The one thing I’ve always wondered is why people care so much about popularity. The need to know that other people know your name but at the same time can give a shit less who you actually are. Just baffles me.
Enigmatic, i agree. One of my professions was childcare, and remarkably, dynamics of popularity are evident starting at age 2. Some are morr winsome, it is weird but utterly observable. Must run derp in our makeup
I realize it's about belonging to a group as in identity and getting validation to belong in said group such as , UA-camr having ppl say great videos cements their identity of that, mostly applies to ppl changing jobs careers or lifestyles Also some ppl need others to give them their self esteem I've studied cultures, beliefs, identities, groups ect
8: The money paradox 7: Flooding someone's inbox with texts 6: A routine without purpose 5: Luxury products with no equivalent value 4: Selling your life 3: Running from problems 2: Listening to external opinions 1: Living in the past
#6 I can understand routine without a purpose. Repetitive rituals give some people a sense of stability. I learned from my puppies that each puppy must have a job, a chore, or a ritual to do every day because it gives them a sense of purpose and stability. It can be as simple as, "Speak to get your vitamin pill" or, "show me your toes". Humans are more complicated, but some of them need pointless rituals.
I'm one, but the word I use is "iconoclast." I've been an iconoclast since I was a small child. (I'm 70 now.) I didn't know there was a word for it or even knew it was a thing until college. The kinds of arguments that I would give led to a teacher telling me I was an iconoclast. I had no idea what it meant. I went home, looked it up... "Holy cow!! I AM!! haha')
Umm bud, depends on the purpose of why one watches the video, he states here that sigma males (which whatever that is) listen to selective wise and knowledgeable people, but avoids herd like people
Ive caught more fish and killed more deer than I ever imagined. Spent most extra money on free time. Retired at 55 to travel the USA in my truck camper. Never gave a rats ass what anyone thought of me
I find it a bit simplistic. I'm different from most... I know that.. but some of this is sophomoric. ... Tho if you choose a letter of the (Greek) alphabet to try and describe me, sigma works.
#8: Money can buy you a certain amount of FREEDOM - NOT ‘HAPPINESS’. #7: Communicate what is NECESSARY not every detail. #6: A plan is great but a little occasional spontaneity breaks up monotony. #5: Quality with PURPOSE gets my cash. #4: Putting on a show for others is not worth my time. #3: Problems won’t go away, putting them off for a better time is O.K. but not too long a time - make a plan. #2: Always get advice when necessary but don’t feel obligated to act on it. Listening to others opinions is a courtesy not their right or your obligation. #1 The past helps you recognize what worked and what did not, learn from it so you don’t repeat the same mistakes or fall into the same traps.
Money suggests that you can purchase trust. Can you purchase more time to sacrifice for others? Can you purchase back the trust lost in a moment of betrayal?
On number eight I would like to ad there are things we really want and will work towards getting them. But, once we have them we are satisfied and will only work further towards more if we feel like it.
I ask that now or learn it over time. Sure, some people fool me completely. But I think every man goes trough this, some are more fortunate than others.
I'd say it's not about challenging norms and traditions for sake of doing so. The goal is to re-think their purpose and to don't get sucked into another woke movement.
Very interesting. #7 really makes me mad. #6 can be a purpose even though it can be mindless. The Army taught me that. When we do things repeatedly , mindlessly, when SHTF and we just react positively it makes sense. #5 I'm a great shopper but horrible buyer. If I need it, I will get it only if it is sensible & has a purpose. And price will be saved up so I can get it. #3, I flock towards it. I have been have been told that I always take on the hard problems because I like it, like the challenge. It tests me, improves me. And #1 is huge. For me I have been stuck in the past. And it has buried me, incapacitated me. It was only when I said F*** This!, that I've started to "come back", be the silent yet confident person I was again. To the point that I am going after jobs that I know I can do but have been hesitant to go after. The past is just that, the past. Let go or it'll hinder your present and future. Great vid! 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and personal experiences! It's amazing how certain aspects of life can resonate with different people in unique ways.
@@1pcmedic, exactly... Prefer to remove labels even on costly items so that one is not BRANDED... Anyone will see a known billionaire for instance who is dressed in simple/basic outfits and immediately recognize him by his face because he is his own BRAND - #FACTS.
The point is that you get value from what you feel is valuable, not from what society tells you is valuable. It seems like this is a matter of motivations.
I don’t really think I’m a “sigma” male as defined by some of the videos I’ve watched on this channel, and I’ve come to question the value of labeling anyone as such. I think that the points made in this video are just common sense. They all apply to me, so I don’t think they apply only to those who find themselves in your little sigma INTJ club. Just saying…
Money…lol, I make enough to buy the types of quality things I enjoy… enough to travel and experience new places and new cultures… I don’t give a rip about a fat account for “the future” ….live in the moment…you can’t take it ($$) with you….
Everything that is 'sigma male' is basically normal stuff an average responsible fully grown adult male is already doing. This shouldn't be put on a pedestal it should be the normal, and you sure shouldn't need a you tube video to rub and tug you for doing them.
Liberal politics (political ideas in general) change over time and culture! If your referring to modern day American liberal politics I'd have to disagree. Aligning yourself with short term political ideals is short sighted. Politics/culture swings back and forth in the short/medium and goes in circles long term.
@@matty3221 Conservative politics are based around the beneficial ideas that have lasted for generations, which have contributed to the growth and stability of society. Free speech, the 2nd amendment, the nuclear family. Leftist ideas such as socialism laying the framework for communism and tyranical government, the confiscation of guns (which led to communist regimes and the H0l0c@ust), the destruction of the nuclear family, feminism and the s3xual deviant revolution it has caused, the legalization of g@y marriage, which was a slippery slope to cancel culture, victim mentality, the chemical castration of children, and the gradual acceptance of p3dophilia to children in K-12 public schools, are leftist ideas that objectively destroy society. A sigma male realizes all of this, and understands in depth how leftist ideas are destructive to society. This is why sigmas tend to think more conservatively.
I may buy something that a "celebrity" advertised but its not because of the "celebrity" advertised it. I do my research and buy because it makes sense to me. I don,t like the sigma videos that use "celebrities" in the video- they aren't sigmas why should I have to look at them? Celebrities are a construct created by society and mean nothing to me.
I've about come to the conclusion that there's no such thing as a sigma male or a sigma female. People who have a poor self-image like to invent labels to flatter themselves with, and that's pretty much the extent of it.
If you are a Sigma male, you probably didn't watch this video. Sigmas don't seek happiness, they seek contentment and personal growth. If you know their game is rigged, why play their game? Make up your own game and start winning. Example... If you want a great job with a Fortune 500 company, you are not a Sigma male. If you enjoy a minimalist lifestyle, live in an unconventional situation, and shower at the gym after your workout because your place doesn't have water, you might be a Sigma. If you sail to India and hike from Kathmandu to the second base camp on Everest just for an interesting experience, you are a Sigma. Ironically, a Fortune 500 company executive would be desperate to hire you if you did sail to India and hike/climb Everest. ...but who wants to work there? Sheep? Losers?
1. Why isn’t this chair leather? 2. Why doesn’t everyone want to look like Russian mafia? 3. Why doesn’t Andrew Tate have an only fans? 4. Why do people think it’s creepy that Dillon Klebold and Eric Harris are my hero’s? 5. Still can’t believe Andrew Tate doesn’t have an only fans 6. I don’t understand we flooded UA-cam with sigmas are scary videos so why do the other boys still give me wedgies? 7. You sure Andrew Tate doesn’t at least sell feet pics? 8. Not even Jordan? Come on? Help a sigma out bro! One quick peek at the brown eye?
So basically this describes Pareto's "type 2" or Machiavelli's "lion". Yeah, thats "new"? I guess "sigma males" are also unread? Eh, I guess someone can at least track a trend...
Your emphasis on #1 is poignant. My Pop💔o my gosh lived in so much regret. I'm glad old, letting go is easier, cuz holding on takes so damn much energy
I did not know this (my) type of person is (since when?) called "Sigma" - so: why "Sigma", and why are there videos about "Sigma Males" ... where are Sigma Females then?
Competitive Small Talk. When people have to assertively inject themselves into a discussion that is nothing but gossip or such trivial useless garbage.
I've not come across the idea of Sigma males before - but it seems like they are a bit intolerant, highly-strung and self-centred. But hey, it's all stereo-typing isn't it?
So I guess I'm a 'sigma'. I'm not into 'labels' either (another waste of time and effort). With my high I.Q., I just always thought of myself as highly logical and descreet, with a vast amount of COMMON SENSE, which is why I'll NEVER be a democrat.
The one thing I’ve always wondered is why people care so much about popularity. The need to know that other people know your name but at the same time can give a shit less who you actually are. Just baffles me.
So true, it's weird how we all crave recognition but also want to keep our privacy.
Enigmatic, i agree. One of my professions was childcare, and remarkably, dynamics of popularity are evident starting at age 2. Some are morr winsome, it is weird but utterly observable. Must run derp in our makeup
...deep in our make-up. Must proofread
I realize it's about belonging to a group as in identity and getting validation to belong in said group such as , UA-camr having ppl say great videos cements their identity of that, mostly applies to ppl changing jobs careers or lifestyles
Also some ppl need others to give them their self esteem
I've studied cultures, beliefs, identities, groups ect
Popularity is a kind of power because you might have influence over others. It’s indirect power but still power. That’s why it’s desirable.
100% true and accurate as usual. I love these videos as a constant reminder of who I really am, and most importantly who I do NOT want to be!
Thank you for the kind words! It's always great to hear that the videos are resonating with you.
Time is the most valuable commodity we have and it is the commodity wasted the most.
Absolutely true! Time is precious, so let's make the most of it.
@@SigmaMale1337 Indeed & agreed !
8: The money paradox
7: Flooding someone's inbox with texts
6: A routine without purpose
5: Luxury products with no equivalent value
4: Selling your life
3: Running from problems
2: Listening to external opinions
1: Living in the past
#6 I can understand routine without a purpose. Repetitive rituals give some people a sense of stability. I learned from my puppies that each puppy must have a job, a chore, or a ritual to do every day because it gives them a sense of purpose and stability. It can be as simple as, "Speak to get your vitamin pill" or, "show me your toes". Humans are more complicated, but some of them need pointless rituals.
That's so true! It's funny how even puppies need their daily routines to feel stable.
For autistic people, a routine is purpose
Popularity is for people with insecurities. Alpha males are the most insecure of all. Alpha males have a need to be constantly told they are good.
No
I hate popularity.So when a lot people give me attention out of nowhere, I always wonder why.
I'm one, but the word I use is "iconoclast." I've been an iconoclast since I was a small child. (I'm 70 now.) I didn't know there was a word for it or even knew it was a thing until college. The kinds of arguments that I would give led to a teacher telling me I was an iconoclast. I had no idea what it meant. I went home, looked it up... "Holy cow!! I AM!! haha')
I always watch these videos bro,thank u
I appreciate your time and effort in reminding us of who we are
I love u brother
Hey, thanks for tuning in, bro! Your support means a lot to me.
This video is so accurate, it's almost scary! In fact, it makes me uncomfortable that someone could possibly know us so well!
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts! Your support means a lot.
Hmmm, I've never received a single text in my inbox. I didn't even know it was possible.
Somewhat like Mr Spock on Star Trek.
Sigmas don't need validation, but come to this channel for validation ... Irony at its best!
Umm bud, depends on the purpose of why one watches the video, he states here that sigma males (which whatever that is) listen to selective wise and knowledgeable people, but avoids herd like people
@@michaeledwards190 Sigmas don't need the end to justify their means.
@@eyechi9365 ok so what does that have to do with your ignorant comment
@@michaeledwards190 Hahahaha...
Is the opinion of an idiot an opinion at all ?
Intuition, imagination and empathy.
Ive caught more fish and killed more deer than I ever imagined. Spent most extra money on free time. Retired at 55 to travel the USA in my truck camper. Never gave a rats ass what anyone thought of me
That's amazing! Living life on your own terms sounds like a dream come true.
I find it a bit simplistic. I'm different from most... I know that.. but some of this is sophomoric. ... Tho if you choose a letter of the (Greek) alphabet to try and describe me, sigma works.
#8: Money can buy you a certain amount of FREEDOM - NOT ‘HAPPINESS’. #7: Communicate what is NECESSARY not every detail. #6: A plan is great but a little occasional spontaneity breaks up monotony. #5: Quality with PURPOSE gets my cash. #4: Putting on a show for others is not worth my time. #3: Problems won’t go away, putting them off for a better time is O.K. but not too long a time - make a plan. #2: Always get advice when necessary but don’t feel obligated to act on it. Listening to others opinions is a courtesy not their right or your obligation. #1 The past helps you recognize what worked and what did not, learn from it so you don’t repeat the same mistakes or fall into the same traps.
Walking to the beat of a different drum. It's what some of us do.
Money suggests that you can purchase trust.
Can you purchase more time to sacrifice for others?
Can you purchase back the trust lost in a moment of betrayal?
On number eight I would like to ad there are things we really want and will work towards getting them. But, once we have them we are satisfied and will only work further towards more if we feel like it.
I ask that now or learn it over time. Sure, some people fool me completely. But I think every man goes trough this, some are more fortunate than others.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it's reassuring to know others have experienced the same.
You will learn to recognize a “ car dealer “ really quick .
I'd say it's not about challenging norms and traditions for sake of doing so. The goal is to re-think their purpose and to don't get sucked into another woke movement.
Absolutely, it's important to critically examine norms and traditions to understand their relevance in today's context.
I think you preaching about connections is not accurate sigma. Sigma doesn't need connections for fulfillment.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me.
Very interesting. #7 really makes me mad. #6 can be a purpose even though it can be mindless. The Army taught me that. When we do things repeatedly , mindlessly, when SHTF and we just react positively it makes sense. #5 I'm a great shopper but horrible buyer. If I need it, I will get it only if it is sensible & has a purpose. And price will be saved up so I can get it. #3, I flock towards it. I have been have been told that I always take on the hard problems because I like it, like the challenge. It tests me, improves me. And #1 is huge. For me I have been stuck in the past. And it has buried me, incapacitated me. It was only when I said F*** This!, that I've started to "come back", be the silent yet confident person I was again. To the point that I am going after jobs that I know I can do but have been hesitant to go after. The past is just that, the past. Let go or it'll hinder your present and future.
Great vid! 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and personal experiences! It's amazing how certain aspects of life can resonate with different people in unique ways.
@@SigmaMale1337 yes it can! Keep up the great work!
@@guyh.4553
Really appreciate your POV.I'm no sigma. I don't think. Maybe i'm sigmoid, all the drawbacks, none of the benefits🤣
All true except brand cloths. I do love wearing myself good and always good-looking just to be satisfied with what I see in the mirror
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Feeling good about yourself is what matters most.
Remove all labels when possible, never wear any logos.
@@1pcmedic, exactly... Prefer to remove labels even on costly items so that one is not BRANDED... Anyone will see a known billionaire for instance who is dressed in simple/basic outfits and immediately recognize him by his face because he is his own BRAND - #FACTS.
The point is that you get value from what you feel is valuable, not from what society tells you is valuable. It seems like this is a matter of motivations.
I just can not understand that someone sees nr 5 different way. It is out of my capabilities... Jet, i see it all the time. Nr 5 nailed it.
I feel you, number 5 is just on a different wavelength for some people, but we get it!
That which we call "common sense" may as well come with a spandex costume and a cape.
My mother always used to say, "When in Rome, do like the Romans." Not a Sigma motto!
I don’t really think I’m a “sigma” male as defined by some of the videos I’ve watched on this channel, and I’ve come to question the value of labeling anyone as such. I think that the points made in this video are just common sense. They all apply to me, so I don’t think they apply only to those who find themselves in your little sigma INTJ club. Just saying…
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for acknowledging the relevance of the video's points to your own experiences.
I must be Sigma then 🤷♂️
Thanks for watching and relating!
I wish I was a Sigma, you guys are so cool
Money…lol, I make enough to buy the types of quality things I enjoy… enough to travel and experience new places and new cultures… I don’t give a rip about a fat account for “the future” ….live in the moment…you can’t take it ($$) with you….
Everything that is 'sigma male' is basically normal stuff an average responsible fully grown adult male is already doing. This shouldn't be put on a pedestal it should be the normal, and you sure shouldn't need a you tube video to rub and tug you for doing them.
If money isn't the key to happiness, then why do I never see depressed Lamborghini drivers?
Don’t you? I see lots and lots… truely…
I wonder what car Robin Williams drove.
A Jumanji Coupe ?
@@michellevi4919 Robin Williams had Parkinsons, he was in agony.
Superb
😊🏴☠️
Your support means a lot to me, thank you!
Kept waiting to see "Liberal Politics" on this List. Should have been #1. This alone sums up a Sigma 100%.
Thanks for your input! It's always interesting to hear different perspectives.
@@SigmaMale1337 Not a different Perspective. 100% percent Fact!
Liberal politics (political ideas in general) change over time and culture! If your referring to modern day American liberal politics I'd have to disagree.
Aligning yourself with short term political ideals is short sighted. Politics/culture swings back and forth in the short/medium and goes in circles long term.
This exactly was my first thought too.
@@matty3221 Conservative politics are based around the beneficial ideas that have lasted for generations, which have contributed to the growth and stability of society. Free speech, the 2nd amendment, the nuclear family. Leftist ideas such as socialism laying the framework for communism and tyranical government, the confiscation of guns (which led to communist regimes and the H0l0c@ust), the destruction of the nuclear family, feminism and the s3xual deviant revolution it has caused, the legalization of g@y marriage, which was a slippery slope to cancel culture, victim mentality, the chemical castration of children, and the gradual acceptance of p3dophilia to children in K-12 public schools, are leftist ideas that objectively destroy society. A sigma male realizes all of this, and understands in depth how leftist ideas are destructive to society. This is why sigmas tend to think more conservatively.
I don't care about celebrity, fashion or the uneducated opinions of people I don't know.
I may buy something that a "celebrity" advertised but its not because of the "celebrity" advertised it. I do my research and buy because it makes sense to me. I don,t like the sigma videos that use "celebrities" in the video- they aren't sigmas why should I have to look at them? Celebrities are a construct created by society and mean nothing to me.
I've about come to the conclusion that there's no such thing as a sigma male or a sigma female. People who have a poor self-image like to invent labels to flatter themselves with, and that's pretty much the extent of it.
If your money doesn’t make you happy then you’re using it wrong
If you are a Sigma male, you probably didn't watch this video.
Sigmas don't seek happiness, they seek contentment and personal growth.
If you know their game is rigged, why play their game?
Make up your own game and start winning.
Example...
If you want a great job with a Fortune 500 company, you are not a Sigma male.
If you enjoy a minimalist lifestyle, live in an unconventional situation, and shower at the gym after your workout because your place doesn't have water, you might be a Sigma.
If you sail to India and hike from Kathmandu to the second base camp on Everest just for an interesting experience, you are a Sigma.
Ironically, a Fortune 500 company executive would be desperate to hire you if you did sail to India and hike/climb Everest.
...but who wants to work there? Sheep? Losers?
Facts, pull upp👍👍👍
1. Why isn’t this chair leather?
2. Why doesn’t everyone want to look like Russian mafia?
3. Why doesn’t Andrew Tate have an only fans?
4. Why do people think it’s creepy that Dillon Klebold and Eric Harris are my hero’s?
5. Still can’t believe Andrew Tate doesn’t have an only fans
6. I don’t understand we flooded UA-cam with sigmas are scary videos so why do the other boys still give me wedgies?
7. You sure Andrew Tate doesn’t at least sell feet pics?
8. Not even Jordan? Come on? Help a sigma out bro! One quick peek at the brown eye?
So basically this describes Pareto's "type 2" or Machiavelli's "lion". Yeah, thats "new"? I guess "sigma males" are also unread? Eh, I guess someone can at least track a trend...
Why does this video feel like maximum identity bias confirmation?
I appreciate your observation. It's important to recognize biases in content.
Your emphasis on #1 is poignant. My Pop💔o my gosh lived in so much regret. I'm glad old, letting go is easier, cuz holding on takes so damn much energy
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It's important to learn from the past and move forward.
There is a root problem, but we can't talk about it on UA-cam
your talking about 1 in a 1000 men............
I did not know this (my) type of person is (since when?) called "Sigma" - so: why "Sigma", and why are there videos about "Sigma Males" ... where are Sigma Females then?
Heh *wave* I've known I'm a sigma female for many years. This sudden explosion of youtube asskissing is weird.
Competitive Small Talk.
When people have to assertively inject themselves into a discussion that is nothing but gossip or such trivial useless garbage.
I've not come across the idea of Sigma males before - but it seems like they are a bit intolerant, highly-strung and self-centred.
But hey, it's all stereo-typing isn't it?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's important to question stereotypes and understand the complexity of personalities.
im shocked its very accurate
This applies to me too.
It's great to hear that you can relate to the video!
Make zero sense, not makes zero sense. And whatvis a sigma male?
9. TikTok
Time thief! Fire her!
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No desire for money? That means there are no sigmas in the US then.😅😅😅
Sigma = PureBlood
Yeah. When Joe Biden got elected sigma or not
This list may be true, but it's pathetic. There are MILLIONS of things that make no sense. (I don't mean to denigrate the video. ✌)
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always interesting to hear different viewpoints.
So I guess I'm a 'sigma'. I'm not into 'labels' either (another waste of time and effort). With my high I.Q., I just always thought of myself as highly logical and descreet, with a vast amount of COMMON SENSE, which is why I'll NEVER be a democrat.