That's too much. If the bill like $450 and it's like 12 of us, then no problem 🤷🏾♂️. I'm sure nobody would have objected to everyone splitting evenly for the birthday boy or girl. Real talk. But to expect MFS to pay an almost 5 grand tab (unless they ain't leaving a tip 😂) is beyond crazy. Like tf 🤣
@sugarandspice2136 same here. My sister always splits the bill evenly when out with friends. If I'm treating a friend I'll pay for her and myself but don't include me in the even split. Not because I'm cheap but I like a few drinks at dinner once in a while and it wouldn't be right to let my friends pay extra, so separate checks for me.
@@baseballsux2 tf? Why? That's childish. It's common sense that you will pay for your own food. Don't order things expecting others to help pay. Nobody is obligated to tell you that they aren't buying you things lmao
This happened to me. Was invited to a birthday party that I didn’t even want to go to because I didn’t have much money. Felt sorry for the girl who invited me so I ate before I left and just got a drink (it was a lounge so it wasn’t weird to do that.) anyways- she came to me and said the party didn’t spend enough money to have the table free so she expected me to chip in $100 when I was expecting my $12 bill. I told her straight up NO. Sorry. She was PISSED and told me “it’s MY birthday I shouldn’t have to deal with this.” Waitress didn’t want to give me my bill either! I told them they have the option of charging me $12 or I will leave without paying at all. Ended up getting my bill and cutting friendship.
@@LaneSims I know exactly how you feel. Something similar happened to me. A group of cool "friends" (not) invited me to join them. One guy orders a fancy expensive steak with a bunch of other food. Paid only a portion of it and left. The cool "friends" expected me to pitch in when I ordered the least amount of food. So stupid. Being generous and doing all that is a choice not a requirement. And my money was very limited that time.
@LaneSims she shouldn't expect everyone to pay alot of money. It's her party so she should deal with that bill. You better off without her. She should know you have to buy a bottle to get a table.
That lounge sounds seedy. Don't try to entrap unassuming folk....hang it on the person who reserved the table! What does somebody else putting on a front for their birthday have anything to do with you? Whatever happened to throwing a house party with a keg, a speaker, no decorations and a bit of food?? (a lot of food makes people hang around too long...DAYS of they can manage) People in their 20s make a big tiff over their birthday to look good for their friends and live up to the hype, but they don't even stick around for much longer after you go broke trying to keep up with the Joneses. I used to have hundreds of "friends" but once I stopped throwing parties at 23, 90% of those people I met were no longer in my life immediately and never spoke to me except to tell me "Happy Birthday" (only because a fb notification reminded then to do so), that my parties were awesome and when was I throwing another... Not worth the hype.
You have to ask yourself why fuss about the bill each guest knows for a fact what they ordered how much it cost and be prepared to pay for their meal and drinks. Stop pretending That just bc u show up and order an outrageous expensive meal that the next person is going to pay your bill. Now I agree in one thing I would chip in for the birthday girl.
It depends on how the costs work out, I’ve been in situations where one person in a couple has only had soft drinks and another couple have devoured two bottles of wine between them. While it might look cheap to some for keeping tabs on what your food and drinks come to, when there is an imbalance like this it makes sense. Typically in groups I’m out with we expect to be paying our share, simple rounding up often covers any tip ( UK not stupid 20% in USA) so most order normally, that way if one couple suddenly offer to cover the whole cost when the bill comes for whatever reason no-one has been seen to have been taking the piss and ordering the most expensive items
@TruthHurtsLikeH3ll if you are an adult and get invited to dinner, you should still expect to pat for yourself. If you get invited to the pub do you expect someone else to get all the drinks?
😂 why did you say France for ehat ? Like just randomly or what ? Cauz when I saw your cmt the lady who said you need to know whp your friends are just alligned at same time around ? And that friend sounded like France 😂
That's an objective and totally fair solution. What I don't understand is did the birthday girl have to invite her friends because if so that's real shitty of them?
@@MarioMartinez-tt9lyI don’t even celebrate holidays, but if this was her birthday party and she labeled it like that, then she can’t invite people and expect them to pay anything. Let alone a 4k bill! They was probably ordering food like that girl had a birthday package or something. A “pre fix “ price meal. Idk I haven’t been to something like this in years anyway.
For any meal with a group, everyone should know beforehand what is expected. If I get invited to a bday dinner, I'll pay for myself and at least a portion of the bday person's meal (depending on how much it is, I might just pay for it outright). The amount of this bill is atrocious... I can pay my monthly living expenses for three months on that amount!
I dont understand .if you are invited for a birthday meal it should be the hosts responsibility to pay eveeyones bill.otherwise who cares for the birthday.Strange country.
The brotha with the blonde braids did an aftermath video. He was friends with one of the women since the 3rd grade and she straight stop being friends with him over this.
She was mad initially but they talked and he said she said her problem was that you could’ve took me with you to the bar to pay my own bill too and we could leave together. They cool though, they got past it
I am at a grown age. I have never in my life experienced any of this foolishness over a bill. Choose your company wisely. If you sit down to a meal, you better have the money to pay for that meal whether or not someone else is willing to pay for you or not.
I have never seen a $4600 restaurant tab. I would have created my own separate tab from start when I saw a bunch of strangers. Don't dine with strangers.
Not specifics tho. Mostly because it can only be split onto a few cards. As far as who pays what ... Figure that shit out. An oh. That 20% gratuity gets included when dealing with large groups. For obvious reasons.
It depends on how much the bill is, 20% of 4600 is 920, a half month of salary for an average worker, that guy have all rights to decline especially if he didn't spend much.
I don't do group dinners with Black folks I know who never have money. I graciously decline. My social circle is very small and consists of those who are never broke
I show up at the restaurant and I see people that I don't know. I will turn around and walk out of the restaurant IMMEDIATELY. why? This is going to be a shit show.
This is why it’s best not to go to a woman’s bday bash if it includes dinner at a restaurant and if you do go by chance make sure you have your bill separate from everyone else’s.
In my culture you take people out, you pay for the bill.. Or you can decide to go somewhere extravagant and each person chips in.. BUT - all that is decided beforehand
In my culture, if someone offers to pay you make sure you get something sensible. You don't get something extremely expensive that's gonna put people in debt. Ain't nobody got $5000 for one dinner. We have bills to pay
This should be discussed when you invited everyone out. There are 3 acceptable scenarios here: 1) It’s my birthday and I want y’all to celebrate with me, so I’m going to cover it since it is my choice of restaurant. 2) I’m having my birthday dinner here. If you want to come it will be separate checks. So everyone pays for themselves. 3) someone else entirely invites you out for your birthday (maybe lets you bring a friend or two if they feel generous) and pays because they wanted to treat you for your birthday.
I had to explain this to my daughter last Christmas. Rather than having my wife cook for the whole family on Christmas Day we took everyone to a restaurant instead. My daughter wanted to pay her share so I explained when you meet someone for dinner you can share the bill but when you specifically invite them for dinner then the bill is your responsibility. There was no reason why wanting to give my wife a break should cost everyone else money Ps the food was manky so she's back in the kitchen this year 😂
People pay their own bill and split the birthday person, and if the birthday person brings dependents where they would normally pay for the bill of the dependents like children then the birthday person pays for them. This is what is normal.
Imagine if you purposely ordered the cheapest items on the menu while others got expensive stuff and in the end they ask you to split the bill evenly. I would be mad too. 😮
This situation has been happening a lot... It's annoying arguing with someone about a birthday dinner bill.... Let's just get them a nice gift and some money...
Almost $5k for a dinner out? That's insane in and of itself. People's expectations and demands are getting SERIOUSLY out of control! It's beyond ridiculous!
@@Ruby_Eve It wasn't just the birthday girl. The women next to her ordered very expensive bottles of wine that only drank and then those women expected the men that didn't drink to subsidize their expensive drinking.
They were asked to split the bill evenly, that's different from paying for your own meals, especially if what you ordered is way cheaper than your friends'. That's why the guys were upset.
For the life of me I can’t see how people run up a bill over $1000 lol 😂 I’m asking for MY CHECK for MY FOOD before anyone else even says anything 😂😂😂🤷🏻♀️
@howardtreesong4860 and they got away with it. No one called the police or anything to make sure the bill would get paid. This means you can walk into any restaurant, eat and not pay basically
This should have been discussed BEFORE ordering food. I know if I get a grilled chicken Cesar salad and a glass of wine I’m not contributing $100 to a huge bill
First of all my friend knows better than to go to a place that cost $4k to damn eat! Secondly, I always got my bestie because I’m not going nowhere without enough funds! Ugh
The one with the nails on the far camera-right doing the Frenchman's wave. 😅 How about the Bday girl hosts a dinner party at home instead of all this foolishnesss?
American doing it backward. ITS should be the birthday boy / girl pay and because of that the birthday guy or girl will only invite few real close Friend Not entire city. Because he / he Will be pying .
The person who invited everyone. It’s my birthday I am inviting people I will pay. If someone specifically says they want to treat me than it’s ok but I won’t be bringing anyone along with me. The cost of living has skyrocketed, people need to discuss beforehand or decline simple.
I wouldn't pay nothen I'm paying for me and my lady an that's it,,,you notice each time this situation happens,it's like when people think someone else is paying the bill they want too order the most expensive meals they can get,,,like I said I don't care who's birthday unless it's my daughter or something,,,grown people can pay for their grown meal,💯
1.) The friends should pay for what they ordered (individually). 2.) The friends should equally contribute to the Birthday Person’s tab. Simple arithmetic.
I go out to eat with my white friends and even when I offer to pay for my own meal they insist to let them pay....but im a prideful man so I pay my own bill. I hang out with my black friends and it's already understood that you pay for whatever you eat. Now if I take a female out on a date I have no problem paying the full bill... most dates I've been on the female would offer to pay the tip and im cool with that.
That was the case of the birthday girl & her girl friends started looking at the 3 men at the table to cover that bill & none of them were dating or married to any of those men. If I am invited out I am obligated to pay for me only I am not paying your bill especially when you are not my girlfriend or wife. These people are the definition of over entitled.
Everyone should pay for what they eat and that's it. Splitting evenly means some people order $300 and some people order $50. It isn't cool. Those people who order $300 worth of stuff, normally can't afford it but, they do it in those situations cuz, they know everyone else is chipping in. Nah, pay fa ya self.
I feel like all of them should have went to all you can eat buffet and none of this would be on tiktok. Why do people even go out to eat at fancy restaurants when they know they can't afford it? And trust me some of these all you can eat buffets are really delicious!
That’s not the issue. Apparently she invited them to her birthday dinner then blindsided them expecting them to pay. I don’t know who she is or what her money looks like but that’s fxcked up. That’s why the guys were mad. This was on her. She should’ve beforehand her tab was covered & made sure everybody had their money right or just not invited them.
This has absolutely nothing to do with culture. This is a group of people who tried to take advantage of a large gathering by ordering foods and wines that they knew that they couldn't afford. With the thinking that people who ordered within their means and drank water were going to split the bill for their champagne tastes. No, MAM!
I’m white. Been to dozens of birthday dinners. You pay for your own and usually gotta fight someone else to pay for the birthday girl. Know the rules up front.
They ate the food pay for your own and if you want to pay for the birthday girl that’s up to everyone why would you think an invitation atomically means free food and drink
Part of the age of entitlement. When your birthday rolls around, it is not a holiday for others and you are not elevated to royalty. If you want to make it your personal holiday, go for it, but you can’t force others to support your self-elevation. Start these meals off with an understanding of who pays for what when the invitation is extended, and stop acting like others owe you something because it’s your birthday. They don’t. And who sits down in a restaurant and runs up a huge tab believing with total faith that somebody else sitting around them is going to pick up the tab? Next comes offense when restaurants see a large black party gathering and requires either a deposit or pre-payment.
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Birthday or not, I’m not splitting a bill that is $4,600! If everyone didn’t spend the same amount equally, it’s a no go for me.
Especially if all I got was a beverage and an appetizer for myself. I am not splitting the bill
That is why I ask for my bill separate from the start.
EXACTLY! We’re Supposed to be Adults that are Responsible for Our Actions & Accountable for Any Consequences We may endure.
That's too much. If the bill like $450 and it's like 12 of us, then no problem 🤷🏾♂️. I'm sure nobody would have objected to everyone splitting evenly for the birthday boy or girl. Real talk. But to expect MFS to pay an almost 5 grand tab (unless they ain't leaving a tip 😂) is beyond crazy. Like tf 🤣
@sugarandspice2136 same here. My sister always splits the bill evenly when out with friends. If I'm treating a friend I'll pay for her and myself but don't include me in the even split. Not because I'm cheap but I like a few drinks at dinner once in a while and it wouldn't be right to let my friends pay extra, so separate checks for me.
Back in the old days "shame" was a thing
AMEN
Shame is still effective, but some measure of self-awareness is necessary.
It apparently doesn't exist anymore.
BLM knows no shame
@@stuartburns8657 What does that have to do with a dinner bill?
The time to discuss splitting the bill is before anything gets ordered.
@@baseballsux2 no you tell the server to give you a separate bill
> no you tell the server to give you a separate bill
I agree. But you inform everyone as well. *Before* anything gets ordered.
@@baseballsux2 right?
@@baseballsux2 tf? Why? That's childish. It's common sense that you will pay for your own food. Don't order things expecting others to help pay. Nobody is obligated to tell you that they aren't buying you things lmao
@@baseballsux2 This should be settled during the planning phase, not at the restaurant!
This happened to me. Was invited to a birthday party that I didn’t even want to go to because I didn’t have much money. Felt sorry for the girl who invited me so I ate before I left and just got a drink (it was a lounge so it wasn’t weird to do that.) anyways- she came to me and said the party didn’t spend enough money to have the table free so she expected me to chip in $100 when I was expecting my $12 bill.
I told her straight up NO. Sorry. She was PISSED and told me “it’s MY birthday I shouldn’t have to deal with this.” Waitress didn’t want to give me my bill either! I told them they have the option of charging me $12 or I will leave without paying at all. Ended up getting my bill and cutting friendship.
@@LaneSims I know exactly how you feel. Something similar happened to me. A group of cool "friends" (not) invited me to join them. One guy orders a fancy expensive steak with a bunch of other food. Paid only a portion of it and left. The cool "friends" expected me to pitch in when I ordered the least amount of food. So stupid. Being generous and doing all that is a choice not a requirement. And my money was very limited that time.
@LaneSims she shouldn't expect everyone to pay alot of money. It's her party so she should deal with that bill. You better off without her. She should know you have to buy a bottle to get a table.
That lounge sounds seedy. Don't try to entrap unassuming folk....hang it on the person who reserved the table! What does somebody else putting on a front for their birthday have anything to do with you? Whatever happened to throwing a house party with a keg, a speaker, no decorations and a bit of food?? (a lot of food makes people hang around too long...DAYS of they can manage)
People in their 20s make a big tiff over their birthday to look good for their friends and live up to the hype, but they don't even stick around for much longer after you go broke trying to keep up with the Joneses.
I used to have hundreds of "friends" but once I stopped throwing parties at 23, 90% of those people I met were no longer in my life immediately and never spoke to me except to tell me "Happy Birthday" (only because a fb notification reminded then to do so), that my parties were awesome and when was I throwing another... Not worth the hype.
Good she would have expected you to finance her wedding when you arent the groom lol
@@BansheeNornPhenex hahaha!!
Every man for himself in those situations.
Nice I'm going home.
I'm paying for myself see ya
@@nothgir never been a fan of “birthday dinners”
The person that lures you to their birthday to take advantage of you, isn't a friend.
I'll split the birthday girl's meal cool, but I ain't paying for the rest
Agree. I'll help cover the birthday meal and my portion. That's it.
Usually I’d agree with covering the birthday girl’s bill but in this case sounds like it was an astronomical bill
I agree
You have to ask yourself why fuss about the bill each guest knows for a fact what they ordered how much it cost and be prepared to pay for their meal and drinks. Stop pretending
That just bc u show up and order an outrageous expensive meal that the next person is going to pay your bill. Now I agree in one thing I would chip in for the birthday girl.
That bill was Ridiculous I will pay my bill and that's it I'm not going to be in that drama cause I would have excuse myself and left 🚪🚶🏼
I’m paying for what I ordered period
Facts!
Okay! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Same here
It depends on how the costs work out, I’ve been in situations where one person in a couple has only had soft drinks and another couple have devoured two bottles of wine between them.
While it might look cheap to some for keeping tabs on what your food and drinks come to, when there is an imbalance like this it makes sense.
Typically in groups I’m out with we expect to be paying our share, simple rounding up often covers any tip ( UK not stupid 20% in USA) so most order normally, that way if one couple suddenly offer to cover the whole cost when the bill comes for whatever reason no-one has been seen to have been taking the piss and ordering the most expensive items
That part 💯
Where did they go to eat!? Sheesh.... Go to Texas Roadhouse or something...$4600 is my mortgage for almost 4 months....
😂😂😂😂
sounds like she ran it up getting extra and everyone else stayed within their means
Exactly
I saw this video if I'm not mistaken someone broke the video down and said it's called mck restaurant bar and grill and some of there stuff is high
Amen. $4600 is 3.8 times my mortgage, Let’s try celebrating small ( meet at someone’s house for cake, ice cream, snacks… etc)
My girl paid for her and myself on my birthday and our friends paid for themselves because WE'RE ADULTS!
If u invite people = u pay...adults or not, if u invite people for dinner= you pay or youre a douchebag if u didnt tell them ur not paying. Simple.
@TruthHurtsLikeH3ll if you are an adult and get invited to dinner, you should still expect to pat for yourself. If you get invited to the pub do you expect someone else to get all the drinks?
@@TruthHurtsLikeH3ll - That's why YOU don't get invited out.
Truth guy is a loser lol
@TruthHurtsLikeH3ll You didn't need to write a poem just to tell us you're broke. We could tell.
When taking advantage of other's goes wrong! 😂
what did they eat ... France ?
lol
apparently bruh 😂
😂 why did you say France for ehat ? Like just randomly or what ? Cauz when I saw your cmt the lady who said you need to know whp your friends are just alligned at same time around ? And that friend sounded like France 😂
maggiano's little italy
I think that was the place, but racking up 4600 worth of food is insane
Those drinks add up
Pay for what your ordered. Split the birthday girls bill.
Exactly!
That's an objective and totally fair solution. What I don't understand is did the birthday girl have to invite her friends because if so that's real shitty of them?
Never been a fan of birthday dinners
@@MarioMartinez-tt9lyI don’t even celebrate holidays, but if this was her birthday party and she labeled it like that, then she can’t invite people and expect them to pay anything. Let alone a 4k bill! They was probably ordering food like that girl had a birthday package or something. A “pre fix “ price meal. Idk I haven’t been to something like this in years anyway.
For any meal with a group, everyone should know beforehand what is expected. If I get invited to a bday dinner, I'll pay for myself and at least a portion of the bday person's meal (depending on how much it is, I might just pay for it outright). The amount of this bill is atrocious... I can pay my monthly living expenses for three months on that amount!
I dont understand .if you are invited for a birthday meal it should be the hosts responsibility to pay eveeyones bill.otherwise who cares for the birthday.Strange country.
The brotha with the blonde braids did an aftermath video. He was friends with one of the women since the 3rd grade and she straight stop being friends with him over this.
LOL so he actually won! 😂
Not a surprise. One of the very few but painful topics that destroys friendships and the topic usually is 💰!
You misspelled 'acquaintance,' friends don't try to trick you into spending thousands on starving broke 304s.
@@TC38Cole Bingo. At least someone knows the difference between these 2 words.
She was mad initially but they talked and he said she said her problem was that you could’ve took me with you to the bar to pay my own bill too and we could leave together. They cool though, they got past it
The #1 reason I don't do Bday dinners 😂
First off I want my own bill
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I’m paying for what I eat. Period
The simple solution everybody pay for what they got
@westvirginia5200, exactly, it shouldn't be that hard.
Yeah but if you know you the one eating everything and you know you can't afford that you ain't finna wanna pay.
@PaladinThizz - what on earth is "ain't finna"??
@@anabellepreis1920 Basically "ain't gonna".
@@ChronoSpuffy 😂😂😂😂😂
I am at a grown age. I have never in my life experienced any of this foolishness over a bill. Choose your company wisely. If you sit down to a meal, you better have the money to pay for that meal whether or not someone else is willing to pay for you or not.
They put a down payment on the restaurant.
This is nuts.
Shew
Where was this place?????
I have never seen a $4600 restaurant tab. I would have created my own separate tab from start when I saw a bunch of strangers. Don't dine with strangers.
@@danielward3495 I bet the broke ones ordered the most expensive meals.
Sounds like Paulie stuck Chtistopher again. Tip of the hat to the Sopranos
Normally, the wait staff asks how it's going to be split when ordering.
They skipped up that would have alerted everyone your on your own.
Not specifics tho. Mostly because it can only be split onto a few cards. As far as who pays what ... Figure that shit out. An oh. That 20% gratuity gets included when dealing with large groups. For obvious reasons.
Fighting over money is silly. Pay your own +20%. Then say "Nice knowing you, bye".
It depends on how much the bill is, 20% of 4600 is 920, a half month of salary for an average worker, that guy have all rights to decline especially if he didn't spend much.
Pay for your own food are don't go
Or but yes I agree
I don't do group dinners with Black folks I know who never have money. I graciously decline. My social circle is very small and consists of those who are never broke
They're all the same with this stuff
Facts!
Same here!
lmao chile... tell it! If you know you brok ewhat gave you the dam courage to order thousands worth of food like what LMAO
I show up at the restaurant and I see people that I don't know. I will turn around and walk out of the restaurant IMMEDIATELY.
why?
This is going to be a shit show.
$4600??? Sounds to me like they got ripped off!!😂✌🏻😂
They went to a high end restaurant, ordered some of the most expensive meals, and some of them ordered expensive bottles of wine.
They tried to do the ripping off and it backfired. I'm surprised they didn't just try and fine and dash, knowing how those people are
Exactly they really tried to live above their means on a budget thinking somebody else was going to pick it up
This is why it’s best not to go to a woman’s bday bash if it includes dinner at a restaurant and if you do go by chance make sure you have your bill separate from everyone else’s.
In my culture you take people out, you pay for the bill.. Or you can decide to go somewhere extravagant and each person chips in.. BUT - all that is decided beforehand
In my culture we don’t pay for people we take out - if you can’t pay I ain’t asking you out - if I can’t pay I won’t be going out
So you're not going if your bestfriend ask you out to a insanely cost restaurant? @@MKiurinuRigold
Invite should have stated this is a buy your own meal there will be separate checks
In my culture, if someone offers to pay you make sure you get something sensible. You don't get something extremely expensive that's gonna put people in debt. Ain't nobody got $5000 for one dinner. We have bills to pay
@@ghost.ranger1628The one who's eating the most needs to pay for their food
The birthday person never pays in my group of friends or family! That’s like having a Mother’s Day dinner and making your mom pay!😂
Everyone owns up to what they ordered and they'll see who got all the expensive stuff. Drinks add up quick in a restaurant.
This should be discussed when you invited everyone out. There are 3 acceptable scenarios here:
1) It’s my birthday and I want y’all to celebrate with me, so I’m going to cover it since it is my choice of restaurant.
2) I’m having my birthday dinner here. If you want to come it will be separate checks. So everyone pays for themselves.
3) someone else entirely invites you out for your birthday (maybe lets you bring a friend or two if they feel generous) and pays because they wanted to treat you for your birthday.
If, as a grown adult, you invite people to your birthday dinner then it is your responsibility to pay.
Invite should have stated separate checks it is a buy your own dinner.
If, as a grown adult, you are lucky enough to be invited then you should pay your own bill. As a grown adult. Or you can be a bum
I had to explain this to my daughter last Christmas. Rather than having my wife cook for the whole family on Christmas Day we took everyone to a restaurant instead. My daughter wanted to pay her share so I explained when you meet someone for dinner you can share the bill but when you specifically invite them for dinner then the bill is your responsibility. There was no reason why wanting to give my wife a break should cost everyone else money
Ps the food was manky so she's back in the kitchen this year 😂
That's it.
Cheap people expect their guests to pay.
if YOU "invite" your friends for YOUR birthday to a restaurant, YOU pay for all people you invited! That s how we do it here in Germany.
good to know if I ever make some German friends.
Same in india
Same
Exactly that's how it is.
😂😂😂lol yeah if they weren't adults I'd agree. But if you're a grown ass adult expect to pay for yourself, this isn't a date.
But I jus ordered breadsticks and a water..$1200!
People pay their own bill and split the birthday person, and if the birthday person brings dependents where they would normally pay for the bill of the dependents like children then the birthday person pays for them. This is what is normal.
This is why you confirm the details and limit the expense before you even go so when the bill comes no one is surprised or acts like an idiot.
Imagine if you purposely ordered the cheapest items on the menu while others got expensive stuff and in the end they ask you to split the bill evenly. I would be mad too. 😮
This situation has been happening a lot... It's annoying arguing with someone about a birthday dinner bill.... Let's just get them a nice gift and some money...
None of these people look like they even own a credit card, let alone have money for a $4600 dinner tab.
Lmao right
😂😂😂😂😂
Even if they did have the money, makes no sense
The only reason they were invited is so they would have to pay 😂
If you see a big group of people for the dinner gethering, don't even sit down and just leave. You know whoever invited you wants to split the bill
Almost $5k for a dinner out? That's insane in and of itself. People's expectations and demands are getting SERIOUSLY out of control! It's beyond ridiculous!
Why did the friends think they shouldn't pay for their own meal? Why would the friends think they are supposed to eat free?
They didn't expect to eat for free, but the birthday girl was not expecting to pay at all and wanted everyone else to pay
@@Ruby_Eve It wasn't just the birthday girl. The women next to her ordered very expensive bottles of wine that only drank and then those women expected the men that didn't drink to subsidize their expensive drinking.
@2011blueman I'll never why people drink such expensive wine. Just get juice. It tastes better, it's cheaper, and doesn't get you drunk
They were asked to split the bill evenly, that's different from paying for your own meals, especially if what you ordered is way cheaper than your friends'. That's why the guys were upset.
Ns
But... did they leave a tip?
Oooooohh, I shouldn't o' said _that._
Hehehe! 😆
HahaHAHAHA!🤣
She going to have a couple months of dishes to make up for that bill😂
Or jail time
4,600.00 is irresponsible. Ridiculous! Get better friends
For the life of me I can’t see how people run up a bill over $1000 lol 😂 I’m asking for MY CHECK for MY FOOD before anyone else even says anything 😂😂😂🤷🏻♀️
Everyone pay for what they ordered and divide the birthday dinner only between the friends there.
Decide the particulars before the party
So how did it end up?
What the hell did they eat that the bill came out to be almost $5000?
$4600 PLUS 20% tip...$5520
Some birthday bash.
@howardtreesong4860 and they got away with it. No one called the police or anything to make sure the bill would get paid. This means you can walk into any restaurant, eat and not pay basically
That’s why I always make it clear that I am only paying for me. None of that split the bill crap.
This should have been discussed BEFORE ordering food. I know if I get a grilled chicken Cesar salad and a glass of wine I’m not contributing $100 to a huge bill
I love this Woman.
Integrity is a beautiful thing.
First of all my friend knows better than to go to a place that cost $4k to damn eat! Secondly, I always got my bestie because I’m not going nowhere without enough funds! Ugh
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The one with the nails on the far camera-right doing the Frenchman's wave. 😅
How about the Bday girl hosts a dinner party at home instead of all this foolishnesss?
Diff people are different levels of class
In our family we always pay our fair share
Best thing to do in this situation is avoid racking up the bill like its your final meal
American doing it backward. ITS should be the birthday boy / girl pay and because of that the birthday guy or girl will only invite few real close Friend Not entire city. Because he / he Will be pying .
Also, avoid people that say it's their birthday "month". No, you were born on one day and you're not special.
Everyone showed up including birthday girl with the intention of NOT paying for anything
They should have invited, "Dutch." 😂
just order a pie and some chicken and the cake, that simple paying an entire downpayment for a car isnt very fun for everyone
The person who invited everyone. It’s my birthday I am inviting people I will pay. If someone specifically says they want to treat me than it’s ok but I won’t be bringing anyone along with me. The cost of living has skyrocketed, people need to discuss beforehand or decline simple.
The only reason they went was they thought it was free and they ordered everything that they shouldn't have😂😂😂
What did they order people?
The usual suspects looking for free food 😂😂😂😂😂
I wouldn't pay nothen I'm paying for me and my lady an that's it,,,you notice each time this situation happens,it's like when people think someone else is paying the bill they want too order the most expensive meals they can get,,,like I said I don't care who's birthday unless it's my daughter or something,,,grown people can pay for their grown meal,💯
1.) The friends should pay for what they ordered (individually).
2.) The friends should equally contribute to the Birthday Person’s tab.
Simple arithmetic.
This only happens at black dinner tables
Birthday Girl probably pigged out thinking they would be okay with it
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I go out to eat with my white friends and even when I offer to pay for my own meal they insist to let them pay....but im a prideful man so I pay my own bill. I hang out with my black friends and it's already understood that you pay for whatever you eat. Now if I take a female out on a date I have no problem paying the full bill... most dates I've been on the female would offer to pay the tip and im cool with that.
That was the case of the birthday girl & her girl friends started looking at the 3 men at the table to cover that bill & none of them were dating or married to any of those men. If I am invited out I am obligated to pay for me only I am not paying your bill especially when you are not my girlfriend or wife. These people are the definition of over entitled.
Whomever is not paying should be ARRESTED
Everyone should pay for what they eat and that's it. Splitting evenly means some people order $300 and some people order $50. It isn't cool. Those people who order $300 worth of stuff, normally can't afford it but, they do it in those situations cuz, they know everyone else is chipping in. Nah, pay fa ya self.
Bro. I can go out the country for 1 month with that money. What a waste
Ill pay for me and pay for the part of the bday girl but if i spend 20$ im not splitting 500$ bill lol
Anybody that sits down to a restaurant with these prices,......needs to be held accountable......period!
I feel like all of them should have went to all you can eat buffet and none of this would be on tiktok. Why do people even go out to eat at fancy restaurants when they know they can't afford it? And trust me some of these all you can eat buffets are really delicious!
That’s not the issue. Apparently she invited them to her birthday dinner then blindsided them expecting them to pay. I don’t know who she is or what her money looks like but that’s fxcked up. That’s why the guys were mad. This was on her. She should’ve beforehand her tab was covered & made sure everybody had their money right or just not invited them.
@@w..j..2605 actually it is the solution.! Goodbye! 🤣
It makes no sense to go out for dinner that cost $4,600 unless you are a billionaire.
The birthday girl suppose to pay for everything
Agree with the lady discussing the bill.
Traditional etiquette says if you invite someone to a birthday dinner you as the birthday person pays
If I had an appetizer and water, I’m not equally contributing to the table’s bill.
Cultural failure
This has absolutely nothing to do with culture. This is a group of people who tried to take advantage of a large gathering by ordering foods and wines that they knew that they couldn't afford. With the thinking that people who ordered within their means and drank water were going to split the bill for their champagne tastes. No, MAM!
I’m white. Been to dozens of birthday dinners. You pay for your own and usually gotta fight someone else to pay for the birthday girl. Know the rules up front.
They ate the food pay for your own and if you want to pay for the birthday girl that’s up to everyone why would you think an invitation atomically means free food and drink
Discrimination would have prevented this
Can we talk about how gorgeous the black woman is?
Absolutely. Her hair, accessories and l’m thinking that’s a dress she’s wearing. And her beautiful COLGATE smile 😉
The common mew from the gimme that free shit crowd!
Who paying for me?
Well the birthday girl shouldn’t pay but everyone else there should pay
This why you pull the waitress aside and pay for what you had and head towards the car early😅
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$4600 dinner bill ? All of those people are idiots. There is not a meal in this world worth 4600$ .
Part of the age of entitlement. When your birthday rolls around, it is not a holiday for others and you are not elevated to royalty. If you want to make it your personal holiday, go for it, but you can’t force others to support your self-elevation. Start these meals off with an understanding of who pays for what when the invitation is extended, and stop acting like others owe you something because it’s your birthday. They don’t.
And who sits down in a restaurant and runs up a huge tab believing with total faith that somebody else sitting around them is going to pick up the tab? Next comes offense when restaurants see a large black party gathering and requires either a deposit or pre-payment.
That is just shameful. How do you even get a bill like that? Invite a whole neighborhood?
Who ever invited people to dinner must pay .