How To Make Your Ex Regret Leaving You
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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In this video, Coach Lee discusses how you can make your ex regret leaving and breaking up with you.
If you want to make your ex regret dumping you and to want you back, Coach Lee explains some key things that you can do to accomplish that.
If you want to know how to make your ex regret losing you, Coach Lee explains what you must not do and some things to do to help cause that response and regret in your ex.
If you want to make your ex regret leaving you for someone else, Coach Lee explains why you must not chase and what you can do instead to cause your ex to wish they had stayed with you instead of leaving.
Coach Lee also talks about why you must not be bitter or angry in your response to seeing your ex or hearing from them if you really want to make them wish they had not broken up with you.
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I feel sorry for whoever breaks up with Coach Lee lmfao
He a legend
They would be screwed.
When aman dumps you never get back to them cos they will dump u again
@@bennaabashe4712 what about a woman
Yes
1. Don't chase them. (You're the prize)
2. Don't be angry or bitter. (be mature, polite, happy)
3. Self improve. Become a more attractive person. (physically, intellectually, emotionally)
Will this definitely work? My ex is treating me like rude shit .. What should I do?
@@sriramprarmy no definite s but this the right way
@@saulw6270 yeah thank you
@@saulw6270 You think this will work? Please bear my bulllshit coz I am broken
@@sriramprarmy Jesus , come on
After three months of no-contact I finally had enough and found someone even better than my Ex. She is more beautiful and caring, never been married, no children, she wants a child from me and we are finally engaged. How can I be so lucky! I love her so much.
@@andoryus I will take your advice. I will.
You're a lucky fella 😁
Wow very happy for you Richards hope I get lucky too...
She is the lucky one! Not you. You are the prize!
Im sorry Richard, its not like im not happy for that...but are you sure its not a rebound???
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If they want space give them space..if they want time give them time to think..let them rome..don't beg don't cry.. focus on yourself.. nothing is permanent..time heals everything..
Truth
Draw close to Jesus because eternity is permanent:) A relationship with God is the best one you can have!
Omg this is soooooo true. Beautiful advice.
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We don't need anyone who doesn't need us.
yeah but the pain is soooo much :(
Revengestar You could just stop at «anyone». We don’t NEED anyone. That’s the mindset you’ve got to have. Doesn’t mean we don’t WANT anyone. And it’s okay to want someone you don’t get, as long as you know you don’t need them. Doesn’t mean someone who doesn’t want you now can’t want you in the future.
You only say that coz you're angry..feeling low. At the end of the day we will take them when they come back..sad reality..
Keep telling yourself that.
That's just some tumblr ass quote. Not true to all scenarios or relationships, not even true for the majority. Idealist quotes are ideal, not realistic.
@@mrsportschampion5796 Never take back a girl who demonstrates disloyalty, or is a non-virgin - because in that case you just didn't witness it
Number one thing.
Work on yourself.
Hit the gym and get some GAINZ
Jack Gaul
, Probably one of the best comments ever!
What about when you already look great and you already go to the gym 3 to 5 times a week
@@albertopazos6581 go 6 days a week like me lol
Preach!
I tend to be extreme. I stopped working out 2 years ago (hmm right about the time of my relationship - weird ) and gained 40 pounds, a lot through beer and party. Since 6 weeks I hit the gym like a maniac 6x week, and I walk minimum 25k steps a day, and eating at a 50% caloried deficit but insanely clean food. IAs of this morning, I lost 32 pounds in 6 weeks. I'm working my ass off to hit my macros so I hopefully don't lose a lot of muscle. So far, my strength and weights have been increasing almost at the same rate as when I have taken other extended workout pauses. I have to literally force myself to stay out of the gym on day 7
If an ex want "space," I would give them entire galaxy.
That’s generous.
I dont want my ex back but I want her to regret that I'm the one she lost.
Same here I'd never want my ex back even though it a while to realise that never demean yourself
same.....
i really hope my ex regrets leaving me i was loyal to her 100% romantic and more
This is spot on. I’m embarrassed to admit my pride and ego needs that but it’s my true feelings.
We all want that!
I’ll save you 15 minutes. Don’t chase your ex, work on yourself mentally spiritually physically and emotionally.
Are you into recovery? ?
That's right. Just stay busy improving your life.
Amen to that.
Amen brother. I just came here to read the comments.
Basically this is a little bit of a power struggle. Whoever walks out first has the more power. So even if someone left, did they manage to hurt you? Did your ego get hurt? Because when someone walked out on me I realized that I didn’t love them. But my ego WAS a little bit hurt, which took no time getting over.
If you love something, let it be free, if it come back, they BELONG to you, coach Lee is right mate
❤️❤️❤️
The dumper lets go the dumpee, after a few months or more, the dumper comes back realizing he/she made the wrong decision
If you want them back, sometimes you are better of.
Yeah sometimes going back to the dumper isn’t always smart
@@ambriahughes2855 why dating coaches always teach you how to get back your gf or bf, I guess it's because the one being dumped feels more in love with the dumper after being dumped. To treat someone like shot is truly attractive in the 21th century.
I now have a Post-It note on my mirror that says, "BE THE PRIZE"...
Do you know who has the most power in a relationship?
The one who cares the least.
that probably mostly comes from being immature , imagine having a fully developed brain at 24 years old and not caring abs the basics in life, imo it's from being immature afff
Relationships arent about apathy actually theyre about the opposite... Power isnt the goal in a relationship.
@@jasminrodriguez5513 what I stated is true, unhealthy and disfunctional and all to common in relationships today.
If it's about power it was never a healthy relationship.
Exactly
After my break up, listening to you daily makes me feel good about myself. 2 days ago I was freaking out. Today I’m calm and a lot stronger emotionally.
How are you doing now?
But that could have just happened that way simply as a natural consequence of time passing since the initial shock.
Getting addicted to your advice videos ... Each time I feel tempted to reach out to my ex I choose to replay one of ur videos and it calms me down and help me to move forward. And of course with some counseling each Saturday with the psichologist.. I really want him to regret having finished with me!!. So let's start with no contact, still going to my swimming classes, pastry, English classes and gym, and praying.
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Susy DR me too 🥂
So true..same here. I just watch the video.
I just blocked him. I tried several times for this to work out, and he took me for granted. I am not being polite with a person who played me and mistreated me. He doesn't deserve it!
i did this too.. I got tired of making him see my worth. I've put up with a lot of his b*llsh*t for months. He developed a habit of ghosting me when he wants to and cancelling my calls. Then come back like nothing happened. When I try to get answers as to why he kept doing it, he wont give explanation.
He didnt want to breakup either.
The last time he did those, I got fed up and blocked him completely. I wasnt hurt as bad as I thought I would be. Maybe because I was Mentally prepared (not planning) for it to happen anyway. No formal breakup, closure. I just left.
@ Paola A & @essa v - same girls. Exact. Frick. Frackin. Same. I am one of those polite, not bitter or angry when he reached out but the bullshit just never stopped. He did the exact same thing as essa’s. Literally. Kinda wondering his name now lol Bc it’s eerie how damn similar our situations were. It’s been eh... 4 months? Sept. 15th was the last time I walked out the door & I haven’t looked back. I loved him, still do, we were “together”, and I use that word loosely (I’m sure you get what I mean by that), for 1.5 years. a constant struggle & lots of apologies & promises to do things different. To work on it together, to be better.. blah blah blah, but it always went back to the same old bullshit every time he found something to do that was more important than keeping plans he made with me & whatnot... every single time. Smh. I just can’t do it anymore. I rly & truly deserve better than that. Hell, nobody deserves that! Working on myself these days & doing just fine. He clearly never really cared, you don’t treat someone like that if you care about them, especially not for so long over & over again. So, while yes, it hurt like hell to be honest it’s myself enough to realize & accept that that’s just how it is. I’m not one for lying to myself, & getting past my own acceptance of who & what he is, helped give me the strength to walk away... and stay there. Anywho, best of luck in life & love, ladies! ☮️💟😌
@@essav. we are in the same situation except that heq was the one who broke up with me.
Lol he blocked me first so kinda can't block him back.
My ex is now chasing me, many thanks you have changed my life
Paul, I’m glad to hear it. 👊🏻
Good luck congrats Paul u have the power now!!!
Wish mine was :((((
How long did it take for her to reach out
how long til that happened??
“Let them have the break up” 🙌🏾🤗
I am
Yes honey 😘
Word!!! 💯
Mine constantly keeps txting me lol
The best revenge you can do with your ex is to make them regret losing you. But first you should completely detach yourself from him and never expect him to woo you again. There are so many things to focus on, but see to it that loving yourself is your priority.
I'm get exhausted .. I dont chase.
Why revenge? You love that person. Even if they wronged you, don't forget about the love you once shared. We are all dumbasses at times. I'm only writing this for my own therapy so that I know what to do with myself.
@@atomflyer44 +1::2::1::3::9::2::1::3::8::9::4::
whatzpp him I was like this before I know who can help you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here!!??!
Correct.
It’s more so for guys than girls, girls have guys propose and chase them all of them time and girls rarely chase guys unless they are in love with them.
I love his no nonsense style! He's straight up without the games. Many coaches teach games...not this guy!
I don’t chase them, I replace them. That simple .
Is this before or after watching getting your ex back videos ?
@@theseattlegreen1871 😂
Indeed,,,,, second chances doesn't exist to me either,,,, let go and move on totally, they left that means they are not supposed to be in ur life,,, that's it!!! I don't chase him, after a year he came back message me,, but I'm totally done with all the drama,, just totally blocked him fr messenger, so he'll know that I'm done with him for good,,,, 😉✌️✌️✌️
You can replace them my parents have been married over fifty years now so if you keep replacing them how do you have long term relationships
Y R Just as I predicted before I even looked, some men got real uncomfortable with your comment.
I do the exact same thing and it helps a lot. You don't even have to replace them by dating someone else right off. Sometimes just focusing on a new crush is enough. Even if the guy is a celebrity and someone I know I can't have. Still helps.
Believe me coach Lee .. I am 90 days on no contact now and I rewatch your videos to give me strength..thank you sir
Superb
That's why we attend is classes.
Is she back?
@@SAB-ex7de yes
@@amrjihad how long did it take her to reach out
I appreciate No Contact because I have healed so much.
The more I loved her the farther she ran away from me. Now I’m blocked honesty think it stroke her ego. But it’s okay I’m healing. For a fact I know my future well be great. Was born for greatness!
Tre Balero dude what’s up how have you been?
You dropped this 👑, king
I feel so strong when I listen to you and when the video ends, I'm back to the same limbo of depressive feelings.
Sometimes you just have to let people go.
Of course! They have the free will (anyone does) to do anything they want to with their lives (whether or not that includes YOU)! We just have to respect that because it's not like you can or should force it!
@@svasianfilipiname6603 I agree.
I agree.
Watching your vids is making emotionally and mental strong
My mother used to say, “Kill them with kindness.”
She was so right.
Stay calm during NC. Give them their space.
If you hear from your ex, be kind and compassionate.
Don’t challenge or fight, even though you may feel like it.
Thanks man..I survived a day with this video...
Hello!! this is a random person from 2 years after you left this comment, how are you doing now? And I hope your doing better!!!
The pain that you feel is the fuel that will give you the strength to persist. Whether you get back with your ex or someone new always continue to work on yourself.
Remember- You have no control over who decides to exit your life, But you HAVE complete control over who decides to enter it.
Even though I won't take my ex back , after getting told to move on with my life , I still watch coach lee video , you have help me a lot I was in depression and your video help me go through all the difficult time in my life , thank you so much❤
Thank you Coach Lee for literally saving my life. The sadness from the breakup has taken over every aspect of my life. I wanted to just give up and end at all until I saw your video and I felt like you were talking to me. I don’t want to be sad anymore I can’t take it. I wrote down your three steps and I’m going to do it I have to I’m going crazy.God help me
He’s amazing. Helped me a lot.
You dodged a bullet. Move on. Life gets better. Not worse. Always.
Ryan Better you are right 😊
it gets better for the dumpee
If you really want your ex back,
you need to go watch this video, right now!
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Damn right!
I hope one day my ex will realise how much I'm worth to her and that she just lost it. I find your videos very helpful for me at this point in time, really is and I thank you for that. My long time girlfriend just recently left me and I find it so hard to move on and thankfully, I found your channel.
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Don’t worry mate. You will get to a point where you just don’t care what she thinks.
She’ll still pop into your head every now and then but rarely, and you won’t care.
I am thinking like you in your comment after somebody wonderful broke up with me after 12mths, for silly reasons.
But I also had a 10yr thing that ended 3yrs ago and I wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire.
You’ll be fine.
You’ll go from hurting minute to minute, to hurting day to day only at some points, then you’ll have a bad day in a full week, etc. until you realise you’re actually doing ok and made it through the super shit bit. Then you won’t care.
Took me 11mths after 10yr relationship.
Keep going!
WHY? WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT SHE THINKS OR FEELS AFTER SHE DUMPED YOU? THATS LAME.
She came back later mate? I am facing the same issue now
Any update? 😮
Thanks Coach Lee. Your videos have helped me move on from a terrible breakup. I'm in no contact and have been doing therapy to help me cope. It has really been good for me. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
PianoMan4Life1982 how are u now?
@@thedopest5844 I am doing a lot better. I have hit the gym, lost weight, and gained muscle. My ex actually contacted several times and said she missed me but she is with another guy so it didn't mean that much to me. I'm pushing forward and know brighter things are in my future.
God I can't stand that saying.
Leave them alone.. chasing the dumper not worth
Brother Petros that is true! We will never give up! We will stay strong!
Chris Bryant ofcourse
Exactly 6 months no contact here. Last needy and weak text to her was on March 5th. Never initiating contact again.
@@thelegionary07 keep up
@@azazel3944 Thanks bro. I see your posts. Your posts are good motivation.
I love the information he provides. It's more about lifting yourself up and bettering yourself rather than actually working to get your ex back. Learn from the relationship, not only their mistakes, but yours and put yourself in a better place for reciprocating a building a healthy relationship with someone in the future. Get healthy, talk to a therapist. Move on in your life for the better and whether it's your ex or someone else.. You'll be in a better place. Good luck to everyone!
This advice is great, thank you for sharing! For anyone interested in getting to a better place for future relationships, I want to recommend Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." I hate to use this word….but it's really transformative! The workshop is for saving your relationship after a breakup or separation (or if it looks like one is coming). You’ll also have a coaching call every month for 6 months so you won’t be left alone to handle this yourself. Anyway, I suggest getting more information about it. You can schedule an appointment to discuss at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I genuinely believe this experience will be enlightening and immensely valuable for you.
My partner walked away from me before Christmas. I was so upset but watching your videos has given me the answers to my questions. I am blessed to come across your videos. Thank you so very much and blessings to you xx
Not only does this help you feel comfort (which we obviously need right now) of a chance our ex can come back but this is also the path that helps us move forward and realize if this relationship is right or wrong for us. Amazing! Thank you!
Coach Lee,
I am not currently in any breakup situation but I like to listen to your coaching just to educate myself emotionally. You are a wonderful coach and your reasoning is very spot on psychologically. The kind of advice you give to people is very truthful to human behavior and it does not feel like a magical pill that will achieve the illogical. On the contrary, I listened carefully and one of the most wonderful things in your speech is that you always reinforce self respect in actions, which is one of the most important tools to deal with any kind of emotional situation or conflict. Thanks again for your great advice!
True he is the best
*The fact that you still want them to feel regret, to feel bad it shows that you still care about them, you still care about what they think and feel,work on your self for you* not for them they are not worth it stop seeking validation from them, know what you worth,be strong* .
The day he broke up with me, I was crying and begging and said to him it’s too painful to handle! He said relax you’ll be alright! Gosh... i regret saying those words. I should’ve cry in silence. Me bad!
Honestly man I literally just found you when everything is going down hill and you’re really helping me
The next day of my breakup,i found this channel..its been 12 days i haven't reach out..i feel so power..i gained my self respect.. sometimes i felt sad..but thats okay..i am not going to give up..let him take the breakup kit 😌✌️
This is the 17th day ..I break no contact..
When his friend text me ,I got anxious and called him from another one's phone...I feel bad for breaking no contact and saying to consider again ..but that's okay..
I am not going to give up..I won't call him anymore..I need to walk away from him completely!
I refuse to waste my precious and limited time on conspiring to make someone regret losing me. My healing and moving on is not predicated upon their great. Empower yourself by not worrying about trivial things such as their regret. Live your life on your terms. 💪
Out of all the videos on UA-cam by coaches, this one makes the most sense and is the most realistic. Thankyou. It really helped me.
Omg my ex chases me. I know he regrets leaving me. He always tries to reach out to me & i NEVER respond. I bossed up (okurr) lol literally fell in love with myself and found peace within. Made me look at life and myself differently. You’re speaking facts my friend.
after how long?
after how many months?
@@elekar5439 +1::2::1::3::9::2::1::3::8::9::4::
whatzpp him I was like this before I know who can help you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here!!??!
You are so right Coach. Being kind at all times works. She told me she wants space but it was hard for me and I chased for 4 months but your videos gave me the strength and courage to pull back. Now I'm in no contact mode, i show kindness whenever she reaches out because she has and I see that these two combination works. So thanks again Coach Lee.
Finally a really, really good coach on this theme. There are so many BS "coaches" around, this is solid, detailed and deep. Thank you.
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This is advice for dealing with a normal person, oh how I miss the days of dealing with someone that is normal.
Cluster B?
Does this approach not work with someone you suspect has a Borderline Personality Disorder then?
What’s the best advice in trying to win them back?
Currently doing no contact...
@@VoiceOfThe It does work. But what is your goal?
Robert Johnson
As I said, to get them back?
@@VoiceOfThe And then? She (He?) has BPD.
Coach Lee’s personality is probably my favorite. He’s straight forward, logical, and the real deal! Literally lol’d at “hey, I’ve lost a lot of weight” same facial expression. Love these videos!
Coach lee you have got to be the best relationship coach on the planet ,thank you for all your great advise
Wade Cahill thanks 🙏 when my mind star getting weak I listen you video to get back to reality and not call her ...every day pass my mind get more strong 💪
Him and Corey wayne are the only 2 I listen too all others are bs
@@JanKowalski-dq3si ģþþ
Yessss
Yes I totally agree
A very helpful and honest video. Unlike other therapists and videos that don’t really help with their empty words like you should be thankful and naming all the stages of a breakup. People need real instructions and advices in order to move on and process the whole situation effectively. I heard an experienced, mindful talk, and I’m grateful for that. Thank you!
I love your expression about, "Crumbs from their table." It helps me put things in perspective!
This is seriously helpful, i just got dumped for a stupid reason and the heartbreak is immense but this helped me a ton! Thank you so much for the advice!
Chasing the person that dumped you will practically do nothing but put the final stamp on their choice to cut you loose.
Thank you coach lee.Your no contact idea helped me a lot. It makes me stronger more than before. He finally knocked me after 6 days. I was stick to your no contact rule. You're genius and also a life saver.Lots of love and respect from Bangladesh.
No Contact is the best thing ever. Especially for our selfs not just to bring back x. When our emotions are all over the place. And our heart is broken. We don't think straight.
Thank you Couch Lee for making us strong . May God bless you with more wisdom.
Dude, you are so frickin smart! Are you sure you don’t have a psychology degree or something?? How the heck did you learn on this? The ability to just speak and drop SO much valuable information non-stop for 13 minutes is honestly impressive.
Finally some rational and sensical information that I needed to hear.
You're greatly underrated.
Listen to Coach Lee. I went through a rough breakup last year. I watched every video Coach Lee put out. Sure enough, your ex will come back, curious as to why you haven't been pursuing. It may take a few weeks. It could take months. But they will come back checking, usually because their new romances haven't panned out.
At that point, it's up to you if you want to deal with that person. In my case, I decided not to and to move on.
@@queenmj5684 After two months of no contact and reflecting on the situation, I realized I was better off. But kudos to those who were able to work things out.
The reason why I watch your videos is not because I want her to back "actually I am already doing what you are saying and somehow it is really working" I watch your videos just to get new advice that will help me stay strong and save my dignity in this break up.
Same here! I know if she broke up with me then she had lost all interest and attraction! The only solution is to leave with my head high. I made some mistakes but the good outweighed the bad! If she comes back that's good, but if she doesn't, then at least she may not see me as weak
Listening to Coach Lee is just like listening to a close friend who's genuinely concerned of you, what's good for you and provides you positive / rightful advice. Advices that will make you a better person.
Coach Lee thank you so much for sharing your knowledge about relationships for free on the internet. You have helped me get thru my breakup and post breakup. Applying your advice paid off. After 6 months of no contact my ex finally reached out. We are taking things really slow time will only tell where our relationship is going to head. Listen to him you guys he knows what he's talking about. Xoxo D.
Once, I did want her to regret her decision, or at least realize she wanted to still be with me. But I stopped fighting it all, stopped giving my energy, my soul, my time, my thoughts, to her, to our dead relationship, etc.
I learned a lot of lessons. Those I haven't forgotten about. But I don't want her to have any regrets. Just live her life, find her truth, and be happy. At this point I don't even really care if she ever thinks about me. Ever. It's almost liberating to think about her actually living in a reality where I never even existed. Not saying this in a martyr kind of way. Just clean and pure. Almost as if I could just erase those almost ten years. Five years with her, and the four years it's taken to recover from her. Of course, I'm human, so there are still times when it would be nice to think that I cross her mind from time to time, and not in a negative, regretful light. But it's also kind of freeing to wipe that slate clean, almost as if being reborn. Does this make sense to anyone reading this? Maybe not. She moved on a long time ago. I finally am moving on. Still have work to do. I hope she's not having any feelings of regret, guilt, remorse, wondering, pity, shame, etc. Let her be free too. She couldn't help being who she was, and perhaps still is, burning through relationship after relationship after relationship. She has her lessons to learn. Her path. She did the best she could at the time. As I know now, looking back at all she said and did, that she was deeply insecure, immature, and ego-driven, selfish, entitled, blaming and shaming. But when anyone is like that, you can be sure there is a lot of unresolved anger, sadness and fear behind all of that. I saw a lot of that even when we were together and tried to talk with her about all that, but there was never any breakthroughs. Doesn't matter now. Her life is hers, and hers alone. It was NEVER my job to fix her, heal her, make her find answers even when we were together, and certainly not now. Ha ha.
Trying my best to heal right now. This helps so much :’)
Emmeline Poteet,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌺,I think you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏
My ex recently dumped me and it hurts me a lot, she is my first. I never believed in relationship coaching things and this made so much sense that it motivated me
Coach I haven’t even moved out yet. He is already feeling the reality of breaking up with me. Crying ect. I am still moving out and living my life. He will have to contact me. Thank you for all your great advice. My story is written in the comments of this video. (ALSO...I wanted to say that I got the emergency break up kit.) It’s so helpful. You are setting a goal and living your life at the same time. I highly recommend that people buy it! It was worth the money. It’s not even THAT expensive. Compared to all the money these “OTHERS,” ask for. This Break up kit helps you be the BEST VERSION of you! Thank you Coach!!
It’s a sad thing when the one u love walks away #ouch 🤕
There must've been a reason. Find out if you still want.
Really so sad...it hurts so much
Coach Lee u have no idea how much ur videos are helping me right now.
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The funny thing about this comment is I started reading it, and at that same moment he talked about it. Weird.
In the middle of my weakness...I take refuge in your advice.. extremely grateful for you
Not trying to get her back, but your videos still help me. A week after she broke up, i was doing very well, and she reached out to me and that threw me back to the breakup. Thanks for the video, it gives me the strength to move on.
Hey how did it go?
I'm hanging on to all your videos to counter act the urge to connect with them... it's working. 😎
so great.
so helpful.
i refer many from my fb here, recently. past few months. i subscribe.
eva, yep. me too.
and jerri, i so agree and he is 1 of best i've seen here. online that is.
Eva refer me here and you're appreciated by me on FB for doing so grl.
I subscribe, and re watch at times many of these. so good he is."
Same
Jerri Schomaker how díd you go ?
I feel so much better after watching your videos. I can see and understand things so much better. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because I’m too good. I didn’t know that was a bad thing.
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Coach Lee, everything you've stated is Spot on mate. You really know your stuff. This is all real life stuff you talking about and its's amazing how accurate you are! Peace Man
Time is a healer for sure. IF you significant other has left you then One thing you must ask yourself is this, Why chase someone who doesn't want you anymore. Move on! There is every chance that person might come back but Life is Truly short to be hanging around.
IT WORKS!!!! This man is trying so hard to get me back after a month of no contact. Only thing is that I dont want him anymore. The stress he put me threw isnt worth trying again. Thanks Coach for emphasizing no contact. It gives you time to think!
When my ex left me in the beginning I wanted to watch any and all types of videos such as these to feel better…after a while, I realized that I needed that hurt to help me become a better man and I gave it to God. These videos are indeed helpful, but just know that God does everything for a reason….just give it time and it shall be shown
After a month of NC i really thought that i wont be able to be myself again, i watched every video you have and followed your advice. The next thing i know, he messaged me and apologized for what he did.... before the break up, i begged, pleaded i did all of the red flags ‘cause it was so sudden... i even contacted his circle of friends i was that desperate for answers since he blocked me everywhere. Your videos kept me sane and helped me throughout the whole process. He came back and we’re taking everything slow since he told me that he couldn’t stand the thought of me not being there for him. Thank you coach lee... i dont even know how to repay you for your content but i hope you’ll continue to make more videos for people like us... god bless
Instead of getting the ex back, can you do a course: rebuilding your life after a break up! Re-discovering the new you and how to best get back “on the dating horse”. Which guys to choose! Is it ok to tell guys that your dating others(I think you really need to take your time with dating multiple people so you don’t end up w a loser like your ex)
Miss Viking,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷 dear
They'll never admit it but they want to feel like they're truly lucky to be with you.
Drexel King - Really? Hmm... Any pointers on how to do that? Lol Where’s the bar set, you know? How does one know what one person values over another? It’s so ridiculously confusing. We can’t exactly read minds & everyone wants to feel like they’re lucky to have someone. When it feels like all you got was a hot bag of dog shit, it doesn’t really instill feelings of luck & good fortune in someone. 😂 More like pulling the short stick in the stack. Haha Anyway, that was mostly all rhetorical. ;) Here’s to a fantastic year for the both of us! 🍻 Happy 2020!
I think the good thing to watch your video is that I don’t want me Ex back anymore, I forget about the pain and also all the pain in the relationship after one month. I am totally okay right now, thanks
Coach Lee...my ex has narcissistic personality disorder...for with which a psychiatric diagnosis was made. I went no contact for mysrlf...to heal from his pathological lying and abuse. No contact from any abuse is the only way to heal. Your videos are amazing!
@@oscarwilliamson1264 hey Oscar...pleased to meet you too!
I. Live in Alabama too... I'm on facebook. Tracy Williams. Mobile, Alabama. 😁
I dont want my loser lying ex back.
As the song goes "I don't want nobody who don't want me....I don't need nobody who don't need me....
My ex just vanished out of my life. I was in a bad emotional state after that. It's been a month and every day is a struggle. Strange he didn't block me. Under that rough exterior he showed me. I realize he's a weak coward.
hoLy shit same
So how do we keep it from happening that way ? And why won't they fight just as hard? @lee
Yeah same here you dont deserve that.
Diane H Same mine lived in a fantasy world and was talking and sleeping it up with the first thing he found breathing! lol 😂 Hope she can keep him up he’s having to pay me back for what he owes me and she has nothing to bring to the table but a$$, not a prize either. Guess he wanted a doormat so he downgraded. Good luck to him!! Leave me alone!!
Diane H
3yrs ago I suggested a trial separation out of sheer frustration with my ex of 10yrs. My ex was in tears saying she didn’t want to break up. I said neither do I but I’ve suggested relationship counselling (which she laughed at, saying there was “no problems”) and every time I asked why stuff was like this or like that, I literally got an “I don’t know why” EVERY SINGLE TIME.
So I suggested the trial separation so we could go on dates again and try put the spark back there as we’d lived together 8yrs too.
I’d even said if she doesn’t want to be with me then just tell me, it’s ok. But she was so convincing she wanted me.
She decided she would move out as had spare room at her mum’s.
She cried as she left that night, saying she loves me and again didn’t want to break up.
2wks later, she wouldn’t even hold my hand on our ‘first’ date. Her attitude had completely changed.
1wk after that we broke up and I had to do it for her coz she was so inept at opening her mouth.
I asked her why she didn’t want to be with me all of a sudden and got the same “I don’t know why”.
I pressed her for a reason and she actually said, “Errrrrm... I dunno... you made me watch X-files?” as though that was some sort of deal breaker.
After TEN YEARS, that’s ALL I got 😆 you couldn’t even make that shit up.
She was also a fucking coward.
She had plenty of opportunity to leave if she was unhappy, I never begged her to be with me, I only tried to make it work but got zero communication back. I had a feeling the only reason she didn’t leave or allow me to walk away, yet showed less effort than me in trying to make the relationship what it once was, was because she is so fucking incapable of being on her own (I was a rebound bf that we got 10yrs out of).
Within 2mths breakup after 10yrs, she was already with someone else.
I suspect the guy was chancing his luck as soon as he knew she was single (she worked with him) and she immediately knew she had an escape route.
Some people are just messed up (and you don’t know half the shit I tried to forgive in the last 3yrs).
She never deleted me from social media. I joined a gym, lost 2st, hiked to Everest Base Camp in 11days after previously not being able to run for a bus without dying. I was in the best shape of my adult life after 10mths and felt so good about myself after feeling absolutely destroyed and betrayed by my best friend.
I’ve looked back over my own faults and worked hard to try and improve on them because nobody is perfect and I honestly think I am a better person for the whole shitty experience and somebody else will get the benefit of that (I’m on here because I met somebody wonderful 12mths ago but she just can’t handle being in a relationship - I suspect she has undiagnosed aspergers like her mother, and I don’t want to win her back so much as coach Lee just gives good advice of keeping your self-esteem up in hard breakup situation) and I’m glad now that my previous ex had shown her true colours no matter how shitty I felt at the time. Good luck to her being that kind of person and being a morally bankrupt coward.
You give great advice of all the love coaches I’ve come across you are the best!! Thank you for everything
On day 18 of no contact. In a few days it'll be a month since we spoke 😢 I miss him so much.
The breakup was relatively amicable, but I did "chase" him a bit. Not begging, but more to remind him what we had.
It's a complicated situation because he lives with his ex and they have a kid together. He prioritizes his son over everything else and he has special needs. So I get it. If he was selfish he'd probably be in my bed rn.
I still have to continue no contact. He even blocked me because he couldn't stay away, he couldn't function at work and his son suffered. So he doesn't want to talk because "Then I'd get in my car (to talk in private) and once I'm in my car I'm already on my way to see you". He's scared the mother will take the child far away as she has threatened.
Any advice in this special situation would be appreciated.
lineakristensen1, I highly recommend you book a call with Coach Lee. He will guide you.
myexbackcoach.com/book-a-call-coach-lee
I just got dumped by a guy that I truly love and a cried a begged him to just give us another chance. Everyone told me to leave him alone and finally I did, he said maybe we will get back together in a month, 6 months, a year. Everything your saying is so accurate. If he comes back I might give him another chance but probably not, if he never comes back...life will go on as it did before I met him.
In all your videos. the constant is to be confident, work on ourselves, be a better person, as we become more attractive if the ex wanted back anyway (and if WE want that too come that time...). Strangely, hearing this advice to just get better don't work when we are overwhelmed, in sadness and all. But the way you put it, it woke me up. It just did. Thanks!
My birthday yesterday, he’s been calling and texting but I wasn’t replying. He asked a friend to convince me to join their party coz it’s my birthday. I left my house knowing he will come, true enough he did! He was so disappointed I wasn’t home. While in the party, he was so sad according to my friend that he asked his former gf to come since I wasn’t present. Before they left the party, he texted me saying it’s his final happy birthday greeting for me. It hurts but I know he is confused. Been a month since we broke up. We’ve been arguing to no end. Now I changed the lock of our house so he cannot barge in anytime he wants. I will only talk to him if he tells me he wants to go back home. I am not a part time lover
Up to now, he is texting to no end! Starting small talks.
Andrew , I was able to unlock his iPhone, I found out his infidelity. It got worse. I don’t wanna see him now. He’s now blocked me after he apologized for what he has done. I totally ended the relationship.
Andrew , I was quite surprised that of all words you said “dodged”! His name is Dodge! Perfectly fits him, he’s a dodger himself, he wants quick fix, not after long-standing and worth fighting for relationships
Andrew let’s!
@_ BUDDHA _ this comment is 8 months old. So much has happened. I maintained thre blocking of communication. I honestly have no idea how he is and I dont even wanna know anymore. I found my peace without him. Life is so much better now.
Depends on the reason. If they felt you never fought for the relationship in the first place, of course you may have to chase with sincere fight to get them back
All that aside, other circumstances are covered well in this video.
Hey Coach Lee, and everyone else. My ex came back. I watched a lot of your videos and its the 2'nd time that it worked ( 2 different relationships )
Keep improving yourself, be confident and embrace No Contact.
All I can say is that every boyfriend that broke up with me called me in a month or two or three... I didn't want to be with any of them because of how much they hurt me, but it works. They called and I grew. Win win ❤️
Your videos are so soothing and have helped me fall asleep the last few days after my breakup. The relationship lasted over 2 years and we made it though our first year of college but the day I got home he left me. It’s been rough but thank you for helping me through it.
Coach Lee thank you very much cos I almost kill myself when my husband left becouse of someone else,s mistake but am now getting over it after watching your videos.God bless you.
I am not a jacket that you just throw on the ground and pick up when you need it.
No one should be treated that way.
You know what. She told me to pack my stuff in the middle of the night, 6 days ago. Yesterday, i was feeling super vulnerable, so i thought i’d send an apologetic message to account for my actions (biggest mistake ever DONT DO THIS!) and she’s ignored it. But today, i’ve thought about why i’ve put her on a pedestal this much? She doesn’t deserve me at all if it was that easy to dump me and never look back. I dont know why i’ve tried, i realise i will get better there’s so many girls out there wishing for what i have to offer. I thought about sending her a cruel message today but i’m better than that! So from today, i’m going no contact, not to get her back now, but to get my self-respect and dignity back and move on. I trust karma will have its day for the bad i’ve had to deal with. I am worth it and so are you, never settle for less!!
In a way coach lee has a way of almost cheating through the pain, it’s helpful with my separation anxiety. Thank you coach lee
Going through the breakup process can definitely put a toll on you mentally and physically. You need to undo the routine you had with this person and try to rediscover your individuality. Just know the future is going to be bright for you and listen to coach lee about not breaking the no contact rule. Best wishes to you guys!
Your videos saved my life for realizing things I never thought when he left me. More powers to you. You are great at what you are doing. Love lots Godbless ☺☺