Mask slipping - the best decision I never made. ADHD in women | Claire Thrift | TEDxSt Albans

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @joanclipp4421
    @joanclipp4421 15 днів тому +6

    I'm 63 and was diagnosed with ADHD last month! So much to learn and forgive myself for.

  • @socialjooce
    @socialjooce Рік тому +19

    Claire - what an eye opening, honest talk. I absolutely loved hearing your story. I also think how brave you are to get up on stage and share it!

  • @kates1991
    @kates1991 Рік тому +10

    I am Proud of you Claire for doing this. I have adhd and was diagnosed at 29 and I’m now 32. I could never imagine talking infront of 2 people let alone a room full of people. I’m trying to be proud of being wonky and wonderful, my family arnt completely under my wing so I am trying to find my people.… p.s I had to go back and forth to the title to remember how to spell your name correctly hahah

  • @pseabright
    @pseabright Рік тому +13

    Such a brave and honest talk. So important to everyone to better understand ADHD, those who have it, how to drop the mask, for those who don't, to better understand how to communicate with and support loved ones with ADHD

  • @gedbyrne8482
    @gedbyrne8482 Рік тому +10

    I don’t have ADHD but I still found this so relatable.

  • @Missbeee27
    @Missbeee27 Рік тому +7

    Such a very open and honest talk about something so many of us can relate to and an insightful view into ADHD. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @vickihull8731
    @vickihull8731 Рік тому +5

    What a way to tell your story- absolutely amazing Claire. Thank you for sharing- this will help so many women wearing a mask and those who are not wearing an ADHD mask to understand and support those who are.

  • @lollyholly3005
    @lollyholly3005 2 місяці тому +22

    I had a full on identity crisis at 22 because i finally dropped the mask and now im an entirely different person and its weird but very liberating 😅

    • @spicygarlicramen
      @spicygarlicramen Місяць тому +1

      this is exactly what i'm going through right now!

  • @adventurousfamilytravel-ou6598

    Incredible. Thank you for sharing such a raw and personal story.

  • @BreakingBallet
    @BreakingBallet Рік тому +2

    This was such an inspirational talk and gave me a much deeper understanding of ADHD and how it feels. Thank you for being so brave and sharing this with us.

  • @soniakikijonesart
    @soniakikijonesart 5 місяців тому +13

    Fabulous talk...i have recently realized this is me too and also being in perimenopause, it's a double whammy and i am sick of my chaos, exhausted by my brain...i am going to start writing to share my story too. unmasked. thank you so much

  • @vicky1147
    @vicky1147 3 місяці тому +12

    This just broke me. I've been struggling to put my 37 year old mask back on for months, after it crumbled at the start of this year. It's heartbreaking and painful. This talk has made me feel less alone.

    • @kelliefreetealady
      @kelliefreetealady 2 місяці тому

      Just to be clear… I mean thumbs up for feeling less alone 😊❤

    • @kingsdaughter9849
      @kingsdaughter9849 Місяць тому

      Yup. Losing strength to put it on everyday😢

  • @jenjoybrukiewa4815
    @jenjoybrukiewa4815 3 місяці тому +11

    Pressure cooker. Yes. In my 50s now, and still in perimenepause, I'm learning to be honest with my limitations, needs, and feelings with my family and friends. I'm actually able to regulate better and get more done when I'm not trying to supress and keep others from seeing my struggle. It's better. It's going ot be ok.

  • @jakeseleven7577
    @jakeseleven7577 5 місяців тому +18

    I grew up masking as a boy and the mask was on so tight for as long as I can remember, just like Claire's. I'm glad I'm learning to unmask now at 22 instead of later down the line, because it truly is so exhausting and I don't know if I would make it to 40 if I kept it up. Thanks Claire for sharing your story :)

    • @pdatnc
      @pdatnc 15 днів тому

      Like trying to keep a beachball under water.

  • @BeautybytheBei
    @BeautybytheBei 24 дні тому +1

    I had a crisis after losing my mom and grandmother, and I'm having on again now because I'm finally actively trying to get my life together at the age of 28 with 2 kids who are very likely to have adhd as well.

  • @hollyvipond168
    @hollyvipond168 Місяць тому +1

    I'm 36 and I only got diagnosed (& medicated) 3 months ago.. I've never felt more authentically myself ❤

  • @wildgem63
    @wildgem63 Місяць тому +3

    Moved me to tears. Thank you for sharing. Incredible how this is true for so many of us. I got diagnosed with ADHD this year at the age of 45, after my daughter, who had struggled with anxiety and depression was diagnosed with ADHD at age 13.

  • @LifeOnHoth
    @LifeOnHoth 2 місяці тому +4

    Girls, women. Yes. I promise you, it's very much like this for men too. It's good that we are putting so much focus on this stuff.

    • @AJManol
      @AJManol Місяць тому

      Minus massive hormonal shifts.

  • @WanieB
    @WanieB 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for being real, to help others understand ❤

  • @feelgoodforlife
    @feelgoodforlife Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for this Claire. I loved your honesty - much needed in this day of mask-wearing and heavily curating our lives.

  • @nathalievandijk
    @nathalievandijk 2 місяці тому +3

    49 years. trying to cope since founding out last july. not working at all.

  • @clairecarlia-jones5979
    @clairecarlia-jones5979 Місяць тому +1

    A truly legendary woman ❤❤❤this has helped me sooo much. Bless you and thank you 😊😊😊