Wife beating, word daraba, mufti menk, marriage

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  • @shermeensyed6087
    @shermeensyed6087 6 років тому +106

    My biggest problem is solved ❤ He was the only person who came in my mind in order to understand this. Thankyou ❤

    • @hassaneljebyly2345
      @hassaneljebyly2345 5 років тому +11

      @@Nahhbroo1979 you're not allowed to talk about Arabic if you don't understand it, Quran is in Arabic and it will stay like that, the copies you have in English are just translations of the meaning, no Muslim on earth will call it Quran, so when a person with knowledge higher than you in a certain language explan something you listen, and no it does not mean to beat the shit out of your wife.

    • @stringer464
      @stringer464 5 років тому +3

      Canada Dream Record do you understand the language of the quran, have you even studied its language.

    • @soumasis2562
      @soumasis2562 4 роки тому

      @@Nahhbroo1979 ضرب ليس لها معنى واحد في اللغة من الواضح انك ولدت في منطقة عربية و تتكلم العربية لكنك لا تفقه شئ عنها

    • @DarkMatter1919
      @DarkMatter1919 3 роки тому +4

      Not so fast.
      A man can beat his wife.
      A man can have 4 wives
      A 54 year old man can marry a 6 year old girl.
      A man gets twice the inheritance that women get.
      You need 2 women to risk the testimony of one man.
      That's because Muhammad himself said women's are deficient in intelligence.
      This book isn't from a God... It's from the minds of 7th century men.

    • @dzdz773
      @dzdz773 3 роки тому +3

      @@DarkMatter1919 keep being bitter , im muslim and proud and you can do nothing about it . Allah said in the quran :
      As for those who disbelieve in Allah’s signs and the meeting with Him, it is they who will have no hope in His mercy.1 And it is they who will suffer a painful punishment.

  • @inesbd5187
    @inesbd5187 3 роки тому +14

    alhamdulillah i've always knew that islam has no opression in it or vilonce but this aya it always made me overthink every thing makes sense now !

  • @fantajattasowe3337
    @fantajattasowe3337 Місяць тому +1

    May Allah strengthen you Mufti Menk. We thank Allah for Islam

  • @openplease3481
    @openplease3481 4 роки тому +12

    Allah Hu Akbar my biggest problem got solved...May Allah SWT bless you...

  • @syedjafferimam5789
    @syedjafferimam5789 6 років тому +69

    If any Mullah says and prove beating wives is permissible i will leave Islam for sure.
    May Allah bless this speaker Mufti Menk

    • @arhanmalik3922
      @arhanmalik3922 6 років тому +15

      SYED JAFFER IMAM what?? u will leave Islam just because if a maulvi promote beating women is right?

    • @Nahhbroo1979
      @Nahhbroo1979 6 років тому +2

      It is necessary. Mullah who lie like him deserve hell

    • @karoline8524
      @karoline8524 6 років тому +13

      A mullah just now in this very video sanctioned wife beating. Dr. Zakir Naik also says wife beating is sanctioned in Islam if she disobeys you. There are many more imams and maulvi who say this. Do you want me to post links of their videos here?

    • @DarkMatter1919
      @DarkMatter1919 5 років тому +7

      You're living in ignorance.
      Rape of female prisoners is allowed (verse 4:24).
      You are allowed to beat your wife even if you think she might disobey you (verse 4:34). You need 2 female witnesses in court compared to 1 male witness. Women get half inheritance that men get. It's a misogynist religion.
      Read the Quran and hadith. In the age of information, ignorance is a choice.

    • @ruheenashah6625
      @ruheenashah6625 5 років тому +3

      Katkit Kirti. Forget about their videos. You religion until last few decades burning women with dead men .

  • @swqqwwqqw
    @swqqwwqqw 4 роки тому +8

    May Allah (swt) grand Mufti gracious reward for beautifully explaining this misunderstood verse. This helped me so much, subhan’allah❤️

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому

      @@DarkMatter1919
      واضربوهن لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @shafeeqahsmith6999
    @shafeeqahsmith6999 2 роки тому +5

    I cannot think of Almighty God Allah actually giving men permission to beat their wives (or any woman, for that matter). Prophet Muhammad (Allah's Peace and Blessings be upon him) never, ever beat any woman. Mufti Menk gave an excellent explanation on the issue of wife beating. However, if the Prophet were here among us, he would give the best explanation of the verse. Hands down! No argument there!
    I highly recommend that people go on the internet and look up the article, "The Verse of Abuse Or the Abused Verse" by Sheikh Sa'dullah Khan. The last time I checked, he was the Director of the Islamic Center of Irvine.

  • @teniscuisine8429
    @teniscuisine8429 5 років тому +24

    When ever I face an issue in my life...His speeches,the only place where I find solace😊😊

  • @MJ-nx6vj
    @MJ-nx6vj 6 років тому +22

    I always admired this dude's recitations.

  • @combatpro9266
    @combatpro9266 4 роки тому +22

    Even when explained everyone still thinks otherwise it’s like your trying to hate the religion 😑

  • @zainabmohamed4033
    @zainabmohamed4033 Рік тому +6

    Alhamdulilah for Islam

  • @aishatmorontodun3750
    @aishatmorontodun3750 Рік тому +3

    Oh Mufti Menk, Allah bless you. I came here to be sure using the word tap is the correct word to say, and here you are saying exact same word. Jazakumullah khairan Sir. Very soothing.

  • @Dr.Subhana
    @Dr.Subhana 4 роки тому +14

    May Allah grant you paradise for giving peace to all the doubtful painfull hearts who came in search of a fair explanation for this verse of the Quran! Sincere thanks to you ❤️ AllahuAkbar

    • @richardmontonio1486
      @richardmontonio1486 2 роки тому

      Your Muslim husband must beat you right! These are scriptures only the devil wants. That's why you don't understand them. Christian men cannot beat their women whatsoever. When I married my Christian wife for I'm a Christian man I made a vow to Almighty God to cherish and love my wife till death do us part. I have never ever raised my hand to her. Almighty God would tell her to divorce me for my wife is God's daughter. If I commit adultery I broke a commandment and my wife can leave me. God the father would never let a man hurt his daughter. Jesus Christ is a loving God who would never allow his daughters to be beaten, humiliated or their husband commit adultery. Jesus Christ is king of peace and love

  • @Rosyrose983
    @Rosyrose983 Рік тому +5

    So if it was translated wrong why nobody fix it , in all languages it translated as beating her …

  • @abudujana13
    @abudujana13 2 місяці тому

    EXCELLENT!!
    JazakAllah Khair

  • @insomniac3211
    @insomniac3211 8 років тому +11

    Oh my God! Thank you for this! thank you so much!

  • @akb8065
    @akb8065 4 роки тому +11

    Many people so quick to judge and say the Qur'an condones women bearing but they haven't got the intelligence to actually search for the actual true translation. I'm a revert but even I know that you will only get the true meaning of the message by researching the Arabic words
    The English can't get close enough.
    People need to do their research and study before having an opinion.
    May Allah open up your eyes to the beautiful truth of our Qur'an

    • @gertasteigner5237
      @gertasteigner5237 Рік тому

      AKb80 @true meaning of the message by researching the Arabic words
      That means that Allah is not the creator of whole mankind and not almighty.
      Only approx 24 % of Muslims have enough knowledge of Arabic to understand it
      (reciting verses from the Qur'an is of no importance).
      These 24 % equal approx. 6 % of the world population.
      An "almighty" creator of the whole mankind proved that he's not capable to clarify his message for the rest of the 94 % of worlds population.
      Surah 14:4
      We have not sent a messenger except in the language of his people to clarify ˹the message˺ for them. Then Allah leaves whoever He wills to stray and guides whoever He wills. And He is the Almighty, All-Wise.
      @People need to do their research and study before having an opinion.
      Unlike blind believers who think logically - after doing research and study.

  • @hassanabdur-rahman1559
    @hassanabdur-rahman1559 3 роки тому +18

    The Arabic word ضرب daraba has 26 different meanings. Several meanings are to avoid, to forsake, to leave or to ignore and have nothing to do with. Any these meanings can be applied to the verse in 4:34. I am surprised that Mufti Menk didn't elaborate on the various meanings if he understands Arabic.

    • @yacoubzughaiyir7634
      @yacoubzughaiyir7634 10 місяців тому +1

      because of how the sahabah reacted to it

    • @jodie3950
      @jodie3950 3 місяці тому

      I am also suprised.. that should have been the first point!

    • @andithanoj8372
      @andithanoj8372 3 місяці тому

      Because the ijma is that darb refers to that specific meaning

  • @marwah1072
    @marwah1072 9 років тому +16

    thank you for this video. I love your name! "Coolness of the eyes" Masha Allah.

    • @andrewowen24
      @andrewowen24 6 років тому

      Marwah Kazami
      Ure crushing on him 🤔🤔

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому +1

      @DarkMatter1919
      واضربوهن عدنان الرفاعي لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому +1

      @@andrewowen24
      واضربوهن لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @HumaKausar-wc1zg
    @HumaKausar-wc1zg 6 місяців тому +1

    That's why he is my favourite ❤

  • @freefalldragonball
    @freefalldragonball 5 років тому +6

    yeah please clarify all misconception of women abuse in koran thanks :-)

    • @freefalldragonball
      @freefalldragonball 4 роки тому

      @シyes how about beating a woman with a stick..

    • @irfanm9544
      @irfanm9544 4 роки тому

      @@freefalldragonball the "stick " you mentioned is a miswakk , miswakk means a small wooden tooth brush used in olden times

    • @SK-rt8yn
      @SK-rt8yn 3 роки тому +1

      @@freefalldragonball lol “miswak” is a stick no bigger than a 12cm ruler, it is literally what we use to clean our teeth😂😂

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому +1

      @@freefalldragonball
      واضربوهن لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

    • @Linah220
      @Linah220 7 місяців тому

      ​@@SK-rt8ynSo it basically means, do not HURT women

  • @FK-xh5it
    @FK-xh5it 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @Carlito_El_Gooner
    @Carlito_El_Gooner 2 місяці тому

    It is enough to know that the Prophet (AS) never physically abused any of his wives.

  • @DawnSaleh
    @DawnSaleh 4 місяці тому +3

    Basically, it means to do something to get her attention. Have her see you. Look at you in the eye by a tap to hepp he see you are serious and she shouldn't keep blowing you off.
    Allahu Akbar

    • @protopwildrift2260
      @protopwildrift2260 Місяць тому

      That is a good interpretation and you might be correct but I see it as a tap on the arm that sting just a little

  • @jibrilmuhammadibrahimalham2389
    @jibrilmuhammadibrahimalham2389 5 років тому +5

    Only thing that was conflicting with me as to how cd it be until mufti menk made me understand.

    • @DarkMatter1919
      @DarkMatter1919 3 роки тому

      Not so fast.
      A man can beat his wife.
      A man can have 4 wives
      A 54 year old man can marry a 6 year old girl.
      A man gets twice the inheritance that women get.
      You need 2 women to risk the testimony of one man.
      That's because Muhammad himself said women's are deficient in intelligence.
      This book isn't from a God... It's from the minds of 7th century men.

    • @wookie4522
      @wookie4522 2 роки тому +1

      @@DarkMatter1919 you need to look into the videos of Mohammed Hijab and sheikh Uthman in order to understand things .
      These are the questions every person who knows nothing about Islam asks

  • @thecrow1488
    @thecrow1488 6 років тому +6

    macha allah brother macha allah i hope one day that people who sees islam as terorism will anderstand its about peace and respect

    • @DarkMatter1919
      @DarkMatter1919 5 років тому +1

      Islam is a violent, intolerant and hateful religion. Just read the Quran and the hadiths... It's all there in black and white.

    • @amerking9798
      @amerking9798 5 років тому +1

      DarkMatter1919 no one gives a fuck about what you say

    • @hassaneljebyly2345
      @hassaneljebyly2345 5 років тому +2

      @@DarkMatter1919 we did read the Quran, and there's no violence against innocent people, all the violence in the Quran is in the context of war, anything else?

    • @freefalldragonball
      @freefalldragonball 4 роки тому

      We are all human beings and we are all equal. No man is more important or should be considered more important than a woman. No guardians, no beating, no abuse!This has to end!

    • @هدي-ه8ظ
      @هدي-ه8ظ 4 роки тому

      @@DarkMatter1919 Show me in the Quran where it’s dangerous. Your mindset is toxic.

  • @farhatabdulfatah3822
    @farhatabdulfatah3822 5 років тому +7

    A woman can also take action if she is fearful of her husband's rebellion according to Quran:
    إِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِن بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَ أَن يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا ۚ وَالصُّلْحُ خَيْرٌ ۗ وَأُحْضِرَتِ الْأَنفُسُ الشُّحَّ ۚ وَإِن تُحْسِنُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًا (128) وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَن تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ ۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُوا كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۚ وَإِن تُصْلِحُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا (129) وَإِن يَتَفَرَّقَا يُغْنِ اللَّهُ كُلًّا مِّن سَعَتِهِ ۚ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ وَاسِعًا حَكِيمًا (

    • @DarkMatter1919
      @DarkMatter1919 3 роки тому

      Dream on 🤣🤣
      Do you know inventing stuff about the Quran is the biggest sin?

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому

      نظرا لأهمية المرأة👑 في مجتمعنا هي الأم و الأخت و الزوجة و العمة و الخالة وووووو...
      لابد أن يعلم الجميع أن لطالما سمعنا أن شهادة المرأة في القرآن نصف شهادة الرجل, وهذا غير صحيح تم تفسير هذه الآية وغيرها من القوامة, وللرجال عليهن درجة, وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ , و التعدد و النشوز ووووووووو تفسير خاطئ وإليكم الدليل
      قال الله تعالى: (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّـهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ
      بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ)
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/109078671263461/
      ما المقصود ب ولا يضربن بأرجلهن؟؟؟
      وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِنْ زِينَتِهِنَّ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/109146747923320
      قال الله تعالى: ( وَاسْتَشْهِدُوا شَهِيدَيْنِ مِنْ رِجَالِكُمْ ۖ فَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُونَا رَجُلَيْنِ فَرَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَتَان)
      ماذا تعنى الكلمات رِجَالِكُمْ , رَجُلَيْنِ , فَرَجُلٌ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/111454701025858/
      قال الله تعالى: (وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌ ۗ وَاللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ (228))
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/112386937599301/
      (تعدد الزوجات👰‍♀️ - لا تعدد إلا برضا😇🥰 الزوجة لعدم تحقق الشرط الثاني (التعدد حل لمشكل وليس حق
      ua-cam.com/video/0T5WGePDNUs/v-deo.html
      واهجروهن في المضاجع واضربوهن: لا يوجد🚫ضرب للمرأة في القرآن************
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому +2

      @@DarkMatter1919
      واضربوهن لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @HumanNature007
    @HumanNature007 8 місяців тому

    for me tapping does make sense. I think its logical that the meaning is to separate.

  • @jibrilmuhammadibrahimalham2389
    @jibrilmuhammadibrahimalham2389 5 років тому +4

    If I cd tap the like button a zillion times , I wd.

  • @muslimlinuxer9596
    @muslimlinuxer9596 2 місяці тому

    Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah is gentle, and He loves gentleness. He rewards for gentleness what is not granted for harshness, and He does not reward anything else like it.”
    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2593

  • @MM-hq5qk
    @MM-hq5qk 3 роки тому +3

    i love you mufti menk

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому +1

      نظرا لأهمية المرأة👑 في مجتمعنا هي الأم و الأخت و الزوجة و العمة و الخالة وووووو...
      لابد أن يعلم الجميع أن لطالما سمعنا أن شهادة المرأة في القرآن نصف شهادة الرجل, وهذا غير صحيح تم تفسير هذه الآية وغيرها من القوامة, وللرجال عليهن درجة, وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ , و التعدد و النشوز ووووووووو تفسير خاطئ وإليكم الدليل
      قال الله تعالى: (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّـهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ
      بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ)
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/109078671263461/
      ما المقصود ب ولا يضربن بأرجلهن؟؟؟
      وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِنْ زِينَتِهِنَّ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/109146747923320
      قال الله تعالى: ( وَاسْتَشْهِدُوا شَهِيدَيْنِ مِنْ رِجَالِكُمْ ۖ فَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُونَا رَجُلَيْنِ فَرَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَتَان)
      ماذا تعنى الكلمات رِجَالِكُمْ , رَجُلَيْنِ , فَرَجُلٌ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/111454701025858/
      قال الله تعالى: (وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌ ۗ وَاللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ (228))
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/112386937599301/
      (تعدد الزوجات👰‍♀️ - لا تعدد إلا برضا😇🥰 الزوجة لعدم تحقق الشرط الثاني (التعدد حل لمشكل وليس حق
      ua-cam.com/video/0T5WGePDNUs/v-deo.html
      واهجروهن في المضاجع واضربوهن: لا يوجد🚫ضرب للمرأة في القرآن*****************
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @MucemArapDili
    @MucemArapDili 2 місяці тому

    Nonification is not for hanafi school in the hanafi school there is no such a right.

  • @thetruth27786
    @thetruth27786 Рік тому +2

    It does not mean tap it means strike out....like in baseball STRIKE i.e to send home

  • @nzinuccia
    @nzinuccia 5 років тому +4

    Allah almighty, in all its wisdom, told something to be so widely misunderstood, so that husbands sometimes beat the soul out of their wives?
    Is Allah so limited?
    If I, small, limited human being, understand this, wouldn't Allah?
    And where is the rule for women to draw the husband's attention?
    This is what the enemies of islam (or those who simply ask questions) would like to be answered.

    • @nzinuccia
      @nzinuccia 4 роки тому +1

      @shahwaiz niazi Cite one please.

    • @nzinuccia
      @nzinuccia 4 роки тому +1

      @shahwaiz niazi thank you for taking the time to find this 37-pages long document. All I can understand from this simply confirms what was in my original question: why do God almighty would leave such an ambiguity for man to disentangle? Why didn't God, in his wisdom didn't simply say: don't beat eachother!
      Because in ambiguity lies control.
      Things can be done in the name of one rule, or the other, depending on the need.
      There are too many contradictions in Islam to be believed of divine nature.

    • @nzinuccia
      @nzinuccia 4 роки тому +1

      @shahwaiz niazi Ok, understood! No wife beating in Islam. What is the purpose of the verse then, and why isn't there one for man?

    • @nzinuccia
      @nzinuccia 4 роки тому +1

      @shahwaiz niazi your long reply reiterated what was already said.
      You mentioned your sheikh, meaning that you neither were sure of what to do, and had to seek for advice.
      This simply reaffirms my point: why a God should leave things to be interpreted.
      Further, you didn't answer my question: why isn't there any mention of how a woman shall make her husband come to his right mind in case of misbehaviour.
      Or men are flawless, and don't have to be guided?
      Or, Islam is so homofobic that doesn't even contemplate a woman guiding a man? Please answe to this, don't repeat me the same concept over and over; it would just show that you have no argument. And it doesn't need to be long either. Universal concepts are simple to express, while long explanations tend to blurr the truth.

    • @nzinuccia
      @nzinuccia 4 роки тому +1

      @shahwaiz niazi and to do so she'll have to produce 2 female witness against one male...

  • @Capybased
    @Capybased Рік тому +2

    helo, is pork helel if its says shahada?

    • @farham.8427
      @farham.8427 6 місяців тому

      Nope

    • @cent-67-god
      @cent-67-god 5 місяців тому

      ​@farham.8427 According to your pedophile prophet who married a 6 years old???

  • @seeker6369
    @seeker6369 Рік тому

    Not for men but for women. Without lies pisslam dies😅

  • @wahrheitoderluge1495
    @wahrheitoderluge1495 Рік тому +5

    It’s still beating her

    • @baboucarrstouray4702
      @baboucarrstouray4702 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you that's what I'm saying like. Why do they try to make so much excuses

    • @TheGuiltyGuys
      @TheGuiltyGuys 3 місяці тому

      how can you beat someone with something smaller than a tootbrush... no logic in your statement

    • @wahrheitoderluge1495
      @wahrheitoderluge1495 3 місяці тому

      @@TheGuiltyGuys 🤣 give me ONE source of ancient scholars who say it’s smaller than a toothbrush! You can’t cos that’s what todays „imams“ say. They can’t back it up by literature though. It’s no where near

    • @wahrheitoderluge1495
      @wahrheitoderluge1495 3 місяці тому

      @@TheGuiltyGuys actually, the word strike (beating) in Arabic is the same as being used in Quran, where the ayat says, strike their necks (kill sb). So how do you strike a neck with a smaller item than a toothbrush?

    • @TheGuiltyGuys
      @TheGuiltyGuys 3 місяці тому

      @@wahrheitoderluge1495
      you sound quite confident in your statement, it only proves you severely lack knowledge in this regard.
      as requested, heres the classical source of a statement from a companion of the prophet himself:
      Number 9387 - Ibrahim ibn Sa'id al-Jawhari infromed us from ibn 'Uyaynah from ibn Juraij from 'ata who said I said to ibn 'Abbas, what is the kind of hitting that is not harsh? He said, "hitting with a siwak and alike" (At-Tabari Tafsir of Quran 4:34)
      go ahead and google what a siwak is and take a look at the images.
      how about the prophet himself saying that its a 'strike' that doesn't cause harm, leave a mark, or hit the face? (Sunan Ibn Majah 1851, Sunan Abi Dawud 4493)
      what type of a 'strike' is this? the issue is that we have a certain english connotation with the word 'strike' which is not reflected in the arabic. thats why we use context to understand words. and remember this is the maximum a husband can do to his wife that is committing Fahishah (clear indecency/wrongdoing and immoralities)
      your issue seems to be with the word 'strike', and you are correct in that its used in the ayat for striking necks in war, but its also used for tapping the ground, as the speaker mentioned in this video, and also used in the Quran as metaphor to strike an example (Quran 17:48).
      the point is that the meaning of words is understood in its context - thats how language works (this is very common in english homonyms, e.g bat(animal) vs bat(baseball))
      the companions and the prophet himself explained what this word means, and that is the classical explanation that muslims hold to.
      anyways, you are asking the right questions. i truly hope that god guides me and you, and i firmly believe if you sincerely look into Islam - you will find the truth.

  • @melodymitchell7313
    @melodymitchell7313 3 роки тому +17

    No. A human being should never be shamed by another person by hitting even lightly. This a parable set forth to make her aware. If your wife is evil hitting her won't help. Leave her. Never hit a woman. Hit lightly is still hitting..we are not to be treated like less than animals.

    • @chistydurjoyhasan4075
      @chistydurjoyhasan4075 2 роки тому +1

      Its not hitting, its tapping, with a siwak(a small toothbrush), women are equal to men in islam. They both have different roles in life. Marriage is about team work, to put in effort, not to hurt eachother, but if it doesn't work, divorce is the last thing. But before they take such a big decision, they should put in effort. Thats what the Quran basically says. May Allah guide u sister.

    • @YuddhaVeera
      @YuddhaVeera 2 роки тому +1

      @@chistydurjoyhasan4075 that's why their testimony has half the value of a man

    • @ninachan6998
      @ninachan6998 Рік тому

      Fr

    • @Kakashi101sensi
      @Kakashi101sensi Рік тому

      But it's acceptable to hit the Men.

    • @ahmedfathi981
      @ahmedfathi981 8 місяців тому +2

      Don't spread misinformation like that please. Two testimonies of women are equal to one of a man ONLY in the case of​ financial transaction because in islam man is responsible for the finacial situation of his families, in the verse it's say also that 2 witnesses of a woman is equal to one of a men, so that if one woman forgot the other is here to help her remember. Except that it's mention in far other places in the Quran that one witness of a woman is equal to ond of a man@@YuddhaVeera

  • @asemyamak3984
    @asemyamak3984 Рік тому

    Couldn’t it be edrab? I feel like it is edrab from them and everyone misunderstood it. When we want to tell someone to do edrab w tell them udrub 3an something. It may may edrab from the wife

  • @syedahmed1729
    @syedahmed1729 Рік тому

    Is Allah, Arabic speaking ? Can Allah speak other languages also ? Quran 4 -34 states not to beat the wife ? In Islam is women allowed to beat her husband ?

  • @hassanshah6309
    @hassanshah6309 5 років тому +2

    I love you voice😍😍😍😘😘😘

  • @UniverseSpeck
    @UniverseSpeck 6 місяців тому +3

    If the words of a book have 35 possible meanings and interpretations, it’s not a very good book.

    • @someone-enoemos-
      @someone-enoemos- Місяць тому

      What language should it have been written in? What language was common enough for the regular people in that time period to understand? Latin?

  • @nikkikiki1624
    @nikkikiki1624 6 років тому +1

    Can someone explain to me these hadiths where Muhammad didn't beat or condone beating women: Sahih Muslim 4:2127, Sahih Bukhari 8:82:828, Sahih Muslim 9:3506

    • @CathyKitson
      @CathyKitson 6 років тому +2

      It's because Islam contradicts itself.

    • @rozyabid9809
      @rozyabid9809 6 років тому +1

      It says that Abu Bakr RA neck slapped Aisha RA, this was because she asked something of the Prophet that he didn't have and because Aisha RA was being childish her father Abu Bakr RA neck slapped her. He was her father and did it for discipline

    • @CathyKitson
      @CathyKitson 5 років тому +1

      Rozy Abid That's crap. You don't go around hitting people, even if you are a parent. Another woman was struck in the same hadith, and Muhammad found it hilarious.

    • @nikkikiki1624
      @nikkikiki1624 5 років тому +1

      @@rozyabid9809 yeah, sure, I get discipline, even though there are other ways to discipline a child, but the issue is the prophets reaction, and how he just laughed at it

    • @muhammedshanushan3931
      @muhammedshanushan3931 5 років тому +1

      Nikki Kiki
      Why should you make a big deal out of it?
      The fact that he laughed proves that there is nothing serious about it

  • @ms-zo3zb
    @ms-zo3zb 5 років тому +3

    Do not say women is delicate she is a human and on that basis alone she should not be hit

  • @mrs.abdulqayyum6225
    @mrs.abdulqayyum6225 2 роки тому

    1. Praising Allah from Surah Al- Hash:-
    *. Al-Hashr (59:22)
    "هُوَ اللّٰهُ الَّذِىۡ لَاۤ اِلٰهَ اِلَّا هُوَ ۚ عٰلِمُ الۡغَيۡبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ ۚ هُوَ الرَّحۡمٰنُ الرَّحِيۡمُ‏".(22)
    "Huwa Allahu allathee la ilaha illa huwa AAalimu alghaybi waalshshahadati huwa alrrahmanu alrraheemu."
    Translation:- "He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, Knower of the unseen and the witnessed. He is the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful."
    * Al-Hashr (59:23)
    "هُوَ اللّٰهُ الَّذِىۡ لَاۤ اِلٰهَ اِلَّا هُوَۚ اَلۡمَلِكُ الۡقُدُّوۡسُ السَّلٰمُ الۡمُؤۡمِنُ الۡمُهَيۡمِنُ الۡعَزِيۡزُ الۡجَـبَّارُ الۡمُتَكَبِّرُؕ سُبۡحٰنَ اللّٰهِ عَمَّا يُشۡرِكُوۡنَ."(23)
    "Huwa Allahu allathee la ilaha illa huwa almaliku alquddoosu alssalamu almuminu almuhayminu alAAazeezu aljabbaru almutakabbiru subhana Allahi AAamma yushrikoona."
    Translation:- "He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him."
    *. Al-Hashr (59:24)
    "هُوَ اللّٰهُ الۡخَـالِـقُ الۡبَارِئُ الۡمُصَوِّرُ لَـهُ الۡاَسۡمَآءُ الۡحُسۡنٰىؕ يُسَبِّحُ لَهٗ مَا فِى السَّمٰوٰتِ وَالۡاَرۡضِۚ وَهُوَ الۡعَزِيۡزُ الۡحَكِيۡمُ."(24)
    "Huwa Allahu alkhaliqu albario almusawwiru lahu alasmao alhusna yusabbihu lahu ma fee alssamawati waalardi wahuwa alAAazeezu alhakeemu"
    Translation:- "He is Allah, the Creator, the Inventor, the Fashioner; to Him belong the best names. Whatever is in the heavens and earth is exalting Him. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise."
    2. Dua from Surah Al Baqara:-
    *. Al-Baqara (2:285)
    "اٰمَنَ الرَّسُوۡلُ بِمَاۤ اُنۡزِلَ اِلَيۡهِ مِنۡ رَّبِّهٖ وَ الۡمُؤۡمِنُوۡنَؕ كُلٌّ اٰمَنَ بِاللّٰهِ وَمَلٰٓٮِٕكَتِهٖ وَكُتُبِهٖ وَرُسُلِهٖ ۚ لَا نُفَرِّقُ بَيۡنَ اَحَدٍ مِّنۡ رُّسُلِهٖ ۚ وَقَالُوۡا سَمِعۡنَا وَاَطَعۡنَا ۖ غُفۡرَانَكَ رَبَّنَا وَاِلَيۡكَ الۡمَصِيۡرُ" (285)
    "Amana alrrasoolu bima onzila ilayhi min rabbihi waalmuminoona kullun amana biAllahi wamalaikatihi wakutubihi warusulihi la nufarriqu bayna ahadin min rusulihi waqaloo samiAAna waataAAna ghufranaka rabbana wailayka almaseeru"
    Translation: "The Messenger has believed in what was revealed to him from his Lord, and [so have] the believers. All of them have believed in Allah and His angels and His books and His messengers, [saying], "We make no distinction between any of His messengers." And they say, "We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination."
    *. Al-Baqara (2:286)
    "لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللّٰهُ نَفۡسًا اِلَّا وُسۡعَهَا ؕ لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتۡ وَعَلَيۡهَا مَا اكۡتَسَبَتۡؕ رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذۡنَاۤ اِنۡ نَّسِيۡنَاۤ اَوۡ اَخۡطَاۡنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحۡمِلۡ عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِصۡرًا كَمَا حَمَلۡتَهٗ عَلَى الَّذِيۡنَ مِنۡ قَبۡلِنَا ۚرَبَّنَا وَلَا تُحَمِّلۡنَا مَا لَا طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِهٖ ۚ وَاعۡفُ عَنَّا وَاغۡفِرۡ لَنَا وَارۡحَمۡنَا ۚ اَنۡتَ مَوۡلٰٮنَا فَانۡصُرۡنَا عَلَى الۡقَوۡمِ الۡكٰفِرِيۡنَ" (286)
    La yukallifu Allahu nafsan illa wusAAaha laha ma kasabat waAAalayha ma iktasabat rabbana la tuakhithna in naseena aw akhtana rabbana wala tahmil AAalayna isran kama hamaltahu AAala allatheena min qablina rabbana wala tuhammilna ma la taqata lana bihi waoAAfu AAanna waighfir lana wairhamna anta mawlana faonsurna AAala alqawmi alkafireena
    Translation: "Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity. It will have [the consequence of] what [good] it has gained, and it will bear [the consequence of] what [evil] it has earned. "Our Lord, do not impose blame upon us if we have forgotten or erred. Our Lord, and lay not upon us a burden like that which You laid upon those before us. Our Lord, and burden us not with that which we have no ability to bear. And pardon us; and forgive us; and have mercy upon us. You are our protector, so give us victory over the disbelieving people."
    3. Dua from Surah Al-A'raf [7] : (56)
    "وَلَا تُفْسِدُوْا فِى الْاَرْضِ بَعْدَ اِصْلَاحِهَا وَادْعُوْهُ خَوْفًا وَّطَمَعًاۗ اِنَّ رَحْمَتَ اللّٰهِ قَرِيْبٌ مِّنَ الْمُحْسِنِيْنَ." ( الأعراف: ٥٦ )
    "Wa laa tufsidoo fil ardi ba'da islaahihaa wad'oohu khawfanw wa tama'aa; inna rahmatal laahi qareebum minal muhsineen."
    Translation:
    "And cause no corruption upon the earth after its reformation. And invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good."

  • @stopworrying8850
    @stopworrying8850 5 місяців тому

    Attention to what????
    How can a Muslim be such an ignorance without logic???? Attention to what? To what????

  • @abdulkelli6955
    @abdulkelli6955 Рік тому

    Daraba means not to beat really

  • @lachusity
    @lachusity 8 років тому +20

    If beat is the wrong translation, then why all the English qurans are using the word "beat" or "strike"? It seems the faithful are perfectly fine with this "beating" translation. So either Menk or the many islamic translators are lying to us.

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 7 років тому +6

      lachusity Brother, there 9 meanings of word "Zarab". It means to convince them (Refer Tehreem verse 10-11). Zarab means to create distance (Refer Surah Hadeed 13). If you ask I will present present more evidences from Quran not outside book.

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 7 років тому +3

      lachusity Moreover If beating was permissible, then do you beleive that very next verse recomends to appoint mediator for mutual discussion? Think yourself brother and I am available to provide reference for "Zarab" From Quran which means to convince some one or create distance in relation and many more.

    • @Andy-km1xp
      @Andy-km1xp 6 років тому +1

      Kk - can you hit with a stick?

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 6 років тому

      This is my swamp Why should I? .. No Way !

    • @Andy-km1xp
      @Andy-km1xp 6 років тому +1

      Kk - why do so many scholars say the verse says you can beat then?

  • @datmanUK
    @datmanUK 5 років тому

    Even the latest translation says ‘beat’ so It is what it is. It’s in the most extreme of circumstances and also not for the husband.

  • @OptimisticCynic45
    @OptimisticCynic45 Рік тому +3

    Here is a quote translated into english that comes from the Quran.
    Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
    That can be found on the 34th verse of chapter 4 (sūrat l-nisāa).
    Yes -beating your wife is permissible.

    • @teomanatakan8217
      @teomanatakan8217 Рік тому +2

      This is the verse he’s talking about in this video.

    • @FAIZmoulvi-h4x
      @FAIZmoulvi-h4x Рік тому

      example of what mufti was talking in starting of the video translations can be wrong my dear the word was women not specific wife it can be a person who's not acting greatly who's rude who's fraud who's bad if word beating were to be use it should be Annisak [beating] barb means tapping

    • @OptimisticCynic45
      @OptimisticCynic45 Рік тому +1

      @@FAIZmoulvi-h4x lol you people can’t even agree amongst yourselves…

    • @thepizzashaverisen5631
      @thepizzashaverisen5631 Рік тому +1

      You aren’t even paying attention to the video plus you came here just to abuse Islam. If you want to abuse it, then do so after reading a lot of Hadith and verses. Lets see if you would even have the will to abuse it after that. Expand your knowledge and understanding. Don’t just keep on nitpicking and looking on UA-cam videos just to abuse Islam.
      Muhammad (SAW) said, “Do not beat the female servants of Allah.”
      Umar(RA) replied “But our women have emboldened against us.”
      Muhammad (SAW) then quoted the verse which tells you to warn her then forsake her bed then beat her lightly.
      Later on, the wives came to Muhammad (SAW) and complained about their husbands treating them like this. Muhammad (SAW) said, “These men are not the best among the believers.”
      Muhammad (SAW) also said before, “The best of you are the best in behaviour, and the best of you are the best to your wives.”
      These are all reliable Hadiths that I have mentioned. Go to the website abuaminaelias.com for more

    • @OptimisticCynic45
      @OptimisticCynic45 Рік тому

      @@thepizzashaverisen5631 If this is the word of God how come you guys can’t even agree with each other? Plenty of scholars agree that a husband can beat their wives -which is reprehensible yet many practice this. I can’t believe that there has to be extensive debate on an issue like this -someone has to tell you that hitting your wife is unacceptable? Someone has to tell you that keeping sex slaves or that slavery is a bad thing. Clearly some people are so clueless they have no sense of innate morality or humanity.

  • @mickqQ
    @mickqQ Рік тому

    There are no real Gods
    Only people that believe that Gods are real.

  • @LizT207
    @LizT207 2 роки тому +1

    men shouldn't put their hands on a woman. why even "tap" her? how ridiculous

    • @MdsalamMd-cx1wc
      @MdsalamMd-cx1wc Рік тому

      I know men should not tap her but tapping is the last step for giving ultimatum to her before divorce

    • @AnshuMI2021
      @AnshuMI2021 7 місяців тому

      It is about husband & wife

  • @rush8931
    @rush8931 6 місяців тому +2

    😂 what a joke 🤣

  • @richardmontonio1486
    @richardmontonio1486 2 роки тому

    There is a contricdiction in the Quran. It says to beat and you say to tap. Allah says beat and this disobedient man says tap. I say disobedient because he wants to change the verse to fit what he thinks is right. Allah says to beat leave that word in the Quran and don't change.

    • @msdaisy-uo1jk
      @msdaisy-uo1jk 2 роки тому +3

      You have to learn arabic words first. This is important.

    • @AlbarakaApartments
      @AlbarakaApartments 8 місяців тому

      No you just want a justification to beat women you abuser.

    • @Linah220
      @Linah220 7 місяців тому +1

      Allah never say you can beat your wife like YOU want to do. Men who beat their wives are very WEAK. Did Allah says beating means to beat them to death or what? Allah is always against violence.

  • @abdulkelli6955
    @abdulkelli6955 Рік тому

    Contradictions

  • @yousufyaqoob9322
    @yousufyaqoob9322 4 роки тому +2

    In 8:12 ,strike them upon the necks the word used is فَاضْرِبُوا did the angels tapped on disbelievers neck in war.وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ is used in to strike the wife.you are intentionally fooling us . I am not against islam every religion has some thrash so even islam.if iam wrong some one with good knowledge explain me .I'll be humble to hear it iam an agnostic and i don't criticise any religion and I dont support any religion

    • @farzini9448
      @farzini9448 4 роки тому

      Yeah I didn’t understand never heard other scholars say this
      But I felt like Nomaan Ali explained it really well the video is a bit long (20mins) but I think it’s worth it if you have time...
      ua-cam.com/video/1azySjz4edk/v-deo.html

    • @farzini9448
      @farzini9448 4 роки тому

      Just put the payback speed at 1.5x lol

    • @FK-xh5it
      @FK-xh5it 3 роки тому +1

      Didn't he just say one arabic word could have upto 35 meanings? Lol

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому

      نظرا لأهمية المرأة👑 في مجتمعنا هي الأم و الأخت و الزوجة و العمة و الخالة وووووو...
      لابد أن يعلم الجميع أن لطالما سمعنا أن شهادة المرأة في القرآن نصف شهادة الرجل, وهذا غير صحيح تم تفسير هذه الآية وغيرها من القوامة, وللرجال عليهن درجة, وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ , و التعدد و النشوز ووووووووو تفسير خاطئ وإليكم الدليل
      قال الله تعالى: (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّـهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ
      بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ)
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      ما المقصود ب ولا يضربن بأرجلهن؟؟؟
      وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِنْ زِينَتِهِنَّ
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      قال الله تعالى: ( وَاسْتَشْهِدُوا شَهِيدَيْنِ مِنْ رِجَالِكُمْ ۖ فَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُونَا رَجُلَيْنِ فَرَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَتَان)
      ماذا تعنى الكلمات رِجَالِكُمْ , رَجُلَيْنِ , فَرَجُلٌ
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      قال الله تعالى: (وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌ ۗ وَاللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ (228))
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/112386937599301/
      (تعدد الزوجات👰‍♀️ - لا تعدد إلا برضا😇🥰 الزوجة لعدم تحقق الشرط الثاني (التعدد حل لمشكل وليس حق
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      واهجروهن في المضاجع واضربوهن: لا يوجد🚫ضرب للمرأة في القرآن***********
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @salehfarman9054
    @salehfarman9054 3 роки тому +1

    Where does the verse stated beating wife? Lets read together (in english translation)
    Men are to protect the rights of WOMEN, because bestowed ALLAH some of them over others and because they spend from their wealth. So righteous WOMEN obedient, guarding in absence what Allah would have them guard. But those from whom you fear ill conduct - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in place of stay; and overlook them so if they obey you. Then do not seek against them a way. Indeed, ALLAH is ever Exalted and Grand.
    First off, where does the word WIFE ever mention in the above verse? The genuine believers who believe that the Quran contains all the details, with no ifs or buts, will know that
    1. ALLAH's assurance that the Quran is fully detailed and that nothing has been left out of the Book:
    Shall I seek other than ALLAH as a lawmaker when it is He who has brought down to you the Book fully detailed? 6:114
    We did not leave anything out of the Book. 6:38
    2. ALLAH err and forgot?
    This cannot be the case because we read in the Quran that ALLAH, be praised, does not forget:
    He said, "The knowledge thereof is with my Lord in a Record. My Lord does not err, nor does He forget." 20:52
    If the verse is to explain on wife beating then, the word Imra'ah is used instead of Annisak, isn it? Quran in 11;71 - used the word "Imra'ah" with regards to Abraham's wife. But in 04:34, it is not the case! The word Nisak is used, showing the verse is with regards to all WOMEN in general, whom men are to protect their rights, can be one's mother, sisters, aunties as mention in 04:23, OR any free women as mention in 04:24 OR any women your right hands possess as mention in 04:25!
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    • @mhdhashaam973
      @mhdhashaam973 2 роки тому

      finally I found someone with this interpretation.... in verse 29th Allah said o you believers not o you men's thn how the hell people restrict it 🙄

    • @gertasteigner5237
      @gertasteigner5237 Рік тому

      Saleh Farman @ Where does the verse stated beating wife? Lets read together
      Whom are you trying to fool?
      Quran 4:34 always includes beating of wives is advised. There are different translations with the same meaning:
      strike them
      hit them
      beat them
      discipline them
      Denying this content of the verse 4:34 is nothing but LYING.
      Shame on you!

    • @sarimansari5374
      @sarimansari5374 Рік тому

      Which translation you used, but what about foresake them in the place of stay what does it mean by it like throw them out of the house?

  • @ShermanMays-fw8ko
    @ShermanMays-fw8ko Місяць тому

    This religion did not age well

  • @fatimaayaz2797
    @fatimaayaz2797 7 років тому +5

    Mufti menk, my husband is chatting with other woman and he says it's not my buisnis...

    • @Final_Turn
      @Final_Turn 7 років тому +9

      Fatima Ayaz Sister, this is for sure violation of the marriage contract and he should be reminded of oath of honesty he made at the time of Nikah. Beg your pardon for answering though you asked Mufti Mainek.

    • @kyntie3172
      @kyntie3172 6 років тому +4

      Mine was also chatting with other hijabis and exchanging pictures and when i got upset about it I was beaten up really really badly and we've split up and I burned the Quran cos I will burn anything that promotes domestic violence.

    • @Max-xl5kx
      @Max-xl5kx 6 років тому

      Bone have you watched the video if your husband does that then that means that is right no it is not and let me mention a point that if a women is being nullified then she can easily ask for divorce then why would Allah command a man to do something which would lead to divorce.Hitler was a christian but does he represent christianity? NO.Thats why your husband does not represent Islam he just wanted to do whatever he want so he used the thing that defines him.And also read surah 4:19 and tell me how does that reconcile with it thank you.

    • @arhanmalik3922
      @arhanmalik3922 6 років тому +3

      Bone Made N18 u burned Quran?😲😲😢😢 How dare you doing that

    • @watfordmusalla
      @watfordmusalla 6 років тому

      @@kyntie3172 troll

  • @mohammednaqhid8706
    @mohammednaqhid8706 5 років тому +2

    Beating means not to beat like animals...It means lightly beating with miswag...But the marks should not be left in the body...

    • @ms-zo3zb
      @ms-zo3zb 5 років тому +1

      Are women allowed to beat men if he is being disobedient

    • @SarikaAli-cw9xf
      @SarikaAli-cw9xf 4 роки тому

      @@ms-zo3zb because in that time men only did income and had to work and control the house.

    • @ms-zo3zb
      @ms-zo3zb 4 роки тому +1

      Is it ever OK to hit anyone

    • @ms-zo3zb
      @ms-zo3zb 4 роки тому

      @@SarikaAli-cw9xf women earn today does it mean they can hit

    • @SarikaAli-cw9xf
      @SarikaAli-cw9xf 4 роки тому +2

      @@ms-zo3zb Before Islam came, women were burnt and beaten alive. If anything bad happens in the house, women were blamed. Some women's head were shaved in public and were considered not a respectable human anymore. And oh, they never had any right to inherit any property. In vedic scriptures they were considered as lowborn or creatures that are born due to bad karma in the previous life done by her parents.
      Islam is the religion who freed women from all of that. It gave woman the right to inheritance. It is the religion that said woman are not lowborn or born to evil, they are born with equal purity. And it rescued woman from rituals like 'Sati pratha' (burning woman alive) to a state where even the husband cannot hurt her more than how if feels when you are hit by a twig toothbrush used at that time.
      When people focuses on negativity, they can't see the truth.

  • @evedubwise
    @evedubwise 6 років тому +3

    Why not call her name to attract attention from her?
    This is a lie!

    • @mamoonnaseer1886
      @mamoonnaseer1886 5 років тому +22

      As he explained, if wife is not answering her husband's call then he can tap to get her attention. I am sure your husband/boy-friend must have taped you at least once in your relation and vice versa.

    • @killerofothers
      @killerofothers 5 років тому +4

      Read about the Life of prophet Muhammad SAW you will know. Islam never promotes abuse

    • @maryam9996
      @maryam9996 5 років тому

      E Mi May Allah guide u. No matter what u’ll see smth wrong with Islam. It’s okay, that’s on you

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому

      نظرا لأهمية المرأة👑 في مجتمعنا هي الأم و الأخت و الزوجة و العمة و الخالة وووووو...
      لابد أن يعلم الجميع أن لطالما سمعنا أن شهادة المرأة في القرآن نصف شهادة الرجل, وهذا غير صحيح تم تفسير هذه الآية وغيرها من القوامة, وللرجال عليهن درجة, وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ , و التعدد و النشوز ووووووووو تفسير خاطئ وإليكم الدليل
      قال الله تعالى: (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّـهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ
      بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ)
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      ما المقصود ب ولا يضربن بأرجلهن؟؟؟
      وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِنْ زِينَتِهِنَّ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/109146747923320
      قال الله تعالى: ( وَاسْتَشْهِدُوا شَهِيدَيْنِ مِنْ رِجَالِكُمْ ۖ فَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُونَا رَجُلَيْنِ فَرَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَتَان)
      ماذا تعنى الكلمات رِجَالِكُمْ , رَجُلَيْنِ , فَرَجُلٌ
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/111454701025858/
      قال الله تعالى: (وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌ ۗ وَاللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ (228))
      facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/112386937599301/
      (تعدد الزوجات👰‍♀️ - لا تعدد إلا برضا😇🥰 الزوجة لعدم تحقق الشرط الثاني (التعدد حل لمشكل وليس حق
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      واهجروهن في المضاجع واضربوهن: لا يوجد🚫ضرب للمرأة في القرآن**************
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

    • @Mayahomok
      @Mayahomok 3 роки тому

      @@mamoonnaseer1886
      واضربوهن لا يوجد ضرب للمرأة في القرآن
      There is no beating of the woman in the Quaran waching the video for more explications .....
      ua-cam.com/video/_qiQM41vL8k/v-deo.html

  • @mohamedluqman6187
    @mohamedluqman6187 5 років тому +4

    Where is your evidence for tayamamum? The word used here is "idhrubuhunnu" which has the root word daraba which means to beat, strike, hit...if it means to go away then it should mean "Idhribu[an]hunna... nevertheless, just because you tap the earth during tayamamum doesn't mean verse 4:34 Is referring to the same.. of you say so then you are committing a logical fallacy. Why do you say woman are much more delicate? We aren't talking about women in general but women who are disobedient towards their husbands. So you comparing this with doing tayammum is rubbish. The Quran is strongly stating that women should be hit here.
    Where does the Quran say the woman is allowed to nullify the marriage if she was beaten ? It doesn't. If the husband beat his wife for no reason, then yes she could do something about it. But if she was beaten due to her being disobedient, then why would she nullify her marriage. ? What good reason does she have to support her case ? Mufti menk is being very illogical here and he speaks about common sense. Stop blaming the kuffar now...How convenient.
    He says one word can have more than one meaning, we realize this Mr menk but the definitions are context dependent. You cannot twist things here.
    To look at the sahabas? Show us examples Mr menk .
    In summary - mufti menk tried his beast to twist the primitive values held by Muslims just so that it looks nice in this modern era.

    • @AdoSahbaz
      @AdoSahbaz 5 років тому +1

      Mohamed Luqman may Allah SWT guide you to see

    • @rymc3437
      @rymc3437 5 років тому +1

      You are right mohammed ! This man clearly lying for trying to turn the verse into something of '' socially '' acceptable. The word ''idribuhunnu'' is present in many verses of quran ; For exemple at surat 47 verse 27, allah say : Then how [will it be] when the angels take them in death, *striking* their faces and their backs?
      The word use for *striking them* is '' yadriboona'' (يَضْرِبُونَ) its litteraly mean strike or beat ! It is the exact same word use in surat 4 verse 34 ''dribunna '' ! Its also use at surat 47 verse 4 ;
      [...] those who disbelieve, strike them'' ! '' darba '' ! This is the same root. In these verses, dribunna just mean beat them ! Muslim are just too ashamed for admit that a lot of verses of quran are violent

    • @Aqoonkororsi
      @Aqoonkororsi 5 років тому +5

      You guys what you are not able to understand is that menk is using tayamum hadith from ammaar bin yasir the word اضرب و اضربوهن is same word but اضربوهن has its subjects mentioned as ضمير بارز pronouns waw and hunna but menk saying that how to beat if we want to beat we beat as the messenger says he say in hadith beat her with miswak is miswak beating or doing romantic that's what we need to understand

    • @simplybuyer1
      @simplybuyer1 5 років тому

      Mohammed, Well said. I agree with you. Keep the work up and you doing a good job.

    • @truthfinder4597
      @truthfinder4597 4 роки тому

      Alright let me tell u this.
      Today in the news I saw this ' man severely beaten in public for rape crimes' and in the sports section 'Man city beats Arsenal' ....
      Decide yourself .....

  • @ms-zo3zb
    @ms-zo3zb 5 років тому +2

    First of all mufti assumed that this verse means issues such unruly misbehaving, evil things or bad characteristics who is to say which issue requires this to be used.
    Secondly what should a women do if a man is doing all these things, can she hit him with a miswak or a stick?
    Finally how will hitting or according to you tapping will help in any case ? Name a single case in history where men hit his wife and suddenly all the problems got solved they lived happliy ever after...i mean really
    stop misleading people and clearly say that some rulings don't apply to this day and age? Men that I have seen actually think it is ok to hit becasue they think thier religion permits them.who is to say when tapping will turn to slapping..

    • @yaazan974
      @yaazan974 4 роки тому +2

      If u think that Mufti Menk who has Learned Fiqh, Hadiths and Qur'an is " Assuming " things then please tell me what u are doing?!!
      And from which of those have got ur degree?!

    • @FK-xh5it
      @FK-xh5it 3 роки тому +1

      Women are allowed to seek divorce if the husband is misbehaving. The rest he explained pretty clearly lol

  • @farooqtahir538
    @farooqtahir538 3 роки тому

    What a apologitic answer

  • @hmz6khih
    @hmz6khih 7 років тому +5

    mufti Menk is a true muslim...he is a LIAR !

    • @thecrow1488
      @thecrow1488 6 років тому +6

      Jo Peters
      why mufti s a liar why he was telling the truth and that did hurt you idiot truth is a beautiful thing right

    • @شافعالدين
      @شافعالدين 6 років тому +1

      Prove him wrong then

  • @Johnathan909309
    @Johnathan909309 Рік тому

    Jesus the son of God was more clear

    • @Notorious95x
      @Notorious95x 8 місяців тому

      Is jesus God? or the son? Or the holy spirit? Or is he all 3? But is God not just 1?
      Not very clear if u ask me

  • @abhijitaich2985
    @abhijitaich2985 6 років тому +1

    lair lair

    • @mamoonnaseer1886
      @mamoonnaseer1886 5 років тому +2

      Do you have proof that he is lying?

    • @generaldash1076
      @generaldash1076 4 роки тому +4

      dogs always bark just ignore him

    • @Linah220
      @Linah220 7 місяців тому

      Why? You wanted him to say beat your wife to death? Men who beat women are WEAK. LOL

  • @MrG-xf8sc
    @MrG-xf8sc Рік тому

    Has anyone heard of the none stop sexual touching and harassment of woman in Saudi Arabia during haj more case there per year than hits in a major baseball league combine for all teams