I would suggest Ta Mzu starts wearing his wedding band because njeba nisibuza icrush zethu sizothi nguye 😂😂 Great video as always siblings, your laughing is contagious 🫶🏽 I had a crush in varsity, 10 years later we still get along. I got tired of just chilling with him & I told him we should cut our losses because he had someone else & I wasn’t about to disclose the feelings I had for him. We got into contact again about 2/3 years ago but sibadala ngoku 😂😂😂
Iphi sana lo wedding 😭😭😭 sbwl wedding band… thank you for the love mntase. Uthini na ngoku yavulwa yavalwa incwadi ingeka Fundwa… oh hayi sisono kodwa 😭😂
Just recently discovered your guys’ podcast and I’m absolutely loving it. Your laughter is contagious. 🤣 Shame, I’m that 1% with a successful story from their crush. I was crushing on this gent for months on end, always imagined us happily ever after. 😭 ndazincama ndathi zwabha kwi DMs kanti naye uzibonile mna. And now we’ve been together for 2,5 years. Super chuffed about this relationship. 😅
Wow! An actually success story 🥳🥳🥳 this is great to hear , it’s always good to hear a love story with a happy ending , thanks for sharing - wishing you 2 everything of the best ke ! So glad to be discovered by you 🫶🏾
@Talitha back in the day I likened myself as a future filmmaker, until I saw how hard and cruel your industry can be. The money issue can never be disclosed in your industry, that will just shutdown too many production companies. @Zuko, I am not saying you have the face for radio, but I can certainly listen to you on a driveshow or even morning show.
Mnk...Zuko's second point...I once gave somebody a chance after he was consistently pursuing me for 9 years, wandenza iquza in the first month of dating 😂😂😂😭
Oh niyabona le ye salaries that are not revealed until I have jumped through the fire hoop. walk up the mountain and swimming through an alligator-infested river is REALLY upsetting. That time I had to shuffle my entire day to take those gazillion assessments. Also what is up with that!? Zayaphi eza company that do just one interview?? Ingaske bandithembe man! 😭😭
Just hang out more often Thalita, the more you hang out your feelings will reveal themselves. Either you’re gonna grow closer together or you’re gonna decide to remain friends
I’m listening this for the first time after seeing a video on TikTok. It’s funny cos I went to interview this week that went so well and i got an offer , yhuuu I was so disappointed and turned it down. It was my dream job but was paying way less than what I am getting. Which relates to the topic ye-crush. Sometimes you have to let it pass. Uxole that it will never be.
😂Ndiyasicela istulo. Enkosini ngezibele kulomzi. Kumnandi apha❤ Though I'm watching from my small box, but Sana it feels like those family conversations. Ndizibhaqa ndihleka along nan😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wee I once achieved my crush, all I can say is that there we could've just stayed strangers the was no point in us meeting... That's how I learnt ba icrush uyayi window shopper suthenga bra.
HR doesn't determine salaries, heads of departments make the suggestion but the financial head will have the final say to approve. In my industry, it's really about how much they like you. Your contribution to the company iza mva. The more they like you, the more they will motivate for those extra zeros
I wish YT had a vn option😭😭😭 I'm with Zuko on this one, keep a safe following distance from a crush, it's always disappointing when you find out they are human 😵💫 This guy will do a proper 180 on you. His nice now because he's not your man. It's always the nice guys (speaking from experience 😭) Myeke nono
Disclosing that you’re going to interviews is fine and we must also be open to the employer interviewing other candidates whilst you’re there, now that they know you’re planning to leave.
I always suppress the feeling xa ndine crush cause ndine gwababa I don't even tell my friends ngoku ndisene crush ndibaxelela xaziphelile eza feelings ba yoh ndandine crush. We'll laugh about it
I have a crush on someone and it's her birthday on the 3rd Set next month and Bra Zuko said that u don't actually achieve yr crush and sendi thenge nalo Gift how do solve that my Siblings...🤦🏾♂️🤧😅😪
But then if you date someone you have known for a long time and was friends with them before you dated, things could still end badly because we experience people differently. Like me as a friend and me as a gf are different somewhat. Also as my friend I do not have to be attracted to you, now uyandiplita ufuna ndikujonge ngamehlo othando. What if that romantic attraction is not there. Also why uzondijonga undibone ba uyandithanda kodwa we were friends for years before that?? Kuske kwathini? Nam kengoku mandingene kwi gear le okuyo, njani na my f? 🤣 Yeka umfana/intombi idlule, eyakho iyeza 🤣
Nah you can't come sowusithi you are going for an interview. You need to address your grievances before you even apply for another job and if no one listens then you bounce or start looking.
I think I’ve been “achieved” and it wasn’t the best. Soze ndiphinde. I finally decided to give someone a chance after a whiiiiiiile and when we got together, it was the worst cause he let me get away with everything so much so I started walking all over him 😭 Not to sound like that person, but a yes man is the biggest turn off 😒 wayengena opinion. If ndithanda vanilla ice cream, naye uthanda i vanilla. If ndimamele uTems, gqi ngaye semanela uTems 🙄🙄🙄
I would suggest Ta Mzu starts wearing his wedding band because njeba nisibuza icrush zethu sizothi nguye 😂😂 Great video as always siblings, your laughing is contagious 🫶🏽 I had a crush in varsity, 10 years later we still get along. I got tired of just chilling with him & I told him we should cut our losses because he had someone else & I wasn’t about to disclose the feelings I had for him. We got into contact again about 2/3 years ago but sibadala ngoku 😂😂😂
Iphi sana lo wedding 😭😭😭 sbwl wedding band… thank you for the love mntase.
Uthini na ngoku yavulwa yavalwa incwadi ingeka Fundwa… oh hayi sisono kodwa 😭😂
I love these conversations! I always look forward to each episode. Y'alls are hilarious.😂
I had a huge crush at work. Turns out he has two wives. Zaphela same times ifeelings🤣🤣🤣
Asoooooooooze! 😂😂😂😂 what!!! This is wild 💔💔💔
Just recently discovered your guys’ podcast and I’m absolutely loving it. Your laughter is contagious. 🤣
Shame, I’m that 1% with a successful story from their crush. I was crushing on this gent for months on end, always imagined us happily ever after. 😭 ndazincama ndathi zwabha kwi DMs kanti naye uzibonile mna. And now we’ve been together for 2,5 years. Super chuffed about this relationship. 😅
Wow! An actually success story 🥳🥳🥳 this is great to hear , it’s always good to hear a love story with a happy ending , thanks for sharing - wishing you 2 everything of the best ke !
So glad to be discovered by you 🫶🏾
@Talitha back in the day I likened myself as a future filmmaker, until I saw how hard and cruel your industry can be. The money issue can never be disclosed in your industry, that will just shutdown too many production companies. @Zuko, I am not saying you have the face for radio, but I can certainly listen to you on a driveshow or even morning show.
Rose coloured glasses as it pertains to crushes has rocked my life. Worse with my commitment issues
What does it sound like nguwe orongo? Wouldn’t that count then as wasting a crush?
Mnk...Zuko's second point...I once gave somebody a chance after he was consistently pursuing me for 9 years, wandenza iquza in the first month of dating 😂😂😂😭
Hayi! Zange alinde ne 1 year anniversary 😭😭😭 hayi ufuna street committee lowo ngekhe!
Not rhali rhali 😂😂, love to see the growth fam 🫶🏿.
🫶🏾 thank you AK 💐
Oh niyabona le ye salaries that are not revealed until I have jumped through the fire hoop. walk up the mountain and swimming through an alligator-infested river is REALLY upsetting. That time I had to shuffle my entire day to take those gazillion assessments. Also what is up with that!? Zayaphi eza company that do just one interview?? Ingaske bandithembe man! 😭😭
Just hang out more often Thalita, the more you hang out your feelings will reveal themselves. Either you’re gonna grow closer together or you’re gonna decide to remain friends
What a cool podcast love it guyz❤❤
Thank you for the love MaYozza 🫶🏾
I’m listening this for the first time after seeing a video on TikTok. It’s funny cos I went to interview this week that went so well and i got an offer , yhuuu I was so disappointed and turned it down. It was my dream job but was paying way less than what I am getting. Which relates to the topic ye-crush. Sometimes you have to let it pass. Uxole that it will never be.
IsiXhosa sikaZuko 🤣🤣🤣”Mambe ngobhongwana”
😂😂😂 deep Xhosa that one 😂😂😂
Ndimtsha kraca apha and ndiyahlala! Ndinithanda ngam ndonke❤❤😂😅😊😅😅❤❤
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 masikutsalele istulo ke noyno 🫶🏾 thank you for the love
😂Ndiyasicela istulo. Enkosini ngezibele kulomzi. Kumnandi apha❤
Though I'm watching from my small box, but Sana it feels like those family conversations. Ndizibhaqa ndihleka along nan😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wee I once achieved my crush, all I can say is that there we could've just stayed strangers the was no point in us meeting... That's how I learnt ba icrush uyayi window shopper suthenga bra.
😂😂😂 oh yhini man madoda … love that, I rush is for window shopping - sungena uyothenga ! 🫶🏾
HR doesn't determine salaries, heads of departments make the suggestion but the financial head will have the final say to approve. In my industry, it's really about how much they like you. Your contribution to the company iza mva. The more they like you, the more they will motivate for those extra zeros
Yho but asiyelanga uthanda njena guys - siyele uyosebenza… hayi le secrecy iyasibetha straight kodwa
Thalita your nails just reminded me me ubuphara bam 😂😭 that color suits you 🔥❤️
Thank you mama! 🫶🏾
😂😂😂😂Vele ubabize ngeenzwakazi 😅😅😅😅😅ngoba ke akafuni kuba li lady
Sounds about right ! 😂😂😂
I meant to say owe, not own😂😂😂
Thank you for making me famous😅😅😅😅
All love!
I wish YT had a vn option😭😭😭
I'm with Zuko on this one, keep a safe following distance from a crush, it's always disappointing when you find out they are human 😵💫 This guy will do a proper 180 on you. His nice now because he's not your man. It's always the nice guys (speaking from experience 😭) Myeke nono
Yiyeke ilale…
Hehe ewe they need to get with the program nhyani kulate ngoku😂
Nzonzobila. 😂 . Sicela djani dictionary
That will be a 3 hour episode hahaha
Disclosing that you’re going to interviews is fine and we must also be open to the employer interviewing other candidates whilst you’re there, now that they know you’re planning to leave.
Dibanisa neCCMA lo employer! How can 😭😭😭
Just subscribed 🤭
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Ey ey Talitha uyicrush yam ke wena. Purely because uthetha kamandi, umhle and ungumXhosa. 😅
Crush yam nguZuko as of today. What do I do now? 😭
Crush ayi-achievwa guys heheh … window shopping allowed 💐
@@siblingthrivalry I’ve already told my mom. No going back now.
😂😂😂😂@@RichmondSajini
Don't date someone who's wanted you forever. You're only an achievement at that point and they'll discard you
Big facts! But why on earth does it happen that way… people are how kanti?
Mna Tali ndithi umntu makazame uAchieva bethuna coz what if iCrush yakho nayo ineCrush kuwe...😂😂
I worry yethu is that akho nomntu oyi one obalisa a good experience? 😭 but ithetha ngathi unayo wena… iza nazo 🥹
I always suppress the feeling xa ndine crush cause ndine gwababa I don't even tell my friends ngoku ndisene crush ndibaxelela xaziphelile eza feelings ba yoh ndandine crush. We'll laugh about it
And ke what do you lose from doing it that way? Nothing! Ayisemaaandi
Looking for Xolani's comment😂😂
And ke soze ungayifumani- ikhona yona hehe
😭 Asked my high best friend to be my friend in grade 8... I was a newbie & they all came from the same primary school kwakudingeka isurvival strategy😅
Talitha: no what is that? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Imagine being called " lantana" yhooo I'll take iladu anytime😭
Ayikho bad lento yobulady nhyani heheh 😂🫶🏾
achieving i crush is always a bad idea😭🤚🏾, uyawkhala ngebhadi Sana
Uzakuthi ngumama wase next door kanti nguwe orongo 😂😂😂😭
I have a crush on someone and it's her birthday on the 3rd Set next month and Bra Zuko said that u don't actually achieve yr crush and sendi thenge nalo Gift how do solve that my Siblings...🤦🏾♂️🤧😅😪
Yoh ha.a Sana icrush is just lack on information 😭
😂😂😂 so true!
But then if you date someone you have known for a long time and was friends with them before you dated, things could still end badly because we experience people differently. Like me as a friend and me as a gf are different somewhat. Also as my friend I do not have to be attracted to you, now uyandiplita ufuna ndikujonge ngamehlo othando. What if that romantic attraction is not there. Also why uzondijonga undibone ba uyandithanda kodwa we were friends for years before that?? Kuske kwathini? Nam kengoku mandingene kwi gear le okuyo, njani na my f? 🤣 Yeka umfana/intombi idlule, eyakho iyeza 🤣
16:28 Thalitha is like me, her story telling 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤦🏿♂️👎
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mention i crush kwi comments, yhuuuu😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
My best friend said hi you have beautiful hair we should be friends and 16 years later we are still friends
Siyamthanda ke lo BFF . What a beautiful story 🤗
Siyamthanda ke lo BFF . What a beautiful story 🤗
Nah you can't come sowusithi you are going for an interview. You need to address your grievances before you even apply for another job and if no one listens then you bounce or start looking.
...what happens if you bounce and then you struggle to find a job? 💀
@@kellymanamela by bouncing I don't mean just leave without a job lol. We still live in SA.
I think I’ve been “achieved” and it wasn’t the best. Soze ndiphinde. I finally decided to give someone a chance after a whiiiiiiile and when we got together, it was the worst cause he let me get away with everything so much so I started walking all over him 😭 Not to sound like that person, but a yes man is the biggest turn off 😒 wayengena opinion. If ndithanda vanilla ice cream, naye uthanda i vanilla. If ndimamele uTems, gqi ngaye semanela uTems 🙄🙄🙄