Buy Which Brand Sometimes, I feel that the other person in a disagreement cannot be reasoned with (like with a very young child who doesn't yet understand nor speak English). What does Marshall recommend in such a situation, if you don't mind saying please?
Aaron Billings erm. well what COULD you say if they don't speak english. I guess it has to be non verbal empathy, towards the child. A child always has a way to express their needs. As an adult we're given the responsibility to interpret them. A child that young never 'disagrees', they simply need. There's no negotiating. All you can do is meet their needs. I beleive by meeting there's you can find the space to meet your own. a non speaking child certainly can't meet any need of yours. The only need, i imagine, that an adult can have regarding such a young child is maybe some peace. which you can only have by giving THEM peace. (food, sleep, touch, whatever they need) By them having their needs met, they can be satisified, which in turn frees you (for the moment) to satisfy your own needs. for example, when their sleeping you can get some work done, when they're fed and aren't hungry and making noise or crying out of that discomfort, you can have some quiet, etc.
the role playing is awesome!! more please!! thanks for the time to make this video
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Those are so great! The book and articles are very informative but actually seeing it in action is very very helpful.
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Thanks for this! I really want to understand exactly how to apply NVC.
Buy Which Brand Sometimes, I feel that the other person in a disagreement cannot be reasoned with (like with a very young child who doesn't yet understand nor speak English).
What does Marshall recommend in such a situation, if you don't mind saying please?
Aaron Billings erm. well what COULD you say if they don't speak english. I guess it has to be non verbal empathy, towards the child. A child always has a way to express their needs. As an adult we're given the responsibility to interpret them. A child that young never 'disagrees', they simply need. There's no negotiating. All you can do is meet their needs. I beleive by meeting there's you can find the space to meet your own. a non speaking child certainly can't meet any need of yours. The only need, i imagine, that an adult can have regarding such a young child is maybe some peace. which you can only have by giving THEM peace. (food, sleep, touch, whatever they need) By them having their needs met, they can be satisified, which in turn frees you (for the moment) to satisfy your own needs. for example, when their sleeping you can get some work done, when they're fed and aren't hungry and making noise or crying out of that discomfort, you can have some quiet, etc.
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I agree with the other comments, this is really helpful, thank you very much
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Awww! The dreaded Mother in Law comes thru in the end :-)
wow, this is awesome! Please post more!!!
Thank you for that feedback! I'm making more...and there are already some others at ua-cam.com/users/CommunicationDojo
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Thank you
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