Indian Mom Takes Me on a REAL Guilt Trip

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    My mother is a professional guilt tripper. Like legit, she could win the Nobel Peace Prize for Emotional Abuse. Just me?!
    Also, your parents could be under the influence: • Desi Parents Under the...
    Shoutouts to my cast:
    Alison Sieke
    Nikita Chaudhry
    Satish Ullal
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  • @LillySingh
    @LillySingh  2 роки тому +767

    Thanks for watching! Check out *Desi Parents Under The Influence*: ua-cam.com/video/ZCrm2grVlTs/v-deo.html

    • @LibanReactsTo
      @LibanReactsTo 2 роки тому +3

      Hey My name is Liban I’m a young content creator trying to grow on UA-cam
      Goal: 100k

    • @jamesbondlegal2g564
      @jamesbondlegal2g564 2 роки тому +2

      🗣YOU STILL FORGOT TO TELL HER WE WE'RE DATING 😎👤

    • @__...__...__
      @__...__...__ 2 роки тому +2

      👍🏻

    • @sundarmanoj
      @sundarmanoj 2 роки тому +2

      This is addicting

    • @nehalreshu5137
      @nehalreshu5137 2 роки тому +2

      Indian and can relate to it perfectly. Completely nailed it.
      Love you lilly, best youtuber ❤❤❤❤

  • @fih5569
    @fih5569 2 роки тому +4661

    "What I did in my last life to deserve this"
    Line every Indian kid has heard at least once in their life

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 роки тому +40

      🤣🤣🤣literally African parents

    • @ArchitGuptaArchit
      @ArchitGuptaArchit 2 роки тому +69

      Also * dont come in my funeral

    • @nishthamukherjee4590
      @nishthamukherjee4590 2 роки тому +28

      I hear it everyday 😂😂

    • @rairadio7119
      @rairadio7119 2 роки тому +33

      @@shakurwonders5216 What you guys too? I thought thats a Hindu reincarnation guilt trip

    • @lisanickerson4788
      @lisanickerson4788 2 роки тому +42

      Catholic mother version: *shouts to dead parents in heaven* "what did I do to deserve a child like this! I wasn't that bad!"

  • @jenittaros3604
    @jenittaros3604 2 роки тому +1816

    "don't come to my funeral"😂damn the accuracy of certain dialogues was on point😂😂😂#onlyIndiansknow

    • @theserialbunny424
      @theserialbunny424 2 роки тому +8

      Drama is real 😓

    • @celesteluna6834
      @celesteluna6834 2 роки тому +6

      And latinas too, believe me :/

    • @raisarahman5406
      @raisarahman5406 2 роки тому +1

      Not only indians.. we Bangladeshis as well 😩😩😩 The struggle is literal real 🥺😭😩

    • @QueenHela240
      @QueenHela240 2 роки тому +1

      Same here in Bangladesh.🤦😆

    • @hars771
      @hars771 2 роки тому +2

      @@raisarahman5406 we are same culturally anyways 😀

  • @andishae2699
    @andishae2699 2 роки тому +1682

    Loved it when the therapist got into the back seat. This is so Asian, this is so true, we are constantly denied of our mental health, and the best part is at one point of time the therapist takes our parents' side.

    • @okay187
      @okay187 2 роки тому +90

      Bro fr- I finally got a counsellor and she sides with my parents 🤡... Like... I need therapy BECAUSE of academics and they're like "you need to give up your hobbies and study for 10-12th." Like... They're literally telling me to give up my lifeline, my passions and like... Stop being happy 🤡

    • @aishwaryaraju921
      @aishwaryaraju921 2 роки тому +41

      I’m really sorry you got an unsupportive therapist. Please do switch.

    • @raisarahman5406
      @raisarahman5406 2 роки тому +11

      This is soooo truuueee 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭😭 aawhh gooodd 😩😩😩

    • @BBakerStreet-ku1gf
      @BBakerStreet-ku1gf 2 роки тому +15

      true....and i think we all turn into masochist cuz at one point we even miss it if you don't live or actually meet your parents...you miss the taunting the slippers flying the passive-agressive comments lol

    • @sabrinaspurzem1672
      @sabrinaspurzem1672 2 роки тому +14

      @@BBakerStreet-ku1gf I think that is part of Stockholm Syndrome. We learn to love the pain :')

  • @coffeetea8577
    @coffeetea8577 2 роки тому +344

    “I suffered for 9 months to bring you into this world and this is what happens to you” every Indian mother has said this to her child at least 50 times

  • @tanu_257
    @tanu_257 2 роки тому +3231

    "Sorry sir, my aunt kidnapped me. I'll be back.... in 5 hours."
    loll this was so relatable 😅
    thanks for making us laugh lilly!! 🤍
    edit: i meant the vid was relatable 😂😂

    • @puneetindergrewal7900
      @puneetindergrewal7900 2 роки тому +27

      relatable????

    • @eroni4441
      @eroni4441 2 роки тому +18

      OMG!! It's so relatable 🤣🤣😭💀😳

    • @gem0.079
      @gem0.079 2 роки тому +17

      Omg my aunt always kidnaps me omg so relatable😍😍😍😩

    • @hexalynn9434
      @hexalynn9434 2 роки тому +7

      Are you ok, hun?

    • @tanu_257
      @tanu_257 2 роки тому +7

      loll i meant the video was relatable 😅😅

  • @HariPrasath-qm3lz
    @HariPrasath-qm3lz 2 роки тому +490

    "Don't come to my funeral" tats so Indian parents things 😂😂😂😂

  • @IfdesHerzog
    @IfdesHerzog 2 роки тому +101

    Lilly's mom: Invest in family.
    Also Lilly's mom: When are you going to grow up and take care of yourself?

  • @EasyElectronics975
    @EasyElectronics975 2 роки тому +67

    Very much relatable for every indian kid 😆😆

  • @UniqueornBacon
    @UniqueornBacon 2 роки тому +525

    “Heart attack takes two minutes you’re going to be eighteen minutes too late to say goodbye to me- PBTHBTH!!” xD

  • @Autogirl83
    @Autogirl83 2 роки тому +1092

    All moms of color must take the same guilt trip class or something 🤣🤣🤣

    • @omarbanuelos3697
      @omarbanuelos3697 2 роки тому +19

      My mom and dad act exactly like this 😂

    • @airabopanna
      @airabopanna 2 роки тому +7

      LOL true

    • @amehak1922
      @amehak1922 2 роки тому +11

      You have NO idea lol

    • @Exhausted_blueberry
      @Exhausted_blueberry 2 роки тому +4

      Yep. I went through this cause she said “let’s share a toast!…. Made by you :)” and I said I didn’t want it

    • @lunarkun6342
      @lunarkun6342 2 роки тому +32

      Any immigrant mom is like this, the guilt trip won't stop, African moms, Asian moms, Hispanic moms, Indian moms, no matter what argument u make, they will come up with irrelevant things to use against you

  • @niveditamenon4277
    @niveditamenon4277 2 роки тому +23

    Guilt tripping is considered incomplete without a parent saying that I have carried you for 9 months 🤦‍♀️😁.

  • @aamnah1743
    @aamnah1743 2 роки тому +33

    Paramjeet is a new level of savage, she got the damn therapist in the car 💀

    • @IndyAnna8
      @IndyAnna8 Рік тому

      Ikr! I lost it at that point 😂 💀

  • @luvsalwa
    @luvsalwa 2 роки тому +240

    Parents: why aren’t you like your cousin
    That cousin: *a drug dealer*

  • @skay9096
    @skay9096 2 роки тому +254

    As an Indian this is little bit too relatable😭

    • @amehak1922
      @amehak1922 2 роки тому +10

      For Africans too

    • @ivaolo
      @ivaolo 2 роки тому +8

      lol I'm croatian and I can relate as well.. :)

    • @emomu
      @emomu Рік тому

      w sufjan stevens pfp!

  • @dylanpham9995
    @dylanpham9995 2 роки тому +11

    I really thought she was gonna throw in the “I know this just a hotel for you” line at the end

  • @mehek6084
    @mehek6084 2 роки тому +27

    I love the whole creative thinking behind the setup..taking on a guilt trip in a car, making the environment around the car scary.... Calling in cousin... therapist, the juice botle name, and of course the very known and the famous Indian mom dialogues 👏👏... You are one of the best that we have Lilly! ❤️

  • @sinsubra
    @sinsubra 2 роки тому +144

    When she drank the guilt juice I’m on the floor 🤣

  • @teeksha4004
    @teeksha4004 2 роки тому +400

    Lilly always turns thing around with the last line🤣😂👏🏻👏🏻

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 роки тому +13

      This came right when I'm planning my moving out plan

  • @g10films53
    @g10films53 2 роки тому +76

    Oh my! Oh my! Oh my! So true! I had this same guilt trip when I said, “It’s time I move out.” I got the “why spend your money, for nothing, when you can live here:) Got to say, these videos must be therapeutic (ie they allow you to express your deepest thought, but in a positive/creative way). Cheers! Keep that creativity coming. These videos are hilarious 😂😂😂👍🏽🙏🏽

    • @dOVERanalyst
      @dOVERanalyst 2 роки тому +5

      Well, that's an absolutely fair point. Why spend more?
      I'm the daughter btw.
      I spent tons living out in another city. FINALLY mom is retired & has joined me. It's heaven.
      Life is lovely with mom.

  • @freddiecauseyii9419
    @freddiecauseyii9419 2 роки тому +285

    You are the best in articulating a message Ms. Singh.

  • @LillySinghFans
    @LillySinghFans 2 роки тому +164

    Lilly's mom is under the influence of relatives 😩🤣

  • @cyb3r_z0mb13_
    @cyb3r_z0mb13_ 2 роки тому +68

    I littarly spitted out my drink with laughter when i heard Lilly's mom say "its not my lucky day since i still have the same husband", this is why i love this channel so much!! 😂💗

  • @minniem5940
    @minniem5940 Рік тому +15

    Never have I related to something more.

  • @rtr.vedantikamble2082
    @rtr.vedantikamble2082 2 роки тому +178

    Her production value has gone up so much and I'm here for it!❤❤

  • @kaveethaseneviratne2730
    @kaveethaseneviratne2730 2 роки тому +56

    I Love when lilly's mom said ''Haaaa""!😂♥️

  • @saadiasalamat5087
    @saadiasalamat5087 2 роки тому +831

    Damn, Lilly can still fit into her mom's suit after all these years.

  • @user-zi2hc3yb9l
    @user-zi2hc3yb9l 2 роки тому +85

    Lilly's videos never fail to make us indians connect the videos with our own experiences..too good and too freaking real😅

    • @cicibe8644
      @cicibe8644 2 роки тому +6

      Not just Indians, but brown ppl in general, haha! I'm African American, & i relate 2 a lot of her stuff! 😇

    • @amehak1922
      @amehak1922 2 роки тому +1

      All kids of immigrant parents

  • @mdm934
    @mdm934 2 роки тому +47

    The nine months !! It the go to guilty trip tactic 😂😂 I will wait until I get a child to use it

  • @Venom-sf2vz
    @Venom-sf2vz 2 роки тому +37

    Ommgg the ending though😂😂it got me!! Love ya lilly😄🤗

  • @Avant402
    @Avant402 2 роки тому +62

    🤣🤣🤣 I can totally relate, and I’m not Indian. When I finished graduate school and move out into my own apartment, my mother had a fit!! Follow by the parental guilty trip🤦🏽‍♀️ So yes very relatable!!

  • @vidushiparashar3510
    @vidushiparashar3510 2 роки тому +11

    why is this so relatable ?! loved the "re-fuel"section so much

  • @_tiaaa._2
    @_tiaaa._2 2 роки тому +361

    Thank you Lilly for keeping us entertained during these difficult times. No matter how much time passes your videos always make me smile. Glad to be a part of team super! Here within 5 minutes! Happy holidays :)

  • @piyushasavaruth2230
    @piyushasavaruth2230 2 роки тому +144

    Swear to God, brown moms always find a way to manipulate our mind and make us agree to their decisions!!

  • @neharikaravi2914
    @neharikaravi2914 2 роки тому +14

    The "What did I do in my past life to deserve this?!" really hit home

  • @moustafahussein2527
    @moustafahussein2527 2 роки тому +23

    ok I'm not Indian (im Egyptian) but i can really relate to this KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK LILLY❤

  • @cookwithme9361
    @cookwithme9361 2 роки тому +26

    Loved it!! I love how Lilly tells real stories with a twist of drama and comedy ❤❤

  • @jatoyataylor2943
    @jatoyataylor2943 2 роки тому +26

    This week has been the longest and I really appreciate this video as a lunch pick me up. You always come thru with the sunny serotonin 🥰🥰 always love you for that. 💕💕💕

  • @user-oj5bw7sl8p
    @user-oj5bw7sl8p 2 роки тому +174

    Now I finally understand, why Lilly moved to USA from Canada. She just wanted to be far away from her parents. My total support to her! I know so many people, who started living only after they have moved far away from their parents, grandparents and siblings.

    • @TheLifetraveler1
      @TheLifetraveler1 2 роки тому +34

      You do realize she's just being humorous right?

    • @riddhisingh4538
      @riddhisingh4538 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheLifetraveler1 🤣🤣🤣

    • @afrinakhanam4696
      @afrinakhanam4696 2 роки тому +21

      @@TheLifetraveler1 No, she is telling the truth. She actually portrays her own life in a sarcastic way.

    • @abuhaimiabuhassan1903
      @abuhaimiabuhassan1903 2 роки тому +3

      Ahahaahah you'd think the distance would make any difference🤣

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 2 роки тому +4

      @@afrinakhanam4696 her parents are very modern and liberal people

  • @spiritconjure2996
    @spiritconjure2996 2 роки тому +2

    Recently not too long ago my parents kept on telling me to grow up and be responsible and learn to be on my own and be an independent person. And now that I have moved out of state all of a sudden they try to make me feel bad saying hurtful things like “ your so ungrateful and selfish and you never care about anybody’s feelings but yourself” and saying other things like “oh you shouldn’t have left we put a roof over your head and food on the table” and here I am like “ok you had a problem with me living at home and now your mad at me for going to college AAAAAAND working a part time job at a fast food restaurant!?, Alright whatever” 🙄😵

  • @Hipppogrifff
    @Hipppogrifff 2 роки тому +16

    I had to change city cos of the exact same problem. Used to live by myself in the same city as my mom, she called everyday saying: “We are in the same city each living in a separate house? What did I ever do wrong that you hate living with me this much?” Every.single.day. -_-

  • @johnny-brings-a-good-point
    @johnny-brings-a-good-point 2 роки тому +8

    2:38 the way she acted after she drank that juice was perfect lol.🤣

  • @sammycross9119
    @sammycross9119 2 роки тому +11

    Oh my god, this is so relatable, and I love how you have evolved with your skits! Gotta show this to my sister who is trying to move out 😌

  • @npriyankarao
    @npriyankarao 2 роки тому +5

    This is so true and amazing!!! Thank you Lilly!!! ❤

  • @vedika6263
    @vedika6263 2 роки тому +8

    You know that a person's a great actor when you feel the same frustration they feel :")

  • @Susika
    @Susika 2 роки тому +8

    Lilly your new content is sooo good, glad you re uploading frequently

  • @thakshilasamaraweera7000
    @thakshilasamaraweera7000 2 роки тому +4

    Not only Indian, Sri Lankan parents are the same 😁 thanks Lilly

  • @JettLockette
    @JettLockette 2 роки тому +29

    Fun fact: Lilly never fails to make us smile!❤️ love you Lilly!

  • @Baddie_centrale
    @Baddie_centrale Рік тому +5

    I misss when lilly consistently dropped family skits

  • @AhmedMalik814
    @AhmedMalik814 2 роки тому +2

    I am freaking out with excitement already on the first scene... aaaaah!
    Lily you are the best amazing! Please please please continue making these videos! Teary eyes :'))

  • @davidcisneros9057
    @davidcisneros9057 2 роки тому +1

    I missed this type of content, just pure absolute entertainment. THANK YOUUUU

  • @Asdfcsh
    @Asdfcsh 2 роки тому +3

    Wow the last one is so relatable. "Fiiiiiinnnnnneee"

  • @itstheweirdo3604
    @itstheweirdo3604 Рік тому +9

    I want to buy my own apartment and this is why I don't want to tell my mom 😭

  • @CarpeFuckingDiemAlready
    @CarpeFuckingDiemAlready 2 роки тому +12

    Lilly is the best!😍🌻 And this is so accurate!💯😂

  • @GM-jw2gq
    @GM-jw2gq 2 роки тому

    Omg! Love your skits. I love your portrayal of your parents.

  • @jennierubyjanes8574
    @jennierubyjanes8574 2 роки тому +11

    You're such a talented actress! I laughed so much! Keep it up!🤩 👍

  • @GetRealwithLily
    @GetRealwithLily 2 роки тому +8

    Man Lilly 🤣 This is so on point and the worst thing is when they start doing it in the car and you can't get out

  • @surajkumarsingh4301
    @surajkumarsingh4301 2 роки тому +1

    She is a legend... The concept is always amazing

  • @yugankgupta207
    @yugankgupta207 2 роки тому +1

    Lily no matter how the algorithm works or the numbers seem to be u r an inspiration and a trail blazer for all who think a brown indian girl isn't anything more than brainy n shy !! Hope it gives u a little bit of positivity n love that u have abundance of

  • @RohitSingh-rv3co
    @RohitSingh-rv3co 2 роки тому +6

    The ultimate "Don't come to my funeral" ughh Indian moms are on whole another level. 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @linawan
    @linawan 2 роки тому +5

    😂 You’re awesome Lily !! Been watching your videos since 2013 and I’m still a fan ! Your videos are still great 👍🏼

  • @sandiptoor5467
    @sandiptoor5467 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much for this video and all of your videos Lily! It’s so important to talk about parents of this culture. It’s a very important matter which affects individuals and families very deeply on a daily basis. I’m 46 and am still in therapy.

  • @Misha.Bamhotra
    @Misha.Bamhotra 2 роки тому +2

    The last line. 😂😂😂 What a punch! When i didn't expect it and yet totally relatable. Good work! 👍

  • @anubhutipatel7213
    @anubhutipatel7213 2 роки тому +6

    The creativity in Lily's videos is unmatched. 😂❤️

  • @homiekeen23
    @homiekeen23 2 роки тому +4

    I. JUST. LOVE. how she took her to the car that's literally the top guilt tripping trap THERE IS NO ESCAPE!!

  • @shreyasmore1942
    @shreyasmore1942 2 роки тому +2

    Like.... the level of relatability Lily puts in her video is just amazing😍
    🇮🇳❤

  • @idcmovebitch
    @idcmovebitch 2 роки тому +1

    this video was hilarious 😭keep up the good work Lilly!

  • @MaikeTech
    @MaikeTech 2 роки тому +29

    As the last child living in my mom's house and thinking about moving out, this is so relatable. 😂🤣😂

  • @awesomeadamfrom2099
    @awesomeadamfrom2099 2 роки тому +4

    Awesome job lily

  • @angiekristie1888
    @angiekristie1888 2 роки тому +2

    Lol! Lilly you never cease to amaze in humor and relatability 🥲

  • @pawelpukszta9815
    @pawelpukszta9815 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video!!!!!!!!!

  • @hestiadumont725
    @hestiadumont725 2 роки тому +5

    When people ask me how's my relationship with my mom:

  • @LillySinghFans
    @LillySinghFans 2 роки тому +6

    Lets go Lilly!! ❤❤

  • @GBSOfficial_YT
    @GBSOfficial_YT 2 роки тому +1

    2:57
    “With the eyebrow up to sky”
    I was *deceased*

  • @rishitaburman5146
    @rishitaburman5146 2 роки тому

    omg!!! why is this completely relatable?!

  • @lalachona9499
    @lalachona9499 2 роки тому +12

    What a perfect description of my grandma😂

  • @rudywinter4270
    @rudywinter4270 2 роки тому +15

    I’m going through this same exact thing literally right now 😂

  • @aznchik7229
    @aznchik7229 2 роки тому +1

    This was fan-freaking-tastic! Love the play on words 😆

  • @khyati1501
    @khyati1501 2 роки тому

    After all these years, I'm watching lily and she still rocks!

  • @this_mundane_life
    @this_mundane_life 2 роки тому +45

    Oh God the accuracy 😂😂😂 BTW Lilly is vlogmas on for this year? Really excited for it!

  • @OrphicSelenophile_07
    @OrphicSelenophile_07 2 роки тому +3

    OMG, the last part really got me 😂😂

  • @faisal1582
    @faisal1582 2 роки тому

    Hands down, one of your best ones yet.

  • @sarahsampath2900
    @sarahsampath2900 2 роки тому

    So relatable and on point, another great one Lilly 👏

  • @asmaatif5868
    @asmaatif5868 2 роки тому +3

    Since I and my brothers never wanted to move out I never had this problem or conversation but its still funny to see how its like for other people

  • @girlwithuke9853
    @girlwithuke9853 2 роки тому +4

    This is sooo funny and sad at the same timeeee!!!! Ahhhhh! 🤣🤣🥲

  • @bozekblack
    @bozekblack 2 роки тому

    These are just awesome!!!

  • @motivibes0630
    @motivibes0630 2 роки тому

    Omigosh this video is HILARIOUS and SOOOO relatable!!!!!!!!!

  • @prettypinkpearls23
    @prettypinkpearls23 2 роки тому +4

    This was literally my conversation yesterday 😂

  • @Kaylovescray
    @Kaylovescray 2 роки тому +6

    My mom guilt trips me all the time 💀😭

  • @tobe3940
    @tobe3940 Рік тому

    You and your talents are gold.

  • @Gigi-zq7ci
    @Gigi-zq7ci 2 роки тому

    ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS ON UA-cam THANK YOU FOR MAKING US INDIANS FEEL SEEN

  • @sbr6725
    @sbr6725 2 роки тому +6

    it's to relatable 😂😂everything is true and now I'm not gonna leave my mom as well

  • @eph2vv89only1way
    @eph2vv89only1way 2 роки тому +6

    I’m white Canadian and yet I can identify with this one. When I moved out of my mom’s home in my early 20s my mom moved with me! And I didn’t have the self confidence to say anything. Every time I moved she followed until I left the province at 25. Even then she said she didn’t come too because she wanted to stay close to my sister’s kids. She tried to move in with my sister but my sister is stronger at saying no than I was at the time

  • @rekhakaul2069
    @rekhakaul2069 2 роки тому +1

    Totally relatable! Lilly shoots and scores - again!!

  • @ItWillRainXO
    @ItWillRainXO 2 роки тому

    Lilly these videos are so creative on UA-cam recently I love them!!!!!

  • @aadhyanatha2214
    @aadhyanatha2214 2 роки тому +3

    4:08 Lily you forgot," Why are you shouting at me? This is what I deserve for keeping you for 9 months inside me"

  • @snehalsaju3085
    @snehalsaju3085 2 роки тому +15

    This just happened today morning with me and my mom. And watching this, I feel better that it happened 😂

  • @9876shikha
    @9876shikha 2 роки тому

    Omgggg soooo damn relatable every second!! I love it! Lilly u're awesome!!!!

  • @megavern72
    @megavern72 2 роки тому

    Oh that last line floored me!

  • @celesteluna6834
    @celesteluna6834 2 роки тому +3

    It's incredible how I can relate to this :c Im latina btw. And talking serious emotional manipulation from parents is something we need to go away from, we deserve better ✌