He’s the Right Man BUT It’s Just the Wrong Time If . . .

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    -Mark

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  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  6 місяців тому +6

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  • @AnnTutorials-ot4ef
    @AnnTutorials-ot4ef 6 місяців тому +129

    I really like someone and heart is aching for him but i decided to surrender him to God few days ago ...i will continue to pursue God and first and to bear fruit😌🙏 i dont want to go back with my old ways before...Still the Lord can be trusted🙏

    • @jessiceeoriginal
      @jessiceeoriginal 6 місяців тому +11

      Amen! To put Christ in the center of any relationship first.

    • @praisegirl264
      @praisegirl264 6 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 6 місяців тому +3

      You have to know if he is a luekwarm Christian or is a true one. It’s clear that Christian to Christian with God at the center. If he is lukewarm towards God and apathetic while claiming to be Christian then I would advise you to pray for Him since either way God wants us to pray for the souls of those in sin and lost to repent and only God knows if he is your future husband as you pray for Him so it’s a win win to pray for his soul to come to Jesus closer than ever before.

    • @ScoobyandShaggy5554
      @ScoobyandShaggy5554 6 місяців тому +1

      Same I wonder if I’ll ever find the one it’s hard but I know I will I must be patient and seek God is all

    • @deidreholmes5942
      @deidreholmes5942 6 місяців тому +2

      I was in a relationship with this guy for almost a year, and I feel deeply in love with him. We began to pursue God together and God asked us to break up. We tried to remain friends but it was so very painful, and eventually we had to go our separate ways. I don’t think he’s the right one, but just a heads up that you can love anyone deeply and it doesn’t mean they’re the right one.

  • @jessiceeoriginal
    @jessiceeoriginal 6 місяців тому +52

    There is someone in my life right now. I've started having feelings for him, but he's just not ready for anything more than friendship. God showed me to treat this man as a friend and Brother-in-Christ first. To keep my head and heart on His Word. Proverbs 3:5 & Isaiah 55:8. And to put my Trust in Jesus Christ. Standing firm in my faith in Jesus. God will choose my husband because the Holy Spirit is my matchmaker.

    • @Plans4YouJer2911
      @Plans4YouJer2911 6 місяців тому +2

      Interesting
      I am casually writing back and forth to a female for a couple of months now
      I am not in a hurry because of the way I was treated in my last relationship and the way it all ended
      The reason I am sharing with you is this
      Your comment about Proverbs 3 : 5 & 6
      And Isaiah 55
      Both good books 📚 and chapters
      I believe in conformation information hence I took it to share with you that I should help confirm to you that you are on the right track and waiting on God thru the Power of the Holy Spirit
      I also am taking from your comments that I should continue on my personal path slowly and enjoy this new friendship
      Thank You for Sharing 😊
      Blessings to you on your journey 😊

  • @anniesjourney4303
    @anniesjourney4303 6 місяців тому +44

    Father yours be done alwys amen hallelujah

  • @mioyumi1354
    @mioyumi1354 6 місяців тому +26

    It's possible to meet at the wrong time. Like if you're struggling with lots of things in your life, so you're not ready to be in a relationship because you're too crushed by your own life. It's hard for struggling people to have a normal life. So it's very possible that isn't the right time for someone to date even if they've met the man/woman of their dreams.

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 6 місяців тому +2

      100% that is me. I have been struggling so badly the last 7 years of my life ever since I finished college. Can’t be married if I don’t have the job and money to bring as it’s a requirement even though the Bible does not say this but outlines provision. Basically, money is required for marriage and I don’t have that requirement at all so now I am doubting and evaluating if God does not want me to marry despite the desire to marry and the current circumstances.

    • @mioyumi1354
      @mioyumi1354 6 місяців тому +2

      @Justyouraverageguy172 Of course He wants you to marry and to have a happy life! I found the person I want to be with, but i also can't cause my life is horrible now. And like you i don't know how we can fix our awful lives. But He always says that God will make a way. So I guess we have to keep Praying, learning, holding on and trying. I'll pray for you. :(

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 6 місяців тому +1

      @@mioyumi1354Thanks I found my person too and it’s been hard knowing that God had told me He wants me to marry too. This is what we are supposed to do is encourage and pray for others as well. Thank you for the prayers as I will pray for you in return 🙂

    • @SmilingAstronaut-hg3gq
      @SmilingAstronaut-hg3gq 4 місяці тому

      This right here is what I was wondering. Because me and my man broke up. He said I need to work on myself. There’s some damage I’ve caused in the relationship so he needs repair. He’s also trying to consider his career. He mentioned maybe in a year he’ll consider dating me again after I do the work. Because I think he’s right I wasn’t prepared for a relationship with the consideration of marriage and a family. I have trauma. I don’t handle my emotions the best. Sometimes I have a victim mindset. I see things as so hard. I don’t have much relationship experience. I have learned a lot from him. I’m changing and improving for the better after his influence. He came in my life at a time I was messed up. Depressed, etc. Now I’ve just been focused on doing the work. On improving. On learning. Understanding submission. Being more in my feminine energy cause I havent really. I wasn’t modeled a lot of things. My mom took on both gender roles. So I have a bit to learn. To truly understand what it means to be a wife and mother. I just need to heal and do work. And I didn’t show up in the relationship good because I was hurt and dealing with things inside. But I truly do think it could be a case of right person wrong time. He’s such an amazing guy. He’s a good influence on me and my life. But I can’t truly know. To me he’s it for me. I’m just gonna keep doing the work become a better version of myself and maybe there’s a future for us. He’s stayed in contact so far we text occasionally and call occasionally too. I know I’ve changed a lot since he’s come into my life. Modesty. I don’t want to drink or anything like that. I want to be and do better. ❤️🥺

  • @desireebevineau9056
    @desireebevineau9056 5 місяців тому +11

    I honestly just let him go, I simply don’t like the way he treats me. I’m at peace with that. There is a better man who will treat me like a princess.

  • @jeanettegalvan7032
    @jeanettegalvan7032 6 місяців тому +19

    I was for sure that I had meet my future spouse but he hasn’t reached out in a while. Had to finish his last semester in college and I gave him time to focus on school and thankfully he graduated this past Saturday 🙏🏼. I still haven’t heard from him and it crushes my heart.
    To back track we had been dating for 3 months prior his last semester and everything was good. We both know Him and every moment we spent together I felt Gods approval.
    I’ve been praying and well all I hear is “be patient” and “trust”.

    • @drippedinglory
      @drippedinglory 6 місяців тому +3

      Ask God to reveal to you what's going on in the spirit concerning him

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 6 місяців тому +2

      For me in this video it is point 2 sign 3 with not being able to be a provider with the money and job but doesn’t mean I can’t be the leader and protector at the moment

  • @ShilohIsMyName
    @ShilohIsMyName 6 місяців тому +5

    Praying to be worthy and ready for God's plan for my life - In relationships. Accepting the fact that we must be equally yoked and understood that he must have the same understanding of following the kingdom agenda. Praying for myself and this man. Thank you for the reminder.

  • @carollien77
    @carollien77 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this information

  • @cherylrochs6560
    @cherylrochs6560 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Lord. Thy will be done ❤

  • @fedorahbikay8135
    @fedorahbikay8135 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Lord ❤

  • @elizabethash4720
    @elizabethash4720 6 місяців тому +1

    I love that you covered all bases. Means a lot. Thankyou.😊

  • @vania698
    @vania698 5 місяців тому

    Thank you very much!

  • @Justyouraverageguy172
    @Justyouraverageguy172 6 місяців тому +1

    All 4 points are seen with me and someone I met 9 years ago in college at Church and God brought us together 100% before we split up.

  • @daphenernorwood
    @daphenernorwood 6 місяців тому +8

    Thanks for posting this.

  • @NYCAppl3
    @NYCAppl3 6 місяців тому +20

    Sometimes, problems in the family bloodline could prevent the two from coming together.

    • @rekiyaE
      @rekiyaE 6 місяців тому +5

      What kind of problems from bloodline? Can you pls elaborate on this, I'm very curious..

    • @NYCAppl3
      @NYCAppl3 6 місяців тому +13

      @@rekiyaE generational curses in the family like poverty, illness, baroness, or antimarriage curses.

    • @drippedinglory
      @drippedinglory 6 місяців тому +3

      Study the lineage of Abraham including His father Terach in Genesis. It will tell you everything 3need to know.

    • @drippedinglory
      @drippedinglory 6 місяців тому

      Study the lineage of Abraham including His father Terach in Genesis. It will tell you everything you need to know.​@@rekiyaE

    • @NYCAppl3
      @NYCAppl3 6 місяців тому +2

      @@drippedinglory yep! Also, Kevin LA Ewing's UA-cam channel breaks all of that down beautifully 😊❤️

  • @tracyoguntokun4284
    @tracyoguntokun4284 6 місяців тому +5

    Amen 🙏✝️🙏🔥😇

  • @Leatha-eo2bh
    @Leatha-eo2bh 6 місяців тому +1

    Yes he’s in another country and we love one another so much. My character has changed so much that people don’t recognize me. I’m walking with Jesus and I know soon we’ll be united as one flesh.

    • @roxannewalcott8092
      @roxannewalcott8092 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes, have faith, the same thing is happening to me. I'm just hearing God saying have patience and trust in me to work it out, I'm the God of the impossible.

    • @Leatha-eo2bh
      @Leatha-eo2bh 6 місяців тому

      @@roxannewalcott8092 so beautiful and thank you for your kind words. I will be patient alright along with you. It will happen with faith.

  • @lucypellek8940
    @lucypellek8940 6 місяців тому

    These are good. Thank you so much! ❤

  • @lalomontoyajr.9282
    @lalomontoyajr.9282 6 місяців тому +6

    I believe there is never a wrong time for love. Unless the other person is married or has kids, there's never a wrong time for love for two single people.

  • @DaughterofAbraham_Jacob
    @DaughterofAbraham_Jacob 5 місяців тому +1

    Does this mean that God will bring you two together once the issues described are resolved?

  • @CupcakeChan2611
    @CupcakeChan2611 5 місяців тому +1

    Mark , did you make videos that teaches the role of the husband and wifr?

  • @angelamalone-d4g
    @angelamalone-d4g 6 місяців тому +2

    What about divorced from spouse thats remarried...now.? Pls adrress divorce...? Especially if spouse, left, abandoned, was abusive, and or is remarried, or leaving spouse left be/c of previously mentioned?

  • @LightShineDesserts
    @LightShineDesserts 5 місяців тому

    Where do you find the add in videos to use? 💕

  • @gracia130
    @gracia130 6 місяців тому

    wrong time + wrong man = nothing 🤫🤔😀

  • @olly2027
    @olly2027 6 місяців тому +1

    You are saying I can never marry Will Smith?

  • @danielmena772
    @danielmena772 6 місяців тому

    For me, it feels like the circumstances are a bit unusual. At least for me. I have this desire for a Godly marriage. But there doesn’t seem to be anything really indicating of any relationship at all at any time right now. Does this mean that God truly wants me to be single? Or is it more of a timing thing?

    • @Plans4YouJer2911
      @Plans4YouJer2911 6 місяців тому +1

      Personally, my first thought is the timing
      Then if it's been a really really long time ⌛️
      What about your actions and locations where you operate out of or from
      ???????
      Just a couple of quick thoughts
      Blessings to You on Your Journey 😊

    • @danielmena772
      @danielmena772 6 місяців тому

      @@Plans4YouJer2911 To be fair, I am about to be 26. Still a very young age. But it’s almost like I have had this… desire for a while. Or at least a godly relationship. I’m on dating sites, meeting new people at church and all that. But nothing has surfaced yet. If this is the case, I’m really starting to wonder if this really is what God desires.

    • @Plans4YouJer2911
      @Plans4YouJer2911 6 місяців тому

      I would not give up and think non marriage
      I have honestly had mixed results with online dating and person to person dating
      Hence a possible thought , not making fun of you
      You have a Godly desire ✨️
      Maybe just quit looking online and face to face relationally
      Write down everything you want to do with and for God in the next 5 years
      Then pick the top 3 to 6 activities
      Do the same for your work and job
      Do the same for your personal and social life ✨️
      No women on the list
      The point being is to concentrate on you and your walk with God
      If you are not looking all the time, it will happen
      Trust and pray and commit to God
      Blessings to You on Your Journey ✡️

  • @XGoldenPhoenixX
    @XGoldenPhoenixX 6 місяців тому +3

    Second

  • @4d.4c.4b4
    @4d.4c.4b4 6 місяців тому +4

    What if it's God's plan using the wife as a disciple for the man to come to him?

  • @jasm8642
    @jasm8642 6 місяців тому +3

    I don’t want a man who is dating someone else or even ever has dated someone.
    Clean slate it is.
    Empty canvas it is.

    • @bears1804
      @bears1804 5 місяців тому

      Why?

    • @jasm8642
      @jasm8642 5 місяців тому +1

      @@bears1804 it is not a matter of age, you can be 40 and never have dated. It is just not to waste time on the wrong person. A once broken heart needs a very very long time to really heal (and not just “coated” it can be hidden but when triggered it exposes itself if not completely healed). Post traumatic Syndroms after a broken heart are very real and are not to be underestimated. Your next partner would need to take on the role of a therapeutic healer, for years… Not everyone can handle it. Next breakup is nearly inevitable if you have not worked hard on yourself (which means to spend many years alone to heal properly, and rewrite or delete the old patterns). Or you avoid that from the beginning if you are smart and have a lot self discipline.

  • @jovanamarjanovic3461
    @jovanamarjanovic3461 5 місяців тому

    Sorry unequally yolked doesn't refer to them being a Christian,there is another passage saying if you're spouse doesn't believe in God they are covered by the spouse that does and this is God's way of giving that spouse a chance to seek salvation, unequally yolked refers to many things example being on the same wave length if you have a job but husband doesn't believe in work but believes in Christ you are unequally yolked....(being a Christian some view as one of the things but considering God wants us to spread the good news being a Christian just contradicts that too much)