The point of modesty and chastity is PURITY OF DEVOTION to the marriage which is failed when the reportedly common sexless marriages are actually just vow-breaking roomies
I'm sorry, but the whole "you never give me a chance to initiate" thing is nonsense. One time, I completely stopped asking just to see if my wife would even notice. FIVE MONTHS went by and she never came to me once. If I don't approach her, it literally will never happen. I've had the "patient, loving" conversation so many times. It doesn't work. "It's not you. It's me. I'll do better. I promise." But then nothing changes. I would kill to be having sex once a week. But according to her, there's something wrong with me because I'm not happy with "hurry up and get it overwith" barely once a month. And you're absolutely right- if she came to me and said that this is the one thing she needs from me the most, I'd do everything I could to make it happen. I'm already doing the majority of the housework too while she lays around and plays with her phone all the time. What am I supposed to conclude when we've had this problem for so long and she just won't make any effort?
I was your wife for years. We still had sex twice a week on average but I never initiated. I wasn’t all that interested. Then I discovered bioidentical hormones. GAME CHANGER! Now I can’t keep my hands off him! Hope things get better for you both.
I kinda know what you are saying and I am sorry for you. This couple and their channel is accessed by both married couples and sexually active unmarried couples. They make it seem like 100% of couples are having enjoyable active regular sex , when facts are much different. MOST MARRIED COUPLES ARE NOT HAVING REGULARLY SUCCESSFUL SEX LIVES!! but Dave and Ashly are the exception of this not the rule! Most men are not allowed to make love to their wives for many different reasons!!!
Say “This sexless thing is not working for me”. Leave for a week without contact. Return and check the room. Was she missing you? If she respected and adored you, she would try to please you. This hurry up ad get it over, is a deal breaker. Make sure you cannot be financially destroyed by her. Maintain control of the finances. Eliminate debt. If You don’t eliminate debt when you can now, your assets will be under the control of her or the courts. Debt is slavery. Get your health and financial affairs in order, before the storm. It’s coming.
Mr and Mrs Willis, most married men are not having any intimacy with their wives!! Many women don’t want to be touched nor initiate intimacy!! What do you say to that?
Less than 100x/yr endangers your kids' family... Closer to 200x/yr is more like daily tooth brushing for optimal despite some not feeling motivated... Sex is the ONE THING it's wrong to hire in (unlike cooking cleaning etc) so avoid going with worldly anti-family heeding of the enemy of your happiness
The point of modesty and chastity is PURITY OF DEVOTION to the marriage which is failed when the reportedly common sexless marriages are actually just vow-breaking roomies
I'm sorry, but the whole "you never give me a chance to initiate" thing is nonsense. One time, I completely stopped asking just to see if my wife would even notice. FIVE MONTHS went by and she never came to me once. If I don't approach her, it literally will never happen.
I've had the "patient, loving" conversation so many times. It doesn't work. "It's not you. It's me. I'll do better. I promise." But then nothing changes.
I would kill to be having sex once a week. But according to her, there's something wrong with me because I'm not happy with "hurry up and get it overwith" barely once a month. And you're absolutely right- if she came to me and said that this is the one thing she needs from me the most, I'd do everything I could to make it happen. I'm already doing the majority of the housework too while she lays around and plays with her phone all the time.
What am I supposed to conclude when we've had this problem for so long and she just won't make any effort?
I was your wife for years. We still had sex twice a week on average but I never initiated. I wasn’t all that interested. Then I discovered bioidentical hormones. GAME CHANGER! Now I can’t keep my hands off him! Hope things get better for you both.
I kinda know what you are saying and I am sorry for you. This couple and their channel is accessed by both married couples and sexually active unmarried couples. They make it seem like 100% of couples are having enjoyable active regular sex , when facts are much different. MOST MARRIED COUPLES ARE NOT HAVING REGULARLY SUCCESSFUL SEX LIVES!! but Dave and Ashly are the exception of this not the rule! Most men are not allowed to make love to their wives for many different reasons!!!
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Say “This sexless thing is not working for me”. Leave for a week without contact. Return and check the room. Was she missing you? If she respected and adored you, she would try to please you. This hurry up ad get it over, is a deal breaker. Make sure you cannot be financially destroyed by her. Maintain control of the finances. Eliminate debt. If You don’t eliminate debt when you can now, your assets will be under the control of her or the courts. Debt is slavery. Get your health and financial affairs in order, before the storm. It’s coming.
Mr and Mrs Willis, most married men are not having any intimacy with their wives!! Many women don’t want to be touched nor initiate intimacy!! What do you say to that?
Somebody should be tuning their fiddle.
And what is that supposed to mean? FIDDLE?
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Less than 100x/yr endangers your kids' family... Closer to 200x/yr is more like daily tooth brushing for optimal despite some not feeling motivated... Sex is the ONE THING it's wrong to hire in (unlike cooking cleaning etc) so avoid going with worldly anti-family heeding of the enemy of your happiness
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These 2 are talking rubbish!!