55

    This is an elegant mukbang