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Wow, I’m so grateful that I was able to find this video. I always knew I wasn’t a proactive person and I was a reactive person, but I never knew that to be reactive also meant over reacting or even breaking down from a simple criticism or mistake. Now I know, and understand that a lot of my mental health issues can be solved if I work hard to become a proactive person and remind myself every single day that this will make me happier. Thank you so much for this video; it really did help.❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm glad the video resonated with you. Becoming proactive can indeed positively impact mental health. Keep working on it.
This is a better video than most of what is out there. Being proactive is not a synonym for "being a go getter" or superhumanly motivated. It means taking control of your responses and decisions.
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video insightful. You're absolutely right, being proactive is about taking control of your responses and decisions, which can have a profound impact on our overall effectiveness and well-being. If you have any more thoughts or questions, feel free to share!
Pro activity to me means setting your self up for success in any situation no matter the outcome by preparing and planning and doing important things/things that you may not want to do or are hard first so you have an understanding and experience with anything life throws at you and can react confidently and with a clear head to shift the outcome in your favor
Thank you for your kind words! You've captured the essence of being proactive beautifully. Self-reliance and confident decision-making are key aspects of this habit. Keep up the awesome mindset! 😊
A proactive person realises the power of choices. He doesnot react to circumstances . Rather he takes charge of his life. He is driven by his personal values. . A reactive person feels victimised, blames others and is influenced by external factors like people circumstances etc. His life is driven by external factors. Thanks for the video
Thank you for your insightful comment! You've summarized the key points beautifully. A proactive person recognizes the power of their choices, takes charge of their life, and is guided by their personal values. On the other hand, a reactive person tends to feel like a victim, blames external factors, and allows circumstances to control their life. Your understanding aligns well with the video's message. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Thinking proactive for me means being intentional with my life and starting to do things. Im tired of just talking about doing things or just doing things because its a reaction to a consequence.
I used to be the kind of guy that joked about "coming down with a case of the callouts." I quit jobs like it was going out of style. My life seriously turned around when I started to be proactive. Everything has been better because I am progressing in a better direction
I'm thrilled to hear about your positive transformation! Being proactive and taking control of your actions can indeed lead to significant positive changes. It's inspiring to know that you've experienced progress by moving in a better direction. Keep up the great work! If you have any questions or insights to share, feel free to let me know.
Proactive - make the first move. Don't wait for the ideal conditions that may never arrive. Make a start. Life is mine. It's my choice to do what i want with the time i have. Make an attempt. Even though i may fail, i should try. If i don't I will regret it forever.
Absolutely, your understanding is spot on! Being proactive is all about taking the initiative and making things happen, regardless of the circumstances. Life is indeed a precious gift, and the power to shape it lies in our choices and actions. It's better to make an attempt and possibly fail than to never try at all and regret missed opportunities. Embrace the philosophy of seizing the moment and embracing challenges. Your perspective is truly inspiring!
Absolutely, you've captured the essence perfectly! Taking responsibility for our actions and choices empowers us to shape our reality and create positive change. It's about acknowledging our role in our circumstances and using that awareness to drive meaningful improvements. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
What a gem. You have absolutely WOWed me with the way you delivered and executed this content.. everything- the legendary quotes, simple visuals, background music, and explanations-all top tier. I’m so motivated and inspired to shift to a proactive lifestyle. Thank you for what you do.
For me, I think that the proactive people are the ones who are the solution to an issue instead of being the problem themselves. The proactive people also take the responsibility of whatever the result/consequences will be of their reply to something cause they know that they have the freedom to choose. The emotions of proactive people are off. especially anger or sorrow. They are never hopeless about anything cause they know that everything can be solved if next time they put more effort in their work.
Absolutely! You've nailed the essence of being proactive-solving rather than causing problems, owning our actions' consequences, and staying emotionally balanced. Your insight on perseverance and optimism is spot-on! Thanks for sharing your thoughtful perspective. 😊👍
Great teaching on this first habit .. certainly.. being proactive is to own our own action : acknowledge its consequences and take responsibility to fix it .
I believe that being proactive has to do with keeping urself accountable. Setting a goal or intention for a short period of time and sticking to it. (When I finish work I will go the to the gym). If I don’t go to the gym I will have failed the goal and lost self respect. Proactivity is about respecting urself and sticking to ur goals
Practice means instead of worrying about what "should" have happened in a given unideal situation, or what someone "should" have done (aka spinning my wheels), I take the blame where due, take the steps starting with the first to fix it, and take a second to learn from the situation to be better in the future
Thank you so much ,the video helped me to understand what a proactive should be.Your instruction almost reflected my questions and the explanation was too good
Thank you so much for your feedback! I'm glad the video helped you understand Habit 1. Being proactive is all about taking responsibility for your actions and focusing on what you can control. I'm thrilled the explanation resonated with you!
I'm glad to hear that! Embracing proactivity and letting your values guide your actions can make a huge difference. Keep up the great work in applying these principles to your life!
Be proactive means to me to me decide and choose. My current situation is my decisions and afterwards is also my decisions. My mission statement: Pray, Act, repeat 🔁
Absolutely! Being proactive is all about taking charge of your decisions and actions. Your mission statement, "Pray, Act, Repeat," shows your determination to make thoughtful choices and create a positive cycle of continuous improvement. Keep up the proactive mindset!
I am in the same stage, like I am happy if treated well. Otherwise, I become a gloomy person. It is just like you said. I wanted to be proactive, so I came here instead of actually doing my work. :( I am just in college, and I've missed SO many deadlines that I'm worried what will happen to me when I get a job. I miss deadlines every single time. Gosh I think I need that book!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s great that you’re recognizing the importance of being proactive. College can be overwhelming, and it's common to miss deadlines. Remember, it’s all part of the learning process. Reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People might give you some valuable insights and strategies to help manage your time better. You’ve got this! Keep pushing forward, and feel free to share any tips you discover along the way!
I am a reactive person with my mood and behaviour dictated by external events and people. I an a procastinator short rempered. I am looking forward to change myself.
Understand your responsibility for your actions, align with your values, and manage procrastination and a short temper. Follow Stephen Covey's principles for guidance and commit to personal growth for positive change.
I tend to use ADHD as a reason why I tend to be late to certain things or why it's hard for me to do certain tasks. But it's just now that I realized that there is always something that I can do to prepare and manage all this in advance so that I can reach my goal.
Thank you for sharing! It’s interesting how we all experience being proactive in different ways. Recognizing our triggers and taking responsibility for our actions is an important step toward making positive changes. I appreciate your insights!
Taking control of actions,responses, behaviour and decisions. Our response depends much on our internal values. Reactive means giving your control to someone else. Your success is much dependent on reacting to the situation or responding to the situation. Being proactive means you are using your prefrontal cortex, being reactive means you are using your limbic system. Responsibility means your ability to choose your response. Acknowledge correct and learn from mistakes.
Exactly! Being proactive means taking control of your actions and responses based on your values, not external factors. It's about owning your choices and learning from mistakes.
For me being pro-Active is acting in advance: preparing to classes (I'm a teacher) in advance, planning holidays and days off and activity in there, buying presents in advance. And so on... I'm the who usually fails the deadlines and is often late. It makes me feel awful, stressed, self-accusing etc. Being proactive is my dream😅
Proactive people are not feather in the wind. They consciously take decisions for themselves with calculated risks and if something wrong happens they take complete resposiblity. Responsilbity not just for their actions but even the things that might not appear to be in their control.
Absolutely, you've captured the essence of being proactive perfectly. Proactive individuals not only take charge of their decisions but also embrace responsibility, even in challenging circumstances. It's about taking ownership and driving change. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
Proactive vs reactive to me. Reactive is someone who lets situations such as the weather, emotions and situations take control of them. They react and they let these things effect them and take it at face value. If the weather is bad a reactive person would say I’m going to skip my run because the weather is bad. A proactive person would see this situation. Realised that the weather is an issue but not change the outcome and still go for a run. This is because a proactive person sets themselves goals and doesn’t let changes effect them aims.
My way of becoming more proactive: 1. Draw my circle of influence and circle of concern. It takes about 10 minutes and can be updated as often as every week or two. If I doubt whether something is in my circle of influence or in my circle of concern, I place it into my circle of concern, until I feel secure tackling this particular problem 2. Accept my circle of concern. It is the way it is, for now, and excessively worrying about it won't help 3. Set up and reach goals for problems in my circle of concern. Start with micro goals, build up trust in myself, then go on to the bigger goals 4. Repeat this process, being proactive requires constant updates
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s amazing how shifting from being reactive to proactive can truly change how we handle life’s challenges. Taking responsibility for our actions, like Stephen Covey suggests, isn’t always easy, but it's so empowering. What’s one small step you’ve taken to be more proactive recently?
I see this video after my Instructor teaching us being proactive just want to understand what is tob be Being proactive. As almost finishing 3 month bootcamp as Full stack web developer
Being proactive means taking initiative and anticipating challenges before they arise. It’s about making things happen rather than waiting for them to happen. Great to hear you’re learning this in your bootcamp!
Absolutely! Proactiveness is rooted in our values, driving us to take initiative and make meaningful choices. What values inspire your proactive approach?
Proactive is being ahead of yourself and surroundings and moving on to the next situation. Reactive is being caught up in the same repetitive cycle of life.
Thank you for your insightful comment! I completely agree-being proactive allows us to anticipate challenges and embrace new opportunities, while being reactive can keep us stuck in a cycle. It's all about cultivating awareness and making conscious choices to create the life we want.
i think it has to do with doing something immediately ..but i dont know where to draw the line to not burn myself out and i have a hard time prioritising .. sometimes tasks are equally as important and time consuming or so i think
For me proactive means self control. If you able to contron your own emotions, behavior, actions against the all type of situation and act which is suitable, then you are a proactive person. Only then you can do your work and will not forget to fuel your car.
Great point! Self-control is definitely a key part of being proactive. It allows you to choose your response to situations instead of reacting impulsively. But being proactive goes beyond just self-control. It's also about taking initiative and anticipating future needs, like fueling your car before it runs empty! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I liked the video , it just reminded me of the power I have to choose in any situation. I can choose to be a victim or decide that the toxic environment will not define who I am. I think proactive people look at the situation and decide so do something. I love the example about the executive who elected to understand the Boss and compensated ! That’s an interesting way to address things. Complaining versus competent Atong. Never thought of that before . M thank Sally PinkieSerote -Baloyi
You're welcome! Recognizing the need for change is the first step towards personal growth. Believe in yourself, stay committed, and you'll surely make positive strides. Remember, small consistent efforts lead to big transformations. Best of luck on your journey!
1.Proactive means a person who is driven by values not feelings and his behaviour is impacted by his reponses not by external circumstances and feelings that means he take responsibility for his life and his actions. 2.A reactive person gets affected by external circumstances and by other people's behaviour they blame other people or circumstances for their own behaviour that shows they don't take responsibility for their own life as if they don't have the freedom to choose their response to the situations.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s great to hear that you’re looking to take charge of your life. Remember, self-awareness is the first step towards change. I believe this book will offer valuable insights to help you on your journey to responsibility and personal growth
For me being proactive meant that i should get control over my bad habits that were being controlled by my subconscious mind. I wanted to correct my auto-pilot habits that would lead me to become a reactive person
Proactive means taking responsibility for our actions and choices in how we respond to events, ultimately being in control of our own lives. It's about recognizing that we have the power to shape our responses and decisions.
Absolutely, you've hit the nail on the head! Being proactive is all about taking that initial step, without hesitation, whether it's in conversations or your work. Keep up the proactive approach, and you'll see positive changes unfold. If you have any questions or thoughts to share, feel free to do so!
My hubby has been really frustrated that whenever I am struggling I always seem to frame it as because he doesn't do enough with the kids or around the house, ot make enough money to avoid financial stress. I've thought it was because I was just emotionally dependant, because of faults in my upbringing-ive been just stuck there for years. It's the circumstances' fault and they aren't changing so...stuck. here lies the key. I DO have influence
Thank you for sharing this; it’s such a powerful realization! Recognizing that you have the ability to influence your situation is a big step toward creating positive change. It’s not easy to shift from feeling stuck to taking responsibility, but it shows your strength and self-awareness. I wish you the best as you continue on this journey!
Absolutely! Taking responsibility for your happiness is a powerful mindset. Focusing on what you can control helps you create a more fulfilling life. Keep embracing that attitude!
You're absolutely right. Being proactive is all about taking action, starting and completing tasks, and not waiting for things to happen on their own. Keep up the great work! 😊
Being a proactive person is to switch the way you view situations and start seeing them through a lense that is based on principles.intead of being reactive you respond based on those principles
Absolutely! Viewing situations through a lens of principles really shifts our perspective. It empowers us to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. Thanks for sharing your insights-how do you incorporate this principle in your daily life?
just starting to study how to b a highly effective person. in my case pro actuve is taking charge of ur life whatever comes to u is the choices u made earlier.
That’s a great insight! Being proactive means recognizing that we are responsible for our choices and the direction of our lives. It’s empowering to know that we can take charge and create the outcomes we want. What specific steps are you planning to take?
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Pro-active, could be the opposite of "anti-active". Rather than sitting idly doing nothing, get up and do something! Just starting the task that you think you should do, and that is a great first step. You don't need to have it all figured out to at least begin the process. As you get moving, doing, and accomplishing little things, the next steps tend to reveal themselves. It's a habit of constantly doing something small and productive that adds up over time, and eventually you take a step back and look at what you've accomplished, and it looks like one great feat.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I love your perspective on proactivity as a step away from inaction. Starting with small tasks can indeed lead to greater accomplishments over time. It's all about building that momentum, isn't it? Your insights highlight how taking even minor actions can make a significant difference. Keep up the great work
كن مبادر يعني لاتظل تلوم وتشكي روح وسوي التريدة بلا اي انزعاج واذا صادفتك مشكلة لاتضل تنعى فكر بحلها هذني ثنين واما السويتة بلماضي تعلم منة ولاتهتم بي وتعذب روحك بي
أشكرك على تعليقك القيم! سنحرص دائمًا على تشجيع دراسة وتحليل النفس والروح بدون تشويش، ونشجع التفكير في حل المشكلات. نحن نقدر مساهمة ستيفن ريتشارد كوفي في تحسين حياة الناس ونسعى لمواصلة رسالته من خلال سلسلة العادات السبع. شكرًا لدعمك وانضمامك إلى قناتنا!
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That's a great perspective! Being proactive does involve embracing and fully engaging with what you're doing. It’s about taking control and aligning your actions with your values and goals. Thanks for sharing your insight!
I appreciate your feedback! If you have any specific suggestions for improvement or topics you'd like me to explore in future videos, I'd love to hear them.
Pro active means People who knows what they want and what they are doing People aware of their goals Who controls their mind not allow his/her feelings to control them.
Absolutely! Being proactive means knowing your goals, staying aware of your path, and managing your mindset rather than letting emotions dictate your actions.
Hi #PracticalInspiration! Good morning from Maryland on a chilly Sunday! Thank you everyone face procrastination every day! Most important and useful video! In graduate school, I finally make the determination, I would be the first person to visit the library to start on my paper as soon as the lecture is over. #SecretsSelfmadeBillionaires
Thank you, Paul Chan! We all face procrastination challenge every day in one shape or the other. How's your experience of keeping up with the upload schedule of your videos. Are you inherently proactive in keeping up with the upload schedule or you need to make intentional efforts n determination to do this? Warm Regards Team Mr Smart
@@JoinMrSmart When I was 14, I learned self-hypnosis from my classmate. This proves most useful. It means I can sleep anytime, anywhere! And quickly recover my energy and concentration (in just 30 minutes).
Absolutely, you've captured the essence of being proactive perfectly! Taking responsibility for your actions aligned with your values is a fundamental step towards personal growth and effectiveness. If you have any more insights or thoughts to share, feel free to let me know!
To me, setting intentions before the day starts. Setting intentions about your mood and what you want to achieve. Circumstances don’t matter!! State of being is all that matters
Absolutely! Setting intentions is key to proactively shaping our day and mindset. It's about focusing on what we can control-our state of being. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
Absolutely, being proactive is indeed a key factor in organizing our lives and making our actions more valuable and timely. It's all about taking charge of our choices and behaviors. If you're interested in learning more, feel free to explore the other videos in the "7 Habits Series" for additional insights and strategies. Stay proactive and keep up the great work!
Absolutely, you're spot on! Being proactive is indeed a powerful trait. It's all about taking charge of your actions and decisions, which ultimately leads to more progress and success. Keep embracing that proactive mindset! 😊
Being proactive means knowing you have the power between an impulse and your reaction. And to recognise the paradigm in which your mind operates- are you someone who finds value in excuses, what kind of language do you use and do you execute, no matter what the circumstances are.
Absolutely! Being proactive empowers you to recognize the space between impulse and reaction, understand your thought paradigm, language, and execute actions regardless of circumstances. It's about taking control of your responses and fostering a positive mindset. Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts!
Very effective, Proactive person has a foresight of what needs to be done and prepares for it in time, it's more like a rehearsal. So that when the right time comes, they will be ready.
Proactive expressions are actions and behaviors that demonstrate taking initiative, responsibility, and control over one's life and circumstances. They involve being proactive in problem-solving, decision-making, and goal-setting. Stay tuned to our "7 Habit Series" to learn more about proactive expressions and how to incorporate them into your life!
Ahhh it was incredibooble. Now i am flying off, hrm, to Confest NSW and i shall fly off as with the flying snakes we shall giggly giggly gum drop in laughter, cheers💚
Thank you for your wonderful comment! Your positive energy and enthusiasm shine through your words. Have an amazing time at Confest NSW, and remember to keep soaring with that proactive spirit!
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In the future maybe you can devote some thought to the gender representations. The women characters were all mad, defensive and depressed. The only happy and effective characters were represented by men.
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Wow, I’m so grateful that I was able to find this video. I always knew I wasn’t a proactive person and I was a reactive person, but I never knew that to be reactive also meant over reacting or even breaking down from a simple criticism or mistake. Now I know, and understand that a lot of my mental health issues can be solved if I work hard to become a proactive person and remind myself every single day that this will make me happier. Thank you so much for this video; it really did help.❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm glad the video resonated with you. Becoming proactive can indeed positively impact mental health. Keep working on it.
This is a better video than most of what is out there. Being proactive is not a synonym for "being a go getter" or superhumanly motivated. It means taking control of your responses and decisions.
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video insightful. You're absolutely right, being proactive is about taking control of your responses and decisions, which can have a profound impact on our overall effectiveness and well-being. If you have any more thoughts or questions, feel free to share!
Pro activity to me means setting your self up for success in any situation no matter the outcome by preparing and planning and doing important things/things that you may not want to do or are hard first so you have an understanding and experience with anything life throws at you and can react confidently and with a clear head to shift the outcome in your favor
Agreed! Proactivity is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket for life's challenges.
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I love you. Being proactive means relying on myself to make decisions without fear or hesitation. Thank you
Thank you for your kind words! You've captured the essence of being proactive beautifully. Self-reliance and confident decision-making are key aspects of this habit. Keep up the awesome mindset! 😊
A proactive person realises the power of choices. He doesnot react to circumstances . Rather he takes charge of his life. He is driven by his personal values. . A reactive person feels victimised, blames others and is influenced by external factors like people circumstances etc. His life is driven by external factors. Thanks for the video
Thank you for your insightful comment! You've summarized the key points beautifully. A proactive person recognizes the power of their choices, takes charge of their life, and is guided by their personal values. On the other hand, a reactive person tends to feel like a victim, blames external factors, and allows circumstances to control their life. Your understanding aligns well with the video's message. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Thinking proactive for me means being intentional with my life and starting to do things. Im tired of just talking about doing things or just doing things because its a reaction to a consequence.
Absolutely! Being proactive means taking intentional action and shaping your life. It's about choice, not just reaction. Keep it up!
I used to be the kind of guy that joked about "coming down with a case of the callouts." I quit jobs like it was going out of style. My life seriously turned around when I started to be proactive. Everything has been better because I am progressing in a better direction
I'm thrilled to hear about your positive transformation! Being proactive and taking control of your actions can indeed lead to significant positive changes. It's inspiring to know that you've experienced progress by moving in a better direction. Keep up the great work! If you have any questions or insights to share, feel free to let me know.
Proactive - make the first move. Don't wait for the ideal conditions that may never arrive. Make a start.
Life is mine. It's my choice to do what i want with the time i have. Make an attempt. Even though i may fail, i should try. If i don't I will regret it forever.
Absolutely, your understanding is spot on! Being proactive is all about taking the initiative and making things happen, regardless of the circumstances. Life is indeed a precious gift, and the power to shape it lies in our choices and actions. It's better to make an attempt and possibly fail than to never try at all and regret missed opportunities. Embrace the philosophy of seizing the moment and embracing challenges. Your perspective is truly inspiring!
It means taking responsibility of your life, you should accept your reality and that you are the one who made it in such way
Absolutely, you've captured the essence perfectly! Taking responsibility for our actions and choices empowers us to shape our reality and create positive change. It's about acknowledging our role in our circumstances and using that awareness to drive meaningful improvements. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
You nailed it, first time I fully grasp the habit of being proactive thank you so much for this video.
Thank you! I'm glad the video helped you understand the habit of being proactive. Stay tuned for more!
I did read three times proactive chapter but I couldn't understand fully. But your video help me easy to understand it. Thank you.
I am glad to know my video helped you. 😀
What a gem. You have absolutely WOWed me with the way you delivered and executed this content.. everything- the legendary quotes, simple visuals, background music, and explanations-all top tier.
I’m so motivated and inspired to shift to a proactive lifestyle. Thank you for what you do.
Glad you enjoyed it!
For me, I think that the proactive people are the ones who are the solution to an issue instead of being the problem themselves. The proactive people also take the responsibility of whatever the result/consequences will be of their reply to something cause they know that they have the freedom to choose. The emotions of proactive people are off. especially anger or sorrow. They are never hopeless about anything cause they know that everything can be solved if next time they put more effort in their work.
Absolutely! You've nailed the essence of being proactive-solving rather than causing problems, owning our actions' consequences, and staying emotionally balanced. Your insight on perseverance and optimism is spot-on! Thanks for sharing your thoughtful perspective. 😊👍
Great teaching on this first habit .. certainly.. being proactive is to own our own action : acknowledge its consequences and take responsibility to fix it .
Exactly! Being proactive is such an empowering habit-taking responsibility, learning, and making things right. Glad this resonated with you!
Now I completely understand the meaning of being proactive. Thanks
You're welcome! Embracing the proactive mindset is a game changer. Keep applying it, and you'll see amazing results in your life.
I believe that being proactive has to do with keeping urself accountable. Setting a goal or intention for a short period of time and sticking to it. (When I finish work I will go the to the gym). If I don’t go to the gym I will have failed the goal and lost self respect. Proactivity is about respecting urself and sticking to ur goals
Absolutely, accountability is key to achieving our goals and staying on track!
Practice means instead of worrying about what "should" have happened in a given unideal situation, or what someone "should" have done (aka spinning my wheels), I take the blame where due, take the steps starting with the first to fix it, and take a second to learn from the situation to be better in the future
That's a great way to put it. Taking ownership and learning from mistakes is key! 💯
Thank you so much ,the video helped me to understand what a proactive should be.Your instruction almost reflected my questions and the explanation was too good
Thank you so much for your feedback! I'm glad the video helped you understand Habit 1. Being proactive is all about taking responsibility for your actions and focusing on what you can control. I'm thrilled the explanation resonated with you!
Nice, now I understand what does it mean to be truly proactive, act and react on circumstances according to my values, not my emotions. Thanks!
I'm glad to hear that! Embracing proactivity and letting your values guide your actions can make a huge difference. Keep up the great work in applying these principles to your life!
You are very good at what You do. It would add to my brain when other more advanced COVEY works are comparable, too.
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Being pro active means for me that to do the thing in their given time and starting to do things that once i was un able to do.
That's a great way to be proactive. It means taking charge and doing things before you're forced to. Keep it up!
Be proactive means to me to me decide and choose. My current situation is my decisions and afterwards is also my decisions. My mission statement: Pray, Act, repeat 🔁
Absolutely! Being proactive is all about taking charge of your decisions and actions. Your mission statement, "Pray, Act, Repeat," shows your determination to make thoughtful choices and create a positive cycle of continuous improvement. Keep up the proactive mindset!
I am in the same stage, like I am happy if treated well. Otherwise, I become a gloomy person.
It is just like you said. I wanted to be proactive, so I came here instead of actually doing my work. :(
I am just in college, and I've missed SO many deadlines that I'm worried what will happen to me when I get a job. I miss deadlines every single time. Gosh I think I need that book!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s great that you’re recognizing the importance of being proactive. College can be overwhelming, and it's common to miss deadlines. Remember, it’s all part of the learning process. Reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People might give you some valuable insights and strategies to help manage your time better. You’ve got this! Keep pushing forward, and feel free to share any tips you discover along the way!
I am a reactive person with my mood and behaviour dictated by external events and people. I an a procastinator short rempered. I am looking forward to change myself.
Understand your responsibility for your actions, align with your values, and manage procrastination and a short temper. Follow Stephen Covey's principles for guidance and commit to personal growth for positive change.
I tend to use ADHD as a reason why I tend to be late to certain things or why it's hard for me to do certain tasks. But it's just now that I realized that there is always something that I can do to prepare and manage all this in advance so that I can reach my goal.
Thank you for sharing! It’s interesting how we all experience being proactive in different ways. Recognizing our triggers and taking responsibility for our actions is an important step toward making positive changes. I appreciate your insights!
Taking control of actions,responses, behaviour and decisions.
Our response depends much on our internal values.
Reactive means giving your control to someone else.
Your success is much dependent on reacting to the situation or responding to the situation.
Being proactive means you are using your prefrontal cortex, being reactive means you are using your limbic system.
Responsibility means your ability to choose your response.
Acknowledge correct and learn from mistakes.
Exactly! Being proactive means taking control of your actions and responses based on your values, not external factors. It's about owning your choices and learning from mistakes.
Being Proactive is deliberately setting & executing tasks that progressively moves you forward in the direction of your desired outcome
Agreed! Being proactive is the key to achieving your goals and taking charge of your life. Keep moving forward!
For me being pro-Active is acting in advance: preparing to classes (I'm a teacher) in advance, planning holidays and days off and activity in there, buying presents in advance. And so on...
I'm the who usually fails the deadlines and is often late. It makes me feel awful, stressed, self-accusing etc.
Being proactive is my dream😅
Thanks for sharing!
Wow You made the best explanation of be proactive,
Thanks for the feedback! I'm glad it resonated with you.
Proactive people are not feather in the wind. They consciously take decisions for themselves with calculated risks and if something wrong happens they take complete resposiblity. Responsilbity not just for their actions but even the things that might not appear to be in their control.
Absolutely, you've captured the essence of being proactive perfectly. Proactive individuals not only take charge of their decisions but also embrace responsibility, even in challenging circumstances. It's about taking ownership and driving change. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
Proactive vs reactive to me. Reactive is someone who lets situations such as the weather, emotions and situations take control of them. They react and they let these things effect them and take it at face value. If the weather is bad a reactive person would say I’m going to skip my run because the weather is bad. A proactive person would see this situation. Realised that the weather is an issue but not change the outcome and still go for a run. This is because a proactive person sets themselves goals and doesn’t let changes effect them aims.
Keep pushing forward, no matter the weather or the obstacles in your way!
My way of becoming more proactive:
1. Draw my circle of influence and circle of concern. It takes about 10 minutes and can be updated as often as every week or two. If I doubt whether something is in my circle of influence or in my circle of concern, I place it into my circle of concern, until I feel secure tackling this particular problem
2. Accept my circle of concern. It is the way it is, for now, and excessively worrying about it won't help
3. Set up and reach goals for problems in my circle of concern. Start with micro goals, build up trust in myself, then go on to the bigger goals
4. Repeat this process, being proactive requires constant updates
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s amazing how shifting from being reactive to proactive can truly change how we handle life’s challenges. Taking responsibility for our actions, like Stephen Covey suggests, isn’t always easy, but it's so empowering. What’s one small step you’ve taken to be more proactive recently?
I see this video after my Instructor teaching us being proactive just want to understand what is tob be Being proactive. As almost finishing 3 month bootcamp as Full stack web developer
Being proactive means taking initiative and anticipating challenges before they arise. It’s about making things happen rather than waiting for them to happen. Great to hear you’re learning this in your bootcamp!
Proactiveness is value-driven
Absolutely! Proactiveness is rooted in our values, driving us to take initiative and make meaningful choices. What values inspire your proactive approach?
Proactive is being ahead of yourself and surroundings and moving on to the next situation. Reactive is being caught up in the same repetitive cycle of life.
Thank you for your insightful comment! I completely agree-being proactive allows us to anticipate challenges and embrace new opportunities, while being reactive can keep us stuck in a cycle. It's all about cultivating awareness and making conscious choices to create the life we want.
i think it has to do with doing something immediately ..but i dont know where to draw the line to not burn myself out and i have a hard time prioritising .. sometimes tasks are equally as important and time consuming or so i think
Great insights! Finding balance is key. Prioritize based on long-term goals and take breaks to avoid burnout.
For me proactive means self control. If you able to contron your own emotions, behavior, actions against the all type of situation and act which is suitable, then you are a proactive person. Only then you can do your work and will not forget to fuel your car.
Great point! Self-control is definitely a key part of being proactive. It allows you to choose your response to situations instead of reacting impulsively. But being proactive goes beyond just self-control. It's also about taking initiative and anticipating future needs, like fueling your car before it runs empty! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I liked the video , it just reminded me of the power I have to choose in any situation.
I can choose to be a victim or decide that the toxic environment will not define who I am.
I think proactive people look at the situation and decide so do something.
I love the example about the executive who elected to understand the Boss and compensated ! That’s an interesting way to address things.
Complaining versus competent Atong. Never thought of that before .
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So glad you liked it! You're absolutely right, choosing our response is so powerful. Love that you caught the "complaining vs. competent" point.
Thank you. I've been the reactive person. I will change. I know I'm able to!
You're welcome! Recognizing the need for change is the first step towards personal growth. Believe in yourself, stay committed, and you'll surely make positive strides. Remember, small consistent efforts lead to big transformations. Best of luck on your journey!
1.Proactive means a person who is driven by values not feelings and his behaviour is impacted by his reponses not by external circumstances and feelings that means he take responsibility for his life and his actions.
2.A reactive person gets affected by external circumstances and by other people's behaviour they blame other people or circumstances for their own behaviour that shows they don't take responsibility for their own life as if they don't have the freedom to choose their response to the situations.
I feel reactive to/victim of my own character. Hope this books helps me in becoming responsible in life.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s great to hear that you’re looking to take charge of your life. Remember, self-awareness is the first step towards change. I believe this book will offer valuable insights to help you on your journey to responsibility and personal growth
For me being proactive meant that i should get control over my bad habits that were being controlled by my subconscious mind.
I wanted to correct my auto-pilot habits that would lead me to become a reactive person
It’s great to hear that you’re taking steps to regain control over your habits! Awareness is the first step to making lasting changes.
Proactive means self improving always.
Absolutely! Being proactive is all about taking initiative and constantly looking for ways to grow and improve. It’s a key to long-term success!
Proactive means recognizing the choice we have in responding to events . It means we are in charge of our life.
Proactive means taking responsibility for our actions and choices in how we respond to events, ultimately being in control of our own lives. It's about recognizing that we have the power to shape our responses and decisions.
Self-control is my strength.
Surely that's one pic the strongest strengths. Were you born with this strenghth or you cultivated it intentionally?
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Proactive = Taking the first step, whether in conversations or at work. Just doing it and not hesitating.
Absolutely, you've hit the nail on the head! Being proactive is all about taking that initial step, without hesitation, whether it's in conversations or your work. Keep up the proactive approach, and you'll see positive changes unfold. If you have any questions or thoughts to share, feel free to do so!
the ability to choose your response
Responsibility
Response-ability: Your power to choose, your responsibility to own.
My hubby has been really frustrated that whenever I am struggling I always seem to frame it as because he doesn't do enough with the kids or around the house, ot make enough money to avoid financial stress. I've thought it was because I was just emotionally dependant, because of faults in my upbringing-ive been just stuck there for years. It's the circumstances' fault and they aren't changing so...stuck. here lies the key. I DO have influence
Thank you for sharing this; it’s such a powerful realization! Recognizing that you have the ability to influence your situation is a big step toward creating positive change. It’s not easy to shift from feeling stuck to taking responsibility, but it shows your strength and self-awareness. I wish you the best as you continue on this journey!
Very good video , i needed a review for that chapter thanks a lot!
Glad it was helpful!
Being responsible for your happiness and take charge of what you can control
Absolutely! Taking responsibility for your happiness is a powerful mindset. Focusing on what you can control helps you create a more fulfilling life. Keep embracing that attitude!
I think being proactive is simply just getting the task done. Starting and completing then moving on
You're absolutely right. Being proactive is all about taking action, starting and completing tasks, and not waiting for things to happen on their own. Keep up the great work! 😊
It’s very easy to react to what people say about you and what they do to you.
It's true, but sometimes it's best to take a step back before reacting.
Being a proactive person is to switch the way you view situations and start seeing them through a lense that is based on principles.intead of being reactive you respond based on those principles
Absolutely! Viewing situations through a lens of principles really shifts our perspective. It empowers us to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. Thanks for sharing your insights-how do you incorporate this principle in your daily life?
👏👏👏👏 Bravo! This helped me understand this concept much better.
Thank you! Glad to hear it helped you grasp the concept better. Keep embracing proactivity in your life!
just starting to study how to b a highly effective person. in my case pro actuve is taking charge of ur life whatever comes to u is the choices u made earlier.
That’s a great insight! Being proactive means recognizing that we are responsible for our choices and the direction of our lives. It’s empowering to know that we can take charge and create the outcomes we want. What specific steps are you planning to take?
Be intentional.
very informative. Like the way it was explained with examples
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Pro-active, could be the opposite of "anti-active". Rather than sitting idly doing nothing, get up and do something! Just starting the task that you think you should do, and that is a great first step. You don't need to have it all figured out to at least begin the process. As you get moving, doing, and accomplishing little things, the next steps tend to reveal themselves. It's a habit of constantly doing something small and productive that adds up over time, and eventually you take a step back and look at what you've accomplished, and it looks like one great feat.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I love your perspective on proactivity as a step away from inaction. Starting with small tasks can indeed lead to greater accomplishments over time. It's all about building that momentum, isn't it? Your insights highlight how taking even minor actions can make a significant difference. Keep up the great work
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Be Proactive means knowing, believing, and loving what you're doing.
That's a great perspective! Being proactive does involve embracing and fully engaging with what you're doing. It’s about taking control and aligning your actions with your values and goals. Thanks for sharing your insight!
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Pro active means
People who knows what they want and what they are doing
People aware of their goals
Who controls their mind not allow his/her feelings to control them.
Absolutely! Being proactive means knowing your goals, staying aware of your path, and managing your mindset rather than letting emotions dictate your actions.
Hi #PracticalInspiration! Good morning from Maryland on a chilly Sunday! Thank you everyone face procrastination every day! Most important and useful video! In graduate school, I finally make the determination, I would be the first person to visit the library to start on my paper as soon as the lecture is over. #SecretsSelfmadeBillionaires
Thank you, Paul Chan! We all face procrastination challenge every day in one shape or the other. How's your experience of keeping up with the upload schedule of your videos. Are you inherently proactive in keeping up with the upload schedule or you need to make intentional efforts n determination to do this?
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@@JoinMrSmart I make sure I am productive every hour. Whenever I get tired or unmotivated, I take a 20 to 30 minute nap.
Yes, that nap formula works wonder. Thank you for sharing! But is it natural and easy for you to take nap and sleep at will?
@@JoinMrSmart When I was 14, I learned self-hypnosis from my classmate. This proves most useful. It means I can sleep anytime, anywhere! And quickly recover my energy and concentration (in just 30 minutes).
Thats great! How to learn such hypnosis? It seems very interesting.
me working years in the food services i have learned to think first before i react.
That's a valuable lesson! Thinking before reacting is a key aspect of being proactive. Keep up the great work!
Focus on 20 % very important activities for solve it
Absolutely, focus on the vital 20%! That's the essence of being proactive. Thanks for sharing your insight!
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proactive means taking responsibility based on your values
Absolutely, you've captured the essence of being proactive perfectly! Taking responsibility for your actions aligned with your values is a fundamental step towards personal growth and effectiveness. If you have any more insights or thoughts to share, feel free to let me know!
To me, setting intentions before the day starts. Setting intentions about your mood and what you want to achieve.
Circumstances don’t matter!! State of being is all that matters
Absolutely! Setting intentions is key to proactively shaping our day and mindset. It's about focusing on what we can control-our state of being. Thanks for sharing your insightful perspective!
Proactive make our more valuable well organised self to active things Timely
Absolutely, being proactive is indeed a key factor in organizing our lives and making our actions more valuable and timely. It's all about taking charge of our choices and behaviors. If you're interested in learning more, feel free to explore the other videos in the "7 Habits Series" for additional insights and strategies. Stay proactive and keep up the great work!
Proactive people are those who are always ahead of their problems by planning and taking action. They are very progressive, atleast in my mind lol
Absolutely, you're spot on! Being proactive is indeed a powerful trait. It's all about taking charge of your actions and decisions, which ultimately leads to more progress and success. Keep embracing that proactive mindset! 😊
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Being proactive means knowing you have the power between an impulse and your reaction. And to recognise the paradigm in which your mind operates- are you someone who finds value in excuses, what kind of language do you use and do you execute, no matter what the circumstances are.
Absolutely! Being proactive empowers you to recognize the space between impulse and reaction, understand your thought paradigm, language, and execute actions regardless of circumstances. It's about taking control of your responses and fostering a positive mindset. Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts!
Man great job!
I am glad that you like it.
Very effective, Proactive person has a foresight of what needs to be done and prepares for it in time, it's more like a rehearsal. So that when the right time comes, they will be ready.
In my mind, I always think myself is the best, but the reality doesn't.
Totally get what you mean! Keep pushing yourself, and you'll surprise yourself with what you achieve!
Why this video has under 1000 views says why the world is like this
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Instead of reacting simply acting as required by letting that moment pass
what are proactive expressions?
Proactive expressions are actions and behaviors that demonstrate taking initiative, responsibility, and control over one's life and circumstances. They involve being proactive in problem-solving, decision-making, and goal-setting. Stay tuned to our "7 Habit Series" to learn more about proactive expressions and how to incorporate them into your life!
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Proactive means, go gettum tiger... but in your own expression, connecting, uplifting and letting go for me 🤭
Reactive people go ROAaAaaa!!! Proactive people stop look listen
Ahhh it was incredibooble. Now i am flying off, hrm, to Confest NSW and i shall fly off as with the flying snakes we shall giggly giggly gum drop in laughter, cheers💚
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Leap in the air, gather some enegy, collect, store, amire, sort, play, be, Energize🙆♀️
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In the future maybe you can devote some thought to the gender representations. The women characters were all mad, defensive and depressed. The only happy and effective characters were represented by men.
Thank you for the identification!
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