I will answer this, by asking another question; Given what you have seen them share so far, do you really want to know what, if anything, they have yet to share... I won't stop you from thinking about it, but I will certainly not be starring into that abyss.
Ask any adult who has gone through the “trying to have a baby” phase where you have to have as much sex in a certain window. After a while it can loose the appeal and just become mechanical.
If getting pregnant is a challenge, it's actually work to accomplish the goal. I've heard plenty of stories from friends that were so frustrated with sex because it actually became a chore to maximize the possibility of pregnancy.
@@Gunsbeerfreedom87 More power to you man. Back when I was in my late teens/early 20's, I could have managed it. I'm 32 now and having sex 5-10 times a day for multiple days in a row would actually suck.
As an older gentleman it takes anywhere from 15-30 mins to recharge. As a young guy (20s & younger) as long as it’s good it can b like 5-10mins. This depends on sex drive & amt of food intake.
Yep, I even did an endurance test on how much I can do in one day when I was young. Not record breaking sadly. Now as I'm older, with good supplements, once or twice a day.
And there's also what I'd call a 'hormonal' refractory period - which tends to be about 3-5 days for me. During which I can get it up, but I'm not looking for it at all.
I've always thought it was longer for all of us. I'm about to be 30 and my refractory period has always hit me like a truck, and it took me an hour or more to potentially go for more.
All I can say is ask Mel she is an expert and has a vast knowledge of sex and the problems that can occur, and yes she is a very kind, funny and lovely person, but from watching her over the years it is clear she has a calling and can be very serious on the subject.
If u double each day, starting with 1, 2, 4 etc, the 31st day ud do it 2,147,483,648 times There are 86,400,000 milliseconds in 24h, ud have to fuck every 24millisecond for 24h.
The most relevant point is that the seconds after the moment, all desire to keep going disappear. In this moment that the clarity may kick in, cause you just confronted with what you did without the desire to do it. Parcial recoup 5 min Full recoup 10-15 min
That also can change depending on stimulus though, and ofc person-to-person differences~ Personally it's a 50/50 of if the desire decreases or stays the same post nut; I've had times i want to go again immediately, from an arousal perspective but the physical cooldown is what stops me more than anything mental, haha
It really does depend. If you were already in a bad mood, tired or depressed it absolutely heightens that. But if you're mentally doing good it actually takes very little for the desire to come back. How hydrated you are also matters a lot.
@@antonioscendrategattico2302 There is a name for that sudden feeling of disgust/depression/anxiety/irritation/aggression. Postcoital Dysphoria, PCD for short. The main theory is that after we’re filled with the cocktail of endorphins, pleasure hormones, happy chemicals and positive stimuli the sudden crash in these lead to things like anxiety, depression, aggression, irritation, dysphoria and sadness post orgasm. Lost of people experience it with 40-50 percent of people in studies experiencing it. And that chemical hormonal cocktail isn’t the only factor. When we are turned on we can find things that aren’t normally attractive attractive. Take anal for example, most people in their non turned on state wouldn’t be into it or find the butthole attractive. But if you’re turned on, you might want to do things with a butthole be it someone else’s or your own. After you’re no longer turned on and remember that you were turned on by anal you feel bad and disgusted with yourself because you liked something you’d normally thing is gross. Obviously anal is a perfectly normal thing. And that brings up another factor to the post orgasm blues and that’s stigma. Due to influences, mainly western and religious ones, sex pleasure and what is deemed acceptable has led to things being stigmatized, from sexualities like lesbianism to certain fetishes like BDSM, feet, voyeurism, cross dressing, adipose and so on. Now sure something’s are rightfully stigmatized like pedophilia, zoophilia, and other bad things. But other stuff that society seems as too kinky/weird/gross those thoughts and feeling affect us, especially in what could be a vulnerable moment post nut.
@@antonioscendrategattico2302 There is a real condition called postcoital Dysphoria that’s the sudden onset of sadness anxiety and depression post orgasm that people are mistaking for post nut clarity. Anyone can experience it regardless of gender or sexuality and likely affects half the human population.
2:20 I find that actually really relatable because I have only one female friend I am close enough to ask that question, buy would also not have it be weird, and can not have it be awkward since it's not face to face. Obviously I google stuff first, buy if there is a lot of conflicting info, I'll ask her.
So yeah the recovery to be back online IS 5 to 10, some have no to very little refractory period but it's not that common, but that's not the rate to recharge the bullets, that's the time the gun takes to Cool Down to shoot again so you eventually feel that like your guy is absolutely destroyed despite still being able to get it up and running, it doesn't really feel good If I had to pick once every night or 3 times at night and then 2 days of rest I'd pick the one with the rest days (and sure an insane person growing up could be like "I do it thrice a day every day" that is technically not the same as actually doing the thing, because your body experiences a whole other Body impacting it so the mechanical stress you feel is different)
@@Yuki_Ika7also, light touches helps a lot, as does careful grabbing to reduce how much your hand moves relative to your skin (which can and does move) back in college, my libido and stamina were so high (as were my ex's), my ex and i for months had sex almost daily, with most sessions lasting hours. we cracked the 4 hour mark several times. and on rare occasion we'd do it twice in a day. sure, it hurt sometimes, but pain is also a turn-on for me and so it obviously wasn't hard for me to power through. and we were just wildly horny all the time. (sadly, life forced us to opposite sides of the us with little ability to see each other, so we had to break up after almost a decade.) some added context: i'm trans - i have a dick. my ex didn't, and they were highly knowledgeable and experienced with sex and kink even then, having even learned shibari as a teen.
@@tiagotiagot Some don’t even have that skin. What matter is you take it easy on you little buddy, focus on what feels good and comfortable and don’t force yourself.
@@Toneill029 I mean the skin of the shaft itself, not foreskin. You would need quite a light touch to stroke it without the skin sliding like the grip of a shake-weight.
Every dudes libido is different. Refractory period can be around 10-30 min. However, sperm count can take around 3-7 days to recover back to it’s normal amount (which could effect the libido of dudes).
A reminder that Michi is an Indonesian. Even when she's from middle upper class family with good education, her sex-ed is lacking because our schools are very conservatives. And I believe she went to Christian school so she's not going to get that kind of education there.
@@jacobsmith8377 Eh, it depends. Rural US yeah, it's about as bad as a third world country (from what I'm told) but in any even remotely urban context, school boards are usually not controlled by insane fundamentalists.
No worries! "Penile and scrotal skin degloving is uncommon and is mainly caused by accidents with agricultural and industrial machines." It'll be fine!
I know right! Once per day is not THAT taxing for average libido. Michi is right, generally speaking, that enjoyment would likely dwindle over time if you don't put some separation in between the experiences. For me (30s), refractory period is somewhere between 30-45 minutes where I'm physically unable to continue. Plenty of time to regenerate at least some of the energy needed to go again the next day.
You’re talking about 3 different metrics here libido, the desire to do it and enjoy it, refractory period the amount of time it takes to be able to go for round 2 without it being painful or unpleasant, and the amount of time it takes for the balls to produce more sperm In terms of libido the majority of guys who tried the having sex once a day thing have said it felt like a chore, wasn’t fun, and that they stopped after 1-2 weeks because it was actually hurting their relationship Libido is different for everyone and isn’t consistent, lots of things can effect it such as how many rounds you go and how long those rounds last among other things. If you had multiple long intense rounds in a single day 3 days of rest might be what you need However couples who tried the challenge and stopped have said they found it much more enjoyable just having sex every 2-3 days or just when they feel like it as the obligation to do it everyday made it a lot worse
Michi: I have no-one I can ask this to! Ferro - 'has literally read the manual on sex' Mel - 'wants to be a Sex Ed teacher' Chat: so there's a 50-50 chance I pass along sex misconceptions, but go for it girl
yeah 18:03 just triggered me so bad that I wanted to slap some sense in her, Mel has been begging for this type of interest and genuine questions and the first thing she thought was "I dont want to box her" EXCUSE ME!!!??? imagine studying, learning, gaining experience in one area so you can teach other people around you, and they dont want to ask you because that will be "boxing you"??? JESUS CHRIST as someone said in chat just ASK HER
Yeah 18:04 triggered me so bad, imagine learning, gaining experience in one area so that everyone around you could ask you in case they have genuine doubts and curiosity, you are begging to have this type of talks and yet they dont want to ask you because they dont want to box you? excuse me??? as someone said in chat, just ask her
Honestly I can relate a lot to the worries of treating people like they're just answering machines or like, only good for the one thing I know them for. And like 90% of the time it's not even anything sexual, it can be stuff like studying, playing games, etc. In my case it's worse because I really do that to some extent, like I don't generally want to spend time with people for its own sake, there has to be one specific activity I'm interested in. I wouldn't go watch a movie I don't like even if it was with my best friend.
See, this is why you should always multiclass in Fighter! You gain action surge, and you get bonus action on top of that! This is the true meta of physical intimacy, fellas 👉🏼👉🏼
This whole thing reminds me of the bit in Scrubs. Probably another issue here is since this is for having a kid they aren't spending the time to enjoy it. It's mechanical, get it done, gogogo. It's a job.
On PNC; Never experienced it. Post vs pre for me is mostly just tired since the adrenaline dumps out of my system. No disgust, no sadness, just satiation. On recovery; the parts are ready to go again in about 5 minutes. It's my abs and thighs that hold me back from consecutive performances with the wife. That shit is a workout, man.
It depends on the person and their partner. I've been with someone where it was at least once a day, usually more, only exceptions were when we were physically separated, and it didn't feel like it was enough, and other relationships where twice a week felt like we were doing it a lot.
There are. A lot of health factors influencing how often you can/want/have to do it. I once had a month so bad I had mo boners for a month straight. But I fixed ot with hydration salt and sunfower seeds for vitamin B1
@@LupineShadowOmega Unfortunately, it’s why sexual assault, teen pregnancy and general dissatisfaction with sex is so common. If no one understands consent or how to please a partner that leads to bad times and trauma.
@@kos2919 nah michi is just a NEET tbh, she just lacks experience and grew up ignorant about sex. I'm indonesian and sex ed is something that is actually accessible if you look for it.
it's possible to go for hours and finish several times (if inspirational material is good enough) it's easy to get serious damages (as if played with sandpaper) and regeneration can take from weeks to months (with pain during any form of touch or just peeing to the point of screaming and crying)
She made me think of the first 2 Fallout games where you could have sex up to your endurance score in a day, but if you go over you die. You can kill NPCs this way if you are 10 Endurance.
Tbh I love these type of moment on stream because often pretty much everyone end up with knowledge we should know as human but we don't feel like asking for because of how tabou it is in society.
Other VTubers: Yeah, let's talk about sex for views. Nothing will go wrong. Michi: Chat, tell me about sex things because I'm curious and don't wanna bug my friends. Haruka: I DIDN'T KNOW SEX EXISTED!
Judging only from this clip, there's confusion both from Michi and from chat here between refractory period and just normal fatigue from a physically intense exercise.
I don't want to sound rude, but have you actually had sex? If the answer is yes and you still think that. Then maybe you have more stamina than most men
Information about how human beings on reproductive health is very important but it is not discussed often enough. Not a lot of people know what to say about the human condition. Yeah I can understand her reasoning since it can be pretty awkward ask someone close about how their body works.
I think a lot of it depends on what kind of segs you're having and who is putting in the most work. If a guy only lasts 5 mins compared to 20-30 (not counting foreplay), that's a big difference and who is exerting the most effort is a factor as well, if the guy is responsible for all the motion then that is a lot more draining as well. It's also worth noting, that just like women, guys aren't just always in the mood, if you are having a bad day or are super stressed, pushing through that for your partner can be super draining.
I read that men typically have far longer refractory periods than women on average, and women may not even have a refractory period technically. Is that even accurate?
Note, the following does not necessarily apply to teenagers and young adults. For an average adult male, if it's not every day he will generally be able to go a few times during a day no problem, maybe even a few times over a few hours if he's really in the mood. If it's once a day every day like clockwork it will continually wear him down without the opportunity to rest and recover. A week might be fine, but more than that will really wear him down. For a teenager or young adult three times a day every other day, or even every day, might be easy. Though even then bruising, chafing, and worn out muscles will still be a limiting factor in the end.
I know this isn't michi but hopefully she sees this. In my early 20s I deeded for a week once a day with an SO. The lil dude was on the verge of blistering and the drive after like 4 days straight was dead and I'm a nympho. Making someone like me not want to do the do is a notable achievement
The 20 min to an hour is the refractory period, which is the time it takes to be able to maintain an an erection after orgasm. The few days thing is to recover sperm count and semen volume. Having it low means low testosterone, which can mean low energy for guys since they need testosterone to function.
surprisingly i have never really had "post nut clarity", i mean i realize some of the stuff i wack it too can be messed up, also i wack it at least once every 2 days typically
Michi: I can say I’m doing this for content. Oh no, Michi; you’re fooling no one here. Your curiosity is just so obvious.😂 Big factor in that is anonymity though. She can’t really ask anyone irl and most people would be uncomfortable to answer as most of the time it will be them speaking from personal experience, and that’s indirectly admitting to having done/experienced it first hand to quite an extent. But chat can be honest since no one know who they are.
12:29 to answer Michi's question, no it is not, because that aspect is provided by the anatomy of the other party... (I think that's a decent way to explain it?)
1-3 days!? Bruh gimme like 4-6 hours and maybe some coffee or something and I'm good. Also have never had post nut "clarity". But I have had post nut "exhaustion". Like I am at risk of falling asleep very soon afterwards. Best sleep aid ever for me.
Best way to put it…you may like cheesecake and hate ice cream, but if you had cheesecake everyday for 30+ days straight, ice cream would look appetizing.
I mean... for a while when I was in my 20s I was having sex every day with my gf... but, now? I'm 40, fuck that, like I can offer a hand when needed, but currently I am single, so I am ok with being celibate, also I don't think a relationship would be able to survive my sage time. Sage time is when you realize you spent 30 min working like a slave, just to get off, which I could take care of it much easier by myself, if anything about the girl annoys me, it is concentrated and distilled in to this crystal nugget of "why am I here?". After the clarity ends, if that woman (or guy i guess) does not do anything to make me go "oh, right that is why I am with her" it simply starts to turn to loathing. Also, injuries are serious... Like, it may hurt a bit for the girl if gets in at a weird angle, for the guy it's like the world stops as your now bent and bruised member reports the overwhelming damage that is being provided by the girl thinking nothing is wrong and still making weird motions that potentially injured me in the first place.
Girls and Boys have alot of Nerve endings in that Area. So even a small injury is constant Pain until the Injury is fully healed. Thats also the Reason why a kick between the Legs shuts down every Male more efficient that hitting his Head with an Object. Very informative Video^^ The good Thing is.... the Main Action may only be actually usable every few Days, but if it comes to female Satisfaction, the Main Action isnt really needed. Girls react alot to Touch Sensations, so if you know how to please her without the Main Action, you both should benefit from it.
I’ll agree with the second half more. (First half is accurate too.) My current SO loves me going down on her. Apparently most of the past guys in her life refused or rushed through it without getting her off. When I was younger I thought I was below average (found out I’m not) so I wanted to learn other ways to please my partner. I made friends with a lesbian & picked her brain. She basically “trained” me for lack of a better word.
It is different for every single person. Lust. Libido. Sex drive. Stamina. Endurance. Their is no shame in better understanding your own body's wants desires and limitations. Some have an extremely high sex drive. Some have sex once a month and they are satisfied. Never be ashamed of your own body's limitations or desires.
she really needs to know that everyone knows how uneducated she is and everyone will understand that when she asks something out of pocket, its genuine
Here's a tip for Michi. It gets awkward because she wants to ask her guy friends "Hey, how long does _your_ PP take to recoup?" What she should do is ask in general. "Hey, how long does it take for a guy's PP to recoup?" or "How long does it take for guys-" and so on.
how bad? to the post where you would just stop, for like a solid minute or two, just thinking how you got here, the mistake you made that lead you here and how you are a failure to yourself
has chat ever answered "how honest should I be?" with anything but "completely"
very rarely, but I have seen it at least once.
I will answer this, by asking another question; Given what you have seen them share so far, do you really want to know what, if anything, they have yet to share...
I won't stop you from thinking about it, but I will certainly not be starring into that abyss.
Michi out here treating chat like live text google lol
Maybe that’s how her chat likes to be treated?
@@TheBenedictchan1 yes
That's why we loved her in her past life. She had no filter and she never let her conscience stop her from saying something memey lol
She joining VShojo is like safe search turned off completely 😂
Why you need AI when you have Chat?
pumping water out of the ground is my new favourite euphemism
Mad Maxxing
10:54 The collective Horror being expressed by chat as soon as they heard tore.
"Sometimes, I pull so hard, I rip the skin"
Understandable. Had to grip my pen out of sheer shock. The survival instinct hit horribly.
If y’all think that’s bad, look up penile fractures. We humans may not have a penis bone but it can still happen.
Ask any adult who has gone through the “trying to have a baby” phase where you have to have as much sex in a certain window. After a while it can loose the appeal and just become mechanical.
That's fucking dark.
thats why partners need to always be creative and explore....no need to go to the same spot to experience pleasure
If getting pregnant is a challenge, it's actually work to accomplish the goal. I've heard plenty of stories from friends that were so frustrated with sex because it actually became a chore to maximize the possibility of pregnancy.
Yeah, nah gonna disagree with you on this one bud.
@@Gunsbeerfreedom87 More power to you man. Back when I was in my late teens/early 20's, I could have managed it. I'm 32 now and having sex 5-10 times a day for multiple days in a row would actually suck.
As an older gentleman it takes anywhere from 15-30 mins to recharge. As a young guy (20s & younger) as long as it’s good it can b like 5-10mins. This depends on sex drive & amt of food intake.
Yep, I even did an endurance test on how much I can do in one day when I was young. Not record breaking sadly. Now as I'm older, with good supplements, once or twice a day.
I'm somehow going in the opposite direction as I get older. Longer refractory period when I was younger and now it is much shorter.
And there's also what I'd call a 'hormonal' refractory period - which tends to be about 3-5 days for me. During which I can get it up, but I'm not looking for it at all.
@@kos2919Back in my teens, if I was really bored, I could do it like 5 times a a day.
I've always thought it was longer for all of us. I'm about to be 30 and my refractory period has always hit me like a truck, and it took me an hour or more to potentially go for more.
Michi needs a student outfit when she's genuinely curious about these things cause chat be ready to put on the scholar hat and teach
So how short will the skirt be, and long socks or nah? 😂
@@jacobsmith8377yes to both questions
I’m not sure she’d want that. Think of the art it would generate. 😈
complete with pigtails and thick rimmed glasses
All I can say is ask Mel she is an expert and has a vast knowledge of sex and the problems that can occur, and yes she is a very kind, funny and lovely person, but from watching her over the years it is clear she has a calling and can be very serious on the subject.
"Regenerates after a second" ? This isn't some anime where we have wolverine levels of accelerated healing, Michi, lol.
Day 1 do 1.
Day 2 do twice...
DAY 10 DO 10 ?
DAMN GURL, that can actually kill most dude.
Only 10? Pffft
If u double each day, starting with 1, 2, 4 etc, the 31st day ud do it 2,147,483,648 times
There are 86,400,000 milliseconds in 24h, ud have to fuck every 24millisecond for 24h.
Oh yeah, Destroy Dick December
NONSTOP NUT NOVEMBER
Chafing is a major issue. Overuse is a bad thing. For maybe five times a week is usually the max. Mel is pretty much a sexologist. She knows a ton
The most relevant point is that the seconds after the moment, all desire to keep going disappear.
In this moment that the clarity may kick in, cause you just confronted with what you did without the desire to do it.
Parcial recoup 5 min
Full recoup 10-15 min
That also can change depending on stimulus though, and ofc person-to-person differences~
Personally it's a 50/50 of if the desire decreases or stays the same post nut; I've had times i want to go again immediately, from an arousal perspective but the physical cooldown is what stops me more than anything mental, haha
Refraction period is the time a man becomes a human being
It really does depend. If you were already in a bad mood, tired or depressed it absolutely heightens that. But if you're mentally doing good it actually takes very little for the desire to come back.
How hydrated you are also matters a lot.
@@antonioscendrategattico2302
There is a name for that sudden feeling of disgust/depression/anxiety/irritation/aggression. Postcoital Dysphoria, PCD for short. The main theory is that after we’re filled with the cocktail of endorphins, pleasure hormones, happy chemicals and positive stimuli the sudden crash in these lead to things like anxiety, depression, aggression, irritation, dysphoria and sadness post orgasm. Lost of people experience it with 40-50 percent of people in studies experiencing it. And that chemical hormonal cocktail isn’t the only factor. When we are turned on we can find things that aren’t normally attractive attractive. Take anal for example, most people in their non turned on state wouldn’t be into it or find the butthole attractive. But if you’re turned on, you might want to do things with a butthole be it someone else’s or your own. After you’re no longer turned on and remember that you were turned on by anal you feel bad and disgusted with yourself because you liked something you’d normally thing is gross. Obviously anal is a perfectly normal thing. And that brings up another factor to the post orgasm blues and that’s stigma. Due to influences, mainly western and religious ones, sex pleasure and what is deemed acceptable has led to things being stigmatized, from sexualities like lesbianism to certain fetishes like BDSM, feet, voyeurism, cross dressing, adipose and so on. Now sure something’s are rightfully stigmatized like pedophilia, zoophilia, and other bad things. But other stuff that society seems as too kinky/weird/gross those thoughts and feeling affect us, especially in what could be a vulnerable moment post nut.
@@antonioscendrategattico2302
There is a real condition called postcoital Dysphoria that’s the sudden onset of sadness anxiety and depression post orgasm that people are mistaking for post nut clarity. Anyone can experience it regardless of gender or sexuality and likely affects half the human population.
2:20
I find that actually really relatable because I have only one female friend I am close enough to ask that question, buy would also not have it be weird, and can not have it be awkward since it's not face to face.
Obviously I google stuff first, buy if there is a lot of conflicting info, I'll ask her.
is she real life friend or online?
So yeah the recovery to be back online IS 5 to 10, some have no to very little refractory period but it's not that common, but that's not the rate to recharge the bullets, that's the time the gun takes to Cool Down to shoot again so you eventually feel that like your guy is absolutely destroyed despite still being able to get it up and running, it doesn't really feel good
If I had to pick once every night or 3 times at night and then 2 days of rest I'd pick the one with the rest days (and sure an insane person growing up could be like "I do it thrice a day every day" that is technically not the same as actually doing the thing, because your body experiences a whole other Body impacting it so the mechanical stress you feel is different)
11:23 Friction burns on the shaft, not enough lube or low quality lube will cause that
i never use lube, but i do have soft hands and i only focus on the upper half, so that might explain why
@@Yuki_Ika7also, light touches helps a lot, as does careful grabbing to reduce how much your hand moves relative to your skin (which can and does move)
back in college, my libido and stamina were so high (as were my ex's), my ex and i for months had sex almost daily, with most sessions lasting hours. we cracked the 4 hour mark several times. and on rare occasion we'd do it twice in a day. sure, it hurt sometimes, but pain is also a turn-on for me and so it obviously wasn't hard for me to power through. and we were just wildly horny all the time. (sadly, life forced us to opposite sides of the us with little ability to see each other, so we had to break up after almost a decade.)
some added context: i'm trans - i have a dick. my ex didn't, and they were highly knowledgeable and experienced with sex and kink even then, having even learned shibari as a teen.
Other possible issues would be simply gripping too hard, and/or having too tight skin that won't slide a over the shaft at all.
@@tiagotiagot
Some don’t even have that skin. What matter is you take it easy on you little buddy, focus on what feels good and comfortable and don’t force yourself.
@@Toneill029 I mean the skin of the shaft itself, not foreskin. You would need quite a light touch to stroke it without the skin sliding like the grip of a shake-weight.
Every dudes libido is different. Refractory period can be around 10-30 min. However, sperm count can take around 3-7 days to recover back to it’s normal amount (which could effect the libido of dudes).
A reminder that Michi is an Indonesian. Even when she's from middle upper class family with good education, her sex-ed is lacking because our schools are very conservatives. And I believe she went to Christian school so she's not going to get that kind of education there.
Usa cant be any better 😂
So she's getting that education from Mel I think and some others willing to pitch
@@jacobsmith8377 Eh, it depends. Rural US yeah, it's about as bad as a third world country (from what I'm told) but in any even remotely urban context, school boards are usually not controlled by insane fundamentalists.
I'm from central europe and we didn't get any sex ed so...
Bro US schools are feminist and they barely even teach girls how their stuff works.
Tearing some skin off the shaft hurts like hell
So is the rare pimple or blister. Not to mention carpet burn. Worst case scenario is a penile fracture.
No worries! "Penile and scrotal skin degloving is uncommon and is mainly caused by accidents with agricultural and industrial machines." It'll be fine!
"Unless she ovulates sensu beans, he's f*cking done"
Man i love her chat
the funny thing about michi's clips on body questions, is that i can tell they're genuine questions and not for farming views XD
chat is crazy... 3 days of rest?!?! :o
everyday maybe 2-3 times a day is fine
Maybe they misunderstood the time it takes for sperm to regenerate with refractory period?
I know right! Once per day is not THAT taxing for average libido. Michi is right, generally speaking, that enjoyment would likely dwindle over time if you don't put some separation in between the experiences. For me (30s), refractory period is somewhere between 30-45 minutes where I'm physically unable to continue. Plenty of time to regenerate at least some of the energy needed to go again the next day.
You’re talking about 3 different metrics here libido, the desire to do it and enjoy it, refractory period the amount of time it takes to be able to go for round 2 without it being painful or unpleasant, and the amount of time it takes for the balls to produce more sperm
In terms of libido the majority of guys who tried the having sex once a day thing have said it felt like a chore, wasn’t fun, and that they stopped after 1-2 weeks because it was actually hurting their relationship
Libido is different for everyone and isn’t consistent, lots of things can effect it such as how many rounds you go and how long those rounds last among other things. If you had multiple long intense rounds in a single day 3 days of rest might be what you need
However couples who tried the challenge and stopped have said they found it much more enjoyable just having sex every 2-3 days or just when they feel like it as the obligation to do it everyday made it a lot worse
Actual fossils typing in chat
Michi: I have no-one I can ask this to!
Ferro - 'has literally read the manual on sex'
Mel - 'wants to be a Sex Ed teacher'
Chat: so there's a 50-50 chance I pass along sex misconceptions, but go for it girl
yeah 18:03 just triggered me so bad that I wanted to slap some sense in her, Mel has been begging for this type of interest and genuine questions and the first thing she thought was "I dont want to box her" EXCUSE ME!!!??? imagine studying, learning, gaining experience in one area so you can teach other people around you, and they dont want to ask you because that will be "boxing you"??? JESUS CHRIST as someone said in chat just ASK HER
Yeah 18:04 triggered me so bad, imagine learning, gaining experience in one area so that everyone around you could ask you in case they have genuine doubts and curiosity, you are begging to have this type of talks and yet they dont want to ask you because they dont want to box you? excuse me??? as someone said in chat, just ask her
Honestly I can relate a lot to the worries of treating people like they're just answering machines or like, only good for the one thing I know them for. And like 90% of the time it's not even anything sexual, it can be stuff like studying, playing games, etc.
In my case it's worse because I really do that to some extent, like I don't generally want to spend time with people for its own sake, there has to be one specific activity I'm interested in. I wouldn't go watch a movie I don't like even if it was with my best friend.
I think it’s time she meets Cotton
Would that be too much info at once?
Mel would be a great resource for you on topics like this. I'm sure she would be super happy to give you more in depth info with medical sources.
The older you get the longer it takes that green stamina bar to fill back up 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Hydration and fitness are also multiplicatives of that. lol
@@DinnerForkTongue
Your psychology could play a part too. Hard to keep it up if you’re not feeling it.
@@Toneill029 That goes for everyone, age doesn't matter.
Recharge time and desire recharge time is dependant on person and mood. When I was young, it was 4 times a day. Now, it's 1-2 times a day.
14:02
The way she repeats the word is so cute.
See, this is why you should always multiclass in Fighter! You gain action surge, and you get bonus action on top of that! This is the true meta of physical intimacy, fellas 👉🏼👉🏼
wut
@Keirnoth LOL, don't worry about it, I'm just being dumb 😅
I love skills, feats and perks with non-combat uses 🤣
@@Keirnoth Dungeons & Dragons tabletop joke.
@@DinnerForkTongue Oh dude, those are the best! They enhance the experience, especially as passives
This whole thing reminds me of the bit in Scrubs. Probably another issue here is since this is for having a kid they aren't spending the time to enjoy it. It's mechanical, get it done, gogogo. It's a job.
I would be willing to bet that the friend tore his frenulum. That happened to me and it sucks
post nut clarity is essentially resets you like a computer
Honestly she's bold. Lol like she's so chill about everything. Glad I stumbled upon her.
It's always entertaining to see Michi trying to learn about the human body.
"i cant ask my friends these questions cause that be really weird"
Michi: Oh google-chat will know!
I don't worry about a scratch, I worry about a friction blister.
don't do this...u will lose emotional attachment. give each other enough space
I'm glad she is clip farming, this was a lovely conversation and I'm really glad her chat wants to help her be more informed.
Every clip I watch of Michi is pure comedy 🤣
On PNC; Never experienced it. Post vs pre for me is mostly just tired since the adrenaline dumps out of my system. No disgust, no sadness, just satiation.
On recovery; the parts are ready to go again in about 5 minutes. It's my abs and thighs that hold me back from consecutive performances with the wife. That shit is a workout, man.
It depends on the person and their partner. I've been with someone where it was at least once a day, usually more, only exceptions were when we were physically separated, and it didn't feel like it was enough, and other relationships where twice a week felt like we were doing it a lot.
There are. A lot of health factors influencing how often you can/want/have to do it. I once had a month so bad I had mo boners for a month straight. But I fixed ot with hydration salt and sunfower seeds for vitamin B1
She doesn't know what seaman production is 💀
Indonesia isn't exactly the best country to teach sex ed
@@kos2919 Most of them aren't.
@@LupineShadowOmega
Unfortunately, it’s why sexual assault, teen pregnancy and general dissatisfaction with sex is so common. If no one understands consent or how to please a partner that leads to bad times and trauma.
@@kos2919 nah michi is just a NEET tbh, she just lacks experience and grew up ignorant about sex. I'm indonesian and sex ed is something that is actually accessible if you look for it.
It's endearing how innocently curious she is.
it's possible to go for hours and finish several times (if inspirational material is good enough)
it's easy to get serious damages (as if played with sandpaper) and regeneration can take from weeks to months (with pain during any form of touch or just peeing to the point of screaming and crying)
Mine makes me relaxed or at least really calm. Even if the cause was something disgusting i just calmly close it and that's it.
She made me think of the first 2 Fallout games where you could have sex up to your endurance score in a day, but if you go over you die. You can kill NPCs this way if you are 10 Endurance.
bro in that video entered sage mode faster than naruto
Tbh I love these type of moment on stream because often pretty much everyone end up with knowledge we should know as human but we don't feel like asking for because of how tabou it is in society.
I keep mistaking Michi Mochivee for Selen Tatsuki.
man i john it off everyday, i don't feel anything after the first month
Other VTubers: Yeah, let's talk about sex for views. Nothing will go wrong.
Michi: Chat, tell me about sex things because I'm curious and don't wanna bug my friends.
Haruka: I DIDN'T KNOW SEX EXISTED!
Normalize Biological Education
I can feel 10jin running from her questions
Michi and Mel should start a sex ed podcast.
tbh it's not weird at all if you just want to know.......well, if the other dude didn't misunderstood....
Nymphomaniacs like me think once a day is slacking, but I guess not all of us bros are thus cursed.
Chat somehow giving worse answers than chatgpt
Twitch chat being Twitch chat.
Judging only from this clip, there's confusion both from Michi and from chat here between refractory period and just normal fatigue from a physically intense exercise.
If that man is giving backshots, hes firing blanks-
You can do it multiple times in a day, but after that you good for a while
I'm pretty sure I could go 1 month straight with no problem. Multiple times on some days. Seems I'm weird though.
I don't want to sound rude, but have you actually had sex?
If the answer is yes and you still think that.
Then maybe you have more stamina than most men
Without a daily job i even dare to state that would be easy
"I'm not a dude... I think"
Schrodinger's Futa
Information about how human beings on reproductive health is very important but it is not discussed often enough. Not a lot of people know what to say about the human condition. Yeah I can understand her reasoning since it can be pretty awkward ask someone close about how their body works.
Wtf are these topics though.... now I'm invested
Pumping water? More like pumping oil.
I think a lot of it depends on what kind of segs you're having and who is putting in the most work. If a guy only lasts 5 mins compared to 20-30 (not counting foreplay), that's a big difference and who is exerting the most effort is a factor as well, if the guy is responsible for all the motion then that is a lot more draining as well.
It's also worth noting, that just like women, guys aren't just always in the mood, if you are having a bad day or are super stressed, pushing through that for your partner can be super draining.
My ideal would be 3 or 4 times a day
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What?! Once a day is too much for these people?
Once every 3 days is minimum... to be healthy, not for satisfaction and all.
2:02 different men have different refractory periods but it can be probably anywhere from a few minutes to a few days. It just depends on the guy.
I read that men typically have far longer refractory periods than women on average, and women may not even have a refractory period technically. Is that even accurate?
10 minutes to extend the tripod, 1 day to reload
Note, the following does not necessarily apply to teenagers and young adults.
For an average adult male, if it's not every day he will generally be able to go a few times during a day no problem, maybe even a few times over a few hours if he's really in the mood. If it's once a day every day like clockwork it will continually wear him down without the opportunity to rest and recover. A week might be fine, but more than that will really wear him down.
For a teenager or young adult three times a day every other day, or even every day, might be easy. Though even then bruising, chafing, and worn out muscles will still be a limiting factor in the end.
Kenja time? Would be crazy
I know this isn't michi but hopefully she sees this. In my early 20s I deeded for a week once a day with an SO. The lil dude was on the verge of blistering and the drive after like 4 days straight was dead and I'm a nympho. Making someone like me not want to do the do is a notable achievement
Bro i just take a nap after lowkey
The 20 min to an hour is the refractory period, which is the time it takes to be able to maintain an an erection after orgasm. The few days thing is to recover sperm count and semen volume. Having it low means low testosterone, which can mean low energy for guys since they need testosterone to function.
If Tenjin is watching, you can ask him.
surprisingly i have never really had "post nut clarity", i mean i realize some of the stuff i wack it too can be messed up, also i wack it at least once every 2 days typically
Michi: I can say I’m doing this for content.
Oh no, Michi; you’re fooling no one here. Your curiosity is just so obvious.😂
Big factor in that is anonymity though. She can’t really ask anyone irl and most people would be uncomfortable to answer as most of the time it will be them speaking from personal experience, and that’s indirectly admitting to having done/experienced it first hand to quite an extent. But chat can be honest since no one know who they are.
Girl thinks we're doujin protagonist 💀
Chat and streamer confusing eachother accidentally
Guys like brownies too, but eat too many at once and you get sick
I mean, normal people it can be a few days. Others after half an hour. And then theres Johnny Sins…
I think I learn sex ed from this channel more than I did in my school and university lmao
ah yes "Sage time"
12:29 to answer Michi's question, no it is not, because that aspect is provided by the anatomy of the other party... (I think that's a decent way to explain it?)
your friend tore his frenulum probably.
1-3 days!? Bruh gimme like 4-6 hours and maybe some coffee or something and I'm good. Also have never had post nut "clarity". But I have had post nut "exhaustion". Like I am at risk of falling asleep very soon afterwards. Best sleep aid ever for me.
what she in need of ,idk. tho,must be something. jeezsh!
Best way to put it…you may like cheesecake and hate ice cream, but if you had cheesecake everyday for 30+ days straight, ice cream would look appetizing.
I mean... for a while when I was in my 20s I was having sex every day with my gf... but, now? I'm 40, fuck that, like I can offer a hand when needed, but currently I am single, so I am ok with being celibate, also I don't think a relationship would be able to survive my sage time.
Sage time is when you realize you spent 30 min working like a slave, just to get off, which I could take care of it much easier by myself, if anything about the girl annoys me, it is concentrated and distilled in to this crystal nugget of "why am I here?". After the clarity ends, if that woman (or guy i guess) does not do anything to make me go "oh, right that is why I am with her" it simply starts to turn to loathing.
Also, injuries are serious... Like, it may hurt a bit for the girl if gets in at a weird angle, for the guy it's like the world stops as your now bent and bruised member reports the overwhelming damage that is being provided by the girl thinking nothing is wrong and still making weird motions that potentially injured me in the first place.
Girls and Boys have alot of Nerve endings in that Area. So even a small injury is constant Pain until the Injury is fully healed. Thats also the Reason why a kick between the Legs shuts down every Male more efficient that hitting his Head with an Object.
Very informative Video^^ The good Thing is.... the Main Action may only be actually usable every few Days, but if it comes to female Satisfaction, the Main Action isnt really needed. Girls react alot to Touch Sensations, so if you know how to please her without the Main Action, you both should benefit from it.
I’ll agree with the second half more. (First half is accurate too.) My current SO loves me going down on her. Apparently most of the past guys in her life refused or rushed through it without getting her off.
When I was younger I thought I was below average (found out I’m not) so I wanted to learn other ways to please my partner. I made friends with a lesbian & picked her brain. She basically “trained” me for lack of a better word.
@@Ekimsredne always good to have a whole Toolset to be ready for different Situations :)
weak guys -- I can go 4 times in a row without stop
with your hand you mean and not a woman
Only 4?
@@procow2274 most guys can't even go more then once
@@TechGuru666 I did it 9 times one day when I was like 16. Now I use buttplugs, life changing.
It is different for every single person. Lust. Libido. Sex drive. Stamina. Endurance. Their is no shame in better understanding your own body's wants desires and limitations. Some have an extremely high sex drive. Some have sex once a month and they are satisfied. Never be ashamed of your own body's limitations or desires.
Remember when a Vtuber says the most unhinged thing you've ever heard it's there Job 💀
she really needs to know that everyone knows how uneducated she is and everyone will understand that when she asks something out of pocket, its genuine
Big brain 🧠 4D Chess Baby 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Here's a tip for Michi. It gets awkward because she wants to ask her guy friends "Hey, how long does _your_ PP take to recoup?" What she should do is ask in general. "Hey, how long does it take for a guy's PP to recoup?" or "How long does it take for guys-" and so on.
whos gona tell her that all her male "friends" just palying the long game
how bad? to the post where you would just stop, for like a solid minute or two, just thinking how you got here, the mistake you made that lead you here and how you are a failure to yourself