Ep 1 | Married Ever After - An Introduction | Ali Hammuda
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A series on Qur'an-based principles for the purpose of preserving the fabric of marriage with real life case studies and practical advice. A course for the young, old, married, unmarried, and happily or miserably married.
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All the principles,
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١ 🟢ﻭَﻣَﺎ ﺧَﻠَﻘۡﺖُ اﻟۡﺠِﻦَّ ﻭَاﻻِۡﻧۡﺲَ اِﻻَّ ﻟِﻴَﻌۡﺒُﺪُﻭۡﻥِ . (51:56)
٢ 🟢ﻭَّاَﺧَﺬۡﻥَ ﻣِﻨۡﻜُﻢۡ ﻣِّﻴۡﺜَﺎﻗًﺎ ﻏَﻠِﻴۡﻈًﺎ. (4:21)
٣ 🟢ﻭَاَﻧۡﻜِﺤُﻮا اﻻَۡﻳَﺎﻣٰﻰ ﻣِﻨۡﻜُﻢۡ ﻭَاﻟﺼّٰﻠِﺤِﻴۡﻦَ ﻣِﻦۡ ﻋِﺒَﺎﺩِﻛُﻢۡ ﻭَاِﻣَﺎٓﯨِٕﻜُﻢۡ (24:32)
٤ 🟢ﻭَ ﻟَﻴۡﺲَ اﻟﺬَّﻛَﺮُ ﻛَﺎﻻُۡﻧۡﺜٰﻰۚ (3:36)
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٥ 🟡وﺟَﻌَﻞَ ﺑَﻴۡﻨَﻜُﻢۡ ﻣَّﻮَﺩَّﺓً ﻭَّﺭَﺣۡﻤَﺔً (30:21)
٦ 🟡ﻓَﺎِﻥۡ اَﺭَاﺩَا ﻓِﺼَﺎﻻً ﻋَﻦۡ ﺗَﺮَاﺽٍ ﻣِّﻨۡﻬُﻤَﺎ ﻭَﺗَﺸَﺎﻭُﺭٍ ﻓَﻼَ ﺟُﻨَﺎﺡَ ﻋَﻠَﻴۡﻬِﻤَﺎ (2:233)
٧ 🟡ﻭَﺗَﻌَﺎﻭَﻧُﻮۡا ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻟۡﺒِﺮِّ ﻭَاﻟﺘَّﻘۡﻮٰﻯ ۖ ﻭَﻻَ ﺗَﻌَﺎﻭَﻧُﻮۡا ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻻِۡﺛۡﻢِ ﻭَاﻟۡﻌُﺪۡﻭَاﻥِ (5:2)
٨ 🟡ﻭَﻋَﺎﺷِﺮُﻭۡﻫُﻦَّ ﺑِﺎﻟۡﻤَﻌۡﺮُﻭۡﻑِ (4:19)
٩ 🟡اَﻟﺮِّﺟَﺎﻝُ ﻗَﻮَّاﻣُﻮۡﻥَ ﻋَﻠَﻰ اﻟﻨِّﺴَﺎٓءِ (4:34)
١٠ 🟡ﻭَاِﺫۡ ﺗَﺎَﺫَّﻥَ ﺭَﺑُّﻜُﻢۡ ﻟَﯩِٕﻦۡ ﺷَﻜَﺮۡﺗُﻢۡ ﻻََﺯِﻳۡﺪَﻧَّـﻜُﻢۡ (14:7)
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١١ 🟤ﻋَﺮَّﻑَ ﺑَﻌۡﻀَﻪٗ ﻭَاَﻋۡﺮَﺽَ ﻋَﻦۡۢ ﺑَﻌۡﺾٍۚ (66:3)
١٢ 🟤ﻭَاﻟﺼُّﻠۡﺢُ ﺧَﻴۡﺮٌ (4:128)
١٣ 🟤ﻭَﻣَﻦۡ ﻳَّـﺘَّـﻖِ اﻟﻠّٰﻪَ ﻳَﺠۡﻌَﻞْ ﻟَّﻪٗ ﻣِﻦۡ اَﻣۡﺮِﻩٖ یُﺳْﺮًا (65:4)
١٤ 🟤ﻭَاﻟۡﻜٰﻈِﻤِﻴۡﻦَ اﻟۡﻐَﻴۡﻆَ (3:134)
١٥ 🟤ﻭَاﻟۡﻌَﺎﻓِﻴۡﻦَ ﻋَﻦِ اﻟﻨَّﺎﺱِؕ (3:134)
١٦ 🟤ﻓَﺮُﺩُّﻭۡﻩُ اِﻟَﻰ اﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻭَاﻟﺮَّﺳُﻮۡﻝِ اِﻥۡ ﻛُﻨۡـﺘُﻢۡ ﺗُﺆۡﻣِﻨُﻮۡﻥَ ﺑِﺎﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻭَاﻟۡﻴَـﻮۡﻡِ اﻻٰۡﺧِﺮِ (4:59)
١٧ 🟤ﻭَ ﻻَ ﺗَﻨۡﺴَﻮُا اﻟۡﻔَﻀۡﻞَ ﺑَﻴۡﻨَﻜُﻢۡؕ (2:237)
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١٨ 🔴ﻻَ ﺗَﺪۡﺭِﻯۡ ﻟَﻌَﻞَّ اﻟﻠّٰﻪَ ﻳُﺤۡﺪِﺙُ ﺑَﻌۡﺪَ ﺫٰ ﻟِﻚَ اَﻣۡﺮًا(65:1)
١٩ 🔴ﻓَﺎِﻣۡﺴَﺎﻙٌ ۢ ﺑِﻤَﻌۡﺮُﻭۡﻑٍ اَﻭۡ ﺗَﺴۡﺮِﻳۡﺢٌ ۢ ﺑِﺎِﺣۡﺴَﺎﻥٍ(2:229)
٢٠ 🔴ﻭَﻣَﻦۡ ﻳَّﺘَﻌَﺪَّ ﺣُﺪُﻭۡﺩَ اﻟﻠّٰﻪِ ﻓَﻘَﺪۡ ﻇَﻠَﻢَ ﻧَﻔۡﺴَﻪٗ(65:1)
Explain I don’t understand thanks
May Allah reward you - Ameen
Can anyone explain this
These are the principles that will be disscussed futher in this series
Jazakum Allah khayran
How does sheikh go through this class so fluently without looking at a single note. Allahumma Barik lahu.
wallah mashAllah
I was also noticing that! Great memory, Allahumma barik.
Ameen !
@@laurat5328Ma shaa Allah
Allahouma Barek
@Truth Stands Out Ameen !
“It is not marriage that makes you happy… you are the one that makes your marriage happy. It is a choice everyone is able to make”
Since I’m 19 I will take this advice into my future inshallah. Jazakallah Khair!
You are blessed, young man. May Allah guide through life.
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much needed series! I'm not married yet, but it is definitely preparing me for the future. JazakAllahu Khairan
May Allah give you the right spouse that will give tranquillity and will remind you of Allah when you are in the wrong.
May you have a happy marriage
why the hell would you want to get married?
@@SYEDSHAZEB46013it’s Part of the Prophets Sunnah!
Me too here
It is not marriage that makes you happy,but you are the one who make your marriage happy...
May Allah grant me and each of us a good spouse,the coolness of the eyes...
Ameen
its a sham
Ameen
This study couldn't be any truer. I've seen with the mother of my own eyes. Here in Egypt particularly in Qalubiyyah governorate in one of Al-Qanatir Alkhairiyyah's villages namely Albarad'ah where I live my distant grandfather died and consequently her wife greatly grieved his departure and her life without him became seemingly impossible. What's sad is that she mentioned to those around her that she is gonna accompany him. Meaning die. SubhanAllah a few hours later after we came back from his funeral we found ourselves have to go bury her not to long after. While we know as Muslims that for every soul is an appointed term which can neither be preponed nor postponed. Their death became the talk of the village. So I just wanted to say that the likes of these studies are witnessed and not imaginary nor is it unreal. And so we ask Allah to forgive us and our loved ones before our time which can neither be brought forward nor delayed comes.
Assalammualaikom warrahmahtullahhi wabarrakkatuhhu
And good morning
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim
✍️yes Muslim nor
I am grateful that i came across this series. I have almost finished watching all 12 episodes and the amount of wisdom he shares with regard to marriage is extensive, and i have not listened to any lecture on marriage as comprehensive and clarified as this. May Allah bless him and his family Ameen. And may Allah make our marriages the coolness of our eyes. Ameen
Ameen❤❤
Ameen
May These series help people mend their relationships with their spouse and be an inspiration for people to stay from haraam relationships and get married the Halal way. Ameen
Jist: Living happily is not a mystery but a mastery (bi iznillah).. 🙌
Alhamdulillah for this man he’s so wise
Isn’t he just
Happiness is not a dream it's a choice that we are able to make. ❤
Allahumma barik akhi, May Allah Azzawajjal reward you! Ameen
I respect your eloquence and gentleness in speech, May Allah Azzawajjal allow these reminders to move our hearts and the hearts of our ummah 💛Ameen
I am so so so grateful that I came across this series!!!! May Allah bless you abundantly brother for doing this
You made me realize of so many things I was doing wrong, hence causing so many issues in my marriage
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh yah sheik, Jazzakallahu khair for this, subhanallah I'm so excited for the video next week Inshallah, so excited to share this with my husband, may Allah bless you yah sheik
I waited three weeks for this! I’m so excited to watch and take notes inshaAllah! JazakAllah khair to the team working on this and the scholar may Allah bless him immensely! You guys have no idea how much you are helping us !
If possible can you share your notes?
Brother/sister, I'd be careful of putting pictures of our little ones on social media because of ayn, may Allah bless us and protect us Ameen
Very useful. Jazāk Allāhu khairān, Shaikh. Please do more lectures.
Jazakallah khairan. Great seminar,
Bi idnillah
Wonderful Lecture. Alhamdulillah.
Mashallah great introduction, the rest of the series will be fantastic inshallah
I've been waiting for this series, alhamdulillah it's finally here. JazakAllah khayr for your effort, brother Ali
Masha Allaahh TabarokaLlaaahh, This would be soo enlightening! May ALLah bless this Sheikh. Aaameen.
M.a May Allah Protect You And Bless You It's very needed topic,
Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you always
Ur such an inspiration
مَاشَاءَ اللهُ تَبَارَكَ اللهُ
🙏Jazzakallahu khair Sheik for this knowledge
May Allaah reward you immensely Sheikh for this much needed lecture series. May He allow us to benefit and strive towards pleasing Him. I ask Allaah protect your family and preserve you upon goodness aameen.
Right on time for humanity. Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you.
Yes I need this also since I'm still single n never been married..pls guide us to choose a proper man in the path of allah
One of the best lectures on Islamic marriages ever. Can’t believe it’s a series. I needed this. May Allah bless all of us.
May Allah provide all the Muslims with better spouses for each other.
ما شاء الله
الله ينفعنا بهذا العلم
A good marriage. Not just any marriage is necessary! Tabarka Allah
JazakAllaahu khayran 🤲🏽
Please put arabic subs on these i have so many people who could benefit from this series but dont know english😕
Jazaka Allahu Khairan😇
Alhamdulillah!
May Allah bless us All and guide us All .
Thank you sheikh Ali hamuda for putting efforts into it and presenting this topic in such an amazing way .May Allah reward you for it.ameen .
thank you syaikh
Laa ilaaha ill-allaahu, waḥdahu laa shareeka lah, lahul-mulku wa lahul-ḥamdu, wa huwa ‛alaa kulli shay’in qadeer
“None has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone, without partner. To Him belongs sovereignty and all praise and He is over all things omnipotent.”
Oh Allah, our Creator, Al Jabr, Al Qudus, Al Qawy... to You belong the best and most beautiful names. You alone we worship and trust, and to You alone we call out to and return ya Al'Hai Al'Qayum... Blessings and salutations on our noble Mursaleen, their families and their companions - may our entire Ummah be true followers of Your Religion and of Your chosen leaders and enjoy the intercession of Rasul'ul Allah s.a.w.
La hawla walla quwata ila bilah - Pour in our hearts the neverending concern and objective of pleasing You, Al'Wadud and envelope us in Your Love in the ways that befit Your Majesty. Make taqwa be the center of our existence and provide us with all that we need to pass our tests delightfuly. Please shelter us from all that displeases You and make The Straight Path our home and our way of life while we are here. Increase us in knowledge and steer us clear from that which does not benefit us. Ya Al'Mu'izz, inject in us the ability to recognize the truth and to distinguish it from falsehood... allow us to see what is true and grant us the ability to accept it as the truth and endear it to us by making what is false appear to us as false indeed- keep it away from us and us from it, to You alone we supplicate for guidance and plead.
Oh Allah Jella Jalaluhu, You know everyone's needs best and You are the best of planners, so fulfill them lovingly and make us content and grateful with what You decree. Provide us with deep understanding, free us from ignorance and debt and cleanse our sustenance by supplying us with the highest of halal opportunities in all their forms. Do not deprive us from fulfilling all 5 Pillars during our life time nor from visiting Your Holy Lands, and gift us with the priviledge of enjoying the end of our days in the one You choose for us.
Oh Allah Azzawajjal free Your creation from all forms of suffering, lead us into tawba and the wisdom of asking for forgiveness and the nobility of forgiving. Oh Al Aziz, return Your Masjids to Your rightful servants, and protect our ulamah by keeping their teachings alive and having their students apply what Your Quran and our Nabi's Sunnah have established, for us and all future generations.
Oh Al Mutakabbir, elevate our status and purify our past, our present and our future... and grant us victory on that Day. We beg You Allah Ghafur AlRaheem for forgiveness for our sins... wipe our accounts clean and fill them with abundant mandalas of good deeds to recieve our book on our right hand and allow us to be from among Your pious allies... a Sabiqun, a Sabiqun. Oh Allah we seek refuge in Your perfect words from every fitnah, from the simplest to the most dangerous... including from the trials of the Dajjal and the end of times... and every form of evil You have created... every devil, every vermin, every illness, from misguidance and ingratitude, and protect our Ummah from Shaytaan and his agenda against humanity at large. Allahuakbar!
Please purify, strengthen and unite the Muslim Family in ways that exceed our expectations and envelope our hearts and souls. Put Barakah in everything we receive from You and in everything we do. Save us from the punishment of the grave and make Jahanam Haram for us at all times. Grant us a blessed death upon being submitted to You, after uttering the most sincere 'la ilaha il Allah' , and aid us in answering the 3 questions that define our destiny. Unite us with those whom You love most upon the resurection and enter us into every level of Jannah until we are able to finally enjoy Al Firdeous, and be honored by your Glorious company forever and ever...
Amin, amin ya Rabbi Alameen
Allah humma Barik, may Allah preserve you Shaykh.
Indeed this series is the need of the hour.
May Allah provide righteous spouses to us singles and make them source of peace and tranquility for us.
And for people who are married may Allah help them getting through the thick and thins of life.
Barakallah
What a beautiful lecture and series Allah Humma Barik. Thank you so much for this
May Almighty Allah increase you in knowledge
جزاكم الله خيرا 😊
Ma Sha Allah... I really wanna know seikh...how do you maintain your rizq, how you learn this much,and have time to share all off these...🧡
Such eloquent speech ,masha allah how Allah sends us his message we dont understand
I enjoyed the lecture jazaka Allah khayran
Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️
ما شاء الله تبارك الله ♥
🎉🎉🎉 I'm revisiting this series!
Assalammualaikom warrahmahtullahhi wabarrakkatuhhu 📖✍️
Married ever after-✍️
👉🌺sakinah-is when you lack a partner but are able to keep your tongue from slandering him. mawaddah-is when we know the partner's shortcomings but are able to choose to close one eye on his shortcomings and open the other eye to focus on his advantages rahmah-is when we make the lack of a partner a field of charity for ourselves
1) Tawheed
2) Conformity to the prophetic way
3) Tazkiyah- Purification of the soul
Marriage: Garments of each other- protection, concealing, most close to you/nearest.
‘Life is an enjoyment and the best form of worldly enjoyment is righteous woman.’
Salam Sheikh, very informative MashaAllah! Can you please do a series about parenting!
🤲🏼 Allah hummah bariq Jazakallah hu kayran
This is a wonderful and important topic very much required in this era. One thing I am looking forward to hearing is about polygamy in Islam, many men are not understanding this command. This is the most quoted and memorized ayahs of the Quran by most men. Is polygamy even healthy for a family? Most men exercise polygamy for lust and desire. There are some scholars agree that polygamy is contradictory to the verse that sets the fundamentals of marriage in Islam as Mawaddah and Rahma.
If polygamy is not healthy for a family, it would not have been permitted. There are many things to follow to make it work. First focus is on getting closer to Allah. If getting an additional wife, would help a brother and his wife (maybe she can't cater to his needs/herself told him) he can take another wife. It is better to marry a second than have a side chick.
Brother, I understand this is halal, however, there are very strict conditions for a man to marry multiple women. “but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one…” (Surah an-Nisaa, 4:3)
(4:129) You will not be able to treat your wives with absolute justice not even when you keenly desire to do so.
(It suffices in order to follow the Law of Allah that) you incline not wholly to one, leaving the other in suspense.161 If you act rightly and remain God-fearing, surely Allah is All-Forgiving, All-Compassionate.
Unfortunately, there are men who neglect their first wives and children when they "fall in love" with a younger woman. My neighbor's husband married a woman 42 years younger, he has been married to his 1st wife for 42 years. Instead of spending the little time left with the woman who had several children for him and enjoying his golden years with her, he causes stress in the family. So where is the tranquility? He also treats the 2nd wife better than the 1st wife. This is not an isolated incident. Men over 65 have gone crazy, they just abandon their families for a younger woman who is mostly a gold-digger, when he falls sick after a couple years she dumps him back to his first wife who then takes care of him after he has abandoned her. This is the new trend among men, particularly more so in some communities. I wish the shuyukhs will address this matter.
Sister, what your neighbour's husband is doing is wrong. If she was fine with him getting married again, she may have not been able to cater to his needs or so as it is better to marry a second than cheat on his wife. Only Allah knows the pressure and temptations he was going through making him marry a second.
My grand dad had 2 wives and they both loved him to death. He treated them fairly alhamdulillah. I know men also who married a second time and seem to neglect the first. I think it is all upto the individual. We can't condone polygamy coz it is permitted, we only should advise the brothers strictly if they intend to do so.
@@mohamedmohsin5723 can't condemn*
ْبَارَك الله فِيْكُم .جَزَاكُمُ الله خَيْرًا ❤
May Allah grant you Jannah Uztaaz! All the series you have chosen so far are very important. You have no idea how much 'The change of Heart' benefited me. I am your student at Eman Academy!
Are you his student? Are there any online courses that he teaches?
@@muzayin4023 Yes I am. Sheikh teaches Aqida at Eman Academy.
Thanks!
Jazak Allah ❤️❤️
1.tawhid
2.idiba confirmity for the prophetic way
3.purification of soul
Alhamdulillah masha Allah let's read the Quran everyday and put it in practice 🙏 Amin
May Allah aid us in creating a place of peace in our homes.
May Allah bless the Ustadh
Shukran jazakallahu khair
Amazing ❤
Jazak Allah Khayr for this amazing series. Is there a possibility to have subtitles in Arabic? I have a lot of people, I would like to share this with, that don't speak English.
Is it possible for you to make this entire course into a book form. I really prefer reading as it helps me to retain it better for longer and get back to again and again without an issue.
When are you in Bradford Ali? Alot of youngsters need to hear this
Baarakallahu feek. I wish to put indonesian language translation to ur videos ya syeikh. I wish i knew how
Allahu Akabr
91:9
قَدْ أَفْلَحَ مَن زَكَّىٰهَا ٩
He has succeeded who purifies it,
- Saheeh International
Subhanallah
Getting married in Indonesia later this year
Staying in some relationships are more devastating than being alone. Continuous mental torture can spring up sicknesses in one of the partners. Men are mostly on the bright side.
ماشاءاللّٰه 💐🌹🌴
First you happy buy any way, than get merride be happy buy any way, or not merride be happy buy any way be happy 😊 Insh Allah Allah SWT guide us.
So Mary Magdelen was a maybe. Interesting.
I lost interest in getting married ..but may Allah bless you
Assalaam alaykum my name is Ilham I'm 19year's of age and I've been praying istikhara for the 3months and this months I've been see more videos about marriage so I would like to know if that a the signs of of istikhara or not?
Salaam to everyone inshallah I will get married soon I have hope in the power of Allah he can do Anything ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@monaishfaq6442 I have been looking for a nice wife I find it very very hard because of my age I am 57 yrs young I go to the gym every other day plus I work at Manchester Airport 4 am start mashallah I have plenty of energy but girls nowadays are looking for a young boy nevermind Allah knows best ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@monaishfaq6442 Salaam it must be so hard I do understand pearants from Pakistan what do thay expect from us thay bring us to this cold conrtry fed us chips send us to skhool for 9 hrs then thay expect us to get married to some uneducated jahill from the pind wtf inshallah one day I will find a kind loving wife who is from England them at. Least we will be on the same page inshallah Allah is all hearing all knowing ❤️❤️❤️
@@mohammadayub2760 inshallah you will get it brother. Never lose faith in Allah swt. May Allah swt give you a righteous spouse. Age is nothing and Allah swt sees your heart.
@@aishahs2032 Salaam my dear sister nowadays I find it very difficult nobody is worried about namaaz most if not all girls are looking for a bad boy gangster rap kind of person asagfirullah asagfirullah asagfirullah this is so bad may Allah protect us all ameen sum thank u ♥️♥️♥️
@@aishahs2032 thanks ♥️♥️♥️
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Isthere any reason one could stay without getting married and when is the best time to get married and the age one should not considered not to?
I have no doubts that those divorce cases comes from GOD fearing individuals who based their life upon religion; in a true way.
Allah Kareem
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Allahu akbar
Brother ur words feels like breeze but marriage to me is something horrible, like no one no man in these days will be like this only a father is a good person in real,
"Married Ever After" playlist 👍
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Bamboo 😊❤❤
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I grow up in broken marriage it was a hell now am married and I can't put my kids through that again
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What if you haven't found your future husband ? He isn't in your path ?
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♥️🙏🏼😇JM
السلام علیکم
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