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    A series on Qur'an-based principles for the purpose of preserving the fabric of marriage with real life case studies and practical advice. A course for the young, old, married, unmarried, and happily or miserably married.
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  • @Adnan...7575
    @Adnan...7575 2 роки тому +111

    All the principles,
    PHASE:1
    ١ 🟢ﻭَﻣَﺎ ﺧَﻠَﻘۡﺖُ اﻟۡﺠِﻦَّ ﻭَاﻻِۡﻧۡﺲَ اِﻻَّ ﻟِﻴَﻌۡﺒُﺪُﻭۡﻥِ . (51:56)
    ٢ 🟢ﻭَّاَﺧَﺬۡﻥَ ﻣِﻨۡﻜُﻢۡ ﻣِّﻴۡﺜَﺎﻗًﺎ ﻏَﻠِﻴۡﻈًﺎ‏. (4:21)
    ٣ 🟢ﻭَاَﻧۡﻜِﺤُﻮا اﻻَۡﻳَﺎﻣٰﻰ ﻣِﻨۡﻜُﻢۡ ﻭَاﻟﺼّٰﻠِﺤِﻴۡﻦَ ﻣِﻦۡ ﻋِﺒَﺎﺩِﻛُﻢۡ ﻭَاِﻣَﺎٓﯨِٕﻜُﻢۡ‌ (24:32)
    ٤ 🟢ﻭَ ﻟَﻴۡﺲَ اﻟﺬَّﻛَﺮُ ﻛَﺎﻻُۡﻧۡﺜٰﻰ‌‌ۚ (3:36)
    PHASE: 2
    ٥ 🟡وﺟَﻌَﻞَ ﺑَﻴۡﻨَﻜُﻢۡ ﻣَّﻮَﺩَّﺓً ﻭَّﺭَﺣۡﻤَﺔً (30:21)
    ٦ 🟡ﻓَﺎِﻥۡ اَﺭَاﺩَا ﻓِﺼَﺎﻻً ﻋَﻦۡ ﺗَﺮَاﺽٍ ﻣِّﻨۡﻬُﻤَﺎ ﻭَﺗَﺸَﺎﻭُﺭٍ ﻓَﻼَ ﺟُﻨَﺎﺡَ ﻋَﻠَﻴۡﻬِﻤَﺎ (2:233)
    ٧ 🟡ﻭَﺗَﻌَﺎﻭَﻧُﻮۡا ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻟۡﺒِﺮِّ ﻭَاﻟﺘَّﻘۡﻮٰﻯ‌ ۖ ﻭَﻻَ ﺗَﻌَﺎﻭَﻧُﻮۡا ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻻِۡﺛۡﻢِ ﻭَاﻟۡﻌُﺪۡﻭَاﻥِ‌ (5:2)
    ٨ 🟡ﻭَﻋَﺎﺷِﺮُﻭۡﻫُﻦَّ ﺑِﺎﻟۡﻤَﻌۡﺮُﻭۡﻑِ‌ (4:19)
    ٩ 🟡اَﻟﺮِّﺟَﺎﻝُ ﻗَﻮَّاﻣُﻮۡﻥَ ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻟﻨِّﺴَﺎٓءِ (4:34)
    ١٠ 🟡ﻭَاِﺫۡ ﺗَﺎَﺫَّﻥَ ﺭَﺑُّﻜُﻢۡ ﻟَﯩِٕﻦۡ ﺷَﻜَﺮۡﺗُﻢۡ ﻻََﺯِﻳۡﺪَﻧَّـﻜُﻢۡ‌ (14:7)
    PHASE:3
    ١١ 🟤ﻋَﺮَّﻑَ ﺑَﻌۡﻀَﻪٗ ﻭَاَﻋۡﺮَﺽَ ﻋَﻦۡۢ ﺑَﻌۡﺾٍ‌ۚ (66:3)
    ١٢ 🟤ﻭَاﻟﺼُّﻠۡﺢُ ﺧَﻴۡﺮٌ‌ (4:128)
    ١٣ 🟤ﻭَﻣَﻦۡ ﻳَّـﺘَّـﻖِ اﻟﻠّٰﻪَ ﻳَﺠۡﻌَﻞْ ﻟَّﻪٗ ﻣِﻦۡ اَﻣۡﺮِﻩٖ یُﺳْﺮًا (65:4)
    ١٤ 🟤ﻭَاﻟۡﻜٰﻈِﻤِﻴۡﻦَ اﻟۡﻐَﻴۡﻆَ (3:134)
    ١٥ 🟤ﻭَاﻟۡﻌَﺎﻓِﻴۡﻦَ ﻋَﻦِ اﻟﻨَّﺎﺱِ‌ؕ (3:134)
    ١٦ 🟤ﻓَﺮُﺩُّﻭۡﻩُ اِﻟَﻰ اﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻭَاﻟﺮَّﺳُﻮۡﻝِ اِﻥۡ ﻛُﻨۡـﺘُﻢۡ ﺗُﺆۡﻣِﻨُﻮۡﻥَ ﺑِﺎﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻭَاﻟۡﻴَـﻮۡﻡِ اﻻٰۡﺧِﺮِ‌ (4:59)
    ١٧ 🟤ﻭَ ﻻَ ﺗَﻨۡﺴَﻮُا اﻟۡﻔَﻀۡﻞَ ﺑَﻴۡﻨَﻜُﻢۡ‌ؕ (2:237)
    PHASE :4
    ١٨ 🔴ﻻَ ﺗَﺪۡﺭِﻯۡ ﻟَﻌَﻞَّ اﻟﻠّٰﻪَ ﻳُﺤۡﺪِﺙُ ﺑَﻌۡﺪَ ﺫٰ ﻟِﻚَ اَﻣۡﺮًا(65:1)
    ١٩ 🔴ﻓَﺎِﻣۡﺴَﺎﻙٌ ۢ ﺑِﻤَﻌۡﺮُﻭۡﻑٍ اَﻭۡ ﺗَﺴۡﺮِﻳۡﺢٌ ۢ ﺑِﺎِﺣۡﺴَﺎﻥٍ‌(2:229)
    ٢٠ 🔴ﻭَﻣَﻦۡ ﻳَّﺘَﻌَﺪَّ ﺣُﺪُﻭۡﺩَ اﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻓَﻘَﺪۡ ﻇَﻠَﻢَ ﻧَﻔۡﺴَﻪٗ‌(65:1)

    • @jannatidyali
      @jannatidyali Рік тому

      Explain I don’t understand thanks

    • @thishandleistakensogoaway
      @thishandleistakensogoaway Рік тому

      May Allah reward you - Ameen

    • @mkktsk
      @mkktsk Рік тому

      Can anyone explain this

    • @animemh7264
      @animemh7264 Рік тому +1

      These are the principles that will be disscussed futher in this series

    • @mss0206
      @mss0206 Рік тому

      Jazakum Allah khayran

  • @seynaboufall4072
    @seynaboufall4072 2 роки тому +306

    “It is not marriage that makes you happy… you are the one that makes your marriage happy. It is a choice everyone is able to make”
    Since I’m 19 I will take this advice into my future inshallah. Jazakallah Khair!

  • @SeekingAjar
    @SeekingAjar 2 роки тому +400

    How does sheikh go through this class so fluently without looking at a single note. Allahumma Barik lahu.

  • @sheibrahim3259
    @sheibrahim3259 Рік тому +107

    It is not marriage that makes you happy,but you are the one who make your marriage happy...
    May Allah grant me and each of us a good spouse,the coolness of the eyes...

  • @AbdurRehmanBaig
    @AbdurRehmanBaig 2 роки тому +251

    much needed series! I'm not married yet, but it is definitely preparing me for the future. JazakAllahu Khairan

    • @faizagelleh5139
      @faizagelleh5139 2 роки тому +27

      May Allah give you the right spouse that will give tranquillity and will remind you of Allah when you are in the wrong.

    • @angelp4724
      @angelp4724 Рік тому +10

      May you have a happy marriage

    • @SYEDSHAZEB46013
      @SYEDSHAZEB46013 Рік тому

      why the hell would you want to get married?

    • @bintadembele5228
      @bintadembele5228 Рік тому

      @@SYEDSHAZEB46013it’s Part of the Prophets Sunnah!

    • @somowako2845
      @somowako2845 Рік тому

      Me too here

  • @ridaanam8578
    @ridaanam8578 2 місяці тому +3

    Doesn't matter married or not this series is super beneficial.

  • @safiyyahzaman2334
    @safiyyahzaman2334 Рік тому +46

    I am grateful that i came across this series. I have almost finished watching all 12 episodes and the amount of wisdom he shares with regard to marriage is extensive, and i have not listened to any lecture on marriage as comprehensive and clarified as this. May Allah bless him and his family Ameen. And may Allah make our marriages the coolness of our eyes. Ameen

  • @AhmedHassan-zr8in
    @AhmedHassan-zr8in 2 роки тому +91

    This study couldn't be any truer. I've seen with the mother of my own eyes. Here in Egypt particularly in Qalubiyyah governorate in one of Al-Qanatir Alkhairiyyah's villages namely Albarad'ah where I live my distant grandfather died and consequently her wife greatly grieved his departure and her life without him became seemingly impossible. What's sad is that she mentioned to those around her that she is gonna accompany him. Meaning die. SubhanAllah a few hours later after we came back from his funeral we found ourselves have to go bury her not to long after. While we know as Muslims that for every soul is an appointed term which can neither be preponed nor postponed. Their death became the talk of the village. So I just wanted to say that the likes of these studies are witnessed and not imaginary nor is it unreal. And so we ask Allah to forgive us and our loved ones before our time which can neither be brought forward nor delayed comes.

    • @noorashikin450
      @noorashikin450 2 роки тому +1

      Assalammualaikom warrahmahtullahhi wabarrakkatuhhu
      And good morning
      Bismillahirrahmanirrahim
      ✍️yes Muslim nor

  • @Bbb78651
    @Bbb78651 Рік тому +6

    One of the best lectures on Islamic marriages ever. Can’t believe it’s a series. I needed this. May Allah bless all of us.

  • @cyclonex
    @cyclonex 2 роки тому +29

    Jist: Living happily is not a mystery but a mastery (bi iznillah).. 🙌

  • @SherryHickey
    @SherryHickey 5 місяців тому +3

    I want to thank you so much Sheik for taking the time to put this entire series together. You have enlightened me beyond measure and I am so thankful to Allah SWT. This is exactly what I have been looking for to watch with my children before they got married. Although my daughter is already married, I sent it to her and her husband and my twin boys and their Fiance are watching it together. This subject of marriage is so important to this Ummah and I pray that those that Allah guided to this series, spread the knowledge and actually live it.

  • @petal21
    @petal21 Рік тому +31

    May These series help people mend their relationships with their spouse and be an inspiration for people to stay from haraam relationships and get married the Halal way. Ameen

  • @ayeshanasir9916
    @ayeshanasir9916 Рік тому +17

    I am so so so grateful that I came across this series!!!! May Allah bless you abundantly brother for doing this
    You made me realize of so many things I was doing wrong, hence causing so many issues in my marriage

  • @themastermindalliance1080
    @themastermindalliance1080 2 роки тому +35

    Allahumma barik akhi, May Allah Azzawajjal reward you! Ameen
    I respect your eloquence and gentleness in speech, May Allah Azzawajjal allow these reminders to move our hearts and the hearts of our ummah 💛Ameen

  • @missy6273
    @missy6273 2 роки тому +10

    May Allaah reward you immensely Sheikh for this much needed lecture series. May He allow us to benefit and strive towards pleasing Him. I ask Allaah protect your family and preserve you upon goodness aameen.

  • @r.j6837
    @r.j6837 2 роки тому +57

    I waited three weeks for this! I’m so excited to watch and take notes inshaAllah! JazakAllah khair to the team working on this and the scholar may Allah bless him immensely! You guys have no idea how much you are helping us !

    • @reyhann3470
      @reyhann3470 2 роки тому +5

      If possible can you share your notes?

    • @Klick17
      @Klick17 2 роки тому +4

      Brother/sister, I'd be careful of putting pictures of our little ones on social media because of ayn, may Allah bless us and protect us Ameen

  • @monamw87
    @monamw87 2 роки тому +35

    Alhamdulillah for this man he’s so wise

  • @salmandrame
    @salmandrame Рік тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @sanniabdulraheem8559
    @sanniabdulraheem8559 2 роки тому +6

    Masha Allaahh TabarokaLlaaahh, This would be soo enlightening! May ALLah bless this Sheikh. Aaameen.

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Місяць тому

    JzkAllaah khayr for taking your time to help the Muslims, may Allaah send help to you for all your affairs

  • @sade9526
    @sade9526 Рік тому +1

    Such eloquent speech ,masha allah how Allah sends us his message we dont understand

  • @YanaAlly
    @YanaAlly 2 роки тому +6

    مَاشَاءَ اللهُ تَبَارَكَ اللهُ
    🙏Jazzakallahu khair Sheik for this knowledge

  • @TimTim__
    @TimTim__ Рік тому +21

    1) Tawheed
    2) Conformity to the prophetic way
    3) Tazkiyah- Purification of the soul
    Marriage: Garments of each other- protection, concealing, most close to you/nearest.
    ‘Life is an enjoyment and the best form of worldly enjoyment is righteous woman.’

  • @_-FreePalestine-_
    @_-FreePalestine-_ 2 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful lecture and series Allah Humma Barik. Thank you so much for this

  • @WaqarADilshad
    @WaqarADilshad 2 роки тому +3

    Allah humma Barik, may Allah preserve you Shaykh.
    Indeed this series is the need of the hour.
    May Allah provide righteous spouses to us singles and make them source of peace and tranquility for us.
    And for people who are married may Allah help them getting through the thick and thins of life.
    Barakallah

  • @beginnerbytes4575
    @beginnerbytes4575 Рік тому +8

    Happiness is not a dream it's a choice that we are able to make. ❤

  • @Keizzy_Bryheem_Keita
    @Keizzy_Bryheem_Keita 2 роки тому +12

    I've been waiting for this series, alhamdulillah it's finally here. JazakAllah khayr for your effort, brother Ali

  • @IhsanDreamWorld
    @IhsanDreamWorld 12 днів тому +1

    Asalam walakkum, it was mentioned towards the end regarding the break down of family structure and how it affects nations. As Muslims I would like to offer us all a moment to reflect on our African American brothers and sisters who are descents of the TransAtlantic slave trade (I being one of them). Often our community is judged for being “ghetto” and “deviants” but it’s time to recognize that the slave owners number one goal was to tear families apart. Starting with husband and wife. And as you can see, the HARDEST thing right now for the black American is to get married. One of the other reasons is the African Americans inclination to believe in Christianity. It’s yet another trick of the shaytan and has affected my community immensely. So before we begin to judge each other, we must remember the colonization that impacted our people and be compassionate towards each other. This is a great learning moment. May Allah increase us in knowledge and understanding of one another.

    • @har00nsaeed93
      @har00nsaeed93 День тому

      May Allah make it easy for our African American Muslims. It is indeed a huge challenge i can't even imagine to face. How they have destroyed the family system, Allahu Akbar! Indeed the family system is a huge blessing that eases many tests regarding the deen, it also makes us muslims who don't face such challenges fear how we will be tested and questioned on the day of judgement, on how we performed after being given this blessing, this advantage.
      May Allah make the hisab easy for us, and may Allah ease the difficulties of our African American Community.

  • @HassenMMuse
    @HassenMMuse 2 роки тому +9

    May Allah grant you Jannah Uztaaz! All the series you have chosen so far are very important. You have no idea how much 'The change of Heart' benefited me. I am your student at Eman Academy!

    • @muzayin4023
      @muzayin4023 2 роки тому +1

      Are you his student? Are there any online courses that he teaches?

    • @HassenMMuse
      @HassenMMuse 2 роки тому

      @@muzayin4023 Yes I am. Sheikh teaches Aqida at Eman Academy.

  • @AuduHauwa-ik7xj
    @AuduHauwa-ik7xj Рік тому

    Alhamdulillah masha Allah let's read the Quran everyday and put it in practice 🙏 Amin

  • @ibtesamSayyed
    @ibtesamSayyed 2 роки тому +4

    May Allah provide all the Muslims with better spouses for each other.

  • @candace8186
    @candace8186 2 роки тому +4

    A good marriage. Not just any marriage is necessary! Tabarka Allah

  • @Taztaz-tr4pz
    @Taztaz-tr4pz Рік тому +1

    May Almighty Allah increase you in knowledge

  • @bintouf3544
    @bintouf3544 2 роки тому +6

    Mashallah great introduction, the rest of the series will be fantastic inshallah

  • @muhammadjawwad4863
    @muhammadjawwad4863 5 місяців тому +2

    Pray for me and the people who are looking for a spouse, May Allah make it easy for them.

  • @muslimahk8026
    @muslimahk8026 2 роки тому +6

    This is a wonderful and important topic very much required in this era. One thing I am looking forward to hearing is about polygamy in Islam, many men are not understanding this command. This is the most quoted and memorized ayahs of the Quran by most men. Is polygamy even healthy for a family? Most men exercise polygamy for lust and desire. There are some scholars agree that polygamy is contradictory to the verse that sets the fundamentals of marriage in Islam as Mawaddah and Rahma.

    • @mohamedmohsin5723
      @mohamedmohsin5723 2 роки тому +1

      If polygamy is not healthy for a family, it would not have been permitted. There are many things to follow to make it work. First focus is on getting closer to Allah. If getting an additional wife, would help a brother and his wife (maybe she can't cater to his needs/herself told him) he can take another wife. It is better to marry a second than have a side chick.

    • @muslimahk8026
      @muslimahk8026 2 роки тому +4

      Brother, I understand this is halal, however, there are very strict conditions for a man to marry multiple women. “but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one…” (Surah an-Nisaa, 4:3)
      (4:129) You will not be able to treat your wives with absolute justice not even when you keenly desire to do so.
      (It suffices in order to follow the Law of Allah that) you incline not wholly to one, leaving the other in suspense.161 If you act rightly and remain God-fearing, surely Allah is All-Forgiving, All-Compassionate.
      Unfortunately, there are men who neglect their first wives and children when they "fall in love" with a younger woman. My neighbor's husband married a woman 42 years younger, he has been married to his 1st wife for 42 years. Instead of spending the little time left with the woman who had several children for him and enjoying his golden years with her, he causes stress in the family. So where is the tranquility? He also treats the 2nd wife better than the 1st wife. This is not an isolated incident. Men over 65 have gone crazy, they just abandon their families for a younger woman who is mostly a gold-digger, when he falls sick after a couple years she dumps him back to his first wife who then takes care of him after he has abandoned her. This is the new trend among men, particularly more so in some communities. I wish the shuyukhs will address this matter.

    • @mohamedmohsin5723
      @mohamedmohsin5723 2 роки тому +1

      Sister, what your neighbour's husband is doing is wrong. If she was fine with him getting married again, she may have not been able to cater to his needs or so as it is better to marry a second than cheat on his wife. Only Allah knows the pressure and temptations he was going through making him marry a second.
      My grand dad had 2 wives and they both loved him to death. He treated them fairly alhamdulillah. I know men also who married a second time and seem to neglect the first. I think it is all upto the individual. We can't condone polygamy coz it is permitted, we only should advise the brothers strictly if they intend to do so.

    • @FR-zz2bj
      @FR-zz2bj Рік тому

      ​@@mohamedmohsin5723 can't condemn*

  • @nidasughra1680
    @nidasughra1680 2 роки тому +3

    Alhamdulillah!
    May Allah bless us All and guide us All .
    Thank you sheikh Ali hamuda for putting efforts into it and presenting this topic in such an amazing way .May Allah reward you for it.ameen .

  • @afrdthzna3851
    @afrdthzna3851 Рік тому

    1.tawhid
    2.idiba confirmity for the prophetic way
    3.purification of soul

  • @TimC785
    @TimC785 2 роки тому +3

    Right on time for humanity. Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you.

  • @rosanagulzar
    @rosanagulzar 2 роки тому +2

    Very useful. Jazāk Allāhu khairān, Shaikh. Please do more lectures.

  • @cheikhounaleye3909
    @cheikhounaleye3909 2 роки тому +6

    Salam Sheikh, very informative MashaAllah! Can you please do a series about parenting!

  • @MsSabreena28
    @MsSabreena28 Місяць тому +1

    It’s about time, we introduce an obligatory pre-marriage course before the nikah in England. It’s happening in Malaysia, why are we delaying it?

  • @anisah8546
    @anisah8546 3 місяці тому +4

    Not to blame my parents, but they’ve hated each other for 30 years of marriage. It’s set such a bad example of what marriage is, yet they still expect me to be happy and excited about the idea of getting married. They’re actually surprised I’m so put off by it... I've seen countless happy couples, so I know marriage can be positive, and even beautiful! But when my closest example is chaotic and ugly, it feels like I have to rewire my brain to see marriage as something desirable. There’s this battle in my mind. Anyone else feel this way?
    Also, the more I listen to this video, the more uncomfortable it is making me - like I'm about to burst out crying because something feels completely off between the way he's describing how marriage is SUPPOSED to be, and the way my parents showed me: fighting, despising, resenting each other.
    Allah help me, I've got sickness in my mind - a build up of dirt I must clean up before getting into marriage, otherwise it'll inevitably destroy it.

    • @anonymouse451
      @anonymouse451 Місяць тому

      Hey so sorry to hear that, my parents were and still are the same but all we can do is take the reins and take responsibility. Our parents tried their best to what they understand, may Allaah give us tawfeeq. And help us in our journey. Sometimes people dnt realise and they fall into these toxic circumstances. I’m Asian so I come from a cultural background and I blame a lot of it on that and the lack of Islamic knowledge. Keep listening to these talks and Allaah will open your heart and also help you become strong.At times we have weak personalities and minds but we can work on strengthening it

    • @anonymouse451
      @anonymouse451 Місяць тому

      But to put a positive spin on it, they stayed together! May Allaah bless them

    • @user94u21
      @user94u21 Місяць тому +1

      Make dua, Allah Almighty will heal your heart In Sha Allah.

    • @anisah8546
      @anisah8546 Місяць тому

      Ameen

    • @Sum2um
      @Sum2um 19 днів тому

      whenever bad happens, its from our own hand, our own nafs. i dont know your parents, or their circumstance, but, through proper application of the Islamic way, a marriage could never turn this sour, but through PROPER application. this video descriped the way prescribed by Allah, and the purpose of marriage, which is to support one another to the akhirah, losing sight of this goal from either party, is a weakening of the marriage. anyways, wish you well, i will ask Allah to grant you a righteous spouse in shaa Allah! Assalamu alaykum 😊

  • @zaibunnisa8170
    @zaibunnisa8170 2 роки тому +6

    Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you always
    Ur such an inspiration

  • @dianaadinin3759
    @dianaadinin3759 2 роки тому +5

    Yes I need this also since I'm still single n never been married..pls guide us to choose a proper man in the path of allah

    • @muhammadjawwad4863
      @muhammadjawwad4863 5 місяців тому

      I'm also looking for a spouse, May Allah bless you

  • @rochwilliams3029
    @rochwilliams3029 2 роки тому +2

    Jazakallah khairan. Great seminar,
    Bi idnillah

  • @ibnuilyasahmed4470
    @ibnuilyasahmed4470 2 роки тому

    M.a May Allah Protect You And Bless You It's very needed topic,

  • @noorashikin450
    @noorashikin450 2 роки тому +8

    Assalammualaikom warrahmahtullahhi wabarrakkatuhhu 📖✍️
    Married ever after-✍️
    👉🌺sakinah-is when you lack a partner but are able to keep your tongue from slandering him. mawaddah-is when we know the partner's shortcomings but are able to choose to close one eye on his shortcomings and open the other eye to focus on his advantages rahmah-is when we make the lack of a partner a field of charity for ourselves

  • @RoseGoldFemininity
    @RoseGoldFemininity Рік тому

    🎉🎉🎉 I'm revisiting this series!

  • @fabinasetati8736
    @fabinasetati8736 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful Lecture. Alhamdulillah.

  • @Yasso44
    @Yasso44 Рік тому +7

    Please put arabic subs on these i have so many people who could benefit from this series but dont know english😕
    Jazaka Allahu Khairan😇

  • @taoshifanaznin4475
    @taoshifanaznin4475 2 роки тому +5

    Ma Sha Allah... I really wanna know seikh...how do you maintain your rizq, how you learn this much,and have time to share all off these...🧡

  • @Monikatoitoitoi
    @Monikatoitoitoi Рік тому

    May Allah aid us in creating a place of peace in our homes.

  • @autophile....
    @autophile.... Рік тому +1

    جزاكم الله خيرا 😊

  • @lateefahdaramola157
    @lateefahdaramola157 Рік тому +2

    Staying in some relationships are more devastating than being alone. Continuous mental torture can spring up sicknesses in one of the partners. Men are mostly on the bright side.

    • @qarey
      @qarey 8 місяців тому +1

      My wife says that she is going through mental torment right now when she is with me even though I am doing all I can to better myself as a husband. Yes, I have my shortcomings but she is unwilling to change anything about herself so I don't understand why she complains about things but is unwilling to change anything about herself.

  • @jibraani10
    @jibraani10 2 роки тому +2

    Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️

  • @aminaayad4928
    @aminaayad4928 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed the lecture jazaka Allah khayran

  • @learntolead7312
    @learntolead7312 7 місяців тому +1

    No matter how strong and independent you are, there will be a point when you will feel complete only with the presence of a spouse.
    Man is emotionally, psychologically & physically weak.
    In conformity to the norms of the Prophet S.A.W (Hadith about 3 men)
    Marriage closes the tricks of Satan and helps focus on other matters of life.
    Whoever marries has completed half of his faith.
    -marriage is the way of Prophets
    -marriage in Islam is seen as garment
    -You are tranquil to them and they are tranquil to you.
    -marriage is a miracle in every sense of the word
    -most wholesome form of pleasure
    -

  • @muslimahabdullah27
    @muslimahabdullah27 Рік тому

    ْ‎بَارَك الله فِيْكُم .‎جَزَاكُمُ الله خَيْرًا ❤

  • @sahebauzma8590
    @sahebauzma8590 3 місяці тому

    Subhan Allah ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @manharocks2799
    @manharocks2799 Рік тому +2

    Is it possible for you to make this entire course into a book form. I really prefer reading as it helps me to retain it better for longer and get back to again and again without an issue.

  • @ranour2108
    @ranour2108 Рік тому

    May Allah bless the Ustadh

  • @hidayahjournals
    @hidayahjournals Рік тому +2

    91:9
    قَدْ أَفْلَحَ مَن زَكَّىٰهَا ٩
    He has succeeded who purifies it,
    - Saheeh International

  • @neloyislam4002
    @neloyislam4002 Місяць тому

    May ALLAH give us all a righteous spouse

  • @beautifulindonesia3901
    @beautifulindonesia3901 Рік тому

    thank you syaikh

  • @aburaffe
    @aburaffe 2 роки тому +2

    🤲🏼 Allah hummah bariq Jazakallah hu kayran

  • @jesminamondal5376
    @jesminamondal5376 Рік тому

    Amazing ❤

  • @uzairshuja4158
    @uzairshuja4158 2 роки тому +1

    When are you in Bradford Ali? Alot of youngsters need to hear this

  • @mohammadayub2760
    @mohammadayub2760 2 роки тому +3

    Salaam to everyone inshallah I will get married soon I have hope in the power of Allah he can do Anything ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @mohammadayub2760
      @mohammadayub2760 2 роки тому

      @@monaishfaq6442 I have been looking for a nice wife I find it very very hard because of my age I am 57 yrs young I go to the gym every other day plus I work at Manchester Airport 4 am start mashallah I have plenty of energy but girls nowadays are looking for a young boy nevermind Allah knows best ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @mohammadayub2760
      @mohammadayub2760 2 роки тому

      @@monaishfaq6442 Salaam it must be so hard I do understand pearants from Pakistan what do thay expect from us thay bring us to this cold conrtry fed us chips send us to skhool for 9 hrs then thay expect us to get married to some uneducated jahill from the pind wtf inshallah one day I will find a kind loving wife who is from England them at. Least we will be on the same page inshallah Allah is all hearing all knowing ❤️❤️❤️

    • @aishahs2032
      @aishahs2032 2 роки тому

      @@mohammadayub2760 inshallah you will get it brother. Never lose faith in Allah swt. May Allah swt give you a righteous spouse. Age is nothing and Allah swt sees your heart.

    • @mohammadayub2760
      @mohammadayub2760 2 роки тому +1

      @@aishahs2032 Salaam my dear sister nowadays I find it very difficult nobody is worried about namaaz most if not all girls are looking for a bad boy gangster rap kind of person asagfirullah asagfirullah asagfirullah this is so bad may Allah protect us all ameen sum thank u ♥️♥️♥️

    • @mohammadayub2760
      @mohammadayub2760 2 роки тому +1

      @@aishahs2032 thanks ♥️♥️♥️

  • @aura7153
    @aura7153 Рік тому

    ما شاء الله
    الله ينفعنا بهذا العلم

  • @tauhidj2681
    @tauhidj2681 2 роки тому

    JazakAllaahu khayran 🤲🏽

  • @safiyyakareem6438
    @safiyyakareem6438 2 роки тому +3

    ما شاء الله تبارك الله ♥

  • @TheHappinessMission
    @TheHappinessMission 5 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @somayareddadi4241
    @somayareddadi4241 2 роки тому +2

    Jazak Allah Khayr for this amazing series. Is there a possibility to have subtitles in Arabic? I have a lot of people, I would like to share this with, that don't speak English.

  • @videotube5599
    @videotube5599 2 роки тому

    I have no doubts that those divorce cases comes from GOD fearing individuals who based their life upon religion; in a true way.

  • @brianfinnegan9700
    @brianfinnegan9700 2 роки тому +1

    Getting married in Indonesia later this year

  • @yousufmuhammad2968
    @yousufmuhammad2968 2 роки тому

    Jazak Allah ❤️❤️

  • @AJS-2023
    @AJS-2023 Рік тому

    First you happy buy any way, than get merride be happy buy any way, or not merride be happy buy any way be happy 😊 Insh Allah Allah SWT guide us.

  • @bahja999
    @bahja999 Рік тому +1

    I lost interest in getting married ..but may Allah bless you

  • @keamogetswemafa1706
    @keamogetswemafa1706 2 роки тому +4

    Assalaam alaykum my name is Ilham I'm 19year's of age and I've been praying istikhara for the 3months and this months I've been see more videos about marriage so I would like to know if that a the signs of of istikhara or not?

  • @hannanatalisa3282
    @hannanatalisa3282 2 роки тому +2

    "Married Ever After" playlist 👍
    ua-cam.com/play/PL9OPVukugS7zpgJ8Unee_FvS3xgqnwFPe.html

  • @salwamoustafa9284
    @salwamoustafa9284 Рік тому

    Baarakallahu feek. I wish to put indonesian language translation to ur videos ya syeikh. I wish i knew how

  • @abuyeenate1682
    @abuyeenate1682 Рік тому

    Isthere any reason one could stay without getting married and when is the best time to get married and the age one should not considered not to?

  • @pubgplayer3160
    @pubgplayer3160 Рік тому

    ماشاءاللّٰه 💐🌹🌴

  • @FAITH-b3x
    @FAITH-b3x 2 роки тому +3

    Brother ur words feels like breeze but marriage to me is something horrible, like no one no man in these days will be like this only a father is a good person in real,

  • @rahmazain4541
    @rahmazain4541 2 роки тому

    Shukran jazakallahu khair

  • @BKAYS
    @BKAYS Рік тому

    Subhanallah

  • @maryammalik1374
    @maryammalik1374 Рік тому +1

    Bamboo 😊❤❤

  • @raheemamuslimah4233
    @raheemamuslimah4233 26 днів тому

    Please do a series's about soulmates in Islam. The progeny of Adam AS. 50,000 years ago, what does that mean for marriage in the dunya... or the person we marry in the dunya is 100% the same spouse even if their is difference in the two. Or is the pair, as Allah describes night and day , opposite is actually correct pair if so that makes sense or the correct pair is the ones who are similar in nature is the actual pair/spirtually which many hardly, found their loyal pair in the dunya, hence, the void in many marriage in todays time. And Allah knows best. Will love to hear your thoughts on this topic please do a serie's on soulmates.

  • @nuvitarique
    @nuvitarique 2 роки тому

    👍👍👍

  • @tofayelahmedmilton2081
    @tofayelahmedmilton2081 2 роки тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Baby_monkey_videos
    @Baby_monkey_videos 2 роки тому

    Allahu Akabr

  • @judiawel3464
    @judiawel3464 2 роки тому +1

    I grow up in broken marriage it was a hell now am married and I can't put my kids through that again

  • @yousufmuhammad2968
    @yousufmuhammad2968 2 роки тому

    17:00

  • @saajiddaya2152
    @saajiddaya2152 2 роки тому

    So Mary Magdelen was a maybe. Interesting.

  • @yousufmuhammad2968
    @yousufmuhammad2968 2 роки тому

    41:00

  • @iya7126
    @iya7126 Рік тому

    ❤️

  • @sayedamohammed4641
    @sayedamohammed4641 Рік тому

    Allah Kareem

  • @nakalemafridaus6654
    @nakalemafridaus6654 Рік тому

    Allahu akbar

  • @habz96
    @habz96 2 роки тому

    Assalaamualykum. Where are the married ever after videos that were on your channel from a couple of years ago? I found them very beneficial but I can’t seem to find them. Why have they been deleted?