I went to my daughter's graduation last weekend ( super proud) and I was super over dressed, but I looked GOOD lol I wore my lavendar linen, vintage suit with a silver skinny scarf...and I knew my daughter appreciated that I dressed up, so we were both happy :)
Good for you! People dress so sloppily these days with no effort put in. Jeans and shorts at church with flip flops. I come from old school where everyone tried to look their best for special occasions!! It's just a form of respect.
I feel like I slept through the memo that nothing is special anymore. If a wedding, lifetime graduation,etc are not worth shopping for, dressing for, I don’t know what is. It makes me sad
The best updated trend is not having to match exact shade for monochrome dressing. This makes it so much more relaxed and easier to combine outfits. Very liberating!
Yes, much more interesting. Used to drive me crazy working retail. Ppl spent 3-4 days in a row trying to match olive pants to a wall of olive socks. lol
Hello Anna, I really enjoyed this vid. I went to a summer wedding and wore a pastel blue sheath cocktail length , with matching sling back shoes a strand of pearls and earrings with a silver clutch. Everyone was dressed SO casually! I was asked if I was in the wedding party by most of the guests. I did feel a bit weird as most women were wearing sundresses, capri pants, and yes some jeans as well. I now ask what is the dress code ie formal, casual or what. I must say I did look smashing. My husband remarked that I looked fantastic compared to others. He was in black dress pants, light blue dress shirt open collared no tie. He did look quite handsome in a sea of jeans and t-shirts. I always enjoy your vids and love your style ❤
I will never understand why people won't dress up or make an effort for a wedding or other important events. Casual clothes can be worn most of the year anyway and I think it shows respect to make an effort for special days.
Weddings are so expensive, that showing up in a t-shirt is a cringe from me. But I think that capri pants to a wedding is worse than jeans. (I love jeans, btw)
You hit on a good theme: if your goal is to give an impression of elegance, occasion-appropriate clothing is key. Under- and over-dressing are giveaways. Louboutin stilettos would not be seen as classy at a hunting cabin weekend. At the opposite end, as you pointed out, I wouldn't wear even my finest blue jeans to (most) weddings. Not because they're not chic enough, but because for many cultures and generations, blue denim would say to the wedding hosts that I don't respect their big occasion. Usually a dress/suit would be the respectful choice, even if it cost less than the jeans. Maybe instead of "rules," which sounds so prim, we could call them something like concepts or formulas. There aren't many places with dress codes anymore, which counter-intuitively makes it harder to choose suitable clothes. Formulas and rules-of-thumb help us non-stylists pull together outfits that will suit our figures and hit the style notes we're going for. Also formulas help us understand how our outfits are likely to be perceived by others, for when we care about that. Some people don't care at all. Others like those who need a particular job, or want to impress a date, or need their audience to believe in their professional competence, often do care. IMHO. I don't think rules are meant to restrict us.
I totally agree about being respectful of an occasion! I do think that things have changed a lot over the last few years, and lots of events seem to accept a lot more casual than before, but there are certain ones that I still feel like we need to dress up a little for ❤️
The “classiness” of jeans depends on the quality of the denim and the cut. A cheap super stretch hyper skinny jean will always look cheap and unflattering. But a 100% or at least 95% cotton denim in a cool modern fit will look good.
Good morning Lovely Anna, Yes, I do remember the struggle of trying to match my black tops & bottoms. I used to bring them to a window to see if they actually matched in the sunlight, so crazy,thankfully I let go of that obsession😂! As always, love your videos! Enjoy your weekend!🌻😎 💕Dee
Love the video, I get also get floored why older women are afraid of colors, I find that many wear black, white or skin tones when I think many would look beautiful in bright colors, summer brights or fall brights.
I agree, but it depends on one’s coloring. I never looked good in brights, being a Summer type, I always looked best in muted, soft colors, even when young. I’m 63 now.🙂
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 Really, ok. see learned something new. I remember feeling shameful when I was a kid and wanted to wear brights, got teased a lot which as an adult I rolled right into brights taking a dare of getting teased but many stated I look great in brights, funny how other people judgements of you can changed over night and/or over the years.
It's so interesting what people get teased for when they are younger! I am imagining you looked amazing and the other girls were hatin' 😉 Love that you wear color now!
Jeans can look very classy it just depends what you pair them with, maybe some elegant flats and a blazer, but yes I agree most definitely not to a wedding or garden party etc.
Oh my goodness, I remember comparing the blacks! For the most part, if the shade of black is off but too close , its a no go, but like you said a good contrast in the black is ok, like a charcoal with a very black. I have been wearing jeans much less lately simply because they are not as comfy as a casual trouser for me. I own 2 pair now- a white skinny and a dark wash boot cut. That's it! I will eventually be on the lookout for the perfect straight leg medium wash and stopping at 3 pair. Thanks once again for the fun video!
It depends on the style and fit of jeans some can look scruffy looking but if you have the right pair they can look really smart too same as trousers or anything really
Jeans with a sloppy sweatshirt ( or message t shirt) and sneakers are not restaurant dinner attire. However, nice , clean unwrinkled jeans with a lovely top or blouse and accessories looks great! Not wedding attire, though
The key to looking expensive is buying expensive clothes. It’s true when the materials and construction are absolutely better. The way fabric hangs, etc. the truth is cheap fabric looks cheap usually no matter what the color. Things need to be well-made.
Loved this video, Anna! I'd you don't mind me saying, I would love to see more body shapes represented in your example pictures. Sometimes it's hard to imsgine myself in different styles and seeing pictures would be reslly helpful ❤
I always try to put different body types when I can! A lot of the time I am limited by the subject at hand and having limited options. Do you have any Instagramers or bloggers that you love to follow for inspo?
@@ANNAREID29 Carrie Dayton, Sierra Schultze, Hannah Louise Poston posts s bunch of different body types in her videos (I think she credits the images).
Yes Ana! So agree with you in regards to the jeans being not classy comment. Let us never forget that Lady Fi, the epitome of class, wore jeans frequently. Just as anyone can be tacky if they're underdressed I'm jeans to a more formal event, you can also be overdressed for certain events also , which in turn makes you look tacky/not classy bc you've tried way too hard and it shows and then you'll feel most foolish, 💯!
I didn’t know there was a rule about it, but I always wear belts if the bottoms, dress, etc., I’m wearing has belt loops, unless the waistband is covered by something else. But, I don’t like tops long enough to completely cover my waistband, so that rarely occurs for me. I just prefer a more polished style, and empty belt loops just don’t look polished to me. I’m a big dan of good belts, but not too wide or showy because I’m short-waisted, and don’t have the best waist definition
I totally agree. It seems so common, even for "classy" women, to not wear belts on pants/jeans with belt loops. But, it looks like something is missing. It looks so much more polished to wear a belt.♥️🇨🇦
Talking about belts, have you ever done a long narrow scarf as a belt? I think in the summer it helps when it's hot and you don't want to wear a heavy leather belt. Interested in your thoughts.
Finally I'm able to enjoy styling my clothings and building a wardrobe that works thanks to your video's. Thank you so much for all the video's you've put together and presented to all of us.
Opinion alert: I cringe when I hear UA-camrs talk about “looking expensive.” That would seem to apply only if one were for sale. I understand the concept, but would prefer a different term. 😅
I agree with so much of what you’re saying. You know what bothers me is wearing a white or light colored blouse with cheap brown buttons and then black dress pants. I think a blouse, shirt or sweater looks SO much better with typed to match buttons. 🥰
What about different shades of navy? I have a hard time because I feel that they clash! So hard to, say, pick a navy top & navy pants, paired with a cream blazer???
Losing my appetite for denim: cannot recall the last time of wearing blue denim. Coloured and/or patterned still in rotation... always loved wide leg dress pants: so they took over
I never loved denim. During school and university, it was the only acceptable thing to wear. But, as soon as I began my career, I ditched denim forever. I just can’t love clothes that are as uncomfortable as denim.🙂
I try so hard to erase the NO WHITE PANTS AFTER LABOR DAY commandment from my mind, but I hear both my grandmother and my mom’s voices saying, “We, don’t wear white after Labor Day, Dear. Now run along and change so we won’t be late.” I laugh, because It’s a silly rule, but I’m not wearing those white pants! 😂🤣😂🤣
Me neither. I may wear them in the fall if the weather temps are summer like-- but when autumnal weather starts-- no. May wear them in spring when the temps are consistently summer like (in other words, an unusually early summer). However, typically before Memorial Day? No.
@@mariabarnes9197 I mentioned it to my cousin yesterday, and she said she wouldn’t wear them either, I guess it must’ve been a rule the ladies of our family took very seriously!
You're not alone, Emily! But... I dare you to casually show up in white pants to your moms house in say, October. And just see her reaction 🤣 (don't listen to me lol)
I dont know why anyone would think that only neutrals would be luxury😳🤪 i am really tired of this quiet luxury term, which looks like confuses so many. If your outfit is classic, elegant, good quality, fits you well( the most important), and you makeup and accessories are matched accordingly, you will look luxurious. And other way around, you can put the most expensive things, that doesnt fit you, doesnt match , and all people will see, expensive outfit. It doesnt matter what trend, as long as you wear clothes, and not the other way around, you will look and feel expensive 😜 i dont have problem of matching the same color shades, but i do prefer if i can get monochromatic look. Its not a law, but my preference if i can. As i am now searching for top, to match with my fendi skirt, the skirt color is so strange, beautiful but strange its kind of greyish taupe🤪 . The perfect match would be the top from the set, but its way too cropped , for my liking. So beige is too light and grey silver is too dark😳🤪😂. I agree with shoes, black it doesnt look too good with neutral outfit, but beige would work with all neutral and mixed with black. Have a blessed day🙏💗
A trick for wearing two similar colours, or denim on denim, is to make sure the two pieces are different in weight and/or texture. You can see it in the examples Anna showed too. Sheer white top with opaque cream pants. Solid black top with heathered black denim. The contrast is what adds a little drama into an otherwise monochromatic look❤
Dear Ms Anna, Lots of tips I did not know about! ...no belt? Why not! Jeans is fine...perfect! ....and on and on.....Thank you dear Ms Anna!!! helene :)
Ya know... I've seen people show up in jeans before and honestly they were just there to honor the person at the funeral and pay their respects and I feel like that's ok. But generally, most people expect to dress a little dressier at funerals ❤️
I'm working hard to get over putting different shades of the same color together, as I'm loving monochromatic on others, but on me they still look wrong. But, that being said, I'm not a fan of wearing all the same color on me either. I'm trying! Sigh....
What are some more examples of body skimming styles? How is it different from form fitting or tight? I feel like it’s a really easy line to cross for many people. I love your videos! Your one of my favorites!
It's neither tight (as in bodycon) nor too baggy. My rule of thumb: if you can fit a slim flask/bottle of water between the widest point of your body and a piece of clothing, then it is the right/body skimming fit.
LOL I love this! ❤️ Yes agreed... when I think tight/fitted I think, formed to your body (usually in the form of some kind of stretchy fabric) where you can see basically everything going on. Body skimming, the fabric still has some ease around your body, you don't see every indention in your skin or curves. Hope that helps!
I think black hardly ever looks good with anything! I do like black and white, or black with tan/cognac, but that’s about it. I think it’s just such a somber, unflattering color. I do wear some black pieces, it’s tough to ban it completely, but if the black is near my face, I try to add something white, light or bright there, too, to offset its deathly effect on my very pale coloring and dark undereye circles. I’m always searching for navy items instead, but they’re always few and far between, except for blazers. Clothes and accessories usually come only in black and one trendy bright color, neither of which I like (as a Summer coloring type, I need softer colors). On the other hand, white really does go with any color! That’s one of the reasons it’s my favorite wardrobe color, it’s incredibly versatile, and yes, year-round. Wearing all black isn’t chic, it’s a copout.
@@ANNAREID29 it’s the strangest thing, as a Winter I struggled with wearing Black when I was younger with dark hair but now that I have salt and pepper hair, black looks so flattering and not aging at all. Totally unexpected. It allows for a bold lip too.
I want to find body-skimming styles because that's what best suits my hourglass shape, but apparently oversized and boxy is what's in right now. Please let this trend die asap so I can shop for my shape again.
I don't know what it is ,but when I see your examples of different white tones together...I think it looks great, but when I put it on my body I just don't like it ..what is wrong with me? 🤣
Cheap clothes in colours look cheaper. Thats why the neutrals rule. Neutral in cheap clothes are more consistent in colour. Different whites are not one of my faves. Others are fine but whites, not so much.
Here is a true story Anna. My hubby and have had 5 funerals and a wedding in the last year. Some funerals were extended family some longtime friends. In each case i wore what i thought were appropriate somber outfits. (Trousers, blazers, navy dress etc) In each case i felt a bit overdressed compared to other family members. There were jeans (galore) and lots of casual clothes. The wedding was for my grandson. The bride, groom and wedding party dressed in traditional wedding clothes. As soon as the ceremony was over, break out the shorts, flip flops, jeans and tees. No fancy reception here. Just a good bbq. This is TX.
I’m in Texas too. Same deal at nice restaurants. We dress nice, not overdresssed but then there’s a guy in shorts and a tee shirt. I mean, why?? You almost CAN’T get “ dressed up” any more. Even funerals. Unless the family ASKS that you come casual… don’t.
I feel like there are different vibes to different weddings for sure! And... if the bride and groom are breaking out the flip flops etc I definitely think it's ok for everyone else. But if, let's say, you had absolutely no idea about a wedding dress code, I would 100% not wear jeans and wear something a little dressier. Also... I'm sorry you had so many funerals! ❤️❤️
The wedding was definitely what the kids wanted. That is their vibe and their friends. I happily went along. We are hoping for no more funerals for the foreseeable future. It does make me grateful for what i have tho.
I had the same experience at a family funeral last year. I wore a black linen skirt and a teal linen top with ballet flats. Simple and understated but so overdressed as most people arrived as if they popped in while walking their dog or popping into the grocery store. They were seniors and I was quite shocked. I haven’t been to a funeral in a church in a while. When did it change?
I am right there with you on that. I won't wear jeans that are overly distressed and with holes. Once they get to that stage, they are candidates for upcycling/repair/restyling like a mixture of darning, patching, embroidery, etc. Or conversion into something else.
“When you’re trying to look expensive…” Stop saying that!! The word “expensive” is used to describe objects ONLY. Usually ones you purchase. When you say it about a person, it makes them at best sound like they can be bought, and at worst, like a prostitute. Maybe try, “when you’re trying to look expensively dressed” or “dressed like your clothes are expensive” or “when you’re trying to look luxuriously dressed”.
Eesh… the unmatched black still bothers me. Mix all the whites, creams, etc that you want…I agree with that…but not the black!!! (Old habits do die hard.)
Can you do a series on what and what not to wear if you are hosting an event? I went to a baby shower, the couple were both new anesthesiologist’s, so older and established. However, the sisters of the dad-to-be who were hosting the event were wearing: camouflage pants and a sports bra and the other wore terry shorts, rolled down and a t-shirt tied beneath her bosom showing her tummy. It was in Texas and outdoor, but, really? As a couples shower, many of the men were uncomfortable and everyone felt awkward. These two were gorgeous and two of the most charming young women, but just not appropriately attired for the event.
LOL that is such a funny story... Maybe they figured, hey we've been working to make this thing happen all day.. here we are! lol I do want to do a video on "what to wear if..." for different occasions. I'll have to include that! ❤️❤️
@@ANNAREID29 Have to thank you for link on the white shorts from Kohls. Wore those with a silk high-neck tank. Looked and felt fab until a four year old launched a cup of red kool aid onto my lap. Mom horrified, but many of us have been THAT mom, right! 😬😬😆😆
I don't get why looking expensive is a goal at all... Does is say anything interesting about your character? Or are you so boring, that you have to define yourself with a oricetag...
I don’t think jeans are “not classy”, but I do think they’re not elegant. Except for clean, non-distressed, white jeans, which can look elegant if styled right, and most importantly, are appropriate for the occasion. But because jeans are so hot, stiff and uncomfortable, I’d rather wear other white trousers that are breathable and comfy and don’t have a big metal button digging into my waist. Dark, non-distressed indigo jeans are fine for casual wear, but an outfit including them is unlikely to be considered elegant. They can be styled in a more elegant way, like with a blazer, crisp shirt, leather, low-heeled shoes and a silk scarf or leather belt, for example. Washed-out, light blue jeans are always going to look ultra-casual. A more elegant style isn’t for everybody, perhaps, but it’s definitely my preference. It feels right for my age too, 63, if not now, then when? A classic, elegant style is timeless for a woman of any age. Dressing better is increasing in popularity now, in response to the extreme over-casualization of clothing during the pandemic, and during the previous 20 years. Fashion/personal style is my creative outfit, I get no comfort or creative pleasure from wearing black gym wear all the time, like most of my community does.
That is so ridiculous. My most recent purchases have included favorite designers such as Dennis Basso, Jason Wu, Kim Gravel, Patricia Nash and some favorite brands like NYDJ. I don't think I have ever worn an outfit sourcing solely from a single designer or label. That's nuts, at least IMHO. 🫤
So if you look at female politicians or even Amal Clooney they tend to wear really loud colours …why ? Honestly because they don’t want to be confused with the assistant 😂 …
I think it's interesting how you speak of the importance of proper fitting clothes, yet your buttons on your dress are pulling and gaping, and it looks like the girls need to be lifted higher off your waist.
Black matches everything but that doesn’t mean it is always a sophisticated color pallet, like black and red or black and cobalt. They match but too much of a color blacking. Just something I have noticed when I see it. It gives college color vibes.
What's with this trying to look expensive which seems like every five words? I don't think that has anything to do with fashion rules. Looking classy is always good, but saying I want to look expensive sounds trashy.
Presentation is important no matter what else may be happening. How you look is short hand to the world on what you think about yourself. If you don’t care about the way you present yourself that’s fine, your choice. You are entitled to your opinion but we are not obligated to entertain it.
Sorry Anna, I disagree. Going without a belt when you have loops on your jeans makes it look like girl interrupted. Like you forgot something, like disorganization. It makes one’s outfit look incomplete, not more casual. Sloppy?
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I went to my daughter's graduation last weekend ( super proud) and I was super over dressed, but I looked GOOD lol I wore my lavendar linen, vintage suit with a silver skinny scarf...and I knew my daughter appreciated that I dressed up, so we were both happy :)
I love this! That suit sounds amazing. You were noticed, people remembered, you made an impression. I love that ❤️
@@ANNAREID29 Agreed! It’s always better to over dress than under dress 😊
Good for you! People dress so sloppily these days with no effort put in. Jeans and shorts at church with flip flops. I come from old school where everyone tried to look their best for special occasions!! It's just a form of respect.
I also dressed up for my son’s college graduation I don’t care what u wear but wanted t look different then everyday. My son loved 🥰
Freaking adorable ❤
I feel like I slept through the memo that nothing is special anymore. If a wedding, lifetime graduation,etc are not worth shopping for, dressing for, I don’t know what is. It makes me sad
I agree
Yes! I love shopping and dressing for special occasions.
I love turning everything into a special occasion! Life is too short not to live like every day is special.
Even sadder, ppl not being be to pay rent or buy decent quality food. It's all relative. Wear what makes U happy. Let others be.
Gracias. Saludos ❤️🇦🇷
The best updated trend is not having to match exact shade for monochrome dressing. This makes it so much more relaxed and easier to combine outfits. Very liberating!
I completely agree! ❤️❤️
Yes, much more interesting. Used to drive me crazy working retail. Ppl spent 3-4 days in a row trying to match olive pants to a wall of olive socks. lol
Hello Anna, I really enjoyed this vid. I went to a summer wedding and wore a pastel blue sheath cocktail length , with matching sling back shoes a strand of pearls and earrings with a silver clutch. Everyone was dressed SO casually! I was asked if I was in the wedding party by most of the guests. I did feel a bit weird as most women were wearing sundresses, capri pants, and yes some jeans as well. I now ask what is the dress code ie formal, casual or what. I must say I did look smashing. My husband remarked that I looked fantastic compared to others. He was in black dress pants, light blue dress shirt open collared no tie. He did look quite handsome in a sea of jeans and t-shirts. I always enjoy your vids and love your style ❤
My husband insisted on wearing jeans to our wedding... 🙄
I will never understand why people won't dress up or make an effort for a wedding or other important events. Casual clothes can be worn most of the year anyway and I think it shows respect to make an effort for special days.
Weddings are so expensive, that showing up in a t-shirt is a cringe from me. But I think that capri pants to a wedding is worse than jeans. (I love jeans, btw)
You hit on a good theme: if your goal is to give an impression of elegance, occasion-appropriate clothing is key. Under- and over-dressing are giveaways. Louboutin stilettos would not be seen as classy at a hunting cabin weekend. At the opposite end, as you pointed out, I wouldn't wear even my finest blue jeans to (most) weddings. Not because they're not chic enough, but because for many cultures and generations, blue denim would say to the wedding hosts that I don't respect their big occasion. Usually a dress/suit would be the respectful choice, even if it cost less than the jeans.
Maybe instead of "rules," which sounds so prim, we could call them something like concepts or formulas. There aren't many places with dress codes anymore, which counter-intuitively makes it harder to choose suitable clothes. Formulas and rules-of-thumb help us non-stylists pull together outfits that will suit our figures and hit the style notes we're going for. Also formulas help us understand how our outfits are likely to be perceived by others, for when we care about that. Some people don't care at all. Others like those who need a particular job, or want to impress a date, or need their audience to believe in their professional competence, often do care. IMHO. I don't think rules are meant to restrict us.
I totally agree about being respectful of an occasion! I do think that things have changed a lot over the last few years, and lots of events seem to accept a lot more casual than before, but there are certain ones that I still feel like we need to dress up a little for ❤️
The “classiness” of jeans depends on the quality of the denim and the cut. A cheap super stretch hyper skinny jean will always look cheap and unflattering. But a 100% or at least 95% cotton denim in a cool modern fit will look good.
The Princess of Wales typically wears color and defines elegance and class. Definitely expensive!
Good morning Lovely Anna,
Yes, I do remember the struggle of trying to match my black tops & bottoms. I used to bring them to a window to see if they actually matched in the sunlight, so crazy,thankfully I let go of that obsession😂!
As always, love your videos!
Enjoy your weekend!🌻😎
💕Dee
Love the video, I get also get floored why older women are afraid of colors, I find that many wear black, white or skin tones when I think many would look beautiful in bright colors, summer brights or fall brights.
I agree, but it depends on one’s coloring. I never looked good in brights, being a Summer type, I always looked best in muted, soft colors, even when young. I’m 63 now.🙂
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 Really, ok. see learned something new. I remember feeling shameful when I was a kid and wanted to wear brights, got teased a lot which as an adult I rolled right into brights taking a dare of getting teased but many stated I look great in brights, funny how other people judgements of you can changed over night and/or over the years.
It's so interesting what people get teased for when they are younger! I am imagining you looked amazing and the other girls were hatin' 😉 Love that you wear color now!
Jeans can look very classy it just depends what you pair them with, maybe some elegant flats and a blazer, but yes I agree most definitely not to a wedding or garden party etc.
Agreed! ❤️❤️
Oh my goodness, I remember comparing the blacks! For the most part, if the shade of black is off but too close , its a no go, but like you said a good contrast in the black is ok, like a charcoal with a very black.
I have been wearing jeans much less lately simply because they are not as comfy as a casual trouser for me. I own 2 pair now- a white skinny and a dark wash boot cut. That's it! I will eventually be on the lookout for the perfect straight leg medium wash and stopping at 3 pair. Thanks once again for the fun video!
Love this, Tennille! ❤️❤️
Middle parting looks amazing on your example clips!💖
It depends on the style and fit of jeans some can look scruffy looking but if you have the right pair they can look really smart too same as trousers or anything really
This is true! ❤️❤️
I love how you put Julia in alot of your pictures . I copy alotta her outfits. She really knows how to put stuff together. You do too! Great tips!
It’s always ok to go up a size if something is suppose to be skin tight. I go up in tank dresses or body con dresses.
Jeans with a sloppy sweatshirt ( or message t shirt) and sneakers are not restaurant dinner attire. However, nice , clean unwrinkled jeans with a lovely top or blouse and accessories looks great! Not wedding attire, though
Great observations. I love the use of white and creams. Your videos are so well thought out! Thank you!
Glad you like them, Chris! ❤️
The key to looking expensive is buying expensive clothes. It’s true when the materials and construction are absolutely better. The way fabric hangs, etc. the truth is cheap fabric looks cheap usually no matter what the color. Things need to be well-made.
Exactly. If you're buying cheaply made polyester clothing from Shein, there's no way you're going to look expensive.
Loved this video, Anna! I'd you don't mind me saying, I would love to see more body shapes represented in your example pictures. Sometimes it's hard to imsgine myself in different styles and seeing pictures would be reslly helpful ❤
I always try to put different body types when I can! A lot of the time I am limited by the subject at hand and having limited options. Do you have any Instagramers or bloggers that you love to follow for inspo?
Kelly Elizibeth does size 10 to 12.
@@ANNAREID29 Carrie Dayton, Sierra Schultze, Hannah Louise Poston posts s bunch of different body types in her videos (I think she credits the images).
I love that black wrap top with the white jeans!
Yes Ana! So agree with you in regards to the jeans being not classy comment. Let us never forget that Lady Fi, the epitome of class, wore jeans frequently. Just as anyone can be tacky if they're underdressed I'm jeans to a more formal event, you can also be overdressed for certain events also , which in turn makes you look tacky/not classy bc you've tried way too hard and it shows and then you'll feel most foolish, 💯!
7:27 is a cute classic outfit, and I say this as a lover of high rise, those white pants take it to another level
You give the best advice! You communicate guidelines and not rules. Thanks you
I agree with u on different shades of the same color❤
I’ve never vowed fashion, I wear what I like and that is colour, especially dresses
“Wee little Anna” 😂 love it!
I didn’t know there was a rule about it, but I always wear belts if the bottoms, dress, etc., I’m wearing has belt loops, unless the waistband is covered by something else. But, I don’t like tops long enough to completely cover my waistband, so that rarely occurs for me. I just prefer a more polished style, and empty belt loops just don’t look polished to me. I’m a big dan of good belts, but not too wide or showy because I’m short-waisted, and don’t have the best waist definition
That makes sense! ❤️
I totally agree. It seems so common, even for "classy" women, to not wear belts on pants/jeans with belt loops. But, it looks like something is missing. It looks so much more polished to wear a belt.♥️🇨🇦
Can you please share what bra you wear with cutout tanks? I believe you mentioned it in a previous video but I can't find it.
Talking about belts, have you ever done a long narrow scarf as a belt? I think in the summer it helps when it's hot and you don't want to wear a heavy leather belt. Interested in your thoughts.
Good idea! Have three that I will zap out of the box! 🥰
I think where that works best is with a longer midi skirt and untucked top. Then add the scarf tie.
I usually just run a long thin scarf though the belt loops and tie. Giving a belt look.
That's a very cute idea! I've never tried that ❤️❤️❤️
Finally I'm able to enjoy styling my clothings and building a wardrobe that works thanks to your video's. Thank you so much for all the video's you've put together and presented to all of us.
That Allsaints denim dress is 🔥!! Looks so good on you!
Ended up getting in a size 8 and is perfect! Thank you again ❤
Traveling w/o a belt is smart, bc the TSA will always take you over to secondary. They hate belts!
Oo! Your white top with the peplum is amazing!
Thank you! ❤️
Opinion alert: I cringe when I hear UA-camrs talk about “looking expensive.” That would seem to apply only if one were for sale. I understand the concept, but would prefer a different term. 😅
I agree with so much of what you’re saying. You know what bothers me is wearing a white or light colored blouse with cheap brown buttons and then black dress pants. I think a blouse, shirt or sweater looks SO much better with typed to match buttons. 🥰
What about different shades of navy? I have a hard time because I feel that they clash! So hard to, say, pick a navy top & navy pants, paired with a cream blazer???
When you wear the exact, same color tank top and shorts, it just looks like you have on an empire waist romper circa 2014
such helpful content!! I will be applying these tips to my everyday wardrobe now
Oh, wow!! I used to wear the same thing before to hide my belly. 😂 I love high rise pants.
Could you link your favorite high neck tank tops? You have so many great ones
Love your take on things……excellent video❣️
Agreed with you about jean😅
Loved the video. Simple and clear.
Would you recommend some tailored shorts for short waisted women? The super high waist shorts don't work for us.
Catherine, POW is gorgeous in every situation
Losing my appetite for denim: cannot recall the last time of wearing blue denim. Coloured and/or patterned still in rotation... always loved wide leg dress pants: so they took over
I never loved denim. During school and university, it was the only acceptable thing to wear. But, as soon as I began my career, I ditched denim forever. I just can’t love clothes that are as uncomfortable as denim.🙂
My mom is the same - I’m pretty sure she hasn’t worn denim pants in over 50 hrs 🤣
love your videos! thank you
I try so hard to erase the NO WHITE PANTS AFTER LABOR DAY commandment from my mind, but I hear both my grandmother and my mom’s voices saying, “We, don’t wear white after Labor Day, Dear. Now run along and change so we won’t be late.” I laugh, because It’s a silly rule, but I’m not wearing those white pants! 😂🤣😂🤣
Me neither. I may wear them in the fall if the weather temps are summer like-- but when autumnal weather starts-- no. May wear them in spring when the temps are consistently summer like (in other words, an unusually early summer). However, typically before Memorial Day? No.
It’s so hard to erase old rules we grew up with!
@@mariabarnes9197 I mentioned it to my cousin yesterday, and she said she wouldn’t wear them either, I guess it must’ve been a rule the ladies of our family took very seriously!
You're not alone, Emily! But... I dare you to casually show up in white pants to your moms house in say, October. And just see her reaction 🤣 (don't listen to me lol)
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I’m not much of a rule follower, in anything but this was well done and lots of fun. Thanks
Neutral Colors seem 2 add STYLE and CLASS 2me. I get alot of compliments on My simple Style #blessing
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I dont know why anyone would think that only neutrals would be luxury😳🤪 i am really tired of this quiet luxury term, which looks like confuses so many. If your outfit is classic, elegant, good quality, fits you well( the most important), and you makeup and accessories are matched accordingly, you will look luxurious. And other way around, you can put the most expensive things, that doesnt fit you, doesnt match , and all people will see, expensive outfit. It doesnt matter what trend, as long as you wear clothes, and not the other way around, you will look and feel expensive 😜 i dont have problem of matching the same color shades, but i do prefer if i can get monochromatic look. Its not a law, but my preference if i can. As i am now searching for top, to match with my fendi skirt, the skirt color is so strange, beautiful but strange its kind of greyish taupe🤪 . The perfect match would be the top from the set, but its way too cropped , for my liking. So beige is too light and grey silver is too dark😳🤪😂. I agree with shoes, black it doesnt look too good with neutral outfit, but beige would work with all neutral and mixed with black. Have a blessed day🙏💗
5:56 and 6:00 where did you purchase the dolman tops? I like the sleeves.
Does help to look good when you are not overweight! Ugh. So hard to lose!
A trick for wearing two similar colours, or denim on denim, is to make sure the two pieces are different in weight and/or texture.
You can see it in the examples Anna showed too. Sheer white top with opaque cream pants. Solid black top with heathered black denim. The contrast is what adds a little drama into an otherwise monochromatic look❤
Agreed! Love this! ❤️
Dear Ms Anna,
Lots of tips I did not know about!
...no belt? Why not!
Jeans is fine...perfect!
....and on and on.....Thank you dear Ms Anna!!!
helene :)
Also, no jeans to a wake or a funeral, right??
Just not n TX where it is commonplace, especially in smaller towns.
Ya know... I've seen people show up in jeans before and honestly they were just there to honor the person at the funeral and pay their respects and I feel like that's ok. But generally, most people expect to dress a little dressier at funerals ❤️
I have seen people in sweats at wakes and think it is inappropriate as well@@ANNAREID29
I am built like you. Would you mind sharing your favorite bra styles/designers? Thank you!
TBH I really dislike all of my bras! The one I've found that comes close to actually a good bra is by CUUP - they have reaaly great fits!
I always love your videos!
Thank you, Diane! ❤️❤️
I'm working hard to get over putting different shades of the same color together, as I'm loving monochromatic on others, but on me they still look wrong. But, that being said, I'm not a fan of wearing all the same color on me either. I'm trying! Sigh....
I can't get past the not matching thing
Idea for a wedding: everyone in full denim -- suits, gowns, e v e r y t h i n g 😆😆
You can call it memory lane, I usually call it blast from the past. 😂🙋🏼♀️
Wow, i’ve never heard of any of these. Guess I just dress how i want. Score 🎉
Gym wear leggings aren’t classy. Jeans are.
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What are some more examples of body skimming styles? How is it different from form fitting or tight? I feel like it’s a really easy line to cross for many people. I love your videos! Your one of my favorites!
It's neither tight (as in bodycon) nor too baggy. My rule of thumb: if you can fit a slim flask/bottle of water between the widest point of your body and a piece of clothing, then it is the right/body skimming fit.
LOL I love this! ❤️ Yes agreed... when I think tight/fitted I think, formed to your body (usually in the form of some kind of stretchy fabric) where you can see basically everything going on. Body skimming, the fabric still has some ease around your body, you don't see every indention in your skin or curves. Hope that helps!
I think black hardly ever looks good with anything! I do like black and white, or black with tan/cognac, but that’s about it. I think it’s just such a somber, unflattering color. I do wear some black pieces, it’s tough to ban it completely, but if the black is near my face, I try to add something white, light or bright there, too, to offset its deathly effect on my very pale coloring and dark undereye circles. I’m always searching for navy items instead, but they’re always few and far between, except for blazers. Clothes and accessories usually come only in black and one trendy bright color, neither of which I like (as a Summer coloring type, I need softer colors). On the other hand, white really does go with any color! That’s one of the reasons it’s my favorite wardrobe color, it’s incredibly versatile, and yes, year-round. Wearing all black isn’t chic, it’s a copout.
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@@ANNAREID29 it’s the strangest thing, as a Winter I struggled with wearing Black when I was younger with dark hair but now that I have salt and pepper hair, black looks so flattering and not aging at all.
Totally unexpected.
It allows for a bold lip too.
Disagree, it might depend on your colouring but I love it. Even my husband tells me that black is really my colour
All black looks great on very blonde and light skinned women. You definitely need accessories with silver or gold to brighten the look.
9:11 this is soooo me 🤣
I want to find body-skimming styles because that's what best suits my hourglass shape, but apparently oversized and boxy is what's in right now. Please let this trend die asap so I can shop for my shape again.
I don't know what it is ,but when I see your examples of different white tones together...I think it looks great, but when I put it on my body I just don't like it ..what is wrong with me? 🤣
Cheap clothes in colours look cheaper. Thats why the neutrals rule. Neutral in cheap clothes are more consistent in colour. Different whites are not one of my faves. Others are fine but whites, not so much.
Agreed! Easier to see poor quality in color you have to be extra careful ❤️
Which is why one does high quality thrifted!
@@gaelle4328 bingo!
nice vlog
Here is a true story Anna. My hubby and have had 5 funerals and a wedding in the last year. Some funerals were extended family some longtime friends. In each case i wore what i thought were appropriate somber outfits. (Trousers, blazers, navy dress etc) In each case i felt a bit overdressed compared to other family members. There were jeans (galore) and lots of casual clothes.
The wedding was for my grandson. The bride, groom and wedding party dressed in traditional wedding clothes. As soon as the ceremony was over, break out the shorts, flip flops, jeans and tees. No fancy reception here. Just a good bbq. This is TX.
I’m in Texas too. Same deal at nice restaurants. We dress nice, not overdresssed but then there’s a guy in shorts and a tee shirt. I mean, why?? You almost CAN’T get “ dressed up” any more. Even funerals. Unless the family ASKS that you come casual… don’t.
I feel like there are different vibes to different weddings for sure! And... if the bride and groom are breaking out the flip flops etc I definitely think it's ok for everyone else. But if, let's say, you had absolutely no idea about a wedding dress code, I would 100% not wear jeans and wear something a little dressier. Also... I'm sorry you had so many funerals! ❤️❤️
The wedding was definitely what the kids wanted. That is their vibe and their friends. I happily went along. We are hoping for no more funerals for the foreseeable future. It does make me grateful for what i have tho.
I had the same experience at a family funeral last year. I wore a black linen skirt and a teal linen top with ballet flats. Simple and understated but so overdressed as most people arrived as if they popped in while walking their dog or popping into the grocery store. They were seniors and I was quite shocked. I haven’t been to a funeral in a church in a while. When did it change?
There are alternatives like ivory or cream pants that are more appropriate after Labor Day.
I still love a good winter white pant! ❤️❤️
One more word on jeans: no rips for me
I am right there with you on that. I won't wear jeans that are overly distressed and with holes. Once they get to that stage, they are candidates for upcycling/repair/restyling like a mixture of darning, patching, embroidery, etc. Or conversion into something else.
“When you’re trying to look expensive…” Stop saying that!! The word “expensive” is used to describe objects ONLY. Usually ones you purchase. When you say it about a person, it makes them at best sound like they can be bought, and at worst, like a prostitute. Maybe try, “when you’re trying to look expensively dressed” or “dressed like your clothes are expensive” or “when you’re trying to look luxuriously dressed”.
Aqua di Parma is the brand not the scent name...
Eesh… the unmatched black still bothers me. Mix all the whites, creams, etc that you want…I agree with that…but not the black!!! (Old habits do die hard.)
Can you do a series on what and what not to wear if you are hosting an event? I went to a baby shower, the couple were both new anesthesiologist’s, so older and established. However, the sisters of the dad-to-be who were hosting the event were wearing: camouflage pants and a sports bra and the other wore terry shorts, rolled down and a t-shirt tied beneath her bosom showing her tummy. It was in Texas and outdoor, but, really? As a couples shower, many of the men were uncomfortable and everyone felt awkward. These two were gorgeous and two of the most charming young women, but just not appropriately attired for the event.
LOL that is such a funny story... Maybe they figured, hey we've been working to make this thing happen all day.. here we are! lol I do want to do a video on "what to wear if..." for different occasions. I'll have to include that! ❤️❤️
@@ANNAREID29 Have to thank you for link on the white shorts from Kohls. Wore those with a silk high-neck tank. Looked and felt fab until a four year old launched a cup of red kool aid onto my lap. Mom horrified, but many of us have been THAT mom, right! 😬😬😆😆
Yeah, put some class into it.
I don't get why looking expensive is a goal at all... Does is say anything interesting about your character? Or are you so boring, that you have to define yourself with a oricetag...
I don’t think jeans are “not classy”, but I do think they’re not elegant. Except for clean, non-distressed, white jeans, which can look elegant if styled right, and most importantly, are appropriate for the occasion. But because jeans are so hot, stiff and uncomfortable, I’d rather wear other white trousers that are breathable and comfy and don’t have a big metal button digging into my waist. Dark, non-distressed indigo jeans are fine for casual wear, but an outfit including them is unlikely to be considered elegant. They can be styled in a more elegant way, like with a blazer, crisp shirt, leather, low-heeled shoes and a silk scarf or leather belt, for example. Washed-out, light blue jeans are always going to look ultra-casual. A more elegant style isn’t for everybody, perhaps, but it’s definitely my preference. It feels right for my age too, 63, if not now, then when? A classic, elegant style is timeless for a woman of any age. Dressing better is increasing in popularity now, in response to the extreme over-casualization of clothing during the pandemic, and during the previous 20 years. Fashion/personal style is my creative outfit, I get no comfort or creative pleasure from wearing black gym wear all the time, like most of my community does.
I love your sense of style, Kimberly! I do think that if you're trying to dress elegantly, jeans are not what really comes to mind ❤️
If in doubt, always overdress.
High rise didn’t exist? High rise has been around forever!😂
She means they were off-trend & therefore hard to find in stores (which was true).
My daughter thinks if you wear a Calvin Kline shirt then everything you wear must be CK
Oh, like can't mix brands within the same outfit?
@@ANNAREID29 exactly
That is so ridiculous. My most recent purchases have included favorite designers such as Dennis Basso, Jason Wu, Kim Gravel, Patricia Nash and some favorite brands like NYDJ. I don't think I have ever worn an outfit sourcing solely from a single designer or label. That's nuts, at least IMHO. 🫤
So if you look at female politicians or even Amal Clooney they tend to wear really loud colours …why ? Honestly because they don’t want to be confused with the assistant 😂 …
I think it's interesting how you speak of the importance of proper fitting clothes, yet your buttons on your dress are pulling and gaping, and it looks like the girls need to be lifted higher off your waist.
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Black matches everything but that doesn’t mean it is always a sophisticated color pallet, like black and red or black and cobalt. They match but too much of a color blacking. Just something I have noticed when I see it. It gives college color vibes.
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Jeans are way over done. They’re great for horseback riding, or gardening, or hiking….
What's with this trying to look expensive which seems like every five words? I don't think that has anything to do with fashion rules. Looking classy is always good, but saying I want to look expensive sounds trashy.
Your hair has gotten so long already!
Colour therapy will help you look expensive
Look Anna, jeans are NEVER classy no matter what the occasion. So I will turn my attention elsewhere.
America is falling apart and we are still
Worried about what to wear and how to look. Stop it. In 5 years none of this will matter.
Presentation is important no matter what else may be happening. How you look is short hand to the world on what you think about yourself. If you don’t care about the way you present yourself that’s fine, your choice. You are entitled to your opinion but we are not obligated to entertain it.
Sorry Anna, I disagree. Going without a belt when you have loops on your jeans makes it look like girl interrupted. Like you forgot something, like disorganization. It makes one’s outfit look incomplete, not more casual. Sloppy?
Look expensive - I can’t hear this anymore. Why should I „ look expensive“?