Blown away by Islamic teachings on marriage. Wish wee had such teachings in Christian faith. If wee had of maybe many Christian marriages wouldn’t have fallen apart. Love the morals of Islam. Been studying Islam for several months now and feel God is pulling me towards becoming a Muslim. My marriage failed after 18 years, a Christian man who lost his faith and fell into much sins. May God bless you for this amazing teaching.
Married ever after episode 2 Principle 1&2 Principle 1: Surah azzariyat "I did not create human kind and jinn kind except to worship me" Verse 56 Surah mulk "He was the one who created life and death to test you that who will be better in deeds Surah insaan "We have made man from a drop of mixed fluid so that we can test him." Our existence is defined by test i.e. in ibadah(worship). Two types of ibadah: 1.Al Ibadah tul Alsakha (specific type of worship) I.e Salah,Siyam etc 2. Al Ibadah tul Ala'mma(general acys of worship) I.e Eating, drinking etc. These are not defined by shari'ah. But they are rewarded for the good intentions. Ibn tamiyah Al Ibadah is a comprehensive term that covers every verbal and physical action whether inward or outward. Those actions are beloved to Allah swt. So long as they are aligned with to things • Sincerity. • According to the Prophetic way. The institution of Marriage is an act of worship. It is fulfilling the purpose of life i.e. Ibadah. What Shari'ah has to say about marriage? Prophet Muhammad (saw) said," The woman who has been previously married she is not to be given in marriage only after she has been given permission." Prophet Muhammad said," Marriage cannot happen except the wali of girl is present."etc Two key treasures when you see marriage as an act of 9worship. 1. You will not allow any of pain and the suffering of marriage to go to waste. (Correct Intentions) "The worship of the absent minded people are habits and the habits of the present minded people are worship." 2. Patience Summary: Ensure that whatever ,in the institution of marriage, you do you seek reward from Allah swt. Principle 2: Surah An Nisa "And they (your wives) have taken from you a firm covenant."i.e covenant of marriage. A firm covenant was mentioned in the Quran three times. 1. We said to the children of israel do not transgress on the sabbath. And we took from them a firm covenant. 2. And remember when we took from prophets a firm covenant. 3. How can you take the dowry back from your wife whilst you have gone to one another and they have taken from you a firm covenant. Surah An Nisa Prophet Muhammad made dua to Allah, he said," Oh Allah i deem it very sinful that the rights of two weak ones are not safeguarded the rights of orphans and women." When Anas ibn malik came back to medina he prostrated to Muhammad (saw). And prophet Muhammad saud ," What are you doing?" He said," Prophet Muhammad i came bavl from al sham and i saw Christians prostrating to their religious clergy. So i thought we have to do the same for you out of respect. Muhammad saw said don't do that. But if i would have instructed any other human being to prostrate to another i would have instructed wives to prostrate to their husbands. Because of their responsibility towards them. I.e It is a firm covenant. The institution of marriage is destroyed by two factors: 1. Pre marital affairs (sexual intercourse outside of marriage). 2. Mockery (jokes about the marriage itself and husband & wife). Marriage is sacred because Allah swt made it sacred.(No jokes about it.)
This is something that is not talked about in our families these days. The weight that marriage holds. Its beauty, its importance. Immensely glad to have come across this series.
the comment about joking about marriage especially at the expense of women is exactly why i prefer to listen to ali hammuda! thank you may Allah bless you immensely!
May Allah bless you. You are making me understand that I have somehow violated the rights of my beloved wife. May God make our mariages stronger and stronger in the dunyia and in the hereafter.
I know there is fire in your heart. From pain. From trauma. From injustice. From loss. Cool the fire in your heart with the Quran. Surah Yusuf, teaches us that people with Sabr and Tawakkul, will always have beautiful and blissful endings. Try making a silent dua if you see someone struggling with anything instead of being among those who judge, it’s an unparalleled peaceful feeling.
Listening to such a great explanation made me love my relegion more and more and I think this shikh is very wise Masha Allah may Allah grant you success and happiness both in this life and the hereafter thank you so much
MashaAllah. Out of the 60+years of my existence this is the first time I understand what it means to be married in Islam. May Allah SWT continue to brooding the knowledge and support you sheik to move forward and give us all the strong will to do the will of Almighty Allah herein and thereafter.
Allahumabaarik - unbelievably grateful for this free series. Excellent and detailed first part on principles 1 and 2. Marriage as worship and marriage as a serious and weighty 'firm covenant'. Clear analysis of the reasons of the dismissive attitude behind marriages nowadays and importance of adopting seriousness with marriage, and practical examples. Allah allow us to complete this series 🙏
After listening to the first one I was so excited for the next episode! I absolutely love the series you guys have created by Sh. Ali Hamooda including the ink remedy and change of heart. It’s like discovering so many levels of gems. Basic gem, ruby gem, emerald gem and it keeps getting and better, may Allah reward you guys and help you create more content like this MashaAllah! Ameen!
mashallah, the expression, body language, the passion in the man to deliver the good message in such lively amazing manner is making me appreciate my deen even more.. Such great delivery mashallah never seen anyone like this man... im sharing this with all muslims i know.
I am Christian and i wish i have watched this earlier. ❤️🙏 understanding Islam way, went to Mosque today and observed. May Allah grant my prayer to revert, Inshallah.
@14:16 what an important aspect we need to have but unfortunately don't. We really should! May Allah guide those who wish to do something for this cause and aid them abundantly. Ameen.
At 26m I love the concept of ehtisaab. It keeps the intention alive but also is a motivation to continue patience and trying your best in the relationship by reminding yourself of the reward by Allah sbwt.
Jazak Allah khairan brother for this series about marriage....we have so many things to change & to correct in our married life...my experience is such that I can say men EGO makes them forget their wife rights 😢😪🤲
JazakAllahu Khair Katheer for all of your lectures Sheikh. May Allah keep you firm on his deen and grant you the highest ranks of Jannah. May Allah bless you immensely. Alhamdulillahi Hamdan Katheeran.
Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️
Ma Sha Allah sheikh Allah has blessed you so comprehensive tongue and profound wisdom, I am indeed indebted to Allah for placing you on earth , my living to hear the commands of Allah from your platform on things that I thought has become so crucial to be told and taught to us, Allah is Ar Rashid and He chooses the right representative for lord the reminder. Alhamdullilah , ya sheikh Jazak Allah khair
One who has lead a RESPONSIBLE life would be Responsible in Marriage One who has taken Life SERIOUSLY will take Marriage Seriously For one whose Life is a WORSHIP will be in a Marriage in Worship Marriage IS an integral part of Life Not an addage. SO.... how one CONDUCTS life, will reflect in how one Conducts one's Marraige
Many marriages fail due to lack of respect and lack of good Manners. Toomuch interference of the in-laws esp mother inlaws conrolling daughter in laws....always taunting that my son deserved some one better than her, rights denied for her personal space etc On the other hand Wife ungrateful to her husband, lack of manners, disrespectful towards inlaws, competing with her friends...Riya, controlling her husbands money, wanting to keep all for herself nd children...wanting to spend on her family (her parents nd sibblings) while his family has more right than her family etc Sadly there is somuch chaos in muslim marriages. Only if people were mindful of Allah, having Taqwa. The outcome of all matters will be returned to Allah.
Assalamu alaikoum, the lecture is full of gems. Machallah, on all levels you can only become better through this lecture. May allah accept your noble intentions for caring for the ummah and the protection of mariage in our muslims household.
Alhamdulilah alhamdulilah yaRab perfect time for me to listen this as I wanted to change some false narrations regarding marriages. May Allah reward you abundantly yaShaikh.❤️
22 principles First category: Before marriage Second category: During course of marriage Third category: When problems arrive Fourth category: If there is situation of divorce
I love to listen to you. Please make dua for me to keep trying in my worship of Allah. I remain at the first step of trying and I'm not sure if any of my ibadah is accepted
Sahih Muslim 1622 a Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) having said this: He who gets back his charity is like a dog which vomits, and then returns to that and eats it. Sahih Muslim 1622 e Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) as saying: One who gets back the gift is like one who eats vomit.
22 Principles 4 categories 1st Category Quranic principles b 4 getting married.( approach towards marriage) 2nd Category Quranic principles (during the course of your marriage) 3rd Category Quranic principles ( when problems arise) 4th Category Quranic principles (if there is a situation of divorce) *
Aslm. I'm married for a number of years. Many times I felt like giving up. I believe that if there's fairness example being concious of each other,s needs then you have passed over at least 1 rock InshaAllah. Try not to do tat for tat otherwise you won't learn anything. Life is a test the same like you go to school and u pass from grade to grade. May ALLAH be pleased with us InshaAllah ameen
Blown away by Islamic teachings on marriage. Wish wee had such teachings in Christian faith. If wee had of maybe many Christian marriages wouldn’t have fallen apart. Love the morals of Islam. Been studying Islam for several months now and feel God is pulling me towards becoming a Muslim. My marriage failed after 18 years, a Christian man who lost his faith and fell into much sins. May God bless you for this amazing teaching.
May Allah bless you and guide you on the path of truth sister!
@@Dovak thank you dear brother 🌻 blessings to you
so beautiful to hear! praying you continue to find the beauty in this faith and take that step for yourself❤
@@a-735 thank you 🙏🏼💝
hello Stacy we are all here for your journey towards Islam if God The Almighty/Allah Azza Wajal chooses and we all want to help you in any way we can
Married ever after episode 2
Principle 1&2
Principle 1:
Surah azzariyat
"I did not create human kind and jinn kind except to worship me"
Verse 56
Surah mulk
"He was the one who created life and death to test you that who will be better in deeds
Surah insaan
"We have made man from a drop of mixed fluid so that we can test him."
Our existence is defined by test i.e. in ibadah(worship).
Two types of ibadah:
1.Al Ibadah tul Alsakha (specific type of worship)
I.e Salah,Siyam etc
2. Al Ibadah tul Ala'mma(general acys of worship)
I.e Eating, drinking etc. These are not defined by shari'ah. But they are rewarded for the good intentions.
Ibn tamiyah
Al Ibadah is a comprehensive term that covers every verbal and physical action whether inward or outward. Those actions are beloved to Allah swt.
So long as they are aligned with to things
• Sincerity.
• According to the Prophetic way.
The institution of Marriage is an act of worship. It is fulfilling the purpose of life i.e. Ibadah.
What Shari'ah has to say about marriage?
Prophet Muhammad (saw) said," The woman who has been previously married she is not to be given in marriage only after she has been given permission."
Prophet Muhammad said," Marriage cannot happen except the wali of girl is present."etc
Two key treasures when you see marriage as an act of 9worship.
1. You will not allow any of pain and the suffering of marriage to go to waste. (Correct Intentions)
"The worship of the absent minded people are habits and the habits of the present minded people are worship."
2. Patience
Summary: Ensure that whatever ,in the institution of marriage, you do you seek reward from Allah swt.
Principle 2:
Surah An Nisa
"And they (your wives) have taken from you a firm covenant."i.e covenant of marriage.
A firm covenant was mentioned in the Quran three times.
1. We said to the children of israel do not transgress on the sabbath. And we took from them a firm covenant.
2. And remember when we took from prophets a firm covenant.
3. How can you take the dowry back from your wife whilst you have gone to one another and they have taken from you a firm covenant. Surah An Nisa
Prophet Muhammad made dua to Allah, he said," Oh Allah i deem it very sinful that the rights of two weak ones are not safeguarded the rights of orphans and women."
When Anas ibn malik came back to medina he prostrated to Muhammad (saw). And prophet Muhammad saud ," What are you doing?" He said," Prophet Muhammad i came bavl from al sham and i saw Christians prostrating to their religious clergy. So i thought we have to do the same for you out of respect. Muhammad saw said don't do that. But if i would have instructed any other human being to prostrate to another i would have instructed wives to prostrate to their husbands. Because of their responsibility towards them.
I.e It is a firm covenant.
The institution of marriage is destroyed by two factors:
1. Pre marital affairs (sexual intercourse outside of marriage).
2. Mockery (jokes about the marriage itself and husband & wife).
Marriage is sacred because Allah swt made it sacred.(No jokes about it.)
Thank you so much ❤
Jzk
Thanks for this
Jazaka llahu khair
Jazakallah bro
This is something that is not talked about in our families these days. The weight that marriage holds. Its beauty, its importance. Immensely glad to have come across this series.
the comment about joking about marriage especially at the expense of women is exactly why i prefer to listen to ali hammuda! thank you may Allah bless you immensely!
May Allah bless you. You are making me understand that I have somehow violated the rights of my beloved wife. May God make our mariages stronger and stronger in the dunyia and in the hereafter.
How does Ustadh go through these talks without any notes of such in front of him, mind blown, Masha'Allah, Tabarakallah
I noticed that too! Masha'allah
I know there is fire in your heart.
From pain.
From trauma.
From injustice.
From loss.
Cool the fire in your heart with the Quran.
Surah Yusuf, teaches us that people with Sabr and Tawakkul, will always have beautiful and blissful endings.
Try making a silent dua if you see someone struggling with anything instead of being among those who judge, it’s an unparalleled peaceful feeling.
Listening to such a great explanation made me love my relegion more and more and I think this shikh is very wise Masha Allah may Allah grant you success and happiness both in this life and the hereafter thank you so much
Amin
MashaAllah. Out of the 60+years of my existence this is the first time I understand what it means to be married in Islam. May Allah SWT continue to brooding the knowledge and support you sheik to move forward and give us all the strong will to do the will of Almighty Allah herein and thereafter.
Allahumabaarik - unbelievably grateful for this free series. Excellent and detailed first part on principles 1 and 2. Marriage as worship and marriage as a serious and weighty 'firm covenant'.
Clear analysis of the reasons of the dismissive attitude behind marriages nowadays and importance of adopting seriousness with marriage, and practical examples.
Allah allow us to complete this series 🙏
After listening to the first one I was so excited for the next episode! I absolutely love the series you guys have created by Sh. Ali Hamooda including the ink remedy and change of heart. It’s like discovering so many levels of gems. Basic gem, ruby gem, emerald gem and it keeps getting and better, may Allah reward you guys and help you create more content like this MashaAllah! Ameen!
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mashallah, the expression, body language, the passion in the man to deliver the good message in such lively amazing manner is making me appreciate my deen even more.. Such great delivery mashallah never seen anyone like this man... im sharing this with all muslims i know.
Thank you brother Hammuda for this lecture and specifically special parts of this lecture, may Allah grant you huge rewards because of it.
Listen, it is REFRESHING to see brothers being called out for not carrying any form of documentation when attending lectures.
We have become lazy my dear sister, I am encouraging my children to read books and write often.
Alhamdulillah masha Allah let's read the Quran everyday and put it in practice 🙏 Amin
I am Christian and i wish i have watched this earlier. ❤️🙏 understanding Islam way, went to Mosque today and observed. May Allah grant my prayer to revert, Inshallah.
Ameen, May Allah guide all of us 🙏 love from a fellow Muslim.
inshaAllah ❤
@@nullunullu7990May Allah guide you to Islam
@@mujahidabdulrazak2977 Amen 💖 Islam is the best gift I ever had in my life and I thank Allah for that . Allihamidulillah🤲🤲
Its a choice you make. Hence why you are the responsible person. May allah give you the ability
@14:16 what an important aspect we need to have but unfortunately don't. We really should! May Allah guide those who wish to do something for this cause and aid them abundantly. Ameen.
At 26m I love the concept of ehtisaab. It keeps the intention alive but also is a motivation to continue patience and trying your best in the relationship by reminding yourself of the reward by Allah sbwt.
best series till date! beautifully explained and very informative. Allahumma barik
We as human beings have a higher purpose..think about the devine and the obstacles in marriage will fade away..you are in worship
Jazak Allah khairan brother for this series about marriage....we have so many things to change & to correct in our married life...my experience is such that I can say men EGO makes them forget their wife rights 😢😪🤲
Allahumma Bareek - Eagerly awaiting the next episode. May Allah preserve Ustaadh.
JazakAllahu Khair Katheer for all of your lectures Sheikh. May Allah keep you firm on his deen and grant you the highest ranks of Jannah. May Allah bless you immensely. Alhamdulillahi Hamdan Katheeran.
Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️
SwallaAllahu Aleyhi Wasalam
Should do a video between rights between mother in law's and daughter in laws this is a big problem in asian culture
Aslm life is about prioritizing especially in marriage. U not single anymore. U have responsibilities towards spouse and children.
I was eagerly waiting for the next episode. Allahibarik
Same here walahi.
So beautiful😍 carefully thought and carefully put!
❤️❤️❤️❤️ very interesting mashalah. Barakalahufik.
Beautifully explained everything may Allah reward you yaShaikh. You are really putting great efforts!💜💜💜
Wallahi may ALLAH blessed you yaa shaikh MASHA ALLAH
Assalam alaikum.
anyone who is noting down the lecture, can they please share it , it would be very beneficial Insha Allah.
May Almighty Allah bless you with more knowledge
Masha Allah
Very nice and informative lecture
Alhamdulillah. So informative. Jazakallah for this important lecture.
Ma Sha Allah sheikh Allah has blessed you so comprehensive tongue and profound wisdom, I am indeed indebted to Allah for placing you on earth , my living to hear the commands of Allah from your platform on things that I thought has become so crucial to be told and taught to us, Allah is Ar Rashid and He chooses the right representative for lord the reminder. Alhamdullilah , ya sheikh Jazak Allah khair
Jazakullahu khairan for this
One who has lead a RESPONSIBLE life would be Responsible in Marriage
One who has taken Life SERIOUSLY will take Marriage Seriously
For one whose Life is a WORSHIP will be in a Marriage in Worship
Marriage IS an integral part of Life Not an addage.
SO.... how one CONDUCTS life, will reflect in how one Conducts one's Marraige
What an amazing reason u have described especially the third one .. for degeneration of marriage institution
The worships of the absent-minded people are habits and the habits of present-minded people are worships 🤲🏻
Many marriages fail due to lack of respect and lack of good Manners. Toomuch interference of the in-laws esp mother inlaws conrolling daughter in laws....always taunting that my son deserved some one better than her, rights denied for her personal space etc
On the other hand Wife ungrateful to her husband, lack of manners, disrespectful towards inlaws, competing with her friends...Riya, controlling her husbands money, wanting to keep all for herself nd children...wanting to spend on her family (her parents nd sibblings) while his family has more right than her family etc
Sadly there is somuch chaos in muslim marriages. Only if people were mindful of Allah, having Taqwa. The outcome of all matters will be returned to Allah.
MashaAllah .
alhamdulillah beautiful timing subhanallah
Waiting for Episode 3 please !!!
Where does shaikh Ali hammuda live? JazakumAllahu khairan for beautiful lectures
Barakallah Fikum.
Assalamu alaikoum, the lecture is full of gems. Machallah, on all levels you can only become better through this lecture. May allah accept your noble intentions for caring for the ummah and the protection of mariage in our muslims household.
Alhamdulilah alhamdulilah yaRab perfect time for me to listen this as I wanted to change some false narrations regarding marriages. May Allah reward you abundantly yaShaikh.❤️
ما شاء الله تبارك الله ♥
Allahuakbur alhamdulilah lailahailala
Subhana Allah Alhamdulillah am a Muslim
its because you organise everytNice tutorialng drum related in one color
جزاك الله خيرا
Being Intentional ❤
22 principles
First category:
Before marriage
Second category:
During course of marriage
Third category:
When problems arrive
Fourth category:
If there is situation of divorce
I love to listen to you. Please make dua for me to keep trying in my worship of Allah. I remain at the first step of trying and I'm not sure if any of my ibadah is accepted
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤☺☺☺☺☺☺ may Allah grant us spouse who are coolness of our eyes and grant us Jannatul firdaus together ❤❤❤❤Aameen❤❤❤❤
Thanks!
JazaakAllaahu khairan for supporting our channel.
Team.
May Allah forgive our sins 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
Subhanallah Alhamdulilah ❤
Jazakhallahu khayran Sheikh 🤲
Sahih Muslim 1622 a
Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) having said this:
He who gets back his charity is like a dog which vomits, and then returns to that and eats it.
Sahih Muslim 1622 e
Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) as saying:
One who gets back the gift is like one who eats vomit.
Thanks
JazaakAllaahu khairan for supporting our channel.
Team.
Beautiful ❤
22 Principles
4 categories
1st Category
Quranic principles b 4 getting married.( approach towards marriage)
2nd Category
Quranic principles (during the course of your marriage)
3rd Category
Quranic principles ( when problems arise)
4th Category
Quranic principles (if there is a situation of divorce)
*
Aslm. I'm married for a number of years. Many times I felt like giving up. I believe that if there's fairness example being concious of each other,s needs then you have passed over at least 1 rock InshaAllah. Try not to do tat for tat otherwise you won't learn anything. Life is a test the same like you go to school and u pass from grade to grade. May ALLAH be pleased with us InshaAllah ameen
"Married Ever After" playlist 👍
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is there a divider between the men and women of his lectures?
Was there a divider in the mosque of RasoulAllah s.a.w? Whether there is a divider or not isn't a criterion.
shut up lol dont make your own fatwas, no offence @@user-et2ng1qb2m
Allahmdolila
The person who asked me in marriage goes to dargah stuffs.... should i consider this proposal?
17:04
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Please what surah did he mention in the beginning
Surah Dhariyat 51 Verse 56 : I did not create jinn and humans except to worship Me.
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