I'd just like to say how much I admire you for putting his picture on his memorial page. It's not for everyone and not everyone will think it's right. My daughter has had 2 full term stillbirths. With the 1st one I chose to put her picture on FB. I really didn't care about what others thought and everyone was very sympathetic. But there's always that one person. She made a comment that the picture was offensive. This was a girl I had gone to school with and hung around with. It made me question wether I should have done it but when I posted and apology saying I was sorry if I had offended anyone everyone came to my defense. It wasn't the best of pictures. The skin had sloughed off in areas on her face. But I didn't care. She was a person, she still mattered and she was MY granddaughter. If I'd had better pictures I would have posted them. We would have loved to have had beautiful pictures of a healthy baby girl But it's all we had. We've never spoke again. I'd do it again too. In fact I did with my grandson but his heart quit beating somewhere between preparing to leave home in labor and arriving to the hospital so his skin was perfect. I'm sorry you had to be part of this group. The group nobody wants to be a member of. I admire your strength and courage. 🙏
I'm french, so my english is note perfect...😅 I just wanted to say to you that I'm part of this group and I'm sorry that you are too... You were absolutely right, to put these pictures ! A picture of your grandaughter and one of your grandson! Great! We donc care about the others, these people who will never understand... One day, we will see again our babies. And that day, no one and nothing will never separate us again. Never. We live and we smile because they are living inside if us, in our heart. They are so much more than a picture or a memory . They are our flesh, our blood. One day, it's a promise, we will hug and kiss them again, and they will hug and kiss us too . Not here, not now, but ONE DAY.❤❤❤ Sending love from France.
@@bienveillance972 ❤ I’m sorry for your loss! My niece lost her first baby at 20 weeks. She had anacephaly and went into preterm labor. Sasha was stillborn. Never took a breath. My nephew saw the. Baby, but with anacephaly, and with her being born at 20 weeks, the nurses and dr’s kept her face covered, because I guess my niece was in shock. The hospital had someone come and take pictures, of her arms and hands and feet, with their wedding rings around her hand, which was so tiny! My mom went up to be with them, until they were released from the hospital. She didn’t get there before the nurses took Sasha to the Morgue. My mom had suffered several miscarriages in her life, so she kind of knew what My niece was going through. So. They have that special bond. My nieces parents live in Wisconsin, and a few months later her mom told us, that it didn’t even DAWN on her that she should have probably flown out to be with her daughter!
You will always be his mother, nothing will ever change that not even the way he was born sleeping, you're in the season of separation, the hardest season of all, especially when this season happens when your loved one is young, I lost my father young, it's been a very long season of separation, I compare this season to our fall season, a leaf slowly loses its greeness which says it's alive, as it slowly dies as the green leaves it, the beautiful colors of reds, oranges and yellows appears but the leaf is dying in order to produce those rich colors, then when all the green is gone, it dies and falls to the earth, only in death does it reach its fullest, deepest colors of reds, oranges and yellows, when we reach our fullest colors, as we're dying, when our green is completely gone, we fall, because our colors reach their fullest potential, your little baby reached his fullest colors quickly, he fell very young but with perfect, colorful beauty, he was very close to perfection and didn't need as much time for his beautiful colors to appear, while most of us are further away from our full potential, our green slowly leaves us, it takes longer for us to reach our most highest, beautiful colors, perfection. You had an human being very near perfection right from the start of his life, that baby is yours, always, you and him may have a very long season of separation, but in the end, when you two are reunited, you'll have each other for eternity, never again to go through another season of separation! (sorry for the length!)
Beautiful baby. Men will never quite understand the bond a mother has with her baby. Adam’s distance seems to be very common among fathers that have lost a child.
Thank you, Ari, for sharing your precious Son Kai with us. He is absolutely gorgeous 💙
I'd just like to say how much I admire you for putting his picture on his memorial page. It's not for everyone and not everyone will think it's right. My daughter has had 2 full term stillbirths. With the 1st one I chose to put her picture on FB. I really didn't care about what others thought and everyone was very sympathetic. But there's always that one person. She made a comment that the picture was offensive. This was a girl I had gone to school with and hung around with. It made me question wether I should have done it but when I posted and apology saying I was sorry if I had offended anyone everyone came to my defense. It wasn't the best of pictures. The skin had sloughed off in areas on her face. But I didn't care. She was a person, she still mattered and she was MY granddaughter. If I'd had better pictures I would have posted them. We would have loved to have had beautiful pictures of a healthy baby girl But it's all we had. We've never spoke again. I'd do it again too. In fact I did with my grandson but his heart quit beating somewhere between preparing to leave home in labor and arriving to the hospital so his skin was perfect. I'm sorry you had to be part of this group. The group nobody wants to be a member of. I admire your strength and courage. 🙏
So sorry for your family, bless your Daughter going through that 2. Life can be very cruel. Much love and light to you all. 💙💙💙😢
I'm french, so my english is note perfect...😅
I just wanted to say to you that I'm part of this group and I'm sorry that you are too...
You were absolutely right, to put these pictures ! A picture of your grandaughter and one of your grandson! Great!
We donc care about the others, these people who will never understand...
One day, we will see again our babies.
And that day, no one and nothing will never separate us again.
Never.
We live and we smile because they are living inside if us, in our heart.
They are so much more than a picture or a memory .
They are our flesh, our blood.
One day, it's a promise, we will hug and kiss them again, and they will hug and kiss us too .
Not here, not now, but ONE DAY.❤❤❤
Sending love from France.
@@bienveillance972
❤ I’m sorry for your loss! My niece lost her first baby at 20 weeks. She had anacephaly and went into preterm labor. Sasha was stillborn. Never took a breath.
My nephew saw the. Baby, but with anacephaly, and with her being born at 20 weeks, the nurses and dr’s kept her face covered, because I guess my niece was in shock. The hospital had someone come and take pictures, of her arms and hands and feet, with their wedding rings around her hand, which was so tiny!
My mom went up to be with them, until they were released from the hospital. She didn’t get there before the nurses took Sasha to the Morgue.
My mom had suffered several miscarriages in her life, so she kind of knew what My niece was going through. So. They have that special bond.
My nieces parents live in Wisconsin, and a few months later her mom told us, that it didn’t even DAWN on her that she should have probably flown out to be with her daughter!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful son with us and his story. So very sorry for your loss. 💙
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Oh sweet girl im so very sorry.....Kai is beautiful!!!!
Gift boxes! How fun!
He was absolutely Beautiful!!! ❤️🙏
I am so so sorry for your loss.
Sweet Kai is a beautiful boy 💙💙💙💙💙💙
God bless this family
You will always be his mother, nothing will ever change that not even the way he was born sleeping, you're in the season of separation, the hardest season of all, especially when this season happens when your loved one is young, I lost my father young, it's been a very long season of separation, I compare this season to our fall season, a leaf slowly loses its greeness which says it's alive, as it slowly dies as the green leaves it, the beautiful colors of reds, oranges and yellows appears but the leaf is dying in order to produce those rich colors, then when all the green is gone, it dies and falls to the earth, only in death does it reach its fullest, deepest colors of reds, oranges and yellows, when we reach our fullest colors, as we're dying, when our green is completely gone, we fall, because our colors reach their fullest potential, your little baby reached his fullest colors quickly, he fell very young but with perfect, colorful beauty, he was very close to perfection and didn't need as much time for his beautiful colors to appear, while most of us are further away from our full potential, our green slowly leaves us, it takes longer for us to reach our most highest, beautiful colors, perfection. You had an human being very near perfection right from the start of his life, that baby is yours, always, you and him may have a very long season of separation, but in the end, when you two are reunited, you'll have each other for eternity, never again to go through another season of separation! (sorry for the length!)
Such a beautiful baby...I am so so so sorry for your loss.
Beautiful baby. Men will never quite understand the bond a mother has with her baby. Adam’s distance seems to be very common among fathers that have lost a child.
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