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“I don’t deserve it…” is the literal reason that goes through our mind. We just dont show it…
Because we are conditioned to think we don't, the same way some people think they are deserving of everything in the world
There's three types of people in this World.
Those that think they deserve everything.
Those that think they deserve nothing.
And those that found the balance.
And sadly, a lot of people now days fall on the second one.
@@viniciushenrique6672 "sadly"? I would rather say "luckily" there. See, thinking they don't deserve anything means they are much less self-indulgent than the folks from the two other groups, especially the ones from the first group, and a lack of self-indulgence can lead to striving hard for something, which would make them feel like they truly deserve it. The feeling of something being "earned" will always be superior to the feeling of it being instead "given".
So, do you want to be that person who thinks that they're entitled to such a thing?
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i once read a comment that been stuck with me ever since saying, “the only time a man receives flowers is during his funeral.” and that truly speaks volumes…
im not gonna receive anything either
@@GG_mingbe positive man if no one is there for you i am here for you
I'm here too bro @@GG_ming
@@الحمدلله-ص9ت6غfacts bro, we here for each other🙏
That actually hurts
For the first one, check if she is friendly only towards you or if she friendly to everyone. Helps most of the time.
Yeah, should be pretty obvious if that is her "vibe" or if she only does that with you, if you 2 are very good friends it becomes harder because you can't compare cuz of intimacy anymore
Actually that's not helping at all, when I'm in middle school there's that one really outgoing girl that are friendly towards everyone, while I'm just a nobody, no friends, bullied and miserable, to the point i have my own fantasy in my brain, one time where i was excited about a fanfiction that i write, she came up to me, curious, and gives me a lot of compliment
So that confuses me as to what was her intention, she's the only who talks to me, ever since then she's been my one sided love first crush
@@NoticeMeOohSenpai Did you try asking what her intention was?
You know I tried that she was then my friend asked her she said she was interested in me and I was like cringe I'm a terrible person I have absolutely no redeeming qualities you need to up your standards baby girl honestly I'll never understand women
Aww I fell you all…
"I will when I deserve it." love it
Last one is real, I don’t like random compliments. Simply because I don’t feel as though I’ve done anything to deserve them.
@@Wizard69420thank you. I work really hard at that
I think out of every compliment I've gotten that I can remember I only ever took one seriously. The rest I didn't feel a thing after. Just said thanks and smiled.
What a privilege of getting random compliments..
@@Agnos15 Just unfortunate that compliments were wasted on me instead of someone else who'd actually take the compliment.
The last one was funny
The first one is actually so real. I can never tell and it's ruined my mind
Found out a year after that she was flirting only to find out she moved schools
@@VegetaandGoku_Gaming I can relate... I was in the same situation as you, But after she left I followed her a year later just to find out she got a new boyfriend
@@BIG_B_BRYANyou sure are giving me anxiety now
@@ketchuplover6969 Here's some advise, Either make the move before its too late or just forget about them and don't rely on a "Crush"
@@BIG_B_BRYAN i gotchu bro
Telepurte’s animation in the beginning is a very good representation of the actions and emotions that play out when such an event occurs.
Same lol. The Internet really forget real fast. Or maybe new generations are being born in mere seconds.
Whatever it is, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you and a few others acknowledged Telepurte.
@femboy_destroyer Yeah, that's a bit sad. He is great artist, tho
I was looking for this, thanks
@femboy_destroyerignoring your user, I was gonna say the same thing ngl 😂
I knew it was his right when I saw the art style lol
It's easier to take an insult than a compliment
Because we take them all the time
I mean, me and my bro insult each other as a sign of affection
We don't really get those tbh the first actual compliment I heard was online when I got called "the kindest guy here" I had no idea what to say to that I think I said "nah I'm not a lot of people are more kind here than me" now even tho that person isn't online anymore I still remember her
True, because you never know whether a compliment is genuine or not
@@Inquisitive06same, I’m still trying to understand how to be nice or love so I use insults to my friends to show it cuz idk, Ik I am loved but idk how to love
Guys remember every compliment we've ever gotten, because we get so few.
True, I remember a girl calling me really wise for my age that was around January. And that's all so far this year
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Lucky. My last compliment was two years ago roughly.
@@TheRealityWarper08 wow bro you're strong to hold up for this long. dw I'm sure you have qualities to be complimented on, just people around you maybe taking it for granted
I remember a girl called me handsome and it was like 10 yrs ago, i still remember it so vividly.
@7even_vfx Some girl complimented my shirt months ago and yet I can still picture it clearly in my mind
One time in school, I was walking up the stairs and a girl complimented my calfs, and asked me if I was a power lifter, it’s made my year up until now and I think about it every night before I hug my pillow to sleep, brings me to tears every time
Folded the bag
@@fatesi1486 bro would go for it after a single compliment 💀
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@@fatesi1486she was just being nice and most probably a stranger. Flirting with a complete stranger is very weird
@@LeBronyaJamesthey literally didn’t mention anything about flirting? Just how empowering getting that one compliment was to them. Just be happy for them man
“What’s it like being so handsome?”
“So we’re comedians?”
The first one hits hard..
If you choose wrong it can change your life
@@jacksonmcgilvray4332who are you?
@@Hughjanus372 I’m a nobody
@@Hughjanus372 your mums new boyfriend
@@CJRadioStationfunny. Very funny. Well done.
Song name: I was only temporary
Edit: omg i love you all for 1k likes thank you so much
Dude it says it on the bottom
@@Shinramen47Some people don’t understand that you can look there.
Sh!t i did'nt even notice it on the bottom
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Thank you bro I didn’t even see it. ❤️
I've had to learn through a lot of heartbreak that unless a woman says bluntly, she likes me, and then I should always assume that she's just being kind.
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@@2009samiywhat are you on about?
@2009samiy I felt Jesus when reading biblenot the Quaran
As a woman this breaks my heart… any man deserves to feel loved and complimented.. it’s so sad
As a guy, I don't deserve complements and I don't even want it. Just don't insult me
@@ItadoriYuji-rt5mnSame, all I call myself is a moron, idiot, useless, worthless, dumbass and retarded everyday because of two reasons one so I don't feel anything when i do be call one and two it because I want to remind myself everyday waking breath and morning shine that I'm just another worthless creation of gods work and I should accept that because in reality who really care, it's true, just put on a smile and go on with the day because that's all life is at the end, it's probably for the best anyway
Sorry, I don't deserve them but thanks
my A.I girlfriend compliments me everyday she's my therapy
Thanks but bc we don't really get much compliments we think the person just feels sorry for us or smth that's why they are saying something good
Even as a woman I really relate to that first one. I think me having been teased in school by guys when I was younger and having 0 relationship xp is what pushes these awkward thoughts. I like to think just going with “they’re being friendly” is the best route to go because it makes things less awkward and stops me from overthinking. In my few experiences, flirting was easier to recognize in other women cause they’re kinda obvious about it, which makes this pretty easy. But I rarely talk to guys and sometimes I can’t tell whether they’re flirting or just being friendly, which makes me overthink a lot, but I always tell myself “Just take things with a grain of salt here” and that’s something that makes me much less anxious and makes me worry less. Being direct can be hard in these situations, but flirting makes me kinda uneasy and I prefer for people to be direct rather than flirty.
Edit: I understand tho. Women can be complex and there are pretty crazy ones out there (trust me I’ve seen some worrying behavior), but there are many great women out there. I’m sure you’ll find one, just don’t go off the deep end guys. :)
Thanks for writing this
Most guys are fairly simple in contrast to the video most guys will remember a compliment they receive and who gave it to them so if you are interested in a guy compliment him a lot and he will remember you
Wait, did you say it's easy to tell when a girl is flirting with you? Ain't no way. But then that unlocks another line of questioning. Is it just play flirting or is she seriously wanting me?
Cool, except you don't have to deal with "I'm just a flirty person" because men don't last long enough to use that excuse. Instead, we're called out, or isolated for the shitty behavior.
Why don’t these “great women” approach guys then?
Dawg, I remember one time that some kids 2-4 years younger than me said that I'm handsome. I'm 16 at the time so it I didn't know what to say so I went along with the flow to not mess the conversation.
After I got back home it hit me so deeply...
I had a similar situation yet not at the same time, last Halloween. In my town people of all ages trick of treat, and I was trick or treating while dressed as one of my favorite Disney characters (Floyd Leech btw, a game character) and I was the only person on a street other than 2 random young teens and I audibly heard them talking about how I was hot and I still haven't got over that because that was such a peculiar experience
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Are you saying a 12 year old called you handsome and you continued to converse with them even though you 16?
thats pedo activity
Dawg, some kids said I looks scary. Best compliment I've had my entire life.
@@Trigorastronomology lucky bastard alright.
I feel the first one, girls give you mixed feelings left and right
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Each and every one of those men were so handsome in my eyes. I am a girl and we do feel the same way, but i feel like its not talked about enough with guys..
You're correct. I was raised by women (mom and 3 sisters) and have had a great group of friends for over 20 years. I get compliments. Its different but my soul hurts for men and women.
I don’t like random acts of kindness or compliments. It makes me feel like I’m being pitied for just being who I am. It makes me feel like I should pay back what they have done for me or that I owe them something in return. I know that it’s not the right way to look at it but it’s always been that way. Even when people would give me gifts for my birthday or Christmas I would always make sure to pay for lunch or dinner.
Being grateful and wanting to make others feel the same you feel for them is not a bad thing. You're a kind hearted young man in a corrupter society. Dont let the corruption get to you, just do what your heart tells you to.
Ngl if I give someone a gift the only way I want them to repay me is to be happy because of it. 😊
I wouldn’t say it always has to be from the perspective of pity. Some people just feel like being kind because it makes them feel good, not to say that is always a bad thing. Kindness and ego just kind of walk awkwardly together sometimes, and it can be hard to separate what is people do for others and what they do for themselves.
Unless it’s a superficial interaction that doesn’t need more involvement than necessary, I’ve found it’s usually best to “just take the compliment” and move on with my day, not out of any particular insecurity, but just because there’s productive or fulfilling things that can be done than ruminating over how others think of me or their motives of treating me any particular way.
Don't sell yourself so short bro, you're deserving of that kindness if it reached you, and I'm sure you're way better than you think you are. Stay strong bro
@@callmev3531 Indeed, being altruistinc and "egoistic" goes hand with hand. There can't be happiness for everyone if someone is so altruistic that sacrifices so much it hurts, and the world is not right if someone has to sacrifice so much for others while others just accumulate to themselves or take from others. It should be give and take, and if what you take when you're kind, is a self-satisfaction feeling that makes your day happier, then that's good!, there's the reward for being a kind soul, something that can't be bought, happiness (and if the person you helped returns the favor, then bonus!), you wouldn't get that if your help is superficial and centered around vanity that's for sure.
That first one. I have been mislead down that path too many times to count. I can't help but think about those situations all the time. I never know sometimes. I can't help it. I wish I did. Since I don't though, I have been single all my life. I never quite got to realize that people flirt with me until way after. It hurts. It's like an insult to injury. It's mentally sickening. I hate it. It sucks. It's lonely. I'm the guy that "Will die a virgin" or "Gets no bitches" or whatever the case may be. I'm THAT guy because I never realize that people HAVE flirted with me. Even my own family jokes around about me being the one that can't get girls. My dad always gives me shit about how "What, do you have a girl to impress?" "Is your girlfriend coming?" when I am doing simple thing to make myself look good. Every time I make the 5 hour drive away from home to go see my grandpa, he always asks about 2 things. 1, "How is school?" and 2, "You got a girlfriend yet?" It's always a "Yeah my grades are fine, but no, I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I am trying."
But hey, womp womp, right? Not much I can do but cry myself to sleep after typing up this comment. Goodnight, yall.
Edit: I just kinda found this video again and saw that I already commented on it so I wanna put something else here. Thank you to the people who put positive comments in the replies, yall are good people. I'm ok, I have no plans to "end" anything or anyone (including myself). My depression is still strong, and so am I. It's been getting to me a lot this summer, but like I said originally, "Womp womp, right?"
Its fine if you are not ready, better just work on yourself and play some yakuza 0.
Women are temporary, league of legends is eternal. League is the only thing that matters, everything else is for normies
Or you could go the other route and be cynical and bitter to every compliment because it could be a lie thus to nearly every girl that compliments you its a defence against they're BS it doesn't mean your an incel it just means if you mean it then I'll hear what you have to say but otherwise I don't care piss off leave me alone
Same goes for me too but I don't take it seriously I just chilling 😅
Mate, your family isnt mocking you. My family does this to every boy in our family. They just joking around. And why does it matter wether you die a virgin or not? I am a virgin, but did get somewhat touchy with a girl before. What makes it good is the emotional connection, otherwise it's just masturbating. Stop thinking about girls and work on yourself. I did that and began getting some attention.
"Just being friendly" or "Flirting"
I CANT DECIDE!!
Can’t understand
Most of the time I pass it off as friendly. I know that in my current state I’m not bf material at all…..
The 3rd option is messing around with me
@@Sir_SnakeingtonYa that’s what I always think most of the time to. I think she’s just making fun of me.
@joshuaragon6676 yeah socializing with women is scary
First one hits different when a couple years pass and you’ve matured to the point you can tell the difference and you remember events like those realizing they liked you.
There's a way to tell the difference? Impossible.
Nope, they didn't like you. They were just being nice
@@TurdBoi-tf5lf You went through some bad stuff didn’t you
@@ShiningMoon26probably the same thing I went through: school wide humiliation, bullying, depression and SH thoughts. I've never forgotten, even if I already forgave.
@@TurdBoi-tf5lfmaybe in your experience, but no necessity his
It hits different when you realize that every single man on earth feels this undeserving because they were taught that they aren’t worth anything unless they’ve earned it… 😔
Top 5-10% of men feel perfectly deserving cause they hoard all the positive feedback. The rest sure are screwed
Or they were taught that they aren’t worth anything unless they can provide something
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Only with your mom and homies you became the most handsome man in the world.
The first one is so real. A girl I knew for a while started acting really nice to me and I never paid any attention to it because I thought that it was just a call for another broken heart, she eventually ghosted me and we haven’t talked since
The correct way is to assume any girl that looks at you a certain way or seems to flirt is interested in you and then you decide if you want to reciprocate. And you do it quicker rather than later
Bro same wtf? Down to the tee
Nah same bro. Women I tell ya
@@TurdBoi-tf5lfdo you always blame women for not wanting to be around you?
dam, so was all that niceness from that girl fake, cause she ghosted u
Just know, that if you give a guy a compliment out of nowhere, they will think about it all night. I think I'm speaking for a lot of people right now.
I would try to figure that out for 10 years
Real.
that's true, for guys, we don't get a lot of attention from girls, so for us even the most small thing is important and cute
@epic7783bro we are the same person
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Flower for all of you brothers
"I don't think im handsome." we need to show these guys more love
I was like : are you kidding me? You're a chick magnet.
True. They are the other 50% allowing society to thrive.
My advice is to always take the initial ones as a friendly behavior, IF the girl keeps complimenting you daily for months to years then you can start taking it another way, THAT IS if she changed behaviors in other aspects aswell, if compliment is just repetitive and random, while also rountinely then just say thanks, no need to overthink it or get offended by receiving an emotionless compliment, life is not for you to be wasting time for the meaning of a simple compliment
Experienced the first one in high school. I was pretty quiet and stayed away from extroverts so when my now girlfriend complimented me out of nowhere i was really confused WHY exactly she did it. Turns out she just wanted to get to know me and then proceeded to invite me daily to random things and then we kind of just linked (no sexual innuendo). It's amazing how much a single compliment can do for Men nowadays
Tht first one tho is just true bc we dont know if your friendly or flirting and we dont want to be a creep or a asshole bc women dont know how to give himt very well
oh yeah, but that happened in school once, was all just a joke to make fun of me with their friend group.
@@inerv9112same here bud
@@inerv9112 same in my school a girl normally walks up to a random guy and say hey my friend has a crush on you and if you check it out you get clowned on
It’s difficult sometimes for us to not just to tell but to try to not give you the wrong idea. I haven’t really had many guy friends not for any particular reason it’s just most of my friends are also girls. In class however i was partnered with a guy and we became friends. I tend to try and be a kind person, checking in on my friends, complimenting them, etc. i tried to make sure i wasn’t sending the wrong idea since i was only interested in a friendship. He eventually reached out to me and told me he had a crush on me. I simply told him that I appreciated the fact he told me but I wasn’t looking for anything romantic only a friendship. We continued being friends and it was great. Sometimes putting yourself out there is a great way to know the boundaries and keep them. I really never want kindness to lead people on and so I’m also trying to figure out how to communicate that in a natural manner that isn’t just outwardly saying “i’m not looking for anything romantic” out of the blue. It’s very tricky
@@lapris7380 That explains a lot, friendships between guys aren't the same as friendships between girls, It's a different environment. Men are expected to be masculine, and often aren't used to or comfortable giving or receiving compliments. When a guy isn't used to compliments or receiving that kind of attention, it often kinda lights something inside of them, and they crave that comfort and validation you give them. Usually though, crushes that start this way will pass
"What's it like being so handsome?"
"I wouldn't know."
Please, credit the creators. Telepurte (the animator) deserves the recognition, and I'm sure the others showcased here do so too.
So true telepurte should be credited!
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once you say something mean to someone, it'll get stuck in their brain and make them think that they're ugly, dumb, or anything. the world is a mean place.
EDIT: HOW DID I GET MORE LIKES THAN THE OWNER'S COMMENT LIKE HOW, luv yall ❤
second edit: seems like he has 1k now and i have 400 but still thanks yall
i feel this on an emotional level bro
its more like smth that you get when you feel like your not enough and you see someone thats "much better than you" and thats just a normal thing and wje shouldnt hate on it.
No one really has said anything mean to me I just think I am not good enough
My sister always says mean things to me..
I can sadly agree.
For the first one.. don’t overthink it too much, just accept the kindness as is. There’s no mixed signals if you accept the ways someone treats you as behavior rather than romantic or friendly, things will come to fruition if it’s meant to be.
Real, I honestly just take kindness at face value, like it's a regular afternoon, life's much simpler.
Sounds good to me. Better than insults.
I hype my guy friends all the time when they get a fresh cut or a nice fit on. Even when I know they don’t believe me I say “DAM the beard is TOUGH” or “is that a new shirt? It looks great!” They all know I have a bf, and we’re all in the same friend group together. These guys consider me to be a legit confidant. One of my friends said that aside from my bf (who is his best friend since they were in grade school) he trusts me the most. He comes to me when he’s upset and confused and just needs genuine advice. And this all started cuz I complimented them and listened to them and first introduced them into my life as people who just need some kindness 💚
I have ruined relationships by defending myself against a compliment.. like there was some alterior motive. Once I went so far as to comvincing myself she wasn't real or was hired.😅 I lost my father at 8 to suicide. Homeless at 14. Lack of a father figure or freedom to express emotions without judgement is too common to be dismissed or unrecognized. Stay up hidden kings💯❤
Man that's depressing
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according the bible that you have …
(Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted
(James 1:13) God doesn't get tempted
(John 1:29) Jesus was seen
(1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God
(Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God
(Numbers 23:19, Hosea11:9) God is not a man
(Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn
(Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn
(1 Corinthians 15:3-4) Jesus dies
(1 Timothy 1:17) God doesn't die
(Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation
(Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation
(John 4:6) Jesus grew weary
(Isaiah 40:28) God Doesn't grow weary
(Mark 4:38) Jesus slept
(Psalm 121:2-4) God doesn't sleep
(John 5:19) Jesus isn't all powerful
(Isaiah 45:5-7) God is all powerful
(Mark 13:32) Jesus isn't all knowing
(Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing
Jesus, the son of Mary was no more than a Messenger
Find a doctor dude you seem kind of useless :)))
Women need to realize if they make the first move there's a 100% success rate
I wouldn't say 100% but it is surprisingly high.
Not even close mate
@@latinpercussionlover6598at least a 90% rate I’d say
I'd give it about a 70%
Used to be.
The number has gone smaller because not all men are so trusting of women any longer
"I will when I deserve it".....that hit harder than I thought.
Bro the Zac clip is wild 💀
The first one is so real… i can‘t decide if it‘s just being nice or if someone flirts with me
As a girl with friends that are guys I’ve seen girls be flirty with my guy friends and it’s absolutely hilarious before I tell them that the girl is flirting
Same and my homies are my *life*
Thats sad
"I will when I deserve it!" - I felt that in my core.
That last one’s relatable as hell
The second part of this video gives me an idea of how some people ruined our mentality by bullying or making us feel sad and it also gives out the “Happy outside but sad inside” vibes that it gets us to the point we become depressed… almost like we can’t change no more 😢
Edit 1: also taking compliments from other people feels strange sometimes
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@@2009samiybro what are you even doing?
"I will when I deserve it" is so real
I have found love so many times. There is a difference between finding gold and having it.
that ending tho .
@@Bread011it's supposed to be
Motivation and self-discipline is very important to following your dreams and working hard! Dont let anyone nock you down! Work hard and STAY HARD - David Goggins
But I can only stay hard when I look at por-
It’s not easy to have the motivation to do things, I wish it was easy.
'Cause if not me, then who's gonna carry the boats and the logs!?!
@@shadedisplayed agreed, but you’ve gotta get past what you want and just grind whatever you want so bad
Im hard🥵
Slowly getting drived into a deep dark hole of sadness and depression this last summer and by summer, it wasn’t a summer that was fun. It was a summer that will change my life forever. I lost almost all my friends. No one really talk to me anymore and nobody straight up, likes me, I try my best to make myself enjoyable but nobody really cares so if anybody wants to be friends out there, I’m alone. Love you guys. Have a good day.
I still remember the day I was called handsome for the first time, God bless that random gorgeous girl🙏🏻❤️
I love the part when he gives credit to the artists
I remember breaking in to tears bc my gf sat on call with me and asked me to open up I sat on call for 3 hours balled up crying she told me i deserved love I never thought I did everyday I woke up thinking it would be a breakup men good women do exist ur best friends exsist dont make the pain worse when ur on that fucking floor crying ready to end it all just get back up and call stay focused and strong bretheren
first one is so real
Yep, all of this is so true. A man is hardly ever complimented, and when we are, we dont know how to react or think we don't deserve it
Never received compliments, not even from my mother
shit man, that's messed up, I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but I like your profile picture, and I'm sure you're a great person
“Whats it like being so handsome?”
It’s pretty great, but the best part is that i don’t let anyone change my opinion about it.
That first one is just too accurate. Because I am in this state right where all my friends are in a relationship. I know I should be happy for them, but it feels like they just took my attention and happiness and then just left me. And I want friends but my problem is that I take the smallest compliment from a girl and my brain say “does she love me?” But she probably doesn’t, making me feel lonely again.
@AinzSamra-rg7su dont worry mate i have felt the same
What hit hard is when he said "and I will when I deserve it!" That's just flat out sad...
A compliment is either the purest form of somebody genuinely liking a part of a physical or emotional trait that you have, and the compliment being given to you makes you feel noticed, acknowledged, warm, special, or something that someone would love within a person, or it can be a disguise of a lie that mocks you for a part of a physical or emotional trait that you have, and makes you feel worthless, imperfect, weird, stupid, or something that nobody would ever like within a person
If Socrates, Aristotle, and Plato couldn’t figure out women then we’re screwed boys
They didn’t think about women at all lol
Original animation by Telepurte.
Sometimes we tend to think we’re not as valued then what others see us to be and I’ve had that kind of feeling every time someone looks at me❤
in my 15 years of life, I have only heard compliments from my parents, but I am still happy at least for the fact that I simply exist and my father cares about me.
My mental health is deteriorating in a slow way like a silent killer. I wonder if I would be okay after 10 years or so...
You will I believe in you
first one was me and my best friend, she was always so nice. she always talked to me. I was unsure about if she liked me for a year before I asked her out in the beginning of this year. I've never felt the acceptance and love I feel from her in my entire life.
That's a real male escape from a friendzone! Congrats!
I saw the first one long ago,it ends with that kindness becoming a core memory for him.
thanks for using my song 🤍💙🤍
Us guys have been so starved for compliments, that if we ever get one, we will remember it for days, if not _months._
I still remember one so vividly till this day, it happened when I was in 9th grade around 2019.
I don't remember the last time I was complimented.
The first part of the video, is the part that I can relate too because that’s all girls ever do to me, and they act like they mean it until I ask them out they end up acting like they would never compliment me, and soon they later forget that I was in their life
I am doing so much in my life... i dont know if i have the strenght to continue like this...
You do mate, you do.
The more you go the stronger you will get. Keep going
It’s still something for me too, suicide was an option for me until I realized how that would be terrible for my family
When I was a kid, whenever I would get hurt, playing with my friends and forced to be at home lying on the bed I always used to think to myself "it's just a matter of time, soon these wounds will get healed up and I would be able to play with my friends again. Afterall some day or the other these scratches are going to heal."
And imagine myself walking and running again.
One day it will get better, it has to get better and if you give up now, you won't be able to see the better.
I hope you make it buddy.
If you can’t think of a reason to keep going, live for your family or friends, your mother or father. If you have lost both (and my condolences if this is true), then do it for anyone that is closest to you, even if it’s just one person, because that one person cares a whole lot for you, survive for those that you love, you are not alone. Think of the amount of sorrow that you’d bring towards them. But most importantly, it is only a moment. Your perception will change for the better, just give it time
“Kindness out of nowhere”
I was thinking of flirting, joking, and just being nice
If your seeing this I just want to say I love you and god loves you and you are here for a reason god made you unique so don’t give up he still has plans for you be strong brothers ✝️❤️
“What’s it like being so handsome?”
“It’s a lot more lonesome than I was led on to believe…”
The animation at the beginning is from Telepurte, for anyone wondering.
Thank you
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I remember when my mother told me to work harder.
I wake up as 3 am everyday, work two jobs and don get home till 6. Cant afford a car, I ride a electric fucking bike. All I asked was for her to teach me how to drive but hey, thats what i get for expecting my "mother" who abandoned me for 17 yrs of my life to act like my mother right?
Iv never gotten a compliment from her. But my stepsister is the apple of her pie.
Men deserve better 😔
Im a man and I do not
but that will never happen, most of the time girls learn that they deserve everything, that they should get everything, and guys learn that they need to work for it, they need to try their best to get the stuff they want
"What's it like being so handsome?"
I wouldn't know.
Yup.
Funny to see kindness coming back and being important.
I think most men never learned to be that for themselves.
One bit.
Hopefully we learn.
We grow for the better.
The first one is so real. Would be so much easier if girls made the first move, I wish they realised that.
''What's it like being so handsome?''
''Idk, I don't have experience with that''
YOU DESERVE TO HEAR COMPLIMENTS AND TO KNOW HOW HANDSOME AND BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE! YOU ARE ALL KINGS AND QUEENS! YOU ALL DON'T HEAR IT MUCH BUT YOU ARE APPRECIATED AND LOVED MORE THAN YOU THINK DAMN IT! STAY SAFE, HEALTHY, AND KEEP DOING YOUR OWN SHIT! IT'S YOUR TIME, YOU ARE LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE. NOT ANYBODY ELSE'S!
Thank you for coming to my rant, love you all.
Tip from a girl: if the kindness is just a one time or from-time-to-time thing- being kind. If she tries to spend a lot of time with you- likes you, bonus if she tries to touch you somehow. But you should be carefull with people who just try to get attention (usually happens when YOU start liking them or being interested). These people usually "take" but never "give". The person who likes you, will try to do smth good for you
And if it is already a long friendship and you start to like her: it is always better to tell her the truth rather then suffer. You will suffer if she says "no" as well but you will at leaast know how it is. And never stay if she rejects. The moment only one person fall in love- it is over, there can be no friendship anymore. And if she is rude after you confess: Well, you know that she is a shit person. There is no exuse. This world blessed you with opportunity to run away and to find that one person who will love you
In short, and I'm telling you from my own experience, feeling inferior is the worst thing you can feel.
A huge problem between the differentiation of flirting vs kindness is taking it too seriously. If someone is being kind to you, take it for its face value. If a good woman honestly wants to go further than friendship with you, she'll make it known. Dont settle for ambiguity and confusion.
Men getting called ugly at school
Cause them to think they're ugly
And that's how I think of myself
Aaah, I remember when I asked my boyfriend that, he was very confused and a little teary. I just covered him with kisses and told him how handsome, cute, beautiful and divine he is, I gave him handmade gifts, flowers, stuffed animals that I crochet of his favorite characters or animals... And now? He cheats on me and blames me for it but I still love him, he was my first boyfriend and the love of my life, even if I'm not the one he loves anymore he will always have my love and I keep asking myself that same question in my mind every time I see it... Love is something else🥲
This reminds me of jayden animations. Always the one who makes people feel good about themselves.
Ive never heard such conpliment coming from another person other than my grandma and my homies
I just wish people would openly flirt with their crushes instead of the crush having to decide between friendly or flirty
A man who smiles a lot, has nothing but depression
I'd straight up think they were making fun of me
I don’t remember my compliments since I’ve gotten so few. The happiest I’ve been so far in my life was getting a $3 raise. My trust in people is ruined. I hear snakes in the grass so I stay out of it. It hurts but it hurts less than putting myself out there and getting rejected over and over
As much as I agree with the message at least we know when a compliment is real, since we get so little. Girls get many so these compliments mean nothing to them.
everyone is beautiful to someone, you just need to find the person
This hits hard but stay positive
Ive never been complimented, so having someone do it, is scary.