What To Do With A Guy That Is Emotionally Unavailable?

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  • What To Do With A Guy That Is Emotionally Unavailable?
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  • @J33SS
    @J33SS 7 місяців тому +41

    honestly the best thing to do is walk away… and find someone who’s actually ready and willing for a relationship. in my experience waiting around, adapting and acting like u dont want more just leads to dissapointment, him being complacent and taking u for granted.

  • @XoxoMS
    @XoxoMS 7 місяців тому +30

    Honestly, if you find yourself being attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and then trying to adjust your own behavior in hopes of winning his affection, earning his love or somehow changing him (to become someone who finally feels, sees you and openly shows love for you?), then it might be a good idea to reflect on your childhood and ask yourself why you’re doing this..

    • @vivhiggins5656
      @vivhiggins5656 27 днів тому

      All true!

    • @alenaadamkova7617
      @alenaadamkova7617 16 днів тому

      Even if he is unavailable....
      Nobody says you are supposed to get him as a partner, but your classy attitude and non-aggressive attitude will show him and make him remember
      that one day as he gains his emotional strength and willigness, its possible for him to find true purpose in relationhip
      no matter whether it will be with you or with some other classy woman.
      He will remember: I met few classy women who did show me a way, but at that time I wasnt prepared for relationship
      but he will feel happy that such classy good women exist, who dont punisdh him, who dont force him to be with you, but who give him option to chose from
      If you remain calm and classy and give him option, to believe in love,
      it has many values
      you start liking yourself for being classy calm, not pushy woman, non-judgmental woman, who is able to maintain being calm and happy for your own mental strength
      second it will make you realise, this way you really inspire men to change and have option, to really chose good women and nolt following some apps
      you will inspire other women to be classy, not pushy, not judgmental about men and their mental transformation
      you will increase the possibility to really attract someone who has the same attitude and mindset about relationship.
      and even if you wouldnt attract good guy, you know that with right mindset you may remain happy
      even women without man, are able to live happilly, because they have classy and nice girlfriends.

  • @barbarap.2527
    @barbarap.2527 7 місяців тому +18

    My situation now and he's in and out. Smh I'm shutting down and not putting no more effort just basic friendship. If he wants me, he needs to put in the work

  • @breonaharrison732
    @breonaharrison732 7 місяців тому +16

    Why deal with that guy! Just move on…..

  • @ellenmorse8559
    @ellenmorse8559 7 місяців тому +10

    Run….as fast as you can!

  • @kristinanrs7712
    @kristinanrs7712 7 місяців тому +6

    he was 3 years emotionally unavailable and then it turned out he slept all this time with mother of his kids. Im done.

  • @laremi3577
    @laremi3577 7 місяців тому +7

    Emotionally unavailable means he wants sex with no commitment.
    In reply, just cut his sex meetings, meet in public places, do nonsexual activities and have fun yourself.

  • @edzisach2048
    @edzisach2048 7 місяців тому +8

    it's excatly my situation now...thanks Alex for this info...

  • @valengracevalenzuela522
    @valengracevalenzuela522 6 місяців тому +3

    Alex Tnx you a lot to be honest becouse of you I realize my mistake about relastionship I'm so needy and begging now I slowly understand kick out that kind of emotion I have

  • @angelinazimmerman9519
    @angelinazimmerman9519 Місяць тому

    Thank you Alex for helping!

  • @easytosketch5464
    @easytosketch5464 20 днів тому +1

    Honestly I really love your advice dearest may God keep blessing you

  • @noulee7772
    @noulee7772 Місяць тому +1

    I’m going through that situation now. He admitted he is hurt from his previous relationship, he scares to be in a relationship. I back out and told him to just want to be friends and not more. Not giving him more than what you cannot handle

  • @mamaknow8056
    @mamaknow8056 3 місяці тому

    This is great Alex, gotta enjoy the moment yes 🥰

  • @kaseymoscoso8238
    @kaseymoscoso8238 Місяць тому

    Great advice, so much to remember! Omg! I’m soaking it in! Thank you

  • @uchemaureen46
    @uchemaureen46 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks again, Alex…
    You helped me yesterday through one of your videos. Instant help! The table turned and I’m here now, a happy woman equipped to know herself more and find her happiness in a relationship and marriage. Thank you, please.

  • @janetstraw191
    @janetstraw191 7 місяців тому +3

    I simply wouldn’t waste my time!🤷‍♀️

  • @raphaellaamorim1876
    @raphaellaamorim1876 3 місяці тому +1

    I've done exactly what you teach here, without knowing! When he said he need a break, he need to breathe, I said to him that I understand, that I have a lot going on in my life too, my job, my hobbies, blablabla. When we talk, we keep a light conversation. He isn't in love again, but he still talking to me, I hope he really change his mind.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 місяці тому +1

      It's good that you keep the conversation light. Let's hope he changes his mind :)

    • @raphaellaamorim1876
      @raphaellaamorim1876 3 місяці тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you! I'm watching your videos, and I can say I've been learning more with you, than any other coach in my country, in my mother language!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @blackcarriebradshaw
    @blackcarriebradshaw 7 місяців тому +3

    Agreeing that he should take his time allows him space to see other women.

  • @user-rl4kp5dh5i
    @user-rl4kp5dh5i 2 місяці тому

    So true. I can relate ..😢

  • @RosieMewan-fg5it
    @RosieMewan-fg5it Місяць тому +1

    Honestly Alex you are doing well,well done png girl ❤❤❤❤

  • @niharikaverma5927
    @niharikaverma5927 Місяць тому +3

    My bf was doing exactly the same things ...he is emotionally unavailable.....nd I was doing the same mistake 😮

  • @elizabethgarcia6160
    @elizabethgarcia6160 2 місяці тому

    Wow!!!!!! Something I was going through yesterday with a spiritual friend 😢he obviously doesn’t trust after his last relationship

  • @alaalfa8839
    @alaalfa8839 6 місяців тому

    stoicism and blocking emotions are two different thigs.
    but its true that when you have goal, job, or household stuff, you need to focus on goal with happy emotions, love empathy gratitude
    and healthily resolve negative emotions by not being attached to them, which makes you feel negative emotions are short term, which makes your heart blissful.

  • @Karimamaraghni
    @Karimamaraghni 7 місяців тому +1

    Bonsoir Alex

  • @coco8386
    @coco8386 20 днів тому

    With emotionally un- available guys, it's really important to talk..........about the weather. And when you want to go deep....ask him... exactly what kind of weather does he like?

  • @princess377
    @princess377 7 місяців тому +3

    Hi Alex Why are men so complicated they are hard work. Life itself is stressful and then to have more stress from a man. I’m just looking for a connection with a man fall in love and live happily ever after.

  • @SilentPhilly
    @SilentPhilly 3 місяці тому

    Soo, we have two opposite ways, how to deal with men, when they're not enough into us.. and how can we tell, if he's emotionally unavailable or just lost interest?

  • @user-zk7mc3jv5m
    @user-zk7mc3jv5m 7 місяців тому

    As in why is he keeping the letter. He hasn't put it inside a drawer...

  • @dilrubakhanam258
    @dilrubakhanam258 7 місяців тому

    👍

  • @elizabethgarcia6160
    @elizabethgarcia6160 2 місяці тому

    The worst thing to do as well is sleeping with someone and then 2 months later what you’re describing happens!! So first impressions tell me everything! Enough time to walk away!!! 😢

  • @elizabethgarcia6160
    @elizabethgarcia6160 2 місяці тому +2

    But I finally drew him out making him laugh it’s that simple!! 😂

  • @yenkimthingoc4842
    @yenkimthingoc4842 7 місяців тому

    Hello Alex!.
    I meet exactly this men. I need help from you.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 місяців тому

      Hi there!
      I know coach Alex would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @musicwithlovie4838
    @musicwithlovie4838 25 днів тому

    Ah! Thats why he called me narc , because i feel that he's really emotionally unavail. Ill flirt with him one time. Then he gets mad, exactly what he said im narc 🤣🤣, he's insane. I met him dating online. He's so sensitive turn me off , but he is really very handsome, tall, but very sensitive like woman🥴🥴

  • @IAMPOETRY7
    @IAMPOETRY7 2 місяці тому

    In this video you say one should communicate emotional things but the first video of yours I watched before this one you said to NOT communicate emotions because it will push him away.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 місяці тому

      My guidance is customized to address various scenarios related to this topic. Should you seek personalized advice tailored to your specific circumstances, I invite you to schedule a coaching call. This way, I can gain a deeper understanding of your situation and provide you with individualized guidance during our one-on-one session.
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @kammyo8660
    @kammyo8660 3 місяці тому

    Enjoying the moment with someone who is unavailable will cause to be put in friends with benefit drawer…

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 місяці тому

      Yes! Do not accept a 'friends with benefits' relationship if you are looking for something more serious.

  • @user-xs4yn3ij4o
    @user-xs4yn3ij4o 4 місяці тому

    Now Couch Alex., i don't know if he will be back again . At first he was emotionally unavailable. But another girl got his timing. Introduced her his family, went to their family, ...and now he says to me that he only loves this girl that he cheated on me with. Do i really still have chance here??, Please, i need help.# I'm so much heartbroken... I can't do without him

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 місяці тому

      Hi there!
      I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I know coach Alex would love to help you with this situation but he would need to know a little more information before he helps you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link!
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @Callie0818
    @Callie0818 3 місяці тому

    How long do we go along and keep doing this before he actually becomes emotionally available?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 місяці тому +1

      Patience is a virtue, especially in love. Each person evolves at their own pace, and pushing someone to open up before they're ready can be counterproductive. To foster an environment conducive to emotional openness, focus on creating a safe space where your partner feels supported and understood, without pressure or judgment. It's also important to communicate openly about your own needs and feelings while remaining receptive to theirs.

  • @candygirl1990
    @candygirl1990 7 місяців тому +1

    I always attract emotionally unavailable men. How do i stop alex? X

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 місяців тому +1

      Hi there! I have a vide on my channel that can help you with this! I hope you find the time to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/FsSxTmIDm10/v-deo.htmlsi=LxTizrqD5jvF06Mz

  • @jana07100
    @jana07100 3 місяці тому

    Its my siruation now and few days i think about hos can i finish with him. I feel me emitter, feel i gave so much and have no energi entmore.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 місяці тому

      I'm so sorry to hear about this!

    • @jana07100
      @jana07100 3 місяці тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert its ok), im very very strong . Its only good for me, i tale it as a big big lessin like in highscool.☺️ but your videos is realt hjelps people and it give like a push a wake up and tale a responsibility for own life. Only i can change it like i want and like i wish☺️

  • @juvyvargas6911
    @juvyvargas6911 7 місяців тому

    Hi alex please I need your help

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 місяців тому

      Hi there!
      If you want one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @karrysmi8923
    @karrysmi8923 Місяць тому

    Better single 💯

  • @fatimasalie3911
    @fatimasalie3911 7 місяців тому

    Yeah his emotional unavailable😮🙄

  • @user-zk7mc3jv5m
    @user-zk7mc3jv5m 7 місяців тому

    I sent my ex an accountability letter. He has read it, he is keeping it. He has it on top of his drawers. We have been split 6 weeks
    Do you know why?

    • @Adelina24244
      @Adelina24244 3 місяці тому

      Girl I hope you left that man if he didn’t give you an answer. Find love in yourself babe and keep doing your thing