Mom's Stillbirth Story of Son Tommy at 36 Weeks | Maternal Fetal Hemorrhage
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
- Mom Kirby tells about how her first pregnancy with son Tommy and how it was a picture perfect pregnancy. But at around 35-36 weeks, Kirby noticed a drop in her baby's regular movements. She followed up a couple times and was told the baby had a strong heartbeat. Kirby then felt that something was wrong and when they went to the hospital, they were told Tommy no longer had a heartbeat. Kirby delivered Tommy, born still at 36 weeks and 3 days in January 2018.
There were nothing conclusive about the cause of his death, but one of per providers thought it could be due to a maternal fetal hemorrhage.
Hear her husband Tom's stillbirth story of Tommy: • Baby Tommy | A Dad's ...
Hear Kirby and Tom talk about life after stillbirth: • Their Stillbirth, Foll...
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Tommy Ryan
01:17 Who we are
05:10 Pregnancy
10:19 Events leading up to finding out
18:08 Going to the hospital
26:47 Birth
34:37 After birth
40:50 Going home
47:36 Funeral
01:04:58 Autopsy
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So sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy Tommy. So glad there’s kind people that support these couples. Can’t imagine the pain of losing a Child. “There is no footprint too small, that it cannot leave an imprint on the world” Love and light to all who grieve. ❤️🌹🕊
So sorry for the loss of your precious boy Tommy now with the angels sending you all my love and thoughts rip little man xx goodnight and Godbless you allxx
I’m so sorry for the loss of your little angel.
The random acts of kindness that your family did in his honor is such an awesome idea. Even from heaven he’s still blessing people when they least expect it 🥺❤️
It is so wonderful that they are able to still keep giving love to the world even in this sad experience.
I am so sorry for your loss! I recently lost my mom and really struggling to accept the fact that she is nit with me anymore, but loosing a child should be so "unnatural" in our life it is a totally different level of pain. I am happy that you guys got the chance to spread your love to your other kids. I am also shocked to know how ultrasound is not a basic tool of these check-ups in the US. This definitely needs to change.
33 weeks pregnant and crying so much over your tragedy . I am so sorry you had to go thru all of this 😭
I'm so sorry. The death of a baby is a hard road to travel that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. It's not a club any of us ever thought we would be a member of. My daughter was stillborn in 1993. The pain never leaves you. In time, after the crying is over, the ache just travels into a tiny corner of your heart that never heals. I still miss her every day.
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Tommy. Your so strong for sharing your experience. Tommy will always be with you 💞
Thank you for sharing your experience of Tommy’s birth,so sorry that it happened to your family.He was so beautiful & loved💕
You are so welcome, and thank you.
I am so very sorry such a beautiful little boy please accept my deepest condolences😭😭💔💔 and may you find comfort knowing you will all be together in heaven again one day🙏🏻
Thank you so much.
Mother's intuition is often spot on, how terribly sad.
It is sad.
@@StillAPartofUs❤❤❤❤sending you love and peace.
I couldn't comment on your Husband Tom story with Lee. Thankyou Kirby and Tom for sharing your beautiful son Tommy JNR with us. May you be blessed with happiness always 🙏
Thank you. In regards to not being able to comment on Tom's video, did it just not allow you or was it something else?
I think I fixed the issue
@@StillAPartofUs : Thankyou for fixing this, the comments had been turned off. Appreciate your work.
I’m so very sorry-I had placenta praevia with my youngest son & in spite of being on bed rest I had a concealed haemorrhage at 33 weeks, fortunately I was in hospital when my placenta started to abrupt & my tiny baby was delivered within minutes.
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Im so sorry for your lost..i also had stillbirth baby last july 31,2021 at 37 weeks until now im so sad it brokes our 💔 my pretty daughter was gone
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We hope you are able to feel it live and support as fellow loss parents
Im so so sorry for your loss .i had a fetal maternal hemmorage with my daughter she was very sick
Iam so sorry for your loss 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much.
Such a bittersweet story…Tommy surely was a beautiful baby boy, I’m terribly sorry for your loss 😭 I’m happy you guys were able to have 2 more babies and Tommy will always watch over his brothers through their lives…My prayers to the parents as they grow their baby’s up with God in the lead…🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you so much.
Very sorry to hear that, I too lost a baby to hyperemesis gravidarum but it was at the 1st trimester. I know that the focus is on the sharing the story but I was kind of distracted by pictures which seemed to be unrelated to the story and was trying to figure out the relation... Just a thought for next time even though I wish less or minimum of such sad stories.
Thank you for listening and for commenting. We are so sorry to hear of your own loss. Thank you for the feedback and we hope to improve how we present the stories and the message through the pictures.
I had hyperemesis for 7 months…. That was in 1984. Drs didn’t care as much as now. I had a daughter two weeks after my due date.
If I knew then what I know now, I would have asked to be induced.
That was very dangerous to let me go two weeks past my EDD.
It was a traumatic birth, then after my third child I lost a baby at 15 weeks. Also, no reason given…
Ian so very sorry for all of yall loss. but God send you a blessing and one day yall will be togother agen....to all of you God is still there and yall be togotber
agen.lime yall all ways love hime he will always live your. ..God bless yall.
Saying hi from Ocean City Maryland to you and your family
I'm 25 weeks pregnant and still have morning sickness almost every day. I don't know why, in my situation, I'm watching these, but I am really enjoying them. Perhaps it's my need to prepare for every possibility.
Congratulations! Just make sure to keep yourself mentally safe and healthy. We're sending you prayers for a wonderful birth.
I am so sorry you are feeling sick. I was sick the whole 9 months with my pregnancies. I felt immediately better after delivery! I am always raging hungry!!
God bless you mama and papa bear
I am so very sorry for your loss. I also lost two babies to still birth way back in 1971 things were very different back then there wasn't a lot of care given to the parents or baby. I am glad that things are better now.
I unfortunately found the photos on this to be a bit confusing as to what some of them related to.
Sincere condolences 😇❤️🦋
Thank you.
I understand how you feel
Thank you
Beautiful Lil Baby Boy.💙🦋 He is now an Angel and in the loving arms of The Lord. Cooing and smiling at all the pretty Angel's. He will be waiting for his mommy and daddy when it's your time to go. May God Bless and keep you until the day of your reunion. 🙏🦋💙🕊😇
Thank you so much.
This happend to my daughter Sophie four years ago she opens a charity called autums law 17 on face book and instergram I’m so sorry for your loss my daughter helps and supports other mothers this happens to she raised money for cuddle cots and memorie boxes her and her husband sending you love ❤️ blessings and prayers what a beautiful baby boy he will be with god in heaven and you will see him when you go to heaven he will be their waiting for you love ❤️ from the Scotland 🏴 🇬🇧 U.K. xxx I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🤗🌈💜🙏
Thank you so much for commenting. We are so sorry for the loss of your granddaughter, but we are so pleased to hear that your daughter is blessing other parents in a time of sadness and of need
@@StillAPartofUs thank you 🙏 her story was on your American news channel CNN and her picture is put up at a baby hospital in America on their Christmas tree every year hope you are keeping okay prayers love ❤️ and blessings to you love ❤️ from Scotland 🏴 xxxx🤗💜🌈💜🌈
Wow! What an incredible story. I am amazed at how you turned a terrible tragedy into random acts of kindness each month. So happy that you guys were able to have 2 rainbow boys.God Bless.
Isn't it so wonderful; both the random acts of kindness, and there additional sons.
What ARE rainbow boys
The term "rainbow baby" is sometimes used by people to talk about children that they have after a stillbirth or loss. It is a reference to the rainbow after a storm.
Das ist ganz ganz furchtbar 😢, für alle Babys die still geboren werden, warum das so ist, ich würde es gerne verstehen. Mutter Natur hat da sich vielleicht etwas dabei gedacht, was auch immer, wir werden vielleicht nie dahinter kommen und das ist auch gut so.
Der kleine Tommy, ist jetzt ein kleiner Engel 😇 und bei all den andern kleinen Engeln, die es leider hier bei uns, auf der Erde nicht geschafft haben. Vielleicht ist das ein kleiner Trost,für all die Eltern, die los lassen mussten. 😢😢😢
Beautiful baby boy in Jesus arms 🙏
Thank you.
Listening to both parts of your story makes this non religious person believe in a higher power 😢 god bless both of you and god bless Tommy.
You have a beautiful family sweetheart
You are so kind.
The spirit is a truly marvelous and unique thing, as it is able to be in more than one place at once. Your little one's soul is with God, but he has traveled in his short life from your womb to your arms to your heart where his little spirit will reside all your days on earth.
Thank you for those nice words.
I know they say, 10 kicks an hour but I only felt my daughter at night! During the day. I never felt her. No one from the 1980s ever counted the kicks at least with the 7 other pregnant girls I was working with!
Thank you for sharing your BEAUTIFUL STORY OF TOMMY❤️you are an inspiration that God is using to touch so many people🙏it is thru suffering that we grow the closest to Jesus, HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU💝I will pray for your family , and pray that God guides you step by step, into your new adventure 💝GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU❤️🩹🙏💝❤️