Why do people lie and how often are you lied to? | BBC Ideas

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  • @bbcideas
    @bbcideas  5 років тому +10

    Have you ever told a lie? If you say no… you must be a liar!
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    • @SawShotz
      @SawShotz Рік тому

      Your the bbc the biggest liers and fabricaters of story’s in human history

  • @VoyAnuszkiewicz
    @VoyAnuszkiewicz 5 років тому +13

    The keyword here is most certainly "PERSONAL GAIN"...

  • @margaretbatson83
    @margaretbatson83 5 років тому +18

    I tell the truth most of the time,but as a human being living on this earth I have lied but usually it's for a good reason.

  • @RobinKarma
    @RobinKarma Рік тому +1

    Yes! Everyone lies! The most important thing is that we don't lie to ourselves. An added benefit of self honesty is that it is easier to detect deception.

  • @ihatebees8775
    @ihatebees8775 3 роки тому +8

    As a little kid, 100% of my lies were to avoid punishment. Now I don’t lie all that much

  • @aviralgupta393
    @aviralgupta393 4 роки тому +6

    "Everyone lies". My mind immediately goes to House MD.

  • @enemarius
    @enemarius 2 роки тому +3

    I make a conscious effort to always say the truth and it's been working very well for me until now. I can't find a good reason to lie. Telling the truth over lying is more valuable for me, as tempting as lying can be sometimes. Keeping honest in a normal world is not difficult for me, however there is a problem that was presented by Kant which I think I would fail, therefore lie.

  • @jordanlawson2296
    @jordanlawson2296 4 роки тому +5

    I just had a problem with doing it, I am trying really hard not to do it ever again, I felt really guilty looking back and had to confess and ask forgiveness in some way, and say sorry in case any of my lies caused trouble. I'm sorry.😭🙏

  • @Zimboprenuer
    @Zimboprenuer 4 роки тому +40

    So ironic, BBC telling us why people lie😐

  • @rogermapy
    @rogermapy 3 роки тому +2

    I hate liars, I've even hated myself for ever lying

  • @andrewbernier4676
    @andrewbernier4676 4 роки тому +3

    So, 2 years ago when I was a lil shit teenager I lied about my college grades bc I was givin a chance to take college lvl classes in highschool and didn’t want it to seem like I was throwing it away.
    Fast forward 2 years and I’m retaking these classes as a “young adult” (18) and lied once more about what classes I’m taking bc it would be weird if I took classes that I previously passed.
    So now I’m here wondering why I lie to the people I love and who are trying their best to help me, bc all it did was force my self into an awkward situation. Yeah, admit that I lied twice and move on, but imagine it was the other way around.
    Anyway, it’s either I lie to make things awkward later on, or I seem like a failure right then and there. It’s Obviously no excuse to lie, but no matter what I do it seems like I’m making the incorrect decisions that lead to me making more bad decisions.

  • @NoahAWeinbaum
    @NoahAWeinbaum 4 роки тому +14

    People lie because of fear

  • @anshulsharma3415
    @anshulsharma3415 5 років тому +2

    Good topic

  • @_the_watcher_2089
    @_the_watcher_2089 2 роки тому

    Once I came to the age of realizing mostly everything I was taught was nothing but a lie, it really messed up my world view. Later as I look into even more things aren’t true as I was told, so how can I trust anyone when those closest to me only lies.
    One thing I told my mom was, that she shouldn’t have lied to me. if the world is just a terrible place in which no one understands why or how we got here, and all we do is repetitive task all day than really a robot could do it just sets us up for a slap in the face from life.

  • @loveandfaithfulness4479
    @loveandfaithfulness4479 3 роки тому +6

    The Bible is clear that lying is a sin and is displeasing to God. The first sin in this world involved a lie told to Eve. After planting seeds of doubt in Eve’s mind with a question, he directly contradicts God’s Word by telling her, “You will not certainly die” (Genesis 3:4). With that lie, Satan led Eve to her death; Adam followed, and so have we all.
    lying is ultimately the work of the devil. Jesus taught, "You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies" (John 8:44). But we are called to be truth-tellers. Being truthful is precious to God; it demonstrates the fear of Lord. Furthermore, to tell the truth is not a suggestion, it is a command. The Christian faith is built on the promises of a God whose promises are always fulfilled. He is a God of truth, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth. Jesus called Himself the way, the truth and the life ( John 14:6), and He expects those who follow Him to be people of truth. The truth is to be expressed in love (Ephesians 4:15), offering hope to those seeking redemption from the lies of the world.
    Proverbs 12:22
    "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are His delight."
    Be a delight to God today. What a precious proverb! If God delights in you, your future has no bounds. How can you easily obtain God’s favor? By honesty and truth in your dealings! Simply speak the truth and be a man of your word. We belong to the Lord, and may we honor Him 100% with every gift He has given us.

    • @RobinKarma
      @RobinKarma Рік тому

      Cod is a liar too. That's why we, his children, lie.

  • @nanxhu
    @nanxhu 4 роки тому +2

    it's not lying until blue blames red for sus

  • @Aazikka
    @Aazikka 5 років тому +1

    Awesome subject

  • @officialVozie100
    @officialVozie100 4 роки тому +4

    im native american and if a liar you will not be seen as a good person and will not have a good life its also a SIN

    • @andrewbernier4676
      @andrewbernier4676 4 роки тому +1

      Everyone lies, everyone at some point is caught in a situation where the information asked is something they don’t want to let out

    • @jlmadd
      @jlmadd 3 роки тому +1

      You have a punisher? What is good and bad? I mean i go to work daily and take care of my people! How do you measure it? Obviously we believe if someone hurts a child we help. We believe murder is bad. But explain to a woman that loses her child how that is good? Who is telling you who you are?

  • @Williams39
    @Williams39 4 роки тому +1

    I don't lie a lot but i here when a person say they gone stop doing sum and they keep doing what they say they gone stop doing

  • @suerrromarat1151
    @suerrromarat1151 3 роки тому +1

    I seem to lie to make people like me more, also to my family to say I'm doing well...when I'm not! Any advise??

  • @jaydoubleu3419
    @jaydoubleu3419 4 роки тому +4

    i always tell the truth

  • @augustasimone9323
    @augustasimone9323 4 місяці тому

    Gosh I was the truth teller and that was not easy dealing with adults ! I disagree with this . Today from the USA to UK and Germany Divorce is between 50-80 % of Married couples. Tell the truth and avoid these Narcs.

  • @adzyfelly
    @adzyfelly 3 роки тому +3

    Shouldn't the title be "Why does the BBC lie"?

  • @gapa1556
    @gapa1556 4 роки тому +5

    idk BBC im the one who should ask you why you lie so much

  • @worshipme9237
    @worshipme9237 2 роки тому +2

    Thou shalt not lie 🙏🏻

  • @paper9642
    @paper9642 Місяць тому

    5:04

  • @jlmadd
    @jlmadd 3 роки тому +1

    All day everyday

  • @Oshunpitcher
    @Oshunpitcher 10 місяців тому

    (FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Many people prefer Illusion to the Truth because they feel powerless to others truth involves other ppl pretend and Illusion only involves us

  • @uwerneck
    @uwerneck 3 роки тому

    2:56

  • @ashleyadam955
    @ashleyadam955 4 роки тому

    Mine is avoiding punishment

  • @DODDIE05t
    @DODDIE05t 2 місяці тому

    Yes but some people are habitual liars.

  • @jordanlawson2296
    @jordanlawson2296 4 роки тому +3

    To anyone who knew me reading this I need to confess to lying, I've lied a lot in my life and I'm very sorry for it, I'll never do it again I should have known better I'm very sorry to anyone who I knew in school or in life that I've lied to or lied about, I'm sorry I shouldn't have lied and I feel so guilty about it and so I'm confessing cause I'm scared it'll come back to me one day, please forgive me and forget about it. It just digs a deep hole that you can't get out of and I don't want to be known as the one who lies. I'm sorry if my lies have given anyone trouble in their lives..😭😭😭😭😭

    • @User-vu5xo
      @User-vu5xo 4 роки тому +2

      What did you lie ab

    • @jordanlawson2296
      @jordanlawson2296 4 роки тому

      Daniel do I have to answer this question? Cause I really don't wanna talk about it please.😔please forgive me.🙏

    • @RobinKarma
      @RobinKarma Рік тому

      Forgive yourself. And be honest with yourself. That's all that matters.

  • @sauliusurbonas9892
    @sauliusurbonas9892 2 роки тому +1

    Shortest answer: self-protection, and it is innate ...

  • @dinogirl1able
    @dinogirl1able 3 роки тому +1

    Pos they can't help themselves

  • @andrewbernier4676
    @andrewbernier4676 4 роки тому

    Also... what’s this meme about bbc lying lol I don’t watch their vids often so 🤷‍♂️

  • @suerrromarat1151
    @suerrromarat1151 3 роки тому

    Honest I wouldn't lie to the police.

  • @thedevil2259
    @thedevil2259 2 роки тому

    Lying should be illegal.
    We need that gadget from Insurgent (Candor)

  • @Ackk567
    @Ackk567 Рік тому

    FUNNY THIS IS COMING FROM BBC. BBC LIED ITSELF

  • @mikegarrens5286
    @mikegarrens5286 Рік тому

    Sometimes you have to lie to keep moron people not minding their own business