The danger of being stalked

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  • @AlwaysJesusAvailable
    @AlwaysJesusAvailable 11 місяців тому +10

    All stalkers should be held accountable. I have been for a couple years and it is so infuriating . Fake warnings to my friends and acquaintances, fake police reports , getting me fired from a lil part time job. I remember working at a hostel and the new guests were acting suspicious towards me then I realized they were stalkers sent to harass me at my job. One day I confronted them by saying why are you here harassing me , two pretended not to hear and one gay guy responded" you're too interesting to not harass. That's why" he was dead serious. Stalkers are evil I don't know when it will end. God .

  • @maybememory1
    @maybememory1 10 місяців тому +7

    I was stalked by my friend’s physically abusive ex-boyfriend after she broke up with him. He blamed me for their breakup. Him and his numerous friends terrorized me for over a year, and I never knew who was friends with him. I briefly worked a job at that time, and the assistant manager was friends with him, disclosed my employment information to him. I had no idea.

  • @shannonwillbanks7735
    @shannonwillbanks7735 2 роки тому +41

    Stalking is scary it takes an emotional toll on you. Your already tired from being emotionally abused and then the physical act of fight or flight mode everyday when you go anywhere. You just want it to end. You take for granted just being free to come and go once your stalked your head will always be on a swivel. You will always be on guard. You will always feel like your being watched. Your never truly comfortable again. That’s why people go back, that’s why people withdraw make excuses, sometimes they feel like they have no choice but to go back because they just want it to stop. Ever heard the phrase at least I know my monster. Years of abuse with a narcissist will change your entire life. You lose yourself. Trauma Bond is real.

    • @jackietaylor5035
      @jackietaylor5035 Рік тому

      Stalkers are born cursed they are demon possessed used from Satan when they die Satan will come for thier souls take them straight to a living hell Satan will get his laugh on them he uses evil animals on earth to attack others only to bring total destruction after they take their last breathe..,that is a true fact. They were born from evil suits only to be a cursed

    • @loveinchrist6115
      @loveinchrist6115 Рік тому

      Run away stalking people with schizophrenia is beyond hitlerism. Seriously. Nothing but the mind of Hitler stalk people with schizophrenia

    • @frankly1744
      @frankly1744 11 місяців тому

      Was there myself so, I became a viable threat back. Got myself a arm (g-n) and got trained then stay practiced and now own a few versions differing am completely addicted now to my new sport. Go figure, your best bet, get the training before you might need it. The 2 years living at the gates of hell was more than monetarily costly, worse it cost my my physical health too. Sad and tragic that this problem has no "safer" process of dealing with it.

  • @Thegreatestpath9051
    @Thegreatestpath9051 Рік тому +9

    The law needs to take this seriously. People have died because of this. How many more victims have to put up with this preditory behavior. No good person deserves this.

  • @victoriaw8695
    @victoriaw8695 19 днів тому +1

    There's different types of stalkers, you might have predatory stalkers who may have never been romantically involved with their victims. Sometimes stalking is a severe form of harassment in which the perpetrators of these crimes who are intentionally intrusive and who doesn't have any regard for the rights of others are mentally unhealthy and are obsessed with their victims and are obsessed with having power and control over their victims.

  • @nemesis728
    @nemesis728 2 роки тому +46

    I once had a bf .... and I don't know how ... but he actually found out my UA-cam comment .... and that comment section had 1000+ comments ..... and he got mad at me bcoz I appreciated that "male" UA-camr ...... I was soooooo scared of him

    • @IllIIIIIIllll
      @IllIIIIIIllll Рік тому +2

      Just appreciate his skill in tech, there's nothing wrong in it.

    • @Artlove8900
      @Artlove8900 3 місяці тому

      Omg

    • @Artlove8900
      @Artlove8900 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@IllIIIIIIllll are you serious. I hope u are not

  • @nadinecolbath5584
    @nadinecolbath5584 2 роки тому +36

    YES!!!!! My first husband stalked me for YEARS!!!!! Until he got married, then he found other ways to stalk me. No matter how many times I called the police, they said he can be anywhere his kids were, he can be!!! EVEN AT MY SISTER'S HOME OR MY MOTHER'S HOME!!!!!!!! REALLY????!!!!! We weren't married anymore, so why is he ALLOWED TO BE WHERE I AM????!!!! I'm so thankful that he never crossed that line and killed me. But I didn't know if he would at the time. And neither did the police. But they didn't care. Now a days, he wouldn't get away with it. But now he leaves me alone finally!!! AFTER 35 years!!!! They WILL continue to stalk you if they police and courts don't step in and put them in prison!!!!

  • @elizabethortiz2571
    @elizabethortiz2571 2 роки тому +9

    I know someone who gets Stalked and she told the Authorities about it and it fell on deaf ear. She told others that she thought could help her and they said oh don't worry about him he seems harmless. Wow unreal!!!!!! She said to these people This behavior should be taken Seriously. This guy shouldn't have the Attitude he is entitled to Stalk whenever he feels like it. He knows Authorities Don't care most likely he has done it before to know No one takes it Serious!!!!!! How Pathetic is that. My friend is on edge all the time. Lack of Support of the Authorities it's no wonder the Stalking turns badly for the Victim and for the ones who could have helped the situation wound up saying oh we thought he was harmless I guess we were wrong. Ass wholes. Stalking has been going on for some time now and Protection and Support hasn't gotten any better. The delusional stalkers are to be taken very serious!!!!!!!!

    • @JayBee-hk7ej
      @JayBee-hk7ej 7 днів тому

      Stalking with coercive control is "m*rder in slow motion" due to Scotland Yard.

  • @mlparniso107
    @mlparniso107 3 місяці тому

    Some ppl are stalked by their relative/s. That's EXTREMELY DIFFICULT & HIGHLY DANGEROUS TO DEAL WITH ON A DAILY BASIS!!!

  • @ChristineAudler
    @ChristineAudler 3 місяці тому +1

    Lately I feel like my stalker will kill me

  • @nyxskids
    @nyxskids 2 роки тому +6

    Still being stalked. By a group no less.

  • @Leannot35
    @Leannot35 2 місяці тому +1

    People only listen when it's too late

  • @anniel13
    @anniel13 2 роки тому +6

    My friend got stalk by her ex-husband....he killed her the day she come back home to get her things out alone ..she never told anyone about the situation... when I left him, I took the lesson I wasn't alone I was right .It was dangerous.

  • @emberphoenix9027
    @emberphoenix9027 2 роки тому +6

    My mom did this to me. I had enough. I'd tried with her for a literal year. And while I was trying to plan to leave safely, I ended up having q trauma-i duced episode. Once I left she: filed a missing person's report, then hired a PI, then harassed my friends herself, then one morning I woke up with a fear that made the cortisone in my body feel like burning acid- and I was right. Turned out she'd learned how to hack my email and bank accounts, and had been logging in every day to monitor my activity. That's the info that gets people to back off and finally agree her behavior was scary and way over the line

    • @macnchessplz
      @macnchessplz Рік тому +1

      My spouse has ppl connected to him who does this. When it’s a family member,I feel they believe bc they are family they are entitled to know all and if hacking is a way to get it,so be it.
      What is really perplexing and mind blowing is how some of them think you should be OK with visiting, or dining with them when they KNOW you know they’re doing it.
      They expect you to just accept it and pretend it’s not happening and that it’s illegal and wrong on every level there is.
      You’re family-so I own you. They wouldn’t not be Ok if you were or someone one were to do the same to them.
      My spouse is literally the only person on his family who doesn’t stalk people.

  • @WE_R_DNA
    @WE_R_DNA 2 роки тому +11

    My ex disguised it as leaving presents on my car at work and at my home. She didn't do it romantically when we were together, why was she doing it after I left her?

    • @samieD22
      @samieD22 Рік тому +1

      She deserves prison💀 Not sorry…

  • @stephaniehernandez9435
    @stephaniehernandez9435 2 роки тому +10

    I’m with my stalker because of circumstances. He happens to be my husband and my worse mistake.

    • @theawesomnes3848
      @theawesomnes3848 Рік тому

      i’m really sorry are u ok @stephaniehernandez9435

    • @Pabl5878
      @Pabl5878 Рік тому +1

      call me this doesn't have to be

  • @MaxPower-js1sk
    @MaxPower-js1sk Рік тому +1

    I’m a man and I was stalked by a woman. It was very unpleasant and I became worried about my safety. It lasted for about 1 year.

  • @what.you.allowyou.permit2030
    @what.you.allowyou.permit2030 2 роки тому +4

    Great short, long on EXCELLENT stats & facts. Thank you. Please share! Educate others; raise awareness.

  • @RedandBlackS10
    @RedandBlackS10 7 місяців тому

    I had a dog sicked on me. That stalker and his whole crew are absolutely insane.

  • @Clarrissaharrison
    @Clarrissaharrison Рік тому +1

    I was gang stalk before I got away I trick them

  • @chrisc3571
    @chrisc3571 2 роки тому +4

    For a while he didn't just stalk me. He stalked our oldest son and people he knew from school, and he stalked a friend of mine -- both online and in person.
    It was a great way to scare me into self-isolation, because I didn't want him to hurt my friend. She stood by me, though. I don't think he knows what it is to have real friends.

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 Рік тому +6

    I just stay away from men now after all this abuse early on. Imm done. He can leave me alone for the rest of my life i will be more than happy to be left alone. I am so scared to go outside these days!! Wtf!!!! 🤬 stay away from me. Quit being evil towards women

  • @casio4067
    @casio4067 2 роки тому +6

    I keep getting chased while im driving lately :/

    • @stephirothermy9938
      @stephirothermy9938 2 роки тому +7

      Please be safe!! Look up ways to keep safe while driving, always have someone with you or a way of communicating quickly and/or silently. They make bracelets & watches with trackers & communication devices in them. You are loved & cared for by people who are worthy of your trust

  • @albertamariepenney
    @albertamariepenney 2 роки тому +4

    Sometimes it's NOT a physical murder...not with social media.

  • @couldntholdacandle6681
    @couldntholdacandle6681 Рік тому +5

    Yep I've had a few, the thing is I don't even wear make up jewelry and I dress modesty and down too not draw attention and yet it still happening. Animals are animals.

    • @LilMsLorelei
      @LilMsLorelei 5 місяців тому

      It is not always sexual based. It is about power.

  • @sofiepark4838
    @sofiepark4838 Рік тому

    Until now iam still scared n feel unsaved to go out .. somebody stalked me.. everyday.. so i dont go anywhere..

  • @ButtaAlmonds
    @ButtaAlmonds 11 місяців тому +3

    Women can stalk other women as well, and is, just as dangerous.

    • @strongerthanbefore
      @strongerthanbefore  11 місяців тому +2

      Statiscally women can stalk, but less than men do and when women stalk its less physically dangerous. But yes women do do it.

    • @user-tr9rw7ne8x
      @user-tr9rw7ne8x Місяць тому +1

      @@strongerthanbefore Most murder victims are men, even when the female murder rate is "high" it's almost always less then 50%

  • @stealthwarrior5768
    @stealthwarrior5768 2 роки тому +5

    This topic is so important to discuss. It rarely gets any attention. Some people have to marry their stalkers because their parents think they should😢. Thank you for talking about stalkers.

  • @GrahamByrne63
    @GrahamByrne63 Рік тому +1

    a hater of me uses a form of gang stalking,so he’s not always present,bullied me from school days

  • @justynawojcicka5056
    @justynawojcicka5056 2 роки тому +3

    Yes yes yes thenk you for sere this information

  • @ElohiSilverEarthVentures
    @ElohiSilverEarthVentures 8 місяців тому

    It's just scary when the stalker doesn't think what they're doing is wrong...Doesn't think that the effects of theyre stalking is causing extreme anxiety fear and parnoia and trauma that I doubt I'll ever be able to heal or reverse the damages it's caused me mentally emotionally physically finacially even. Im afraid to go to the store im afraid to take my gatbagebdown to the curb, im scared to go out on my back porch to smoke, i go no where, I do nothing, I've lost jobs, ive lost family, ive missed so many dr appointments that they wont reschedule me anymore, ive lost teeth from cavities i couldnt go to my dentist to fix cus my stalker us my kids dad and he's obsessed with owning me and controlling me, if i dont have sex with him he threatnes to take my child and went and told the court im on drugs and hes scared for his life from me, he told the law lies,I've never even have had 1 friend at my home The violation of my privacy has destroyed me inside and out.

  • @issue43yt52
    @issue43yt52 2 роки тому +3

    I’ve been stalked by several people harassed by several people so ik how it is and I’m only 13 😭

  • @patrick3178
    @patrick3178 2 роки тому +10

    Never underestimate nothing life. At my previous work place I had a colleague who liked me she was 70yrs am in my 40's. At the beginning did not think much about it but once she started to make moves on me I physically distanced myself from her. She realised it and she became so irate and jealous she could not stand any female talking to me. She would go after other female colleagues that she seen talking to me and go after them and aggressively grab them by the elbow and harras them with a barrage of questions, she also went as far as telling one girl "I don't want to see youtalking to him coz I fancy him". It came to a point that they came to me and ask what is going on and told me I should start talking to her because she is making their life difficult. It started to get worse and worse with her provocation and antagonising me for a reaction and arguments. I let it happen for a while on purpose, since I could see she could not control herself and she was behaving badly infront of everyone, so to when I report her I have witnesses for evidence otherwise she would lie or twist things which she actually did when I went to hr.

  • @boookroach
    @boookroach 4 місяці тому

    I dont even know them...im scared, idk what to do?

  • @hasansarhan9296
    @hasansarhan9296 Рік тому +3

    So stalking is the consequence of their obsession

  • @staceykunesh1001
    @staceykunesh1001 2 роки тому +3

    My ex has stalked me and currently cyber stalks me only cause he's on gps monitoring!

  • @kristopheradams4235
    @kristopheradams4235 2 роки тому +17

    Stalking is something I take personal, if you're not wanted go the fuck on

  • @Purpleqween64
    @Purpleqween64 7 місяців тому

    Nah I'm even more scared now. I was downstairs eating chips all by myself and I had an intense feeling of paranoia but I brushed it off as my anxiety but my older sister came home from work and she told me she saw someone run from behind our tree. Was she seeing things or am I being stalked or something?

  • @tjm1013
    @tjm1013 7 місяців тому

    My ex wpuld stalk me when I was out or at work. Sadly he even brought our boys with him 😢

  • @fizakhan4252
    @fizakhan4252 Рік тому

    Dude i was stalked by a 33 year old man while i was 15.....still traumatic for me....i still have nightmares ....how to get over it ...some one .. pls tell me ... 😢

  • @DSNCB919
    @DSNCB919 11 місяців тому

    Hell i may sound crazy but i think my exes new bf stalks me.. i caught the guy drive by my house when i was sitting outside (tinted so he didnt see me) so I decided to look into it found a number that had texted my wife months ago about me was his as well. also the fact that he went back to school to attempt to change careers to be in same field as me. I found it flattering at first then i realize idk this guy at all nor do i know whats going on with them that hes actin this way...
    The guy is former military as well so might not be all the way there
    I keep my 45 with myself at all times just in case and put up more cameras

  • @HospitalForSouls.X
    @HospitalForSouls.X Рік тому

    I have a stalker right now who is in law enforcement. He got obsessed with me pretty quickly and I often wondered why, until I stalked him back. I found his Facebook and noticed that in his old wedding photos from like ten years ago, his wife looked exactly like me....long light blonde hair, curvy body, tattoos, even a similar face. She doesn't look like that anymore and according to him, they're having marital trouble (he told me randomly), so I'm thinking he might be subconsciously chasing the woman he originally married. Like he's recreating it with me.
    We do like each other though and we have expressed to one another that we're both a little bonkers upstairs. I don't know if I fear for my life...I might have to get back to you on that. It's not like he's sitting on my porch when I get home from work, he just has an obsession with me and wants to be around me/talk to me a lot (for now).

  • @horrezplater457
    @horrezplater457 5 місяців тому

    What if it's group stalking?

  • @loveinchrist6115
    @loveinchrist6115 Рік тому +1

    Stalking is invasion of privacy, many people into newage are stalked. Stalkwrs are nit only ex partners it can be enemkes, ex family or strangers, neighbors too. They cannot run away from God. Christ takes away their eyes.

  • @samieD22
    @samieD22 Рік тому

    Stalking should be a crime in and of itself and idky the govt. keeps playing around with that. It should be a FEDERAL crime💀

  • @tommyagain38
    @tommyagain38 Рік тому

    What about female stalkers? Im currently being stalked and have been stalked before by women.

    • @strongerthanbefore
      @strongerthanbefore  Рік тому +2

      .... The only difference between a male and female stalker is that you are, as a man, less likely to be murdered. Otherwise it's the same.

  • @Goody29
    @Goody29 Рік тому

    My stalking is different. It’s being done by the white community. I’ve just moved but they still stalk at hotels where I’m staying and they even go in my room and inject poison in my beds I’m sleeping in. Yesterday I was at a hotel and there was a guy parked in back with his cell phone standing outside he had on rubber gloves and was doing something with his phone. I sat in my car car and watched him leave. I could tell he’d put toxins on my car when I opened it my eyes burned and hands burned and itched. My mail is poisoned as well. This stalking is being done by a community or network of people here in Florida.

    • @jomr4249
      @jomr4249 23 дні тому

      You sound delusional

  • @lilasfaves7846
    @lilasfaves7846 2 роки тому +1

    My friend was stalked by her boyfriend but I’m sad to say she loved it! She got v upset when he stopped. Sorry to say cos obv it’s scary if it’s not this

  • @deeevansnola8178
    @deeevansnola8178 2 роки тому

    You know I was just wondering if i m being stalked because although we are not together we still live under the same roof but separate bedrooms. What's happening is he's retired I still work.on my off days he just sit around and watch me and my movements both days . So I'm getting scared and thinking about a restraining order. Am I being stalked?

  • @dejuana1000
    @dejuana1000 Рік тому

    Dangerous frl 😪💯💯💯💯

  • @dmoore8595
    @dmoore8595 2 роки тому +1

    Just can't break up and move on to a new victim, huh? Nah that's too much trouble.

  • @MadeinNY
    @MadeinNY 2 роки тому +2

    Ugh I know all about it

  • @Aspire_Wings
    @Aspire_Wings Місяць тому

    Being stalked by a chapri in red shirt, thin body, short height is more dangerous

  • @NikkiNacole-yj1xv
    @NikkiNacole-yj1xv Рік тому +1

    Facts!!! My stalker is reading this comment

    • @macnchessplz
      @macnchessplz Рік тому

      Mine too…and it’s sad it doesn’t sink in.

  • @thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010

    Why though?

  • @scorpioprince297
    @scorpioprince297 Рік тому +1

    I’m 1 of The 19% Of Young men That’s Been Stalked.. When I Say My Guard Is Always Up Now ! Like I Stand On It !

  • @ChristChild-xt7mz
    @ChristChild-xt7mz Рік тому

    They use the word God too, they shouldnt shame God with their crimes. Stalking is a serious crime and only disturbed humans do it and they aint nothing from God

  • @Chrisgaming_1
    @Chrisgaming_1 Рік тому

    Hello? Men are also victims

  • @randybernhard8437
    @randybernhard8437 2 роки тому

    They should buy a gun and get a ccw. They have a right to feel safe an protect themselves

    • @Andrea-HeIsKing
      @Andrea-HeIsKing Місяць тому

      I have a protection order from the court against my neighbor. He threatened the crap out of me then stalked me( from his property) , I could not enjoy my ponies all summer because they were in my face). He got his nasty 12 year old boy to stalk me. The kid weighs as much as I do. Nasty evil people.