1. Share everything that is wrong 2. Self-Confidence and charisma, have your own life , don’t seek validation, TRUST it’s there 3.When a man feels he has too much or ALL the power in a relationship, they will become negative, difficult and toxic. So know you’re boundaries and don’t give TOO MUCH or he won’t know how to receive. Even nice guys will take advantage when he picks up on a lack of self confidence
#3 is sooo true ! Don't give him any power. He will abuse it and mistreat you. Watch also the way you interact with him. Don't show signs of fear and insecurity. He will use it against you.
Make him respect you: 1. Say what you want. Especially when he’s doing something wrong. Set boundaries. 2. Have self-confidence and charisma. Have your own life and don’t seek validation. 3. When a man has power he’ll be negative & do things wrong. Giving too much leads to problems & lack of respect. Thank you for your advice and video!
It all comes down so naturally. Once you start respecting yourself things will fall into place eventually no matter if you're gonna end up with that person or not. Alex is, as usual, on point. Such a charismatic and grounded man.
It looks like this coach has a sister or two because the way he spoke reminded me of the way my brother talks after we have a fight. It is a warm-hearted advice and I really appreciate this!
My relationship is just 2 weeks old and I've started seeking validation...so, I just wanna thank you for correcting me at this early stage. I appreciate!!!
Alex, DON'T EVER LOSE YOUR ACCENT! YOUR ACCENT THE WAY IT IS, IS PERFECT . IT'S WHY I LISTEN TO ONLY YOU; BESIDES, YOU'RE THE ONLY COACH WITH TRUE COMMON SENSE---U KNOW THE FEMALE MIND AND EMOTIONS BETTER THAN ALL THE OTHER COACHES. LEAVE YOUR ACCENT ALONE. THERE'S IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.🥰
Men are like kids... right. There is a huge impact on the relationship of how good or poorly he was raised as a child,his whole upbringing process+the things that he learnt as an adult determines how he treats you Alex is right, you have to earn the respect by setting boundaries and not tolerating his nonsense behaviour BTW Alex, you smile with your mouth,dimples and eyes Thanks brother Love ❤️ from India
As I guy, I respect these words. This advice is very much on par with reality. All relationships should be 50 50 with equal say. Stay positive ladies! 👌💯
This is what nobody tells you about relationships...its a life thing...I feel this can be applied in almost every aspect of our lives, work, family, friends because its setting your bounderies and limits. And also, if its said in a nice way, you can say everything you feel. Thank you coach Alex!
before we dive in into commitment, let us first build self confidence. To make us able to do things our own. Confidence is something that most of us are lucking. In building real relationship , confidence is like the heart of it . maybe for the body all might work but without confidence its like diving into the sea without water in it. let's love men but let the balance of power control. I got your point , Alex. the problem of having toxic relationships is by not setting boundaries.
Alex thank you for all you teach me , I don't know how to be brave up with the guy am with now ,I like him he's a great guy but I want him to like me more
i’ll do this from now on. the guy i’m with is so immature and disrespectful. hes négative all the time,has no respect for me, calls me names , yells at me like i’m a child etc he did that the other day and i haven’t called or texted him since that day he’s been the one reaching out lol next time i talk to him i’ll do exactly as you said and if he doesn’t like it then he can bounce
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Anytime; you are like family; I have been watching for years now; and the other day my fiance asked me; what I was watching; and didn't want to tell him and I did; and we watched you together; and it was good..
Coach Alex, do NOT apologize for your beautiful and very sexy French accent-I LOVE it! Thank you for pointing out being nurturing and giving are not respected. I have not ever heard any US based dating coaches ever stress this in relationships. However, you are correct and I do have the experience to back you up! Please, keep telling us the truth!
Everything you said you are right. Fear blocks us from losing the person we care about and tolerating his actions, which we wouldn't otherwise tolerate people who are not so important to us. Merci 😊
05:35 - this is one of the most important, valuable things you have taught me. It's proven. So... yes... the answer is self-respect, self-love, being empowered and strong, and not needing the man too much. I've done sooo much work in this area, and I will keep going. My ex tested me yesterday, but I responded well I think, and I'm focusing on myself today and he didn't knock me off. He held so much power in the end, and now finally I have taken it back!!! I will never let that happen again, that's a promise to myself.
really really good money power showing him you can just leave anytime you want and showing him you want the good values in life to be taken seriously will make him afraid of losing you
MY DEARIE 1.. TO ALL Ladies OUT THERE !! SET YOUR Bounderies. DON'T. LET THEY USE YOUR BODIES . Show THEM UUURRR NOT THEIR in THEIR CLASS. SAY NO!! _&_ LET THEY HAVE THAT RESPECT 4 UUU.. THANKS 4 SHARING THIS WONDERFULLY VIDEO. MY DEARIE. !! 💕 💕
Yes, he is right. Most of the time we boost confidence of usual guys just to be nice. Guys do not appreciate nice gesture, but belive they superiority and toxic begin. Thanks Alex, I just get my power back😉
Nice one Alex! I just shared what I felt and where I felt wronged that as things from past were building up and he said we can never be together and we were never in a relationship. It turned into blame game but am accepting it graciously and I don't regret saying what I did even if it was harsh, he denied everything but its okay. I couldn't have moved forward without it. So I am focusing on my life, watching your video, removing neediness. He said I cannot change but am starting my life with a clean state. :) What he thinks of me is his problem. But I need to take responsibility of my actions and become better version of myself.
Well for sure I needed this. I give way too much and for what? I’m so mad at myself for letting someone talk down to me just because I wanted to be the good gf. Such a waste but lesson learned.
Alex, I love your advice. Yes, it does seem crazy, but I am sure it will work. I have many men coming around me, it is amazing. Younger men as well, 2 of them are about 20 years younger, they approached me at different times and I didn't respond, because they are so young, but have nothing to offer me. Amazingly they keep letting me know they are thinking of me. Luckily, there is another younger man, I see great potential in him, yes a good man. This time in my life, it's like: I awoke from wasting my life in a poisonous marriage, only to find a glorious morning to walk into. I don't want to make any mistakes, the whole world has totally changed and I am alive and vibrant. I am so grateful for your help!!!
Thank You for your video. I really needed to hear this, you were on point on everything a woman needs to know about appreciated herself and her worth. I always been the type of woman to give to much in the relationship, always let things go.. didn't speak up when something bothered me and the outcome is always a man either disrespecting me or trying to control me because your right, I was always trying to get their validation and all it led up to was letting them control our whole relationship because I was to nice and all they did was take advantage of me. Your video just helped me realize how important I am and your right, I don't need no one's validation to accept me, I have the confidence inside myself to know how much of a good women I am to let any man make me think any less than what I deserve. I really like your video and your accent is really sexy just saying lol. You seem like a real gentleman, wish there was more men out in this world like you💞 Thanks again for the video and your support to help us women respect ourselves and know our worth. I just subscribed can't wait to watch another Video 😊
Yes you really are a very important woman. You are worth a lot in . Gods eyes as a person. And I'm glad that you ou realized that ❤❤. Congratualtions.❤
We can understand you very well...do not change... We all appreciate your efforts in giving information from your years of study...it is hard on our part to change habits...but we can all learn...
I have been watching Alex's videos for a while, trying to get some insight on how men think. But this video right here, was very powerful! I will definitely keep all of this advice in mind. Merci beaucoup Alex!
From my experience ..I was engaged to him for 2 years ..he used silent treatment all the time even if I tell a joke and he get it wrong he hangout the phone in my face and go silent Later I found out he is narcissist and abuser . I left him.. I didn't get the respect when I was with him To show him that you are willing to leave ..he will respect you .now he will respect me when I'm not with him
Always be willing to walk. And let him know firmly and calmly that you aren’t afraid to hang up the phone or say I don’t want to talk to you right now. When you lose the fear of SHOWING YOUR FEELINGS, they either step up or walk away. Either way, you solved your problem.
Thank you Alex and don't worry about your accent- so cute! Such a nice advice always. Short but on point. Hello from London from a lady with a Polish accent 😜
Yes we first respect our self the first.. And control is the only way to make it good... I'm too calm to heard your voice.. I learn more about you. It's so amazing.. Thanks for this.. ❤️🙏
05:56 - and all my life, I thought if I give, give, give, some sweet, kind soul would see that and give, give, give in return. IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY! I met a sweet guy, and he's become TOXIC and taken me for granted, because I did SO much for him! What a stupid mistake. It's time I start taking and being a bit more selfish, lol. Now that he's gone, finally all my money and energy is going on ME! I truly realise now, that a man can NEVER taken the #1 place in my life. For me #1 is my Higher Power/God, 2 is me, 3 is my goals/passions/hobbies/dreams....then the man! and maybe after my friends! ha! :)
To be respected, you must respect yourself first. Have a courage to walk away from people who belittles you.
Noooo, totally wrong. It means your are selfish stupid dumb and maybe they are right.
👏🏻
@@keepcreationprocess 🙄
1. Share everything that is wrong
2. Self-Confidence and charisma, have your own life , don’t seek validation, TRUST it’s there
3.When a man feels he has too much or ALL the power in a relationship, they will become negative, difficult and toxic. So know you’re boundaries and don’t give TOO MUCH or he won’t know how to receive.
Even nice guys will take advantage when he picks up on a lack of self confidence
tysm
Agree. And it’s both genders who do too. We just have to do it in our own energy we identify as
#3 is sooo true !
Don't give him any power. He will abuse it and mistreat you.
Watch also the way you interact with him. Don't show signs of fear and insecurity. He will use it against you.
Sadly, I have a feeling you may be right
I appreciate your comment. I needed the reminder about the insecurity part.
He should fear you...fear losing you. 😉
Absolutely!!!
Indeed..agree!!
How to make him respect you? By Respecting yourself! Knowing your happiness is important.
Madam please do yr video
I love this video I give it a hundred percent
I agree with you
Very great thought
Yes
Make him respect you:
1. Say what you want. Especially when he’s doing something wrong. Set boundaries.
2. Have self-confidence and charisma. Have your own life and don’t seek validation.
3. When a man has power he’ll be negative & do things wrong. Giving too much leads to problems & lack of respect.
Thank you for your advice and video!
💯💯
Facts
Parents please raise the boys properly.
Well said
And the girls don’t forget about the girls
Yes. Correct
I am with all my best I am raising a trustworthy, honest, respectful, well-mannered, loyal, loving and worthy lil' gentleman.
😅😅😅😅😅lol this is awesome
It all comes down so naturally. Once you start respecting yourself things will fall into place eventually no matter if you're gonna end up with that person or not. Alex is, as usual, on point. Such a charismatic and grounded man.
It looks like this coach has a sister or two because the way he spoke reminded me of the way my brother talks after we have a fight. It is a warm-hearted advice and I really appreciate this!
Aww yes. I often do wonder how the hell he's learned all of this! Wish more guys knew all this
We are his sisters he advice us 🥰
My relationship is just 2 weeks old and I've started seeking validation...so, I just wanna thank you for correcting me at this early stage. I appreciate!!!
I have learnt alot from you dear, your lectures are marvelous.Olivia.thanks alot .
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
Excellent video; so right Alex.. 🌹
Thank you so much for watching!
Boundaries, self confidence, and power imbalance! Thank you 😊
Alex, DON'T EVER LOSE YOUR ACCENT! YOUR ACCENT THE WAY IT IS, IS PERFECT . IT'S WHY I LISTEN TO ONLY YOU; BESIDES, YOU'RE THE ONLY COACH WITH TRUE COMMON SENSE---U KNOW THE FEMALE MIND AND EMOTIONS BETTER THAN ALL THE OTHER COACHES. LEAVE YOUR ACCENT ALONE. THERE'S IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.🥰
This works with relationships with other women as friends. Nothing invites disrespect like the lack of boundaries and need for validation.
This man speaks so much sense
I love the accent! I understand perfectly.
Thank you so much for watching!
"Men are like kids" ain't that the fckng truth. Shit is exhausting
😂😂😂
Men are like kids... right.
There is a huge impact on the relationship of how good or poorly he was raised as a child,his whole upbringing process+the things that he learnt as an adult determines how he treats you
Alex is right, you have to earn the respect by setting boundaries and not tolerating his nonsense behaviour
BTW Alex, you smile with your mouth,dimples and eyes
Thanks brother
Love ❤️ from India
Your accent is beautiful. Don't apologize for it.
As I guy, I respect these words. This advice is very much on par with reality. All relationships should be 50 50 with equal say. Stay positive ladies! 👌💯
Well said
All relationships should be 100/100 % but none are. DO YOU THINK ?
Are you single? Interested?
Don’t ever work on your French accent Alex! We love it. Thanks for the tips 😌
I have confidence! I can make any man happy! I love me!
I trust you Alex.. 💮
Thank you so much!
Alex,
I love it when you say "Hello ladies!"
You had me at hello!
Kate
wonderful Alex. so useful for me .
Your accent is perfect! Don’t change it. Thank you for sharing ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
😊 thank you
Yes, yes, your accent is sexy 😂
This is what nobody tells you about relationships...its a life thing...I feel this can be applied in almost every aspect of our lives, work, family, friends because its setting your bounderies and limits. And also, if its said in a nice way, you can say everything you feel. Thank you coach Alex!
In a relationship with a man you must be able to say everything you feel. Otherwise, it is never going to last
before we dive in into commitment, let us first build self confidence. To make us able to do things our own. Confidence is something that most of us are lucking. In building real relationship , confidence is like the heart of it . maybe for the body all might work but without confidence its like diving into the sea without water in it. let's love men but let the balance of power control. I got your point , Alex. the problem of having toxic relationships is by not setting boundaries.
Alex thank you for all you teach me , I don't know how to be brave up with the guy am with now ,I like him he's a great guy but I want him to like me more
I love you coach
man is a leader .. women allow them to do whtever just to see his ability to lead or taught their kids .. thankyou
Alex just gives this huge positive vibes to me. I am suffering a lot
Never change your accent!!!
Thank you.
My mom was married to her late husband for 25 years. She always said don’t give them any leeway.
i’ll do this from now on. the guy i’m with is so immature and disrespectful. hes négative all the time,has no respect for me, calls me names , yells at me like i’m a child etc he did that the other day and i haven’t called or texted him since that day he’s been the one reaching out lol next time i talk to him i’ll do exactly as you said and if he doesn’t like it then he can bounce
Let him know that you love who you are than anyone else.he will stop calling you names .he will respect you.
Dump him. Now. Thank me later.
Yes ignore him . Don't put up with his bullshit respect yourself . And because I'm going through the same thing
Alex you are truly the best coach ever.. 🎖️🏆🎯
Thank you so much for your support!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Anytime; you are like family; I have been watching for years now; and the other day my fiance asked me; what I was watching; and didn't want to tell him and I did; and we watched you together; and it was good..
Coach Alex, do NOT apologize for your beautiful and very sexy French accent-I LOVE it! Thank you for pointing out being nurturing and giving are not respected. I have not ever heard any US based dating coaches ever stress this in relationships. However, you are correct and I do have the experience to back you up!
Please, keep telling us the truth!
Everything you said you are right. Fear blocks us from losing the person we care about and tolerating his actions, which we wouldn't otherwise tolerate people who are not so important to us.
Merci 😊
Thank you for your comment!
I trust you
If he's meant to leave he will leave if when you over pamper him.
05:35 - this is one of the most important, valuable things you have taught me. It's proven. So... yes... the answer is self-respect, self-love, being empowered and strong, and not needing the man too much. I've done sooo much work in this area, and I will keep going. My ex tested me yesterday, but I responded well I think, and I'm focusing on myself today and he didn't knock me off. He held so much power in the end, and now finally I have taken it back!!! I will never let that happen again, that's a promise to myself.
Proud of You 💞
I feel so confident when I watch this video.
My favorite teacher, may God continue to bless you more.
Wow, thank you
Your teachings has changed my attitude towards men,I used to cry when I realized that all this year's I didn't respect myself 😔
really really good money power showing him you can just leave anytime you want and showing him you want the good values in life to be taken seriously will make him afraid of losing you
You are so smart.. 😮
Thank you so much for watching!
MY DEARIE 1.. TO ALL Ladies OUT THERE !! SET YOUR Bounderies.
DON'T. LET THEY USE YOUR
BODIES . Show THEM UUURRR
NOT THEIR in THEIR CLASS.
SAY NO!! _&_ LET THEY HAVE
THAT RESPECT 4 UUU..
THANKS 4 SHARING THIS
WONDERFULLY VIDEO. MY
DEARIE. !! 💕 💕
I always feel calm when I hear ur advice.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes, he is right. Most of the time we boost confidence of usual guys just to be nice. Guys do not appreciate nice gesture, but belive they superiority and toxic begin.
Thanks Alex, I just get my power back😉
Nice one Alex! I just shared what I felt and where I felt wronged that as things from past were building up and he said we can never be together and we were never in a relationship. It turned into blame game but am accepting it graciously and I don't regret saying what I did even if it was harsh, he denied everything but its okay. I couldn't have moved forward without it. So I am focusing on my life, watching your video, removing neediness. He said I cannot change but am starting my life with a clean state. :) What he thinks of me is his problem. But I need to take responsibility of my actions and become better version of myself.
you are really sweet and so is your accent .Thanks for your support
if i have to make him respect me, i don't want him.
Exactly.
I agree. Should have been the job of his mother to teach him to respect and selfresponsiblity
If I need to tell him there is something wrong
If you have self respect, you will repel those who won't respect you in the first place.
@@Blondiee777 ✅
Right
I'll tell You Mr. Alex how, speak like a women, act like a man, this strategy works on 100% 👩🏼✈️ Have a nice day! 🌤️
Thanks from sri lanka 🇱🇰 ....
You're so welcome, Thank you for the support.
If there is only one video to insure that you will always have good men valuing you, it is this one!
Thank you so much for your support!
Well for sure I needed this. I give way too much and for what? I’m so mad at myself for letting someone talk down to me just because I wanted to be the good gf. Such a waste but lesson learned.
There are always lessons to learn Molly. This will only make you stronger!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Alex, I love your advice. Yes, it does seem crazy, but I am sure it will work. I have many men coming around me, it is amazing. Younger men as well, 2 of them are about 20 years younger, they approached me at different times and I didn't respond, because they are so young, but have nothing to offer me. Amazingly they keep letting me know they are thinking of me. Luckily, there is another younger man, I see great potential in him, yes a good man. This time in my life, it's like: I awoke from wasting my life in a poisonous marriage, only to find a glorious morning to walk into. I don't want to make any mistakes, the whole world has totally changed and I am alive and vibrant. I am so grateful for your help!!!
You know your value, you can set bounderies and you know that if you give to much you Will not receive, otherwise problems or lack of respect ✨🙌🏻
You are so right ❤ . It's a lot of wisdom you are saying 😊
Very informative video thanks so much
I love how you talk Alex
I just did and it worked. Thank you, sir
I am happy it worked! Thank you Kanjo.
This is so true. Every single word
Hey Alex my regards from India 🙏
Thank you for being here.
Tough love! Every word is gold. I'm cashing in and investing in myself 💕
You got this!
You are very right Alex!
Don't worry about the accent
The knowledge is on point!
Thanks! 😃
Alex am from ethiopia u are so special thank you
Thank you for your support!
Merci Beaucoup Alex!! vous avez raison! quand vous leur donnez tous. Ils arrêtent de te respecter 😣😞
That's my #No.1 Coach. Thanks Alex for the word.
Any time!
Best advice yet! This works. Every time!😁😁
Alex C'EST TA MEILLEURE VIDÉO JUSQU'À DATE!!!!
This has really worked for me after a broken marriage. But still i don't get to love again. Whuuuuu
Best Coach in the world ❤️
True. I was like that from the beginning of my marriage but not after 36"yrs
Yes, the same advice my father gave me.
I love your French accent it suits you don't change it very reassuring and I need that right now
Self respect is most important 💯..thanx Alex for the wonderful vedio..
My pleasure!
Thank you Alex... You play a very important role in my life. I am changing for the better, because of you. 🙏
THANK YOU MY DEAR BRO, FOR TELLING ALL THE LADIES IN THE WORLD WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THE MEN , GOD BLESS YOU ,
Thanks for listening
Everything time I come to Alex’s videos I forgot what am here for to do with men and start enjoying his french accent.
Thank You for your video. I really needed to hear this, you were on point on everything a woman needs to know about appreciated herself and her worth. I always been the type of woman to give to much in the relationship, always let things go.. didn't speak up when something bothered me and the outcome is always a man either disrespecting me or trying to control me because your right, I was always trying to get their validation and all it led up to was letting them control our whole relationship because I was to nice and all they did was take advantage of me. Your video just helped me realize how important I am and your right, I don't need no one's validation to accept me, I have the confidence inside myself to know how much of a good women I am to let any man make me think any less than what I deserve. I really like your video and your accent is really sexy just saying lol. You seem like a real gentleman, wish there was more men out in this world like you💞 Thanks again for the video and your support to help us women respect ourselves and know our worth. I just subscribed can't wait to watch another Video 😊
Yes you really are a very important woman. You are worth a lot in . Gods eyes as a person. And I'm glad that you ou realized that ❤❤. Congratualtions.❤
We can understand you very well...do not change... We all appreciate your efforts in giving information from your years of study...it is hard on our part to change habits...but we can all learn...
I have been watching Alex's videos for a while, trying to get some insight on how men think. But this video right here, was very powerful! I will definitely keep all of this advice in mind. Merci beaucoup Alex!
Welcome aboard!
From my experience ..I was engaged to him for 2 years ..he used silent treatment all the time even if I tell a joke and he get it wrong he hangout the phone in my face and go silent
Later I found out he is narcissist and abuser .
I left him..
I didn't get the respect when I was with him
To show him that you are willing to leave ..he will respect you .now he will respect me when I'm not with him
God bless you for me, you are saving some toxic relationship with your videos, thank you so much this really helps me ✍️ alot
Always be willing to walk. And let him know firmly and calmly that you aren’t afraid to hang up the phone or say I don’t want to talk to you right now. When you lose the fear of SHOWING YOUR FEELINGS, they either step up or walk away. Either way, you solved your problem.
Thank you Alex and don't worry about your accent- so cute! Such a nice advice always. Short but on point. Hello from London from a lady with a Polish accent 😜
You are so welcome!
Yes we first respect our self the first.. And control is the only way to make it good... I'm too calm to heard your voice.. I learn more about you. It's so amazing.. Thanks for this.. ❤️🙏
I appreciate that
Finally a man with some sense.
Take my money lol😆🤣
I'm loving this guy 😍
Thanks Alex and God bless you.
Same to you and your loved ones!
The best advicer ever
My soul us st ease after listening to this voice .. 👌👌
05:56 - and all my life, I thought if I give, give, give, some sweet, kind soul would see that and give, give, give in return. IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY! I met a sweet guy, and he's become TOXIC and taken me for granted, because I did SO much for him! What a stupid mistake. It's time I start taking and being a bit more selfish, lol. Now that he's gone, finally all my money and energy is going on ME! I truly realise now, that a man can NEVER taken the #1 place in my life. For me #1 is my Higher Power/God, 2 is me, 3 is my goals/passions/hobbies/dreams....then the man! and maybe after my friends! ha! :)
Your very smart keep it up congratualTions. You are a very wise person😊
You really a good teacher lfeel go when l listen to the teaching
No don't change your accent - I quite like it, it's 🔥🤫🤭
WIth 💕💕 from Kenya am understanding now how to stand for myself. Thanks for advice.
You are so welcome
The last point is very perfect.
Thank you, I love your French accent 😊
Thank you! 😃
Thanks good advice it make me such calm this video every time I watch.
Just wanna say tnx Alex for your video... It was really like magic.. He is now chasing me back.. When I did not make myself available for him😉😉
Great job!
Thank you Alex this vedio really mean lot to me
merci beaucoup pour tes conseils Alex. xxx
Hello, my name is Jasna and I live in Zagreb, I must say - your tips are great. Thank you very much, bye
You are so welcome!