Thank you brother Tiff ..I was so looking for an answer for my brother..i asked the Holy Spirit to give me a definite answer to my question.....the last few minutes you spoke was definitely for my brother ...my brother an unbeliever who was married to a believer gets divorced and after three years he becomes a believer....how you said becoming a new creation is so true and literal....God does not lie...what He says he does...Thank you Bro Tiff ..God bless you to speak the word of the Lord to millions...
This teaching is so vital to know and to understand, thank you Brother Tiff. This gave me a better understanding on the subject. Not many churches teaches this stuff anymore, very sad.
I was married to a very abusive psychopathic husband who tried multiple times to kill me, my mother and my child multiple times. He was found to have severe mental illness. The law advised me I had to leave him or we would all die. I had to leave him to save my life and my families life. I don’t think God wanted me to stay in that situation. I later found a wonderful husband who also came from a very abusive situation where his ex wife would beat him daily and would torment him emotionally, mentally and physically. He turned out to be the love of my life. A wonderful kind and very gentle soul. He just passed away from Covid and I am so heartbroken. My first abusive husband has passed away as well. I am now a widow 😭
I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one particularly a spouse is very hard.May God now watch over you and keep you. God Bless you and your family.🦋💒
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Matt 12:30-31”31:Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men. 32:And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come. Know this according to his Word. We have all fallen short of the glory of God! We must realize that even Christians we have made mistakes, backslid, not to have excuses for what we have done wrong, or to make excuses, but God knows the heart we don’t even know our own heart he said the heart is desperately wicked! If your living in a marriage where both parties, have been in and adulterous relationship, and You both have repented , Do you not believe God will forgive or can? All anyone can do is totally rely on the Grace of God, when you have confessed that sin of Adultery and ask for forgiveness , then there is nothing left to do except Trust God, and just have to leave in his hands! Where sin abound Grace abound much more.. Marriage and Divorce is Very very serious. As the Minister says and yes God Hates Divorce, yet he hates all sin. But you have to repent is to turn away form that life style and have a change of Mind and heart about it….there is hope for the sinner and it’s only by forgiveness of sin that we can be restored Back to the right relation with God! And it’s only found in the atoning work of Christ on the Cross. Without his forgiveness there is no remission of sin! Today if you have made those mistakes or maybe your in this situation today ask God For his forgiveness and mean it and then put your faith and trust in him….and his Mercy..don’t continue to divorce and remarry. It’s Jesus’s Blood that cleanses us from all sin! Acknowledge the sin , and be sincere when repenting and depending On Christ to take care of the rest……once you have truly repented. Then continue to believe God for that cleansing! He has taken care of it on the Cross ! He who practices righteousness is righteous! And Jesus is our righteousness!
I've listened to your services numerous times, and have learned quite a bit. What does the bible say about scientific research on the body? Thank you for your preaching
Thank you. I married a divorced woman. My spouse went on to heaven before I remarried. She left her husband because of blatant emotional abuse. I never heard it explained this way. Thank you.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
I am aware of the complexities. I certainly can’t do an exhaustive study in one setting. Send your questions to info@lostlamb.org. and I will address them asap.
There are no complexities in the scriptures regarding divorce and remarriage. Jesus made is plain and simple. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” These are the words of Jesus. You either believe them or you don't. DO NOT BE DECEIVED!
Same here. I feel like I'm doomed to hell now and I feel like giving up. I was unfaithful. My husband divorced me. I thought I was saved. I married again. I have been so much closer to God in this marriage. We pray together and discuss biblical teachings. We consider ourselves saved. Now I'm left feeling that no matter if I confessed my sin of adultery to God and asked forgiveness I'm still not going to heaven. I'm heartbroken. Please help me understand why God cannot forgive me.
@@barbaramiller1412I have the same story as you. Did we sin, YES. Is it forgivable? YES! You are not doomed to hell if you have accepted Christ as your Savior and repented of your sins. Praise God that our sins are covered in the blood of Jesus. Your first marriage is over and you can’t go back. repent and know that you are forgiven and loved by God. Go forward and honor God in the marriage you have now. Much love to you Sister in Christ🙏🏻💜
Great lesson. Full of reason. But there are as many different teachings on divorce and remarriage as there are people who teach. Some are very frightening and some very permissive. The scary ones are without mercy stating that leaving the second marriage and remaining celibate is the only thing to do. And others are figuratively a free for all. What if I get it wrong and believe the wrong guy. Now I'm under God's wrath. How can you know?
Do you believe what Christ Jesus accomplished for you on the cross? He died for the forgiveness of ALL SIN and rose again. Those who believe this truth have been transferred out of Adam (sin), baptized into Christ (righteousness) and are JUSTIFIED by His blood. We’ve died to the law by the body of Christ so that we can be married to another, even to Him who is raised from the dead.
Adultery is grounds for divorce but it's up to the betrayed spouse to decide to work things out. Also if the spouse ia trying to kill the other spouse obviously I don't think God would want that. So separation in that case is obviously okay. And if needed divorce.
I do not doubt any thing in this teaching. My first marriage fell under both biblical reasons, my second did not. Since that divorce he has fallen into immorality. So biblically this relationship cannot be reconciled? Also could you give me a verse on if one person in a marriage stops sexual intercourse and they are still married. Please?
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Honey if you read in the Bible of somethings that you don't sometimes understand, is when you have took the lord into your heart and what's to keep him ,that's were you never want to get rid of him because of the love that was put into it. If you throw him away you are asking for the devil to come into your heart because you do not have the love that you bestowed to anymore. When you get married it is the same you are getting love put into you heart and it is NOT to be took away until that women or man dies . The love has to stay into your hearts together or you have thrower the loved out into the garbage can, and can not have the love that you should have in your heart right because the lord backs apart. Even if you marry 5 times more you will not have the love in the marriage that should be in it because the 1st. Was not done if the one for the 1st. Marriage had died. Love is what keeps marriage with all things happiness,joy laughing wanting to never to be apart . Hate is what brakes the marriages apart so that you want to get rid of each other. Keep the love always because it's the devil that likes to brakes them apart. Just like you and the lord. 🎉 love you
if what he says, is true......that if one is not in a legal marriage, then they are not married.....that would support the no remarriage side of this argument......because the ones in a remarriage, are not....legally married.....because divorce did not sever the covenant...
I believe Jesus gave only 1 ground for div. n remarriage. 1 cor 7 is silent on remarriage. Those christians already div n remarried must live as BROTHER N SISTER. It's not easy but U can do it on the strength of the holy spirit. Seek the holy spirit, hear him n obey him. He will give strength. Because bible says he who divorces his wife n marries another, COMMITS adultery. Present tense. Once U know it's better to obey, than be living in adultery. Many pastors advise couples wrongly on this subject. Don't know why. Fast n pray, seek the holy spirit, n obey his voice. U will be surprised how the holy spirit works. HSpirit will teach, help n comfort, when U go to him, Jn 14. Thts why he is the comforter. PRAISE GOD
SEÑOR TIFF, I have been listening to your messages for a few months now, I thank the Lord for finding you… I feel lost with this teaching I’ve listened to it over & over & I still can’t find an answer to a few questions I have, I was divorced under biblical grounds, I re-married & got divorced again…. I need someone to talk to please….
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3 Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Unless they Confess and Forsake: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
The words “not bound” in 1 Corinthians 7:15 are actually the Greek words “ou dedoulotai” which mean “not under bondage”. The root word for “dedoulotai” is Strong’s G1402 “douloo” which means to enslave; bring under subjection. Therefore to interpret “not under bondage” in v. 15 to mean that one can remarry would contradict the command that God had given in 1 Corinthians 7:11 which says that a wife must remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband if she leaves him and a husband is not to divorce his wife. The interpretation of “not under bondage” means if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse, the believing spouse is not under bondage or obligation to keep the marriage together. However, the believing spouse is not to drive the unbelieving spouse away.
Yes, but he also forgives it too. Jesus makes all things new! ‘Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ 2 Corinthians 5:17
God hates sending away. God himself is a divocee He have Israel a certificate of divorce AND sent her away. But he did not divorce her sister Judah. So wait. Did God just describe himself as having more than one wife 🤔
I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was manipulated by an older woman who was a professional con artist. After she got pregnant, I stayed in a horribly unhappy marriage for ten years. She eventually left me and took the kids. The moment she left, a huge black cloud left with her. I decided to file for divorce. I eventually married a beautiful lady who cannot be bettered; we’ve been together 20 years. The Lord told me years after I divorced the first wife, that she wasn’t truly saved; we were unequally yoked. That explains a lot that happened. I honestly believe He put it in her heart to leave me so I had a fighting chance at a proper life. Looking backwards, I realize she was likely cheating on me at various times as well.
she was probably.....that is thin ice.....and as adultery is not a Biblical reason, for divorce and remarriage....it is likely that you, too have been fooled by this speaker and are living in adultery....
If your first marriage was to a woman who had never been married, then she is your covenant wife. If after you divorced her and married another woman and your covenant wife is still alive, then you are in adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” Anyone who does not repent and forsake an adulterous marriage will go to hell. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21)." Please believe the Bible. Your eternal life depends on it.
@Janet HickeyMark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18, which also discuss what Jesus said about divorce and remarriage, do not have the clause "except for fornication." These two books were written to a Gentile audience. Because the book of Matthew is written to a Jewish audience, and does contain the clause, "except for fornication", you need to study the Jewish marriage customs during that time to understand why this clause is included. You will find that the Jews recognized two types of husbands and wives. They had a married husband and a married wife and a betrothed (or espoused) husband and a betrothed (or espoused) wife. A betrothed couple is similar to a couple that we say are engaged to be married. However, a betrothal was a legally binding "engagement to be married". It could only be broken if the betrothed wife committed fornication (sexual relations outside of marriage) with another man. She was to remain a virgin until her marriage to her betrothed husband. If she was found to have committed fornication, her betrothed husband could break the betrothal only through a divorce. This means that the Jewish culture had two types of divorce, one from a betrothal and one from a marriage. You can verify this in the Bible in Matthew 1:18-25 where Joseph was referred to as Mary's husband and Mary was referred to as Joseph's wife when they were only betrothed and not married. In these scriptures, Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary because he thought she had committed fornication when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus. So, the "except for fornication" clause in Matthew 19:9 meant that Jesus was only allowing a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage. Jesus did not have an exception clause for the Gentiles because they did not practice betrothal in their marriage customs. When people use their own cultural norms to interpret scriptures, they can often misinterpret them. I hope this helps your understanding.
@@eruiz1180 Haven’t you read in Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 19:9 and Luke 16:18 where Jesus said that any marriage to another that happens after the divorce is adultery. It is adultery. It is not a marriage. Adultery will land anyone in hell if they do not repent and forsake the adultery (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Galatians 5:19-21). Only the death of a covenant spouse frees the surviving spouse from the marriage allowing him or her to get married again (1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:2-3).
this represents the reformation Church....which is a false teaching....on both grounds.....fornication, is not adultery, and not being under bondage has nothing to do, with the marriage bond.....so no worries, here, if you want a divorce and remarriage, and sanctioned, by some religious type.....give this one a visit....he will....work it out, for you....I wonder how many will loose their salvation, due to this false teaching...
Bro Tiff, I was married to my husband for almost 48 yrs before he went to his Heavenly home almost 2 yrs ago. Some days we DID NOT LIKE. EACH OTHER but. We ALWAYS AND FOR EVER LOVED EACH OTHER. I was so blessed with a CHRISTIAN husband
My beloved husband and I were married for 52 years before he was transported to heaven. Our marriage was abundantly blessed because right from the beginning we decided to invite the Holy Spirit to be the third person in our marriage. All glory to our Heavenly Father. 🙏
Not sound teaching just like most big ministries though he is a pre-Trib rapture believer like me. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it. Matthew 19:4-12 KJV So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY. Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception) Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21 KJV Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge. Hebrews 13:4 KJV For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY. Luke 16:15-18 KJV Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man. Romans 7:1-3 KJV
I dont get it. Forst he starts by explaining fornication and adultery gaily accurately. Than goes way off further in. Adultery covers all the srxual sins in marriage from beastiallity to homosexualty. Fornication does to. Beastiality to homosecmxuality half truths are the enemys favorite tools.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Question . Since my second husband has passed away ( now 3 years ago) but my first husband does not want to reconcile, just remain friends ( We are not living together) and I have repented of all of this , where does this put me in eternity ?
@marshalynn2712 If you have repented of your sin, then go and sin no more- living single and holy. I just uploaded a testimony of a woman in her third marriage who has come to repentance if you want to check it out.
What do I do then? Is there no hope for me? Do i leave another marriage to not be in adultery? I am asking for answers. I repent of my failures. But i can't change them now.
Emontional, financial, verbal is abuse that is disolveable, narssastic abuse is deadly as well as physical you are not equally yolked and I don't think God would want you in that. I don't agree with you pastor that only physical abuse is your way out of a bad marriage, my ex devorced me after I left for the final time and once we were devorced the ink was barley dry he remarried,..she stayed less than a year. Still healing from his toxic damage.
This preacher was right about a lot of points regarding divorce and marriage, but I cannot recommend this sermon for one reason: he indicated that you can lose your salvation if you divorce and later remarry for a reason deemed inappropriate by God. I know of only one unpardonable sin, and divorce is not it - nor is a subsequent remarriage. That kind of talk has no place in any sound teaching on the Word of God. If our eternal security were so fragile that we could lose it for getting a divorce, then Jesus died for nothing. He also erred when he claimed that only grounds that are explicitly named in Scripture are valid - this is an argument from silence. The truth is that there is no exhaustive list of valid grounds for divorce in Scripture. The overall tone in Scripture indicates that divorce was intended as a remedy in the event of some serious sin that render the marriage unviable. I offer no defense to someone who would abuse divorce for some selfish or trivial cause. If you are conjuring up some lame pretext to dump a faithful spouse, God will know. You can't fool God.
Thanks to u and praised God thanks for explaining this to me and to us i am divorce and the the word give me chills but thanks once again in Jesus Name amen
Thank you Pasto for preaching God's unadulterated word. By following your teachings on you tube ,I have found my way back to God . May God keep and bless you and your family.I faced many dark times in my live ,but God always gave me a way of escape .God bless your ministry.
This topic needs to be discuss and address to singles who want to be married to avoid having a lack of knowledge of what they are/ will get into. Marriage is ordained by God, a covenant between God, Man and his wife...until death. Divorce was NEVER of God, but it was permitted to Moses under the MOsaic law due to the hardness of man's heart. People who are on their 2nd marriage finds scripture or should I say twist scripture to satisfy their flesh so they dont feel guilty of committing adultery. Jesus clearly tells us about divorce and adultery in Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:10-11. Fast, pray and read God's word for yourself to get a response from God on what to do. He'll speak to you.
I need prayers and wisdom, I found out that my marriage is not Biblical and I have been living in adultery for over 30 years. You see I grew up in a strict Christian family and my wife was my first because I was taught that there's only one person out there for me and in time God will bring us together...that was mistake #1. It was love at first sight, but when I found out she has been divorced my heart broke. But after talking to several pastors from different denominations they all agreed that it was okay to marry her because she was abandoned by her first husband. So I thought I was doing everything right; we even had premarital counseling and after they listen to her story about her divorce, they agreed with her and determined that since he abandoned her she was free to remarry...Mistake #2, I should have asked for Biblical proof, because there is none. Right after our honeymoon I realized that she was changing, the lovebombing turned into rejection, manipulation and discard. But I hanged in there through the worst and just when I was about to throw in the towel, she would love bomb again riling me back in. So to make the story short, somehow we had 3 children and then she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Her psychiatrist warned me that there's also a manipulation behavior there hiding behind the bipolar, and advised me to leave because he said; "You need to take the children and leave, the stress can and will kill you, your children need a father not a hero, and this behavior can be passed on to the children!'' ...mistake #3, I didn't listen, I said that my faith doesn't permits divorce, and my God can and will heal any illness. But the healing didn't happen, it got worse and over the years I ended up I the emergency room several times with severe chest pains...and the doctors said that it was stress related. But I still didn't give up, I kept praying, and as the years went on I realized that my youngest daughter was developing similar narcissistic behaviors. Then I ran into a friend who knew her ex very well and what he said stunned me. I further investigated it and realized that the real reason her ex left her was obvious... he didn't leave, he was forced out of marriage by her behavior. So we went to Christian counseling and I confronted her, but she denied it and was able to get the consoler on her side. Looking back at my life I realized that I have been tricked to live in adultery for over 30 years and that is the reason my prayers were not answered... What do I do now, how do I fix this? I can't continue like this, now that I know, I don't want to go to hell...
My heart goes out to you and Im sorry that noone has responded to you. Find the most Biblically based pastor in real life and go and talk to them. I know whats its like to have this very troubling question on your heart.
You were not in adultery but you were tricked. God understands. Please stop beating yourself up. You and your kids needs to be safe and your wife needs real help.
First, are you under the blood of Christ. Have you asked forgiveness for any error you made? Then why are you accusing yourself of adultry? Don’t you believe that he died for our sins. Are these pastors suggesting that men and women who made mistakes early on can fix that by divorcing their current wives, husbands and children. So we fix divorce by divorcing. What really bothers me is that this pastor is ignoring the laws of Israel at the time. My husband (now dead) was transvestite. While dressed as a woman, he raped my 9 year old daughter. At the time of Jesus, he would have been taken outside the gates and stoned. That would have left the innocent party (me..I did not know about his perversion before marriage) free. But according to this man’s teaching, even though it would not have been that way in Jesus’s day, I would have to live alone the rest of my life. I guess since he raped my daughter you could say he was unfaithful. I have also read scholars who said that spousal abuse was a cause for divorce being granted in Israel, even to women. I’ll bet you abandonment was covered also under Jewish law because dowries were given. It is hard to believe that one sentence could possibly cover the whole complicated matter of marriage and divorce.
This teaching is in error. You cannot divorce and remarry UNLESS your covenant spouse is dead. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”
I just went through another divorce. My husband left me for a man. This was extremely painful and I am still healing. This has been just over 2 years. Almost 3 year since I found out what was going on. I thought he was my forever.
Well if your first spouse wasn´t a divorcee and he is still alive, that is your covenant spouse. No divorce can dissolve a one flesh union; only death does that.
@@senderoestrecho9142 Did you not hear what the preacher just said? You have no idea what happened that lead to divorce of her first husband. It could have been one of the three reasons for divorce mentioned. In which cases she is no longer bound to her first husband or her second.
@@Dustandfuzz Did you not hear what Jesus Christ said? "he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery". There are no legal grounds to get remarried. Just because you can separate does not mean that person is no longer your spouse, in God's eyes. The word "bound" is either "deo" or "dooleo" in the Greek. One means "enslaved" and the other means "tied/joined." So you are not enslaved if your unbelieving spouse departs, that´s why you can let them depart. But you are still joined to them in God's eyes and CANNOT remarry unless you become widowed. God joins together in one flesh a man and a woman and they are tied in God's eyes until one of them dies, as per the scripture "a woman is bound by the law of her husband until death". So I don´t need to know the reason for the divorce. That´s what the Pharisees were trying to explain to Jesus and He wasn´t having it and took them back to the beginning, Genesis.
I am recently separated from my wife. It's my fault that we are. She may take me back someday or she may not. I am learning some things about myself that I only recently discovered. I am willing to remain unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life if reconciliation is not achieved! Everyone is so afraid of the word celibacy. It is not a death sentence. I have lived most of my life single and celibate. I was married, but I may have to go back to the way I lived prior to marriage. If so God is good! I will be alright!
If you were not divorced because she committed fornication before you married her then she is still bound to you by law. The commandment for women are different from commandments of men
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
This was so so good and informative. It definitely helps me to navigate the break down in my marriage better. I’m grateful to God for you and this message
I am sorry your marriage is having problems, but he's wrong that there are grounds for divorce that allow remarriage. Only death ends a covenant marriage.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysA man got married to a woman and after about a year the wife absconded. She never came back but got another and started bearing children. Sometimes back Ii heard her call the new man her husband. It is now over 20 years, is the first husband permitted to remarry since it has become apparent that his wife has left him and moved in with her life with a new husband and children?
any sex, out of the marriage bond is....sexual immorality, so to use that interpretation makes both fornication and adultery equal....so why two terms.....something is amiss here....once that covenant has been established....fornication, is no longer an acceptable reason, for divorce...because sex, out of the marriage covenant, is adultery....
Exactly he explained it that way. Then used matthew 19 9 as an exception. Typical. Corinthians doesn't add another exception or it would counterdict jesus. And Paul is not jesus. The word for marital bind is deo meaning bonded. The word Duolo which I don't know how to spell. But it means enslaved. That was the word used in corinthians.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
@@philipbuckley759if you seek repentance and the Lord’s help and guidance then he can turn any relationship round. The Lord performs miracles. ‘And the LORD said unto Moses, Is the LORD'S hand waxed short?‘ Numbers 11:23 (KJV)
Yes, all sins can be forgiven; that is if one truly repents. Divorce is one aspect. Remarriage after divorce needs more clarification, though, since Scripture clearly points towards remaining single; should reconciliation not prove possible. Had the unconverted remarried, and is therefore living in a state of habitual adultery; it makes no sense for God to allow for this sin to continue after conversion.
When I see the headlines of this teachings I know God is speaking directly to me in this teaching it's such an on time topic I appreciate your on time teachings Always Evangelist Tiff I'm sure glad for you and your ministry Blessings 🙌 🙏
Matthew 19:3 NIV [3] Some Pharisees came to him TO TEST him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” This man is so wrong on all levels concerning the topic ONLY a heart that is evil will consider divorce.
"What Does The Bible Say About Divorce & Remarriage?" Wow kind Sir. The bible only takes 7 verses; to let us know what Jesus (who IS God) meant in no "uncertain terms"; when it comes to "Divorce"...and one more verse for "Remarriage". Deuteronomy 24:1 and Mathews 19:3-8 (7). Where Moses took it upon himself to disobey Jesus' Commandments. But when Jesus was on this earth He made it "crystal clear"; that Moses was DEAD wrong. And proving that "God did NOT inspire every word in the bible!" (So Strike 2 Timothy 3:16)* And Jesus gave ONLY one exception... In Mathew 19:9 Jesus also makes it clear that: IF "wife" commits adultery; her husband CAN divorce her. And IF she marries again, "that" husband has committed adultery too. Wow! Remember, that in those days; NO woman was ever allowed to divorce her husband. I believe this harsh punishment was just; because of Genesis 3:16. Where Jesus made it crystal clear that; the wife MUST direct her "desires" only for her husband. AND...He must "rule over her". Of course today; 90% of the world would blast Jesus for that (from here to eternity!). Or they believe that Jesus "changed" every thing, when He was here. That is pure "Hogwash". A wife was never intended; to be allowed divorcing her husband. Believe it or not. Thus Marriage was not designed for 50/50. Why? Two captains can NOT drive a ship! And since the husband has the "Wisdom and build fact on fact"; where the wife is "whim and emotion"; He must rule over her. OK...I am putting on my "Flame Jacket". Cuz the whole world will want to "tar and feather" me from here to eternity. Be that, I stand on it...So help me Jesus... ...In any case kind Sir and Brethren, Please Pray OFTEN and Praise Jesus OFTEN; for He is the ONLY true "God Almighty"; there will ever have been. And may Jesus bless you and yours always. AMEN! * I love St Paul and I think he is THE greatest "Gospel" messenger there will ever have been. But he made mistakes. Oh yes he did. So did all others too. Believe it or not. One more example: Mathew 1:1 vs John 8:58 and Mathew 22:41-45. There are many more too. Sad, but true.
@@curiouscat9204 in verse 15, there usually is a mistranslation.....surprised....of bound, rather that the proper translation under bondage....that is the answer to your question...
I left my wife and staying with another woman now. Because my wife was always doubtful and abusive. Now I realised that I shouldn't have done that. But its too late now... Can I be forgiven? Please pray for me.. I don't want to be abandoned by my heavenly Father...
It seems at the end of this message there's a deviation from Scripture. After the unconverted had been sinfully living in adultery by remarrying after divorce; certainly God would not deem it righteous for them to persist in this sinful, adulterous lifestyle after their conversion?
Marriage is a covenant relationship, one man & one woman until death parts, the exception clause in Matthew is fornication, not adultery or all sexual immorality as some translations read. It is speaking about a betrothal divorce. Only the Jews had this marriage law. Mary & Joseph were considered husband & wife before the marriage was legal. but were only betrothed.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No. Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
I receive your prayers. I would like to be remarried one day, but, I have decided not to seek marriage but rather allow God to build the house. I made poor choices in the past and I have no doubt I would again make another poor decision.
Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
God will decide if he wants you remarried. I did the same, left it with God and he must want me to remain single because no one has ever bothered with me. I’m ok with it although it’s hard to go through life without someone. He knew I could never fully trust anyone again. I was used, neglected and finally abandoned. God knew me better than I knew myself.
@@senderoestrecho9142 A woman who has a husband is married. A woman who does not have a husband is not married. A marriage can be broken by sexual immorality by the other spouse or by desertion by an unbelieving spouse. Therefore, though divorce is not God's preference, it does exist and the Bible gives three reasons in which it can happen: death of the other spouse, adultery by the other spouse, desertion by the unbelieving spouse.
@@erwinbrubacker7488. The word is porneia which means more than fornication. In fact when Esau sold his birthright for soup, that was porneia. In the OT
Salomon had 1000's of wives. Jacob had 2 wives and their 2 slaves . Jacob got Lea to his bed to get her as a wife...Yes. It was always--- Not perfect. Thank you for your teaching.
The third point is your own opinion. Some wife does not respect her husband even the husband telling the right things till to the point the husband lost his control. That's why in the bible asked wifes to respect husband ( for the right things ).
Solid message. I respect that about you - that you’re an uncompromising AND loving teacher of the LORD’s Word. Extremely grateful that GOD put you in my path. Blessings to you and yours.
I am telling you that it is not Bibical to have a Divorce. Romans 7:1-4 , Mark 10:11, Matthew 19: 9 King James Bible tells us . And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
When a Christian person is free to remarry after Biblical divorce or death of spouse enters a marriage of a umbilical divorce this is adultery. Once understand this is adultery and isn't an acceptable in God's definition of marriage, would they repent and separate legally by divorce? Base on your reference to rapture they would miss heaven. Do you believe they couldn't have been saved if they enter into this marriage? That there repentance is there real conversion.
So, if divorce and remarriage takes place during a time of a back sliddened condition of the one who was a believer , there remains no heavenly eternity for that one remarried , even after they came back to Christ years later after the remarriage ? No forgiveness after coming back to the Lord ? My second husband passed away 3 years ago . I once again repented of the sin of remarriage . You're saying there is no forgiveness for me ?
🎉Matthew 19:9 (KJV) And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
What happened to the woman that Jesus spoke to at the well? Didn't he offer her forgiveness even though she had been married multiple times? Isn't that the whole point of the story?
I think you need to add narcissist as a reason for marriage release. This includes covert control, manipulation, constant criticism and undermining, psychological abuse gas lighting and dog whistling and making their partner feel they are going mentally insane. It’s much worse than physical violence. It seems to be an epidemic in Todays society. Most of these men or women will never marry again anyhow as all trust is broken and it can take many years to recover
If you are remarried and your spouse is still alive you must forsake your new marriage and remain unmarried or reconcile to your first spouse. Please quit lying to these people.
One question i dont think was covered in this teaching.... When people are divorced outside of what God allows and they hsve a remarriage that is considered adultey, would repentance require resolving that marriage?
This guy is not doing it right. Hes teaching to people that don't read the bible. When i firstread about this topic i had to discern between porneia and mocheia. Fornication and adultery. They are different words not synonyms. And abandonment is not another exception. Jesus gave one exception. So paul would counterdict jesus by adding to that. And abuse is a reasn for seperation but iys a time to pray and try to reconcile. I have been abused. As a man. Broken nose and strangulation. Etc. I still live my wife even though shrs now commiting adultery. And has abandoned me. I still want reconciliation. I want my marriage and myself to be pleasing to god. Please everything listen to david pawson on the topic read the bible and some books. Lets save covenant marriage and not destroy them like this mans teachings do
Wrong. Porneia is different than mocheia. Why would jesus use two different words? Why not say rxcept for adultery. It means a wide range of sex sin. Bastiality in married would be adultery sex with another adulery homosexuality adultety.
Sexual unfaithfulness is the only reason for divorce according to Jesus, everything else only falls under the excuses people make, leaving the spouse is not a sin, remarriage is the sin, it's so funny how people think when they get married, OH God brought us together, then years later decide it wasn't God after all, then move on to another one claiming the same thing, OH God brought us together, seems to me someone is confused, if you want to get to the root of the problem, blame getting married in the first place for it, wasn't it you that said you would love that person for richer or poorer, sickness or health, good times or bad times until death do you part? Lord, I changed my mind, he or she changed, their not the person I married when we got married, no one is and what you feel at the time you get married doesn't last, no one's feelings last in that respect, the bible clearly says, IF you make a vow to God and you don't perform it, He will call it sin in you, which is why Jesus said don't make any vows to God because you know not what tomorrow will bring, should we not reap what we sew? If it's that bad, leave the person, who knows, doing so just might make that person think, more than likely it will once their hormones kick in and love brings them back together to try again, that's only going to work on two people that know they can't have someone else though, the cheater will soon get exposed, however, that won't work either except on the wife because it's only her that's bound by law, why is that? why not the man too? just who's law is it anyway, certainly not Moses law nor any ancient governing law, none that ever existed in history anyway, a religious law no doubt but who's? Jesus law? possibly, since He said it would be adultery to divorce and remarry for any excuse other than sexual unfaithfulness, you can't say it's not sin when Jesus said it was sin, remarriage, not leaving, in law, man's law, you can get a divorce for any reason, simple incompatibility is enough, kind of like Moses law, just any reason, finding someone that will give you an excuse for divorce is not hard, especially in religion, all they need to see is the person getting divorced doesn't believe as they do, that makes that person a unbeliever, now mix that with all the different churches and all the different beliefs and what have you got? a matter of finding a church that agrees with you is all, causing the law to become a useless matter which God said, Don't use His name for a vain=useless purpose or Don't take=use His name in vain, as you would read it, sure, someone is going to suffer, but is it for righteousness sake? Leaving an abusive husband is not unrighteousness nor is kicking out a woman that refuses to submit and continually argues with you unrighteousness, it's a necessary evil, just like war, but the outcome should bring peace, long story short though, I wouldn't trust anyone when it could mean the outcome of my salvation, it's just to easy to find people that justify sin these days
God bless. I want to acknowledge how well you explain this topic, the best thing of all is that it is all through the Bible, not man understanding and knowledge. I saved it for a blessing to other believers to hear. I am Hispanic but dominate the English language. I was wondering if any of your teachings or sermon are translated into Spanish. I would like to share for Hispanic believers. God bless and May God continue to use you to reach others with the truth.
His teaching is in error. I have checked the Spanish translations too, and only "fornication" during the JEWISH betrothal permits divorce and then the fornicating wife was put to death. Fornication is premarital sex, not adultery.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysfornication actual refers to two people that are not married and are engaging in sexual activity. This means either pre marital or one person is married and the other is not
Thank you for the lesson i was married to a man who was abusive and he wanted to kick me out so we separated. And then he wanted the divorce. So he gave me the divorce. I got remarried a year after our divorce.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
If a husband tells you he no longer wants you to live with him and he is a believer…then is it considered abandonment/desertion? I think it is according to what I heard said around the 52-54 minute marker.
one can separate or divorce, but the options are to reconcile or to remain single....do not fall for this false teaching.....because many will be lost on judgement day and will not know it, until it is too late...
@@curiouscat9204 You are so right when you said that marriage is a lifetime covenant relationship entered in willingly between one man and one woman. The Bible bears this out by saying that only death (not adultery, abandonment, abuse, divorce, or anything else) ends the marriage covenant (Romans 7:2-3 & 1 Corinthians 7:39). That is why divorce of a covenant marriage is not allowed under any circumstance.
You are admiring false teaching regarding divorce and remarriage. Read the following scriptures: “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” A person can only remarry if the covenant spouse is dead. If you divorce and remarry while your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery. Please study the Bible yourself so that you will know the truth.
My first marriage of 13 yrs my husband cheated multiple times I tried to work this out but after the 12th woman he had been with, divorce was filed. Now I understand the sexual immorality , but what about the abstinence of sex in a marriage. When one person has absolutely no desire for sex with anyone?
Tiffy, Tiffy, let people know that just because they are watching a recording, God still here's the recording and your prayers. It is still in real time with God.
Thank you brother Tiff ..I was so looking for an answer for my brother..i asked the Holy Spirit to give me a definite answer to my question.....the last few minutes you spoke was definitely for my brother ...my brother an unbeliever who was married to a believer gets divorced and after three years he becomes a believer....how you said becoming a new creation is so true and literal....God does not lie...what He says he does...Thank you Bro Tiff ..God bless you to speak the word of the Lord to millions...
This teaching is so vital to know and to understand, thank you Brother Tiff. This gave me a better understanding on the subject. Not many churches teaches this stuff anymore, very sad.
They don't want to offend anyone because so many of us have been divorced. But, they should teach in it. We need to have the truth taught.
@@anitatomlinson9610 with utube we have more access to these types, of teachings.....
Can I PLEASE watch this video with a stupid ad popping up every 40 seconds
I was married to a very abusive psychopathic husband who tried multiple times to kill me, my mother and my child multiple times. He was found to have severe mental illness. The law advised me I had to leave him or we would all die. I had to leave him to save my life and my families life. I don’t think God wanted me to stay in that situation. I later found a wonderful husband who also came from a very abusive situation where his ex wife would beat him daily and would torment him emotionally, mentally and physically. He turned out to be the love of my life. A wonderful kind and very gentle soul. He just passed away from Covid and I am so heartbroken. My first abusive husband has passed away as well. I am now a widow 😭
I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one particularly a spouse is very hard.May God now watch over you and keep you. God Bless you and your family.🦋💒
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
I'm sorry for your loss, you are blessed to have found a love that you can always keep in your heart ❤️
Matt 12:30-31”31:Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
32:And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come.
Know this according to his Word. We have all fallen short of the glory of God! We must realize that even Christians we have made mistakes, backslid, not to have excuses for what we have done wrong, or to make excuses, but God knows the heart we don’t even know our own heart he said the heart is desperately wicked! If your living in a marriage where both parties, have been in and adulterous relationship, and You both have repented , Do you not believe God will forgive or can? All anyone can do is totally rely on the Grace of God, when you have confessed that sin of Adultery and ask for forgiveness , then there is nothing left to do except Trust God, and just have to leave in his hands!
Where sin abound Grace abound much more.. Marriage and Divorce is Very very serious. As the Minister says and yes God Hates Divorce, yet he hates all sin. But you have to repent is to turn away form that life style and have a change of Mind and heart about it….there is hope for the sinner and it’s only by forgiveness of sin that we can be restored Back to the right relation with God! And it’s only found in the atoning work of Christ on the Cross. Without his forgiveness there is no remission of sin! Today if you have made those mistakes or maybe your in this situation today ask God For his forgiveness and mean it and then put your faith and trust in him….and his Mercy..don’t continue to divorce and remarry. It’s Jesus’s Blood that cleanses us from all sin! Acknowledge the sin , and be sincere when repenting and depending On Christ to take care of the rest……once you have truly repented. Then continue to believe God for that cleansing! He has taken care of it on the Cross ! He who practices righteousness is righteous! And Jesus is our righteousness!
Thank you!
what about living in sin.....
I've listened to your services numerous times, and have learned quite a bit. What does the bible say about scientific research on the body? Thank you for your preaching
Thank you. I married a divorced woman. My spouse went on to heaven before I remarried. She left her husband because of blatant emotional abuse. I never heard it explained this way. Thank you.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Man this just leaves me with so many questions I wish I could talk to this guy
I am aware of the complexities. I certainly can’t do an exhaustive study in one setting. Send your questions to info@lostlamb.org. and I will address them asap.
There are no complexities in the scriptures regarding divorce and remarriage. Jesus made is plain and simple.
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
These are the words of Jesus. You either believe them or you don't. DO NOT BE DECEIVED!
@@TiffShuttlesworth Please stop leading people to hell.
Same here. I feel like I'm doomed to hell now and I feel like giving up. I was unfaithful. My husband divorced me. I thought I was saved. I married again. I have been so much closer to God in this marriage. We pray together and discuss biblical teachings. We consider ourselves saved. Now I'm left feeling that no matter if I confessed my sin of adultery to God and asked forgiveness I'm still not going to heaven. I'm heartbroken. Please help me understand why God cannot forgive me.
@@barbaramiller1412I have the same story as you. Did we sin, YES. Is it forgivable? YES! You are not doomed to hell if you have accepted Christ as your Savior and repented of your sins. Praise God that our sins are covered in the blood of Jesus. Your first marriage is over and you can’t go back. repent and know that you are forgiven and loved by God. Go forward and honor God in the marriage you have now. Much love to you Sister in Christ🙏🏻💜
Thank you again
Great lesson. Full of reason. But there are as many different teachings on divorce and remarriage as there are people who teach. Some are very frightening and some very permissive. The scary ones are without mercy stating that leaving the second marriage and remaining celibate is the only thing to do. And others are figuratively a free for all. What if I get it wrong and believe the wrong guy. Now I'm under God's wrath. How can you know?
Do you believe what Christ Jesus accomplished for you on the cross? He died for the forgiveness of ALL SIN and rose again. Those who believe this truth have been transferred out of Adam (sin), baptized into Christ (righteousness) and are JUSTIFIED by His blood.
We’ve died to the law by the body of Christ so that we can be married to another, even to Him who is raised from the dead.
@@krissyyoung9264wake up we still cant continue in sin. Period.
Read the Bible. Do some research on poneia and mocheia.
@@grant2149
‘If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.’
1 John 1:9
Adultery is grounds for divorce but it's up to the betrayed spouse to decide to work things out. Also if the spouse ia trying to kill the other spouse obviously I don't think God would want that. So separation in that case is obviously okay. And if needed divorce.
I do not doubt any thing in this teaching. My first marriage fell under both biblical reasons, my second did not. Since that divorce he has fallen into immorality. So biblically this relationship cannot be reconciled? Also could you give me a verse on if one person in a marriage stops sexual intercourse and they are still married. Please?
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
If the person is considered in adultery. Why won't they go to heaven when Jesus comes. What about confession and once saved always saved
Honey if you read in the Bible of somethings that you don't sometimes understand, is when you have took the lord into your heart and what's to keep him ,that's were you never want to get rid of him because of the love that was put into it. If you throw him away you are asking for the devil to come into your heart because you do not have the love that you bestowed to anymore. When you get married it is the same you are getting love put into you heart and it is NOT to be took away until that women or man dies . The love has to stay into your hearts together or you have thrower the loved out into the garbage can, and can not have the love that you should have in your heart right because the lord backs apart. Even if you marry 5 times more you will not have the love in the marriage that should be in it because the 1st. Was not done if the one for the 1st. Marriage had died. Love is what keeps marriage with all things happiness,joy laughing wanting to never to be apart . Hate is what brakes the marriages apart so that you want to get rid of each other. Keep the love always because it's the devil that likes to brakes them apart. Just like you and the lord. 🎉 love you
Bro Tiff since listening to your message on divorce and remarriage I have been so troubled. Is there a way I can speak with you privately?
Thank you sir
I have been and my child is very upset not to have his daddy now Australia he say if there is sexual abuse as well
if what he says, is true......that if one is not in a legal marriage, then they are not married.....that would support the no remarriage side of this argument......because the ones in a remarriage, are not....legally married.....because divorce did not sever the covenant...
Can you please tell me what the Bible says about living with your partner?
Does anybody really need to tell you.? Sex outside of marriage is sin.
I believe Jesus gave only 1 ground for div. n remarriage. 1 cor 7 is silent on remarriage.
Those christians already div n remarried must live as BROTHER N SISTER. It's not easy but U can do it on the strength of the holy spirit.
Seek the holy spirit, hear him n obey him. He will give strength.
Because bible says he who divorces his wife n marries another, COMMITS adultery. Present tense. Once U know it's better to obey, than be living in adultery.
Many pastors advise couples wrongly on this subject. Don't know why.
Fast n pray, seek the holy spirit, n obey his voice. U will be surprised how the holy spirit works. HSpirit will teach, help n comfort, when U go to him, Jn 14. Thts why he is the comforter. PRAISE GOD
SEÑOR TIFF, I have been listening to your messages for a few months now, I thank the Lord for finding you… I feel lost with this teaching I’ve listened to it over & over & I still can’t find an answer to a few questions I have, I was divorced under biblical grounds, I re-married & got divorced again…. I need someone to talk to please….
Send your questions to me at info@lostlamb.org and I will answer them asap.
Amen 🙏
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3
Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Unless they Confess and Forsake: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
AMEN
Praise the LORD!@@holzmann-
I really don't Care.I love my 2nd wife,but I can't stand U PHAIRASEE WHO APPOINTED U.
I have listened to countless preachers. This man is the best!
False teaching.
Then why is there lines drawn through the words I post?
@@ericdubose9311 explain?
The words “not bound” in 1 Corinthians 7:15 are actually the Greek words “ou dedoulotai” which mean “not under bondage”. The root word for “dedoulotai” is Strong’s G1402 “douloo” which means to enslave; bring under subjection. Therefore to interpret “not under bondage” in v. 15 to mean that one can remarry would contradict the command that God had given in 1 Corinthians 7:11 which says that a wife must remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband if she leaves him and a husband is not to divorce his wife. The interpretation of “not under bondage” means if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse, the believing spouse is not under bondage or obligation to keep the marriage together. However, the believing spouse is not to drive the unbelieving spouse away.
Be at peace
God hates divorce!
Yes, but he also forgives it too. Jesus makes all things new!
‘Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ 2 Corinthians 5:17
God hates sending away.
God himself is a divocee He have Israel a certificate of divorce AND sent her away. But he did not divorce her sister Judah. So wait. Did God just describe himself as having more than one wife 🤔
Its hard when your alone in life:(
Take solace my brother in knowing that one wrong or quick decision to marry a wrong person which can lead you to feel alone in a marriage 😕
Tiff, I'm struggling to keep up with all your messages. Lol
Your a warrior for the Lord 👍
My name is Anne and I need your prayers . My prayer is that God will change my husband .
Because I prayed for my husband to change but it was useless,he loved his mother's money and house and a woman that lived close to his mother.
Anne maybe you should pray for God to change yourself
I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was manipulated by an older woman who was a professional con artist. After she got pregnant, I stayed in a horribly unhappy marriage for ten years. She eventually left me and took the kids. The moment she left, a huge black cloud left with her. I decided to file for divorce. I eventually married a beautiful lady who cannot be bettered; we’ve been together 20 years. The Lord told me years after I divorced the first wife, that she wasn’t truly saved; we were unequally yoked. That explains a lot that happened. I honestly believe He put it in her heart to leave me so I had a fighting chance at a proper life.
Looking backwards, I realize she was likely cheating on me at various times as well.
she was probably.....that is thin ice.....and as adultery is not a Biblical reason, for divorce and remarriage....it is likely that you, too have been fooled by this speaker and are living in adultery....
If your first marriage was to a woman who had never been married, then she is your covenant wife. If after you divorced her and married another woman and your covenant wife is still alive, then you are in adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
Anyone who does not repent and forsake an adulterous marriage will go to hell. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21)." Please believe the Bible. Your eternal life depends on it.
@Janet HickeyMark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18, which also discuss what Jesus said about divorce and remarriage, do not have the clause "except for fornication." These two books were written to a Gentile audience. Because the book of Matthew is written to a Jewish audience, and does contain the clause, "except for fornication", you need to study the Jewish marriage customs during that time to understand why this clause is included.
You will find that the Jews recognized two types of husbands and wives. They had a married husband and a married wife and a betrothed (or espoused) husband and a betrothed (or espoused) wife. A betrothed couple is similar to a couple that we say are engaged to be married. However, a betrothal was a legally binding "engagement to be married". It could only be broken if the betrothed wife committed fornication (sexual relations outside of marriage) with another man. She was to remain a virgin until her marriage to her betrothed husband. If she was found to have committed fornication, her betrothed husband could break the betrothal only through a divorce. This means that the Jewish culture had two types of divorce, one from a betrothal and one from a marriage.
You can verify this in the Bible in Matthew 1:18-25 where Joseph was referred to as Mary's husband and Mary was referred to as Joseph's wife when they were only betrothed and not married. In these scriptures, Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary because he thought she had committed fornication when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus. So, the "except for fornication" clause in Matthew 19:9 meant that Jesus was only allowing a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage.
Jesus did not have an exception clause for the Gentiles because they did not practice betrothal in their marriage customs.
When people use their own cultural norms to interpret scriptures, they can often misinterpret them. I hope this helps your understanding.
@@eruiz1180 Haven’t you read in Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 19:9 and Luke 16:18 where Jesus said that any marriage to another that happens after the divorce is adultery. It is adultery. It is not a marriage.
Adultery will land anyone in hell if they do not repent and forsake the adultery (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Galatians 5:19-21).
Only the death of a covenant spouse frees the surviving spouse from the marriage allowing him or her to get married again (1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:2-3).
@@godgavemeeyestosee
Amen! Amen!
this represents the reformation Church....which is a false teaching....on both grounds.....fornication, is not adultery, and not being under bondage has nothing to do, with the marriage bond.....so no worries, here, if you want a divorce and remarriage, and sanctioned, by some religious type.....give this one a visit....he will....work it out, for you....I wonder how many will loose their salvation, due to this false teaching...
Bro Tiff, I was married to my husband for almost 48 yrs before he went to his Heavenly home almost 2 yrs ago. Some days we DID NOT LIKE. EACH OTHER but. We ALWAYS AND FOR EVER LOVED EACH OTHER. I was so blessed with a CHRISTIAN husband
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You are all Lucky to be.married
Thats when you pray and be together its better stronger together
So if God wants you to marry than you.would marry from Australia?
😢nice uh
My beloved husband and I were married for 52 years before he was transported to heaven.
Our marriage was abundantly blessed because right from the beginning we decided to invite the Holy Spirit to be the third person in our marriage. All glory to our Heavenly Father. 🙏
Not sound teaching just like most big ministries though he is a pre-Trib rapture believer like me. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
I dont get it. Forst he starts by explaining fornication and adultery gaily accurately. Than goes way off further in. Adultery covers all the srxual sins in marriage from beastiallity to homosexualty. Fornication does to. Beastiality to homosecmxuality half truths are the enemys favorite tools.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Question . Since my second husband has passed away ( now 3 years ago) but my first husband does not want to reconcile, just remain friends ( We are not living together) and I have repented of all of this , where does this put me in eternity ?
@marshalynn2712 If you have repented of your sin, then go and sin no more- living single and holy. I just uploaded a testimony of a woman in her third marriage who has come to repentance if you want to check it out.
What do I do then? Is there no hope for me? Do i leave another marriage to not be in adultery? I am asking for answers. I repent of my failures. But i can't change them now.
Emontional, financial, verbal is abuse that is disolveable, narssastic abuse is deadly as well as physical you are not equally yolked and I don't think God would want you in that. I don't agree with you pastor that only physical abuse is your way out of a bad marriage, my ex devorced me after I left for the final time and once we were devorced the ink was barley dry he remarried,..she stayed less than a year. Still healing from his toxic damage.
There is only one unforgivable sin and it is not unscriptural divorce. It is the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit.
You can live a lifestyle of sin. Adulterous remarriage can lead you to hell. Repentance is required for salvation.
@@bradanderson4202you’re forgetting that breaking any of God’s law leads to Hell. Stop singling out divorce and remarriage.
@@ladypenelope99 wow, are you sure you know my Father? This does not sound like my loving Father at all.
This preacher was right about a lot of points regarding divorce and marriage, but I cannot recommend this sermon for one reason: he indicated that you can lose your salvation if you divorce and later remarry for a reason deemed inappropriate by God. I know of only one unpardonable sin, and divorce is not it - nor is a subsequent remarriage. That kind of talk has no place in any sound teaching on the Word of God. If our eternal security were so fragile that we could lose it for getting a divorce, then Jesus died for nothing.
He also erred when he claimed that only grounds that are explicitly named in Scripture are valid - this is an argument from silence. The truth is that there is no exhaustive list of valid grounds for divorce in Scripture. The overall tone in Scripture indicates that divorce was intended as a remedy in the event of some serious sin that render the marriage unviable. I offer no defense to someone who would abuse divorce for some selfish or trivial cause. If you are conjuring up some lame pretext to dump a faithful spouse, God will know. You can't fool God.
Thanks to u and praised God thanks for explaining this to me and to us i am divorce and the the word give me chills but thanks once again in Jesus Name amen
Thank you Pasto for preaching God's unadulterated word. By following your teachings on you tube ,I have found my way back to God . May God keep and bless you and your family.I faced many dark times in my live ,but God always gave me a way of escape .God bless your ministry.
This topic needs to be discuss and address to singles who want to be married to avoid having a lack of knowledge of what they are/ will get into. Marriage is ordained by God, a covenant between God, Man and his wife...until death. Divorce was NEVER of God, but it was permitted to Moses under the MOsaic law due to the hardness of man's heart. People who are on their 2nd marriage finds scripture or should I say twist scripture to satisfy their flesh so they dont feel guilty of committing adultery.
Jesus clearly tells us about divorce and adultery in Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:10-11.
Fast, pray and read God's word for yourself to get a response from God on what to do. He'll speak to you.
I need prayers and wisdom, I found out that my marriage is not Biblical and I have been living in adultery for over 30 years. You see I grew up in a strict Christian family and my wife was my first because I was taught that there's only one person out there for me and in time God will bring us together...that was mistake #1.
It was love at first sight, but when I found out she has been divorced my heart broke. But after talking to several pastors from different denominations they all agreed that it was okay to marry her because she was abandoned by her first husband.
So I thought I was doing everything right; we even had premarital counseling and after they listen to her story about her divorce, they agreed with her and determined that since he abandoned her she was free to remarry...Mistake #2, I should have asked for Biblical proof, because there is none.
Right after our honeymoon I realized that she was changing, the lovebombing turned into rejection, manipulation and discard. But I hanged in there through the worst and just when I was about to throw in the towel, she would love bomb again riling me back in. So to make the story short, somehow we had 3 children and then she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Her psychiatrist warned me that there's also a manipulation behavior there hiding behind the bipolar, and advised me to leave because he said; "You need to take the children and leave, the stress can and will kill you, your children need a father not a hero, and this behavior can be passed on to the children!'' ...mistake #3, I didn't listen, I said that my faith doesn't permits divorce, and my God can and will heal any illness.
But the healing didn't happen, it got worse and over the years I ended up I the emergency room several times with severe chest pains...and the doctors said that it was stress related.
But I still didn't give up, I kept praying, and as the years went on I realized that my youngest daughter was developing similar narcissistic behaviors. Then I ran into a friend who knew her ex very well and what he said stunned me. I further investigated it and realized that the real reason her ex left her was obvious... he didn't leave, he was forced out of marriage by her behavior. So we went to Christian counseling and I confronted her, but she denied it and was able to get the consoler on her side. Looking back at my life I realized that I have been tricked to live in adultery for over 30 years and that is the reason my prayers were not answered... What do I do now, how do I fix this? I can't continue like this, now that I know, I don't want to go to hell...
My heart goes out to you and Im sorry that noone has responded to you. Find the most Biblically based pastor in real life and go and talk to them. I know whats its like to have this very troubling question on your heart.
1 John 1:9
Pray and hear directly from the Holy Spirit to know the right steps to take.
You were not in adultery but you were tricked. God understands. Please stop beating yourself up. You and your kids needs to be safe and your wife needs real help.
First, are you under the blood of Christ. Have you asked forgiveness for any error you made? Then why are you accusing yourself of adultry? Don’t you believe that he died for our sins. Are these pastors suggesting that men and women who made mistakes early on can fix that by divorcing their current wives, husbands and children. So we fix divorce by divorcing.
What really bothers me is that this pastor is ignoring the laws of Israel at the time. My husband (now dead) was transvestite. While dressed as a woman, he raped my 9 year old daughter. At the time of Jesus, he would have been taken outside the gates and stoned. That would have left the innocent party (me..I did not know about his perversion before marriage) free. But according to this man’s teaching, even though it would not have been that way in Jesus’s day, I would have to live alone the rest of my life. I guess since he raped my daughter you could say he was unfaithful. I have also read scholars who said that spousal abuse was a cause for divorce being granted in Israel, even to women. I’ll bet you abandonment was covered also under Jewish law because dowries were given. It is hard to believe that one sentence could possibly cover the whole complicated matter of marriage and divorce.
This was such a thorough teaching. Done with love and honor. Thank you.
This teaching is in error. You cannot divorce and remarry UNLESS your covenant spouse is dead. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”
It definitely is in error!
Well if the Bible says you can’t divorce anyone we are all going to hell .
I just went through another divorce. My husband left me for a man. This was extremely painful and I am still healing. This has been just over 2 years. Almost 3 year since I found out what was going on. I thought he was my forever.
I just found you today.
Well if your first spouse wasn´t a divorcee and he is still alive, that is your covenant spouse. No divorce can dissolve a one flesh union; only death does that.
@@senderoestrecho9142 Did you not hear what the preacher just said? You have no idea what happened that lead to divorce of her first husband. It could have been one of the three reasons for divorce mentioned. In which cases she is no longer bound to her first husband or her second.
@@Dustandfuzz Did you not hear what Jesus Christ said? "he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery". There are no legal grounds to get remarried. Just because you can separate does not mean that person is no longer your spouse, in God's eyes. The word "bound" is either "deo" or "dooleo" in the Greek. One means "enslaved" and the other means "tied/joined." So you are not enslaved if your unbelieving spouse departs, that´s why you can let them depart. But you are still joined to them in God's eyes and CANNOT remarry unless you become widowed. God joins together in one flesh a man and a woman and they are tied in God's eyes until one of them dies, as per the scripture "a woman is bound by the law of her husband until death". So I don´t need to know the reason for the divorce. That´s what the Pharisees were trying to explain to Jesus and He wasn´t having it and took them back to the beginning, Genesis.
What did Jesus say about divorce? You will stand alone before Jesus on Judgement day.
I am recently separated from my wife. It's my fault that we are. She may take me back someday or she may not. I am learning some things about myself that I only recently discovered. I am willing to remain unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life if reconciliation is not achieved! Everyone is so afraid of the word celibacy. It is not a death sentence. I have lived most of my life single and celibate. I was married, but I may have to go back to the way I lived prior to marriage. If so God is good! I will be alright!
If you were not divorced because she committed fornication before you married her then she is still bound to you by law.
The commandment for women are different from commandments of men
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
How is it that King David had Bathsheba’s husband killed. He married her but the Bible says David was a man after God’s own heart?
This was so so good and informative. It definitely helps me to navigate the break down in my marriage better. I’m grateful to God for you and this message
I am sorry your marriage is having problems, but he's wrong that there are grounds for divorce that allow remarriage. Only death ends a covenant marriage.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways I wasn’t considering divorce. I am being obedient to Christ to stand for my marriage
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysA man got married to a woman and after about a year the wife absconded. She never came back but got another and started bearing children. Sometimes back Ii heard her call the new man her husband.
It is now over 20 years, is the first husband permitted to remarry since it has become apparent that his wife has left him and moved in with her life with a new husband and children?
any sex, out of the marriage bond is....sexual immorality, so to use that interpretation makes both fornication and adultery equal....so why two terms.....something is amiss here....once that covenant has been established....fornication, is no longer an acceptable reason, for divorce...because sex, out of the marriage covenant, is adultery....
Exactly he explained it that way. Then used matthew 19 9 as an exception. Typical. Corinthians doesn't add another exception or it would counterdict jesus. And Paul is not jesus. The word for marital bind is deo meaning bonded. The word Duolo which I don't know how to spell. But it means enslaved. That was the word used in corinthians.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness
do you confess and continue, in the sin.....does confession change adultery to a valid covenant relationship...
@@philipbuckley759if you seek repentance and the Lord’s help and guidance then he can turn any relationship round. The Lord performs miracles.
‘And the LORD said unto Moses, Is the LORD'S hand waxed short?‘ Numbers 11:23 (KJV)
The truth is God forgives divorce. Gods forgiveness, Gods Grace, and mercy will wash away every stain of divorce. Forgiven.
Amen 🙏🏻
Yes, all sins can be forgiven; that is if one truly repents. Divorce is one aspect. Remarriage after divorce needs more clarification, though, since Scripture clearly points towards remaining single; should reconciliation not prove possible.
Had the unconverted remarried, and is therefore living in a state of habitual adultery; it makes no sense for God to allow for this sin to continue after conversion.
When I see the headlines of this teachings I know God is speaking directly to me in this teaching it's such an on time topic
I appreciate your on time teachings Always Evangelist Tiff I'm sure glad for you and your ministry
Blessings 🙌 🙏
Matthew 19:3 NIV
[3] Some Pharisees came to him TO TEST him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”
This man is so wrong on all levels concerning the topic
ONLY a heart that is evil will consider divorce.
"What Does The Bible Say About Divorce & Remarriage?"
Wow kind Sir. The bible only takes 7 verses; to let us know what Jesus (who IS God) meant in no "uncertain terms"; when it comes to "Divorce"...and one more verse for "Remarriage".
Deuteronomy 24:1 and Mathews 19:3-8 (7). Where Moses took it upon himself to disobey Jesus' Commandments. But when Jesus was on this earth He made it "crystal clear"; that Moses was DEAD wrong. And proving that "God did NOT inspire every word in the bible!" (So Strike 2 Timothy 3:16)*
And Jesus gave ONLY one exception...
In Mathew 19:9 Jesus also makes it clear that: IF "wife" commits adultery; her husband CAN divorce her. And IF she marries again, "that" husband has committed adultery too. Wow!
Remember, that in those days; NO woman was ever allowed to divorce her husband. I believe this harsh punishment was just; because of Genesis 3:16. Where Jesus made it crystal clear that; the wife MUST direct her "desires" only for her husband. AND...He must "rule over her".
Of course today; 90% of the world would blast Jesus for that (from here to eternity!). Or they believe that Jesus "changed" every thing, when He was here. That is pure "Hogwash".
A wife was never intended; to be allowed divorcing her husband. Believe it or not. Thus Marriage was not designed for 50/50. Why? Two captains can NOT drive a ship! And since the husband has the "Wisdom and build fact on fact"; where the wife is "whim and emotion"; He must rule over her.
OK...I am putting on my "Flame Jacket". Cuz the whole world will want to "tar and feather" me from here to eternity. Be that, I stand on it...So help me Jesus...
...In any case kind Sir and Brethren, Please Pray OFTEN and Praise Jesus OFTEN; for He is the ONLY true "God Almighty"; there will ever have been. And may Jesus bless you and yours always. AMEN!
* I love St Paul and I think he is THE greatest "Gospel" messenger there will ever have been. But he made mistakes. Oh yes he did. So did all others too. Believe it or not. One more example: Mathew 1:1 vs John 8:58 and Mathew 22:41-45. There are many more too. Sad, but true.
adultery is not the exception, it is fornication......
desertion is not a Biblical ground for divorce....the term not under bondage, is not akin to not being being bound...
@@curiouscat9204 in verse 15, there usually is a mistranslation.....surprised....of bound, rather that the proper translation under bondage....that is the answer to your question...
I left my wife and staying with another woman now. Because my wife was always doubtful and abusive. Now I realised that I shouldn't have done that. But its too late now... Can I be forgiven? Please pray for me.. I don't want to be abandoned by my heavenly Father...
It seems at the end of this message there's a deviation from Scripture. After the unconverted had been sinfully living in adultery by remarrying after divorce; certainly God would not deem it righteous for them to persist in this sinful, adulterous lifestyle after their conversion?
Lord please forgive me for 3 divorces. You alone knows all the reasons. Thank you Lord for always being here for me ❤️ i love and worship you Lord 🙌
divorce is not the sin, remarriage is.....if you are not married to your original partner, and you are married, to someone else, that is adultery...
Marriage is a covenant relationship, one man & one woman until death parts, the exception clause in Matthew is fornication, not adultery or all sexual immorality as some translations read. It is speaking about a betrothal divorce.
Only the Jews had this marriage
law. Mary & Joseph were considered husband & wife
before the marriage was legal.
but were only betrothed.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
I receive your prayers. I would like to be remarried one day, but, I have decided not to seek marriage but rather allow God to build the house. I made poor choices in the past and I have no doubt I would again make another poor decision.
Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
God will decide if he wants you remarried. I did the same, left it with God and he must want me to remain single because no one has ever bothered with me. I’m ok with it although it’s hard to go through life without someone. He knew I could never fully trust anyone again. I was used, neglected and finally abandoned. God knew me better than I knew myself.
@@senderoestrecho9142 A woman who has a husband is married. A woman who does not have a husband is not married. A marriage can be broken by sexual immorality by the other spouse or by desertion by an unbelieving spouse. Therefore, though divorce is not God's preference, it does exist and the Bible gives three reasons in which it can happen: death of the other spouse, adultery by the other spouse, desertion by the unbelieving spouse.
@@Thomas116-m2nthe Bible doesnot teach divorce based on adultery, fornication yes, but not adultery.
@@erwinbrubacker7488. The word is porneia which means more than fornication. In fact when Esau sold his birthright for soup, that was porneia. In the OT
Thanks very much for what you you taught me through God's Holly Word...be forever blessed
Salomon had 1000's of wives. Jacob had 2 wives and their 2 slaves . Jacob got Lea to his bed to get her as a wife...Yes. It was always--- Not perfect. Thank you for your teaching.
WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN WHEN A BELIEVER SPOUSE DESERTS A BELIEVER SPOUSE without any biblical ground, no abuse whatsoever?
The third point is your own opinion. Some wife does not respect her husband even the husband telling the right things till to the point the husband lost his control. That's why in the bible asked wifes to respect husband ( for the right things ).
How can one say until death do we part then go on and repeat those same vows to another????
Also where in the Bible does it say remarriage is ok?
Solid message. I respect that about you - that you’re an uncompromising AND loving teacher of the LORD’s Word. Extremely grateful that GOD put you in my path. Blessings to you and yours.
Well you in the wrong path. This Man is a liar.
I am telling you that it is not Bibical to have a Divorce. Romans 7:1-4 , Mark 10:11, Matthew 19: 9
King James Bible tells us .
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
When a Christian person is free to remarry after Biblical divorce or death of spouse enters a marriage of a umbilical divorce this is adultery. Once understand this is adultery and isn't an acceptable in God's definition of marriage, would they repent and separate legally by divorce? Base on your reference to rapture they would miss heaven. Do you believe they couldn't have been saved if they enter into this marriage? That there repentance is there real conversion.
Thanks Tiff, I am in Africa and would very much love to hear your take on LGBTQ and same sex marriage.
God bless
So, if divorce and remarriage takes place during a time of a back sliddened condition of the one who was a believer , there remains no heavenly eternity for that one remarried , even after they came back to Christ years later after the remarriage ? No forgiveness after coming back to the Lord ? My second husband passed away 3 years ago . I once again repented of the sin of remarriage . You're saying there is no forgiveness for me ?
🎉Matthew 19:9 (KJV) And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
What happened to the woman that Jesus spoke to at the well? Didn't he offer her forgiveness even though she had been married multiple times? Isn't that the whole point of the story?
I think you need to add narcissist as a reason for marriage release. This includes covert control, manipulation, constant criticism and undermining, psychological abuse gas lighting and dog whistling and making their partner feel they are going mentally insane. It’s much worse than physical violence. It seems to be an epidemic in Todays society. Most of these men or women will never marry again anyhow as all trust is broken and it can take many years to recover
conversion is not a reason....no one is freed, from prison, on conversion....
Your not freed from prison if you murder, rape etc but you are forgiven
If you are remarried and your spouse is still alive you must forsake your new marriage and remain unmarried or reconcile to your first spouse. Please quit lying to these people.
One question i dont think was covered in this teaching.... When people are divorced outside of what God allows and they hsve a remarriage that is considered adultey, would repentance require resolving that marriage?
"The Bible"? THE Bible?!
Ya mean the KJV bible, or a corrupt bible, where any wicked deed goes, as long as shes not PRAAAAACTICING adultery?
This guy is not doing it right. Hes teaching to people that don't read the bible. When i firstread about this topic i had to discern between porneia and mocheia. Fornication and adultery. They are different words not synonyms. And abandonment is not another exception. Jesus gave one exception. So paul would counterdict jesus by adding to that. And abuse is a reasn for seperation but iys a time to pray and try to reconcile. I have been abused. As a man. Broken nose and strangulation. Etc. I still live my wife even though shrs now commiting adultery. And has abandoned me. I still want reconciliation. I want my marriage and myself to be pleasing to god. Please everything listen to david pawson on the topic read the bible and some books. Lets save covenant marriage and not destroy them like this mans teachings do
A Man shall leave his Father and Mother and take himself a Wife and bring up children in the Lord. That simple. None of this compatibility nonsense.
Wrong. Porneia is different than mocheia. Why would jesus use two different words? Why not say rxcept for adultery. It means a wide range of sex sin. Bastiality in married would be adultery sex with another adulery homosexuality adultety.
Sexual unfaithfulness is the only reason for divorce according to Jesus, everything else only falls under the excuses people make, leaving the spouse is not a sin, remarriage is the sin, it's so funny how people think when they get married, OH God brought us together, then years later decide it wasn't God after all, then move on to another one claiming the same thing, OH God brought us together, seems to me someone is confused, if you want to get to the root of the problem, blame getting married in the first place for it, wasn't it you that said you would love that person for richer or poorer, sickness or health, good times or bad times until death do you part? Lord, I changed my mind, he or she changed, their not the person I married when we got married, no one is and what you feel at the time you get married doesn't last, no one's feelings last in that respect, the bible clearly says, IF you make a vow to God and you don't perform it, He will call it sin in you, which is why Jesus said don't make any vows to God because you know not what tomorrow will bring, should we not reap what we sew? If it's that bad, leave the person, who knows, doing so just might make that person think, more than likely it will once their hormones kick in and love brings them back together to try again, that's only going to work on two people that know they can't have someone else though, the cheater will soon get exposed, however, that won't work either except on the wife because it's only her that's bound by law, why is that? why not the man too? just who's law is it anyway, certainly not Moses law nor any ancient governing law, none that ever existed in history anyway, a religious law no doubt but who's? Jesus law? possibly, since He said it would be adultery to divorce and remarry for any excuse other than sexual unfaithfulness, you can't say it's not sin when Jesus said it was sin, remarriage, not leaving, in law, man's law, you can get a divorce for any reason, simple incompatibility is enough, kind of like Moses law, just any reason, finding someone that will give you an excuse for divorce is not hard, especially in religion, all they need to see is the person getting divorced doesn't believe as they do, that makes that person a unbeliever, now mix that with all the different churches and all the different beliefs and what have you got? a matter of finding a church that agrees with you is all, causing the law to become a useless matter which God said, Don't use His name for a vain=useless purpose or Don't take=use His name in vain, as you would read it, sure, someone is going to suffer, but is it for righteousness sake? Leaving an abusive husband is not unrighteousness nor is kicking out a woman that refuses to submit and continually argues with you unrighteousness, it's a necessary evil, just like war, but the outcome should bring peace, long story short though, I wouldn't trust anyone when it could mean the outcome of my salvation, it's just to easy to find people that justify sin these days
God bless. I want to acknowledge how well you explain this topic, the best thing of all is that it is all through the Bible, not man understanding and knowledge. I saved it for a blessing to other believers to hear. I am Hispanic but dominate the English language. I was wondering if any of your teachings or sermon are translated into Spanish. I would like to share for Hispanic believers. God bless and May God continue to use you to reach others with the truth.
His teaching is in error. I have checked the Spanish translations too, and only "fornication" during the JEWISH betrothal permits divorce and then the fornicating wife was put to death. Fornication is premarital sex, not adultery.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysnot saying your wrong or right but betrothal is an engagement not a marrige
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysfornication actual refers to two people that are not married and are engaging in sexual activity. This means either pre marital or one person is married and the other is not
Can a divorced man marry another divorced woman even if their ex-spouses are still alive? Isn't this adultery?
Thank you for the lesson i was married to a man who was abusive and he wanted to kick me out so we separated. And then he wanted the divorce. So he gave me the divorce. I got remarried a year after our divorce.
Just a year after divorce? you must have been cheating on him 😅
@@otisisuluh4060shut your mouth! Where are your manners??!!
@@otisisuluh4060wow wasn't expecting creepy people to be here!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Thank you Lord Jesus, you forgiven me..
I believe if spouse is verbally abusing you can get divorced what if he/she yelling streams at you saying mean and native thing and controlling you
Lol what a joke are you a pharisee. No groundsfor divorce go study your bible.
If a husband tells you he no longer wants you to live with him and he is a believer…then is it considered abandonment/desertion? I think it is according to what I heard said around the 52-54 minute marker.
What does he say? Can you remarried? I can’t watch the whole video. It’s too long. I believe remarriage is a sin.
one can separate or divorce, but the options are to reconcile or to remain single....do not fall for this false teaching.....because many will be lost on judgement day and will not know it, until it is too late...
So what happens to the adulterer? Or the inbeliever? Can they remmmarry without being adulterous? Id say no. But no one goes into the minutiae
Billy Graham seems to have turned from the faith.....a sad commentary on someone that the world virtually worships...
would a same sex marriage be acceptable.....after all, at conversion, all sins are washed away.....
@@curiouscat9204 You are so right when you said that marriage is a lifetime covenant relationship entered in willingly between one man and one woman. The Bible bears this out by saying that only death (not adultery, abandonment, abuse, divorce, or anything else) ends the marriage covenant (Romans 7:2-3 & 1 Corinthians 7:39). That is why divorce of a covenant marriage is not allowed under any circumstance.
@@curiouscat9204 neither is adultery....
Wow is this even a real question 🤦🏼♀️
@@curiouscat9204 neither is adultery.....or bigamy....
@@curiouscat9204 neither is adultery....
I want you to know that you have had a huge impact on my life..I will be forever greatfull for your faithfulness to God's word
the sexual sin is fornication, not adultery, and desertion means one is not under bondage, but is not akin to not bound....two false teachings...
Jesus and The Holy Bible never said A Christian can not be remarried.
I pray that God will make you stop using the New translation bible. It is not the real words of God
I admire your teachings of the word of God -no more, no less.Thank You.
You are admiring false teaching regarding divorce and remarriage. Read the following scriptures:
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
“For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).”
A person can only remarry if the covenant spouse is dead. If you divorce and remarry while your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery.
Please study the Bible yourself so that you will know the truth.
I found you about 7 months ago and have learned so much listening to your teaching. Understanding a lot of the Bible so much better.
My first marriage of 13 yrs my husband cheated multiple times I tried to work this out but after the 12th woman he had been with, divorce was filed.
Now I understand the sexual immorality , but what about the abstinence of sex in a marriage. When one person has absolutely no desire for sex with anyone?
It is direct disobedience to withhold sexual intimacy in a marriage and a sin against God and the marriage covenant.
you are being defrauded, but the Bible does not allow for divorce and remarriage, in this type of condition....
@@philipbuckley759so the one being denied sex should stay celibate in the marriage and the one defrauding is free to live that way till death?
Thank you for preaching the word of God in our country and around the world
Tiffy, Tiffy, let people know that just because they are watching a recording, God still here's the recording and your prayers. It is still in real time with God.
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