5 Things God Will Do When He’s Highlighting a Man He Wants You to Date

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  • How will God highlight a man to a Christian single woman? Here are 5 things that often happen in a woman's life when God is highlighting a man he wants her with one day.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @ivanaowona9146
    @ivanaowona9146 5 днів тому +39

    So summary: God is highlighting someone if the man gave his life to Jesus AND he is persuing you. Without those 2 forget it. 😃

  • @ashleyb777
    @ashleyb777 3 дні тому +19

    My daughter age 34 and her husband 42 were just married on June 7th, a few weeks ago. The Lord started highlighting him to her about 8 years ago, though they had never met, then someone set them up in Feb. of 2022. He had no idea she even existed all those years, but she knew him from afar, even though she had never met him. On a couple of different occasions over the years the Lord would give her a vision of him and her together, in one they were at church ( no, they didn't go to the same one) and another one they were in his backyard. Praise the Lord! Sometimes he makes us wait .

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 2 дні тому

      I am having the same kind of experiences myself with someone I did know but we split up after our first year in college because of the circumstances of her transferring out preventing us from moving deeper while dating. The biblical conditions to be equally yoked were met as well.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 7 днів тому +175

    You can't be so anxious, sis. Grow in your relationship with God. Fall in love with the Lord & focus on your purpose. Prioritize Jesus not a relationship. Trust God to arrange a marriage.

  • @northshorelight35
    @northshorelight35 7 днів тому +70

    I only believe in intentional dating. It’s biblical. Intentional means that you are in the frame of mind to marry.

    • @Earthsbodye
      @Earthsbodye 7 днів тому +18

      I agree and I do the same. No wasteful relationships and no hookups

    • @Joy_M507
      @Joy_M507 6 днів тому +6

      Well said!

  • @SleepyFox4000
    @SleepyFox4000 7 днів тому +83

    I met my now bf when I was just trying to meet other local Christians at a Christian-specific dance event. He came with his sister and she and her friends went off to dance. I asked him if he danced (knowing that I am totally terrible at it and would make a fool of myself if I tried), and he said that he had two left feet when it came to dancing. We bonded over that, ended up talking the whole night and I totally forgot to socialize with other people because our conversation was so engaging. We were friends for awhile, then just as my feelings began to turn romantic for him, he asked me out. We're still best friends a year later, prepping for marriage now. It can happen when you least expect it.

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому +1

      Thank you I do expect it just said I can and will wait

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      I know his strengths and weaknesses I know sometimes it hurts to like a lot but platonically speaking " hurts so good" love if real has to endure pain to be auth , doesn't it

    • @crispyz2864
      @crispyz2864 4 дні тому

      I'm hopeful to find a wife, trust in God

  • @northshorelight35
    @northshorelight35 7 днів тому +39

    You should be intentional. How you meet is the mystery.

  • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
    @Victoria_Loves_Jesus 7 днів тому +27

    The guy I've been seeing the last few weeks is keeping it so pure that I honestly can't even tell if he likes me

    • @Ella_56785
      @Ella_56785 7 днів тому +18

      Probably testing and observing you.

    • @meagon177
      @meagon177 7 днів тому +28

      A guy won’t just spend time just because… he is definitely interested. Enjoy the pure time of getting to know one another.

    • @leenab7109
      @leenab7109 6 днів тому +2

      😂

    • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      @Victoria_Loves_Jesus 3 дні тому +1

      @@meagon177 yes and it's been amazing

    • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      @Victoria_Loves_Jesus 3 дні тому +1

      @@Ella_56785 yes, but mostly just listening for the Holy Spirit 🙏🏻

  • @80sbabyruth
    @80sbabyruth 7 днів тому +16

    Praise God! Thank you Mark for the message 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️.
    Happy Friday All! Stay in prayer, keep the faith. Remember the teacher is always quiet during the test. Trust that God has your best interest at heart. He cares for us all and his goodness is everlasting.

  • @ndanatseyi
    @ndanatseyi 7 днів тому +30

    Is it just me who thinks that God puts that intentionality in you anyway?
    I've just recently opened up to the idea to being in a relationship again, and I strongly felt that was God telling me that I'm ready. There's a certain man who I always think about lately who fits all these signs too 😊

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      Of course not

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      Not just you 😞 who thinks God does the match making

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      I know it when did you come to know it)?

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      I ask in prayer to helplme in this regard and

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому

      He does many times I pray he allows me to exchange my misery 🙏😭 for His Divine Mercy... check out The Lord 's Divine Mercy prayer

  • @kenyamelton9228
    @kenyamelton9228 3 дні тому +4

    I'm not looking...he has to find me.❤🙏🏾❤

    • @IHAVEACHOICE
      @IHAVEACHOICE 2 дні тому +1

      Amen! It's the same with me. God already knows who he has for the both of us. A GOD FEARING MAN PURSUING HIS WIFE......Stay prayed up, this too will come to pass.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 6/26/24

  • @laurachandler
    @laurachandler 6 днів тому +12

    This was so on time! I met that man I care for seven years ago. He was a street minister and I was sitting under a gazebo having my lunch when he came up to me. This would go on a couple of years. He retired and I didn’t see him out there any more, but God led me to go to the church he went to and my son was going there too. I became a member of that church and now we go to Sunday school in the same class. He’s taking things really slowly and we don’t date, but we have some very meaningful conversations at church. I’m hopeful that someday he will pursue me, but even if he doesn’t, I am realizing he will if it’s God’s will. His parents really love me and we have a good connection. His mom texts me several days a week.

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 4 дні тому +2

      Good for you , sounds similar..."hope springs eternal "

  • @tinag8774
    @tinag8774 7 днів тому +6

    Thank you for this message
    Amen 🙏🙌🙏

  • @SLC1994
    @SLC1994 7 днів тому +6

    Thank you Mark this video has helped me ❤

  • @beca5035
    @beca5035 7 днів тому +2

    This was great! Thanks so much and God bless you and your family and your ministry in Jesus name Amen 🙌🙏❤

  • @laurasmith9160
    @laurasmith9160 6 днів тому +2

    This was helpful!

  • @eabbcc642
    @eabbcc642 7 днів тому +7

    faith ~ hope ~ love

  • @jelenahristov4094
    @jelenahristov4094 6 днів тому +1

    Thank you, Mark, for this video, it is helpful. 😊

  • @crispyz2864
    @crispyz2864 4 дні тому +5

    I'm only 19 but I trust Gods plan and I know he will give me a wife soon enough. Always trust in God, he loves us❤️✝️

    • @christollawrence3330
      @christollawrence3330 2 дні тому +2

      Your young but your mind is in the right place. God will surely give you the desire of your heart. 🙏

    • @IHAVEACHOICE
      @IHAVEACHOICE 2 дні тому +2

      Wait on the Lord......he has the right young Lady for you. Never rush into any relationship. God wants you to be Happy. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @crispyz2864
      @crispyz2864 День тому

      @@christollawrence3330 Thank you, God Bless🙏

    • @crispyz2864
      @crispyz2864 День тому +1

      @@IHAVEACHOICE I sure hope so, I trust God fully, God bless 🙏🙏

  • @enigma4526
    @enigma4526 7 днів тому +5

    Hello! Thanks for this message - I think a temptation for me is to overread in each interaction with a guy who has solid theology and talking to them well and I generally like talking to these guys (I'm not usually attracted to these guys, but talking about God is attractive) - what advice would you give to not do this? Videos like this can be confusing and can be tempting to feed these thoughts and even bring some sort of fear. Responses will be appreciated!

  • @agfilmwriter469
    @agfilmwriter469 6 днів тому +7

    What if he’s just not currently pursuing the woman but God has revealed it to her first that he’s the one? That doesn’t mean he won’t pursue or that God isn’t highlighting him. So I disagree with that part because it may just mean not yet, I wouldn’t necessarily rule it out altogether

  • @tracyoguntokun4284
    @tracyoguntokun4284 7 днів тому +1

    Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @CandyK_117
    @CandyK_117 День тому

    I've given up on online dating. I feel like it's done by my hands then I'm forcing something to come together. That's not of God and could eventually end. I want God's blessing so I'm going to let Him work

  • @victoriarose9090
    @victoriarose9090 6 днів тому

    Amen

  • @ryokohonda4619
    @ryokohonda4619 7 днів тому +7

    All of the signs I see except the fact that he is not pursuing me and he isn't Godly enough 😢 I don't know if because he isn't the one or he's not ready

    • @Joy_M507
      @Joy_M507 6 днів тому +7

      Based upon what you’ve said, it seems he’s not the one God has for you. Not to say he’ll never be or he’ll never change, but for the moment, he is not, so guard your heart in your feelings towards him. He should pursue you and most importantly, be equally yoked with you in the faith. Keep praying and waiting on the Lord to bring you to the man He has for you. It’ll be worth it! 😊💕

    • @ryokohonda4619
      @ryokohonda4619 6 днів тому +1

      @@Joy_M507 I felt a strong connection with him he is not my usual type. The guy I least expected. There are times Mark's videos are amazingly on time. So there are times that I am thinking it's possible he is the one but I'm also on trial. I want to move on since I'm in pain.

    • @crispyz2864
      @crispyz2864 4 дні тому +1

      God's plan is perfect, one day we will understand and we will find our person

  • @skywinderisreal
    @skywinderisreal 5 днів тому

    What if you don't magentise towards each other in a group setting but there is a mutual attraction. You both stare at each other a lot...but there is awkward silence and you're both tongue tied not knowing how to approach the other person. Even though you have spoken to each other, small talks here and there....would you say God is highlighting that man to the woman but he is not pursuing her yet? (either he hasn't got the word from God or he's just not interested or he's shy?)

  • @erinjensen8183
    @erinjensen8183 7 днів тому +11

    So you’re telling me to find a well 🤔 😊

  • @TheresaWebster-rz5ny
    @TheresaWebster-rz5ny День тому

    I got a guy insisting he wants a relationship with me . I have no intention there is nothing wrong with him his nice he is very nice to me. Ask me questions about me. Involved in me. But I don't want a relationship with anyone I like being independent and free. I was married at very young age. That never worked. Yes I b dated. I have family friends co worker my son.but this guy is trying so hard to have a relationship love relationship I keep saying no but he won't give up. I love my life great job . Doing things being with my son. I date once in a while. And no I don't sleep around. Some ppl say oh he likes you but I don't want a life I won't like I don't need a man to be happy. I was very happy after it ended. But this guy just won't give up. He a christian man. He has it all but I not miserable

  • @elizadolittle.
    @elizadolittle. 5 днів тому

    Everything checks except one criterion :(

  • @Natalia-xo1yj
    @Natalia-xo1yj 6 днів тому +2

    Mark, what if they don't want to share their password on their phone and he seems to guard his phone all the time?

    • @cbebop5
      @cbebop5 5 днів тому +9

      Natalya, you are asking this question because your intuition in your body is telling you something is off, something is not quite right. Sister, God uses a woman's intuition to warn her about people and situations. A man who is ready and prepared for a healthy relationship has NOTHING to hide from the girl he loves or is interested in pursuing. Trust your instincts sister, the Holy Spirit is indeed HIGHLIGHTING something to you about this man not being equipped for a healthy relationship at this time in his life. Don't ignore the Holy Spirit, you will only regret it. I hope this helps you sister. God bless you, you are worthy of love that is secure and a man who doesnt cause doubt and suspicion. ❤

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 3 дні тому +4

      NOT a good sign

    • @boxesbinslidsllc
      @boxesbinslidsllc 3 дні тому +3

      Run as Dr. Delony says behavior is a language.

  • @SublimeSubliminalHeir
    @SublimeSubliminalHeir 4 дні тому

    The thing is I met my current crush at work. God told me to get a job. And on my job search months ago, I saw this super handsome man at a place I was already intending to work at and interview at and apply at. I had already had other job offers, but ended up choosing this one . I wasn't trying to meet him. Just was being obedient to God's word. Also when there's a hot guy at work it motivates me to go to work so I chose this job bc of the hot guy I saw that worked there so I could keep the job and keep going . But then I found out he has a gf and child with her although he's said he wanted to leave her awhile ago so I don't know . It's complicated.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 3 дні тому +3

      God will NEVER send you someone else's person. They ALL say they're leaving, not in lover etc but, his child is affected, plus....he never married the mother of his child, his not a Godly man

    • @boxesbinslidsllc
      @boxesbinslidsllc 3 дні тому +3

      Remember, God isn't complicated. Looks are great, but more than good looks are required to have a Godly marriage.

    • @boxesbinslidsllc
      @boxesbinslidsllc 3 дні тому +3

      Remember, God isn't complicated. In addition, more than good looks are required to sustain a Godly relationship. Is he a man of his word? Are you able to unconditionally love his child and respect the child's mother?

  • @reneika7771
    @reneika7771 4 дні тому +1

    🫶✝️💟😇🙏