@@mustafajuventino9964 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are right people in those kinda country they don't talk about this stuff which make them bad in sex ( in general they may be an exception ). but if you think of it, those people are not allowed to have sex outside marriage so technically they have sex with one person in their whole life( in general ) so they properly don't know what is really good or not, or they can have better sex, or their partner is really bad in bed, despite that they have the lower divorce rate in the world which conclude that sex is not everything to a relationship but MONEY is. 😏😏😏😈😈
I totally agree! Though I’d like to amend that to “communicate and understand each other.” One can communicate as much as they want, but if people in the relationship don’t understand each other even after communicating, then the communication was for naught.
Your interview technique is pretty good. I really enjoy your interviews, you get people to speak freely. You're calm, you're confident and you give people space to express themselves. I never intended to watch a bunch of videos from Japan, Japan is fascinating but I'm not any more interested in Japan than other interesting countries, but getting to hear what people in another culture think and feel is really interesting. If anyone knows of any similar channels to Yuta in any other country, I would really appreciate it. Just going around talking to people about interesting topics. Such a good concept.
No. We Japanese think that you foreigners need to be more close about their mind and feeling. You guys think we aren't open however it's usual in Japan. It's just a cultural difference.
@@HiyokoTKMT It's cultural but clearly a lot of japanese people are not very happy about it as it shows on these type of interviews, Asian Boss also covers topics like this and a lot of people will speak up. I'm only half japanese and I wasn't raised in Japan like my family, but even when I'm with them I see the differences and some of them are great but some aren't. I think foreigners have a lot to learn from Japan but also japanese people seem to be really affected by this way of living life, hiding discomfort always. Like the girl who told about the blood.. This is scary, you should be able to tell someone to stop doing something if it harms you.. It gives place to rape and abuse.. This is not a problem just with japanese but with most women around the world.. There's no shame in recognising what could be bettered
@@user-wt5if6rx8m That's completely western and American thinking. Do you know how many people did Asian boss interviewed to make this video? All people that accepted the interview spoke up like that? I don't think so because I'm Japanese. Many of Japanese people are satisfied with our society system.
@@RA-qq8nf I would think that is not the same for every couple. But you do notice how hard women find it to be honest about it. Fear of rejection or conflict. I think this is the case in other countries too though ... But still, it's pretty sad. Sex gets better from getting better at it. Not doing it poorly and thinking you're doing oke.
You're really great at interviewing people. It seemed like they were actually very interested in the subject, and you made everyone really comfortable by keeping an open conversation. Also I really liked the girl with the hat and white t shirt, they were so chill haha
Next interview should be with foreigners(men and women) and their experience having sex with Japanese people. I've read some stories from American men who find it a huge turn off that during sex the girl just... lays there. No feedback and she looks like she's about to cry. And when the guy asked if she's okay she said she is. It is obviously a cultural thing and of course one anecdote does not summarize an entire population.
I've dated a Japanese guy recently and he was really good in bed! Maybe because he studied abroad for a while and dated foreign women but he was very considerate and gentle every time. It's all about me coming first then him later. Every single time. I don't know if I just got lucky or what 😂 but I think we should not generalize a certain race or culture coz it really depends from person to person yknow
hapipit29 I get what you're saying but Japanese are very proud of their culture and that's the point of these videos. He is sharing Japan with the world from a cultural perspective and in essence help people all over understand how to maybe even to simply interact with Japanese in general. I love Japan!
I've had a Japanese boyfriend. While we where in love the sex was good. He was really good in bed, but the sex got really repetitive.. And he wouldn't tell me his fetishes or kinky stuff he wanted to do. So yeah..I got pretty bored..plus he didn't want to have sex alot..so yeah..well it depens on the person. And I think we didn't have the best chemistry, it doesn't help if your in love only. And I also believe he was secretly bi..😅
I've had sex with a Japanese girl before, but i agree, she did stay a bit passive. Not that much though just a bit, but i did most of the work. But it did not look like she was about to cry, she was enjoying it as much as i did.
I personally consider sex to be a very important part of my life with my boyfriend. We are used to talk a lot about it, to try new things and we genuinely have a lot of fun! Plus, it created a great bond between us. Getting to know eachother so deeply in all senses lets a couple keep an intense connection. He understands in one second if I am feeling comfortable, happy, sad...And I bet that sex's got 50% part in that.
This is something I've noticed before. Japanese people have different ways of thinking from one another, just like people from any country. However, when talking to a Japanese person about their personal point of view, if they feel a bit insecure, sometimes they will say something like "because I am Japanese" or "this is the Japanese way." I always assumed this was mostly a reaction to me being a foreigner, but to see them react the same way to Yuta's various polls makes me think it might be something else. In the US this reason to justify a person's opinion is less common. If someone said "I don't like eating natto because I am an American. It's just the American way." it would be weird.
Hm.. But americans do that a lot? Mostly xenophobic, racists ones though lol "you're in america we speak english here it'S tHe AmEriCAn WaY" I've heard that before, from people trying to justify themselves abroad after doing something shitty lol
Every country has different ways of speaking. You are talking nonsense. It's all relative to the person's perspective and how they perceive is something is not quantifiable. When Japanese come to America, they probably think that we are crazy or weird compared to every country..
@@user-wt5if6rx8m I know this was posted 5 months ago😂 but omfg I hate Americans that act like that and say "speak English here were in America" well bitch the actual real first (Native) Americans didn't even speak English
This is an old comment, but I agree with that observation. That’s an instance of a difference between individualist and collectivist cultures. I’ve been in China, and I’ve observed the same thing.
Is it odd that I enjoy watching the people walking in the background as much as the people being interviewed? I'll be all "oh those two are holding hands, they must be a couple" or "do Japanese professionals only wear black suits? That guy would look much better in a grey suit." It's almost more interesting than the interviews. Are there any just straight people watching videos on UA-cam? I wonder.
OMG I found your comment Dawn this is Destiny... We are doing the same thing hahahaha, Observing the scenes in the background is like living in Japan 💛💛💛
Omg, i always find fascinating how you are able to make people confortable enough to talk about these sort of topics...the coolest part is, even the most intimate topics are very interesting and they provide a lot of information about the japanese culture!
"Come speak Japanese with me so you can talk to the women about sex" lol love it! Your video's are great watched loads now after subscribing, keep it up dude.
I've been reading a lot of books on Japan and certain cultural aspects. One of the "classic signs of love" in Japan is "love like air", where a husband and wife are believed to be able to communicate without actually saying anything. However, in the younger generations, more couples want verbal communication. Actually communicating though on these kinds of issues can be difficult because of the idea of "love like air", even if that is more of an ideal than a reality.
I don't think it's just a cultural thing. It's more personal in my opinion. Different people like different things. Just as in your interviews, the one woman said she really didn't mind not having orgasm. However, another woman said she does mind, and wants orgasm each time. It's the same in the west as well.
But I think there's a lot of cultural differences when it comes to sex. For example, I think Japanese people generally like foreplay a lot, but I hear that in some other culture, they don't do it as much. Actually, in my own experience, people from some cultures put less emphasis on foreplay.
I prefer to come all the time. But there are time when I do not come. I don't mind it, when it happens. Like the person says it's wery personal. Sometimes just the act itself is as pleasing.
I spent half a minute trying to pause when he's turning around. U know ..at different angles,halfway through the turn ect... Turns out he opens his mouth approximately halfway through the turn Dnt ask me why I'm doing this
Very good interviews. All the girls were nice especially the girl by herself. They all spoke freely & honestly without acting too shy. I was born in Japan but raised in the US and women in the US definitely think somewhat differently from Japanese women. I already subscribed to your channel and I continue to try and teach myself Japanese often. Got find me a Japanese wife, haha
Having a Japanese girlfriend, she has told me in the past, she would never decline having sex if her boyfriend wanted. She said if it hurt, she wasn't in the mood, or just didn't feel good; she would just go with it because of Japanese culture. So what these girls say is accurate in my experience. Culture difference.
TerraOblivion27 I knew guys in the past who would intentionally date "Asian girls" because they knew they could do whatever they wanted without them complaining. They were asses.
HouseMDaddict that is just awful. Sad thing is, many Asian girls want foreign boyfriends and or a boyfriend and don't care as long as they are together. The guys are dicks too
It's sad how much stereotypes play into people's desires for relationships and their treatment of people in relationships. Was your girlfriend open with you at the beginning? It seems like she speaks pretty openly now about stuff.
HouseMDaddict yes, she was pretty open early. Because I am American, I told her we don't do some of that stuff here, and this rodeo is 50% me and 50% her. She really liked that. We talked about a lot of norms early on. And we are going on 7 months right now.
that's so awesome! It's great that you were aware of her cultural norms and that you communicated about the differences and reassured her that you want equality between you! Congrats!
Nice video, my man. Could you make one asking about the hip-hop scene in Japan with rappers like KOHH, 般若, SALU getting popular abroad. Or maybe something about city-pop, a genre of music in 80s in Japan that is getting extremely famous right now on the internet with people relating to it a lot.
I like how Japanese women don't mind answering questions. They're not even shy about it. I'm sure you can't ask these questions to random American women in the streets.
Hey Yuta serious question,was wondering how you and other people in Japan feel with tensions between the US and North Korea have been,I'm planning on visiting soon but kinda nervous with all this talk of war
The women's attitude toward sex does strike me as a bit weird. A couple should openly speak with one another about what they like and don't like. If you are bleeding from intercourse, you have to tell your partner. But, I will agree with the women, porn does create unreal expectations of sex (in the male mind), just as Disney movies create an unreal expectation of chivalry (in the female mind). Which is why I feel couples should talk about it, try new positions, practice etc.
I always keep repeating myself, but unfortunately people don't have the habit of listening to common sense. It doesn't matter if you are in the situation of sex, relationships of any kind, school or work, it doesn't change: "Communication is key"
@@SIG442 I don't want relationship ,I am asexual and aromantic,but communicating during sex seems very creepy and weird to me ,even in movie scenes it makes me cringe
For quite a lot of people sex isn't just about the physical act itself, but about being intensely desirable by another person even in your crudest and 'vulgar' form; orgasm is the cherry on top. That's why some women feel like they can skip the orgasm completely, as long as they feel loved. And conversely, why most of the times a 1-night stand without an orgasm is just shitty sex.
that's a wery good way of describing it, though as a woman myself I will say that i prefer to orgasm. The sex feels a little bit meh if not But that just me. And it's sad if my partner cannot make me come.
02:00 the girl on the left, man... how can you meet people like her, Yuta-san ? I mean, in most of your videos, there are always a pretty/cute girl/woman in your video btw, Yuta-san, could you make a interview video like this but with the interviewees from another country ?
I can relate to the girl playing with her bangs about the orgasm subject.. Sometimes sex doesn't have to reach climax all the time for a person because the act of being selfless and caring for your partner is more important to them than reaching to orgasm for themselves. As long as both people are comfortable with the act of sex and ending it positively in someway is more important ^^ In another note, i'd only be fine with not climaxing if I feel comfortable and safe with my partner... and if I love him enough LOL
Hey, Elssey! I am a man who fears not giving my girl an orgasm because it will make me feel like less of a man. So this makes me happy. Do you think it's possible for a woman who has reached orgasm to actually enjoy sex more with someone who she isn't reaching climax with? Thank you for your input!
Sorry for the super late reply. I find this isn't the case the other way around though. I have been in the situation where the woman has orgasmed and I have not, and the woman is extremely upset if I say I am satisfied, this has been with more than one woman, also. It's like they absolutely need to make me orgasm or they have failed and are unattractive/bad when this isn't the case at all. I am very honest and if I say I am satisfied, that is what I mean.
Very interesting video. That one pair of girls were incredibly open about it! I'm not so sure I could talk sex with complete strangers. Seemed like a fun conversation too. Keep up the good work Yuta! Hope you visit Ireland at some stage during your foreign trips 👍
Love your interviews. This one was particularly fun, you got a good variability of opinions... I could chat with these fellow women for hours about these subjects and build up new integrated cosmopolitan points of view.... if I could speak japanese. Hope to do that someday. Some japanese women are very open and willing to just talk about gender related subjects when the opportunity is there, I have had that interesting interaction. Very fullfilling for a latin american woman such as myself
Goodness... Poor Sex Ed is everywhere... 😩 I'm glad you've included both male and female perspective. Thank you for that. This is an important conversation to have!
Like what Yuta says in 4:20 when people say to communicate more people don’t do it cause they don’t have like the mental, or willpower to push or break through the barrier and ask cause of them might be getting embarrassed and made fun of or cause of being scared and ruining the mood and just like what Yuta said when people say to communicate more people don’t do it cause of what I said up there so I feel like people just got to go for it cause it will have a greater outcome and ending instead if u just staying there silently not asking questions with ur one to help each other out so just go for it and ask even if ur the type that doesn’t have enough willpower, mental power, and confidence to ask just do it.
So even if she get hurt or bleed she wont tell anything? That,s horrible... Even if its for tradition, japan needs to change in some cultural aspects like sex education and fast...
Maybe you shouldn't use one girl's experience to blast an entire country and say it needs to change. Not every culture needs to be like the west and even in the west I'm sure some women would behave the same way and not say anything.
pretty much the gist of the video starting from 0:14 interviewees: "men are the problem because they watch porn and think it's real, but i'm not going to bother communicating with them to give them more accurate information. guys should definitely communicate more to make sex better though."
Yuta, can I be more specific? It's more than a cultural element. We often say "culture this", "cultural that" and the proper definition of culture fades away. But I say it has a lot meaningful anthropological elements (the need to ganmare) and sociological elements (the way sex is viewed and interpreted by the japanese society and it's individuals) Once again, those interviews of yours are pure gold!!!
Man, Yuta gets Japanese women on the street to talk about orgasms haha I wish they would change school sex education. I think it is awkward in many places but unlikely to change. Conservative adults will prevent sharing too much information.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE VIDEO!!! is the first time i watch a video of japanese women speaking openly about sex, can you do more of them to know? because of the same reason they are very shy would be interesting to know more about them
i feel like some people deny themselves being happy and feeling as good as their partner just because they don't wanna hurt their partners feelings. but nobody can do anything 100% right on the first try, and since everyone is different they're gonna like different things. it shouldn't hurt someone so badly to ask for something like being more gentle or more rough or doing sth specific. on the other hand in some societies it's considered socially acceptable to actually give ppl shit and roast them around others about it. that's just unnecessarily cruel and stupid.
The fact that men and women don’t talk about what they like is not just an issue in Japan, it’s like that everywhere. We all need to improve on that subject.
"I don't need to orgasm either. As long as my partner is with me, that's enough." OH HELL NO! As a man, I'm making sure my partner come like she have never came before. To the point she looks at me and think she just saw a ghost 👻💦👻 that in itself creates her to have an instinctive obsessive bond towards her partner that she can't commonly explain.
I don't if I should be amazed or worried of how liberal Japan is. I mean you can openly ask the most inappropriate or awkward questions in a polite way and not get beaten up.
deltaforcedf You can do that pretty much everywhere in Europe (and pretty much any modern, first world country, for the most part). It's about being kind, considerate, open, calm, and relaxed. It's really not as hard as you think.
You did a video on tattoos a couple years ago, bur nothing on piercings. I think it would be cool to see a video(s) on the subject, especially since there are a ton of angels you can go with it.
Yuta keeps ruining my innocence. Video, by video. But seriously, why does it seem like lots o' sex is the norm for semi-young adults? Why is it not just you and the person you're sure you will indefinitely love? On special occasions?
Only thing thats getting me confused is are you asking about things you would like to do DURING sex or talking about sex in general because if you made a video about talking about sex in general then I wouldn't expect people to talk about positions or techniques, I don't know if you see where I'm trying to get at I just felt that the aim of the video got lost a bit because of the title and the content but I still enjoyed it thank you very much🤘
The first two were so freely talking about it, really interesing personalities, I like them.
外国人说中文 why is he a weirdo? care to explain?
They are beautiful too 😍
The girl on the left is hot.
Yeah, boy. The girl with the hat was playing so hard to get. Yummy, yummy, yummy, I've got gel in my tummy!
@@SleekMinister Go To Horny Jail
*Bonk*
The real question is I wonder how long you took to find these interviewees that are so open about the issues of sex
There were probably more, those are just the ones that were very open about it.
Dude it's Japan not Saudi Arabia
I mean ppl are open about these kind of things it’s part of their life and everyone is aware of it
Japanese people just feel shy but not guilty talking about sex!
@@mustafajuventino9964
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you are right people in those kinda country they don't talk about this stuff which make them bad in sex ( in general they may be an exception ).
but if you think of it, those people are not allowed to have sex outside marriage so technically they have sex with one person in their whole life( in general ) so they properly don't know what is really good or not, or they can have better sex, or their partner is really bad in bed, despite that they have the lower divorce rate in the world which conclude that sex is not everything to a relationship but MONEY is. 😏😏😏😈😈
The first girls kind of forgot they were on an interview and Yuta was just standing there listening taking mental notes.
I actually participated in the conversation a lot. I just edited out most of my parts.
That Japanese Man Yuta the first first girls were amazing open! I thought it was very cool!
@@ThatJapaneseManYuta The girl on the left is really cute.
@@ThatJapaneseManYuta You're a living legend, dude; and don't let anyone take that away from you.
@@vouvray59 We know; and; we also like like trains a lot. Choo, choo!
Moral of the story: COMMUNICATE.
but they can't. End of story
iloverebeccachambers no, it shouldn’t end there
Communication is important even when doing sex 😂😂
I totally agree! Though I’d like to amend that to “communicate and understand each other.” One can communicate as much as they want, but if people in the relationship don’t understand each other even after communicating, then the communication was for naught.
Cummiunicate*
Your interview technique is pretty good. I really enjoy your interviews, you get people to speak freely. You're calm, you're confident and you give people space to express themselves.
I never intended to watch a bunch of videos from Japan, Japan is fascinating but I'm not any more interested in Japan than other interesting countries, but getting to hear what people in another culture think and feel is really interesting.
If anyone knows of any similar channels to Yuta in any other country, I would really appreciate it. Just going around talking to people about interesting topics. Such a good concept.
I recommend Jimmy's channel. He's pretty funny ua-cam.com/channels/C03-Rich_1-C5sJ2QQAhWA.html
If you speak Spanish ua-cam.com/users/xDispenserx
From Lagos, Nigeria ua-cam.com/users/BattaBoxvideos
(I know a lot of interview channels do I? lol)
Nabium check out the Channel called Asian Boss.
Gracias Yuta! Lo checaré al rato, seguro.
I think the Japanese people need to be more open about their mind and feelings. Trying to hide behind the "it's a Japanese thing" just hurts to hear.
That isn't hiding, it's just admitting that they've been influenced by their culture in such a way that makes it difficult for them.
Yes. There is some unhealthy fixation on "well I'm Japanese I can't help it"
No. We Japanese think that you foreigners need to be more close about their mind and feeling. You guys think we aren't open however it's usual in Japan. It's just a cultural difference.
@@HiyokoTKMT It's cultural but clearly a lot of japanese people are not very happy about it as it shows on these type of interviews, Asian Boss also covers topics like this and a lot of people will speak up. I'm only half japanese and I wasn't raised in Japan like my family, but even when I'm with them I see the differences and some of them are great but some aren't. I think foreigners have a lot to learn from Japan but also japanese people seem to be really affected by this way of living life, hiding discomfort always. Like the girl who told about the blood.. This is scary, you should be able to tell someone to stop doing something if it harms you.. It gives place to rape and abuse.. This is not a problem just with japanese but with most women around the world.. There's no shame in recognising what could be bettered
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That's completely western and American thinking. Do you know how many people did Asian boss interviewed to make this video? All people that accepted the interview spoke up like that? I don't think so because I'm Japanese. Many of Japanese people are satisfied with our society system.
It all resumes in that Japanese people doesnt talk about anything. I love Japan but they all really feel distant from eachother and its kind of sad.
Badwolf 48f that’s sad as a foreigner in japan I see some people as sad and depressed and they can freely talk with everyone like other countries.
They are honest to this guy right? But they won't be honest about these things to their partners?
finsclapping their partners don’t appreciate women to express themselves in Japan though
@@RA-qq8nf I would think that is not the same for every couple. But you do notice how hard women find it to be honest about it. Fear of rejection or conflict. I think this is the case in other countries too though ...
But still, it's pretty sad. Sex gets better from getting better at it. Not doing it poorly and thinking you're doing oke.
finsclapping Majority are like that and it comes from the culture. I also realise Women are more open minded that Men.
This is kind of sad. Not being able to talk about something like that with your partner is not good.
Agreed. gender roles, sexism, conformity.... sad things indeed.
wow, Yuta you got balls of steel! you can confidently ask random girls about these things.
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Lmao I was thinking the same thing. 🤣
So, what's big deal?
One Mangaka I was thinking the same thing lol talking about sex is like talking about nature babies are born everyday 🤷🏾♂️
Balls of titanium diamond steel
I'm impressed by the confidence it must take to walk up to random women and ask about sex
Not just women...Japanese women who are often left outside of the picture in this matters
@@Holzkissen.: Huh?
You could rename this to the "Girls in white t-shirts interview"!
それな～
dude...
EthemD Well that is uncalled for... awkward! :p
LauraK The pleasure is likewise, you can call me anytime
EthemD Doe normaal man :s Iemand die je niet kent compleet ongevraagd bijnamen geven op basis van hun uiterlijk is echt een beetje nasty.
Soooo some people want more open communication, but the Japanese way prevents them from saying how they feel to their partner/lover...
Wtf?
yuuta getting the blowies ;)
Huwftul blowies
a man of culture
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bruhhhh
Great job Yuta! I don't think their experiences are specific to only Japan. I think many women globally can relate to the women interviewed.
I still find it amazing how Yuta always works each video into speaking real Japanese at the end. I'm genuinely impressed haha. He is the master!
You're really great at interviewing people. It seemed like they were actually very interested in the subject, and you made everyone really comfortable by keeping an open conversation.
Also I really liked the girl with the hat and white t shirt, they were so chill haha
Next interview should be with foreigners(men and women) and their experience having sex with Japanese people. I've read some stories from American men who find it a huge turn off that during sex the girl just... lays there. No feedback and she looks like she's about to cry. And when the guy asked if she's okay she said she is. It is obviously a cultural thing and of course one anecdote does not summarize an entire population.
8_man I would also enjoy the progression of this topic in a future video.
I've dated a Japanese guy recently and he was really good in bed! Maybe because he studied abroad for a while and dated foreign women but he was very considerate and gentle every time. It's all about me coming first then him later. Every single time. I don't know if I just got lucky or what 😂 but I think we should not generalize a certain race or culture coz it really depends from person to person yknow
hapipit29 I get what you're saying but Japanese are very proud of their culture and that's the point of these videos. He is sharing Japan with the world from a cultural perspective and in essence help people all over understand how to maybe even to simply interact with Japanese in general. I love Japan!
I've had a Japanese boyfriend. While we where in love the sex was good. He was really good in bed, but the sex got really repetitive.. And he wouldn't tell me his fetishes or kinky stuff he wanted to do. So yeah..I got pretty bored..plus he didn't want to have sex alot..so yeah..well it depens on the person. And I think we didn't have the best chemistry, it doesn't help if your in love only. And I also believe he was secretly bi..😅
I've had sex with a Japanese girl before, but i agree, she did stay a bit passive. Not that much though just a bit, but i did most of the work. But it did not look like she was about to cry, she was enjoying it as much as i did.
You found really cool people to interview! I'm glad they seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.
Yuta gets more ecchi day by day ^^
cycMultiGaming Yuta that echi Japanese man
The answer he gets to those kinds of questions are surprisingly elaborate
cycMultiGaming I know echi from anime boruto .sarada says that haha
Hen ta iiiiii which is a genre for us. And it means pervert in Nihon. Yuta has a video for this as well.
4:18, THANK YOU YUTA FOR CALLING OUT ON HER GENERIC ANSWER.
It's so sad that these women are scared to say it hurts but in my experience a lot of Japanese men I've met...are soft with this
I personally consider sex to be a very important part of my life with my boyfriend. We are used to talk a lot about it, to try new things and we genuinely have a lot of fun! Plus, it created a great bond between us. Getting to know eachother so deeply in all senses lets a couple keep an intense connection. He understands in one second if I am feeling comfortable, happy, sad...And I bet that sex's got 50% part in that.
The girl showing the peace sign at 1:22
Oh it's nothing, just a white girl being a white girl
That's not the peace sign, that's the WHAT UP sign lol
Thanks for this video Yuta, I'm glad to see an open minded Japanese like you who is willing to share about every topic about his culture.
bono
Ask the Japanese about their thoughts on marijuana
3:22 What are you trying to say there Yuta 😂😂😂
OMG..too much information I didint want know about Yuta
He's saying his junk is full of bite marks :P
That those fucked up teeth some japanese women have can be quite painful.
I died at that scene i was like that boy yuta know wassup!!
*COUGH*
This is something I've noticed before. Japanese people have different ways of thinking from one another, just like people from any country. However, when talking to a Japanese person about their personal point of view, if they feel a bit insecure, sometimes they will say something like "because I am Japanese" or "this is the Japanese way." I always assumed this was mostly a reaction to me being a foreigner, but to see them react the same way to Yuta's various polls makes me think it might be something else. In the US this reason to justify a person's opinion is less common. If someone said "I don't like eating natto because I am an American. It's just the American way." it would be weird.
Hm.. But americans do that a lot? Mostly xenophobic, racists ones though lol "you're in america we speak english here it'S tHe AmEriCAn WaY" I've heard that before, from people trying to justify themselves abroad after doing something shitty lol
Every country has different ways of speaking. You are talking nonsense. It's all relative to the person's perspective and how they perceive is something is not quantifiable. When Japanese come to America, they probably think that we are crazy or weird compared to every country..
@@user-wt5if6rx8m I know this was posted 5 months ago😂 but omfg I hate Americans that act like that and say "speak English here were in America" well bitch the actual real first (Native) Americans didn't even speak English
Japanese poeople are really shy .
Daniel from ethiopia
This is an old comment, but I agree with that observation. That’s an instance of a difference between individualist and collectivist cultures. I’ve been in China, and I’ve observed the same thing.
Is it odd that I enjoy watching the people walking in the background as much as the people being interviewed? I'll be all "oh those two are holding hands, they must be a couple" or "do Japanese professionals only wear black suits? That guy would look much better in a grey suit." It's almost more interesting than the interviews. Are there any just straight people watching videos on UA-cam? I wonder.
Try CCTV
@@leonardodavinci4259 lmao😂😂😂
@@leonardodavinci4259 CCTVS weren't even invented in ur time.
OMG I found your comment Dawn this is Destiny... We are doing the same thing hahahaha, Observing the scenes in the background is like living in Japan 💛💛💛
I really like your vids, it's interesting to hear what people think. I imagine it wasn't easy to get them to talk about that topic at all
Omg, i always find fascinating how you are able to make people confortable enough to talk about these sort of topics...the coolest part is, even the most intimate topics are very interesting and they provide a lot of information about the japanese culture!
"Come speak Japanese with me so you can talk to the women about sex" lol love it! Your video's are great watched loads now after subscribing, keep it up dude.
I've been reading a lot of books on Japan and certain cultural aspects. One of the "classic signs of love" in Japan is "love like air", where a husband and wife are believed to be able to communicate without actually saying anything. However, in the younger generations, more couples want verbal communication. Actually communicating though on these kinds of issues can be difficult because of the idea of "love like air", even if that is more of an ideal than a reality.
To me, orgasm isn't a necessity in sex. Sex is about being with another person. It shouldn't be full of pressure.
I could be a cultural thing. Personally, I find the process more enjoyable and important (but I do want to have an orgasm to finish up).
I don't think it's just a cultural thing. It's more personal in my opinion. Different people like different things.
Just as in your interviews, the one woman said she really didn't mind not having orgasm. However, another woman said she does mind, and wants orgasm each time.
It's the same in the west as well.
But I think there's a lot of cultural differences when it comes to sex. For example, I think Japanese people generally like foreplay a lot, but I hear that in some other culture, they don't do it as much. Actually, in my own experience, people from some cultures put less emphasis on foreplay.
Yuta I read your comments with your accent in my head...its fun.
I prefer to come all the time. But there are time when I do not come. I don't mind it, when it happens. Like the person says it's wery personal. Sometimes just the act itself is as pleasing.
Love his 180 degree head turn at the beginning xD... how about a 360 degree turn next video 😅🤣😂😂😂
I spent half a minute trying to pause when he's turning around.
U know ..at different angles,halfway through the turn ect...
Turns out he opens his mouth approximately halfway through the turn
Dnt ask me why I'm doing this
+That Japanese Man Yuta This was really interesting, educational, informative, and weirdly heart-warming. Thank you.
Very good interviews. All the girls were nice especially the girl by herself. They all spoke freely & honestly without acting too shy. I was born in Japan but raised in the US and women in the US definitely think somewhat differently from Japanese women. I already subscribed to your channel and I continue to try and teach myself Japanese often. Got find me a Japanese wife, haha
Yay, new video !
yaayy you're 1st :)
hazard 21 am I ? XD
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How do these people keep a straight face? Amazing.
Having a Japanese girlfriend, she has told me in the past, she would never decline having sex if her boyfriend wanted. She said if it hurt, she wasn't in the mood, or just didn't feel good; she would just go with it because of Japanese culture. So what these girls say is accurate in my experience. Culture difference.
TerraOblivion27 I knew guys in the past who would intentionally date "Asian girls" because they knew they could do whatever they wanted without them complaining. They were asses.
HouseMDaddict that is just awful. Sad thing is, many Asian girls want foreign boyfriends and or a boyfriend and don't care as long as they are together. The guys are dicks too
It's sad how much stereotypes play into people's desires for relationships and their treatment of people in relationships. Was your girlfriend open with you at the beginning? It seems like she speaks pretty openly now about stuff.
HouseMDaddict yes, she was pretty open early. Because I am American, I told her we don't do some of that stuff here, and this rodeo is 50% me and 50% her. She really liked that. We talked about a lot of norms early on. And we are going on 7 months right now.
that's so awesome! It's great that you were aware of her cultural norms and that you communicated about the differences and reassured her that you want equality between you! Congrats!
These are the most open women I have found out till now!! Thats really appreciable!!
Nice video, my man. Could you make one asking about the hip-hop scene in Japan with rappers like KOHH, 般若, SALU getting popular abroad. Or maybe something about city-pop, a genre of music in 80s in Japan that is getting extremely famous right now on the internet with people relating to it a lot.
I like how Japanese women don't mind answering questions. They're not even shy about it. I'm sure you can't ask these questions to random American women in the streets.
You know not every Japanese person is open to answering? You can also search for videos of Americans answering, so your point doesn't stand.
Quite the opposite actually lmaoo you're clueless
yuta is a real chick magnet
Great interview as always! You really have a way of encouraging and allowing people to give open and detailed answers. Keep it up!
Hey Yuta serious question,was wondering how you and other people in Japan feel with tensions between the US and North Korea have been,I'm planning on visiting soon but kinda nervous with all this talk of war
Loved your blog brother😍
The women's attitude toward sex does strike me as a bit weird. A couple should openly speak with one another about what they like and don't like. If you are bleeding from intercourse, you have to tell your partner. But, I will agree with the women, porn does create unreal expectations of sex (in the male mind), just as Disney movies create an unreal expectation of chivalry (in the female mind). Which is why I feel couples should talk about it, try new positions, practice etc.
The answer is Japanese people tend to try avoiding problems and not causing a fuss as much as possible.
great interviews, yuta!!
I always keep repeating myself, but unfortunately people don't have the habit of listening to common sense. It doesn't matter if you are in the situation of sex, relationships of any kind, school or work, it doesn't change:
"Communication is key"
Communication is boring and makes everything mechanical and not exciting
@@Србомбоница86 That would mean you won't be a good partner for anyone, you just sabotaged yourself ;)
@@SIG442 I don't want relationship ,I am asexual and aromantic,but communicating during sex seems very creepy and weird to me ,even in movie scenes it makes me cringe
thanks Yuta! that was very interesting and informative :) keep up the amazing work bro
it's a problem woldwide, people being so goddamn reserved even with they fucking sex partners
it's ridiculous
Great video.. Those videos helps the people to think more..
For quite a lot of people sex isn't just about the physical act itself, but about being intensely desirable by another person even in your crudest and 'vulgar' form; orgasm is the cherry on top. That's why some women feel like they can skip the orgasm completely, as long as they feel loved. And conversely, why most of the times a 1-night stand without an orgasm is just shitty sex.
that's a wery good way of describing it, though as a woman myself I will say that i prefer to orgasm. The sex feels a little bit meh if not But that just me. And it's sad if my partner cannot make me come.
Great conversation!
02:00 the girl on the left, man... how can you meet people like her, Yuta-san ? I mean, in most of your videos, there are always a pretty/cute girl/woman in your video
btw, Yuta-san, could you make a interview video like this but with the interviewees from another country ?
yuta, u truly are a genius!!!
I can relate to the girl playing with her bangs about the orgasm subject.. Sometimes sex doesn't have to reach climax all the time for a person because the act of being selfless and caring for your partner is more important to them than reaching to orgasm for themselves. As long as both people are comfortable with the act of sex and ending it positively in someway is more important ^^
In another note, i'd only be fine with not climaxing if I feel comfortable and safe with my partner... and if I love him enough LOL
Hey, Elssey! I am a man who fears not giving my girl an orgasm because it will make me feel like less of a man. So this makes me happy. Do you think it's possible for a woman who has reached orgasm to actually enjoy sex more with someone who she isn't reaching climax with?
Thank you for your input!
Sorry for the super late reply. I find this isn't the case the other way around though. I have been in the situation where the woman has orgasmed and I have not, and the woman is extremely upset if I say I am satisfied, this has been with more than one woman, also. It's like they absolutely need to make me orgasm or they have failed and are unattractive/bad when this isn't the case at all. I am very honest and if I say I am satisfied, that is what I mean.
You need both of you to reach climax and if my woman doesn’t feel climax I don’t feel comfortable
Very interesting video. That one pair of girls were incredibly open about it! I'm not so sure I could talk sex with complete strangers. Seemed like a fun conversation too. Keep up the good work Yuta! Hope you visit Ireland at some stage during your foreign trips 👍
*that moment when the last mail you received from Yuta was on 4th august ;;*
Love your interviews. This one was particularly fun, you got a good variability of opinions... I could chat with these fellow women for hours about these subjects and build up new integrated cosmopolitan points of view.... if I could speak japanese. Hope to do that someday. Some japanese women are very open and willing to just talk about gender related subjects when the opportunity is there, I have had that interesting interaction. Very fullfilling for a latin american woman such as myself
Goodness... Poor Sex Ed is everywhere... 😩 I'm glad you've included both male and female perspective. Thank you for that. This is an important conversation to have!
Hell yuta you nailed this one nicely.
The second girl looked like the female version of Quagmire! Lol! Giddy Giddy!
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how many times do you reckon yuta does the spin thing in a year?
Omg, Yuta is a freak! 😜
Good job communicating
that's my boi !!
Like what Yuta says in 4:20 when people say to communicate more people don’t do it cause they don’t have like the mental, or willpower to push or break through the barrier and ask cause of them might be getting embarrassed and made fun of or cause of being scared and ruining the mood and just like what Yuta said when people say to communicate more people don’t do it cause of what I said up there so I feel like people just got to go for it cause it will have a greater outcome and ending instead if u just staying there silently not asking questions with ur one to help each other out so just go for it and ask even if ur the type that doesn’t have enough willpower, mental power, and confidence to ask just do it.
4:46 Love Queen
Well, that was a pretty interesting and deep conversation.
So even if she get hurt or bleed she wont tell anything? That,s horrible... Even if its for tradition, japan needs to change in some cultural aspects like sex education and fast...
The Melanoid Soldier which is?
Maybe you shouldn't use one girl's experience to blast an entire country and say it needs to change. Not every culture needs to be like the west and even in the west I'm sure some women would behave the same way and not say anything.
Lol, that wooden bookshelf behind you, I have the same one. Did you get yours at the Ikea? 😂😂 Mine does !
pretty much the gist of the video starting from 0:14
interviewees: "men are the problem because they watch porn and think it's real, but i'm not going to bother communicating with them to give them more accurate information. guys should definitely communicate more to make sex better though."
Good video thanks
I want to know the name of the first girl right! She is fucking beautiful.
She's married and probably doesn't desire some guy with an anime avatar Googling her at 5am in between bowls of Walmart ramen...
Luke Loooool xD nice replay
The girl with the hat, "Let's do it. Let's start it today." She's so cool. But her friend is definitely my type.
And that is why body pillows exist in Japan
Yuta, can I be more specific? It's more than a cultural element. We often say "culture this", "cultural that" and the proper definition of culture fades away.
But I say it has a lot meaningful anthropological elements (the need to ganmare) and sociological elements (the way sex is viewed and interpreted by the japanese society and it's individuals)
Once again, those interviews of yours are pure gold!!!
Man, Yuta gets Japanese women on the street to talk about orgasms haha I wish they would change school sex education. I think it is awkward in many places but unlikely to change. Conservative adults will prevent sharing too much information.
That Guy well, last time I checked the US and Canada, it didn’t work out well, so I think Japanese are doing much better.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE VIDEO!!! is the first time i watch a video of japanese women speaking openly about sex, can you do more of them to know? because of the same reason they are very shy would be interesting to know more about them
That wamen with cap *or some type of hat* and glasses have "ARA~ ARA~" pass
i feel like some people deny themselves being happy and feeling as good as their partner just because they don't wanna hurt their partners feelings.
but nobody can do anything 100% right on the first try, and since everyone is different they're gonna like different things.
it shouldn't hurt someone so badly to ask for something like being more gentle or more rough or doing sth specific.
on the other hand in some societies it's considered socially acceptable to actually give ppl shit and roast them around others about it. that's just unnecessarily cruel and stupid.
The first two girls in the interview are so damn cute just wanna cuddle with them
You pervert
Im not Japanese and I’m not very qualified to talk about this but it seems to be an unhealthily reserved culture and society
The girl that was alone is really educated with sex. I like her
The fact that men and women don’t talk about what they like is not just an issue in Japan, it’s like that everywhere. We all need to improve on that subject.
I miss Japan so much.
It's really perplexing to see how freely they can talk about sex and their own experience 🤔
3:23 so BJ sometimes hurts.
Is it just me or Yuta has interviewed the first woman before in one of his previous videos?
"I don't need to orgasm either. As long as my partner is with me, that's enough."
OH HELL NO! As a man, I'm making sure my partner come like she have never came before. To the point she looks at me and think she just saw a ghost 👻💦👻 that in itself creates her to have an instinctive obsessive bond towards her partner that she can't commonly explain.
Great video! I liIe videos like these (illuminating cultural differences) much better than those discussing anime or shopping. Thanks Yuta!
I don't if I should be amazed or worried of how liberal Japan is. I mean you can openly ask the most inappropriate or awkward questions in a polite way and not get beaten up.
deltaforcedf You can do that pretty much everywhere in Europe (and pretty much any modern, first world country, for the most part). It's about being kind, considerate, open, calm, and relaxed. It's really not as hard as you think.
most people probably refused an interview :)
You did a video on tattoos a couple years ago, bur nothing on piercings. I think it would be cool to see a video(s) on the subject, especially since there are a ton of angels you can go with it.
Yuta keeps ruining my innocence. Video, by video. But seriously, why does it seem like lots o' sex is the norm for semi-young adults? Why is it not just you and the person you're sure you will indefinitely love? On special occasions?
Libido.
Yuta is the Dj Vlad of Asian street interviews lmao.
Japanese women are 'literally' angels...
great video, really insightful.
I always say, the universal issue in this world amongst us humans is communication.
Only thing thats getting me confused is are you asking about things you would like to do DURING sex or talking about sex in general because if you made a video about talking about sex in general then I wouldn't expect people to talk about positions or techniques, I don't know if you see where I'm trying to get at I just felt that the aim of the video got lost a bit because of the title and the content but I still enjoyed it thank you very much🤘