OUR SWEET LITTLE BOY, TAKEN BACK TO HEAVEN | SIDS At 15 Weeks

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2023
  • Jinu and Gibin talk with Winter about their sweet little baby boy, Jayden, who died suddenly at 15 weeks. Jinu and Gibin recount the excitement of adding another child to their family, and who their little girls were at first upset that they would have a little brother, but became loving and sweet sisters during the pregnancy. Jinu talks about the complications that arised during gestation and how she had to be induced. Jinu and Gibin talk about the concerns they had when Jayden seemed to have breathing issues, but the medical teams didn't nothing to further diagnose the problem.
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  • @michellesartori6695
    @michellesartori6695 7 місяців тому +12

    I'm very sorry for the loss of your sweet Jaiden Mum and Dad. He was a most gorgeous little fellow and obviously dearly loved even though he was a surprise. I am a mother of 5 adult children and a grandmother. I am also a retired RN of many years and although I only spent about 2 and a half years working in an Accident and Emergency department, when you're talking about your baby in the Resus Bay being worked on and then you taking him into the quiet room I am picturing this alll in my head, from the point of view of being both a nurse and as a parent. I'm grateful that you were able to spend as much time with Jaiden as you did, much different than in times past when the baby was simply taken away and you were told to forget about it and go home and make another baby to take the place of the one you lost, when that was NEVER even possible! I grieve for your girls having to come to the hospital and being told that their baby brother was gone and how horrible this would be for you as parents, especially when you couldn't tell them why he died. I am in NSW Australia and I am sure that you will both enjoy working in Melbourne and I am positive that your daughters will love living in a new country with very different experiences to have. I wish you all the very best for your future endeavours! God bless and keep you all safe. RIP little Jaiden. Thank you Winter for your channel where families can share their experiences with us out here!

  • @cherylhaskell9830
    @cherylhaskell9830 7 місяців тому +8

    No words adequate to express sentiment; but know WE have you and family in thiughts, hearts, prayers durring this difficult season

  • @mississipi777
    @mississipi777 7 місяців тому +11

    Iam so sorry for your loss jayden looked so happy in his 15 weeks of life. Love and prayers to your family

  • @pinacoloda226
    @pinacoloda226 7 місяців тому +5

    Fly high little Jaden❤❤❤❤ such a beautiful boy!! I am so sorry for your loss😭😭
    You are a very strong mama for sharing your story. May the Lord bless and keep your family 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @barbaradoolin4514
    @barbaradoolin4514 7 місяців тому +5

    My sympathies go out to you and your family…Best wishes to you and your family on your move to Melbourne.
    RIP SWEET BABY BOY, JAYDEN

  • @lirpa1981
    @lirpa1981 Місяць тому +1

    He was so beautiful. He had so much hair.

  • @samiyaferguson9177
    @samiyaferguson9177 7 місяців тому +4

    This is so unbelievable. May God bless you and give you peace and keep you in his arms. He was and is adorably handsome and precious. I'm so sorry he isn't here with you ❤

  • @bethanderson397
    @bethanderson397 7 місяців тому +5

    I am so very sorry for your loss! Such a sweet precious baby. He had the most beautiful hair that I’ve ever seen on a newborn ❤️

  • @angelwingstn3392
    @angelwingstn3392 7 місяців тому +4

    First I want to say how sorry I am for the loss of your sweet angel. He was a beautiful boy with gorgeous hair. His smile was so adorable. I happen to also love the name Jayden as my grandson shares the same name. I pray that you heal from this tremendous loss to your family. ❤

  • @JoyWeller
    @JoyWeller 25 днів тому

    Beautiful boy! Sweet memories. Prayers for your girls and you both. You are enough in all aspects. Peace

  • @patriciaarmstrong6601
    @patriciaarmstrong6601 7 місяців тому +6

    He was a beautiful little man

  • @jeancampbell6641
    @jeancampbell6641 7 місяців тому +3

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your baby Jaden . My heart was broken for you both . He will always be in your hearts and watching over his mummy daddy and sisters . Now your little Angel in Heaven . He looked liked an Angel on Earth . He was so Beautiful. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️😊

    • @jeancampbell6641
      @jeancampbell6641 7 місяців тому +1

      May God Bless your family in your new Country .

  • @user-bw1dv3iq9x
    @user-bw1dv3iq9x 4 місяці тому +2

    My baby was born sleeping just two months ago.. she was 40 weeks.
    This story absolutely breaks my heart even more. Ouch.

  • @itme999
    @itme999 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss, and I hope that your move to Australia is lovely and healing. ❤

  • @kymfrancis4612
    @kymfrancis4612 7 місяців тому +5

    My heart goes out to you ♥️♥️♥️ I lost my 3 year old little boy in a freak accident & I understand your sorrow; it is so devastating to lose a tiny child without reason, it is something that you cannot imagine happening & it’s a parents worst nightmare.
    My son in law is Indian & he looks so much like that beautiful dad, my daughter & son in law have 3 tiny boy, my youngest grandson Hudson is 6 months old; I will always think of that beautiful family whenever I hold my grand babies.
    Edited to add - I’m an Australian living in Brisbane, you will love our beautiful country

    • @user-op3jr5if2i
      @user-op3jr5if2i 7 місяців тому +2

      Aww I’m so sorry to hear about your 3 year old child 😢
      I’m just living in the hope of meeting him again.. one day ❤

    • @vickiegreen5107
      @vickiegreen5107 5 місяців тому

      ​@@user-op3jr5if2i what a beautiful boy jayden is x

  • @brendastevens-1691
    @brendastevens-1691 7 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful baby boy ❤❤. Sorry for your loss 😢

  • @momo43momo66
    @momo43momo66 5 місяців тому +3

    First, Don't tell a mother of a newborn, what he needs and doesn't need, have you lost your mind, if she wants to strip down to her underwear and hold him, shut up and let her do it, period! A part of her heart just passed away, none of the nurses or Doctors knows her pain.❤
    May your Beautiful and most priceless and precious pumpkin, Rest In Everlasting Peace.😞❤❤❤❤❤🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @lisakuhta3157
    @lisakuhta3157 7 місяців тому +4

    So heartbreaking! Very sorry for your tragic loss 😢

  • @maryellenblount6376
    @maryellenblount6376 7 місяців тому +3

    So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Jayden. My heart goes out to you and your family. 🙏🏼💙

  • @kristaklingenmaier4224
    @kristaklingenmaier4224 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm truly sorry for your loss. He was the most beautiful baby, ever. It's hard to hear how the medical staff dismissed your concerns over his breathing. He is certainly an angel. Thoughts & prayers for you, both and your family. ❤

  • @thomasplouffe1363
    @thomasplouffe1363 6 місяців тому +2

    SIDS... is just the cruelest thing to ever befall children and families, such a big boy too with such adorable chubby cheeks and look at all that hair! im so sorry of his passing.

  • @kathleenweems2909
    @kathleenweems2909 7 місяців тому +4

    Bless your Family❤️🙏

  • @kimtillman5683
    @kimtillman5683 5 місяців тому +1

    So sorry for your great loss …Jayden is the most beautiful baby I’ve ever seen.Hes simply beautiful. God Be with you all & May Jayden R.I.P. 🎚️

  • @Frostyblu
    @Frostyblu 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow I haven't heard of any SIDS babies in over 40 years.
    I'm so very sorry. My heart breaks for you. 💜

  • @aceycakes5987
    @aceycakes5987 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your broken hurt, but I'm so glad you had an absolutely beautiful baby boy to love.
    😢

  • @patriciaarmstrong6601
    @patriciaarmstrong6601 7 місяців тому +3

    Herein the states where I live if you have a C-section they keep the mother and baby a minimum of 4-5 days because it’s a major surgery and like she said about that 4th is the worse my son and daughter in law had a set of Boy/girl twins the boy was a built like a linebacker almost twice as big as his sister but it didn’t take her long to catch up. I’m so sorry for your loss he was so brilliantly, adorable. Happy baby.

  • @Jojo-gg6jc
    @Jojo-gg6jc 5 місяців тому +1

    Im so sorry for your loss, such a beautiful little boy. May he RIP 💙

  • @ohbrandyjune
    @ohbrandyjune 4 місяці тому +1

    God Bleas your family and baby Jayden. I’m so sorry that your concerns were not taken seriously by the medical system. My heart breaks for you. 🤍

  • @caseymanuel7199
    @caseymanuel7199 5 місяців тому +1

    This is so sad. I wish there was a place to follow them with this new baby they are having now.

  • @indigobunting2431
    @indigobunting2431 7 місяців тому +1

    So hard... I am touched by your story and shall pray for you.

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing Jaiden with us

  • @MandyLucas-bh8lh
    @MandyLucas-bh8lh 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for thr loss of your precious boy now with the angels sending you all my love and thoughts goodnight and God bless you will never be forgotten because you loved him so much rip little manxxx

  • @ronigarcia3351
    @ronigarcia3351 5 місяців тому +1

    Gorgeous lil baby boy, look at all that hair 😇

  • @lifewithlacy7190
    @lifewithlacy7190 6 місяців тому

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 🤍🕊️🤍🕊️🤍

  • @jennifermcclure4648
    @jennifermcclure4648 7 місяців тому

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy.

  • @cathieh.7225
    @cathieh.7225 5 місяців тому

    I'm so very sorry such a gorgeous little boy ❤

  • @Michelle-gw4db
    @Michelle-gw4db 7 місяців тому

    I'm sorry for the loss of you're baby Jaiden 😭. Its so horrible and very sad. Rip Jadien you are a beautiful angel 😇🙏.

  • @jessicahoward118
    @jessicahoward118 5 місяців тому +1

    Such a lovely family🌸

  • @christinem.carter-wanner5304
    @christinem.carter-wanner5304 7 місяців тому

    God bless this family

  • @cyndisutherland8907
    @cyndisutherland8907 7 місяців тому

    My son had the very same issue. He ended up having sublotic stenosis. Sorry for this spelling he had to have his windpipe dilated three times before he was 6 months old. So sorry for the loss of your sweet little boy

  • @terriwhite3372
    @terriwhite3372 7 місяців тому

    Wow, heartbreaking. I am so sorry.

  • @swampophelia2098
    @swampophelia2098 7 місяців тому

    I was a nurse here in the U.K. and always worked three long days then three off then two on two off etc

  • @swampophelia2098
    @swampophelia2098 7 місяців тому

    Your boy was beautiful and clearly very much loved. My daughter is called jaden, 30 years ago it was a really unusual

  • @shoedini57
    @shoedini57 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤️

  • @carolwilder2289
    @carolwilder2289 5 місяців тому +1

    🙏🙏

  • @donnabaardsen5372
    @donnabaardsen5372 7 місяців тому

    🙏❤️😔

  • @suomynonaanonymous
    @suomynonaanonymous 7 місяців тому +2

    omg what an adorable little guy! I would have been so angry they didn't fully evaluate him after the first concern! I wonder if he had partial choanal atresia or heart issue.

    • @user-op3jr5if2i
      @user-op3jr5if2i 7 місяців тому +3

      Hey, thank you for your message…
      To be honest, care wasn’t very great.
      And the loss is ours, not theirs.
      I’m the one living in this grief, not them… I hope I get the strength to fight for him… like I would have if he was here too ❤

  • @alicjarojas7736
    @alicjarojas7736 7 місяців тому

    This is totally off topic but this is the third video I watch where the mom is a nurse 😢 there was an L&D nurse, NICU nurse and now GYN nurse 😢

    • @OliveGreen0516
      @OliveGreen0516 5 місяців тому

      I saw one where the mom worked in a hospital doing something with statistics relating to child and infant mortality.