Why Some Japanese Women Pay for Sex
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- Опубліковано 14 гру 2022
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Only the top 10% of men who will meet up and sex with 100% of the girls..
Its called “Pareto distribution of sexual dynamics”
Here we go
Would beautiful young and middle aged japanese women pay more higher rates for therapist beneficial physical stimulation services with attractive middle aged American Caucasian Men with Big sexual protruding features below the waist that have lots of intimacy experience?? I'm interested.
@@petersaternusbrazil @ 😂
@@petersaternusbrazil Japanese women are scared of Western pens
They are called therapists so that you can openly tell your friends that you go to a therapist once a week... and its not lying....or telling the truth.
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How could you afford to spend a couple hundred dollars a week on prostitutes?
@@michaelmam1490 same way people go to the bar every day
@@michaelmam1490 the same way you afford to take care of your family if you decide on a committed relationship instead (honestly the prostitution is cheaper)
I mean, Japan is common for adultery but they just admit it to other's.
Let me catch my son learning Japanese to become a therapist
A fellow Birdman enjoyer I see.
Fellow Birdman enjoyers I see
A fellow birdman enjoyer. Hopefully not a eugene
This stuff is adding up
I seem to have found where the fellow Birdman enjoyers congregate
Honestly. I find Yuta's approach to this to be very refreshing. He didn't stumble over any of his words or make any overt jokes, even when talking about his own preferences. It's nice to be grown up and have grown up conversations, without the childishness mixed in. And also .. absolutely fantastic marketing tactic for his Nihongo school lol
Agreed
So you're boring and have no sense of humor
Yeah I love how not sensationalist or dramatic he is
Jokes are fine too
Everyone has to remember, "prostitution" is illegal in Japan. Relationships in Japan can be really hard, due to overwork and an especially rigid social structure. This is a country where you can rent girlfriends / boyfriends / adult children / parents to fill/fulfill that relational void. This is the country of "compensated dating."
On a side note, the high sex drive of older women is a side-effect of an aging female body. This is completely normal, but can be difficult, since at the same time, the men get ED.
Japanese also have a very different perspective on sex than many other cultures - the biggest excuse I've seen is "It's not personal, it's just business," or "if my heart isn't 'stolen' I'm not cheating." By making it a transaction, it's not "cheating."
I'm not against mutually beneficial relations regardless of whether money changes hands. I'm against people who break vows of exclusivity and commitment. If you can't keep the promise, don't make it.
The difficult thing is that many men are forced to work all day, literally 12 or 13 hours a day, 6 days a week, how is the guy going to get laid? And it seems that the women there want to become housewives after they get married, then the guy gets screwed for good, he doesn't have help to support the house, he's dead tired and the woman cheats on him with a brand new guy who doesn't work and has time to give "attention" to her.
Lol the woman often stops loving their hubby's therefore those woman no longer deserve a loyal partner
@@INTJ82 Maybe they lose only to their husbands.
Its normal thing if they need special attention with a man in a private room. They are human.
@@applepie58 If they are in a relationship that's inexcusable.
Half the fun of Yuta's videos are, "How is he going to work in a plug for his language teaching into this topic?"
Lol true
Gotta say, assisting in getting some action so directly, is a new one.
Fr xD
That's my favorite part! XD
i look forward for it every video
Rest of the world: Prostitution, playboy, stripper and clubbing
Japan: Sexual services
tsk tsk..."therapy"
@@andersaskjrgensen5468 also "health delivery"
In malaysia also cina do it
Touch without penetration
@@afizi1213 Malay also same, the only difference is that they will go to budget hotel and sometimes will raided by Jakim or what we call by "tangkap basah"
Wow, what a great and informative video! I never would have learned about this if it hadn't been for Yuta.
Simulating boyfriend experience with text messages, taking out to places, beeing intimate, remembering conversations and provide feedback, it's a lot of work. It kind of makes sense for the guy to charge money.
The top league guys even remember birthdays and anniversaries!
5:46 "you can try many people with disappointing results" perfectly sums up me love life.
Is this regarding to sex? Or the relationship as a whole?
@@agiliteaV yes
On a similar note, "As long as you don't penetrate, everything else is fine" sums up much of my former marriage
Haha yeah that made me laugh, so true!
@@MiddleAgedNerd I wonder why you got married in the first place. Intimacy lowers significantly after marriage
I subscribed to this channel because I wanted to learn Japanese and I ended up learning a lot more about Japanese culture than I bargained for.
The thing is that understanding the culture helps with learning the language, things like idioms or some everyday phrases and how you speak overall
@@mementomori7160 and why some Japanese women pay for sex?
@For An Angel well if you need someone to talk to. And you start asking around for a therapist you might get yourself into an awkward situation.
The culture always informs the language and how it is used. Think about your use of English on a daily basis. The culture is so ingrained in our speech that it becomes invisible to us.
Humans think in words, and words make up language. It's not farfetched to infer that the language reflects how a culture thinks.
3:52 I appreciate how matter-of-fact and respectfully you explained this without villainizing their choice. I relate here.
I think it would be nice if we also stopped villainizing men who choose to use services too. They're always portrayed in media and culture as violent, greedy, terrible people and not just what 90% of them really are which is lonely
Very informative thank-you for taking the time to put this together.
Yuta exhudes the sort of giga-chad energy that screams "I offer sexual services. I am a professional".
Burn
Shit he does have the jaw line
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Yeah today he looks super sexy gigolo.
😂🤣
Yuta makes clickbait titles but actually follows through on the topic instead of saying 2 sentences on it stretched out.
That means they’re not clickbait…anyways my arm is hurting. I think I’ll see a therapist when I come to Japan
@@xethanndonttryme6983 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
This isn't clickbait. This is exactly what it says on the tin.
@@seneca983 the title can still be clickbait even if the info in the video are real and follow the topic
@@vonakakkola At least I interpret the term "clickbait" to mean the title is misleading (and less people would likely click if the title were more informative about the content), not that it's merely something that catches people's attention. Of course, I'm not some kind of authority on the meaning of words but I think I'm not the only one who understand the word "clickbait" in this way.
The Monogatari reference was elite. Great video and very informative !
Being Asian myself, there has been a stigma for any relationship with men and women hanging out. Groups of men and women usually do everything separate so there is never any confusion or thought of anything suspicious going on between anyone. This kind of culture doesn't work well in modern day culture. This is why the decline in population is dramatically increasing.
A "therapist" lol. After this video suddenly everyone will have some sort of "mental health problem" or "damn I hit my arm on the door....I need a therapist."
lmao
Hell, I just feel bad. I need one too, of the female variety.
Card declines,
The-rapist:
Now thats an interesting therapist not only it will heal mentally and phycally but increase my life span~ ok, my arm hurts...i need to go the therapist now
Its more like "Help I am stuck stepbro" than "I hit my arm on the door" therapist.
OK. You got me Yuuta. Offering me a chance to become the best therapist of japan... that's marketing on another level.
I think it's great how academically you approach the topic.
Yuta! Therapist is an insane name for a male sex worker (not insane, but you probably get what I mean - it's surprising for an English speaker). Makes me think about cultural disconnects and miscommunications due to the way we misuse or change words between cultures. I think topics like this have been done, but still, I'd be interested if you had a video on these kind of miscommunications due to borrowing words between cultures and the shift in meaning (especially in more extreme cases like this - eg, if an English speaker goes to Japan and mentions therapists, that's going to be a huge source of miscommunication!).
Makes me think of a similar, but not as striking miscommunication: I met a Japanese student once who was talking about some music genre (IIRC, he was talking about electronica/electropop/EDM type music), and he used an acronym I had never heard before. It's possible that it was due to him being more into the genre than me, but it seemed he expected it would be commonly used in the US.
How can I become a therapist for you Japanese women
EDM, electronic dance music
@@HULKMARXEL Thanks! I knew EDM, but he used another acronym, seeming to expect it would be on the same level of popular recognition and use as "EDM"...
It was interesting... I wish I could remember what he used! Hopefully he _didn't_ say EDM, because if that's the case, I just misunderstood him...
1. Therapist was not a mistake, it's named that on purpose (sexual *therapist*, as well as to hide the fact that you're going to do sexual things, you can just say you're going to your therapist)
2. DTM?
@@UzumakiHarutoJP 1: Yeah, you're right - the term "therapist" is probably used very intentionally like any slang term or euphemism. Thanks for pointing that out. My comment comes across a little too much like "silly Japanese people don't know what therapist means."
To word it better, it would _possibly_ be a misunderstanding/mistranslation if an English speaker used it looking for a therapist, but in that case and depending on the context, a Japanese person would likely understand that a non-Japanese English speaker using the term "therapist" isn't talking about a sex worker.
2: ! That might be it! I think you nailed it!
I knew I was in the wrong country 😂. I need to be a therapist
😂 😂
Right behind you, my brotha in therapy *wink2x
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He said that only guys become succesful in this profession when they were already popular with women before. Alot of guys quit cuz they couldnt get pussy before
A little bit of correction to something Yuta says: it isn't "penetration" in general that is illegal in Japan, but "coitus", as in vaginal penetration. Anal and oral sex are absolutely fine, and are actually the most common forms of sex in "normal" prostitution that caters to men, be it female or male prostitutes. Its vaginal sex that is generally avoided unless the business takes advantage of the other loop hole in Japanese law, which doesn't cover sex between "specified persons", i.e. acquaintances. So some businesses have you get to know your prostitute partner first so that you are both now "acquaintances" and thus its no longer prostitution. This is how sugar mommy and sugar daddy relationships (such as compensated dating and mamakitsu/papakitsu) work. I imagine most sexual services for women do in fact allow women to go down on or engage in anal sex with their paid for companions.
Why is Japanese law on sex is so complicated?
@@mrmawster9786 As laws go, that doesn't sound unusually complicated.
@@mrmawster9786 What he said is basically the law is "it is illegal to pay for vaginal sex, unless you know the person". Not so complicated :)
It’s anti prostitution in many other countries, they know they can’t stop them but make it harder for them to happen
Japan has a lot of weird laws that makes no sense at all...
I don't understand why the Japanese people follow them.
I never thought this would be a thing. Very informative video.
Nice channel, I hope to visit Japan sometime in my life, You’re awesome man!
Don't worry. Women in the U.S. do this, too. They just don't do it in the U.S.. They do it by traveling to other countries such as Jamaica.
They do however it shouldn't be categorized as "moral behavior" cheating is cheating. This applies to men too.
I say this because I know that for some reason sleeping with a prosititute/"therapist" is not seen as cheating if you are in a relationship.
@@vvvvkkkvvv That typically falls under "open relationships" and only some very modern minded particular people can pull it off.
Most people unfortunately cannot pull it off.
@@flutterwind7686 "unfortunately". Gtfo here. These are disgusting people and the moral decadence is ruining western soceity.
@@bendover7841 Western Society has already been ruined thanks to Christianity.
We are currently in the messy transition phases.
@@flutterwind7686 open minded people may also want a strong, close relationship instead of seeing each other as a means to the end of pleasure/entertainment.
but most importantly, open minded people don’t hate and feel superior to others just because of their preferences.
I can respect two people who both came into a relationship wanting an open one, not pressuring the other person, but I can’t respect someone who guilt trips someone into allowing something that hurts themself or a couple who calls others dumbasses for not wanting a certain type of relationship
The amount of research that went into this is amazing. Great video.
I am subscribing to Yuta because it is the first step to becoming a successful therapist for females in Japan.
I hate myself more than I hate you....but it's easier to make you suffer instead of me so enjoy
Great video, Yuta sama!!!
Guys, this is the moment to offer "gaijin therapy services"...
Many people think this is some sort of fun and enjoyable job but lol it's anything but that.
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@@thechosenone729 so basically like every job
@@_Zane__ Yeah many people don't understand that you have to deal with people that don't attract you sometimes at all or they have bad hygiene and so on.. but they have that fantasy in their head that they will be doing it with some 10/10 porn stars. 🤣 Then reality hits and they usually run.
@@thechosenone729 it's funny how delusional people are kek, they're expecting only to be fucked by hot girls. I think the OP is joking tho (hopefully)
Yuta: "I know a lot about sex. I read books".
Me: ._.
😂....I was wondering if I heard that right.
Great stuff. Your honesty is unique.
A very honest video mate thanks
I was going to joke that I would like to become a therapist, but the truth is, it is incompatible with my personality. If I were not physically attracted to someone I would not want to, or likely be able to perform. And if I DID like someone, I wouldn't want to be strictly professional about it. And I'm also fat and not very attractive lol.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert-narcissists.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (anime)
All things you can work on my man. Those who have a why to live for, can bear any how.
Then don't, because you will end up hurting yourself emotionally.
Keep your head up kid. If you think it's a problem for you, you're a man💪solve it. I got faith in you.
Lmao bozo
Good topic, thanks! Very informative
It used to be that real therapists treated Hysteria by having sex with the female patients in the West. That tradition ended, then the society changed. It included penetration. In the Victorian era, hysterical paroxysm was the medical terminology for a female orgasm. It was believed to cure female hysteria, a once common medical diagnosis for irritability and a loss of appetite for food or sex. Women genital massages, leading to an orgasm, as treatment. During the late 1800s through the early 1900s, physicians administered pelvic massages involving clitoral stimulation by early electronic vibrators as treatments.
07:31 "we don't know everything, we only know what we know"
nice quote!
My favorite part of this video was the Hanekawa quote with the Monogatari-poi editing!
Interesting. It's a side of society that intrigues me and the rules in Japan also make that world seem in a way healthier.
I live here and the sex industry is very toxic. Labour laws are very bad here, and prostitution is actually illegal here, so the the workers don’t have protection if shit goes wrong. They have normalised men paying for sex, but the idea of a woman selling sex is still highly stigmatised and women have to work in secret. There’s “soapland” everywhere and porn everywhere where children are around. Believe me it’s sooo toxic and not conducive to healthy sex lives imo. Overly commercialised oh and also kids don’t get sex education at school, but are bombarded with the sex industry’s presence and there is even buses driving around blaring advertisements for recruitment in the sex industry
@@emmathomsonsmith man Japan is so fucked up 💀
@@emmathomsonsmith I'm not surprised they don't teach sex education in schools in Japan.
Teaching you can pay for intimacy instead through host clubs and brothels that traffic people isn't healthy imo. Lowest birth rates in the world but it's okay, just go to a soapland 😁 why have real human connection when you can just pay someone who wants nothing than your money
Because real people suck because real people are less attractive because real people or a lot harder to deal with and because real people aren’t as good in bed.
This is very interesting. Thank you for your insight.
Prostitution, including individuals paying for sex, exists in various cultures and societies around the world, including Japan. While it is challenging to generalize the motivations of individuals involved in such transactions, there can be several factors that contribute to why some Japanese women may choose to pay for sex. It's important to note that these reasons can vary greatly among individuals, and not all Japanese women engage in such activities. Here are a few potential factors:
1. Sexual Exploration and Fulfillment: Some Japanese women may seek paid sexual encounters as a means of exploring their sexuality, fulfilling specific fantasies or desires, or experiencing a sense of intimacy and connection. Paying for sex can provide an avenue for them to engage in consensual adult activities in a controlled and mutually agreed-upon setting.
2. Time Constraints and Convenience: Modern lifestyles and career demands may leave little time for traditional dating or committed relationships. In such cases, some Japanese women may opt for paid sexual encounters as a convenient way to fulfill their sexual needs without investing the time and energy required for a long-term relationship.
3. Emotional and Companionship Needs: Some Japanese women may pay for sex not solely for the physical aspect but also for the emotional connection and companionship that can accompany it. They may seek the intimacy, attention, and validation that can be found in the context of a paid encounter.
4. Discreet or Non-committal Experiences: Paying for sex can provide a level of anonymity and discretion that some Japanese women may find appealing. It allows them to maintain privacy and avoid the potential complications or expectations that can arise from traditional relationships.
5. Curiosity or Novelty: For some individuals, paying for sex might be driven by curiosity or a desire for new experiences. They may be interested in exploring different aspects of their sexuality or engaging with individuals who provide unique services or experiences that are not readily available through conventional means.
It is essential to acknowledge that the motivations behind paying for sex are complex and can differ greatly among individuals. It is also important to note that the sex industry, including prostitution, is subject to various legal and ethical considerations and regulation in different countries. In Japan, the laws surrounding prostitution are complex and vary by region, reflecting cultural, historical, and social factors.
You know, ChatGPT also replies like that!
is this an ai generated comment?
@@cvspvr いえ
When you worked so hard to become a therapist in Japan just to discovered that they meant something else by therapist
Yes, but imagine hearing instead of getting complained out all day your job involves getting blown and fucked?
1:40 "so if you wanna engage in those services i will teach you-" XD
brooooo 💀💀
Need more of these content
Looks like interesting topic for me, so that how it goes.....thank you for the information, Yuta san 🙏🙂 subcribed!
Very interesting topic that you brought up because it's really frown upon when woman talk about their sex life in asia from my experiences and I'm glad that you covered it.
Since this is a topic about sexuality, may I perhaps suggest you one video idea that you might want to do. I don't really know what japanese people think of the argument between "vanilla vs ntr" in hentai or doujinshi but from what I see in the western side, these two side never get along at all or at least listen to what the other side wanna say. The vanilla tag side calling the ntr side disgusting for enjoying horrible things and the ntr side calling the vanilla side boring for enjoying wholesome stuffs... etc. But I'm curious what's the japanese side is like, do they have this kind of argument at all? How ntr tag became so popular and vanilla tag became so rare and hard to find than before? How artists and animators feel when they have to draw/animate vanilla and ntr... etc. Thanks for reading
Women react positively to negative experiences, not because they are negative, but because Women make decisions based upon how they feel, even sensations and emotions that are unpleasant are another feeling to experience that can influence a woman to pursue such.
This is why Women thrive on both Gossip, Drama and specifically Melodrama.
Most Men view the genre of Melodrama as a waste of time and deeply unpleasant due to the abundant real life tragedies that exist and cannot be avoided, but many Women will enjoy Melodrama as a genre because of the feelings it provokes, especially if negative. In a way this is like a Fantasy, as they get to experience such feelings, but avoid the harsh consequences involved that the fictional character in such media would have to deal with.
@@rogueguru2509 Very interesting point.
This is a very specific thing and I don't think he would care about it. I mean the vanilla v NTR is not even something most people care, unless you're an absolute cuck or and absolute cuck in denial that wants to keep that fantasy through fantasy.
Yes, I do hate the vanilla crowd. Lol As much as I make fun of the cuck crowd. I can at least side with them for actually not wanting to hide their pain and bother other with their wholesome crap.
@@zeibozcozz5067
Well I am not into NTR, as to be blunt.... I am greedy. Lol
I'm not Vanilla by any stretch, but I have too much Ego and Pride to ever allow myself to be a Cuck.
I'm kind of an asshole though, as I have never let a Women having a BF or Husband be an obstacle to me. ^_^
Well, we may also start a debate in the comments too, waiting a potential release of a video about this
Personally I am from those that think that NTR is disgusting, from a moral standpoint, it just feel wrong, especially when so many people enjoy this tag, it kinda normalize cheating and I think some people might cheat because they've seen so many of these and that it make them exited in some sort
But it is only from my moral standpoint which may change depending the person, just like taste, so it might be interesting to see what the other side think if one of them pass by
There is so many horrible tag, some being popular, it is so strange, finding real wholesome stories get kinda hard sometimes, I hope for this type of stories to make a comeback
Very different content, love it!!
I wish we had these kinds of service in the US. Although I wouldn't personally use them because I'm happy in that department, it just seems so much more professional than secretively meeting some lady off backpage at a low end hotel, not knowing if you're going to get mugged. What Americans don't realize is that regulating sex would dramatically increase safety of both the client and the person providing the service, because let's face it, paying for sex isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Win/win.
Because corperations are just so great at treating their workers well? Fat chance.
I want to be a therapist. I'm 43 years old who looks like a 30 year old (genetics), never married, no kids, I've only had 5 sex partners the last one was in 2008, I'm 5'9 145 pounds, not bald, clean shaven, hardly any body hair (genetics), my natural body odor hardly easily stinks (genetics), I walk 45 mins everyday, I'm clean never had an STD, I like mature, comedy, romantic, sexy, anime, I like video games. I can be shy at first but can always break the spell somehow afterwards, never been arrested, I have no tattoos, I have long hair (lower back lenght) brown eyes. Lol!
@@baskey3723 A corporation beats a pimp any day, even if corporations can suck.
@@bassgirl_denalia9087 corporations are pimps.
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Good information 👌 thanks for sharing)))
I see Yuta is getting on 'that kind of video' spree again
You say that like it's a bad thing 草
Gotta pay the bills, inflation in Nippon also
"These are the types of women I tend to know personally" Very smooth lmao 😂
Wow your English is so good, seldom could find a non native speaker who I can hear every word clearly with 2x speed like you
Thank you for such a great video..
Its funny to find this video because despite not living in Japan, I have received Japanese women followers on twitter offering such "services". I have received such offers on twitter multiple times(dunno why me in particular) and one of their requirements were ages between 20 to 49 so I believe its quite common.
Again Japan Shows us, that there is always a different approach to things.
Thank you Yuta for the nice Video 👍
work is about to go insane soon, before that I need to go to Japan for 3-4 weeks and have some therapist sessions! My man Yuta, any super kawaii female therapist around okayama, gunma, saitama ??
Thanks for explaining! :3
This sort of thing is ok as long as there is honesty.
If you're level with your partner or potential partner, then it's all good. I don't care how professional this is, I can see things quickly go south when honesty is absent.
When they call it "therapy", I don't think it inspires a culture of honesty.
After months of not feeding me Yuta's content, this is the first video UA-cam has recommended. Am I that lonely?
How long has this been happening, and why am I just now hearing about it?
I’m joking of course…sort of!
In my 20s, I had a female friend (with benefits) who jokingly said we should go to Japan and she would make money pimping me out to Japanese business women. I liked the idea, but I was in college and had a career waiting for me after graduation. So, I’m sure this has been happening for well over 20 years.
East Asian women are goddesses!!!
This was an interesting video, thank you.
Lol I was just trying to clear my notifications and clicked,and got 🤣
Shit wild ain’t it?
Hi, Yuta. What does FC mean? For example: 日, FC: 6010.0
Im officially switching careers. My parents wanted me to become a doctor, but i'll show them i can also be a doctor, policeman, fireman, plumber, teacher and an astonaut at the same time
Yuta with another gigachad informative video
Looking at the video title, thinking to myself: and I've been giving it away for free all this time.
lots of things can go easily
in the wrong direction .
when you pay for personal gain
if your expectation are met ,but
if they do and you fall for a deeper
conscience it would seem like
in reality your being play a trick on
because your paying for a companionship
that might not be inclined if you run out
money or short of dime . It's never a good
thing if your not genuinely true to your self
these things never end well in life if you
Play your self a player in life you too can
get Play out player .
I get you. but sometimes the person ends up liking you and reaches out to you to hang out or to talk free of charge on their time. sometimes you can usually tell it's going to head in that direction. when you first come to them they are all business like. cold! after you hangout with them and/ or do the deed if you pay for all that as well, their energy changes! They get all friendly and giggly. they even dress you after and you are like huh🤨. when they reach out to you after, you say to yourself, ok thats probably like pandora sending you their sales booklet after you bought something hoping you come back😂. but nah they genuinely find you interesting as with any relationship or friendship in life. they probably want to travel all over the world and you have. therefore, they listen intensively when you speak. but if you don't see it playing out like that when you pay and expectations are met as a man or woman just walk away. but people chase what's cold to them or they say to themselves this is the perfect woman or man especially if they are shallow and what you said above happens. but all in all they who sell the services are looking for connections too and/or great friendships. even if you are a player imagine having 8 individuals on rotation but feel no type of connection.,not even as a friend! thats a lonely life and some sex workers or therapist, as the Japanese call it lol, say they get lonely or its a lonely life. But it can go the way you mentioned. notice he said when the women call everyday looking for boyfriend experience they may stay away from that.
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and her awesomeness when
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she'll be real to You, you don't need to take from her what she will give freely to you .
Thank you so much for sharing with us. I’ve always thought American that we should already have this established in the US. I am moving to Thailand permanently and I home if he have it in Thailand, great idea thank you for sharing this again. Sending you love and light.
"Love and light" LOL.
Irish Jessup it's amazing actually
VERY GOOD VIDEO !! THANK YOU
i was not ready for this level of discretion
i was surprised to see this kind of video from sensei
i starting learning Japanese from this guy...
and the next day i get to see was like -
can't get it
lmao
just kidding 😂...love his way of teaching things or services 😂😝
Your videos are still great, but where is the backflip ? 😁
New checklist to do when you visit Japan 🎉
5:21 was hilarious “first of all, they have standards” 😂
I'm so going to Japan NOW!!!
Lol, Japan is so much more liberal than people give it a credit for. Mind you, liberal in the literal sense of the word.
@@opinanlosjovenesrd3477 I know I'm supposed to search for what *liberal* means but could you kindly explain it to me?
@@larizoclack1541 Liberal means the person who professes a right for the individual to assert power upon himself beyond Religious principles and socio-normative status. Conservatives oppose this idea by saying that the individual ought to abide by certain rules that do not necessarily need to be expressed in the legislation of that relative nation.
@@opinanlosjovenesrd3477 philosophical liberalism
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That‘s the epitome of compartmentalization.
It‘s far more complex than that, since conservativism is a very broad term.
It‘s important to differentiate between religious, traditional and plain conservatism for example and to understand that "liberalism“ and "conservativism“ are neutral terms.
Cheating on your partner for instance could be considered liberal, but also conservatives if it was the status quo, so the definition of plain conservatism heavily depends on the current norm.
If I’m still young, I’ll definitely learn Japanese with you and get ready to be a therapist 😅
Very educational.
I just can´t get over the fact that they are called a "therapist". I just want to see a Japanese person with broken English trying to explain that to a foreigner who has no idea what this "therapist" is.
That catchphrase at 7:35, I know it from the monogatari series(from Hanekawa), but is it actually a known japanese saying, or is was it only popularized by the anime?
It can be exciting to learn about new things in Japanese culture, like in this video, because it's so unique and I'd like a video about the market for men
I was gonna comment 'I'm gonna become a therapist in Japan', but then I saw the last minute of the video and said 'nah nevermind'
Hahaha, same. I'd actually like to play as someones boyfriend, would be nice
@@mementomori7160 Yeah, same, I would propbably fall in love and want to have sex tho, so it's not for me
any training course so I can professionalize myself on that line of work?
This greatly explains the plethora of tags available for 6 digit codes
i like this guy..........pretty calm and helpful !!
Interesting.Question: I've heard that male AV actors are absurdly outnumbered by female ones. One of them has said that there are more tigers in Japan, than male AV actors. What's going on there?
Male actors are always rare, as far as I know.
There aren't that many guys willing to look like douches while doing probably the most exhaustive and frowned upon "acting". Many probably also think they have to look good, so they don't even try.
Like, I'm pretty sure, that except for a few exceptions, male actors are even less appreciated than female actors.
JAV also used to be more on the "softer" side, at least from what I know, with much more focus on the girl.
(You get a setup scenario of meeting, stripping, foreplay etc. usually).
So naturally the women is at least in the center of attention, while the man is usually reduced to his genitals.
That's also why you often see their faces blurred. If you were afraid of stigma, you probably get even more as a man.
@@Littlefighter1911 I’ve seen ugly Japanese dude’s that do this.
Boiiiii you already know I’m bout to fix all of Japan’s mental health problems 💀
Boiiiii soon as they see your yee yee ahh spongebob pfp they gonna fix their mental health problems day 1 💀
Great job
New subscriber here bro
They're not paying for sex, they're paying for companionship. Sometimes sex is involved but not always.
That was fascinating, I was vaguely aware of the subject, but in Japan you have quite a unique way of dealing with these thing, your Laws for example seem very odd to me, the Host clubs, renting a Boyfriend/Girlfriend, or even a Mother also seem weird, but if it satisfies a need and does not hurt anyone, then Why Not.
🤣 I'm a Therapist, let me b@ng out this Prescription for you Ms.
More professional wemon there use these services. It's a fact!
You mentioned as possible reasons to get these services that maybe the guys are not handsome enough or not good at sex. But for me personally the thing that stops me from seeing random men is just fear. What if they become violent, what if they force me to do something I don't want, or take pictures? I haven't used these services or plan to, but I think one important reason for women is probably that they look for security.
edit: oh yeah, the lack of communication. It's so bad. I've been trying to hook up with a Japanese guy recently, we even went on a date that was really fun and a bit of sexual tension was built up... But still have absolutely no idea if he likes me or not. He expresses 0 emotions. Japan's low birth rate make so much sense now.
I think this might be my calling. How hard is it to get a work visa in Japan and does this count as legal employment for non-Japanese?
I need to go to Japan and be a therapist
Yuta, jesus, this man out here being real.
I'm definitely interested in learning more about Japanese culture as I don't have any Japanese people in my life.
Brb going to Japan
Everybody gotta get off, but Yuta....how u know so many details? Former line of work? Yuta was out here giving the ladies the boyfriend experience? 😆
did you watch the video? he said he knows women who pay for that as well as men who sell those services, of course he knows a lot about it then
what a twist of content
Exiting and mind stimulating content. .!!