Yes! Love watching AITA, but I think asshole is frowned upon by UA-cam, most of the UA-camrs say A-Hole instead of kallmekris says scallywag lol but you should definitely make this a series! Never seen an Asmr version! So love this ❤️
The story about the guy that helps poorly evokes either weaponized incompetence (a strategy to endorse less responsability by just being bad at stuff) and/or a lack of ability to accept criticism. In a couple it's often the former, men tend to, consciously or not (I've unfortunately done it without realising it) offload or neglect a lot of their responsabilities when it comes to chores etc So I agree an adult discussion needs to happen but I think this guy really needs to grow up and realize that "half assed help" is not 50-50, you did not achieved the goal that was set for the task, and you even added even more work, you've not even done 0-100 but got into negative % help lol. It's unfair and he needs to understand it and adress it in a adult and fair way. Hiding your mess is childish behavior and if he doesn't understand that he has a lot of growing up to do. I get that it's hard to ear when you genuinely think that you're helping and you can pretty quickly get defensive and think that the other person is unfair but you gotta let your ego aside for a moment and see that your partner is hurt and needs you to step up.
For the one about cleaning it reminds me of a thing I saw a couple talked about recently where if they need help with a chore, the one who’s helping asks “what’s the definition of clean” basically a checklist of exactly how they want it done. Could potentially help because that couple clearly have different beliefs about what “clean” means to them.
The third guy is not an asshole like it’s his home and he should be able to have candy there without kids taking it and yes his sister should replace it because it’s stealing
There's a section for that on Reddit?... Who am I kidding? It's Reddit. Of course there is! Actually, this sounds like the kind of thing my wife would've posted in. Her family is just the most toxic group of people you could ever meet. They've done such damage to her mental health, it leads her to think she's the A-hole when in fact she's far from it...
9:35 that really is super annoying. I live in belgium, and if we say something thats small, we usually add 'tje' to the word. Now, my name is 'Floor' (a very common name) and a lot of people call me 'Floortje', basically they call me little. I hate when someone exept my sister or parents call me that, but people keep callign me that. So no, you're not the ashole
I really enjoyed this Reddit video Pamela, it was fun and different! You mentioned you were looking for something other than your usual videos. Maybe you could try something like reading famous and inspirational quotes. It would be different, but not too different, so people should still watch. Btw do you have a new camera or lighting? Your video thumbnails recently seem to have more detail and look more natural than before. They look great 👌
I think the guy who cannot help his wife properly is just a dick. People have been married for how long, eight years? And he cannot seem to fathom how he could be in the wrong. Some men just don't care.
I have a nickname that I hate and I only let my mom call me but only when I was little and now that I am 12 years old, my family members some of them call me my nickname and they say that it’s funny to me. It is fucking annoying.
Not sure if you’ve made a video like this before, but making things interactive with the comments sounds so fun! Like maybe we can submit our own stories through a google docs for you to read, or we can ask you questions, or we can be the ones who make the “personal questions” for your personal questions videos!! 🩷🩷
That third story is classic weaponized incompetence. It honestly boils my blood.
Omggg I LOVE this!! Asmr AITA readings are like my favourite videos ever!! Please do more 😍❤️
Hey Pamela, can we have a short story reading video soon? Like maybe some fairytales or smth. I feel like it would be super relaxing and sleepy. ☺️
yes pleeease🥹
No!
Much agree with this comment 👍🏼
i love watching aita videos on tiktok but it makes me feel guilty for ”wasting time” so this is great bc i also get to fall asleep while listening 🥰
I loved this, Imma need a part 2 asap, nah but in all seriousness love your videos
This was SO tingly!!!! I’m gonna need a longer version :)
Your videos are always relaxing and interesting. Keep up the hard work.
@@dmo860 thank you!
Love the vid pamela, would love to see a part 2 to this!
Yes! Love watching AITA, but I think asshole is frowned upon by UA-cam, most of the UA-camrs say A-Hole instead of kallmekris says scallywag lol but you should definitely make this a series! Never seen an Asmr version! So love this ❤️
Eh they can get over it or demonetize me
@pamelaasmr haha love it 😂
I love your different videos, pamela. You are always interesting. I love your channel
The story about the guy that helps poorly evokes either weaponized incompetence (a strategy to endorse less responsability by just being bad at stuff) and/or a lack of ability to accept criticism. In a couple it's often the former, men tend to, consciously or not (I've unfortunately done it without realising it) offload or neglect a lot of their responsabilities when it comes to chores etc
So I agree an adult discussion needs to happen but I think this guy really needs to grow up and realize that "half assed help" is not 50-50, you did not achieved the goal that was set for the task, and you even added even more work, you've not even done 0-100 but got into negative % help lol. It's unfair and he needs to understand it and adress it in a adult and fair way. Hiding your mess is childish behavior and if he doesn't understand that he has a lot of growing up to do.
I get that it's hard to ear when you genuinely think that you're helping and you can pretty quickly get defensive and think that the other person is unfair but you gotta let your ego aside for a moment and see that your partner is hurt and needs you to step up.
READ THE TITLE AND CHEERED! YIPPEEEEEE
pleeeaase do these forever...and make them 7 hours long 😂joking on that but obviously, but I just love your whisper and AITA vids are my favourite
Pamela this video is actually excellent! I'm glad you decided to take a chance on this one 👍 Thank you for sharing 💛
That's most unhinged subreddit ever 😩🥴😭
Always love a good Reddit video! 💗
I really like this idea, I haven’t seen other creators do this. It’s fun and different!
For the one about cleaning it reminds me of a thing I saw a couple talked about recently where if they need help with a chore, the one who’s helping asks “what’s the definition of clean” basically a checklist of exactly how they want it done. Could potentially help because that couple clearly have different beliefs about what “clean” means to them.
This is fire good job Pamela
I really enjoyed it, I hope you’ll make more like this!
The third guy is not an asshole like it’s his home and he should be able to have candy there without kids taking it and yes his sister should replace it because it’s stealing
omg my favorite video yet
Hi Pamela, I came to say that your ASMR is really incredibly wonderful, the crackles and the peace that the video brings is very good❤
@@marcxla_09 thank you!
There's a section for that on Reddit?... Who am I kidding? It's Reddit. Of course there is!
Actually, this sounds like the kind of thing my wife would've posted in. Her family is just the most toxic group of people you could ever meet. They've done such damage to her mental health, it leads her to think she's the A-hole when in fact she's far from it...
More aita this is awesome!!
This is waaay better than those ai voices reading
Bruh this was sooo good
9:35 that really is super annoying. I live in belgium, and if we say something thats small, we usually add 'tje' to the word. Now, my name is 'Floor' (a very common name) and a lot of people call me 'Floortje', basically they call me little. I hate when someone exept my sister or parents call me that, but people keep callign me that. So no, you're not the ashole
omg i love thissss please make more 😭❤️
I really enjoyed this Reddit video Pamela, it was fun and different! You mentioned you were looking for something other than your usual videos. Maybe you could try something like reading famous and inspirational quotes. It would be different, but not too different, so people should still watch.
Btw do you have a new camera or lighting? Your video thumbnails recently seem to have more detail and look more natural than before. They look great 👌
@@calum580 I used to take my thumbnail pictures with my work laptop but then I left my job so now I take them with my phone. Glad you like them!
If you decide to do this again (which i would love!) i suggest reading some comments under the post :)
You might read petty revenge stories.
Now this is spicy
Loved thissss
Did the grinch steal ur x-Mas tree 🌲??? Happy Monday Pam
@@sirpanchosdelarocha278 lol this was just filmed before I put it up 😂
I think the guy who cannot help his wife properly is just a dick. People have been married for how long, eight years? And he cannot seem to fathom how he could be in the wrong. Some men just don't care.
I was watching your teaching you genetics video every night before my science test and I passed ❤️
Congrats!!
Once more a very nice video!
This is crazy ❤
Not the ass hole for the first one
More AITA videos would be great!
Please do more
This is crazy
Keep the arsehole’s coming, you do them really well! Keep up the great work and a reading vid would be greatly appreciated 😊
I have a nickname that I hate and I only let my mom call me but only when I was little and now that I am 12 years old, my family members some of them call me my nickname and they say that it’s funny to me. It is fucking annoying.
Will you plz do trivia quiz challenge each round for 45 seconds plus bonus round for 60 seconds plz that's my special request 😍😍😍❤❤
Not sure if you’ve made a video like this before, but making things interactive with the comments sounds so fun! Like maybe we can submit our own stories through a google docs for you to read, or we can ask you questions, or we can be the ones who make the “personal questions” for your personal questions videos!! 🩷🩷
@@ello4861 yeah I love those ideas! I’ve done some in the past but just didn’t get enough comments