Let's Talk - Bullying
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2020
- Hey my loves.... I tried not to make this too deep but also kept it honest at the same time
Hope this gave you some better insight and answered some of your questions
As promised, heres the links to contacts if you ever needed:
www.nationalbullyinghelpline....
www.kidshelpline.com.au
www.cybersafetysolutions.com.au
www.netalert.gov.au
www.NetSmartz.org
www.netsafe.org.nz
www.ceop.gov.uk
www.CyberTipline.org
www.iSafe.org
www.bullying.org
www.wiredsafety.org
www.GetNetWise.org
www.anti-bullyingalliance.org...
www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-chil...
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Thanks, for sharing your story. From someone who was bullied at a school this really touched my heart!
Always!!! Love the fact that it touched you and I hope you're happy and healing babe xxx
You’re such a strong, beautiful, encouraging young woman and it’s soo what we need for this generation, someone to look up to who is strong and open and no matter what she’s been through she made the best out of it and learnt from it and grew and that is honestly so beautiful ❤️
This really really made me smile. Thank you so much! It's actually so hard to speak on subjects such as this but as long as I know that even one person if positively affected by it then I'll always be happy. I'm loving watching so many other grows through it too
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Thank you for sharing this!! I was bullied throughout my life by so many people because "I'm dark". Its not racism, its colorism. And the first time it happened, I told my family and they told me Im beautiful, you know, the usual stuff. But I thought they told that Im beautiful just because I was their child. So I grew up with the mentality that I was so unattractive and ugly, even until my early twenties. Even now sometimes I do not go out or be shy just because I feel like people do not want to see me, or engage with me. Whenever I reached out to the people that were supposed to protect me, they always told me "Grow up, get over it", even my best friends. I recently did a video about it, and the funny thing is, the same people called me after seeing that video, to tell me they support me no matter what. What I believe is, you can't really get over it. You can't really be the same person you were before happening these stuff.
"It's not racism, it's colorism". FACT. I'm going to watch your video on it too. I'd love to hear your experience but what I would say is that although you may never be the same after you'll definitely get over it in time no matter how long it takes and the version of you afterwards will be even better and stronger. You WILL be happy and you WILL succeed. I can promise you that xxx
@@JourdanRiane Thank you so much for kind words! And thank you for doing this video. ❤
Omg you cried.
I'm literary crying because I got emotional too
I think the mental effect from bullying never left me somehow. No matter how hard I tried to tell myself it's all in the past.
I wish all bully victims would actually have the strength to open up to someone while it happens.
I know I really didn't want to but then I also wanted to show the fact that it's something that emotionally does actually affect me still. I agree with you, I wish all victims had the strength. But now I'm realising that it's down to the small number of us that do have the strength to provide those that haven't found theres just yet, with a safe place to talk xxx
Your story touched me. I was bullied in secondary school and I actually am planning on making a UA-cam video on it. But one thing I’ll say is that it will not last forever. And that sounds so cliche to say, but it honestly doesn’t. Going through it doesn’t seem like it, but it doesn’t. And that we need to normalise having open conversations about pain. And we need to normalise the different ways of emotional release (crying being one, which I’m glad you spoke about). And lastly, the process of pain leads to progression. It doesn’t feel like it now but bullying moulds and strengthens your character. You become stronger in the process. This also might sound cliche but you have to pressurise carbon to create a diamond. Thanks for this video, it deffo had me emotional because I deeply felt and understood your pain. Keep doing you sis, I love your content and you have my complete support❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 #thrivegang #theycantstopus
You angel. I'm so so sorry that you had to experience anything even remotely close to that kind of hurt. Your soul seems so pure and you're right pain leads to progression and soooooo many of us are so beautifully successful after dealing with such pains. Thank you love for taking the time to leave such a beautiful comment xx
Very inspiring/empowering video. I was bullied quite a bit in my childhood too; most of the time I was bullied for being as skinny as a twig, and I wasn't popular. I often felt like a social outcast & never felt I fit in nor had many friends. Even nowadays as a young adult (though I am of average weight/ build), I still feel unattractive; the emotional scars are still there. Anyhow, I just wanted to commend you for telling your story, Jourdan. You are amazing, beautiful, strong & encouraging. This is really awesome. Keep up the good work!
As a male i look up to your personality. It’s really saddening to hear what you went through but I’m truly proud of how far you’ve become. I can see and tell that you are a strong person and you are a perfect role model. God is with you now. You are so gorgeous btw and I just wanted to say that you are special. I love you girl. Keep shining ‼️❤️
This was so beautiful ! Thank you sooo much angel ! This really means a lot to me - always growing and love watching other people grow too ❤️❤️❤️ keep shining too my love and thank you for having such an amazing energy xxx
When I watched you on love island with my mum the first thing we said was wow she's absolutely stunning!
Owww thank you gorgeous xxxx
I was bullied from Primary School to High School because i'm gay and i was also tiny. And that made me distance myself from society & stopped being myself, and I became cold. Now I'm older I got internal issues to deal with because of those idiots but I'm healing ❤️
proud of u💓
So immensely proud of you for even acknowledging the issues you have and taking the mental and emotional step to heal. Honestly it's such a freeing feeling and one you'll always be grateful for. So proud and pleaseeeee keep me updated on how it's going for you xx
Just when I thought I couldn't stan any harder. I was bullied in primary school, when I was 6-8 years old. It was a crew of rich mean girls whom I badly wanted to be friends with. There was a lot of isolation going on as well and one of them was the class the class prefect so she used to give punishments like kneeling down. Funny thing with some bullies is they never remember what they did, they go on with their lives completely oblivious of their cruelty.
Thank you for making this video because it really touched me and even made me cry a little. I was bullied my whole life from when I was 6 to primary school to secondary school. I was more bullied emotionally and mentally and it always made me feel like a outsider. I never knew how to make friends and was always by myself during break and lunch time. Because I was so desperate to have a friend or just fit in, I literally would do everything they ask me to to. Such as holding the girls bags and be their messenger. And by the boys, they would trip me over, laugh at me as I walked passed, make fun of my last name or swear at me. I am 17 now and up to to this day I still remember it and I don't think I ever completely got over it and it definitely left me scares...at first I delt with it by ignoring them but later on put up and act and be brutally honest and insult them back or kissed my teeth. When really it hit me like shit. I pretended that everything was ok so no one suspected anything. Now I get emotionally very easily and flich whenever someone surprises me unexpectedly. I get told that I'm wayy too sensitive and cry too easily which shows that I'm weak and need to toughen up. I still feel like a outsider but I guess that is how it is.
I’ve never understood why people felt the need to push their negative opinions on others 🤦🏽♀️ yeah I used to get bullied, i became inaccessible by being so busy or by being friends with the friends of the bullies which led to someone else protecting me. Nowadays, any hint of drama or stress and I’m out. If it could lead to a negative impact on my life, then they are blocked, restricted, gone without a second thought 💆🏽♀️ thank you for sharing! I’m building my own channel and I’m not even afraid of the negativity pending 😅
Been going though it...still going through it...I honestly hate how I look...I'm so tiny and people just love picking at me😭😭
It's so sad...I don't have any confidence at all....this video helped me feel like I am not alone..thank you
You’re never alone love... I can relate being very small (short n skinny) keep positive tho💙🦋
Very relatable stories. Did you have friends whilst you were being bullied because that would've alleviated the pain. How did you move on to make friends?
I'm not actually too sure because none of us ever spoke to each other about it at the time to even know
Firstly, thank you so much for making this video Jourdan! I just want to add something that is sooo crazy.
At one of my lowest points in secondary school where I was struggling with my self-esteem and colourist remarks from peers I remember seeing this photo of YOU. You were in an amazing kitchen, in an amazing dress, lovely hair, lovely make up, massive dimples. Beautiful. I remember thinking “If I could just be her I would be happy.”
So looking back at how far I’ve come and now hearing your story blows my mind. I would never of thought you had experienced bullying.
There has to be a reason for the unpleasant experiences that we have. I try to look at things objectively now. Forgive the people that hurt me. Learn from the situation. Become better, never bitter. Because then they would’ve won. Love and blessings xxx
Hey gorgeous girl. Ummm WOW this actually made me emotional. Like, isn't it soooo wild that we can all look at images or videos of people and just have no clue what they've been through. You've come sooooo far and I know I don't know much about your journey but the fact that you're able to even write those words tells me that mentally and emotionally you've pushed through a lot.
Let me just say this. Never ever wish you were someone other than yourself. You were with every part of your being for a reason, and there are also people who look at you and wish they could be you too. Always remember that no body is you and that is such a powerful thing. You're a strong beautiful being and I don't need to know you personally to know that.
Always forgive and try and learn. Just like you said :) Because the actual reality is that those same people causing pain are also more than likely dealing with some sort of hurt themselves. It takes a strong woman to objectively look at things. I truly believe that these things happen to the strongest people and you will always win xxxxx
JourdanRiane no there’s actual tears right now, you’re so very sweet! 110% agree, life is wayyy too short to wish to be someone else. Keep shining sis, love from your new subbie for life 💖💖💖
Loved that you addressed issues that a number of people have gone through or are going through with resources to help :)
Thank you love. I hope it helped some people xx
Just found your channel today! Love your strength and I'm now subscribed!
Thank you so much for this video ❤️ and for sharing your experience and this has helped me as during my high school experience 3 years ago I experienced been bullied
Just know you're not alone my love at all. And just know that you will always come out stronger in the end. I'm sorry you even had to deal with it xx
So sorry you were bullied, I know the feeling. Hope you know that you are absolutely stunning and beautiful!!
I'm sorry you know the feeling. I hope you're okay and staying strong. This is a safe space for you so just know if you want to talk.... im all ears xx
This really touched me you’re so strong & beautiful ❤️
I commented on your last video thank you for sharing your story, i was terribly bullied throughout my whole life, different ways, and very severely. It mihht sound weird but i love hearing that im not the only person who is that scared and hurt from there childhood
It doesn't sound weird. There's actually so much comfort in knowing you're not alone and I can tell you that you're not xx
I asked for this , thank you soo much for sharing your experience 🥰🥰🥰
You're soooooooo welcome babe xx
You are so genuine and gorgeous thank you for sharing your story, stay true to yourself you are helping many people X
Always!! I genuinely just want people to know they're not alone x
Hello gorgeous, it's good to see and hear your voice, this is a good topic, because it prays on ones weakness or make one slave to another in many forms or waves...That's only the beginning in so instinct, The faster you'll realize it the better prepare to it..Hatred and Races is for more in debt, but bullying can be much more......Ok ; stay well and keep safe..
Awww you could bully such a beautiful soul. Thank you Jourdan.
Thank you honey xxx
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This inspires me to make my own video about my experiences with bullying.
I was bullied as well between grade 2/3. The girl used to isolate me, and also others, and the day you were on her good books would be the happiest days of school. She once told me I owed her money, and made me believe that if I didnt pay her I would suffer. And i had to steal money from my grandmother because i lived with my grandmother. That is still the saddest moment of my life, I'm crying typing this because I love my grandmother so much and I cannot believe someone else made me do that to her😭💔
U are stunning like a painting I can just stare at
Thanks for sharing your experience on this. From what I see, you are absolutely gorgeous, inside and out.
This really really makes me happy. Thank you angel xx
@@JourdanRiane I'm glad.
You're welcome lovely 😚
no that is the best way to deal with it! you have to fight back. even if you fake it.
I abs adore you for the things you went through and for who you are today . You truly inspire me 🧸 btw I don’t know if u remember but I met you and Danny at Stratford Westfield shopping centre and u looked stunning !!!🥺🥰❤️Alsoooooo i also went to Woodford county high schooooolll 😋😋😋❤️
Thank you beautiful. Ahhhhh a fellow Woodford Girl. Now that school was very interesting haha. I learnt so much! When did you leave? xx
I left this year actually !! U should really come and visit 🥰🥰
It really sounds like Colourism. You are gorgeous babe x
I think your next video should be about past relationships and how to move on forward
🌷😗😗Goooooood Video💕
Thanks for sharing
😘Your Pretty self😘
😍MakeuP so cute😍
Happy Bless Weekend as well
😇😇Stay Safe always😇😇
I think ultimately what helped me was God thanks for sharing Jourdan♥️
Women who are victims of bullying eventually turn out to be:
- Brave
- Confident
- Strong
- Boss women.💋
We also had a end of a year assembly where you were mentioned by the head of sixth form who was proud to be in the school represented by you !!🧸
Oh this makes me soooo happy!! I really do miss my school days. I have to come and visit asap xx
Unbelievable. You're too naturally gorgeous. They were obviously jealous. 😍😘
Your so pretty Jourdan...
That low life was probably just jealous of you.
🥺♥️♥️♥️♥️
All I have to say is...GROWTH
SIIIIIISSSSS. Period. Growth in every way for all of us x
Please jourdan, what's your advice for people suffering with PTSD. P.S also love u ❤️
Love this idea. I defo will love. Love you too xxx
but mi never know likkle pickni could'a so bright??? ......why do you think you was targeted, was the bullying racially motivated!! kill dem with lickk. being a victim still of bullying (i am telling,) to tell is the best way! or fight back....be strong at all time's. great vlogg sorry about this exeperience you have endured, you got the last laugh, bunn all bully's. biglove