Safety tips for stalking victims: What to do if you think you're being stalked

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • An expert offers tips on what to do if you think you're being stalked.
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  • @WalkawayRene12
    @WalkawayRene12 Рік тому +51

    Protect yourself because the police won't be of any help.

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому +3

      It's worse when someone has a friend whom is police or the skills, these absolute sickos will terroriz your whole life it's been years yeArs of living hel

  • @louiselincoln
    @louiselincoln Рік тому +28

    One tip I got from the Met Police a few years back - if someone is stalking and harassing you through calls... if you've accepted the call, make a record of the phone number if you can, start recording the call, then let the call last as long as it does but DO NOT engage with the speaker - you can listen if you want, but it can be very distressing. I often simply put my phone down and leave the room until they hang up. Then report the number(s), time of call(s), phone log and the recording with the appropriate authority in your local district. Stay safe, people.

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      You wouldn't believe the countless numbers that I have blocked

  • @basementcat1999
    @basementcat1999 4 місяці тому +11

    Love how the cops literally say they won’t do anything until they make a threat-THE CONTACT *IS* A THREAT

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      Threat death threats that don't matter anymore either

  • @tresyniswayne8371
    @tresyniswayne8371 9 місяців тому +13

    I never thought I’d be a victim of stalking. But here I am, trying to look up videos of ways to cope with it. He left a note about the things he wanted to do to me at the front desk where I work. He followed me to my car and tried to get me to give him a ride. He kept coming back after being trespassed and having the police called on him. He watched me make lunch through my break room window before I saw him. He just waved and smiled while I screamed at him to leave. The stress from it caused me to have multiple panic attacks. I had to take a week off of work. I love my job. But thinking about going back next week makes my chest tighten up and I start to panic again. What if he comes back. What if he never leaves me alone? Every noise in my house makes me freeze. I have to look at my surroundings constantly. Every person that wears a dark gray hoodie makes me nervous. I feel like I can’t breathe when I see someone that looks like him but isn’t. I find myself having to take deep breaths to keep calm. I don’t even want to drive alone anymore. I used to be able to shop on my own and go around town but now I don’t want to leave my house without my husband by my side. It’s scary because I feel alone in this and my family lives in the lower 48. I don’t know if I’ll ever be normal again.

    • @bellastone-le9eb
      @bellastone-le9eb 4 місяці тому +5

      I read your testimony here and it seems you may have to completely cut all ties to social media, your job and all contact info. Have your car checked for a tracking device somewhere. Go where no one knows where you are. Don't tell people anything about your life and so on. Disappear as best as you're able to. And pray. Ask God to intervene and block this person. Ask God to hide you and protect you with his angels. Ask God to keep you 10 steps ahead of this person. God can do it. He's done it for me! Be safe. ❤

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 3 місяці тому +1

      Keep getting advice from officers. Eventually you'll find a smart one.

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      Oh believe me I get you the major distress, panic, heartaches, ECT.😢 The wearing inside and out

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      ​@@bellastone-le9ebGod has been protecting, all along, I just want this to end almost had hopes today to move, to a new apt. It's repeated discouragement

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      You are very very blessed to have somebody it's horrific😢alone

  • @bellastone-le9eb
    @bellastone-le9eb 4 місяці тому +11

    Unfortunately, family and friends who know the stalker, will not believe you because the stalker has used charm and likability to create a smoke screen to keep them from seeing who he is really.

  • @J.DaviesArt
    @J.DaviesArt 7 місяців тому +9

    That's the issue especially between people who know the stalker, subtle lines between harassment and stalking, they will blur those lines so that it is difficult for the victim to present the correct evidence. However as they have said, if you know something isn't right about a place or person, trust your instincts.

  • @kermmettfrogger624
    @kermmettfrogger624 Рік тому +20

    if you're being stalked... you can never, ever, count on the police & the judicial system to help you.
    You will have to pay for outside help to stop the fiend.
    If you do not have money, take whatever cash you have, and run & hide.

    • @DivyaRajan-l3h
      @DivyaRajan-l3h 8 місяців тому +4

      What kind of outside help? Like a detective?

    • @kermmettfrogger624
      @kermmettfrogger624 8 місяців тому

      @@DivyaRajan-l3h anyone who can stop the stalker.

    • @Leannot35
      @Leannot35 2 місяці тому

      And these dirt balls know the cost, intentional to terrorize us that's their intent as well, been dealing with this too long

  • @D0Gist
    @D0Gist Рік тому +18

    Fight stalking.....My privacy has been compromised for 9 years using technology and devices. Since I have no way to prove it, the bastards continue to do so with impunity. ( Czech Rep. )

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      I was skeptical at first, but *anthony_support0* proved me wrong. They helped me put an end to the stalking and harassment that had been Under who’s ruining my life!

  • @dm5129
    @dm5129 2 місяці тому +2

    After I was stalked by a young man I have been made into a target. Especially by the one creep bystander that was the most jealous. The man loves to portray to be who he isn't, creepy, dangerous and forceful.

  • @Thatoneshadowfound
    @Thatoneshadowfound 5 місяців тому +4

    Stalkers that know hacking are monitoring phones, creeping ready for vulnerable moments to sell info.

  • @FrancesHuxley-eq1sp
    @FrancesHuxley-eq1sp Рік тому +17

    I get stalked abused harassed threatened tracked and kept in the dark I'm a male in Sacramento my name is Gustavo Morales I've been abused very severely for over ten years pray for me

    • @adorablebrianna
      @adorablebrianna 11 місяців тому +1

      I’m sorry your going through this

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      *anthony_support0* changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

    • @feather_333
      @feather_333 7 місяців тому

      God sees all that is done to you. I’m not even trolling. Give it up to him.

    • @bellastone-le9eb
      @bellastone-le9eb 4 місяці тому

      I will pray for you. God is able. God can make a way out to safely. Begin to pray the psalms over your life. Especially psalm 91. Be safe dear one.

  • @LOL..LOL...01
    @LOL..LOL...01 8 місяців тому +5

    Sometimes its sick people whos been bullying growing up that likes to stalk and cyber bullying people that they have no clue who he is

  • @ibexsouther7483
    @ibexsouther7483 Рік тому +6

    I had a coworker try to r@pe me recently. He had been stalking me for 5 weeks. Which I find hilarious seeing how I'm a martially literate power lifter that can make a heavy bag bleed.

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      I was skeptical at first, but *anthony_support0* proved me wrong. They helped me put an end to the stalking and harassment that had been Under who’s ruining my life!

  • @christopherdobney2927
    @christopherdobney2927 Рік тому +15

    1. Buy a firearm and learn to use it.

  • @officialangelanes
    @officialangelanes Рік тому +7

    Its scary when the law dont take it seriously. I wonder if its one of their own. As i even called fbi and stated.

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      *anthony_support0* changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 Рік тому +6

    I was just being followed by a van just now on my way home!!! 😫😫😫😫😫😫😰😰😰 i’m so fucking scared right now. My ex used to stalk me & follow me to where i used to hang out at the parks. He would call me out of the blue after months of stone walling me & he did a reverse hoover. Now i avoid him all together. My ex is a bully & a cheater. He’s mean and cruel. I just stay away from him. He’s a womanizer & a sexual harasser. He sexually has been harassing me since 2017. Asking me for nudes & stone walling me. I got into a sexual relationship with this man in 2017 whrn i was 21 thinking he was a normal person who would pay attention to me & date me in person and we would like each other and get along just fine. Come to find out he could be married & is hiding the fact that he was a serial cheater & has 3 kids & lied he had 2. His ex girlfiend stalks me in my neighborhood too. And i just stay away from people

    • @Micismine_
      @Micismine_ 11 місяців тому +1

      May I add, I as well was tortured and kidnapped at age 16. it was a terrible experience and writing a book about it. God doesnt want us going around walking on egg shells or fearful of any man. read Isaiah 41:10.....romans 10:8-10... st John 10:10 The devil come to steal and to kill and to destroy, but I have come that you may have life and have it more abundantly.God doesnt tolerate others to touch the apple of his eye, in Jesus christ you will find safety if youll trust him with all your heart. Proverbs 1:33 " whosoever listens to Me will dwell safely, and will be quiet from fear of evil.

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      *anthony_support0* changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

    • @moonlightstargem1006
      @moonlightstargem1006 3 місяці тому +1

      He’s followed me to the beach too. And now a drone is watching me through my window at night every night!!

  • @joankain6193
    @joankain6193 Рік тому +1

    I am 68 - for 17 years from manager, super, employees, a negligent landlord miles away with a P.O. Box & residents I have been severely violated as well as the local cops & hospital most of that time using an electric wheelchair and walker- they gang up in 2 or more - to publicly mock, make fun of, harass and terrorize me for no reason whatsoever, seemingly by their jeers, for impish sadistic pleasure. They've committed open theft, felonies and impersonating a lawyer as the manager has done- to fine me $500 for the 24/7 obsessed sicko stalking lunatic over me as he then moved laughing alone in front of the building as he left - renting or selling his unit to another of the same caliber- manager & other residents here mocking, pulling my hair, spitting on me several times when I went on wheelchair to get mail and at least one particular security guy who blatantly permits this as though in the lookout but so far no one will defend me but me - no replies to my letters from any of them - and they got UGLY & loudly lying' in 2 of my sibling's faces who sometimes stopped to see if I am okay- with lies about what they do that they said I do -- it is much worse - I am in poor health in a totally unhealthy situation - that their stalking evil infiltrates any past visitors with fake phoney malicious lies about me - latest letter so cheaply bogus about $500 (bail??) they can keep --for me to use the elevator to move out - cause I will damage service padded elevator/ hold up food service - pretty much imprisoned for years - eavesdropping 24/7 creepy neighbors right left & above with no job up and home at all times reacting to all sounds I make from when I wake up till sleep and get up again - repeatedly doing the same - aggressively approaching me - to laugh in my face. How can this entire city - even law enforcement - make my gut KNOW they are all sickening dangerous/unpredictable / vulture like / no egsageration.

    • @Micismine_
      @Micismine_ 11 місяців тому

      please consider moving, i know its hard. i moved from a family members place as they allowed a pervert from the streets to move in as they help them with rent, but my privacy was invaded and he was playing with his penis in front of me thinking i did not know or he just didnt care, i told him to his face to leave my family member he didnt belong around them. he wanted me to trust him. I blatantly said no way I wouldnt trust you in any way, I dont like you nor will i ever will, he even filmed my body without my permission.sneaking around and pretending to be innocent, i had to get up and leave so i did since my family member wouldnt believe me. so i took all i could and took a bus out of state.

    • @Micismine_
      @Micismine_ 11 місяців тому

      Also call upon Jesus he will change it all in time.

  • @insmileyfacemur4242
    @insmileyfacemur4242 11 місяців тому +5

    If you're stalking you are going to get stalk back

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      *anthony_support0* changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

  • @Creeventre
    @Creeventre 5 місяців тому +1

    There's this park ranger that bugs me and bugs me, 1 day he locked the porta potty on me, he threatens me and my friends all the time, he yells profanity at me, he follows me, he finds me and then will post up for an hour or so,he called the cops on me and lied to them getting me trespassed from the park, right now I was at a different park and here he comes and chased my friends out now I'm All alone!! And of course he came back and is now just parked for at least 15 minutes now! If he's doing this on the job what's he doing when he's not working!?! Yes I am scared I'm also homeless and by myself!!!!

  • @CherylRashid
    @CherylRashid Місяць тому

    I have been accused of being a stalker and he has been hypnotizing my family

  • @everything5797
    @everything5797 Місяць тому

    Wow dude thank you❤

  • @Haro-w4f
    @Haro-w4f 7 місяців тому +1

    How do you contact FBI ABROAD for this , I have video and pics of them for federal criminal prosecution

    • @Haro-w4f
      @Haro-w4f 7 місяців тому +2

      Local authorities not doing anything to stalkers

  • @HollywoodStalksMe
    @HollywoodStalksMe 7 місяців тому +1

    Hollywood won’t stop stalking me 😭

  • @TheGb50
    @TheGb50 2 місяці тому +1

    The police won't do anything

  • @Somewhat_Damaged
    @Somewhat_Damaged Місяць тому

    It’s not that they are unreported you’re reporting it to people who can’t give you the benefit of the doubt and just call your crazy.

  • @Tramatic-n9r
    @Tramatic-n9r 27 днів тому

    a family member and neighbor and others have ran me out of my home lied in court followed me more than 3 counties Its been going on for almost 2 years I cant get a lawyer to take my case said I know too much people are dead and I have lost everything including being separated from my father who is isolated in a nursing home there's a tracker on my truck I cant find it I quit calling 911 I got a gun

  • @JohnSmith-zm9xf
    @JohnSmith-zm9xf Рік тому +2

    I have been stocked for the last 90 days not only stocked been also been hacked my phone my smart devices my internet my email

    • @BrandiHale-nv7om
      @BrandiHale-nv7om 11 місяців тому

      *anthony_support0* changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

  • @justinbearinger1989
    @justinbearinger1989 6 місяців тому

    Today in Clio Walmart my sister and her kids was being stalked by a guy at Clio Walmart in Michigan

  • @AprilSickles-d6n
    @AprilSickles-d6n 7 місяців тому +4

    No one believes the victim!!!

  • @Micismine_
    @Micismine_ 11 місяців тому +3

    God has given us that fear for our good. do not make excuses. Get the book " The Power of Praying through Fear" , by Stormie O martin.

  • @dayawhitaker8775
    @dayawhitaker8775 Рік тому +6

    I bury them

  • @noveltycrusade
    @noveltycrusade 2 місяці тому

    You'll miss them when they're gone 😢

  • @marcusturner6361
    @marcusturner6361 2 місяці тому

    😮

  • @ElizabethCommons-m6x
    @ElizabethCommons-m6x 24 дні тому

    KnOw I am dealing with them a fact .....😮

  • @georgepbriles696
    @georgepbriles696 2 місяці тому

    The worst thing you can do is call crooked police!

  • @yusufertas-ju4rf
    @yusufertas-ju4rf Рік тому +1

    anthony_support0 saved me from a living nightmare of constant stalking and harassment as a TI. I can't thank them enough!

  • @osmancaglak
    @osmancaglak Рік тому +1

    #anthony_support0 changed my life for the better. I can finally live without fear thanks to their incredible services!

  • @SafiyeGun
    @SafiyeGun Рік тому +1

    everyone in my house thought i have gone crazy because the v2k keeps controlling me to do things i don't like until #anthony_support0 came to my aid.

  • @soft_rutinsss6625
    @soft_rutinsss6625 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Anthony_support0 for ending the TORTURE ON THE V2K…..

  • @brawlemir4656
    @brawlemir4656 Рік тому +1

    #anthony_support0 IS THE BEST.,.,.