Eh. None of this came off as anything other than dumb sit com stuff. Wish he would take. Serious role once in his career, if he’s still around. He was a big “what if” in hollywood
@@ENikolaev he actually did. He was in Flight Of The Intruder, but when they showed him in screen, the crowd laughed the whole time. That's why you see Fred Dalton Thompson on the screen. He's done other roles. It's just that nobody has seen them.
My father passed away in January 7th 2022.. like he says, the guy was my whole world. I never wanted to live with my mother so I lived with him ever since they split up. I'm 21 years old. Not a kid anymore but still young to lose a parent that you love more than yourself. Never got to say goodbye. What I regret the most is that I never told him how much I love him. Well, love you dad.
Bro I’m sorry. I’m 19 not too much younger and if I lost my father I would kill me man. Your gonna get stronger. You loved him and he loved you hope life’s treating you good
Man there should be a group for people who lost their dad in their early 20s and loved them. Your story and many more stories make me feel we are not alone
When my step grandfather passed away I didn’t cry at his funeral, but when we got back home I broke down crying,he was my best friend and I didn’t walk up to his casket and see his face one last time. It hurts me that I didn’t shed a tear when he passed away and this was about 8 years ago
This has got to be some of the best acting by Ed O'Neill you can feel the compassion you can feel the pain you can feel everything but he's so underrated a very very great actor they'll never be another one like him God bless him and his family
Very close to my father-in-law. At his funeral, I didn’t cry for him because we had an understanding of our love for one another. What made me cry was seeing my wife cry for her father. That hurt.
It took me 8 years to cry over my baby brothers death… it doesn’t mean you don’t love them, it just means you never wanted to accept the loss and loved them so much.
Remember all. Crying isnt weakness. Its showing you have the strength to push through anything. You believe in yourself you do it. You think you made something awesome but someone says its not who cares.
I pretty much never cry when bad things happen, maybe I haven't had bad enough things lately. But I remember long ago I could cry, even for a short time, and that would really help me move on and think clearly! Like it releases positve emotions, somehow. Funny thing is nowadays I can tear up when I hear touching success stories or go through them myself, and it's the same warm-inside feeling that I get long ago crying to adversity. I'm thinking this mysterious mechanism isn't all that strange if somebody figures it out.
@@rubenpartono I agree somewhat. I used to be depressed, went to therapy and it helped. After therapy it felt hard to cry, almost felt empty or emotionless. Not a super strong feeling of either, but I could notice a negative
Crying is a human emotional response, same as laughter. If it wasn't supposed to happen it wouldn't . Anyone ashamed of it has deeper issues than being able to shed a tear
"Feelings?" That one line delivered with so much emotion, truly broken, and the chuckle after says it as well. Amazing cast behind these characters. Some of my favorite scenes come from this show🎉
It's amazing how a show, an actor or a musician, or a songwriter or a poet can say or write something that really hits the nail on the head. Perfectly. Where we couldn't find the words, sometimes.
I am a 33y old man and i started crying for the first time in 15years after that speech hit me out of nowhere. Whoever wrode that scene did it out of his own Life. And ed o'neil did not played a role there. You feel that he can relate. I jist tried to watch a series and they hit me with something like that.
Well my dad passed away recently and this is how i feel right now and always will..!! RIP DAD .. Love you always.!! Edit : I miss him a lot ! Never had a chance to make him happy! And i regret it not being with him for more than 8 years because i was studying abroad!
This guy is a powerful individual he is like third degree black belt in karate so many accomplishments in his life as an actor as a producer he is amazing when you break his history down
"The guy was my whole world" probably the most beautiful thing to say to a loved one. Better make sure we say it before they're gone... Ps: anybody knows the song?
At the age of 40 I bit the bullet. One of the hardest things I've ever done but one of the simplest. I announced, at Sunday dinner, just how truly i loved my dad. I told him that if I was any good as a man it was because he was my hero and I tried to emulate him. My morals, ethics, everything. I needed him to know that before I'm saying it over a coffin when he can't hear it. The smile on his face was worth far more than the fear I would be embarrassed In saying it. TELL THEM, it's one less regret when they are gone.❤️
My granddad was my father figure. He meant the world to me. I saw him three weeks before he passed away. I always felt like he was waiting to see me one more time. I couldn't go to his funeral, but when he passed away, I had a bottle of tequila, did a shot, and another and another. The next thing I knew, the bottle was empty. I cried and shed tears in private, and the next day, I acted as if nothing had happened. I can hear his voice, and I wish I can call him one more time.
Those who grew up with a strict dad who believed that feelings are just nothing unless you let them be something but if you do let them be something, you loose yourself and you drown. They take you down with them. My dad always told me that. Luckily I still have him in my life but I remember growing up he wanted me to always be tough. He said one day he wouldn’t be around and then what the fuck was I going to do? Stop living…
My brother's dad just died. I feel so terrible for my brother. His dad didn't show much love. His dad even visited from out of state and didn't even call my brother or visit him. I pray for my brothers heart. Join me please.
I'm sure he was doing what he had to do to support you guys. Putting all the pain aside, all that time without you guys to keep pushing, using that pain to keep going. Endure. I hope that one day there is no hate from my daughter when she's old enough to understand the human condition. Stay strong dads. Someone is counting on us, always. Keep fighting, every second of everyday. Carry that on
@@okayokay279 Not necessarily…. My younger brother has a different mom then me & my oldest sister has a different dad then I do. There is such thing as half siblings.
Same deal I played the last down to win our state championship with a dislocated shoulder, an no one gave a shhhtt… the 90’s were sooo epic. I did not cry, I did not bitch, I just wanted to win!!
That’s pretty much how we all grew up. I remember getting a hockey stick on a follow though right in the groin, was rolling on the ice. I think I was 9, my dad in the stands, get up whimp!! I decided in my 30s that it was up to me to show love and forgive him. He was a lifelong military guy, would give you the shirt off his back but never good with emotions. You can either love people for who they are or resent them your whole life. I choose to love him for all the good stuff and tell him I love him. He knows I do even if he doesn’t tell me. I make a point of telling my son
@glancegha It’s hard to love someone who never showed it through actions. I don’t get the tough love thing. Sometimes you don’t want to hate em but you never received the love to give it back.
@@AakarshDarla it all depends on how much you value that person. Personally, my father was always there if/when I needed him. Yes lots of what was tough LOVE, but it was LOVE. We can either accept people for who they are or we can try (many times in vane) to change them. No way, I’m changing my dad. I’d rather have my dad in my life than not. No one is perfect, but I know he did his best or I just accept him for him.
@@glancegha1733 I only remember the physical and mental abuse even though he did care for me. I want to love him, but it isn’t natural. He was bad to mother too. And that took away the spirit of a happy family. Despite all the troubles he took for us the negatives stick out. We don’t live together. I visited him for his back issue a week back and since he could manage I returned after the courtesy visit even though he wanted me to stay. It’s conflicting and I want to do things my way not be pressured into doing things because of his approval. So I guess the basis of relationship with him is more of an obligation than love.
I was raised to just handle your business like a man. Showing emotion was giving in to weakness. By being a man you are supposed to be the rock for your family to lean on in their time of need and bury your pain within so you can comfort them in theirs. That’s how my father raised me to be. However sometimes I just need an outlet to let it all go though. It gets difficult at times but I manage.
Telling someone you love them is just window dressing. Tough love isn't always pretty but it comes from a place of love and prepares us for how shitty life can be but it teaches us the strength to persevere
No it means actions and words are BOTH important. His dad died and he doesn't know whether his dad loved him or whether his dad understood that his son loved him. If you say it, show it as well. If you show, reinforce with saying it. Refusing to "acknowledge" loving your father/son causes unnecessary trauma. Your children should know they are loved. Sucking up pain is not dealing with it.
@@philwill0123 There are different personality types and some types will not vocalize. No amount of moralizing will change that. Nobody is going to conform who doesn’t want to conform unless there is some kind of threat involved and threats are the sine qua non of TuffLoveTM.
It was a tough world he grew up in. It was essential to b tough for survival. If u can’t b compassionate towards that, then u don’t know the first thing about it. U don’t get to demand it.
My dad never really wanted to be around. He only wanted to be financial support nothing else, told me he never wanted to be part of my life and never wanted me. Overtime I wish I had a father figure to look up to or to actually think of my dad or feel comfortable calling them that. Even though there have been people in my life I have thought of as idols, sometimes I wish one of them could have been my dad or been someone to think of me as a son.
Well if you growing up in Gen Z and your father raised you that way, you are already better off than like 90% of Gen z'ers, so many of them are unbelievably weak, snowflakes, gets offended super easily.
We share a silent tear in private. We do not get the luxury of tears. We do not get the luxury of weakness. For we are the pillar that holds everyone else together.
Shit I still talk to my old man when I go to see my mom and hes been gone since last year. I told him one time that I can remember that I loved him and that was when my first kid was born. We didnt need to say it back and forth and it worked for us.
Of course he knew. youre supposed to be the only one who has their shit together at his funeral. Its called control over your emotions. Sometimes it can be unhealthy but thats not control thats dominance over your emotions. You dont want to be a mess, thats thats the person you always had to fall back on when things went bad. Now its all on you, time to finally be an adult and accept the weight your father carried for you. Thats being a good man
I know what he's saying, got a dad like this. I'd stop bullet for my old man now. Fucker would do the same if he knew I was in trouble. They get softer as they get older and understand when we got hurt, and that's why he had a damn good life. Tough love ❤️
This is my dad, and I love him for it. Our kids yoday are so soft. If someone hurts their feelings they fall apart. I'm not saying we can't have emotions, I'm just saying we can't let other control our lives by their words or actions.
My dad left when I was 4 he left me a small car I still carry with me I've done so much wrong in my life I want to change but I always end up saying to myself it's to late.....I wonder what would've been if he was here.......
Wow Ed O’Neil is a seriously underrated actor.
Absolutely!! It’s mostly all about aesthetics in this culture. The real gems go undiscovered. Which is a loss for everyone.
Yale Drama grad.
@@PaulJohnson-vn7eh His bio says Youngstown State University. Not sure it matters though.
Eh. None of this came off as anything other than dumb sit com stuff. Wish he would take. Serious role once in his career, if he’s still around. He was a big “what if” in hollywood
@@ENikolaev he actually did. He was in Flight Of The Intruder, but when they showed him in screen, the crowd laughed the whole time. That's why you see Fred Dalton Thompson on the screen. He's done other roles. It's just that nobody has seen them.
“He had to know, right?” Is the most powerful and emotional part of that whole speech. 😢
Its nice to hear it though.
Yes it is
No it was the part where I stopped listening.
@@justcausee relly
The thing is right there- unresolved issues. I'd say go to grave and allow yourself to cry...
He was doing at that funeral what his dad would've wanted. He did love him... The way his father would've wanted him to.
This man is a phenomenal actor.
My father passed away in January 7th 2022.. like he says, the guy was my whole world. I never wanted to live with my mother so I lived with him ever since they split up. I'm 21 years old. Not a kid anymore but still young to lose a parent that you love more than yourself. Never got to say goodbye. What I regret the most is that I never told him how much I love him. Well, love you dad.
Bro I’m sorry. I’m 19 not too much younger and if I lost my father I would kill me man. Your gonna get stronger. You loved him and he loved you hope life’s treating you good
Man there should be a group for people who lost their dad in their early 20s and loved them. Your story and many more stories make me feel we are not alone
Rest in peace❤❤, god bless❤❤
“I didn’t even cry at his funeral” That hurt 💔😭
When my step grandfather passed away I didn’t cry at his funeral, but when we got back home I broke down crying,he was my best friend and I didn’t walk up to his casket and see his face one last time.
It hurts me that I didn’t shed a tear when he passed away and this was about 8 years ago
And yet he still scored 4 touchdowns in that game.
It was the greatest day in everybodys lifes.
Al "Icky" Bundy ,the G.O A.T.
This has got to be some of the best acting by Ed O'Neill you can feel the compassion you can feel the pain you can feel everything but he's so underrated a very very great actor they'll never be another one like him God bless him and his family
Very close to my father-in-law. At his funeral, I didn’t cry for him because we had an understanding of our love for one another. What made me cry was seeing my wife cry for her father. That hurt.
Cameron looking like he very much understands that football story…
Rip dad , may Allah have mercy on him .
اللهم ارحم والدي و اغفر له
Aamiin
Ameen
It took me 8 years to cry over my baby brothers death… it doesn’t mean you don’t love them, it just means you never wanted to accept the loss and loved them so much.
Remember all. Crying isnt weakness. Its showing you have the strength to push through anything. You believe in yourself you do it. You think you made something awesome but someone says its not who cares.
its okay its means were tough,,whats important is were stronger now,,never settle to sad feelings,,
Does it really though? I’ve always heard that saying, but you just end up back in the same headspace crying and whatever
I pretty much never cry when bad things happen, maybe I haven't had bad enough things lately. But I remember long ago I could cry, even for a short time, and that would really help me move on and think clearly! Like it releases positve emotions, somehow. Funny thing is nowadays I can tear up when I hear touching success stories or go through them myself, and it's the same warm-inside feeling that I get long ago crying to adversity. I'm thinking this mysterious mechanism isn't all that strange if somebody figures it out.
@@rubenpartono I agree somewhat. I used to be depressed, went to therapy and it helped. After therapy it felt hard to cry, almost felt empty or emotionless. Not a super strong feeling of either, but I could notice a negative
Crying is a human emotional response, same as laughter. If it wasn't supposed to happen it wouldn't . Anyone ashamed of it has deeper issues than being able to shed a tear
The last line is meant to destroy whoever’s watching.
"Feelings?"
That one line delivered with so much emotion, truly broken, and the chuckle after says it as well. Amazing cast behind these characters. Some of my favorite scenes come from this show🎉
He knew, Jay. He knew.
It's amazing how a show, an actor or a musician, or a songwriter or a poet can say or write something that really hits the nail on the head. Perfectly. Where we couldn't find the words, sometimes.
I guess that was a different match to the one when he scored 4 touchdowns?!
Damn, Ed O’Neil putting on a masterclass.
I am a 33y old man and i started crying for the first time in 15years after that speech hit me out of nowhere. Whoever wrode that scene did it out of his own Life. And ed o'neil did not played a role there. You feel that he can relate. I jist tried to watch a series and they hit me with something like that.
Well my dad passed away recently and this is how i feel right now and always will..!! RIP DAD .. Love you always.!!
Edit : I miss him a lot ! Never had a chance to make him happy! And i regret it not being with him for more than 8 years because i was studying abroad!
Dw bro he knew. I promise you he knew. They always know. Old men understand young men bro dw.
The "he had to know right?" Hurts
This guy is a powerful individual he is like third degree black belt in karate so many accomplishments in his life as an actor as a producer he is amazing when you break his history down
They know...........
RIP to the ones we love who we couldnt say good bye to.
Still best to show em and tell em.
Jay showing his emotional side was too much for ❤😢
"The guy was my whole world" probably the most beautiful thing to say to a loved one. Better make sure we say it before they're gone...
Ps: anybody knows the song?
Ed O'Neil is awesome, Al Bundy, Kevin O'shea, Jay Prichard
Didn’t feel anything throughout the entire clip, until his last sentence.
Right? Shit hits home for a lot of men
I never heard my pops tell me I love you son. It took Dementia to finally hear my pops tell me I love you son😔
Fuck this gets me every time 💯😢💔
Damm that was emotional!!
At the age of 40 I bit the bullet. One of the hardest things I've ever done but one of the simplest. I announced, at Sunday dinner, just how truly i loved my dad. I told him that if I was any good as a man it was because he was my hero and I tried to emulate him. My morals, ethics, everything. I needed him to know that before I'm saying it over a coffin when he can't hear it. The smile on his face was worth far more than the fear I would be embarrassed In saying it.
TELL THEM, it's one less regret when they are gone.❤️
When Ed hits these serious moments it gets your attention! Such a good actor.
My granddad was my father figure. He meant the world to me. I saw him three weeks before he passed away. I always felt like he was waiting to see me one more time. I couldn't go to his funeral, but when he passed away, I had a bottle of tequila, did a shot, and another and another. The next thing I knew, the bottle was empty. I cried and shed tears in private, and the next day, I acted as if nothing had happened. I can hear his voice, and I wish I can call him one more time.
The takeaway? Dad was at the football games. Dad was up with him at 2 am. Sounds like a dang good Dad to me.
Those who grew up with a strict dad who believed that feelings are just nothing unless you let them be something but if you do let them be something, you loose yourself and you drown. They take you down with them. My dad always told me that. Luckily I still have him in my life but I remember growing up he wanted me to always be tough. He said one day he wouldn’t be around and then what the fuck was I going to do? Stop living…
That last line hits home
I hope every man who saw this scene from the series, learnt or at least gave a thought, on what kinda dad, not to be.
To all the dads out there, trying to make their sons strong 👏🏾
There's the Shakespearean actor. BRAVO!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
AL BUNDY IS A STRAIGHT LEGEND
Al Bundy really changed his life after peg
My brother's dad just died. I feel so terrible for my brother. His dad didn't show much love. His dad even visited from out of state and didn't even call my brother or visit him. I pray for my brothers heart. Join me please.
If it’s your brothers dad that means it was also your dad
I'm sure he was doing what he had to do to support you guys. Putting all the pain aside, all that time without you guys to keep pushing, using that pain to keep going. Endure. I hope that one day there is no hate from my daughter when she's old enough to understand the human condition. Stay strong dads. Someone is counting on us, always. Keep fighting, every second of everyday. Carry that on
@@okayokay279 Not necessarily…. My younger brother has a different mom then me & my oldest sister has a different dad then I do. There is such thing as half siblings.
@@angelastone4806 ok I understand now
It’s getting more difficult to push forward…
Same deal I played the last down to win our state championship with a dislocated shoulder, an no one gave a shhhtt… the 90’s were sooo epic. I did not cry, I did not bitch, I just wanted to win!!
And that's when he scored 4 touchdowns in one game for Polk High
That’s pretty much how we all grew up. I remember getting a hockey stick on a follow though right in the groin, was rolling on the ice. I think I was 9, my dad in the stands, get up whimp!!
I decided in my 30s that it was up to me to show love and forgive him. He was a lifelong military guy, would give you the shirt off his back but never good with emotions. You can either love people for who they are or resent them your whole life. I choose to love him for all the good stuff and tell him I love him. He knows I do even if he doesn’t tell me. I make a point of telling my son
You still a whimp
@glancegha It’s hard to love someone who never showed it through actions. I don’t get the tough love thing. Sometimes you don’t want to hate em but you never received the love to give it back.
@@AakarshDarla it all depends on how much you value that person. Personally, my father was always there if/when I needed him. Yes lots of what was tough LOVE, but it was LOVE.
We can either accept people for who they are or we can try (many times in vane) to change them. No way, I’m changing my dad. I’d rather have my dad in my life than not. No one is perfect, but I know he did his best or I just accept him for him.
@@glancegha1733 I only remember the physical and mental abuse even though he did care for me.
I want to love him, but it isn’t natural. He was bad to mother too. And that took away the spirit of a happy family. Despite all the troubles he took for us the negatives stick out. We don’t live together.
I visited him for his back issue a week back and since he could manage I returned after the courtesy visit even though he wanted me to stay.
It’s conflicting and I want to do things my way not be pressured into doing things because of his approval.
So I guess the basis of relationship with him is more of an obligation than love.
Forgive him?? For what?? For asking you to man up?? So you ARE a wimp.
I needed to see this.
It's true. Men aren't allowed to have emotions.
I mean,? At least 70% of the dudes reading this are thinking I'm a wimp for even Suggesting it.
No I am allowed to have emotions but they can only be shown when I'm by myself in my bed at night
I was raised to just handle your business like a man. Showing emotion was giving in to weakness. By being a man you are supposed to be the rock for your family to lean on in their time of need and bury your pain within so you can comfort them in theirs. That’s how my father raised me to be. However sometimes I just need an outlet to let it all go though. It gets difficult at times but I manage.
@@RiZenAsH was also raised that way, plus it has worked in my favor more times than I can count.
When he says feelings. Just the word feelings. I have felt that gutteral release of that word everyday since I first heard it. Damn he said that.
That was the game he scored 4 touchdowns.
That's how older guys are they are tougher than lots of people nowadays. Ed O'neal is the man
Telling someone you love them is just window dressing. Tough love isn't always pretty but it comes from a place of love and prepares us for how shitty life can be but it teaches us the strength to persevere
Lol so that’s your takeaway wow
@@alsacrime4806 Life’s not sunshine & roses. Tough love is real love.
TuffLoveTM, the memetic free pass so you can abuse and gaslight while virtue signaling heh
No it means actions and words are BOTH important. His dad died and he doesn't know whether his dad loved him or whether his dad understood that his son loved him.
If you say it, show it as well. If you show, reinforce with saying it.
Refusing to "acknowledge" loving your father/son causes unnecessary trauma. Your children should know they are loved.
Sucking up pain is not dealing with it.
@@philwill0123 There are different personality types and some types will not vocalize. No amount of moralizing will change that. Nobody is going to conform who doesn’t want to conform unless there is some kind of threat involved and threats are the sine qua non of TuffLoveTM.
It was a tough world he grew up in. It was essential to b tough for survival.
If u can’t b compassionate towards that, then u don’t know the first thing about it. U don’t get to demand it.
Youngstown s finest . I love u dad
Jesus. The acting all around was incredible.
Didn't cry at my dad's funeral it's not that I did miss him anymore then I do today or any less what would crying have done
Somehow male sensitivity became a norm..
My dad never really wanted to be around. He only wanted to be financial support nothing else, told me he never wanted to be part of my life and never wanted me. Overtime I wish I had a father figure to look up to or to actually think of my dad or feel comfortable calling them that. Even though there have been people in my life I have thought of as idols, sometimes I wish one of them could have been my dad or been someone to think of me as a son.
I UNDERSTAND…. Just going to leave it at that. My kids will never!!!!
My dad's the same way, growing up in Gen z Idk how to feel
Are you a girl or a boy?
Well if you growing up in Gen Z and your father raised you that way, you are already better off than like 90% of Gen z'ers, so many of them are unbelievably weak, snowflakes, gets offended super easily.
Still the best tv dad
Phenomenal actor Phenomenal cast
Damn Ed.... 😢
Feelings are like STDs.... you don't wanna catch them 🤣🤣
👏 👏 👏 👏 What a AMAZING ACTOR!!!!
We share a silent tear in private.
We do not get the luxury of tears.
We do not get the luxury of weakness.
For we are the pillar that holds everyone else together.
My dad exactly 💯.
Exquisite performance!
What season what episode man ngl i felt that speech
Great actor
He scored 4 TDs before he broke his collar bone.
Good ol' Dutch! The real ones know!
Always, Always let them know you love them!!!
How boys are raised then women wonder why we don’t share feelings
I'm sorry to anyone that can relate to this....we deserved more..
The question broke my heart
We love you Ed!
I wouldn't want my sons to cry at my funeral neither. They will feel my comfort as they cry in silence, away from everyone, if they need to.
I'm not sure what I'm gonna do when my dad goes....
That is so powerful been there still think about it that was 1963
4 touchdowns in 1 game
Shit I still talk to my old man when I go to see my mom and hes been gone since last year. I told him one time that I can remember that I loved him and that was when my first kid was born. We didnt need to say it back and forth and it worked for us.
Of course he knew. youre supposed to be the only one who has their shit together at his funeral. Its called control over your emotions. Sometimes it can be unhealthy but thats not control thats dominance over your emotions. You dont want to be a mess, thats thats the person you always had to fall back on when things went bad. Now its all on you, time to finally be an adult and accept the weight your father carried for you. Thats being a good man
People who actually felt bad for jay in this episode
👇
Legendary scene
FILLINGS
Feelings expose weakness at all of us
Two touch downs in a single game
He also scored 4 touchdowns in 1 game for Polk high
Wish my pops was a man I could miss
U better off when the inevitable happens
Same here man
That's gotta be hard , but what you CAN do is be a man your kids can miss.
Feel it
WOW, just wow
I know what he's saying, got a dad like this. I'd stop bullet for my old man now. Fucker would do the same if he knew I was in trouble. They get softer as they get older and understand when we got hurt, and that's why he had a damn good life. Tough love ❤️
That's Al Bundy talking about his past again lol
That’s a good dad right there… raising a man
Imagine this with a laugh track
This is my dad, and I love him for it. Our kids yoday are so soft. If someone hurts their feelings they fall apart. I'm not saying we can't have emotions, I'm just saying we can't let other control our lives by their words or actions.
Kids today aren't soft, they are the definition of weakness, it's almost like it's all emotions and nothing else. They get so easily offended.
My dad left when I was 4 he left me a small car I still carry with me I've done so much wrong in my life I want to change but I always end up saying to myself it's to late.....I wonder what would've been if he was here.......
Ed/ jay is such a great actot
He fucken knew!