I wasn’t ready in my 20s and not in my early 30s either. I got pregnant the first time trying and I’m currently 38 and 11 weeks pregnant. And everything is going well with the pregnancy. This is my first pregnancy.
@@joellim7010 Good morning ☀️ I’m due April 13th. But, as of now they have checked his health, done the test on him for disabilities and he has tested negative for any disabilities. He is currently measuring 6 pounds. I now meet with my doctor weekly for prenatal appointments and I’ve been nauseous and super tired but everything has checked out with baby boy. I will update you after delivery😊.
@@rissa_mariposa thank you so much for the well wishes! He has been growing well and I’ve never received a bad report about him during any of my visits. I’ve been having regular pregnancy symptoms like nausea, extreme fatigue etc… but no bad news with baby. He can come any day now between 37-40 weeks. This Thursday I will be 37 weeks so he can come before the due date of April 13th, but at this point it would be okay because between 37-40 weeks is considered full term.
seemasoni seemasoni The only thing I did was take prenatal vitamins, stopped drinking caffeine, and eating as healthy as possible. I’ll be praying for you!
My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.
For three years, my mate and her hubby made several attempts to have a baby but all useless. Their counsellors informed them on most occasions where their problem was “unknown.” My pal made a decision to buy the t.co/Vps33f0mNJ and after months of sticking to the plan, her conception was a success. To find out further particulars regarding this excellent formula, please visit Google.?
That's amazing I'm getting worried I'll have trouble as I'm 34 married nearly two years hopefully I have no trouble getting pregnant as I've mist out on the latter years of my 20s to start a family but I am 7 years older then my husband but he wants me driving soon obviously for more self efficiency but I'm now waiting for lessons to resume because of this dam virus its put allot on hold
Part of what makes me worried is not having as much years with them as I would if I have them young. But I have to remind myself of quality vs quantity. Do I want many years of scraping paycheck to paycheck while having no time for my babies, or do I want to be financially stable and give better wisdom and a better roof over their heads? I guess I’ll know when the time is right
My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.
@@erriiikk1 you're wrong. It should be discouraged. Your anecdotal story doesn't make the rule. Stats say the chances of of death during pregnancy is really hugh for you and the baby after 30. The people that didn't make it aren't here to tell the story but the few that did like you are trying to create this false image to women that its fine. Its not fine, your advice will bring a lot of grief to families...
Yes... Women can be pregnant after 35 as well... It all depends upon the food that we eat, genetics, how active and healthy our body with no illness or diseases like diabetes, etc.
My husband and I are trying to find hope after 31. Its so hard. It's reassuring to see so many women having positive and healthy experiences. It gives me courage to continue trying when it all feels like its pointless. So blessed are your families!!!
I am 38yrs old now and see women that I know are having babies so I just hope that motherhood doesn’t pass me by.....I only really wanted a child once I hit my 30’s
If you or your partner is unable to have children, give the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* a try. The results that western medicine provided me was aggravating Nevertheless, my conception was a success after getting a nutritious diet and considering planned acupuncture therapies for a few months. Seeing my one year old daughter wandering before me makes me very happy. For more info about this awesome formula, visit Google.?
I think the only upside of having children when you are young is your energy level. But the upside of having kids older is your maturity level. My mom had me at 16 she was a kid herself, we had a lot of fun growing up playing with her on the rain and eating chips and coke for lunch. But there was not serious guidance about anything! We all turned out ok but still.
I got pregnant at 36 with no effort. The biggest issue has been them treating me as high risk. When everything is fine with her. 2 NSTs a week and 1 OB appointment. It's ridiculous. We have'nt had one issue other than me getting stressed over excess appointments.
Congratulations on the baby. My wife is currently at 37 weeks and we also fall into the high risk group but the doctors in Australia seem fairly relaxed. We are only just now starting weekly appointments.
Everybody should watch this video. Very informative! I am 19 and I plan on earning my Master's Degree in Business Administration and then earn my law degree. I do not want children until I'm in my early to mid-30s; after I've been married a couple of years, done some traveling, and after I've been established in my career for a few years. But whenever I tell someone that I don't want children until I'm in my 30s, people will always tell me that that's too old. In my opinion, your 30s are the best years to have children. You should spend your 20s building your own life, earning your education, and gaining life experience. Then, when you finally do have children, you will be wiser, more experienced, more educated, and more financially stable. People who have children too early in life very rarely accomplish everything in life that they wanted to. There is so much in life those young parents will miss out on. There is nothing wrong with getting your life on track first. People need to stop making something ugly out of a woman who have children later in life. That's what people should be doing!
dcosb09 I agree why would you willingly wait that long by the time you turn 30 and start looking for husbands all the men you’re looking at will be looking at the younger 22 year old something women retards
It's like this video was made by the Committee for Population Reduction. The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes. The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Time moves on. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.
This was helpful. I'm soon to be 38 & was feeling worried. I do think being pregnant younger is slight better for playing with kids but I'm hoping me & baby are OK 🤞🙏🤗😌
Wow..thanks..this gave me hope..I'm 34 within 3 days and suddenly i got worried... So it's not too late to have a baby...but I just need to look for a father first..uhhh..that seems little harder..hahah
Tell me about it. Coming from a rather chaotic family background, I have focused on getting financial security through my life (age 19-34) and I am now ready to focus on building my own family. I found out I would need to go under the knife (i.e open myomectomy) JUST to qualify for pregnancy when I was 26, but it is only now age 35 that I am fully able to commit to this journey. Am I "late" or "out of sync"? I don't know. I am just doing as best as I can for my progeny with the circumstances I have been given. All the best everyone!
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But based on research, advance maternal age does increase many risk for the mother and the baby. New research now also shows advance male age also increase risk of baby anomalies. The increase risk is what they are, an increased changes. It doesn’t mean that every pregnancy will have this. So don’t bring your good example in bring down the research. If you can, have them early.
I have an almost 4 yr old and I’m 35.. wasn’t gonna have another but now I’m considering I should so my kid isn’t an only child.. I really didn’t think 35 was that old but cause I don’t feel old but I guess it is..
Oh I know a lot of folks who got pregnant after 35 for me I am 36 and I am very much fertile at the age of 35 I got pregnant for the 12th time in November of 2019 my due date for that pregnancy was September 1. 2020 but I lost that pregnancy and then I found out I was pregnant again and when I got my ultrasound weeks after my miscarriage I found out I was nine weeks pregnant ( so I became pregnant the same week I miscarried and my due date for this pregnancy is November 2nd 2020 and this is my 13 pregnancy hopefully 7th full term healthy baby I had one still born and five miscarriages( oh and I am overweight but black so my weight is spread in a nice way/I am very healthy)
What about a man's sperm? And why are you looking at only women? It takes two to make a baby! I never got pregnant until the age of 39, even though I was married and not on an birth control. My ex-husband was 15 years older, a heavy drinker, and although we weren't actively trying, I'm surprised I never got pregnant in the years we were together in my 30s (and in retrospect I'm very happy). Fast forward a few years later, got into a relationship with a much healthier man who is 7 years younger and bamn! Unfortunately the first time we had a miscarriage, but I got pregnant again right after at age 40. Even though I'm older, fertility hasn't seemed to be an issue. In my experience, I think the big difference was my other half.
That's a fair point, it could absolutely be the man's issue (at least physically his issue). Research indicates that male fertility also decreases with age. I choose to not address this here however as I felt the most misconception is in regards to female fertility rather than male - congrats with the pregnancy.
@@lifelonglearners9784 lifestyle choices like heavy drinking and smoking can absolutely affect the quality of sperm at any age. I should have been clear about that in my comment.
It is harder for those who are over 40 to get pregnant. I have several friends who are trying. It's best to get pregnant in your 20's and early thirties.
And from what I see a lot of black women get pregnant late easily and have better pregnancies than they did when they were younger ( I don’t go by science I go by whatever our Creator allow to happen)
If you're a woman in your early twenties watching this vid, please follow this man's suggestions and report back in the comments section in roughly fifteen years time whether what he says is true or not.
There is also ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy, stillbirth, Edwards-syndrome, Patau syndrome, diabetes, twin pregnancy, Premature-baby, C-section complication, HELLP syndrome, Klinefelter syndrome, autoimmune disease (lupus, multiple sclerosis) + you can develope endometriosis, fibroid uterus, PCOS and early menopause... + some ladies even die before hitting age 35 or lives in vegetative state... Good luck girls! (...there is also breast cancer.)
I m 38y old I will get 2 days period that too less bleeding and I have thyroid problem buts it's normal I m trying for baby two time it's got obsession because no heart beat pls help me
Lifelong Learners your video was very informative. I liked it very much. I am from India, might be the reason I was not able to understand you clearly. Can you include subtitles next time in your videos please ☺
He seems to be using statistics that don't separate out those women that used IVF treatment to get pregnant. That would show that natural pregnancys brought to term with live births decline drastically after the age of 30!
And it not good for a ride not healthy for it nether if u don't do it the nature way rather y won't kides or you don't don't need y o life storey simple yes or no on tex win y tex me texme rather y. No
@@irahdykeabueva4615 people become bitter when they have to face the reality... We are nothing but small creatures of mothernature and law of nature is the only reality.. Not these stupid studies..
@@Србомбоница86 Me too. Mine were in their early 40s when I was born. I've had to help take care of my mom for nearly 10 and a half years, with the heavy lifting being in the last 3+ yrs. I'm currently 28. I just hope I'm not totally screwed as far as looking for work when the caregiving finally ends.
And in that scenario (mainly from 38, 39, 40 onward), the kids are slapped with early caregiving. They're stuck in the nest and have to put their lives/careers on hold. NO ONE should have kids that late in life. The blessing for the parents will be a curse for the child.
Race has nothing to do with this. White, black, brown etc women have the same reproductive organs. Your organ doesn't know if you're white or Filipina. Btw, why are you putting quotation marks on the word exact?
The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. You may get lucky on the first few tries, but that does NOT mean that your fertility hasn't dropped or that it's the same as it was at 25. It's not. The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes. The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on. It's almost like this video was made by the Global Committee for Population Reduction to convince women to wait far too long to have children and then end up having only one or most likely, none. Hmmmm.
lcowles peak fertility is at 27. I’m sure you post this crap on every fertility video. Women should not have kids as young as possible because they will be a burden on the grandparents since it costs a lot of money to raise a child and egg freezing works not 100% but it’s not a scam.
@@missxmarvel A woman's fertility at 27 is 70%. Nature doesn't care about "burdens" or "money" or "maturity" or anything else. Those are all subjective issues. Fertility is not political; it's biological, and most women who wait too long will be sorry. Nature wins. I just wrote an extensively researched article for a medical group's journal on egg freezing and the fallacy of extending fertility. There is no such thing. Corporations like Facebook and Apple will pay foolish young women $20,000 as part of their health benefits package to freeze their eggs. Why? So they can keep working and slaving away for the corporation, while valuable years of their fertility pass them by. The company won't care when they're 38 and realize their frozen eggs all failed because it was never about helping women. It was about getting more productivity out of them and avoiding having to deal with the accommodations that come with pregnant employees. If the companies really cared about women, they'd institute policies that allow women more flexibility in their schedules to deal with family issues like a newborn, additional leave time on top of FMLA, and other family-friendly accommodations. Butt that's not what corporations are about. They're about maximizing productivity and profit, and if they can get women to delay motherhood and work more years by giving them a bogus guarantee to "extend their fertility" by paying to freeze their eggs, so be it. It's the women that end up the losers. It was the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) that lifted the "experimental" label from egg freezing several years ago. Egg freezing was ONLY approved for women with cancer and other serious illnesses as a way to protect their eggs from chemotherapy and other damaging treatments. It was only offered as a slim (very slim) chance for them to possibly have a baby after their health crisis. It was NEVER intended for healthy women as a way to extend fertility because it's impossible to extend fertility. Because the procedure could no longer be considered "experimental" after the ASRM declaration, profiteers began targeting healthy women with the costly and near-worthless procedure that has never been studied for efficacy or risk. In fact, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) along with the ASRM do NOT recommend egg freezing for healthy women as a way to delay conception or "extend fertility" for all the obvious reasons. Women were meant to have their babies young as nature still intends.
lcowles Yeah and Technology doesn’t care about your bullshit facts. Times have changed, it’s like saying you can’t live longer than 30 because back in the day ppl only lived that long. Things have changed we live longer and have a better healthcare system. This is a video for women who might want to get pregnant and all you do is make women feel uncomfortable with nonsense because I have met women who got pregnant in their 30s naturally. Seriously if you got nothing nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Unless you are a doctor you have no business telling women with a dream to have children that egg freezing is a lie because it’s not. You don’t even realize how heartless you are.
@@L1623VP It has nothing to do with feminism scumbag. Humans live longer than back in the day and Technology has been improved. All you morons can do is accuse others of being a feminist just because nobody believes your bullshit. You even said that this video is probably made to decrease birthrates by making women wait,you couldn't be more pathetic.
Guys if you have your shit together get a young woman to marry so as you can have babies pretty easy. An old woman will have less chances to give you children.
I wasn’t ready in my 20s and not in my early 30s either. I got pregnant the first time trying and I’m currently 38 and 11 weeks pregnant. And everything is going well with the pregnancy. This is my first pregnancy.
As a woman who might be in a similar position but is in her early 30s wishing you strength and success in your pregnancy
Hearing about your experience gives me hope
@alicia janae any updates regarding this? is the baby healthy?
@@joellim7010 Good morning ☀️
I’m due April 13th. But, as of now they have checked his health, done the test on him for disabilities and he has tested negative for any disabilities. He is currently measuring 6 pounds. I now meet with my doctor weekly for prenatal appointments and I’ve been nauseous and super tired but everything has checked out with baby boy. I will update you after delivery😊.
@@rissa_mariposa thank you so much for the well wishes! He has been growing well and I’ve never received a bad report about him during any of my visits. I’ve been having regular pregnancy symptoms like nausea, extreme fatigue etc… but no bad news with baby. He can come any day now between 37-40 weeks. This Thursday I will be 37 weeks so he can come before the due date of April 13th, but at this point it would be okay because between 37-40 weeks is considered full term.
I’m 38 and got pregnant in two months of trying. 10 weeks pregnant today.
What a blessing! Congratulations! Your journey sounds smoother than my wife and mine. Best of luck over the next 30 weeks
Hi desi c .i m 39 years old and trying to concive .but cant conciv.i hv a 14 years son. can u share ur pragnacy conciving tips plz
@@lifelonglearners9784plz rpy
seemasoni seemasoni The only thing I did was take prenatal vitamins, stopped drinking caffeine, and eating as healthy as possible. I’ll be praying for you!
Desi C congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾
My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.
For three years, my mate and her hubby made several attempts to have a baby but all useless. Their counsellors informed them on most occasions where their problem was “unknown.” My pal made a decision to buy the t.co/Vps33f0mNJ and after months of sticking to the plan, her conception was a success. To find out further particulars regarding this excellent formula, please visit Google.?
That's amazing I'm getting worried I'll have trouble as I'm 34 married nearly two years hopefully I have no trouble getting pregnant as I've mist out on the latter years of my 20s to start a family but I am 7 years older then my husband but he wants me driving soon obviously for more self efficiency but I'm now waiting for lessons to resume because of this dam virus its put allot on hold
Part of what makes me worried is not having as much years with them as I would if I have them young. But I have to remind myself of quality vs quantity. Do I want many years of scraping paycheck to paycheck while having no time for my babies, or do I want to be financially stable and give better wisdom and a better roof over their heads? I guess I’ll know when the time is right
My wife and i married late and had children late - neither by choice. We have two sons. My wife bore our first at 39 by C-section, and the second at 41 by natural birth. Both are now grown, in perfect health, and quite successful in their chosen fields. It may be better to have them young, when you have the energy to chase them, but if that option is not available, don't be discouraged.
@@erriiikk1 you're wrong. It should be discouraged.
Your anecdotal story doesn't make the rule. Stats say the chances of of death during pregnancy is really hugh for you and the baby after 30. The people that didn't make it aren't here to tell the story but the few that did like you are trying to create this false image to women that its fine.
Its not fine, your advice will bring a lot of grief to families...
My Mom had me at 38. On my Father's side of the family, women conceived as late as 42.
I’m 37 and 8 months pregnant. Everything is going great !
For the first time or
Yes... Women can be pregnant after 35 as well... It all depends upon the food that we eat, genetics, how active and healthy our body with no illness or diseases like diabetes, etc.
My husband and I are trying to find hope after 31. Its so hard. It's reassuring to see so many women having positive and healthy experiences. It gives me courage to continue trying when it all feels like its pointless. So blessed are your families!!!
31 isn't considered "geriatric" you shouldn't worry just because of that
Thanks! You calmed me down at my age of 37 ☺️
This gives me hope! I appreciate your video and the researches you had done!
+Anna GracieC thanks for the positive feedback
I am 38yrs old now and see women that I know are having babies so I just hope that motherhood doesn’t pass me by.....I only really wanted a child once I hit my 30’s
I am 37 years old when I gave birth to my 2nd child after 16 years.
I will share my journey in my next vlog.
Pls share
If you or your partner is unable to have children, give the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* a try. The results that western medicine provided me was aggravating Nevertheless, my conception was a success after getting a nutritious diet and considering planned acupuncture therapies for a few months. Seeing my one year old daughter wandering before me makes me very happy. For more info about this awesome formula, visit Google.?
Me too
I was very worried but your comment encourage me much
Am 33 years and my first child is 13years
I think the only upside of having children when you are young is your energy level. But the upside of having kids older is your maturity level. My mom had me at 16 she was a kid herself, we had a lot of fun growing up playing with her on the rain and eating chips and coke for lunch. But there was not serious guidance about anything! We all turned out ok but still.
I got pregnant at 36 with no effort. The biggest issue has been them treating me as high risk. When everything is fine with her. 2 NSTs a week and 1 OB appointment. It's ridiculous. We have'nt had one issue other than me getting stressed over excess appointments.
Congratulations on the baby. My wife is currently at 37 weeks and we also fall into the high risk group but the doctors in Australia seem fairly relaxed. We are only just now starting weekly appointments.
why do you bother going to the doctor then?
My mom was pregnant at 43 and wasn't trying so...stopping stressing people...just eat healthy and stay fit and mentally stable.
So great to hear. Thank God! All the best.
@@syrenaxhaferi7278 The best advice in a nutshell
My grandma had her last two kids @45 and 48. There is hope
Everybody should watch this video. Very informative! I am 19 and I plan on earning my Master's Degree in Business Administration and then earn my law degree. I do not want children until I'm in my early to mid-30s; after I've been married a couple of years, done some traveling, and after I've been established in my career for a few years. But whenever I tell someone that I don't want children until I'm in my 30s, people will always tell me that that's too old. In my opinion, your 30s are the best years to have children. You should spend your 20s building your own life, earning your education, and gaining life experience. Then, when you finally do have children, you will be wiser, more experienced, more educated, and more financially stable. People who have children too early in life very rarely accomplish everything in life that they wanted to. There is so much in life those young parents will miss out on. There is nothing wrong with getting your life on track first. People need to stop making something ugly out of a woman who have children later in life. That's what people should be doing!
Glad you found this helpful. Best of luck with the study.
Phycho Pink ok
@dcosb09 no such thing I'm turning 36 in a month all men still want me - life is what you make it - just take great care of yourself
dcosb09 I agree why would you willingly wait that long by the time you turn 30 and start looking for husbands all the men you’re looking at will be looking at the younger 22 year old something women retards
It's like this video was made by the Committee for Population Reduction. The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant.
If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby.
The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes.
The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Time moves on. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.
This was helpful. I'm soon to be 38 & was feeling worried. I do think being pregnant younger is slight better for playing with kids but I'm hoping me & baby are OK 🤞🙏🤗😌
Wow..thanks..this gave me hope..I'm 34 within 3 days and suddenly i got worried... So it's not too late to have a baby...but I just need to look for a father first..uhhh..that seems little harder..hahah
Yes... finding father can be more difficult these days than getting baby...
my grandmother had my mum naturally at 48. this was 1956. not saying it can happen for everyone but it definitely does happen
Tell me about it.
Coming from a rather chaotic family background, I have focused on getting financial security through my life (age 19-34) and I am now ready to focus on building my own family.
I found out I would need to go under the knife (i.e open myomectomy) JUST to qualify for pregnancy when I was 26, but it is only now age 35 that I am fully able to commit to this journey.
Am I "late" or "out of sync"? I don't know. I am just doing as best as I can for my progeny with the circumstances I have been given.
All the best everyone!
I know 'sending prayers' sounds silly to some people but I genuinely wish you success. ❤
My mother gave birth to my brother when she was 36
Had my 4th at 36. No warning i was fertile again after having my third. Thanks mother nature!😰
What do you mean no warning? You're 36 so probably nowhere near menopause.
I followed the *ThePregnancyFact. Com* when my partner and I made the decision it was time for a baby. Numerous lives have become better due to this plan and if you wish to find out why, just go to Google. I discovered that I was getting pregnant after 3 months of following the formula and eating a healthy diet plan. Despite being in the older parental age set, this particular program has changed my whole life around.?
encouraging to hear
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But based on research, advance maternal age does increase many risk for the mother and the baby. New research now also shows advance male age also increase risk of baby anomalies. The increase risk is what they are, an increased changes. It doesn’t mean that every pregnancy will have this. So don’t bring your good example in bring down the research. If you can, have them early.
I have an almost 4 yr old and I’m 35.. wasn’t gonna have another but now I’m considering I should so my kid isn’t an only child.. I really didn’t think 35 was that old but cause I don’t feel old but I guess it is..
With my experience yes go ahead with 2 baby bcoz my daughter keep asking for siblings and now im having so many problems to conceive at age of 38
@@ZoyaKhan-ds5by I’m actually 6 months pregnant now, due in July and I turned 37 this spring
Im 38 and want to have kida its just that I haven't found Mr. Right its unfair we have to rush and If I can still conceive ill do it!
You are too old to have a healthy kid naturally..
Oh I know a lot of folks who got pregnant after 35 for me I am 36 and I am very much fertile at the age of 35 I got pregnant for the 12th time in November of 2019 my due date for that pregnancy was September 1. 2020 but I lost that pregnancy and then I found out I was pregnant again and when I got my ultrasound weeks after my miscarriage I found out I was nine weeks pregnant ( so I became pregnant the same week I miscarried and my due date for this pregnancy is November 2nd 2020 and this is my 13 pregnancy hopefully 7th full term healthy baby I had one still born and five miscarriages( oh and I am overweight but black so my weight is spread in a nice way/I am very healthy)
Overweight = very healthy?!
What about a man's sperm? And why are you looking at only women? It takes two to make a baby! I never got pregnant until the age of 39, even though I was married and not on an birth control. My ex-husband was 15 years older, a heavy drinker, and although we weren't actively trying, I'm surprised I never got pregnant in the years we were together in my 30s (and in retrospect I'm very happy). Fast forward a few years later, got into a relationship with a much healthier man who is 7 years younger and bamn! Unfortunately the first time we had a miscarriage, but I got pregnant again right after at age 40. Even though I'm older, fertility hasn't seemed to be an issue. In my experience, I think the big difference was my other half.
That's a fair point, it could absolutely be the man's issue (at least physically his issue). Research indicates that male fertility also decreases with age. I choose to not address this here however as I felt the most misconception is in regards to female fertility rather than male - congrats with the pregnancy.
Men and women are not the same. Stop. Far less of an issue for men.
@@lifelonglearners9784 lifestyle choices like heavy drinking and smoking can absolutely affect the quality of sperm at any age. I should have been clear about that in my comment.
Thank you for this video!! Very informative
Thanks man.... Very clear... U did ur research!! MANY THANKS!!!!
Uauuuu that some doctors says is not true... that gives hope to many couples 💪💪😀
Can I take my first baby at 35 age?
Very helpful, thank-you!!
This is great. Thank you 🙏
I am 35 had one accident and am pregnant lol
Thanks for the info
It is harder for those who are over 40 to get pregnant. I have several friends who are trying. It's best to get pregnant in your 20's and early thirties.
Trumpanomics Hobgoblin Glad you watched the video
The truth you should eat healthy food when your pregnant or you don't have to
I am mother of two children...From 6 months trying for 3rd baby at age of 35 bt failed.....
Thank you for that video!
This video is so cool. Thank you for that.
Nais feis, it iz veri ot gud
Thanks a lot for your suggestion 🙏🙏🙏
I want another baby but no husband.
Gives hope
You are never ready to be pregnant but better to do it early than late.
What about when your 46?
I am 40 year no baby no period
You should be a grandmother at that age
if you want it go for it, I wish you much success
And from what I see a lot of black women get pregnant late easily and have better pregnancies than they did when they were younger ( I don’t go by science I go by whatever our Creator allow to happen)
35 and 16 weeks pregnant only took two months of trying.
ameeen
If you're a woman in your early twenties watching this vid, please follow this man's suggestions and report back in the comments section in roughly fifteen years time whether what he says is true or not.
Also from a time where life expectancy was in 60s
I’m 35 and want a baby but my 41 yr old bf never wants to have sex 😢
THANK YOU 💕
There is also ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy, stillbirth, Edwards-syndrome, Patau syndrome, diabetes, twin pregnancy, Premature-baby, C-section complication, HELLP syndrome, Klinefelter syndrome, autoimmune disease (lupus, multiple sclerosis) + you can develope endometriosis, fibroid uterus, PCOS and early menopause... + some ladies even die before hitting age 35 or lives in vegetative state... Good luck girls! (...there is also breast cancer.)
I don't understand ,you mean kids from older parents get those illnesses
U can die even at 10.leave it to God
She is trying to address here a bigger issue then just infertility 👍🏻
Thank you 🙏
I m 38y old I will get 2 days period that too less bleeding and I have thyroid problem buts it's normal I m trying for baby two time it's got obsession because no heart beat pls help me
Men's sperm can also be the cause for fertility issues but that usually seems to be ignored.
Can anybody translate it in Urdu please
😢😢😢😢i really wanted to have a baby.l
arra arnaez God is great nothing possible to God so so you can get 🤰 pregnant and just believe in God
42 and just got married. thanks for the depressing video
@@orismani1718 go away scammer
Don’t listen to this crap. They discriminate women so much on their age
I couldn't understand the accent
Oh that's helpful to know. I am an Australian. Where are you from?
Neha Mohan because he is from Australia. "down under"
Lifelong Learners your video was very informative. I liked it very much. I am from India, might be the reason I was not able to understand you clearly. Can you include subtitles next time in your videos please ☺
Thanks for your comment. There are optional subtitles that i created for this video - just click the 'CC' icon at the bottom right of the screen.
Lifelong Learners cool, thanks!
He seems to be using statistics that don't separate out those women that used IVF treatment to get pregnant. That would show that natural pregnancys brought to term with live births decline drastically after the age of 30!
Can you provide any resources for this info? Haven't seen it anywhere
And it not good for a ride not healthy for it nether if u don't do it the nature way rather y won't kides or you don't don't need y o life storey simple yes or no on tex win y tex me texme rather y. No
Well.. The entire data and studies are just here to give hope to modern women who are already passed midthirties.. You can't beat nature..
Yeah, considering your face, nature really did you dirty.
@@irahdykeabueva4615 people become bitter when they have to face the reality... We are nothing but small creatures of mothernature and law of nature is the only reality.. Not these stupid studies..
@@jidendrap3745 yeah, mother nature sure did you dirty
@@irahdykeabueva4615 granny got offended 😄.. Sorry granny
The truth is that disorders of all sorts skyrocket the later the pregnancy occurs.
He just debunked the whole claim that issues "skyrocket". Didn't you watch the video?
And the kids will start off their adult lives taking care of their aging parents.
@@finchborat yes,happening to me ,it's horror ,I hated that my parents are old
@@JessG_20 I guarantee most of those kids will have health issues
@@Србомбоница86 Me too. Mine were in their early 40s when I was born. I've had to help take care of my mom for nearly 10 and a half years, with the heavy lifting being in the last 3+ yrs. I'm currently 28. I just hope I'm not totally screwed as far as looking for work when the caregiving finally ends.
i would not risk having a kid with a woman over 35 do u what my kids to have disabled problems
Corrie Scrivener u urself seem to be a moron
"do u what my kids to have disabled problems" lol okay
And in that scenario (mainly from 38, 39, 40 onward), the kids are slapped with early caregiving. They're stuck in the nest and have to put their lives/careers on hold.
NO ONE should have kids that late in life. The blessing for the parents will be a curse for the child.
Corrie Scrivener ha ha checked ur channel. U seem to be a cripple and ur concerned about moms 35 plus.. freaking MORON
finchborat how about 35 37?
Why is it always about WHITE WOMEN?! I'm ASIAN (Filipina to be "exact"!)!
There's nothing wrong with white. Sounds like an issue with YOU
@@jimbosmith6327 I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it mean person! Just saying they are LEAVING out other races as always!
Race has nothing to do with this. White, black, brown etc women have the same reproductive organs. Your organ doesn't know if you're white or Filipina. Btw, why are you putting quotation marks on the word exact?
Older mothers tend to have children with genetic disorders.
The problem is the children will be messed up. They will have some issues
Not true.
The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50. By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. You may get lucky on the first few tries, but that does NOT mean that your fertility hasn't dropped or that it's the same as it was at 25. It's not.
The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new phenomenon as far as the human species goes.
The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible. Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.
It's almost like this video was made by the Global Committee for Population Reduction to convince women to wait far too long to have children and then end up having only one or most likely, none. Hmmmm.
lcowles peak fertility is at 27. I’m sure you post this crap on every fertility video. Women should not have kids as young as possible because they will be a burden on the grandparents since it costs a lot of money to raise a child and egg freezing works not 100% but it’s not a scam.
@@missxmarvel A woman's fertility at 27 is 70%. Nature doesn't care about "burdens" or "money" or "maturity" or anything else. Those are all subjective issues. Fertility is not political; it's biological, and most women who wait too long will be sorry. Nature wins.
I just wrote an extensively researched article for a medical group's journal on egg freezing and the fallacy of extending fertility. There is no such thing. Corporations like Facebook and Apple will pay foolish young women $20,000 as part of their health benefits package to freeze their eggs. Why? So they can keep working and slaving away for the corporation, while valuable years of their fertility pass them by. The company won't care when they're 38 and realize their frozen eggs all failed because it was never about helping women. It was about getting more productivity out of them and avoiding having to deal with the accommodations that come with pregnant employees.
If the companies really cared about women, they'd institute policies that allow women more flexibility in their schedules to deal with family issues like a newborn, additional leave time on top of FMLA, and other family-friendly accommodations. Butt that's not what corporations are about. They're about maximizing productivity and profit, and if they can get women to delay motherhood and work more years by giving them a bogus guarantee to "extend their fertility" by paying to freeze their eggs, so be it. It's the women that end up the losers.
It was the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) that lifted the "experimental" label from egg freezing several years ago. Egg freezing was ONLY approved for women with cancer and other serious illnesses as a way to protect their eggs from chemotherapy and other damaging treatments. It was only offered as a slim (very slim) chance for them to possibly have a baby after their health crisis. It was NEVER intended for healthy women as a way to extend fertility because it's impossible to extend fertility.
Because the procedure could no longer be considered "experimental" after the ASRM declaration, profiteers began targeting healthy women with the costly and near-worthless procedure that has never been studied for efficacy or risk. In fact, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) along with the ASRM do NOT recommend egg freezing for healthy women as a way to delay conception or "extend fertility" for all the obvious reasons. Women were meant to have their babies young as nature still intends.
lcowles Yeah and Technology doesn’t care about your bullshit facts. Times have changed, it’s like saying you can’t live longer than 30 because back in the day ppl only lived that long. Things have changed we live longer and have a better healthcare system. This is a video for women who might want to get pregnant and all you do is make women feel uncomfortable with nonsense because I have met women who got pregnant in their 30s naturally. Seriously if you got nothing nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Unless you are a doctor you have no business telling women with a dream to have children that egg freezing is a lie because it’s not. You don’t even realize how heartless you are.
@@missxmarvel Nonsense? You clearly can't see past your feminism bias. Nature wins. Always.
@@L1623VP It has nothing to do with feminism scumbag. Humans live longer than back in the day and Technology has been improved. All you morons can do is accuse others of being a feminist just because nobody believes your bullshit. You even said that this video is probably made to decrease birthrates by making women wait,you couldn't be more pathetic.
Guys if you have your shit together get a young woman to marry so as you can have babies pretty easy.
An old woman will have less chances to give you children.